My last relationship was me being beta bucks for a single mother. I was raising someone else's child (the day I broke up with her, she had me babysit for 6 hours in the morning before I left to work all night, her mother would have normally babysat, but canceled so that she could get a hair cut). I resented it. I began improving myself, exercising and eating right. She tried to join in, but eventually "gave up" with the workouts. I wasn't a "complete" blue pill, but it was slowly turning that way, she started denying me sex after 1 year together (the sex was ok prior to that, but she was a little stretched out compared to most women I've been with, I don't think she got stiched up correctly after her baby, I've been with about 50 women and this is the loosest I'd ever been with, but otherwise was really happy with the sex). I decided to move on, because I knew that I could do better. Turns out she'd been texting and flirting with "a friend" for 2 months prior to me breaking up with her, including asking him to "come cuddle with her". I knew that her denying me sex was a super duper red flag thanks to TRP. She said nothing happened, but it was definitely something she was fantasizing about. This was not a remarkable woman, an assistant branch manager at a bank, 27, about a 6 (7 on a good day). After I broke up with her, she told me she was pregnant with my baby. She decided to abort. Evidently the drug using alcoholic father of her first baby that called her a slut and cut off all contact after she told him she was pregnant was good enough to carry to term, but not my child. She laughed at me behind my back when I broke down in tears after the abortion in the car with her (I read the texts she sent her guy "friend" after that was VERY rough).

I'm now, at 32 in the best shape of my life. When I was 23, in the air force, I had a 40 inch waist and weighed 225lbs (5'8")

I'm now at a 34" waist at 195 I'm not complete, but it's so much better than I was. 3 years ago I was pushing 250.

I banged a hot 18 year old tonight after texting for a week. Yes, she's a little emotionally damaged, and I'm not saying that I'm god's gift to men now, but I certainly wasn't pulling anything this hot before, and I definitely would have been falling in love with this girl, where as now I can easily point out the signs that she's not good LTR material and I know not to get so emotionally attached.

P.S. It's the 4th different lay I've had in the past 2 weeks.

Thanks TRP.