Blue Pill ExampleThere's no limit to how badly a woman will treat a beta. My best friend is the prize heifer of betas. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by clearerwaters

tl;dr: This is what happens in a society that empowers women, disempowers men, and gives young men no fathers. Alpha fux, beta bux. Alpha widowing. No family unit. Children who suffer.

Growing up my best friend never had a chance. His mother is tough, strong, from a third-world country and full of no bullshit. If she'd been his father, he'd have had a chance. His father married her after she illegally immigrated. Calling him a man-child is offensive to neckbeards. He has zero social grace, makes ruinous decisions with money, and while his wife was working two jobs he couldn't be fucked to feed him proper meals, and took him to Taco Bell instead. He's an honorary Mexican now; my friend knows all about that crunchwrap. He gained weight through our friendship built on a steady diet of fast food and a father in name only.

In eighth grade he had a crush on a girl, Megan. Megan, and none of us knew this at the time, had had a hard life. She had been raped. She acted out years later in high school. I wasn't fat, I was popular, I partied in the same circles as Megan. Her boyfriend was a drug dealer, low level weed stuff. At parties she'd be in love with the coco, smoking opium, having threesomes in the open while we watched. It was whatever. Once you see enough bitches do ass to mouth you get immune.

Years passed. My friend became a fireman. A would-be alpha profession. But betas gonna beta. When he got hired and gotten into real shape for the first time in his life Megan reach out to him. Funny timing, that. She'd been dumped by her boyfriend after he tired of her. Her lifestyle had caught up with her, she'd hit the wall by speeding through her teenage years, and looked like shit at 23 and was desperate to settle while she could. It was pretty fucking impressive, if you're the kind of person who watches NASCAR to see the carnage.

They fooled around, but never had sex, because she was a born again Christian and born again virgin. She ended up pregnant. Apparently the church did teach her something.

My friend proposed, they got engaged, and I was tapped as the best man. I did my job and, rather than arrange a bachelor party, staged an intervention. Told him he was retarded. His mom was there, she agreed he was retarded, and we convinced him to get a paternity test. Convinced him until he asked her for one and she flipped shit and he backed down. They married.

The child was born. They had another. They both looked like him and his third world heritage, but who knows, they never were tested. She couldn't maintain her sobriety. Both children have pronounced birth defects. Maybe because of her history of using, maybe if she still used during their pregnancies. Opiates and alcohol, which continued while he was at work and she was watching the kids. He tried to get her help, she refused.

Somewhere around this time he starts to complain that all the sexy things she did for other guys in her past, she wasn't willing to do for him. No threesomes, even with another guy. No blow jobs, and hardly any sex at all. She said she had the hots for me. He asked me if I'd fuck her. Easiest lay I've ever turned down. Ya'll aren't high on these ethics, but I'm not about to fuck my best friend's wife, and I wouldn't touch her with another man's dick regardless.

After ten years of this she couldn't tolerate it any longer. Her giving his questionable paternity kids birth defects wasn't as bad a marital sin as his betatude. For a woman, there is no greater sin in any partnership. She started sleeping with a figurative retard and got pregnant. Dat alpha widow doe. My friend wanted to work it out. Wrong answer. She had him served on his birthday so it'd sting. She introduced the new guy as the real daddy, the only one who loved them. They're retarded, literally, so they believed it. Baby was born, I'm unsure of its retard status, and the guy cut and ran. Can't find him for that tasty child support. So what does my friend do? Tried to work it out. She can't, she said, because now she has HIV.

I only bring it up because I went to his wedding this weekend. He got married again.

[–]topredhat 344 points345 points  (16 children)

Treat her like a princess. She'll treat you like a peasant.

[–]Vryk0lakas 89 points90 points  (9 children)

If you are going to treat her like a princess make sure you are doing so as a king.

[–]Evolved_Red 47 points48 points  (4 children)

It is called a 'king'dom, after all. Not princess-dom, not queen-dom. You let your world run by any of the above, your kingdom's doomed.

[–]steelerfaninperu 21 points22 points  (3 children)

Say what you will about the Germans, but they are on to something with that whole "Fatherland" concept.

[–]fuck_da_haes[🍰] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Hmm, thinking about "Mother Russia" ...

[–]2IVIaskerade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mother Russia is a heartless bitch who constantly deprives her children of any softness so that they would grow up strong, ready to tear their inheritance from the world.

