Red Pill TheoryThe Red Pill, You & Morality (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan

Edit: I hit the character limit when I submitted this post, so I'm going to edit this up a bit and add the rest of what I wanted to say into a blog post. Will edit the link in to that here when it's done.

Updated version: http://illimitablemen.com/2015/05/19/the-red-pill-you-morality/

You can choose not to be a snake and not betray a man you respect because you are a man of principle. You can choose not to fuck another man's girl, whether he's a close friend or not because one of the principles you follow in your life is the golden rule:

"I wouldn't want a guy fucking my girl, so I won't fuck another guy's girl." Or "do unto others as they do unto you"

Moral principles aren't blue pill. Thinking that everyone has the same principles as you, and that most people don't succumb (or even value) incentive over principle, is.

Modern men who prioritize sex and utilitarianism above principles; men who prioritise incentives over an innate sense of justice we all possess don't want to hear that.

They don't want to observe another man's moral code, one that holds that man to a higher standard of behaviour than he subjects himself to. Because for the ruthless Machiavellian, the pragmatist, justice is an obstruction to his desires.

They think "Does this guy think he's better than me? Why is he trying to preach his principles like religion or something? The best way is the way that works, he's naive for having principles. Period."

These people, the "amoral bandwagon" as I call them, like to prioritise incentive over justice. These people make shit friends and business partners. Incentive cares about what you get out of it. Justice cares about "what the right thing to do is." These people violate justice because there is an incentive to do so. That doesn't make them evil in the satanic meaning of the word, but it does make them prone to immorality. These people know what they're doing will hurt others, they just don't give a shit.

"Doesn't matter, had sex."

And then without a hint of irony the same guy who said that is going to be pissed when he finds out his baby mother just sucked off some guy behind a dumpster. He wants other people to respect his dignity and not violate him, but he doesn't give a shit about violating others.

Humans are emotional people, emotional people follow principles and have certain codes of behaviour they follow.

Having one guiding policy "do whatever and fuck whoever to get what you need" is destructive. Some people are like that. There were always people like that. Fuck it, whatever. That's their choice. In some situations, we advise that. But do these people really have a moral pedestal to say "you have principles and therefore you're an idiot who doesn't get TRP?" - No. Shut up.

You can understand the game and keep your principles if you want to. Just realise that to live up to your principles, you will sacrifice incentives. If you have a particularly strong sense of justice, you will never live out RP philosophy fully.

To be honest, to fully live out TRP philosophy in your life, you'd have to be incredibly immoral. To be amoral is to be psychopathic, because amorality is neutrality, it is factual, it is devoid of human emotion. Human action is not amoral, only strategy/knowledge itself is. Do you see the disconnect there?

The world is not a fair place, sometimes you may need to be immoral to simply survive, but there's no need to glorify that shit. If it's necessary, and you're not simply indulging yourself, then so be it. But there's a difference between stealing to eat and stealing because "who's gonna stop me?" And guys who get the game but choose not to steal other people's girls, or scam people out of money in sales aren't blue pillers. They simply have stronger moral principles than you. Maybe they can afford to have those principles and survive, and you can't, it simply is what it is.

TRP is here to show you how the game works, not to tell you how to live your life. We give advice when asked, sure, but you live the way that suits you best. You own your choices.

TRP is amoral in the sense that it says "it is what it is.":

Hypergamy? It is what it is.

Branch swinging to the next best thing? It is what it is.

Alpha fucks, beta bucks? It is what it is.

Women have innate value whilst men don't? It is what it is.

You can't change these things, you can build a culture designed to subvert these things, but they're not going anywhere. The reason the west is falling apart is because we don't subjugate these things like we used to.

Peel back all the bullshit, and you see women, as well as a lot of men on this board, are immoral creatures. I don't intend that to be a value judgement, but without getting into some bullshit philosophical argument and redefining what good and bad are (been done to death and people always try to whore up my time with this nonsense) we all know what good and bad is innately.

If you violate someone else's rights because there is incentive for you (stealing, adultery etc) that's bad. Some philosophical ideas preach otherwise (Nietzsche and social darwinism comes to mind,) but these are simple redefinitions of reality from a metaphysical or scientific perspective. You are not mathematics, burying yourself in abstraction will not immunise you to human instincts.

It doesn't matter if DNA and atoms are amoral, and that you're a collection of atoms and DNA that is in an amoral competition. The combination of all those things in tandem gave you a sense of justice. You have a revenge instinct. Your sense of justice and need for revenge are the basis for all moral guiding principles. You're part of a game that is not adequately represented by maths and physics. Those things can't explain morality in a useful manner, because morality is only part logic, the rest is the intangibility of emotion.

If a guy doesn't want a life of ruthless Machiavellianism and unbridled hedonism, that's his choice. Just like MGTOW, PUA or being a patriarch with a family is a choice. None of which are "right choices" but simply "are." As long as he understands that this won't stop other people from living that kind of life, and that women are immoral, he's good. If he takes action to defend himself from people who respond only to incentives and disincentives and ignore moral principles based upon justice/injustice, then he's good.

People will always debate shit to death out of the principle of "demonstrating superiority," but most people who advocate for immoral behaviour don't even have the conviction to call what they're advocating for immoral. They know it's immoral, they know fucking someone's wife and breaking up that family is immoral. But they rather call it amoral and say "well she was going to ruin that marriage anyway." "If he was alpha enough she wouldn't be cheating on him, so he deserves it." "I have no commitment to that other guy, I don't even know him, so if his girl wants my dick, I'm going to press that." If that doesn't sound like bullshit to you, I don't know what to say.

The guy is complicit, he's an accessory to a whore's immorality, but because pussy is on offer, he doesn't care.

When you try to call that shit AMORAL, you care - a lot. You don't want people to think of you as immoral, so you try to say it's not good or bad but that it just simply "is." That family falling apart, or a relationship falling apart isn't your fault. If you give a girl dick who is in monogamy, that's always immoral, because you violated another man's rights.

In agreed monogamy, you have rights over exclusive sexual access, when those rights are breached, immorality has occurred. Now if you have some open shit going, and your girl fucks another guy, then you knew the score. You may be butthurt, but you weren't betrayed. You were complicit. Complicit like the guy who knew he was fucking a taken girl but whose horniness overrode any moral principles he may otherwise adhere to. Betrayal is the key act that evokes a need for revenge. When betrayal occurs, so does immorality.

"Bro-knighting" (a faggy term if I've ever heard one) is an issue of moral contention on this sub. It is men of different moral principles (and some without) essentially bickering what the right thing to do is when it comes to fucking a whore who is currently the sexual property of another man. I'm going to tell you now, I don't think this subreddit can tell you what the fuck to do. You have to figure that shit out for yourself.

We can present balanced arguments, we can tell you the benefits of immorality vs. the benefits of morality, and combined with your own pain and experiences you will make a choice on how you choose to live your life based upon that. Sometimes you may violate your own principles because you can't keep your instincts in check, you're fallible after all.

Telling you how to fuck someone over, as a "sexual strategy" is amoral. Actually doing that and infringing on someone else's rights and causing emotional pain? That's immoral. Every man must decide "do I want strong moral principles that I want to live by, or do I want to behave however I need to behave to get what I want?"

And neither is red or blue pill. It simply "is." All choices and strategies are amoral, it's the act itself and how it affects others which is moral or immoral. People in this community who have chosen immoral lifestyles want to sell it as amoral. But that's disingenuous face-saving bullshit.

If you're going to be immoral, own it, don't come up on the sub and act like folk with moral principles are "blue pillers" because even though they understand how fucked up the game is, they want to adhere to certain guiding moral principles in their life.

A lot of people on TRP confuse amorality with delusion. They are different things. Amorality is simply stating what works in a scientific and pragmatic manner. Delusion is believing in something that is not true.

So if you understand the game, but refuse to adapt to it - you are not blue pill, you are simply defiant, stubborn.

You know some of you are fucking your guy's girlfriends and sisters and shit. That is fucked up you know. You don't deserve a wolf pack when you're pulling moves like that.

Trust is a commodity. You need to adhere to certain moral principles whilst demanding others live up to the same moral principles to ensure that the bond of trust is not broken. People who are constantly out for themselves end up alone because there's a lack of trust on all sides. No trust = relationships fall apart.

Why do men instinctually almost have close to zero trust for women? Because we know they're immoral creatures. We know they don't give a fuck. They must be regulated. If you've read TRP you know these women will do whatever is necessary to ensure their own well-being. They don't have a higher mode of thought, they just run off biological programming and do whatever to "get theirs."

You can call that amoral if there's no malice behind it, but regardless the pain it causes across society is anything but. We used to check female behaviour with man's sense of justice posing as divinely ordained, and then impose this on society as a whole. But now men have lost control; female morality runs the show. And plenty of guys are adopting a feminine view of morality to "get ahead."

If you think morality is a wholly rational process, it isn't. Even in the intellectualism of Nietzcshe's master-slave morality or Ragnar Redbeard's "Might is Right" you can sense a certain hatred and contempt for weakness that inverses traditional morality as we know it. In fact, in a perverse way, I would say it something akin to natural female morality. As it seems all but apparent that hypergamy is the basis of female morality - what enriches her is good, what doesn't, is bad. It ignores other people's need for justice and is entirely self-serving. Sound familiar? In a way one could say TRP is the female strategy applied to male interests.

Vice becomes virtue, and virtue becomes vice. Women are without honour unless they are taught and shamed into having some. They don't possess the natural sense of honour that men do, although, it would seem in this age of emasculation, more and more men are taking on female traits to "adapt" and "win."

Look at society now. That is unsuppressed female sexuality running wild. Corrupt the women and the men will follow, because when men lose control on a cultural level they individually adapt themselves to succeed in a feral mating climate. That is what happens when we say "stop locking up your daughters and confining sex to marriage, let's have a mass orgie." Sex pushes people towards immorality to get an orgasm and feel powerful. The bonds of family, and thus civilization, are destroyed; one adulterous orgasm at a time.

Neither the immoral/amoral or moral guy are really right in what they do. The immoral guy is "right" in he acquires the most incentives. The guy with strong principles is "right" in the sense he causes the least pain in the world. These aren't absolutes, you will do moral and immoral things throughout your life.

Do I think the guy who leans more towards morality is blue pill? No. He is a man of principle. Choosing to have principles regardless of reality doesn't make you blue pill. What makes you blue pill is not understanding reality and telling yourself that things that aren't real are in fact, real. The blue pill is accepting dogma over the nature of how things work.

So if you understand the game and decide you're going to be an upstanding guy, as long as you understand fully what is going on, you understand other people aren't going to play along to your tune, but DO YOU ANYWAY - then you're not deluded. You simply refuse to become immoral to be more successful. You value your principles more than financial or sexual success. That is rare, but good for you. In a success driven capitalist culture people will view you as weak for that, but it's a mature decision we all must make.

The game is fucked up, I know that better than most, and trying to normalise betrayal, deceit and double-crossing as the status quo is indicative of that. It's cultural regression.

Don't do everything TRP tells you. Honestly, pick and choose to apply what you read here. As much as dark triad theory helps one acquire incentives for instance, I don't want to create a cult of wannabe psychopaths who try to medicate their pain and poverty through ruthlessness. So check yourself on that shit. As with everything, moderation. Anything taken to it's utmost extremity is insane. We've seen that with what feminism turned into.

Alright, I'm done. Peace.


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[–]Senior ContributorOmLaLa 163 points164 points  (27 children)

This is one of the best articles I've read on The Red Pill in a long time.

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[–]sp0radic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

newbe's, read the fucking sidebar before you try to lecture others on RPT.

Seriously. I think this might be my first comment here, but I've been frequenting for several months now. I've read a large amount of the suggested reading, and it's invaluable.

Before I found /r/theredpill and the amazing resources contained within, I was dealing with a pretty intense breaking down of my own cognitive dissonance regarding issues that related very much to the entire blue pill vs red pill theory/debate. That was far from the first of such cognitive dissonance barriers I had broken down, but easily the most physically and emotionally trying one.

The books and blogs linked in the sidebar are priceless. This post is amazing. The mods and submitters here do a fantastic job of keeping this place a consistent source of high quality literature and discussion.

Thank you.

[–]Tainted_OneX 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There is so much mental gymnastics in this post, I'd almost think it was written by a liberal SJW. Everyone has their own set of morals, if you don't feel bad fucking someone's wife, whatever go do it. But don't write up an article trying to convince me to be okay with it.

[–]TRP VanguardTRPsubmitter_ 29 points30 points  (18 children)

Bro Knighting has been a problem here for a long time, at least a year.

It's why Field Reports are almost non-existent anymore, because any encounter that doesn't involve a 100% single woman is deemed as being complicit in making women behave badly, when in fact, these women are acting on their natural impulses and aren't being taken advantage of at all. Plus, no attractive woman is ever 100% single in the eyes of her friendzone admirer or half-boyfriend, who has staked a claim on her in his deluded mind.

The real truth is you are your own man and can fuck anyone you want, no matter what anyone says (or posts) about your over-reaching (on one hand) versus non-existent (on the other hand) sense of morality. Who gives a fuck? You will either deal with the consequences or there will be none at all.

[–]TheRiseAndFall 33 points34 points  (12 children)

Wait, time out for a second. You are replying in agreement to a statement about this article being good, but your statement contradicts the message. He is saying that trying to fuck a girl you know is in a relationship is not something we should aspire to do. It is harmful is a violation of trust, a lack of respect, and such thinking on a large scale is corruptive to society.

Yes, he states that people are free to do as they will, but it is a sign of strength, not weakness to have principles, even if society as a whole is not of mind.

