Field ReportMy Sister's Wake-Up Call To The Wall. (self.TheRedPill)

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My sister is 24 and will be turning 25 this December. She is your typical basic bitch: studies a social science, in a sorority, watches Netflix in spare time, only cares about partying(she will literally start crying if she can't go out), etc. She has used lots of guys in her life and is used to getting her way thanks to my BP dad. In fact, she has traveled to different countries because she is Beta-Bucking this guy getting an MBA at a European university, yet still sends snapchats of her and her friends partying with other guys. That's just how manipulative she is. Whenever she goes out, she never brings money. Why? "Somebody else will pay for me."

A few months ago, she came home from her college. We would talk for a bit, even though she is pretty much dead to me because of how she treats other people and will literally hit me if I don't give her what she wants(one time, we were in a store and she told me to buy her some hair dye because she blew all of her money at a club the previous night. When I said "no", she slapped me right there in front of everybody.). She will ask me how I'm doing and all that crap. She then asked me if I'm dating. When I said that I kindly turned down a girl a while back because I wasn't attracted to her, she got pissed. "You're such a brat! It doesn't matter what a girl looks like"!

A few days later, she is in her room crying. She calls me in. "I'm really scared! I don't know what I'm going to do after I graduate and I'm losing weight!" I had RP knowledge back then and I know exactly what is happening to her: she has used her appearance to get what she wanted throughout her life and she is now realizing that they're fading away and doesn't have anything else to offer the world except a Social Work degree. Earlier that day, I overheard my aunt and mother talking. My aunt said that my sister looks terrible and that her body is beginning to sag and that I look healthier and happier than I ever have(lifting and nutrition ftw).

(Here's where I fuck up) I've always been angry with her because of how she's treated me and other people. So I say, "But looks don't matter!" in a mockingly tone. Oh she lost it...

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus 245 points246 points  (15 children)

Your sister is a cunt. No other way around it. Here's what's going to happen. She is going to reach about 28 and start trying to tie her remaining orbiters down to a commitment. She is going to marry one of them and treat him like the piece of shit she believes him to be. She will keep partying and fuck other guys. Your nieces and nephews won't be his. They will eventually divorce and she will take half of everything and make him keep paying her.

Your sister and all the women exactly like her is the reason we keep saying don't get married. You shouldn't ever tie yourself down to a woman like this.

Also you didn't fuck up by mocking her. Keep doing it. Make her know how stupid she sounds.

[–]KHJohan 43 points44 points  (2 children)

Don't forget the incoming child abuse if the dad doesn't protect them.

[–]Endorsed ContributorAFPJ 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Having grown up with a single mama, this part still turns my fucking gut. I got lucky and some deep dark instinct pushed me to leave my home when I was 16. So even if I did wish growing up with a single mom on my enemies, I suddenly wouldn't have any left: it's literally development purgatory - bad enough to steadily chip and grind away at your integrity, aspirations, pride and soul but not quite bad enough to make you snap: just like shitty marriages.

[–]systemshock869 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's literally development purgatory - bad enough to steadily chip and grind away at your integrity, aspirations, pride and soul but not quite bad enough to make you snap: just like shitty marriages.

Wow I hadn't thought about it that way. Shitty mothers / shitty wives have a similar impact, just manifested slightly differently.

[–]1menergize 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agree, every change you get, drill it into her. Let her know she's fucking retarded for thinking life wouldn't get her back.

[–]foldpak111 23 points24 points  (4 children)

You should've seen how I treated the women in my family last time I saw them, I'm relentless. I'm uncensored and if insee something, I straight up call them out. Am very intense and have a buff body to keep the male family white knights in their place. They used to be so tough around me hahaha bullies only respond to strength.

[–]whatyearisthisagain 20 points21 points  (3 children)

bullies only respond to strength

So true. Iv'e found a big reason to get fit is just so other men will treat you better.

[–]foldpak111 10 points11 points  (2 children)

It's funny. I didn't even get huge, just fit and it's a different world. I'm actually treated like a human being and you can see people think twice before they step to you. Especially the male members of your family and relatives who used to tool you when you were younger. You know I'll Brian Cushing that ass so sit in the corner. The power is intoxicating.

[–]tripthree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You dont have to be a buff loud mouth for people to respect you. But I am glad the gym has given you confidence you didnt have before.

