I'm a first year university student and met this girl in my Italian class in September. It turns our by coincidence that she's cousins with a girl on my floor which I thought was pretty cool cause it meant i'd see a lot of her.We became what I thought at the time to be "good friends" who'd hang out all the time, flirt with each other and casually hookup. Everyone thought we'd date and I fell head over heels for this girl. But as time when on, she started to show her true colours. My friends and girlfriends all warned me about her saying she was just simply using me for school work and keeping my hopes up just so i'd help her, while she was fucking random guys. They told me she's a narcissist and a very judgemental person. I didn't believe them though cause yeah know, she's a sweet heart who laughs at everything I say.
We'll I then started to realize that she'd never help me, and when i'd ask for help and she'd always blow me off last minute. Then second semester runs along, she texts me asking if she can borrow a text book for the week, which I oblige telling her I needed to sell it at the bookstore by Saturday afternoon. She then ignores me after I gave her the text book and doesn't corporate to give it back to me until AN HOUR BEFORE THE SALE DEADLINE, which detailed me calling her and her ignoring my texts, and not even getting a thank you. I was pissed, but brushed it off.
She then made it obvious she was just using me, texting me solely for school work to which I obliged cause I was a pussy. But she'd still flirt with me when ever we hung out and she'd still wanna hookup, telling me how great of a guy I am.
Then, a few weeks ago I get to my residence on a Saturday night at 2am and she's in her cousins room just three doors down from my room having a party with a bunch of guys and making as much noise as possible, I just did my own thing but knew she was going to fuck one of them. The next day a good friend of mine from my floor comes to me and told me she fucked a guy on my floor last night, the same guy who she told me she hated, and SHE TOLD MY WHOLE FLOOR NOT TO FUCKING TELL ME WHAT SHE DID. At that point I was pissed, but just told my self I need to stay the fuck away from her.
Since then she treats me the same, and ever since then, I have to hear from her cousin and her friends talk about all the guys she sleeps with in my own dam lounge where I live, which is quite a few btw. She had the balls to approach me at a party and talk to me last weekend, I was really drunk and don't remember, but apparently I told her to go fuck her self, and when she hugged me and told me she loved me I told her people who love people don't use them and walked away, she apparently just laughed it off and kept talking to me later on.
Well, yesterday she text me asking if I had done an assignment yet and I told her I did, when she asked I could help her I told her I was busy. When she knocked on my fucking door and practically begged me for the answers I told her I had to go out, and when I came back 2 hours later and she was STILL in my lounge with her cousin waiting for me to help her, she approached me and I told her after she asked, "I'm not helping you, it's not my responsibility to do your assignment, it's not even hard". Never have I seen a more defeated look on someones face, she just walked back to the lounge and didn't say a word. A girl on my floor later told me she was bitching me out the entire night and failed the assignment, while I gotta 90! It was worth 15% of our grade btw, fuck her!
TDLR: girl strung me around for almost a full school year and used me for school work, wouldn't take her shit anymore.