I'm going to assume that most of you don't comb through post history so I'll lay it out for you:
I was in a LTR with a Internist. I work on expensive freelance projects and spend most of my time off with /r/DIY and /r/arduino (diff account). I make small bursts of money we use to vacation while she handles all the day to day expenses. I'm playing on hard mode but I always maintain frame and dominance in our relationship. I'm the captain, she's the first mate and she knows it.
onto the story:
I drop off and pick up my GF after she goes through surgery. She's more than a little loopy afterwards. I'm driving her home and she's going off about her slutty cousin and suddenly she starts drops bombs about our relationship with the gauze still in her mouth. Like she's confessing her guilt without me understanding it, some strange type of tickle truth. I pull over, take the gauze out and starts crying and babbling like an idiot about how she's slept with more people than she originally told me. It's been a year folks, and I've played this game before. I told her,
<bluff> "I know how much it is, Your cousin told me its over 20"</bluff> (she told me 5 people at the beginning of the relationship).
She freaks out and says it's only 14 guys (15 is my number), I counter that she's not including the one night stands she claims she's never had. She breaks down and says she's lost count and its not her fault! Meaning her number is well over 20. More uncomfortable crying and she admits that one of the guys she's slept with is Gavin Degraw. Which is funny considering he's on her "sexy time" playlist. This out of everything made me fill sick to my stomach. The fact that she fucks me to a song sang by another guy she fucked is beyond what I'm able to deal with.
I fill her in on everything she said while drugged up and declare I've talked to her friends and I know everything now, not just what she told me (another bluff). I demand she spill the truth or I'm packing bags. She bites it and spills so much more than I ever needed to know. She is truly a ruined person.
Here's the lesson:
Girls know about the unicorn. They know how to "act" like a unicorn. But, unicorns do not exist. ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT.
Nexted the girl, I'm not going to commit to a girl if 20 other guys wouldn't. I spent a month at a friends place looking for permanent work. I just accepted a job in Vancouver, CA. Moving up to Yaletown next month with another buddy.
You're not smarter than the collective /r/theredpill. ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT. It took me too long to swallow but it's done.