[–]DexterousRichard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Something like that. The best he can do is warn the guys never to marry her.

The good guy in me wants to hope she could be threatened into being a little better that way, but I don't know if it would work. (Tell her she has to cut shut out or he will tell every guy she meets how horrible she is and make sure they never marry her)

[–]RedPillAnonymous 2 points3 points  (4 children)

Dude, warn every nice guy about her. Tell them what she is like, show proof if you can. Make sure she fails to hurt a man the way she plans too. Don't do it overtly, just let every one of them know whats up.

[–]whatyearisthisagain 22 points23 points  (1 child)

Tell them what she is like, show proof if you can.

"Oh wow her brother is an asshole! I should really tell this to her immediately in detail. She will like me so much for being a good boy and I'll be rewarded with happysexytimes."

[–]RedPillAnonymous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha, you have a point. Sucks you really can't help the guys who need it the most.

[–]naturalredpill 1 point2 points  (1 child)

The nice guy will just find some other woman just like her. You can't save them.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You cant save them"

This isnt true. I was a "nice guy" once. But Ive seen the error of my ways.

[–]alclarkey 106 points107 points  (5 children)

Slapped you for not buying her hair dye? That's some next-level entitlement there.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (4 children)

At that age I'd have bought her the hair dye and then later sneaked a different color in its place before she used it. Something really garish. Let her go round with purple hair until she could afford to dye over it in black.

[–]MazeMouse 7 points8 points  (1 child)

They could just spindoctor that off as "doing something crazy to find herself"

[–]cuntbh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my sister expected me to pay for her hair dye, I'd just say "go fuck yourself". As it is, she respects me, and wouldn't expect me to pay for her.

[–]Berend09[🍰] 119 points120 points  (31 children)

What did you do after being slapped? Analyze it?

The day I'm slapped by my sister, public or not, is the last day I speak to her. I wouldn't hit back but certainly leave her ass there and stay far away from the ticking bomb.

[–]HAMMURABl 100 points101 points  (10 children)

You know the "dont hit women" trope doesnt apply to brother/sister.. my sister slapping me is completely anathema, she knew that if she dared to slap me i'd slap her back twice as hard.

[–]DarkisKnight 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Fitting user name. Eye for an eye?

[–]TestosteroneFilled 58 points59 points  (1 child)

Well if if you're both above 16 and she still has the audacity to hit you in public, you're doing something terribly wrong.

[–]TekkomanKingz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her audacity has absolutely nothing to do with what he's doing. It's not his plate.

[–]Berend09[🍰] 29 points30 points  (3 children)

I agree but I have dealt with the police over false claims of DV. You are guilty until proven innocent the moment the police get involved. It's wrong, fucked up and sick but that's the hand that's dealt. It's not worth the potential bullshit to me.

[–]foldpak111 8 points9 points  (2 children)

As men, we can just run. Women have boob's and wide hips, we have testosterone. They couldn't catch us. I always did that when a girl starts hitting me I just start running like Forrest Gump. People will talk shit, but they're fat so fuck them.

[–]copralalic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they're fat, so fuck them

I imagine this might be a good tattoo. On second thought, nevermind, it gives the impression of being a chubby chaser. Still gave me a good laugh, though.

[–]Hatorader 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Same here, she'd get knocked the fuck out, and so would any female.

[–]systemshock869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do that in Walgreens, see what happens.

[–]an_absolute_rose 54 points55 points  (8 children)

My mother slapped me in a parking lot once. Out of reflex I almost hit her back.

I restrained myself and told her that she isn't ever going to touch me again. She seems to have gotten the point.

Women are women and sometimes they need to be reminded that you're a man.

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[–]1OneRedYear 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Same here. My mother tried to scratch my face. When I stopped her she told my father I raised my hand to her. Fortunately he talked to me instead of beatings. He told her I was 16, a man now, and don't try to hit a man in the face and expect him to do nothing. Dad was the best.

[–]BlackHeart89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a friend who use to go through the same shit with his parents. They would talk mad shit to him and even slap him sometimes. The moment he tried to defend himself or explain, they would say he was talking back and being disrespectful.