She's a terrible mother, but she's a good mentor.

[–]juliusstreicher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mother Russia...I Fucked her! Oh!

[–]Grompher 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This right here. You can do everything right and still have it be your fault when it goes wrong.

[–]Kanade420x 11 points11 points [recovered]

Damn what a nice quote man

[–]Sherlock--Holmes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My friends and I always said "treat whores like queens, and queens like whores." It never failed me.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prolific words worthy of being included in a great work of Plato or socrates' hand

[–]sd2001 122 points122 points [recovered]

That entire post was a punch to the gut. I know it sounds cliche' but I really REALLY feel bad for those kids.

Fuck your friend...he's a retard. But those kids, man. They never deserved to be born to a dipshit slut drugged-out hobag.

[–]clearerwaters[S] 34 points35 points  (4 children)

Agree. He had a fucked childhood and guaranteed worse for his kids.

[–]blandboringusername 13 points13 points [recovered]

Yeah, my friends who had solid middle class childhoods have no idea what a boost they got from having a stable home, i.e. people who have a fucking clue how to have a successful life. I had to figure shit out for myself.

I think you did the right thing here, BTW:

Ya'll aren't high on these ethics, but I'm not about to fuck my best friend's wife

[–]foldpak111 22 points23 points  (1 child)

You should see what I'm living with. My dad's girlfriend said that biology doesn't exist, as she makes 10k a year walking dogs, leeching off of my father. Then you got my dad, fat as fuck, runs off of feels, just tried feeding the dog pork. I said would you feed her bacon? what are you doing? They both got mad and said you think you know everything. 2 minutes later dogs vomiting. This chick literally told me I am a child that needs to be punished, because I am inherently smarter than them. She'll never admit it though.

The right path is to ignore these losers, whom in 10 years, will be doing the same menial tasks, during around. Listen to guys like Owen Cook for dating, self development and Tai for finances. You should see the hamsters when they saw me watching the videos. Telling me that these guys are brainwashing me and they are assholes. Under RP analysis, the evolutionary psychology behind this is that they want to keep the little man down. They know that I am evolving into something that continues to get better, and that will make them question their own lives. If someone they view as lower than them becomes a pimp, what does that say about them? So they become the manipulators. It's the craziest shit I've seen in my life. Low status people are literally poison. Have fun rationalizing your lives, i'll go straight to the top. Have fun rationalizing that too.

Hang in there.

[–]2rp_valiant 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is commonly referred to as the "crabs in a bucket" mentality - a single crab in a bucket will be able to climb out but when you have multiple crabs in the same bucket, any single one that tries to escape will be pulled back down by the others to share their fate.

Keep loving and working on yourself and ignore the haters.

[–]bustanutmeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he remarry her? Or someone else?

[–]coffee_and_lumber 11 points12 points  (1 child)

As Ace Carolla used to say, just stick 'em in a cannon and fire them in a random direction so they have a chance of a better life.

[–]FattestRabbit 10 points11 points  (2 children)

That entire post was a punch to the gut. I know it sounds cliche' but I really REALLY feel bad for those kids.

Nothing wrong with genuine sympathy. This post hit me hard too. Usually, after I read shit like this, I just go lift as hard as I can and thank my lucky stars.

[–]2johnnight 5 points6 points  (1 child)

This post hit me hard too.

This post is such an absurd car wreckage pile-up that I'm feeling nothing. I just can't feel empathy when somebody is hurt by consequences of their own actions/inaction.

Bitch isn't even evil. She is a druggie, who fucked up her own progeny through Fetal Alcohol Syndrome or something. Being evil would require intention, she just can't make the right decisions and destroys herself and everything around her like a hand grenade.

People throwing themselves at hand grenades are not smart. This guy should have:

  1. stayed away from a druggie,
  2. done the paternity tests,
  3. asked courts to give him full custody,
  4. not tried to remarry the HIV carrier like a Forest Gump.

That's too much coincidence. He is a white knighting retard. My compassion is reserved for the kids, because they are punished for the sins of their mother. They did not ask to be born disabled.

[–]steelerfaninperu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. You make a bed, you get to lie in it. The kids are innocent bystanders in this fuckuppery.

These people shouldn't even be allowed to breed in the first place.

[–]scholarly_pimp 53 points54 points  (9 children)

This is super fucked up. I'd definitely drop him as a friend and maybe touch base maybe 3-4 times per year.

