a couple of years ago, my soon to be ex wife asked to open the marriage. blue pill me was devastated. But i figured, if this is what we're going to do, i'm going to do it right. started down a long path of self improvement. Went to therapy, which i found helpful, but like most things you get out of it what you put into it.

after nine months or so started meeting women, STBX wasn't pleased about the whole situation. But steady progression, reading the sidebar, trying lots of stuff, and keeping what works, i improved. a lot. Around last christmas, had my first real red pill experience. Standing at a party with my wife and 2 plates. They knew each other but didn't know about me. Interesting conversation to hold.

Got a fantastic new job. New place. I'm just starting to understand what's possible, and what's possible is just about anything. The last few days were unreal. Met a couple girls at a show and my first threesome. Fucked a different girl in a fast food restaurant bathroom. it's nuts.

90% is being prepared for anything. Opportunities pop up all the time. Put yourself in a position to take advantage of those opportunities whenever you want.

Life is different now. So much freedom. It's pretty great.