He lost some good friends and fucked up his credit for these people.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (1 child)

Meh, my mom hit me when I was around 14 years or so (to be clear I was being a dick and probably deserved it), it didn't hurt but she looked soo angry that I started laughing. This caused her to get angrier and hit me more, which made me laugh harder. Eventually she was hitting as hard as she possibly could and I was rolling on the ground covering my head dying of laughter because it just didn't hurt. I think she hurt her wrist while hitting me and realized the futility of what she was trying to do. She never tried it again.

[–]copralalic 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This was my brother's tactic. He pulled it off in 3rd grade.

Unintended consequence: all future punishments came from dad. Ouch.

[–]1independentmale 19 points20 points  (1 child)

I was 16 the first time my mom tried to hit me. I don't even remember what she was pissed about, but she came into my room angry at something and during a heated discussion she took a swing at me.

I saw it coming a mile away and grabbed her wrist mid-swing, she came at me with the other hand wide open for a slap. Caught that wrist too, then held on to both while she briefly struggled to break free. We were standing right in front of my bed, so I shoved her backwards. Bitch went flying. Landed on the bed and just curled up into a ball and cried.

I remember being really surprised how weak and fragile she was and how easily I stopped her. It took so little effort. I was used to dealing with dad, who was scary strong compared to me, like no fucking way could I defend against him.

This was a defining moment in my life. I think it was the time mom realized I was no longer a little boy. I'd already had a job for two years, was running a small side business, had a car, paid all my own bills and so on. She never tried to hit me again and backed way off on pretty much everything. Quit yelling at me and freaking out, in fact this was some 20 years ago and she hasn't had a freak out directed at me since.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most males go through this at some point in their childhood - they realize that they are taller/stronger than their mother. I was actually present when my friend first realized he was taller than his mother - both his mother and I burst out laughing because he was a good 4 inches taller than her at that point.

This is the point at which the quality of parenting becomes important. if the parents have managed to instill a sense of respect in their son, then this realization is no big deal. If the parents have pretty much been unfair jackasses, then this can become a “the tables have turned” situation, especially with a single mother or with a family where the father is away most of the time.

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[–]foldpak111 11 points12 points  (3 children)

It's like a man hitting a child. You're a man, just laugh and restrain her.

[–]copralalic 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Be careful of even restraining her, it can look like aggression. I like the laughing at her part, but it's not funny if that makes her grab a kitchen knife... hmm. This is a tough one, bears some careful thought.

[–]foldpak111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought of that after I wrote that lol so I edit that to just laugh. Try and leave is the best option.

[–]Grompher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Arm lock. Extremely painful and no bruises.

[–]Johnny_Tempest -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I got slapped by my half sister once. I cold cocked her. BOTH WAYS

She's dead now anyway.

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[–][deleted] 23 points24 points  (6 children)

Your sister sounds like an ex of mine. There was one day she had to take on a responsibility of his for a day cause he couldn't do it due to something else popping up in his life.

So how does she respond? Throws a temper tantrum, cries, and hits her brother (this girl was also 24 yo at the time..). To be fair though, she wasn't completely mentally stable and she was on some kind of medication(s) for her mental health. Still though, how fucking selfish can you be to throw a fit over helping out your brother with a simple fucking chore..

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedPillDad 43 points44 points  (5 children)

she wasn't completely mentally stable

Don't give selfish bitches that easy excuse. Mental instability can be the consequence of a narcissistic path, even if they claim it to be causation. Trash will keep playing whatever excuse/victim angles that work - maximizing the pussy pass for profit.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Mental instability is the female condition. Not a bug, but a feature.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is like buying an Xbox One and realizing that the government is spying on you with the camera in it.

[–]KHJohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)


Convenience doesn't make a decision/choice not a decision/choice.

[–]newls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is how many judges and legal people around the world justify giving females lesser sentences for the exact same crimes as men. It's also how Scotland's SJW government justified abolishing women's prisons but not men's.

[–]livelearndiee 19 points20 points  (4 children)

You tried to make her thoughts consistent? HOW DARE YOU?!

Edit: I can relate to OP, I also have a sister, 28 (still lives at home lol), my BP dad always lets her get her way, she disrespects me and him, I've given up on loving her and trying to get through to her because she's never going to listen to me and my dad doesn't keep her in check, once my dad asked her where she was going and she completely ignored him (not the first time that happened though) and I told him "don't you think that's disrespectful" he says "Yeah..." I told him "if you want to be my role model don't let her get away with that" and yet nothing happens. I'm stocking up on popcorn to see the day she hits the wall.