Did I misunderstand his point? I feel like I am being trolled right now, because your statement is the opposite of the article.

[–]sp0radic 8 points9 points  (3 children)

The way I read and understood it... well here, let me take a few lines from the submission to help.

Moral principles aren’t blue pill. Thinking that everyone has the same principles as you, and that most people don’t succumb (or even value) incentive over principle, is.

This post started off with the reference to the golden rule and my jaw dropped, because it had been for the most part the driving influence in my own moral compass and principles. After reading No More Mr. Nice Guy, I realized that while my driving influence (the golden rule) remained unchanged, my understanding of it and interpretation of it did significantly.

Previously, I saw it as "I don't want to live in a world where people do shit that annoys me, so I'm going to make sure I don't do anything that I would find annoying."

"Be the change...," right?

Yeah, if everyone else felt that way, and everyone prioritized morals over incentives, the world would be great.

You know what? It's not like that.

The red pill philosophy is amoral in the sense that it says “it is what it is.”

Hypergamy? It is what it is.

Branch swinging to the next best thing? It is what it is.

Alpha fucks, beta bucks? It is what it is.

Women have innate value whilst men don’t? It is what it is.

In agreed monogamy, you have rights over exclusive sexual access, when those rights are breached, immorality has occurred.

I've come to feel that whatever agreements/commitments you make in any relationship are your responsibility to uphold. Agreements/commitments between others are their own responsibilities.

“Bro-knighting” (a ridiculous term if I’ve ever heard one) is an issue of moral contention within the red pill subreddit. It is men of different conventional moral principles (and some without) essentially bickering what the right thing to do is when it comes to fucking a whore who is currently the sexual property of another man. I’m going to tell you now, I don’t think this philosophy can tell you what to do in such a situation. You have to figure that out for yourself.

This whole article is very relevant to a lot of internal debate I've been having. Here's how I see it.

I was in a monogamous relationship for 9.5 years. After some exposure to /r/theredpill it was clear that sometimes the change can be made (BP->RP) while in a LTR and the relationship can survive and sometimes flourish, but seemed like it was often a difficult transition that a lot of relationships couldn't weather.

My relationship (28M/27F, together since the first semester of college) had been rocky for a long time, ups and downs like crazy, but we had each seen the other through a lot of difficult times and while I spent most of that time pretty solidly BP, spending nearly 10 years in a serious LTR with someone is going to create a pretty strong bond no matter what your personal worldview and philosophy is.

I mentioned No More Mr. Nice Guy above, and in that book it talks about the difficulties of making changes while in a relationship, and advised that if one were serious about it, they would have their partner read it. I requested/strongly advised my partner to read it, and she did, and it was incredibly helpful, but also created problems of its own.

Early in our relationship, after it came out that she was my first sexual partner, she stated she wanted me to have sex with someone else before we were married. I declined, for a multitude of reasons, and the topic continued to come up occasionally and her opinion remained unchanged.

Eventually it was dropped, but then several months ago someone came along that made me want to take her up on that offer. We then discussed the issue in depth, and it came out that she had wanted it to be someone of her choosing/approval (obviously someone of lower SMV than what she perceived her own as being) that wouldn't be a threat to the future of our relationship. I stated that I now understood (maybe?) her wanting me to experience sex with other(s) before making a lifelong commitment to her and that frankly, it would be necessary.

This went over better than I'm sure it would in a lot of agreed monogamous LTRs, but still was a pretty big incident. We ended up renegotiating our relationship terms from "agreed monogamy" to "agreed polygamy" with the understanding that I could make no guarantees about the future of our relationship (Man controls the relationship, woman controls the sex?) if she did something/someone that lowered my respect for her.

This conversation wasn't exactly out of nowhere, as we had discussed polyamory over a few months prior to all of this going down, so we had laid some groundwork and had an idea of where each other stood on the subject. That's a whole other can of worms that I won't go into here.

The relationship was hanging by a thread, and I was going to spend some time with this new girl I was interested no matter what, because based on the circumstances, I knew if I didn't it would be something I would regret for a long time.

The status of my LTR was very unclear, and I wasn't going to pull any blue pill shit with this girl I was interested in. I had made plans with her, and stopped home to grab some condoms, because part of our "renegotiation" was that we would always practice safe sex outside of the relationship.

I didn't expect my partner to be home at the time, but she was. I unabashedly grabbed some condoms, and she freaked out because she knew I had plans with this girl and she knew what I was thinking. I told her I didn't know what was going to happen that night and that I wanted to be prepared. For the sake of brevity, let's just say I ended up discovering the power of Dread Game and was astonished.

We ended up modifying my end of that polygamous agreement to "open to girls my partner doesn't have to interact with on a regular basis" which in this case was difficult, as we all worked at the same place.

But I agreed to that, and stopped pursuing/thinking about this new girl, because I still valued our relationship, and by that point had gotten through The Power of Now, Models, The Selfish Gene, Mindset, The Blank Slate, and Awaken the Giant Within; all of which greatly influenced my perception of myself and the world around me, as well as how I lived my life.

I've lost myself, and maybe my entire point. But maybe someone will read this and find some value in it. I know I will probably come back to it.

Edit: Oh yeah, let me try to wrap this up.

After the last paragraph about my LTR, we had a rough several months, with me continuing to make progress and changes in my daily life towards RP ways. She couldn't deal with it anymore because she couldn't see the reason behind a lot of my actions, and even when I tried to explain things, it didn't work. So I simply said "I'm done." one day a few weeks back, and that was it.

When I said "I'm done." I wasn't even exactly sure what I was saying, but in the hours following I figured it out, I was done explaining myself when I knew that it would result in miscommunication and fighting, which meant I wasn't going to be explaining myself very much.

We had a good few weeks after that, but in the end she couldn't deal with it, said as much, and moved out, ending our relationship. I'm going to continue increasing my SMV daily for a very long time. I harbor no hard feelings, and I wish her well. I'm curious to find what the future holds for both of us.

Edit2: Reading through the article again, this really stuck out to me.

Some think that fucking a friend’s girlfriend, sister, or whatever is okay. That is fucked up shit. You don’t deserve a wolf pack when you’re pulling moves like that.

This has led me to change my social circle in a pretty harsh (and to the outsider, probably quite callous) manner, because you can't change other people. You can only affect what you do, and what you're willing to tolerate. So people that acted in ways that were intolerable to me were cut out of my life. I am so much better because of it.

TLDR: On the issue of morals, principles, and how you live your life and treat others -

You have to figure that out for yourself.

[–]TheRiseAndFall 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Models and No More Mr. Nice Guy have changed my thinking. I found those books have made me to look at my motivations for what I do more so than why others do what they do. Because of that, I think they are more valuable than most of the other books commonly recommended here on the sub. However, when reading Models, I find a lot of the ideas to be contrasting to what is often discussed here and discussed by PUAs like David DeAngelo, Tyler, and Roosh.

I am still digesting the pill, and maybe I am just reading on three different topics and not yet understanding how they all fit together, much like how at first I did not understand how the materials in Calc III, Differential Equations, and Linear Algebra fit into my engineering classes.

[–]sp0radic 0 points1 point  (1 child)

The list of books I've worked my way through is longer than I thought, and as you've noticed, there is a lot of conflicting information. It's also amazing how they build on each other, to the point that I'm re-reading a lot of the more valuable ones (currently re-reading The 48 Laws of Power... Robert Greene might be my favorite non-fiction author.) and it's clear that they contain even more than they did in the first read through.

An extremely valuable skill is to be able to take in works from all points of view and be able to separate the wheat from the chaff and extract the information that will allow you to improve yourself and those lucky enough to be in your wolf pack.

MRA and PUA communities share things with TRP, but have many aspects to them that I want no association with.

TRP is viewed as bad (or worse?) than them but at it's core seems to drive at improving yourself and becoming a better man. How can so many people hate on that?

Oh right, because it kicks the pussy off the pedestal and exposes "feminism" and "equality" for what they really are, while at the same time empowering men lucky/smart enough to be exposed to the ideas behind TRP and digest them and incorporate them into the way they live their lives.

[–]2wiseclockcounter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think his point, "who gives a fuck" should tell you all you need to know about his stance as it relates to the OP.

However, his other point is pretty important: that you will be crushing some guys heart out there by sleeping with any girl. I've been on both sides of the situation, so I understand the whole "if it weren't me, it would be some other dude" mentality.

But when I was on the losing end, my situation illustrates the extent to which immorality can reach. Typical oneitis straight through high school into beginning years of college. I already knew about most of the dudes she'd slept with (some of whom were my friends but didn't know or care enough about my attachment to pass it up). But it was finding out that she had slept with both my best friend and my brother that really put me in a predicament:

All these people are in fact leading separate lives from me. My emotions may be tied into their decisions. But ultimately, the claim I staked over this girl held no weight relative their self-serving desires. By this rationale, I should not be offended. I should accept the reality as an unfortunate quirk of human nature. HOWEVER... the fact that all parties involved boldly lied to my face that the sex did NOT happen when it came directly into question- is fucked up.

One might counter: they were protecting me from a harsh truth that would nevertheless be buried in the past. But that would ignore the fact that I was lied to purely so that they could remain my friends with impunity. It's selfish and deceitful.

And speaking of the regression of society, what kind of state are we living in if it's okay for deep personal relationships to be based off deceit?

IllimitableMen's post really IS remarkable, because he covers every base when it comes to peoples possible responses (like TRPsubmitter's).

[–]red_tux 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Don't argue with a narcissist you'll only get frustrated. It seems this subreddit leans towards feeding and amplifying narcissism at times.

[–]sp0radic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Narcissim: Excessive or erotic interest in oneself and one's physical appearance.

When a man makes the switch from blue pill to red pill, their interest in themselves increases greatly, because they recognize that's the only thing they can control, and is the key to their future success. If you're a RP in a sea of BP, your interest in yourself may seem excessive. But you know what? Fuck what people think, make yourself better.

[–]Code_Bordeauxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you fully understand it. It appears morality is just too complex a subject for many.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically you are saying let's have a race to the bottom with women to see who can become the filthiest piece of shit to exist. TRP is based on a society of highly egoistic people acting without honor or obligation to others. Sexual anarchy.

To suggest that this is ideal is horse shit. To suggest that it is an innate predisposition is also horse shit. Current inter-gender relations are based upon seismic shifts in the consequences of sex (controlled pregnancy selection) and the move away from women's dependency on men. Previously, the consequences of infidelity and mate changing were so high that women lacked the ability to jump from partner to partner. Their welfare was better off locking down one mate and supporting that person's success in life.

Basically, you getting up on your high horse pretending as if you are some enlightened savant is you stroking your own ego while denigrating people who hold different values. Why don't you stop masturbating and recognize that different value systems can flourish depending upon the constructs of the era.

[–]Idareyou2downvoteme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For those of you who missed it the other day, OP's post was directly inspired by this comment thread: https://archive.is/4aaTp

[–]Gunnilingus 48 points49 points  (25 children)

I think this post needed to be made. I think a lot of guys on this sub use TRP philosophy and strategies as an excuse to be scumbags, because "sexual strategy is amoral." Sexual strategy is indeed amoral, but if you use that truism to define every aspect of your behavior, you are immoral. If every action you take is calculated to maximize how much pussy you can get, you haven't internalized TRP at all. I believe that compromising or discarding any and all non-SMP-related principles and/or preexisting moral codes in order to bang hot women because "sexual strategy is amoral" displays a lingering blue-pill pussy-on-the-pedestal mentality. I will not lie about who I am, or pretend that I'm exclusive with a woman so she'll let me bang, because if I have to lie, then I'm admitting that the lie is more attractive to her than my true identity - why accept that compromise? When it comes to a particular piece of ass, I can always take it or leave it. While I don't necessarily think less of a man who chooses to cuckold a hapless beta, I prefer to show women that a high-value man like me don't want or need to bang whores who are looking for Alpha Fucks to supplement their BB marriage. I get more satisfaction out of the knowledge that the married woman who I rejected will go home that night knowing that I believe I'm too good for her than I would if I had banged her out in a motel room she paid for with her husband's money. Fundamentally, TRP is about redefining yourself as a self-actualized man with an invincible frame, and since women are attracted to that, a consequence of adopting TRP principles is that women will want to bang you. Use TRP to make yourself a man that other men respect; not just a Fuckboi who will eschew all he needs to in pursuit of pussy.

[–]HS-Thompson 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fundamentally, TRP is about redefining yourself as a self-actualized man with an invincible frame, and since women are attracted to that, a consequence of adopting TRP principles is that women will want to bang you.

This one single sentence contains an unusually strong amount of truth in it. Notable.

[–]DannyDemotta 0 points1 point  (23 children)

^ TLDR - "Behaviors I don't like are Blue Pill, ones i like are Red Pill."

What a man chooses to tell a woman to bed her is none of your fucking business. He can say he's the Supreme Ruler of Jupiter. He can say he's worth $20 million dollars. He can be a married man who declares himself single. Does it god damn matter? WTF are you so worried about other peoples' dicks for?

How many, how often, and what type of women another man fucks is also none of your business. Seriously, what kind of shit are you on right now? I don't even understand what crowd it is you're advising. It's like the only way for you is the M'lady-turned-TRP who's still an introverted pussy with a superiority complex who is desperate to prove himself some kind of universally loved casanova with no enemies. Who the flying fuck cares? Make enemies. Break shit. Spend money on dumb shit. Live your fucking life.