[–]clearerwaters[S] 28 points29 points  (8 children)

We talk once a month, live in different states.

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[–]FattestRabbit 31 points32 points  (1 child)

tl;dr You didn't attend his wedding; you attended his funeral.

My heart broke a little, but you're completely right. I wonder how many men have died on the aisle like this.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Too many to count. It's coming to the point where we aren't winners so much as survivors in a wasteland of insanity.

[–]throwaway-aa2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't attend his wedding; you attended his funeral.

Damn. See, I don't get OP. I can't watch someone die like this... I either help them forcibly or we don't see each other anymore.

[–]25russianbear25 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Did he make a wrong choice? Yes, but not everyone had a happy little white suburban childhood like you... when you come from the ghetto you're happy to with meagerness.

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[–]25russianbear25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure what this poem means... probably has to do with the way lines a split


[–][deleted] 44 points45 points  (7 children)

I am always amazed at how deep the beta indoctrination goes. I was a pretty huge beta nice guy but all it took was one shitty relationship and getting dumped by ONEitis for some bullshit reason to open my eyes to TRP. Guys like that are literally delusional. There is nothing you can do. Walk away and simply learn that life can be a train wreck and you can't stop people from making bad decisions.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (2 children)

Honestly any kind of childhood indoctrination goes deep

But when I look at some of the hardcore beyond saving betas that I know, they all of one thing in common, victim mentality. I don't think victim mentality causes betaness since I know alot of professional victims who are not betas, some use it in a manipulative and smart ways as a matter of fact, but I do think victim mentality keeps beta indoctrination secure in its place.

Some dude was saying these are the people who didn't have adversary in life growing up and didn't get used to taking control of situations when they were younger, so now that they have problems they rather assume the role of the victim instead of rising up and taking control of their life situation. I'm starting to realize he was right. Most of the betas I know didn't have dad's that held them accountable or punished them, had helicopter mom's and were escorted in and out of everywhere, had their shit taken care of wherever they went, never had to deal with the bully cuz mommy went to school principal for him, so on and so forth. It's only around the age of 18 when they're left on their own is when they start facing adversity, but sucks cuz it's too late to learn problem solving, so best course of action is to become victims, go on Facebook and complain about girls for not liking nice guys, being the victims of their shitty gfs instead of dumping their asses.

The list goes on

Its the fear of facing problems, cuz they never faced any as kids growing up

Shit this comment turned out longer than I expected

[–]barryberry 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I used to be like this. You are right on the money, at least as far describing my life until I was about 25. Helicopter mom + beta dad = victim mentality.

It is very hard to snap out of it tough, the only validation you receive is from people that want to keep you that way. People who are willing to give you good advise usually dumb it down because they think you are an idiot (and rightfully so).

People with victim mentalities are just not fun to be around. A few of them run around in my social circle and we mostly mock them behind their backs. It's hard not to. I used to be like that and people probably mocked me. Don't be like that.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Victim" friends are the most toxic friends. I hung out with some of them but I decided it's time to stop after this one girl accused me of taking advantage of her while she was drunk. Turned out she was far less drunk than I was(I could barely walk, she was only 4 shots deep), but cheated on her boyfriend with me. Instead of taking responsibility for her action, she just became another victim of the rape culture. She went around and told my friends about it, but luckily most of my friends don't have the IQ of an inbred chimp and saw right through her bullshit, she lost all credibility among those friends. It showed me how pathetic it is to play victim, to the eyes of those who are smart enough to detect it and see through it.

Lesson learned

[–]FattestRabbit 14 points15 points  (3 children)

Guys like that are literally delusional. There is nothing you can do.

This is really starting to sink in for me. It's one thing to be a beta; too nice for your own good, weak in body and spirit, not aggressive or even assertive. It's another thing to live with the blue pill delusion of how the world around you works, what women are really like, and how the whole human species operates.

[–]BrunoOh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Betas are simply doing what their parents and society told them to do. Their only real mistake is that they're doing it according to the 1950's playbook. They're at least trying and putting in effort. I can muster a shred of respect for that.

Going full retard like OP's "friend"? Fuck no.

[–]thechaosz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bro and some others I know

[–]foldpak111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I myself have become very sarcastic and condescending. Do most men deserve my respect? fuck no. Look at how they act. I got so many guys wanting to kick my ass i'd look like D-Day if they all decided to attack.

[–]Postboned 40 points41 points  (5 children)

She said she had the hots for me.