[–]foldpak111 4 points5 points  (3 children)

I'd be attacking my dad. Nothing works me up more than spineless men. As a man with strong personal boundaries, the most they'll get out of me is small talk.

[–]livelearndiee 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I feel like I can't attack him because he still provided for my survival needs, rides to school, etc. but just what I hate most is that I saw the world the way he did, of course our fathers are supposed to be our role models, but he is severely BP, I was brainwashed like him and let people treat me badly and do nothing about it, I just hated starting off on this world with a mangina disadvantage because I know if I grew up with a better role male model I would be more than I am today, currently 17 and I'm thankful I shifted before I got in too deep.

[–]foldpak111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky you made the transition that early. I too was fortunate, as I found this place last year at age 20. I love my dad, but you can love someone and not want to spend time with them.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Keep trying to instill redpill values in him. Keep encouraging him to stand up for himself and be a better man. Don't give up on him. You just might save his life and your family.

[–]ECoast_Man 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she better start brushing up on her feline knowledge.

[–]indlife 47 points47 points [recovered]

Women like your sister reap what they sow. Unfortunately I know a lot of fairly decent women who are suffering because the attitude of many guys has changed when it comes to marriage, LTRs, the future, etc.. If your sister changes her ways (hard to do if she is addicted to alcohol, which now is called "partying" because it doesn't sound as bad) she might get lucky and find a decent guy. However, any guy who never lived that lifestyle to the extent your sister has is likely going to reject her if she has had a lot of partners, casual sex, etc..

[–]copralalic 8 points9 points  (1 child)

However, any guy who never lived that lifestyle to the extent your sister has is likely going to reject her if she has had a lot of partners, casual sex, etc..

Nope, plenty of thirst betas out there who think the past doesn't matter...

[–]Andress1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep.These fuckers will never learn until its too late.Let them learn the hard way...

[–]p3ndulum 11 points12 points  (8 children)

My brother is raising his youngest, 8-year old daughter to be this girl.

He uses the "daddy's little princess" sweet-talk voice on her all of the time, and now she feels entitled to everything. She yells whens he doesn't get her way, talks back to everybody, never picks up after herself. She's messiest, loudest, rudest little cunt I've ever met.

She's also already asking boys if they have girlfriends in her internet chat room. It's some "planet hollywood" role playing shit.

My nephew, who is 2 years older than her, is already asking her for permission to do shit - like when it comes to picking television shows and movies to watch - because he knows he has no real value in the eyes of my blue pilled brother. If there are punishments and groundings to be handed out, he'll get his, while hers will just remain empty threats.

This girl is OP's sister-in-training. She'll find desperate boys who will give her the things she wants, but she will never be happy for any longer than the time it takes to swipe a credit card. But because she'll be an intolerable bitch, no man of any real value will want to have anything to do with her. And then she'll end up miserable and alone in her later days.

It's a catch 22 though, because raising girls is such a tricky thing. It seems that the nicer a father is to her daughter, the bigger the bitch she becomes, but it seems almost impossible for a father to not be nice to his daughter. Mix that with the female privilege that the outside world provides, and there's almost nothing we can do to change course.

[–]through_a_ways 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Women are just cuter and more adorable than men. Even at 3 years old.

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[–]4delicioustreats 1 point2 points  (1 child)

And if the father isnt nice and doesnt show her the true way of men? She'll have "daddy issues"

[–]p3ndulum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not just about the father. A father can do everything right inside the home, but that kid is still going to go to outside, where everything is about women and girls, and how they should be treated this way and that. Where they are never held accountable for anything.

Without society-wide support for "patriarchy", girls can't help but become assholes.

[–]laere 21 points22 points  (2 children)

My sister just had her wake-up call too, and there are other factors within it as well. Her answer: Having a baby with her BB boyfriend. He has a good job, his own house, car etc. She's 24, so her fertility age is still not bad, however she's a straight up fat cunt, always partied, road the CC, etc. So, I am going to assume the child will follow suit.

Main reason that accelerated her choice to having a kid? All her friends have kids, and to top it all off, every single one of them are single mothers. I can already see her boyfriends future ahead. The one thing he has going for him; not married to the bitch yet.