This "Ultra RP" elitism shit is incredibly vexing. So now we're supposed to be TRP, but not too TRP? Last I checked, that's Purple Pill and not too many steps away from the slippery slope of re-bitchifying yourself. Do drugs if you want to, in moderation. Dirty bulk instead of clean bulking. Bang a few married women. It's not all that serious.

[–]GRRMkills 6 points6 points [recovered]

Your anger and contempt in your post seems to betray that his words have made you uncomfortable. Is it possible that he's striking close to home with you, and that you in fact are not completely secure with your immorality?

You are not being asked to be moral, nor immoral, or even amoral. It is all "take it or leave it" here, as /u/IllimitableMan said in the article. However, you must accept your actions and any consequences that they cause for you to be considered a self actualizing man. Is lying acceptable to you? Fine. Is fucking married women acceptable to you? Also fine. Do you really think it is without consequences though?

You're probably not as adept at hiding your actions as you think you are. Even if no one knows of the immoral things that you do, your character will reflect your immorality, and people will be able to see you for who you are. There is a certain kind of karmic balance with immorality. Others who know you as a liar and a homewrecker will not treat you with the same respect or give you the same amount of trust you might otherwise receive. This includes your female companions, who would at the very least lose respect for you if not break up with or cheat on you when they discover your history, as well as your male companions, who could not possibly be expected to trust you to uphold moral principles (aka, not fucking them over) in business or friendship when you cannot be expected to uphold moral principles in your personal life.

[–]Gunnilingus 2 points3 points  (13 children)

Like I said, I don't necessarily think less of a man who will lie to women to bang them, or bangs married women. Although I think such behavior in a man can often be a red flag that a man is not trustworthy, it isn't always that way. Some men only lie to women, and are otherwise honest. Some of my best, most loyal friends exhibit that kind of behavior. However, to masquerade such actions as based in TRP is incorrect, in my opinion. The end goal of TRP is to shape oneself into the ultimate alpha male, which according to TRP is just about the most attractive possible man you could be. If that's true, why would lies be necessary? You've peaked without them. I'm not saying you can't have swallowed the red pill and still lie and cuckold, but to say you do those things "because TRP" does not logically follow. As for banging married women, to each his own, all I'm saying is it doesn't jibe with who I've decided I am as a man. I didn't say that behaviors I don't like are blue pill; I simply implied that certain behaviors that many on this sub claim are redpill, aren't. They aren't necessarily blue pill, either. However, I think if you are the type of man who doesn't normally lie, and yet will lie to bang women, you are allowing that woman's frame to dictate your actions, and that is blue pill. Just because you end up fucking her doesn't mean that you TRP'd your way into her pussy.

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[–]DannyDemotta 0 points1 point  (2 children)

In the interest of full disclosure - I'm about as far from Dark Triad as it gets. I feel bad if I accidentally go through cross-walks when a pedestrian is waiting to cross, for fucks sake. But when it all boils down to one man and one woman, on an even playing field, fucking each other - just leave morality out of it. It's the wrong word. It's rude. It's unbecoming. It's a lot of things. But 'immoral' isn't one of them.

This post and ones like it help the subreddit grow, because it gives plenty of fuel to the "H-hey those TRP guys aren't all bad! We have a little bit of common ground!" - but with each new wave, the message is getting more and more watered down. We have a festering problem of Bro-Knighting that is now being re-worded and re-packaged, much like Feminists re-word and re-package their failed ideas.

[–]Code_Bordeauxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But when it all boils down to one man and one woman, on an even playing field, fucking each other - just leave morality out of it. It's the wrong word. It's rude. It's unbecoming. It's a lot of things. But 'immoral' isn't one of them.

I'm not sure what you mean with 'on an even playing field' but in any case, you're oversimplifying. If a man and a women, both single, have sex then indeed morality isn't in the picture. But if a man and a women have engaged in a contract of monogamy - be that verbal or on paper - and that contract is broken (I.E. cheating) Then of course this becomes a moral issue. If a breach of contract/agreement/trust isn't immoral, than what on earth still is?

The only question that remains -and what most of the discussion is about- is whether only the cheating women is immoral, or also the man she's cheating with. And my personal stance on that is if you knowingly fuck a women who is bound by a monogamous contract (again, this also includes people exclusively dating) then you are empowering an immoral act, which makes you immoral too. I say refrain from immoral acts to all but those who are immoral themselves. I couldn't care less if you went out and shot a proven child molester.

[–]MarcusArgentius 83 points83 points [recovered]

I can't speak for the religious, but i've found morality to be completely subjective. Theres no way to empirically verify the morality of a given actor or action, nor is there any way or deduce morality from reason in a way which i have found convincing. This puts us in a position Nietzsche discusses a great deal: where we have to choose our own values to apply to the world.

I personally like to go with The point Jack Donovan (author of The Way of Men) makes in his speech "Becoming the New Barbarians". There is no reason why we have to apply the same moral standard to everyone we interact with. Justice, fairness, and respect are things I try to cultivate between me and my male friends, my "honor group." It is good to have friends, and in order to cultivate a real friendship between people you need these values. But that doesn't mean you have to extend those things to the random on the street who you've never met before. There is no trust between strangers. If I'm looking to build a friendship with one, ill treat him well so that a friendship can grow out of it. I usually end up being respectful and generous more often then not; it usually costs so little and the potential gains are large.

TL;DR: Thou shalt not covet thy neighbors wife, but that schmuck's hoe three towns over is horny and fair game.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 53 points54 points  (5 children)

There is no reason why we have to apply the same moral standard to everyone we interact with. Justice, fairness, and respect are things I try to cultivate between me and my male friends, my "honor group." It is good to have friends, and in order to cultivate a real friendship between people you need these values. But that doesn't mean you have to extend those things to the random on the street who you've never met before. There is no trust between strangers. If I'm looking to build a friendship with one, ill treat him well so that a friendship can grow out of it.

All things considered, that is a sensible stance to take.

[–]kafka-tamura 12 points13 points  (3 children)

Ultimately it comes down to my role in the environment. If I hadn't been exposed to RP truths, rest assured I'd be the most honest, upstanding citizen of my society. But I've seen far too many redpill scenarios play out in real life to give a shit anymore.

I think ultimately comes down to the philosophical debate of deontology vs consequentialism. Further reading: Crime and Punishment by F. Dostoevsky.

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I'm beginning to wonder if it's still possible to be an honest upstanding citizen anymore without getting screwed over? Seems most people will resent you in one way or another for doing good and then the rest will try to exploit your good behavior. There seems to be a sense of "fuck you, I got mine" that doesn't appear to be anywhere close to stopping.

I honestly think we're going to have to experience many years of decadence until shit collapses in on itself. Once collapse happens, the collective culture will have to rebuild by swallowing the red pill first. We're being artificially propped up on bullshit right now. Once that prop collapses, shit is going to get real.

[–]sp0radic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm beginning to wonder if it's still possible to be an honest upstanding citizen anymore without getting screwed over?

Living under the systems we do (political, economic, social)... definitely not if you're going by what other people consider "honest upstanding citizen"

I think it's probably doable if you can really adopt and internalize the belief that what other people (that don't matter, which is the vast majority) think of you means jack shit in the long run, in addition to figuring out your own moral guidelines and principles and holding true to them to the best of your ability.

[–]1Sergnb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wouldnt that be the kind of thinking you criticized in your post tho? "There is no trust between strangers, therefor it is an amoral action to fuck a stranger's girlfriend."

There is no reason to cultivate justice or fairness on someone you are never going to meet. There is no reason you should be concerned about the fairness of the situation you ar creating between a stranger and a semi-stranger (your plate). All of your actions are, therefore, amoral, as you are only doing that action to "feed" yourself and it is not your fault that someone else is suffering because of it.

I may be concerned by my own sense of justice and have a feeling of empathy with the other guy, projecting what i would feel i this situaion happened to me. I may choose not to proceed out of respect and fairness. But, if you do choose to continue, you are not betraying him, as there was no sense of justice or fairness between you two to begin with. You were both strangers. In that situation the full force of immorality would fall on the woman, who is the one who is actively performin an act of betrayal on someone thst trusted her.

Now, I'm not defending their position because I myself think the facilitation and encouragement of immoral behaviour makes you part of that immoral behaviour yourself, but I can understand why those guys justify their actions as ammoral in some sense. I guess like everything in life, not all things are black and white and there's an infinite array of shades of gray.


[–]thebalrog_ofmorgoth 8 points9 points  (2 children)

I have to disagree with Moral Relativism. No, there is no way to empirical verify the morality of a given action. But when dealing with ethics and morality, this is not the standard by which right and wrong are judged. Though the debate it certainly still open, the majority of ethicists will say that there is an objective morality that can be rationally proved, usually with inductive reasoning.

What you're talking about is Aristotle's Virtue Ethics, which is an increasingly popular moral theory, and one I find most efficacious. But, I think what you're doing is stopping short of the teleological goal of virtue which is Eudaimonia, the ancient greek concept for true happiness. The virtuous man, may certainly show particular kindness and preference to his friends or those in his honor group, but you can't just turn off your virtue, either you're a person who is kind, just, courageous and prudent (cardinal virtues) to everyone, or you're usually not at all. If virtue is not practice by habit, then by definition, you are not virtuous.

I agree that there is no trust between strangers, but if everyone had the virtue of honesty, there would be. And yes, this is wildly unrealistic. But we can still be honest and remain prudent at the same time. None of this should preclude reasonable kindness, even to strangers.

Virtue, by the way, differs from, other theories of ethics in that it takes a common objective of all humans, i.e. to be truly happy and identifies traits in people that are advantageous to have across all cultures and creeds. as above, the big four are Kindness, Justice, Courage and Prudence.

TL;DR: While it is good to show loyalty to your neighbor, it is still hugely unjust and hypocritical to aid in the cuckoldry that so many of us abhor. Rather, if we are to be virtuous, justice and kindness dictate that we inform the poor bastard of the situation and help him if we can. I would hope that he would do the same for me. Otherwise we are accomplices by omission to this cuckoldry

[–]MarcusArgentius 3 points3 points [recovered]

If I had to pick a favorite ethical standard I would also go with virtue ethics. My understanding of it is a little different from yours. You are correct in saying that the virtue of a virtuous man can't be simply "switched off", but Aristotle's ethics (at least as they were taught to me) were about finding the golden mean between vices, and that mean varied depending on the given situation. And so it seems perfectly reasonable that I might treat a friend differently than I would treat a stranger; the action is different because the situation is different.

I wouldn't argue that virtue ethics are "objective" in the sense that deontological "rule based" ethics or utilitarian "outcome based" ethics are because it instead is oriented towards yourself. Its ultimate goal is to turn you into a happy flourishing man. Most virtues, when applied properly, lead to happiness. Essentially, I would sum up Aristotle's ethics by saying "cultivate the virtues which lead to happiness." So basically "think rationally about what things will make you happy, then do those things." Great advice while being kinda obvious at the same time. I don't see this to be contradictory to what I said at all.

[–]thebalrog_ofmorgoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weird. did i accidentally PM you instead of comment?

Anyway, yeah we do mostly agree. but i think there is a bit of a nuanced difference. Hardly worth going into on reddit though, unless you want to.

But i think the important part where we differ is our respective TL;DR sections. It seems to me, unless i've misunderstood you, your interpretation of virtue only extends to people you care about, friends, family, etc. but someone outside of that like "that schmuck's hoe three towns over" doesn't meet that extension so she can be smashed with a clear conscience.

I've taken the idea of preference to those who are close to us to mean differing in favor of them during times of conflict. Like i might feel weakly obliged to help a stranger on the side of the road whose car broke down, but i would be strongly obliged to help my friend in the same situation.

As for the hypothetical thirsty skank a couple towns over and her unwitting blue pill schmuck, I don't think that principle much applies. If you ask me, we would be acting hugely unjustly and callously toward his misfortune if we allowed this stranger to be abused by his wife or girlfriend (definitely a deficiency of justice and kindness and debatably courage as well). And I think if we knew about this abuse by said chick, we would be just as responsible or perhaps partially responsible (honestly, i'm not sure which) for the continued cuckoldry.

so, to answer your question, i think there is where we have something of a contradiction.

[–]the_code_always_wins 15 points16 points  (5 children)

Good stance. One thing I think the machiavellians get wrong is they aren't as clever as they think they are. They screw up. People notice their behavior and avoid or ostracize them.

A simple moral code like be nice to strangers and be honest with your friends protects you from this.

[–]PedroIsWatching 16 points17 points  (1 child)

That's the biggest thing I've noticed about The 48 Laws of Power. The average unclever guy trying to follow them will only focus on a particular handful and will end up coming off as a selfish aloof unpredictable asshole. This can work if you running a business producing an in demand product but to the average guy you're just going to become a person that everyone dislikes and tries to avoid dealing with.

There are a lot of good nuggets in the 48 ("Infection: avoid the unhappy and the unlucky", "Do Not Offend the Wrong Person"), but most people skip straight to the ones that deliver incentives.

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Selfish behavior must be cunning to be successful. "Morality" exists as a framework of social interaction; overt violation results in ostracization from the tribe. There are plenty of sociopaths in prison.

Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others.

That said, whether you apply the Laws is a personal choice. However, there is no "opting out" of having them used against you, so educating yourself to them and understanding when they are being applied against you is crucial.

[–]Stythe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot can come from watching the actions one takes over the words they speak. Something that confused me my whole life is that "professionals" in various fields have always tried to seem right, even when my own, proven, personal experiences proved to me otherwise. This usually applies to people who say there's only one correct way to do something. It caused me a lot of grief to be surrounded by people who think that because they read something in the paper it must be true. It's caused me much more grief to not understand that pretty much everyone thinks that way about certain things in their life.