Well, whores gonna who-

He asked me if I'd fuck her.

Okay.. I'm literally sick now.

I fucking refuse to believe that women like this find their own behaviour acceptable. What I feel that this was all just a massive shit-test so that her beta husband could tell her that she's a fucking stupid retarded whore. Like a person contemplating suicide secretly wanting to be caught and stopped.

[–]clearerwaters[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree with this 100. Half the crazy shit women do they do hoping they'll be kept in line. A fitness test of a man. And he failed over and over. It's like a toddler out of control. Bitches need boundaries.

To the guy below, she didn't have HIV at that point, but I would expect her cunt was still a festering agar plate of other diseases.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (1 child)

I fucking refuse to believe that women like this find their own behaviour acceptable.

Whatever women are allowed to do, they find acceptable. What they are not allowed to do, they find unacceptable in others.

[–]Postboned 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I just don't believe that someone can be so bat shit crazy. Things like these are just obvious shit tests that men without a clue fall prey to. Women just want to be told no sometimes. They have a secretely innate desire for men to tell them something along the lines of "you're fucking nuts, I'm not doing that".

And it makes damn sense why women do it. It is so easy to explain! Without including this filth of a human in the post above, I would like to make a claim that they do it to test your ability as a future husband. A true alpha male capable of showing your offspring how it is done and how to be a father and a man that leads and makes his wife feel like a shameless slut and a beautiful queen at the same time. Would a normal father ask his best friend to fuck his slut of a wife? Fuck no. A normal father/man would not take interest in that kind of a person in the first place. This one was just trying to see how deep the rabbit hole goes (aka how much I can abuse this little bitch of a man until he finally cracks, and if that doesn't work out I can always go for another round on the cock carousel).

Shit tests are fine. Women are immature. Do it, I'll handle it.. but try a shit test that includes adultery and I'm nexting you before you're able to finish your sentence with no exception.

PS: I don't usually curse this much but posts like these can really rustle me sometimes.

[–]Isaiah4verse1 2 points3 points  (1 child)

She probably knew she had AIDS and wanted to fuck over the op. Op dodged a major bullet.

[–]jokersmild 22 points23 points  (5 children)

She sounds like Jenny from forest Gump

[–]dontdrinkthekoolade 10 points10 points [recovered]

Right lol. I was like sooo is OP Bubba or Lieutenant Dan?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously, was gonna ask if his "friend" was Forest Gump.

[–]clearerwaters[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hilarious. Never thought of that. Always hated Jen-nay, too.

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[–]LOLZebra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this reminded me of my friend who was awkward as hell during parties, head in books 10 hours a day, nerd galore type. Virgin until like 24 or something. Eventually got married to some chick he knew in college but never dated. She ended up with like 2-3 kids from other guys and probably realized she should take the first high-earner chump she could get before she looks like total shit and nobody would want her.

[–]FattestRabbit 3 points4 points  (3 children)

I believe the word you're looking for is 'omega'.

[–]foldpak111 0 points1 point  (2 children)

He is lower than omega. I don't even think there is a word for what this thing is.

[–]Calamash -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're looking for the word beta.

[–]scamper_22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is really key.

For both men and women, but probably moreso for me, there is a real knowledge deficit about women. Knowledge can be corrected. Some people can be taught, others need experience. But in the end, they will learn.

Then there's people with severe mental/emotional

[–]Man-with-a-pitchfork 16 points17 points  (4 children)

I only bring it up because I went to his wedding this weekend. He got married again.

To whom? Not her again, I hope...

[–]clearerwaters[S] 36 points37 points  (3 children)

Different woman. Real question is if he'd drop his now wife for his ex-wife. Probably. Everyone in this story is retarded, except his mother, who is rightfully ashamed.

[–]LOLZebra 1 point2 points  (1 child)

How long was he separated/divorced whatever from his ex-wife before getting re-married? I'm in my longest relationship yet, its gone over a year now and no way I'm ready to be married.

[–]clearerwaters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year. I don't even know, man, I can't get my head there.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank GOD, when I read the last sentence my heart dropped and I'm usually pretty indifferent to the suffering of betas.

[–]TCaddict 8 points9 points  (2 children)

Dog crossing the rail yard.....went under the slow moving train first wheel took off the end of his tail,he turned to see the next wheel took his head clean off.....The moral of the story... Don't lose your head over a little piece of tail.