[–]newls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girls her age are having babies, getting engaged, and have big dates, and posting it all on Facebook. Women copy other women. Nothing is more important to a woman than what other women think of her.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to sit this guy down and tell him whats up. You cant let him become a slave to your horrible sister. That aint cool, man. No matter if he listens to you or not, you gotta tell him.

[–]frequentlywrong 8 points9 points  (0 children)

in what way is that a fuck up?

[–]Endorsed ContributorRunawayGrain 27 points28 points  (1 child)

Get ready, cause once the looks go all that will be left are the negative personality traits. She's going to go find a beta, lure him in, pop out a few kids, then have a monumentally shitty divorce after cheating on him. Once the money from that dries up, probably within a year, she will have to deal with the real world.

So you think she's a nasty specimen now? Wait until all of that is said and done.

[–]hebola4lyfe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So you think she's a nasty specimen now? Wait until all of that is said and done.

Exactly. Girls like Op's sister get even worst in their 30s and 40s. There is nothing good that will come out of this .

[–]ArrantPariah 17 points18 points  (25 children)

She sounds a lot like my annoying 20-year-old daughter.

[–]tuxedoburrito 13 points14 points  (11 children)

This is my nightmare as a man, I'm 24 and single no kids.

How do you deal with this?

[–]foldpak111 6 points7 points  (5 children)

Yeah I'll never procreate for fear of the baby being born a woman in this day. No matter what you do, she's going to get sucked into that lifestyle. Women are hyper aware of their social status and will do anything to climb up.

[–]through_a_ways 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Women are hyper aware of their social status and will do anything to climb up.

I wonder if this is one of the main things that keep women from pursuing more traditionally "male" interests.

It's true that boys have more of an intrinsic interest in traditionally male things, but I've heard anecdote after anecdote (and have seen them myself) about girls who had boy-typical interests in elementary school, only to become stereotypical girls sometime around middle school.

It's almost as if the hormones kick in and tell them what they're "supposed" to be.

[–]foldpak111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll agree that it's mostly hormones, but it's what's surrounding them that gives them the green light to behave that way (white knights and popular women).

[–]tuxedoburrito 2 points3 points  (2 children)

I'll get down voted for this but I believe there are good women out there

I have friends that are good women

It just takes a loving father to rear her well and a whole lot of luck. She doesn't have to be a succubus

[–]MightyTaint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are good women out there. But if a woman is a succubus, it doesn't necessarily mean her father wasn't good or didn't try to rear her well. It's possible of course. But modern society can be hard to overcome, despite doing everything right.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Marry a chick who has that sweet sense of decency, and raise her in a unisex kind of way, ie. no 'daddy's little princess', don't coddle the thing, you make that bitch mow the lawn like her brother has to. Be hard but fair from the start.

My buddy's sister turned out great this way.

[–]ArrantPariah 0 points1 point  (2 children)

For the most part, we don't talk to each other, unless she wants something from me.

[–]bunnylajoya8 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I hope you say no man, that's not right.

[–]ArrantPariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She already knows that my answer is "No", so she doesn't ask any more.

[–]cthulhucumsicle 7 points8 points  (5 children)

How did you fuck up your daughter? Please share your cautionary tale. Or what might you have done to protect her from society? Dad with baby girl here and hope Not To raise a bitch.


[–]ArrantPariah 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I suspect that a lot of sugar in her diet had something to do with it. Try to avoid letting them become addicted to soda-pop. It is hard to hold the line if your wife is on her side a lot of the time. So, I decided to stay out of it and let my daughter fight with her mother most of the time.

[–]cthulhucumsicle 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Thanks - I expect that wife and daughter will be the site of many battle royale as we go forward. But we are a "moderately paleo house" so sugar is not a problem - although she is a maniac for carbs, while my boy couldn't care less. He'd go all day eating beef and butter and veggies; daughter flips her shit if she does not get some sort of carb/starch to start the day.

I am a big believe that sugar is the devil. I know it fucked me up as a kid - always on highs and lows, chronic insomnia, hated athletics. I am easy to convince that sugar consumption breaks down the barriers for other bad behaviors. i.e.: if you are a kid and having sugar crashes, is it any surprise that you are going to have tantrums all the time? And if you have tantrums-then you will either get rewarded for them or you will get ignored for them - both unpleasant relationships with parents... so IMHO, a cycle of reinforcement for negative behaviors.