Luckily I learned that watching their actions gives them away eventually, for better or worse.

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Great video. Thank you for posting that.

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[–]AlphaJesus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ecclesiastes 1:18 is my life verse.

[–]EmperorAurelius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just watched that, I'll have to watch it multiple times to fully grasp it though.

[–]1APookIsAPook 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree there's no reason to apply morality consistently in all situations. Being moral and honorable at all times is a hindrance. It severely limits the options available to you. You just have to realize you're being immoral and accept that fact, not rationalize it away. For example, I would never act immorally towards my close friends because I care for and respect them. However, if I'm in a business negotiation I'm not going to avoid making unfalsifiable bluffs in order to close a deal because I have a moral obligation to be 100% honest.

Being an honorable and moral person is commendable, and I appreciate the company of people who are that way, but unfortunately it will often hold you back in the world. I admit that I have a double standard. I want to be able to get away with immorality but do not want others to be able to.

[–]ProjectShamrock 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I try to cultivate between me and my male friends, my "honor group." It is good to have friends, and in order to cultivate a real friendship between people you need these values. But that doesn't mean you have to extend those things to the random on the street who you've never met before.

I like to treat trust and respect as a gradient rather than a black and white thing. I will respect some random guy on the street enough that I'm not going to push him down because he's standing in my way, for example. He's a human being and deserves that much respect. When I'm driving, I don't mow over pedestrians. It's not because I fear the punishment, but I respect the lives of these people that I don't want to be responsible for harm coming to them. I also have no problems helping people with no expectation of reward, such as if someone is broken down in a parking lot and I have jumper cables and can help them get on their way. It requires no real sacrifice of my time other than a few minutes, and I want to live in a society where I could receive that type of assistance from others if I needed it.

That being said, if I was told that I had to choose between the death of my son and the death of the entire populace of India (and I have close friends from there) I'd not hesitate to save my son's life. I respect the lives of my children more than even my own, and definitely more than society or strangers.

Trust is different though. To me, respect is generally given as a default and lost by the person, trust is something that must be earned over time and maintained. There is nobody that I trust fully, but there are a few people I trust fairly well. Trust is one of the most precious things you can have in someone, so it should be reluctantly given to others.

[–]ColdEiric 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is no reason why we have to apply the same moral standard to everyone we interact with. Justice, fairness, and respect are things I try to cultivate between me and my male friends, my "honor group." It is good to have friends, and in order to cultivate a real friendship between people you need these values. But that doesn't mean you have to extend those things to the random on the street who you've never met before. There is no trust between strangers. If I'm looking to build a friendship with one, ill treat him well so that a friendship can grow out of it. I usually end up being respectful and generous more often then not; it usually costs so little and the potential gains are large.

I think it was Augustinus who compared The Church to a gang of apes.

I'm a former atheist, now Christian. I've found a church where the girls are feminine, and the boys are masculine. It's the same with us. You don't act like us, you don't get privileges. If you're a Judas, you're gone. But if you're loyal and do what's expected of you, we make sure you're kept alive and healthy. Our gang is growing.

Good luck with yours, Marcus.

[–]hairaware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's just being smart and is similar to the way I operate. Treat those who you wish to receive the same sort of respect from in a similar method. If the man on the street was useful to you or of benefit then you would extended your hand to him as well. This is how we weigh relationships beyond those outside of our family or lifelong friends etc. Cost benefit analysis when it comes to all new relationships is the best way to go if you value your time.

[–]Endorsed Contributorzyk0s -1 points0 points  (4 children)

I can't speak for the religious, but i've found morality to be completely subjective.

Morality has no meaning outside of a religion or a moral ideology. The concept of good and evil have to be given by an external, supreme authority which cannot be proven nor disproven to be false. Good and evil therefore, like God, are axiomatic. Without a "law giver", as you have observed, one is forced to rely on subjective morality: how people "feel" about something. The best that can then be achieved is to established some sort of democratic morality, i.e. say that what is Good is what most people would deem good, and what is Evil is what most people deem evil. That's essentially the stance of the Golden Rule. But the Golden Rule tells us something else about a moral system.

There is no reason why we have to apply the same moral standard to everyone we interact with

There needs to be a consensus. Societies that function under a unified (often religious) moral code work because everyone agrees on the code. Since it is externally established, individual feelings do not come into play. What you've observed is what happens when everybody relies on their own code: you cannot predict the behavior of others, and need to set up additional guards to protect yourself.

Some might say that everyone believes in things like "don't kill your neighbor", and since it came from different religions, it must be the Truth, so there is an alternative to subjective and religious morality. I see it simply as evidence of social evolution: this rule is conducive to effective societies, while a rule such as "everyone for themselves" would work in the opposite way. But that's an easy one, what about abortion, capital punishment, or sleeping with a stranger's wife? There is no way to determine with objectivity if those are permissible, except within the context of a (religious) moral framework.

Ultimately, for an effective moral code, you need 3 elements:

  • externally established by some supreme authority
  • adherence by all but a few members of a given society
  • evolutionarily advantageous (i.e. has a proven track record of usage)

[–]Code_Bordeauxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I disagree. At its very foundation, a moral code is nothing more than a 'you do/don't do this, I will/won't do the same, and we both benefit' applied on a large scale. You don't murder me, I don't murder you. You don't steal from me, I don't steal from you. You be honest, I will as well. And then we both benefit.

In this sense it's highly rational and there isn't a need for any higher authority to impose these values on us. In fact we have an inborn understanding of these matters. But then, naturally, emotionally, we speak of it in terms of right and wrong, good or evil. Religion simply wrote these down and then started to act as if they had the exclusive rights to morality.

[–]the99percent1 31 points32 points  (12 children)

Great fucking piece... And this is precisely why we need strong, moral men to band together. Not be separated and alone. For the moral man who stands alone, dies alone.

Nothing in the world can topple a group of strong, capable men who do nothing but look out and trust each other.

Women and other immoral men want to break this apart... i fucking say stay together like superglue..

[–]tuffbot324 3 points4 points  (2 children)

I recently joined a men's team, and this is what the team is all about. Helping each other become better men and hold each other accountable.

Such teams are very powerful, and it's disappointing they aren't mentioned on this reddit.

[–]fongiskul 3 points4 points  (0 children)



fist bumps

Edit: to the sticking out for each other, I've seen some good women and bad women so I'll reserve that generalization for another time.

[–]poweruser998 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We need more posts like this on TRP, if anything TRP is an encyclopedia but its not definitive, nor is it an instruction manual on how to be alpha. its up to you to reach your potential as an alpha, which means the best version you could be, through that energy you become self sustainable hence why you see things differently now because your vision is not clouded with bp bs anymore.

[–]-Universe- 7 points8 points  (1 child)

You give the best advice. Love your website.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support. Much love.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wont bang married women, because that kind of woman that cheats with me will cheat on me. Those kind of women are sociopaths. They will tell lies to men to get what they want, and will treat you great while you are their escapism from their marriage, but they will eventually try and escape you too.

Married women are in my world, off the market. The risks and drama associated with them does not make it worth it for me. Sex is not worth all that drama, and it goes against abundance mentality for me personally since selfishness is a trait that I find unattractive.

I would rather fuck a loyal 5 than a cheating 10.

[–]fongiskul 12 points13 points  (5 children)

Thank you for setting it straight.

I've been ostracized for having principles before. Good to know some people on here understand having principles does NOT equal weak blue pill characteristics.

[–]hairaware 5 points6 points  (2 children)

You can have principles but no one needs to hear about them unless they serve a purpose. If you say "hey don't fuck her because that's wrong" then that is a waste of everyones time. If you say "don't fuck that girl because she knows your wife and that could end badly" then that is solid advice. Morality and principles need not be discussed on here unless someone asks.

[–]Code_Bordeauxx 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Although you are technically right... In this sub we first and foremost discuss what you CAN do. Stating how the world works and how you can act in it. This is the amoral side of things. But it is easy to mistake this for something that you also SHOULD do. This is where moral matters come into play. Morality is what keeps a society healthy and whether you like it or not, we are all part of that society and dependent on it. People advocating going rogue and dropping any sense of responsibility altogether, those are the ones truly wasting our time.

I think it's good we are able to share our values, our principles as well. It can lead to valuable insights. How to get what you want without screwing other people over. That doesn't mean you have to follow them of course.

[–]DannyDemotta 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Yes it does. You are deluding yourself if you believe otherwise.

TRP is based in and designed on social proof.....as in, socially-proofing yourself. If you provide value to your friend group, they'll understand if you flake now and again, as long as you make it up to them. If your friends/whoever doesn't like that you're bedding married women - that's their problem.

It's YOUR responsibility to provide so much value to the group that they have no choice but to accept your behavior. If you can't do that, and they're threatening to ostracize you, then it's probably because you're a weak ass bitch in general - not because of X or Y behavior.

But it is weak ass blue pill shit. You can't avoid it. Avoiding perfectly legal, non-resource intensive actions because you fear what others will think? How can that be anything other than Blue Pill sperglord behavior?

[–]fongiskul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should have clarified:

Ostracized not by my friends, but by people who have no problems bedding other men/women who are already in relationships.

My friends are my friends because they value my time and my contributions to their lives. They typically share the same principles as I do.

Conforming just to fit in from fear of being ostracized is weak ass blue pill shit.

[–]boxofcookies101 4 points5 points  (3 children)

This is probably one of the best and most helpful posts I've seen in a while. I previously even before encountering the redpill started the debate of morality and it's uses. After encountering the redpill I begin to justify/rationalize immorality with being amoral. But after seeing a different perspective I can separate the two a bit better.

This should definitely be on the sidebar. It will also help with facilitating better arguments from multiple perspectives with respect for both sides of the same coin.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

This should definitely be on the sidebar. It will also help with facilitating better arguments from multiple perspectives with respect for both sides of the same coin.

I get the feeling if we keep discussing this TRP is going to become not just a place of learning about masculinity and the theory around women and mating, but likewise a place to debate the ethical application of what we come to learn. Perhaps this is the natural progression of TRP as a philosophy. Time will tell.

[–]boxofcookies101 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Although that sounds great. I hope not. Because then people will try to impose their ethic standards on other people and I think trp will then split into two groups. Debating morals/ethics in mass is similar to debating religion. Due to the extreme subjective nature of the topic/interpretation of it.

Instead I hope people are aware that personal ethics are on a spectrum and that there is no ethics/moral standard of TRP. Just facts. You must apply your own personal Code of conduct.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instead I hope people are aware that personal ethics are on a spectrum and that there is no ethics/moral standard of TRP. Just facts. You must apply your own personal Code of conduct.

Seems like you understood my post. I agree with this.

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[–]the_code_always_wins 3 points4 points  (1 child)

A better way to put it is nobody is clever enough to operate off of calculations. You need good general rules. Being nice to others and honest with your friends is just a good idea because when you screw up a lie and get caught it goes horribly.

[–]DannyDemotta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much better is it going to go if everyone considers you the elite, unflinching supreme gentleman, and you have a moment of weakness? When your entire image is based upon not making any mistakes or having any enemies.....what do you do then? The house of cards comes crashing down - such that you were ever anywhere near as legendary in the real world as you were in your own mind.

You can't trust a man who doesn't swear. And you also can't trust a man who doesn't make minor fuck-ups, or screw over the occasional person now and again. I'm a great tipper but if you piss me off, I will tip you $0 even if I know you deserve more. I have to do it. I'll spaz out on you in a way that's not equivalent to what you're giving me, and leave you saying "WTF happened to Danny, is he OK?" I need that rush every now and again--just not as big of a rush as some truly dark triad types need.

[–]Code_Bordeauxx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I will only say that I have waited a long time for this article. You have my gratitude.

[–]caesarfecit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a pretty simple rule when it comes to other guy's girls.

Unless you think the guy is a complete dick who doesn't deserve her, don't do it.

My attitude is, if another guy were in that situation with my girlfriend, only his respect for me would stop him. An asshole wouldn't care.

Maybe that's a bit of circular reasoning, but that's my rule and I've stuck to it.

[–]MarinTaranu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a logical point of view, the woman is not an object that belongs to a man. She can fuck whoever she wants to. Second, it's not like fucking her will use up anything that is in limited amount. The man will not wear out the woman's vagina, so to speak. I stand for free love, jealousy is really a base emotion.

[–]Zhuinden 2 points3 points  (5 children)

I am a bit confused though, if you say trust is a commodity and relationships fall apart without it, and you ALSO say that all women are untrustworthy and "immoral", then how on earth are you planning to have functional relationships with any female individuals on the planet?

[–]Code_Bordeauxx 1 point2 points  (4 children)

By imposing male moral values upon them, as we have done for milennia. If we fail to do so and let animal instincts rule, that will be the end of society.

[–]Zhuinden 1 point2 points  (3 children)

I thought all of our desires stem from animal instincts, including the desire to be seen as "successful", being socially accepted, and possibly even most importantly the desire to be seen attractive by females.

But as the primary drive behind all actions is survival (which also including obeying basic laws so others won't punch you to death), society hasn't exactly come to an end yet.

[–]Code_Bordeauxx 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I guess you could see everything as an animal instinct that way. True. Allow me to be more specific then. When I was talking about letting animal instincts rule, I meant following immediate incentives without long term thought. You could argue we have evolved a higher rational 'long term thinking' instinct which can supress our (lower instinct) urges for short term gains, in favour of the bigger picture. Morality can only exist if we are able to supress these urges by means of rational thinking. Also, this morality has cristallized into the laws you speak of.