[–]Dr_Wally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really like that analogy.

[–]Isaiah4verse1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is too awesome not to bookmark. Well done.

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[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No-homo is best homo. I was chuckling the entire read.

[–]MicroMinion 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck is this guy even still your friend, let alone your best one? He acts like a fucking retard and refuses to take even the simplest of advices.

He puts a completely worthless pussy above you the moment he can, just to get layed! Just how much does your "friendship" even mean? The only thing you can do with people like this is abuse them because there's no way they will ever be loyal to you.

I'm not telling you to instantly ditch this guy, you might just keep him around because his beta-ness might have some use, but you should really find a new best friend.

[–]BrunoOh 73 points74 points  (12 children)

Cut him out of your life. You can see car crashes from a distance too.

[–]clearerwaters[S] 114 points115 points  (4 children)

Not going to cut him out entirely, we came out of the ghetto together. I've simply stopped giving advice. I wish him the best, keep my distance, and will be there to see if he turns it around.

[–]rdesktop7 10 points11 points  (0 children)


No need to cut the guy from your life.

Wishing you and your friend the best.

[–]Idontlikekarmawhores 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thats what a true friend would do, props to you brah.

[–]AntixD 1 point2 points  (1 child)

if you don't mind me asking,how old is your friend?

[–]Sfwonlynow 14 points15 points  (3 children)

You're absolutely right. The guy won't listen to his closest friends and family, he refuses to be reasoned with.

[–]foldpak111 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Especially the ones who choose a piece of pussy over family. I cut my father out for that one. You choose a woman over your own son, and it shows me your true values. I don't even want to know where the guy is going to be in 10 years. Quite a scary thought.

[–]FuckGivingUp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can see car crashes from a distance too.

I'll have to remember that one.

On the subject, BrunoOh is right. Cut ties, OP. That guy is a lost cause.

[–]Stink-Finger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right.

Hang around the people that you want to be.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just don't invest, watch it burn and see it as an negative example.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (2 children)

I can't even come in this sub anymore these stories just make me feel ill.

[–]foldpak111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to live it everyday being around my father and his weird ass girlfriend, consider yourself lucky.

[–]clearerwaters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't make me ill, just makes me laugh and incredulous. I love him like a brother, but he's him, I'm me.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take him into an alley and beat some sense into him. Or flat out tell him you'll cut him loose if he doesn't straighten up because it kills you to see how retarded he's acting.

Probably the second thing will be best.

[–]skoobled 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You write very expressively - ever done any serious writing?

[–]AnonySeeb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But betas gonna beta.

Realist thing I've read all day.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Well, look on the bright side; your beta friend and Megan didn't sleep together after she cheated on him. So, that means your beta friend does not have AIDS!


[–]clearerwaters[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's neg, no HIV. So are the kids, the first two, at least.

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[–]clearerwaters[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

You're welcome. It's the song of my people.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)


What is this?

[–]blue_27 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Once the train is that far off the tracks, there is nothing left to do but watch. Some peoples' lives are examples, others are warnings.

[–]CuddleMyNeckbeard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He wanted you to fuck his wife? Jesus christ how low can people sink?

[–]DemonSmurf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This shit RIGHT HERE is why humans won't last another 3 generations. The worst humans reproduce the fastest. Im just glad I won't be around to see it collapse.

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FUCK! I honestly hate reading things like this because of how pissed off it makes me.

[–]NaughtyFred 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a relative newcomer to red pill your friends situation put the fear of god in me.

I would rather be a complete outcast from "society" than swap places with that guy.

Jesus mate!, have some self-respect (is what I'd say to him)

[–]Wannabeheard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its crazy how women can be every bit as a destructive to a man's life as any drug. Poor guy, gotta feel for him

[–]blacwidonsfw 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nothing to do but eat pop corn

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (3 children)

When I read this, I see a man who refused to set any standard for his life.

He did this to himself. All he had to do was show SOME sort of backbone and half this crap wouldn't have happened.

I don't blame the woman. She was broken from jump. She found the perfect patsy.

[–]johnmal85 1 point2 points  (2 children)

You can give the woman a pass for being broken, but not the guy just as equally? If anything his past was way worse.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Not giving the woman a pass but it is just that he could have simply put his foot down and not allowed this harpy to sink her talons into.

[–]johnmal85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, people try and do the right thing (to them) and then they think it's how life it's supposed to be. They even feel like it's wrong but don't escape. Sad to see.