[–]ArrantPariah 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Another thing that you should do: keep her very busy with lots of lessons and activities (dance, music, gymnastics, etc.) from a young age, so that she will be less inclined to seek the friendship of destructive children. This seems to have worked with my youngest daughter.

[–]cthulhucumsicle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I plan to push sports as much as I can. I like to think that athleticism gives one a little more respect for the limits and needs of their body. Clear goals and actual return on investment in self. We shall see - she is definitely a "girl". Wired for emotion, social engagement and very interested in beautifying herself. That shit is monster fuckin' hard wired (just turned 2).

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (6 children)

You need to keep your slutty daughter in check.. That's on you pops.

[–]ArrantPariah 4 points5 points  (5 children)

Nothing I can do. One day, her boyfriend badly bruised her face. We called the police, but, she is over 18, and she refused to press charges, or to cooperate. In fact, she even threatened to tell the police that WE were the ones who punched her out, if we called them.

[–]copralalic 4 points5 points  (4 children)

Yeah, you're screwed. Sorry pops. Hopefully you have at least one other kid.

[–]ArrantPariah 4 points5 points  (3 children)

I have a younger daughter who is very sweet--pretty much the opposite of her older sister. But, as a great poet once said, "Your sons and your daughters are beyond your command. Your old world is rapidly aging...The times, they are a cha-aaa--anging."

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Atleast you have a shot with one of them. But the one thats already gone, you just gotta cuts ties and forget about her. Funny how when everyone cuts you out, you start to actually think about why they did it. Of course, in your daughters case, she will just blame society and how everyone is mean to her.

[–]ArrantPariah 0 points1 point  (1 child)

And, of course, she'll spend the next decade or so blaming her parents.

[–]GodlikeDraven 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't think you fucked up. That was a massive win. You're not trying to fuck her, so don't apply TRP in all aspects

[–]foldpak111 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She did this to herself. Proper women get in the gym and diet.

[–]Jokoran 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of people are telling you to put her down or rub her bad decisions in her face but you should really respect your family. Instead of demonizing her, understand that she is the product of shitty upbringing just like any other BP man. Don't let her drive herself to rock bottom. Get her help and send her on a different path. This isn't some random slut we're talking about here, it's your sister.

Do the job your father wasn't able to do and fix her. No it's not beta for you to take care of her much like it isn't beta to take care of a brother, cousin, mother... etc.

If you let her continue like this then you will regret it for the rest of your life. And yes, she will be around for the rest of your life unless she dies from drugs or suicide.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So I say, "But looks don't matter!" in a mockingly tone. Oh she lost it...

Now that was a shiv. Well done!

[–]1RXRob 14 points15 points  (1 child)

Perfect response. Well done OP

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Teasing the bratty sister is game 101. Never stop doing this with women

[–]1favours_of_the_moon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she has used her appearance to get what she wanted throughout her life and she is now realizing that they're fading away and doesn't have anything else to offer the world except a Social Work degree. Earlier that day, I overheard my aunt and mother talking. My aunt said that my sister looks terrible and that her body is beginning to sag and that I look healthier and happier than I ever have(lifting and nutrition ftw).

(Here's where I fuck up) I've always been angry with her because of how she's treated me and other people. So I say, "But looks don't matter!" in a mockingly tone. Oh she lost it...

I'm sure she deserves what she's going to get, but real consequences for her are unlikely. She'll nail down some Beta simp who will provide for her, while she she still spreads it out for whatever Alpha she can pull on the side.

If she gets bored, she'll take "his" kids and bow out with cash and prizes.

[–]americanmook 3 points4 points  (2 children)

What's with the deleted comments?

[–]shadowq8 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Someone made a post somewhere along the lines of Fuck her and dump her, or make her a plate.

[–]rangamatchstick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha fuck her, she deserved it.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

"But looks don't matter!" in a mockingly tone. Oh she lost it...

What a cliffhanger, this is the entertaining part. What did she say? Did she throw anything?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said, "Come here"! while motioning with her finger. I didn't do anything because every time she has done this in the past, even while I've been driving on the goddamn interstate, she has hit me.