For women however this 'higher instinct' isn't the modus operandi. If women are cut loose from the control of men they tend to act based on short term thinking only. If women are thus allowed to take control of society the benefits of long term thinking will largely be forfeit. Some will argue this is already in a far stage of happening. I won't go that far myself, but things are definitly heading in the wrong direction.

[–]Zhuinden 0 points1 point  (1 child)

....yes, "wrong direction" indeed. The cause being gender segregation causing people to believe that the other sex is inherently inferior - both rabid feminazis and whoever thinks female humans are incapable of rational thought alike...

As devil's advocate, I could easily make the argument that the only reason for why males delude themselves into creating and studying the 'science' of TRP is because they - as subhuman creatures incapable of logic and driven by sexual desire and lust - desperately want to be slaves to women, seeking the means to be accepted by them as "sexually desirable".

...I think I'll just stick to my idea that people should be judged based on their individual behavior and intelligence rather than stereotypes based on sex - and with that, I think I'll just walk away and hope you'll find a female whom you'll be able to respect enough to realize how wrong you were to assume that every single female individual on the planet is an irrational animalistic subhuman degenerate.

[–]Fapplemage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's hard for me to describe it, but reading this article gives me a bit of peace, in a way. thank you.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I've found principles to be very useful to have. Someone who stands for nothing is often weakening themselves from the inside. Principles are the only thing you cannot lose. That's why religious nuts are so full of bravery and conviction.

[–]clone9786 2 points3 points  (1 child)

This is a great post, just like most of yours. I have a friend that reads redpill, and he doesnt seem to understand that just like everything else on the internet and in life, you have to approach red pill topics with critical thinking. Read them and think, "does this work towards my goals? Will it achieve them the way I want?" And "is this actually good advice or just something written by a man stuck in the anger phase that will screw me over in the long run" (I had some experience with that last one). It is what it is.

Actually, it is what you make of it.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I write in the way I do to try and make people think. Most people just want the answers though, they don't want to think.

Those who do want to think are rewarded with a mind expanding experience. They will introspect and will make whatever amendments they deem necessary. If those amendments enhance them, they will internalise them.

[–]TruckerJohn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like to look at what will build the strongest version of myself. I'm in college, so gaming on married women just isn't a possibility right now, but if it were, I'd imagine I have a lot better things to do than ruin some family. It's not useful, it's not impressive, it's not a remarkable feat of skill, it's terrifying (if I get caught, what if the guy has a gun), and it could turn out vastly worse for me (she gets caught and calls rape).

There comes a point where valuing empathy is important as well - having values that are self-made are important, but not when they're vague moral terms like "justice." Well what the hell is justice? Philosophers and lawyers have been debating that since the ancients thought of te concept. Moralities and laws are often societal norms. It's important to follow them to a degree just out of awareness that te risk for breaking them is huge. (Selling drugs = large amounts of jail time, for example, even though there's nothing inherently "wrong" about selling drugs).

Nietzsche talked a lot about forming your own values, and I don't think he was talking about moral ones - and if he was then he was useless. Nietzsche (who I see a lotof you quoting, which is why I bring him up) spoke about values that had nothing to do wit metaphysics. The idea of "the good" or "the justice" is some weird spiritual mumbo jumbo that can't be discovered. When Nietzsche said "live on your own values" not only was he saying to decondition yourself from society, but also from mental trappings. For example: I value freedom - not in the vague metaphysical sense, but in the sense that I like being able to walk wherever I want to - therefor, I follow the law to the best of my ability because jail would suck. I value things I enjoy like being powerful, constantly growing, and pursuing success in my career. I have specific meanings for these terms. I want to constantly be improving in the activities I like so that I may make money, feel fulfilled, and contribute to society. I do not value justice or "the good" because that is for the weak. If you need to ask "Does the universe approve of this action? Is it good?" then you're not thinking for yourself, you're judging your actions based on what you THINK is some universal truth. And for what reason? So the universe will judge you positively? If you're religious, I can see why you would think like this, but I can't see why you'd be religious. Agree to disagree on that one though, I suppose.

Values based on weird metaphysical terms are unsustainable. You can not live by "being good." And why would you want to? I don't want to be a paragon of moral excellence. Jesus was that, and supposedly you need to be the son of God just to get close to pulling it off, so why fucking bother? I want to be the BEST version of myself. Me at my PEAK performance, contribution, abilities, etc. That is attainable, and it is specific to me and my values. Morality is a trap, and it's not something that people in a scientific era should be concerned with.

If you are concerned with morality, the most moral thing to do is to kill yourself to prevent your existence from furthering overpopulation, your carbon footprint, and your money from going to companies that use child labor. Morality is life denying. The "good man" is the dead man, and that's why Jesus is our best example of him.

[–]NeoreactionSafe 19 points20 points  (5 children)

Evaluate everyone to discern their nature rather than assume.

Is someone an Individualist? Well, then he might betray you.

Are you certain someone desires to successfully reproduce and win the Darwin Contest for perpetuating his DNA? Well, then he's probably thinking longer term (he seeks the betterment of his offspring) so you expect him to be more likely to be a team player.

Red Pill is filled with many Individualists who have lost all hope of passing on DNA in a healthy family structure and so you have to expect some extreme stuff here.

We talk of Providers these days like that's normal, but through most of the last few hundred years men were Owners. Men owned women... no discussion... no debate. Abandon your maiden name thy woman as you become my property and I keep your offspring if you choose to leave and become an Old Maid.

Men are faced with an unnatural condition because of the Feminist State so we are behaving in unnatural ways as a reaction.

If times were different and men were simply Owners and not Providers the Red Pill wouldn't exist and we would not even be thinking about this stuff.

[–]tompanz 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Owner and provider aren't really mutually exclusive. Husband's historically owned woman in much the same way that parents own their children. I honestly don't like saying men owned women, that seems to buy into the whole feminist narrative of women being treated like slaves. I think ward is a much better term. Men were charged with protecting ,providing and disciplining for their family, as well as representing them in the larger community. The issue is that men have been stripped of their ability to run their households. Because being a ward requires you to provide as well as it requires you to keep order. So all men can really do these days is provide, which is only have of what's expected out of them.

[–]NeoreactionSafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say Owned because it triggers the instinct of man.

Don't backpedal... keep the power in the word. The spell of the Matrix is broken because all it takes is the substitution of the word Provider with Owner and it becomes like a bolt of lightning through your soul.

Assert Truth through Power. Use it.

[–]DannyDemotta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should also be noted that, just as the 'Individualist' is more likely to betray you - the 'Groupist' (?) is more likely to be a dullard, to rely on consensus, to use bullying techniques instead of reason/logic, etc - overall, to not benefit you nearly as much as a like-minded self-sufficient man who doesn't surround himself with sycophants.

There's a risk/reward on both sides. It's like being a business owner, and hiring someone else who has owned their own business before. They're likely to work their ass off, learn everything they can as quick as possible, one-up everyone, out-sell everyone, etc....but there's always going to be that risk that they'll leave your company and try to start a competing business.

[–]MarinTaranu 0 points1 point  (1 child)

You raise an interesting point there. Personally, I believe that no human can be the possession of another human. I cannot endorse slavery under any circumstance. (white on black, man on woman). Thus, if I reject the idea that a white man can own a black man, I must also reject the idea that a man can own a woman, otherwise I would be a hypocrite. From this, I can derive the idea that the woman can do anything she wants with her body, married or not. There are many different situations where the woman doesn't get what she wants at home. The same with the man. However, the sex drive is so strong, that no amount of artificial morality can stop it. Also, consider Nietzsche's will to power. Everyone strives to be at the top, and that reflects in sexuality. The topic of children should be carefully considered. We are at the point where having children can be planned. No child should come into the world by accident - only to wanting and loving parents. Thus, we can dissociate sex from procreation. Everybody will be much happier.

[–]NeoreactionSafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All hierarchy is power. Once you wake up to power you understand that equality doesn't exist and has never existed.

Red Pill is an enlightenment philosophy that reawakens your ability to see power and that requires an honest look at Captain (60%) to Firstmate (40%) relationships.

If you've ever watched the TV show Shark Tank you get a hint of how power works. The percentage of Ownership defines your relationship in anything from business to personal. The entity with over 50% ownership has the "controlling interest".

Women have this weird quirk in that their sexual function fails when they have a male partner who they see as 50% or below. They get no Tingles.

60% / 40% is considered ideal because that's enough of a buffer to prevent Shit Tests which occur when things are 50% / 50%.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (19 children)

One assumption I have to take issue with is how morality = weak, less success, less money, less less less. Being moral is more more more. You develop better and deeper relationships, both in business and in bed. With trust you leverage these relationships and can plan for a better future, invest, or do other long term plans. You can't easily do long term plans with someone who'll screw you the second it becomes profitable. You then develop a reputation that precedes you and can use this reputation as a currency. You can surround yourself with other moral people,spareing up time from mate guarding or worrying or not giving a fuck and suffering from the cons of a cheating spouse (infant fidelity, branch swinging/ divorce, stds, etc.)

Don't undervalue the worth of a good reputation. Words get out you're a cheat in one aspect of life, it makes it harder to be hired in other aspects. Being immoral may help in the short run but recognize what's being given up.

[–]DannyDemotta 5 points6 points  (8 children)

This is bullshit and you know it. It kills you that your fairy tale just isn't true.

Being "moral" necessarily means doing less than you are legally allowed to do, for fear you aren't as awesome as you think you are and can't easily replace butthurt friends and women. The most "moral" thing to do is take a pay cut so your employees can all get raises. The most "moral" thing to do is only bed women you are 100% sure are single and childless. That's dumb as fuck and a good way to get fucked more often than not, no matter how much you're deluding yourself that you're a supreme gentleman with a loving soft harem and no enemies and "Wow isn't he just so great?"

If i'm starting a company, I'm not looking for fucking stupid asshole college graduates. They can eat a dick, they don't know shit. My first act is to try to pilfer as many goddamned professionals as I can - workers already in "exclusive" "relationships" with their employers. Does that not sound immoral enough to you? How about we sweeten it by me saying I either hire them on the spot with no notice, or they can fuck off? How "moral" is it to hire someone away with no notice? Not my problem. I gave them the choice - I offered to adjust the compensation level accordingly - they made the decision.

I think a lot of you guys are confusing breaking the law with your false sense of immorality. If I just walk up to someone I don't like and punch them in the face, that's assault and battery, and I'm a dumbass dipshit for doing it and deserve to go jail. If I go to a bar, and some married woman is slutting it up, who the fuck cares if she blows me in the bathroom? You? "Society"? Give me a break. Despite all the horror stories, even you don't believe that society cares about each and every single woman equally - especially a cheating whore wife.

You guys are killing me, man. You've been told, and told, and told, and told 1000 times that 1) none of this shit is black and white, and 2) there is no fairy-tale ending. And yet you still fucking insist that 1) there's the immoral way, and then there's the OMG such TRP way, and 2) that if you don't follow the OMG way, you're doomed to a life of failure and broken relationships and financial ruin.

What the actual fuck.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (7 children)

I completely disagree. Morality is the word we've given to a system that has developed to allow us to focus on long term gains and the inherent benefits of cooperation over competition. Nothing more. It is the system that allowed our ancestors to approach each other in the jungle, when for all they knew the other human was dangerous, and cooperate to make civilization. If you want to spurn the long term gains of cooperation, go ahead, but don't be surprised when you're passed up

edit: It's not about morality. It's about utility. We've "evolved" morality to allow us to maximize gains. Hope that clarifies my argument.

[–]DannyDemotta 2 points3 points  (6 children)

No, it doesn't, because you're still spouting fairy-tale shit that ignores the reality of the world we live in. People don't go to Morals School to become Moralists; they go to Law School to become Lawyers. In this world, morality is only non-negotiable to the point where an action becomes illegal. Period.

The bullshit you are pushing aims to add an unending lists of things you don't appreciate (boo hoo, muh feelings) to the unofficial moral code--and then to push that unofficial moral code as the Only Single Moral Code, and you're full of crap. You know it. You can't point me to one fucking website, one Wikipedia list, with an all-encompassing or even mostly-encompassing list of "Moral" behaviors. You can't fucking do it. Because such a list doesn't exist.

"Right". "Wrong". "Moral". It's all fuckery. We start from what is LEGAL, and work from there. LEGAL or NOT? Resource-intensive, or not? Is the risk worth the reward, or not? Only after about 15 of these steps, do we approach any kind of need to ask ourselves if something is "moral" or not - and that's if we even still care by then.

Fucking a guy's wife - legal.

Paying to fuck a guy's wife - legal, but resource-intensive

Paying to fuck a guy's wife, oh and she has herpes - legal, resource intensive, and risk not worth the reward.

Do you understand? What else do I need to clarify here? You're spouting these generalities and "Society believes X" without any backing or examples whatsoever. I can't argue with shape-shifters, dude. Take a stand. Stop relying on buzzwords to make your argument for you.

[–]JayViceroy 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I've been reading from top to bottom a lot of your replies and your replies for the most part are that of one of the guys that Illimitable man was talking about. You're spouting off about how there is only legal no moral... Right, you don't actually believe that shit do you. Here's an example: me and you are best friends growing up. I fuck your mom. Everything I did was legal, so we're good right? No, every dude I know and every dude you know would want to fight me then and there. There is at least a sense of a moral code whether you want to acknowledge it or whether it's written or not.

[–]DannyDemotta 0 points1 point  (1 child)

You obviously didn't read close enough, because I dived head first into gray area. And all that shit just flew right the fuck over your head, because you're only able to read what you want to read, and you ignore the rest.