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[–]clearerwaters[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's the commitment to not learning I really find most impressive. You keep gettin burned and you keep doing the same thing. Learn, motherfucker.

[–]foldpak111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They don't learn from their mistakes. The amount of men in their 30's that continue to exhibit this behavior is astounding. Fuck em, as long as they stay out of my way I don't care what they do.

[–]Philhelm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She can't, she said, because now she has HIV.

At least there is some justice to be found within this story. Obviously, your friend will need to get tested immediately, and probably for a couple of years down the road.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am just impressed. It is like watching a train derail and plow into a high way. It just does not end.

[–]thenarrrowpath 2 points3 points  (1 child)

He got married again.

Wait, she divorced him and then he willingly got remarried to her again? Am I reading this right?

[–]SuperMeatBoi 2 points3 points  (2 children)

I like the way you wrote this, despite its fucked up (useful) content.

[–]aSaaadPanda 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Yeah, it follows a greentext format.

[–]dicklord_airplane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

every time i see my parents, i thank them for not being fucked up people. if your family is decent, thank them.

[–]enkae7317 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest you did everything you could to prevent it...and he still went on with marrying her and keeping her.

A lot of people are saying to drop your friend but I feel he legitimately wanted a wife and just made a lot of bad choices. Now, we all make bad choices but the real thing here is whether we learn from it. It doesn't look like he did so yeah, drop him.

[–]herpes_delivery_man 3 points3 points [recovered]

the hell....

niggas that grew up in the hood already come with red pill knowledge.

so what the fuck happened to this guy? This is one of the worst cases I've ever read. If this is not troll/fake post, then may God have mercy on his soul

[–]clearerwaters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even in the ghetto people liked him because he was a nice guy, but knew he was a pussy. His mom moved him out in high school. Without her he'd be all kinds of fucked.

[–]Totsean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Darwin award?

Give that guy one.

[–]thegr8b8m8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would be sad if it wasn't just so fucking typical.

[–]Tarnsman4Life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The limit of how bad a woman will treat betas is how badly can she treat them before she stops attracting men she finds suitable for her ends. This includes finances and on some level attractiveness though as a secondary condition. The fact she can attract "good looking' beats is simply a validation she still "has it" rather than a end to fulfill sexual desires. With legions and legions over thirsty betas out there though the bar is pretty low these days.

[–]Endorsed Contributorbalalasaurus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some men don't deserve to have balls.

[–]1Dark-Ulfberht 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Dude, you should write for a living.

I only bring it up because I went to his wedding this weekend. He got married again.

Your endings are epic. You say so much with so little.

[–]Riddick_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, could not agree more.

One is the story, and another the way he wrote it.

That ending, was just crushing.

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[–]armallthebears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hot/crazy scale only applies if there aren't kids involved. Get all the crazy hotties you want, but no hot is worth raising crazy's children.

[–]TheReasoner94 1 point2 points  (1 child)

No threesomes even with another guy, why the fuck was he asking for another guy for a threesome?

[–]clearerwaters[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At a certain point your self worth is so low anything is on the table. If she'd asked to spice it up with clowns in the bedroom he'd have been down.

[–]Rougepellet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who am I to judge but how can you be friend with someone that beta? It makes me sick to my stomach just reading about him let alone being friends with this guy. Even his mom told him he was retarded, how could he be so blind?

[–]howaldmg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus fucking christ... You just can't make this shit up.

"...and looked like shit at 23 and was desperate to settle while she could. It was pretty fucking impressive, if you're the kind of person who watches NASCAR to see the carnage."

[–]nebojssha 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Ok, I understand point of the story, and I agree, but how, where, when the hell do you guys find such things as "parties with threesomes"? I feel like a monk :(

[–]clearerwaters[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

High school parties in the 90s. Drugs, alcohol, no parents. It's a different generation now, or so I'm told.

[–]nebojssha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah, I was born '86. Although, I live in Serbia, small "village", around 20-30k people, next to 300k town, and I guess that is main reason.

[–]ECoast_Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ.

This is just fucking sick.

I don't have any words.

[–]cmoney44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You read enough of these stories, you start to get immune. I used to get really pissed off but for the first time I just wasn't even surprised and didn't even care. What a pussy.

[–]Arbitrage84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that read like a slow moving train wreck...

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never try to train a hooya into being your wife!