[–]ghostbrainalpha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's complaining about losing weight.... She hasn't REALLY hit the wall yet.

[–]AntixD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you didn't fuck up you fucking awesome brother you

[–]bama79rolltide 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whenever she goes out, she never brings money. Why? "Somebody else will pay for me."

I can't blame her. If this continues to happen, why should she adapt? This isn't anything new.

even though she is pretty much dead to me because of how she treats other people and will literally hit me if I don't give her what she wants(one time, we were in a store and she told me to buy her some hair dye because she blew all of her money at a club the previous night. When I said "no", she slapped me right there in front of everybody.)

You should have called the police to scare the fuck out of her. She doesn't respect you, and she probably got away with it. This assuredly would have been the end of our relationship, had this been my sister.

Based on the situation, you have two choices. You can continue to be her brother, forgive her (since she is blood only) and put her in her place. Do not approve of her childish behavior. It sounds like nobody has stood up to her. If you do this, she will respect you the rest of your life.

Or, let her continue to be the manipulative whore she already is.

[–]daveofmars 1 point2 points  (1 child)

My sister is, or was, just as much of a train wreck. I don't know about her party side because I don't want to know.

She joined a sorority chapter that was closed at her university within a year or two. She chose to take on all these responsibilities and then failed two whole semesters as a result. Then, roomed with someone who was toxic, and chose to live with them a second time despite all of us telling her different. Switched majors multiple times because they were too hard. Chose to go back to school instead of taking time off for medical stuff and ended up failing out again. She can't control her weight because she eats nothing but bread/pasta.

And she ended up going through 30 grand from my dad's life insurance in less than six months. I have no idea how she could possibly do that while still living at home.

But it all comes down to people coddling these girls. Every time one of them screws up there is a legion of guys bailing them out, so they never get an accurate sense of cause and effect, until they're 24 and crying into their mattress.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oxycontin. There's your answer as to where the 30k went.

[–]LexisNexiss[🍰] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you. She will find some sucker BP dude to take care if her possibly. Maybe bros are becoming wiser and nowadays realize the inscenceraty and not even deal witn

[–]bakbakgoesherthroat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've posted the same exact story before. Either you're trolling or you have a habit of repeating yourself

[–]evilassaultweapon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, glad my sister seems to have learned respect for others in college and not t'other way round. I guess STEM tends to do that to people.

edit: typo

[–]UlyssesElias 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your sister sounds absolutely awful….

[–]R3v4mp3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she were my sister I would've slapped her back. I believe in 100% equality; the closer people are to me, the more they know that this law is gold for me. I have warned all my girlfriends never to hit me because I'd hit them back.

I've rarely had to hit back and until now when I did I never got in trouble since I hold my ground when white knights come: "is this your business? Am i beating her now? She's moaning cuz she's stupid. Can you mind your own business please?".

Even the slightest punch in the stomach makes a girl cease. You don't have to beat the shit out of her, nor gently pat her on the back. Be swift and make sure that you do it strong enough and with a good mindset and hold your ground! You're sending a message that this is just a warning and next time you will really hit her.

None of the few that I was ever forced to hit (less than 5 out of more than two dozen girlfriends) hated me after or sought revenge. They actually respected me and learned not to treat me like their ragged plush toy.

Some will advocate to "disarm" her by overpowering and holding her still with her arms behind their backs; tried it, it just calms them for the moment but the issue will come back. I understand the "don't hit women" part but I'm sorry, I won't be a woman's punching bag!

[–]Thethrowawayoption 3 points3 points [recovered]

You sister sounds awful, but to get one term straight: 25 is not usually "the wall". Most women still look amazing until or even for a bit after 30. I'd put a lot of money on that your sister is looking shitty because she's partying too hard and not taking care of herself rather than that she's really hitting the wall.

[–]monzzter221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The faster they go the faster it comes.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

It's weird honestly for men we, if we put effort in our lives just get better whilst at the same time women just decline in time. It's like men are born old and die young sort of like that movie with brad pitt in it

[–]Spiral-knight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Men come into the world with nothing. Over the course of our lives we can chose to improve ourselves. Amassing knowledge and social value that will continue to accumulate until either we die, and are keenly missed. Or mental decline leaves the memory of our prime. When we peak we're remembered while women enter the world with every advantage, but like a loaf of bread they have a relatively short life.