I just got done goddamned covering this

"Right". "Wrong". "Moral". It's all fuckery. We start from what is LEGAL, and work from there. LEGAL or NOT? Resource-intensive, or not? Is the risk worth the reward, or not? Only after about 15 of these steps, do we approach any kind of need to ask ourselves if something is "moral" or not - and that's if we even still care by then.

The risk of fucking your friend's wife is clearly not worth the reward. Bang some 40/50-something for....what exactly? 80% of the reason you'd ever do it is specifically to piss him off, with the knowledge that he'll find out and you won't be friends afterward.

100x more likely is that I pick up someone's wife at a bar, and her husband comes through the next week or whatever and picks a fight with not just me, but the whole crew. That's a chance some people are willing to take. That's a chance that some people don't mind if their friends take.

You do not speak for every single group of friends in the United States, and you're smoking fucking crack if you think you are The One who has discovered the Universal Moral Code. You haven't. You're just another sack of shit like the rest of us. If i were you, I wouldn't waste my time finding people to feel morally superior to - I'd use that energy instead to make myself better.

[–]JayViceroy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't read? Ok, I said you're friends mom mister fuckery, not wife. Firstly, the guy above you detailed exactly what he was talking about and apparently that flew over your head. The idea behind morals is to maximize utility. You don't fuck your friends mom because that makes your friend not trust you anymore. You're no longer able to use that person to benefit yourself. That's the point of society. However, we don't live in villages anymore. The society we live in is bigger than that. Your best friend may choose to not fuck your mom or wife but that doesn't mean someone down the street won't. That's obvious. Everyone agrees with that. Morally, to some its fucked up. But in TRP it doesn't matter. TRP is a strategy, but it's one of many. It doesn't mean that strategy wins all the time. Because that time you fuck that dudes wife and he comes home and kills you, well that strategy didn't serve you so well did it?

I understand you want to take the psychopathic I have no feelings approach and debate this shit to extremes and absolutes, but that is also not reality. Reality is about the gray area and the indefinites. So although I see your point in many instances you still need to take a fucking chill pill. If anything you sound like an angry pessimistic man that's upset at the world and women in general. We call that the anger phase here. Anyways, I hope you figure things out. But if you read illimitable mans post in its entirety you'd realize that it isn't about convincing you to be a moral person. It's about convincing you to find where you need to be in this world to be a successful man. Between moral (I wouldn't hurt a fly) and immoral (might makes right). Either extreme and I guarantee your life will be either short lived or pathetic.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

What fairy tale am I arguing? What law am I arguing? I'm happy to discuss the ethics of bringing in the state and men with guns to enforce the tiniest of laws broken but that's for another day. I'm arguing self interest in the long run; emphasis long run

People go to law school to become lawyers not moralists, true. By going to 3 years of law school and four years of college, they trust that in 7 years they will be employable. The banks trust in 7 years they can get their loan money paid back. Trust allows an 18 year old whose personality isn't even close to settling in or maturing make these long term decisions that improve them in the long run. You don't pay that back lots of legal things happen but plenty of moral things happen such as your credit score going up in smoke. You no longer have the option for a lot of other long term plans such as buying a house or car or other education not in full. Or short term loans for a business. The credit score whack isn't a legal decision it's a moral one. And maybe not even self interested. Why do they care if a competitor get stiffed by this guy with a future loan? But they want to know in the future who's a deadbeat and want others to report who's a deadbeat, so a credit score mark and bad reputation is made, for the long run. I agree we start from risk vs reward. I'm arguing morality is what allows us to comprehend long term and and is a system for calculating that. It's increased reward, minimized risk, and allies time to become a factor whereas without morals we'd be focused on the here and now.

I cannot present a list with all morals ever as morals vary by culture and time. I can recommend a book that examines the physiology and biochemistry of morality, the Evo Bio roots, and how this is a system that independently developed in all cultures and in a few fish and birds (these non humans tend to be monogamous surprisingly enough leading me to think morality evolved as a side effect of something that was supposed to keep dad involved in raising resource intensive children and/or R vs k selection but that's just wild speculation at this point). I can also point to empiricism and how most societies have a version of the golden rule and how we feel bad when doing certain actions. Or Rousseau and the social contract who basically applies these arguments to legitimate government and how it can make people better off than being in the jungle in anarchy. Much of the specific actions are cultural though. In some cultures its fine to have sex with married men or woman or poly is the go to. What matters is keeping ones reputation in ones culture for the long term benefits that brings.

[–]DannyDemotta 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Your credit score is not a listing of your moral obligations; it's a list of the debts that companies have a LEGAL RIGHT to expect you to repay. The entire point of the credit report isn't some kind of moral punishment/reward; it's a number that determines the likelihood you'll pay back your debt obligations as per your original contract without the guarantor needing to waste unnecessary resources - like lawsuits or collections - forcing you to pay. It's about as statistical as it gets. Absolutely nothing about it is "moral", and I have no clue how you are so off base about it.

As I told the other random bro - there's more than just short-term and long-term, and moral and immoral, and good and evil. Your side of this argument has this infatuation with things like karma, and "make a quick buck", and blah blah, and everything all has to fit in the same puzzle or it doesn't work. My side doesn't suffer that same consequence because it's not based on emotion, and cooperation, and shaming. It's based on the fucking TRUTH of the matter.

And the TRUTH of the matter is that this entire argument is a poison pill, threatening to split this entire community in half. The drug community has "legalize only weed, or legalize everything?" - The Gay community has "Are we content with civil unions with equal rights to marriage, or do we want the right to the word marriage itself?" - and now we're dealing with this.

If you Unicorn-seekers get your way, it won't be long until we'll start seeing posts about "Oh, you're 50 years old and you go after 18 year old virgins? That's creepy, bro" and all this other fuckery. Men will be shamed for anything and everything the Liberal agenda craves - for not paying their employees more, for not paying enough taxes, for being in their 40s and not settling down, and on and on.

I mean, come on, it's so blatantly transparent. You're going to play the game, for the next few years or decades, and when it's time to settle down...maybe once you're a little older, in a little worse shape, not as full of vigor...you STILL want to be able to find your unicorn, and it kills you that it's possible your unicorn will go slink away with the first Thundercock she runs into who doesn't give a fuck about you or your inflexible morals.

[–]freethinker34 18 points19 points  (8 children)

The reason "evil" is attractive is because it gives you short term rewards in exchange for long term consequences.

Doing the right thing is the path of righteousness because you forego immediate success in exchange for greater rewards in the future.

Honesty, discipline, ethics are all virtuous and people who abide by these codes come out ahead in the long run.

[–]kafka-tamura 4 points5 points  (6 children)

Tit-for-tat is the winning strategy in game theory. I believe a similar policy in ethics would be most optimal.

[–]femmefatale1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is that the society has largely eliminated long term consequences. People are expected to switch companies every few years to get ahead. People move around a lot more and maintain relationships for shorter periods of time. Screwing over your coworkers is a better strategy when you are only going to be with the company for a few years anyway.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

[–]thesixthone 4 points5 points  (2 children)

I think moderation is the key to all aspects of life. It is the path I intend to follow. Let's look at it in this context. The problem with morality and immorality is at extremes it has no purpose, no end goal. If you live an immoral life, with no reasoning behind it, you become a slave to your natural instincts. You ruin others lives for acute instances of pleasure. On the flip side, if you live a purely moral life (in an imperfect world), you achieve nothing tangible because your tenants forbid it. I think the most reasonable conclusion (especially in an imperfect world), is to live a balanced life using morality as a base to protect yourself from self-destruction, and immorality when it is required to pursue a goal crucial to your legacy.

Logic and understanding is the key. Let's look at a few examples.

Example: Laying with your neighbors wife. You have two choices here. You can lay with her immorally for a sense of pleasure, or you can abstain. The problem is not in which you choose, but the reasoning behind it. Are you having sex with her for pleasure? If so, this is probably a bad choice as eventually your conscious will get the better of you and you could destroy her husbands life. He may also retaliate. In addition, you will be no better than the people you hate. But what if you're an American spy overseas? What if she has information you need crucial to your countries security and your job? Laying with her may be immoral, but it is likely the right decision given the circumstances.

Most of us will never be spies but the example holds. Sometimes wrong decisions must be made for the right reasons.

Example: Having sex with your ex. Let's say you break up with your ex and a few months/years down the road she approaches you and wants to have casual sex. You decline. You made the "moral decision". But what is the reasoning behind it? Did you do it out of a feeling of self superiority? "I'm better than her and she must pay"? While you made the moral decision, the reasoning behind it is cowardliness and false confidence. But what if you decline because you know sleeping with her would cause old feelings to come out? What if you're doing it out of self protection? Or fear of rape accusations? Then the "moral decision was the right decision".

These are two examples where the moral or immoral choice only becomes apparent based on the circumstances behind it. Sometimes we need to make the "bad decision" to further our goals. And sometimes we need to make the "right decision" to protect ourselves.

EDIT: phrasing

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with your assessment here. This is how one with moral principles, but is not idiotically a slave to such principles operates.

[–]semondemon24 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Why do you support gaylubeoil if he is basically the extreme opposite of what you are preaching?

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have love for everyone who tries to help men, whether we have the same stance on morality, or not. Differences aside, he is still a red piller. If he's helping men, he deserves support. If he's not, he won't have it. Simple.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

This was a good read and aligns with how I take the stuff I read here. I'm not a hardcore redpiller but a lot of what I read has merit. There are many ideas here that do not take into account a broad spectrum of variables and tend to be a bit naive. There are also many ideas here that are very rational approaches and strip away outside influences, hence the name TRP. I apply what I find of worth to myself and nothing more. Many people here take it as a religion and that defeats the whole thought process.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many people here take it as a religion and that defeats the whole thought process.

Unfortunately idiots don't want to think for themselves, they want to be told how to think and follow someone.

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[–]Syberr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the ammount of upvotes you're getting contrasts sharply with the replies in this thread berating you. Personally I like very much that people like you have this vision, I've always admired your posts.

[–]2emptyform 1 point2 points  (1 child)

This is a great version of a post I wanted to write, thank you.

[–]freethinker34 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Great post, and I agree with everything you've written. Red Pill truths are undeniably true when interpreted in moderation, without extremism, however just because its true does not mean you have to violate your own moral codes in order to achieve success. If you do, then you are an immoral person. Just like stealing money from a ton of old people by being a scam artist might make you rich (which is a form of success), doing it is immoral. I am a moral person, and my morals outweigh simple success. Sometimes you do have to be immoral because the benefit gained is greater than the harm inflicted, in these situations you must simply have good judgement. Sometimess the greater good is whats most important.

I try to convey this same idea in many of my posts on this forum. Morality is important, but whats more important than simpleton morality is the end goal. Sometimes you have to break moral codes in order to achieve a greater good. Sometimes it is better to lie, cheat, steal because the long term benefit is greater than the short term cost.

Example: Juan steals medicine for his mother Bertha who cannot afford it, because without it she would suffer.

Example: Patel the Indian farmer values the life of the chicken and the cow, but he values his own well being and that of his fellow humans more than the animals. He believes that animal protein is an important part of the natural human diet. Therefore he supports the murder of the cow and chicken for the benefit of himself, his family, and his fellow humans.

Example: Peggy Sue cheats on her beta husband with DonJuan thundercock, resulting in children of superior genetics who grow up to become stronger and more successful in the world than if she had reproduced with her weak beta provider husband.

Example: Sam lies about his age on tinder and ends up meeting Elizabeth who falls in love with him, but who had set her age filter much lower and would never have even seen his profile had he been honest.

Morality is important, but the greater good is more important. You need to have the ability to weigh benefit vs damage inflicted when decided to do something immoral. If the benefit is significantly greater than the harm inflicted then breaking your moral code might be the right thing to do for that particular situation. Even a paladin kills in the name of justice.

[–]RPMan1 4 points5 points  (8 children)

And what is your prize or reasoning for being this morally principled person?

You said that people who are constantly out for themselves end up alone, but this is false. The immoral prosper all the time. It's true that some get caught and lose, but it's also true that the moral are penalized for it all the time in this world.

And both the moral and immoral wind up dead in the grave. Why should anyone care about reducing suffering and pain in this world, in this society that does not care about anyone? Because you get a good tingly feeling? And what of the man who has determined that such a tingly feeling is not worth it anymore?

You make good posts but you also appear to me to be conflicted in some sense. You write about dark triad and power, yet also bring up moral and principle consistencies. This is not the first time I've seen you write about this, and it makes me wonder if you're actually a highly moral, or even religious person, deep down, but are struggling to reconcile this with this brutal world we live in, or are dealing with some kind of cognitive dissonance. Or maybe I am projecting ;)

Either way, short of an actual divine authority, you're not accountable to anyone. They're all going to be dead anyways in a hundred years, why not use all the tools at your disposal to level mountains and destroy the weak to make this vapor of life we have enjoyable for the short duration it is? In the end, it counts for nothing, and I think being called a shitty person by a dead man walking is nothing.

Edit: The golden rule is "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" (Matthew 7:12). There is no indication that you will be reciprocated for doing good unto others. The incentive there is not to get favor from man - as we all know man will not always reciprocate - but rather to get favor from God, despite how man treats you. In other words, you're doing it unto God, not man.

[–]MarinTaranu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to add my 2 cents here, I believe that the Golden Rule predates the writing of the Bible, and, as I am not religious, I don't believe that the Bible is the word of God, however, it does put on paper an ancient concept of tribalism, in that, if we are to succeed in the face of the forces of nature or other tribes, we should be united (as a tribe or extended family), and it also acknowledges the fact that we are not strong at all times, however, we are still valuable to the tribe, so this is, I think, a type of group self-preservation.

