I (26) have a long term plate (19) that I have known for almost 2 years, since she turned 18. We’ve always known each other to be noncommittal. We’re pretty honest about our sex life, never bothered me I quite enjoyed the honesty.

Since about august she has been wanting me to do more things with her and her friends “to show me off.” So far Ive turned down them all down because I really don’t want more with her so she jokes “i only hang with her if we bang”; true.

Recently she started seeing someone and is overtly obvious about it. Today while we were hanging, she mentioned their hook up yesterday, describing how she is so sore from banging for 3 hours. I joked its rude to stare at the clock, we laughed and headed to her place. We ate, smoked some weed, made out in the shower. On the bed I put on netflix, made out and escalated. I tried to escalating multiple times, each to increasing levels of resistance compared to the last. After 2 times she put on a night gown. On the 3rd, as I move my fingers down her body she snapped “my pussy is really sore from yesterday, it doesn’t want to be touched.”

That didn't sound too nice to me, in fact I found it insulting. I told her no worries and relax, we watched a bit more and I used my need to use the washroom as an opportunity to leave. As I was leaving she asked “wait now? Aren't you going to finish the show with me?’ to my “nah I gotta work at 6 am tom.” I left.

My assessment is this plate has cracked or is cracking. She’s not only trying to shit test me into orbit but did it in an insulting way. Ill only see her again if she reaches out to me with an invitation. What do you guys think?