While it lasts they can be desirable but once that time passes there's no getting it back. They can make themselves more desirable and combat time to a limited degree. But it is always a loosing battle

[–]epixs 1 point2 points  (3 children)

My sister is like this except more into the I'm in love of feminism and we are so opressed trend. She's going to college next year, I'm just gonna sit back and watch her burn after the 4 years. I did my best to explain to her that she should go to the public state college near our parents house so she could commute to school and be able to focus on her studies, instead she throws a fit and decides to attend some far away university so she can "experience colllege" .


I honestly know theirs no point in fighting her since my dads given up and I'm to focused with med school to go home and lay the law down.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (2 children)

Your dad is simply trading money for her not being a pain in his ass. You are right, hes given up. This shows the exact way that women manipulate men until they just dont give a shit anymore and then the bitch gets the money because the guy just wants her to shut up.

[–]epixs 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Exactly, it's pretty fucked up how raising a girl in todays society is a loss-loss scenario either way.

Too strict? Rebels and goes and sucks massive dick. Treat her like a princess? Still sucks dick and has dad sponsor her trips across the world.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully you can still control the "sponsoring" her part. Dont do it. Keep your bucks and let her work for her money. She wants to suck dick, thats her call.

[–]NeoreactionSafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"So I say, "But looks don't matter!" in a mockingly tone. Oh she lost it..."

That gave me a big smile...

Tell her that when the looks fade her Game has to improve. She can learn Charm and add 2-3 points to a declining SMV and do pretty well.


If she is unwilling to learn Game she's finished with the Cock Carousel and will be hitting the Wall and if she can't turn things around will become the Cat Lady.

Spoiled women are foolish women. (No Charm)

[–]-Quotidian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a hilarious read. You don't need me to point out how much of an entitled bitch your sister is, and it sucks that your sister's an entitled bitch to begin with, but remember that her decline is just beginning while your decline will only become inevitable when your body and mind can no longer keep up with your spirit.

If she was less contemptible I'd suggest you advise her to eat better and take care of yourself, but I too have a sister and know how pointless that would be. Good luck, and enjoy life outside the Matrix.

[–]Cubixdealer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha thats a great respone imo

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised if this was my ex. Also identical behavior...

[–]RoseEsque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo... whats with the deleted top comment?

[–]1Soarinc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha, that was a "start my day on something positive" (6am here US East Coast) and it was brilliantly written!

[–]monzzter221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dude, she sounds like my sister, except batshit crazy.

Mines normal, just the usual female issues. Thinks it will last forever, never really considered becoming interesting, doesn't consider a man a priority, the usual shit.

She's gotten a little cunty when I don't give her something she wants or buy her something at the store.

She doesn't fucking slap me in public.

One thing I figured out. You can't tell them. They aren't going to listen. These days with all the power woman bullshit on TV none of them see the wall coming. Even when they start to see it, they ignore it coming. They wish it away. Last ditch effort they try to play catch up or be a little forceful with men. It isn't til its too late that they start trying to do the right things, like take men seriously, acknowledge their importance, take care of their bodies.

But they won't hear a word. Our generation of women are going to be some disappointed 40 year olds and that includes our sisters and some of our daughters. There is absolutely nothing you can do about it.

[–]SpeedMetalPunker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Here's where I fuck up) I've always been angry with her because of how she's treated me and other people. So I say, "But looks don't matter!" in a mockingly tone. Oh she lost it...

You did the right thing here. Don't let her forget that. Throw her hypocritical bullshit right back at her.

[–]Neroky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your fuck up, it´s pretty funny. :D

[–]U96Q69 1 points1 points [recovered]

Hair dye is usually containing carcinogens, prolong usage is bad, I stay away from people who is using it.

[–]Riddick_ 2 points3 points  (1 child)

That's the least of problems when you are 24. This chick has a mental crater the size of Mexico. Her bro knows that first hand.

[–]DrinksCrystalKush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pic of sister and you or it didnt happen

[–]adamlikesprettygirls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sister sounds like she has a personality disorder. Trying to frame it as primarily a BP/RP thing probably won't help with that.

Shit on her if you're a dick and you want to feel better about yourself, but what she really needs is therapy

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where's your sis at, I'll call her up.

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