[–]fongiskul 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Somewhat religious talking here.

I understand the game exists. I understand the treatment I give others will not be reciprocated in any way. I've been Blue Pilled screwed by this before.

TRP principles allowed me to understand the game. But I'd much rather burn at stake than see myself become the epitome of a male manwhore exuding false Alpha Fuck characteristics due to internal weakness (which ironically was what home wrecked my last relationship along with my misconceptions of women, love, and the game in general).

You said why not milk life for all it has to offer because we'll all end up dead. This is true. Money, women, sex. Why not?- because the principles I hold dear and live by are worth more to me than physical/materialistic instant gratification . I find more satisfaction in being the best I can be while sticking with my principles than milking the world. Doesn't this encompass some aspects of being Alpha? Strong willed and unyielding to the desires of women? Commanding authority while constantly self improving? Character development in the morally purest sense is worth more to me than getting pussy. I'm not deluded into thinking the game doesn't exist. But I make compromises (what op said about giving up certain aspects to keep living with these moral principles) to co-exist with the game.

"In the end it counts for nothing" - As a guy who has principles, I think it does count for something. Which is why I still stick by them. If you aren't religious or don't have a set of beliefs you live by then I'm not going to force you to understand this.

You take our "tingly" sensations we get as fleeting feelings. If I stuck by my principles purely for "tingly" sensations, I wouldn't have lasted long enough to even be here. I'd drop it as soon as I found out what being purely immorally Alpha could give me. That "tingly" sensation isn't what drives me to stick to my principles and morals. Its much more complex than that.

You yourself seem conflicted. You have a complete understanding of how people should live- milk the world before you die because we're all ending up there anyways. Its almost bitter. You question why men live by principles and morals and codes of honor, but you also have a complete understanding of why we do it- unto God. Perhaps this really is a projection to op o.O

And seeing as you're quoting Matthew without actually taking a stance on it:

Matthew 10:16 "“Behold, I am sending you like sheep in the midst of wolves; so be shrewd as serpents and simple as doves."

That's exactly how I'm going to co-exist with the game while going by my principles. Easy pussy and instant gratification is fun. But to me its a very small percentage in the grand scheme of things. There are better and greater things to do.

Edit: my moral principles are NOT driven by the fact that my religion teaches life after death. I personally don't believe in it at the moment. To do so for reward is no different in trying to milk the world before we die.

[–]1APookIsAPook 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I think moral behavior is commendable, respectable, and extremely important for society to function properly.

With that said, adhering strictly to moral behavior is an example of a captured agent. Your behavior is serving the good of society and the community at the possible sacrifice of the individual. The definition of Alpha is really irrelevant to the individual who wishes to maximize his fulfillment. If he wishes to be a beacon of righteousness and that fulfills him, he may do so, being fulfilled in upholding the foundation of society. However, he must be aware of the fact he is serving society and not only himself.

There is no right or wrong here. Right and wrong are human conceptions. It is only a choice of whose interests one chooses to serve. Most choose to serve society, and thank goodness, or else we would not have society at all! It is no wonder moral action is held in such high regard. By serving only the individual, one essentially takes advantage of others who choose to sacrifice themselves in service of society. However, does the individual take advantage of other society serving individuals or does he take advantage of the moral framework which creates society?

Again, there is no right or wrong. Only who you choose to serve.

[–]MarinTaranu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not like you serve society 100%. That would be foolish. Everybody serves society in one way or another, more or less, just by existing. You don't have to fall into the trap of all-or-nothing trap.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I understand exactly where you're coming from here. I was raised in a Christian family and eventually stopped believing all but the bits about morality. I think it was because the moral systems in many religions are actually pretty good. Denying instant gratification for long-term happiness for not only yourself but your family after you and stuff like that. Those concepts actually make really good sense logically speaking. Cultivate a life you can live comfortably in. I think this is what most people subconsciously go for if they're intelligent. It is much more difficult for people to live comfortably when they're in the company of immoral dark triad fucks that just pretend to be their friends for self gain. Those ideas are so appealing for a reason. They help us shame those people out of social groups they don't deserve to be in. All it takes is one selfish prick to ruin the morale and cohesion of a group.

[–]the_primal_pimp 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Assuming that behaving moraly, as opposed to immorally, goes against self-interest is not true. In fact, it is in many situations the optimal strategy. It is in your best interest to cooperate with people, making moral behaviour as selfish as Machiavellian behaviour.

The key is to adapt the strategy to your environment.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people here are fucked up. They don't realise that you can have a good life being moral, too. They equate morality with weakness because they are jaded, have a poverty mindset, and think they have to fuck everyone over to "get theirs."

The wisest Machiavellian knows when it's in his interest to be moral, and when he needs to ignore his morals. When it is wise to be immoral, and when indulging such immorality will result in a net negative.

The more stupid among us just think "evil is supreme" and disdain anyone who doesn't fit their idea of superiority. Which, in a nutshell, is being a psychopathic cunt.

[–]Oversia 13 points13 points [recovered]

This thread is bro knighting masquerading as moral outrage. There is no such thing as a woman or man being taken. Women as well as men are free to leave any relationship whether it be fuck buddies on to marriage at any time for any reason. Its the man's responsibility to keep his woman in check.

If the woman is going to leave the woman is going to leave. If the woman is going to have sex with other men then she is going to have sex with other men. Stop blaming the guy for having sex with a woman that is "taken". There's no such thing as a moral contract between two men who don't know each other. Your blaming men for females hypergamous nature.

Blame the woman for branch swinging, not the man for being a bigger sexier and stronger branch.

[–]midatlantic32 7 points8 points  (1 child)

I'm with you, Oversia. If a woman wants to fuck another man, she'll find a way. Somewhere in the sidebar there's even a description of the extreme lengths to which a woman will go, including hiding in a broom closet (or something of that nature) in order to fuck a desirable alpha, without considering the consequences.

As a man, I get pissed off because women are never held accountable for their actions. Yet, after swallowing the pill, i'm aware I can't do anything about this. Instead we must understand their nature and adapt ourselves.

Yet I'm being told that I may be an immoral piece of shit if I fuck another man's girlfriend?

The female is to blame here. Its in our nature to want to fuck as many women as possible. We're the gatekeepers to commitment and women are the gatekeepers of sex.

If women want to fuck up their lives, so be it. But I'm held responsible for morality? If we never tried to fuck another man's significant other, then our species would die.

I don't understand when I should be trying to be moral when it comes to women. In the other areas of my life, I am content with the state of my morality. I treat my business partners well and I live a life where I attempt to add value to the lives of my friends and family. Yet, when it comes to women, my morality doesnt necessarily translate over.

Just because I lack morality when deciding to fuck another man's girlfriends, doesn't mean I'm immoral in other aspects of my life.

[–]ChadThundercockII 4 points5 points  (3 children)

There is an unspoken rule in TRP forums : "Never blame women for their hypergamous tendencies." If a woman branch-swings, it's the man's fault for not showing enough value.

[–]FoolishWiseGuy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In the words of Dante Nero "If anything goes wrong it’s always your fault"

[–]midatlantic32 2 points3 points  (1 child)

That's empowering in the sense that I'm always the one responsible if a woman decides to leave me. This means that if ive got my shit together, I'll always be in control of the relationship and she should never leave.

So you're telling me that even if my value is higher than hers, she will never cheat, ever? Or is there always an exception to this unspoken rule?

Im just having difficulties coming to terms that they re never at fault and never accountable.

[–]trplurker 6 points6 points [recovered]

This thread is bro knighting masquerading as moral outrage.

That's exactly what it is. Usually IM is pretty on point but today he's wildly off base, MRA / Purplepill / feelgood type shit. On a deeper level it's feminist shaming tactics straight from the side bar. "Real men don't fuck taken girls" is what he is saying, and then preaching about how righteous those rules are.

His entire post is based on the concept of unwritten social contracts, which history has proven are worth less then the fictional paper they are written on. The idea of "if I don't do X, then other people won't do X to me", it's a form of reassurance for insecure men who couldn't handle "X" happening to them. They are afraid of some other guy "taking" their women, so they go around pushing a "don't fuck another mans girl" line. History has demonstrated what happens to those guys, they get beaten, ruled over and subjugated by men who have no such fears or limitations.

[–]caliboo 3 points3 points [recovered]

So what do you think then?

Personally I think the golden rule should be "take every advantage and opportunity you can," but so far haven't put this into great practice in my personal life.

[–]JayViceroy 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I guess I interpreted it differently. I think he is saying know the difference between immoral and amoral. Find where in that spectrum you want to be and maybe you need to be in society and live that life. In essence be yourself.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

You are correct. I'm not bothered by what the guys above are saying. They'll still read my shit.

I get shit when I do dark triad posts from moralists, too.

You will never please everybody. Don't try to. Please yourself.

[–]DannyDemotta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I feel like this was posted a month and 17 days late, and that our "Lol jk" is coming any time now.

I have a very high thresh-hold for what is and isn't immoral. Simply gaming and bedding a taken woman does not cross that. Now, if I were to, say, doctor a goddamned video/pictures of her husband showing him kissing another woman, and then use those fake pictures to convince her to sleep with me; or send a friend to buy a bunch of drinks for him at a bar, then send a prostitute his way, etc etc - then yes, even if I didn't break any laws, that's immoral as fuck, and cheap.

Blackmail, breaking the law, intimidation, entrapment, all stuff I won't touch. But 1v1? I'm 360noscoping that ass, married or otherwise.

[–]hairaware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are picking this apart in an incorrect manner.

You are correct this women should you choose not to fuck her will eventually likely do it with another man. This does not absolve you of doing an immoral act. If there was never an opportunity for this women to cheat then she would not cheat. This is not realistic though and at the end of the day this women is likely to find a vessel for her act.

Would I fuck another dudes GF or wife. 100%. Does this mean I acted immorally. 100%. This is the point he is attempting to make. Just because she would've done it anyways doesn't absolve you of the action. Take mental credit for what you've done and either accept and move on or hamster it away.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Very well said. It certainly has bothered me when someone says, 'RedPill is completely amoral, so if you have moral objections to actions like knowingly sleeping with another guy's wife, you are bluepill' which is pretty much what I read recently; calling a guy 'bluepill' if they don't agree with you is exactly like feminists calling people 'misogynist' if they don't agree.

I completely agree that Redpill is first and foremost a collection of empirically-derived information about the behaviours of men and women - and information is amoral; it is either true or false, no more. It also advocates advice for men to improve their lot, such as lifting, dread game, etc. Actions can have moral dimensions, but I don't see this here, it is just fine. But to go from that to saying that everybody is out for themselves, it is dog-eat-dog, so read 48 Laws and live by that - no. I read 48 Laws, and some of them are worth practising, some are more a warning of what unscrupulous people will do, so be on your guard.

Knowing AWALT, it is not immoral to avoid marriage, nor to spin plates if those women are aware that this is the relationship they have. It is not immoral to exercise your right to walk away from a relationship, nor to tailor your interactions to achieve greater success (handling shit tests, eg), if you are not doing malice to the other person in so doing.

RedPill is not a morality play, what you do with the information is up to you and your own moral code. But really, who do you look up to, who are your heroes? Machiavelli, Cesare Borgia? Or Marcus Aurelius, George Washington, Admiral Nelson, Spartacus?

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In summary: All's fair in love and war

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I was getting a massive influx of followers today and I was wondering why. Its because of this shoutout so thanks. I uploaded a couple of video to my twitter check them out.

[–]situ139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has the power to decide if she wants to cheat.

If its not me she's cheating with it will be someone else. I have no mercy for her boyfriend its his fault she even thinks about cheating.

The only time I won't fuck another mans girl is if the boyfriend is part of my social circle.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This also makes me think of these videos. Check out this guy's youtube videos. Pretty motivating stuff to say the least.



[–]Skarskarskarner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this great post. Swallowing the red pill is a really confusing process and after having overcome the denial phase, one can find themselves in a position to question all of their values (out of frustration resulting from a shattered perception of reality), and I think you provided a clear picture of what the red pill really is. This subreddit is not only about what you HAVE to do as a man once you know the rules of the game, but also about what decisions you can make once you know these rules to become the man you want to be. That is the true alpha attitude : shaping up your personality despite the social pressures.

[–]thrwawy_one 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great post. The quality of your writing has gone up tremendously. You don't overuse big words like you used to. Everything is extremely clear and fluent. Keep scribbling.

[–]zarus 1 point2 points  (1 child)

The people who make "shit business partners" fail to realize that they have to guard their reputations. That is the practical dimension to being a moral person. They understand this unconsciously, so they try at great cost to themselves to redefine what it means to have a "good reputation." That's basically what liberalism and religion is.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are bang on the money here. Bang on. You understand the benefits of being a person who adheres to moral principles when he can afford to, but is not a slave to such things when another tries to exploit said principles.

[–]1rlh1271 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TRP has and will always be a salad bar. Take what you want and leave the rest. Thanks for the good read.

[–]RatherPlayChess 2 points2 points [recovered]

There is a great deal of ethical inconsistency in your post.

One minute you're berrating utilitarian ethics ("doesn't matter, had sex")

The next minute you're criticizing master/slave ethics as a "metaphysical perspective."

Followed quickly by more hedonist/utilitarian bashing “I have no commitment to that other guy, I don’t even know him, so if his girl wants my dick, I’m going to press that.”