[–]Venkas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RIP your best friend. Sounds almost like my buddy, except he let his close feelings to her daughter cloud his judgement. He said he couldn't walk away since "She looked up to me like a father." While they were dating she banged his cousin. Two kids later in a miserable relationship.

[–]daveofmars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's kicking back and watching the fireworks. And then there's watching the nukes. Goddamn.

[–]juanqunt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand that he's a childhood friend... but how can you call such a person your "best friend"?

[–]DigitalMining 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy fuck. My eyes have been opened even wider. (Or I took more red pills) can't decide which analogy to use.

[–]camelCasettes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I swear guys like that would actually live a happier life if they had their dicks removed.

They could actually focus on things that would make them happy instead of this self-imposed torture.

[–]Windrammer420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of the movie Burn After Reading, in the sense that there is nothing to take from this.

[–]garlicextract[🍰] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

This post has all the TRP tropes, then the HIV part at the end plus the retarded illegitimate children makes me think this is a troll/exaggerated post.

May god have mercy on everyone's soul involved if it is not.

[–]Buckeye1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)


May god have mercy on everyone's soul involved if it is not.

[–]manwhowouldbeking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your friends a dumbass, Beta's remind me of that house of cards quote "What a martyr craves more than anything is a sword to fall on. So, you sharpen the blade, hold it at just the right angle, and then... 3,2,1..." Some people lack vision.

[–]FuriousMouse 0 points1 point  (1 child)

How badly can you get burned?
True or not, this should be on the right side, just below "Confessions of a Reformed Incel"

[–]clearerwaters[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I left out the parts so cliche they'd come off as troll. His email handle in high school contained the phrase niceguy. Believe that [email protected] was slaying all the pussy.

[–]strps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is this dude your friend? What does he bring?

[–]crabpipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is scary, it could've been the story of me and my ex

[–]Sherlock--Holmes 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Did he remarry her or a different woman?

[–]Riddick_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FUBAR - That's all I have to say.

[–]rdntmsn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post as well as so many others have me wondering, where are the red pill t shirts? When do we take to the streets?

[–]1iluminatiNYC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear this guy must have been the inspiration to DMX's verse in Party Up. Now this is just sad. I feel bad for him. What a fucked up situation...

[–]RAGING_ERECTION 1 points1 points [recovered]

I have a question for you guys after reading this post - if you were in OP's shoes would you have tried even harder to try and get through to him?

I only ask because if it was my best friend I would probably do everything I could to avoid a train wreck like that. At what point to you "give up" trying to help? Or do you even try in the first place?

[–]monzzter221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I would have given him shit, ribbed him, you know, tried to get him to feel ashamed of his behavior. You can't take it easy on your friends if they are this guy

If it didn't work, yeah, I wouldn't even have been calling this guy to see how he is. You just can't help people like this, watching this just brings you down, and past that, they might suck you into their fucked up world.

This is an extreme example. The guy wants to marry a woman with aids. There's no hope for this guy. I know it sounds brutal but he should just blow his brains out.

[–]monzzter221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question is why is he still your best friend?

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[–]clearerwaters[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

New. Don't know enough about her to say how prudent this is other than that getting married to begin with, a second time no less, is dumb.

[–]ZackCross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's no friend of yours if he doesn't respect your opinions, particularly if you spent a lot more time around that girl at first than he did.

[–]NevrEndr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me thankful for my genetics and solid upbringing. Before I discovered RP but after beta me did away with my first LTR who decided to try to make me jealous by making best friends with a guy at her waitressing job and then going out to bars with them never inviting me i became what people have described as a bit of an asshole, a dick, arrogant, doesn't care etc. I was naturally an alpha and had no idea. All I knew was that I wanted to make myself better than every other man i came in contact with.

Oh and that LTR married waiter dude. He now works at the Panera down the road from me on the register so I see him sometimes. He doesn't remember me or acts like he doesn't when he takes my order. Solid choice, former LTR.

[–]decoydevo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy fuck, thats sickening.

[–]1kick6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least, with the HIV, she didn't fuck him. That's the only silver lining in that shitfest.

[–]thatguylikeaaronhall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not to knock your best friend, but are you sure he isn't literally retarded? This is just a string of poor decisions he's made.

[–]Pancakes1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This goes beyond repill theory imo. Your friend has huge insecurity issues and makes ignorant decisions.

[–]TheRealMouseRat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was a sad story. Is there any way you could educate your friend?