In the ultimate irony, I came across a very RedPill thread in r/foreveralone. If you've ever visited that sub, it's basically a bunch of omegas complaining about being too shy or ugly to ever get laid. And for the most part, they're right.
But once in a while, there's an interesting development during the pity party and some of them start to view the world realistically, since they are on the absolute losing side of sexual strategy. This thread is an example.
Summary: 27 year old virgin starts thinking about why he is a kissless virgin, realizes that it may have something to do with being raised by a single mom.
I tend to do a lot of introspection about "where it all went wrong" and lately I've been thinking about the roots of my "Nice Guy" behavior. I've been critical of the recently popular perspective that Nice Guys are actually evil patriarchal monsters because as a former Nice Guy myself, I recognize how much of my behavior was actually rooted in the feminist beliefs I took away from years of conditioning at school and from TV.
Very true. And to take it a step further, the Nice Guy meme has been perpetuated by - you guessed it, feminism. Remember the 90s, when the media claimed that the best men were the "sensitive" guys who were in touch with their "feminine side" and did their share of chores around the house? This poison infiltrated its way beyond Hollywood and into the minds of young boys, who then grew up solidly bluepill and frustrated that they couldn't even land a date, let alone have sex like their hormones were demanding.
My parents divorced when I was three years old or thereabouts and my mom took primary custody of me. Mom soon started dating my future step dad, "Barry". Barry was conspicuously chivalrous. I noticed that whenever we drove anywhere together my mom would just sit there in her seat after we had parked and she wouldn't exit the vehicle until Barry opened the door for her.
One day after we got back from an outing and Barry had left, I asked her why she always waited for Barry to open the door for her. I told her I knew she didn't need help getting in and out of the car because we went places together all the time without Barry and I could see that she got in and out of the vehicle just fine on those days. Mom agreed that she was perfectly capable of getting in and out of the vehicle herself. She said that she waited for Barry to open the door for her to give him an opportunity to be a gentleman. Mom explained that being a gentleman made Barry a catch and that when I got old enough to be interested in girls that's how I should try to win a girl's heart as well.
Tl;dr: Alpha fux, beta bux. OP's mom most likely had kids with a man endowed with alpha traits, and when she was dumped she started looking for a provider. She found this provider in the form of Barry, the "nice guy" who always opened doors for her and waited on her hand and foot.
As a result, OP grew up with a single mom's perspective on life and was severely socially retarded as a result - he admits this himself. And this points out a very important redpill truth: women don't know shit about what women want. Of course his mom espoused the virtues of being nice and submissive. Because women have to be kind, gentle and submissive to win the hearts of most men out there. She didn't stop to consider that maybe since OP was a guy, the female strategy wouldn't work out for him.
Men need men to learn sexual strategy. Men need direct advice pure of all the bullshit that feminized society feeds us. And if they don't get it - well, you've seen the result. They post on r/foreveralone as 27 year old suicidal depressed omegas. This is why we need TheRedPill.
Please read the post and all of the replies. Some of the commenters - longstanding FA members themselves - seem to be awakening to the truth as well.