Then you rave about virtue or "the principle" of a choice as if that will save you after basically saying

"Most people who advocate for immoral behaviour don’t even have the conviction to call what they’re advocating for immoral. They know it’s immoral"

In short

is it immoral?
It just is!!!

So you're preaching a deontological ethics with a kind of moral duty but advocating virtue ethics.

There's a lot of potential here but I think if you're going to write on ethics you should do some reading on ethics.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if you're going to write on ethics you should do some reading on ethics.

I agree with this statement.

[–]trplurker 1 points1 points [recovered]

This is quite possible one of his worst writings, it makes zero sense as anything other then male shaming. He is attempting to convince other men that having "morals" is good and that the moral in question is the one "not to fuck a women who another man has taken". It boils down to "don't fuck married women because I don't like it when you do". The rest is masturbation to make that line sound more legitimate.

[–]RatherPlayChess 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Do you think having morals is good? Don't you have morals?

[–]2Overkillengine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how am I going to hamster away my responsibility for the consequences of my choices if people see right through me when I trot out the "Herp derp TRP is amoral!" line?

[–]flexiblehold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I object to morality even being discussed in the context of TRP. It's like discussing morality in the context of being a Star Wars fan: "Let us examine whether you can still act morally even though you love George Lucas' entire oeuvre." Such a topic would be irrelevant and pointless, just like it is here.

To be Red Pill is to acknowledge women have a certain nature, and how as a man we might reconcile ourselves to it -- TRP is not a platform for a discussion of how to be "moral." It also seems to concede intellectual frame and ground to the standard feminist objections to TRP, you know, like that we should feel ashamed for some reason for merely understanding what AWALT or the Hamster is.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great post. Society is full of people who don't trust men. Guy's who nail skanks are evil "users" while guys who give everything for a woman's love are apparently also evil. Talking to a woman who just broke up will be suspected of trying to abuse her emotional distress or have otherwise ulterior motives. Some feminists even question whether they should publicize information about rape reporting rates because they think it'll give otherwise decent men ideas. Bogus stats of violence against women, cultural Eliot Rogers, and one in five run rampant. Society just doesn't trust men with information or with women.

The red pill is a place that simply decides to trust men. We map out the game and say "If you do this, this will happen" and then we leave it up to men to make their own decision. Just because we disagree with a decision doesn't make it wrong. That guy's a free agent and probably has some reasons for what he does. We don't trust men to make a decision we agree with, we trust them to make a decision that fits their own considerations.

[–]through_a_ways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO, this is a mediocre post.

1) you create a false dichotomy between the "amoral" hypocrite and the "justice"-based guy. The reality is that everyone on earth has very strong hypocritical feelings regarding the golden rule; it's just that a select few are able to consciously recognize this hypocrisy, and the only logical step after doing that is to internalize amorality. Moreover, a single individual will often vary wildly between these extremes as a function of time and environment.

2)"These people, the "amoral bandwagon" as I call them, like to prioritise incentive over justice. These people make shit friends and business partners.""

Firstly, putting incentive above all else is what creates a successful businessman.

Secondly, just because you are very pro self-interest, it doesn't mean you're incapable of developing a close friendship. Our biology is built in a way such that we tend to give a shit about people we know.

3) You should have also mentioned race. Everything you write about is discouraged by heterogeneous societies, and promoted by homogeneous ones. People treat strangers a lot better if they know that they're related to them.

[–]zanthelad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Capitalism is far from a problem for men. Socialist alternatives focus on redistribution of income from men to women, while men have no limit to their power to thrive in the unconstrained free market.

[–]babayega 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Appreciate the post. This is something I think about almost daily. I was raised by my father to have a very strong sense of honor. All good it did him, he died early. Lately, I've realized that it is simply a self imposed handicap in the current society, nothing more. West is falling apart, and it a huge scramble for people to tear a piece out of a dying beast. Kill or be killed. It is a giant prisoner dilemma. In an ideal world, we would all collaborate, in an idea world communism works, but we do not live in it. I held out longer than most, trying to do the right thing, but you can only kick a friendly dog so much before it start tearing shit up. So now, I'm slowly, growing more psychopathic, just trying to survive. But i do not enjoy it. Every day I ponder, is this the day I blow my brains out? A few of my friends did. Seems like there are only 2 options for me. And it seems like the only people that survive are the ones that actually enjoy this shit. Maybe I can learn to enjoy being immoral.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

What a fantastic piece. Thanks to /u/IllimitableMan for posting this, because you've at least changed the way I'll look at morality. The level of abstraction makes it likely hard to comprehend for many, but the people who will respond to it most will be those with the capacity for high (or very low) moral reasoning anyway.

The post essentially outlines that a sense of justice and similar principles is a burden: it limits the actions you can take. It is important to note that while your actions are limited (in terms of selection), the rewards for actions conducive to justice could be the same as those conducive to immorality. We'll never know the complete consequences of either side, so the best we can do is go with whatever our innate sense tells us to, which can automatically weigh if your biological strengths are enough to carry the burdens of morality or not. I'd like to say that whichever side triumphs is the one superior, but after humans have existed this long and neither side triumphs, it makes more sense that there is an equilibrium.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but the people who will respond to it most will be those with the capacity for high (or very low) moral reasoning anyway.

An astute observation I concur with. Morality is a taboo. It inspires the most emotional as well as the most intellectual to come forth.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you are right. I had this kind of argument 2 days ago while i was at a party. It was 4am and i was quite drunk, so i shouldn't have had it anyway, but it finished with me being called "morally wrong", since i have no problem with dating/fucking girls who are in a relationship. At least if they aren't together with friends of mine. I asked them to tell me why they cannot do it (in their words) and thought they are weak, but yeah, they just have their morals as i have mine. Reading your post made me realize that i just got defensive because i thought i have to declare my opinions valid. There is no point in it. There is only one thing to add: While i wouldn't want my girl to get fucked by another man, i wouldn't make a big deal out of it for the guy(s). It is between her and me, independent of the other guy knowing about me or not. I try not to be a hypocrit. I'm quite conform with /u/MarcusArgentius points too.

edit:words and grammar

[–]zxsteven 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I read this with a "Dog eat dog" mentality.

[–]ChadThundercockII 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Knowing that "life eats life", "dog eats dog" is no longer a mentality, just another thing that we do.

[–]Barely_Intrepid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great read. I would argue against your interpretation of Neitche. In Beyond Good and Evil he goes into great depth on the moral perceptions of man, an oversimplification of the master morality would lead the unprepared to believe their ability can overcome the consequences of immoral actions. In the modern context this brlief is the incarnation of Nitche's last man, a pleasure seeking idiot, but a confident idiot. The idea of the master morality forging principles beyond the subjective chains of "good" and "evil" are cemented in motivations beyond the scope of that primitive foundation, and sure as shit beyond getting your dick wet.

The common moral framework that, until very recently, ubiquitous in the West is centered around the advancement of society as a whole. It's cooperative game theory where participants agree to a mutually beneficial strategy for best outcomes. This social contract IS civilization. A self interested person can take a dominate strategy at others expense in legal circumstances. In a culturally homogenous environment, this person's behaviour is deemed immoral and he/she suffers from a loss of reputation, avoidence, and eventually exclusion. When thus framework breaks down, everyone is forced to adopt a protective strategy at considerable cost, both direct cost and opportunity cost. Civil discource has lost its enforcement mechanism and the multi-cult reigns supreme. Unless and until there is a dramatic shift nothing is going to change.

At an individual level however, ingroup reputation is still paramount. Shit behaviour is still shit behaviour, it'll catch up to you in unexpected ways.

[–]the_low_s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to post something similar, but since you described it all so great, there is no need, but since i believe we were both motivated by the same thread, or rather its comments ill leave my 2c.

People should really start to tread TRP as a library and not the absolute truth. I believe it was rollo who said, that he does not want rollo clones all over the world and so does the redpill. It doesnt exist for the sole purpose that you should absorb all its knowledge, but rather to find your own path on the jurney and apply only the knowledge, that has value on your path. There is no perfect alpha behaviur and i am sure there never will be. But it bothers me, that some of you completely ignore superb ideas, great posts and knowledge, just because OP said one sentence that doesnt adapt to your moral standarts. Instead of absorbing the part of the post that has value for you, you go and rant into the comment section what a dick OP is, because he has the wrong standarts.

This wonderfull place exists to help you, if you want to give life changing advice on morality and shit, r/relationship is always looking for new white knighty femen with high morality. I myself have standards, they are not the greatest, but im not going to go and fuck my neighburs wife. But do i feel the urge to tell you its wrong if you do it? She is a whore after all... NO! And you know why? It does not contribute any value to the point that is usually being made in this kind of posts.

This is a place that has the potencial to save your life, change your life and much much more. Thread it and the contributors that try to help you with the respect they deserve, take what is of value for you and leave the books that are not interesting for your life style on the shelve. Its a library of great knowledge, but just as any other library in this world, you have to use it right, to get the best books (in this case knowlege and life changing theory) out of it.

[–]someguysomewhere321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a success driven capitalist culture people will view you as weak for that

It has less to do with capitalism and more to do with neoliberal ideas spread by jews who have always viewed gentiles as fair game.

It's easier to exploit a group of people that has lost religious morals and believes in a "greed is good", "dog eat dog" world than it is to exploit a group of truly religious people that stand up for their fellow men and play their part in enforcing moral standards to varying degrees.

Psychopaths and sociopaths will always be around as a genetic variation, but groups bound by strong moral concepts are much more resilient to them.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TRP needed this. Honestly. You changed your rep, this was needed.

[–]uglysweatercontest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed this right now. Thank you.

[–]1jimjackjoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand why the mods are against replies that focus solely on a person's morality. getting bogged down in moral debate detracts from actual analysis.

this post is essential, though, because it clarifies what is meant by "redpill is amoral." i think many people, especially when they first start reading redpill, get the impression that if they want to implement redpill, they have to be amoral themselves. repdill thus filters out these men because they can't allow themselves to be amoral--doing so would go against, you know, their morals. as a result people who are more naturally down with amorality are more likely to embrace redpill. thus, the overall perspective expressed here heavily leans toward the amoral type.

obviously this post resonates with men who were having this internal debate about sacrificing their morality. now they see that they don't have to. this is leading to an influx of people of this mindest, which i think is a good thing because it balances the "trp is amoral so i can be amoral" mindset. the more perspectives represented, the better the redpill analysis will become.

that being said, debating morality is not related to actual red-pill analysis. it's unnecessary to comment on whether you think a given action is moral or amoral and it ultimately detracts from discussion. people can have morals and be redpill. people can be amoral and be redpill. repill is amoral--it doesn't care if a person is moral or amoral.

[–]ShitfacedBatman 1 points1 points [recovered]

I feel as though there's a TL,DR missing here. Here's my take on "morality."

  1. Don't live with a chick unless you're married. They're a mess and they'll ruin your life.

  2. Don't get married.

  3. Don't care one way or the other whether or not you cheated on your girlfriend because it's not a damn crime and since you're not married there is ZERO penalty. In fact, it's not "cheating" at all. It's just something she made up to try and control you. Do you cheat on your favorite pair of pants when you wear other pants? No. It's called "doing some other things."

I don't think it's got a damn thing to do with morality more than it has to do with common sense and what can you live with. You are ALWAYS going to have male acquaintances who have gf's that are down to FUCK you behind the dude's back. You are ALWAYS going to be challenged as to whether this is a good idea or bad idea. You are ALWAYS going to know some "weird dude" who wants you to help tag team his chick. You are ALWAYS going to be challenged as to whether this is a good idea or bad idea.

Most of your "morality" depends on where you are going in life and where you want to go in life. People always complain that chicks aren't terribly moral, well that's true, but women really don't go anywhere in life. Most chicks don't have direction, they just happen upon things and happen upon circumstances. They go through life coping and dealing with all sorts of shit because they're sensitive and they FEEL everything ad nauseam. Men don't feel as much so men can have direction. Goals set and goals met. Your male morality, sad to say, is probably more of an afterthought than a priority. It is based on meeting your goals and having male friends you can live with and benefit from. Obviously if you fuck over a male friend, you risk setting yourself back. If you fuck over a male acquaintance there may be "surprise" setbacks you don't know about - or not. It's all risks.

You'll have a lot more clarity if you just de-friend every single woman in your life. You will notice that maybe only 1 in 100 women-you're-not-having-sex-with can do something for you, like book your rock 'n roll band at a particular club, and she's probably FAT AS HELL. I encourage you to take the red pill regarding your male friendships as well. Every dude you're friends with needs to provide some kind of value to you, and if he doesn't you should kick him to the curb.

You can view life as a party where people just arrive, hang out, do nothing, drink until they get sick - OR - you can make up your mind that your time here is short, there's shit you want to do, and you're going to figure out how to get from point A to point B and throw ANYBODY under the bus who doesn't help you get there.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post is spot on. Love it.

[–]darklogic420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has been on this bandwagon before, thank you. I needed my amoral ass pointed out to me.

[–]1edwardhwhite -1 points0 points  (5 children)

Amorality is simply stating what works in a scientific and pragmatic manner.

No. It is a description of an action or a series of actions that go against a moral code. It works (gets results) some of the time and fails some of the time. So you fuck 10 different wives and number 10 has a freak husband with a shotgun and your address. Its said that Chargers HOF QB Dan Fouts missed a game because he was shot in the shoulder by some enraged husband. The Grand Jury in that case came to no conclusion on that one. So there are upsides and downsides to following morality or ignoring it. TRP logic appears to be silent on the question of whether one should or should not follow morality.

I will admit I have not pressed on some married women who were hot and ready to go. Not sure why. It seemed like the move at the time.

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