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Tl;dr A textbook Nice guy realized what he was doing wrong and found happiness for the first time since childhood.

Imagine a guy who wants to be nice to everyone. A guy so nice, he would sacrifice his happiness so that he would not offend people around him. He had many friends who took advantage of him. Meanwhile, he had a secret life. A life where he felt like shit. A life where he knew he is not good enough. A life where he masturbated once or twice a day to different kinds of porn. The type of porn got weirder day by day. Let us call this guy Raj.

Luckily, one fine day Raj found out that he has problems with porn. He realized that he’s using porn as a drug. He started searching in Internet about the bad effects of porn. He came across a video about it in youtube. In this video, the orator mentions about a certain sub in reddit.com where people who has problems with porn problem find “cure”.

Tedx: The great Porn expiriment by Gary Wilson: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

Inspired by this video, Raj starts a NoFap challenge. After some relapses, he succeeds and quits porn and masturbation for over 6 months. In the meantime, he starts Lifting, Running and Meditating. Raj’s life gets a dramatic turn. He knows that he is unhappy in his life. But, he is not sure what is causing this unhappiness. He realizes that one of the reasons is that his financial dependency on his Parents. He cannot do much about it since he is still in College. He concentrates more on studies and starts preparing for interviews in future.

Raj is in great shape now. Many girls around him are showing interest in him. He is finding it easy to get into a relationship. But, for some strange reason none of the relationships last. Everytime this happens, Raj goes into depression. He has so many friends who are girls. Raj has crush on some of them. But, nearly all of them have friendzoned him. Raj doesn’t understand this. He thinks, “I am such a nice guy. Why don’t have a nice girlfriend. It happens all the time in movies?”. Raj comes across a post in NoFap subreddit which says “Nice guys fap a lot, and don’t get laid. Here’s why”: http://archive.is/NFlRB

Raj realizes that he is one of the nice guys(Bill) described in this book. He starts the breakfree exercises mentioned in the book and feels much better. Raj now realizes that the source of his unhappiness is his people pleasing habit. Raj gradually changes this habit and concentrates on his preferences and goals. He looses few friends but he gains some genuine ones. He posts on NoFap thanking the person who introduced him to the book. Some random user recommends TheRedPill to Raj. Raj is curious about red pill. Ohh, I have forgot to mention. Raj loves reading. He reads the sidebar, the red pill handbook, The book of Pook, The Rational male, The 48 Laws of power, etc. Raj is astonished, he cannot believe what he is reading. However, on the other hand so many things starts making sense to him now.

Raj is already in good shape thanks to NoFap challenge. His anxiety problems are gone thanks to NoFap again. He has recently got an amazing job (His dream job). He is meditating. He is no longer affected by emotional manipulations of his mom. He has great buddies. He starts applying what he learnt in trp. He distances himself from most of his girl-friends. He stops taking girls on coffee/walk/dinner dates. He takes them to action dates, escalates as quickly as he can and go for the lay. He takes care that he is not emotionally attached to any girl now.

He has also realized that he should stop whining about his problems and start working on them. People want to be friends with him now. People respect him at his work place. His life is changed for good. He is clear about his goals in life. More importantly, Raj feels like a man now!

Thank you TRP! Thank you Pook!


[–]Jokerx701 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good stuff

[–]youlovethisish0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What sort of action dates?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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