Ever been with a beta girl?

Eslime · 2017-01-09T10:28:42+00:00

I've made one my LTR.... She does everything for me, like my mom when I was a kid, and offers sex whenever I want. Yesterday She did my laundry, packed it in my suitcase while I was at the gym, and sucked my dick when I got back.

She buys me video games, majority of our meals, and more.

She's attractive, enough for me anyways.

I try to be her alpha so she sticks around.

JonMan219 · 2017-01-08T16:52:23+00:00

Every girl i've ever dated was a beta chick, they're easier to control and they're the best in bed.

Alpha chicks are bitches and control freaks why anyone would want to deal with that bullshit is beyond me.

Entrefut · 2017-01-08T17:01:15+00:00

For me personally I've still always gone by the mind set of leave them better than you found them. Her low confidence has nothing to do with how hot you are and everything to do with her image of herself. She's a plate, but still a person and it's pretty easy to drip drop a little life style change hinting to her. Or give her some dread. If she's doing something that turns you off, be blunt and stop mid fuck. Put your junk back in your pants and just say that normally fucking her is enjoyable, but when she dims the mood with self loathing and bashing herself it really turns you off. I've had more fun fucking some 6/7 girls than I have with low esteem 8/9s. Confidence is sexy and no one likes a buzz kill during sex. Maybe if she fucks you well enough some of your hotness will rub off on her xD

vorverk · 2017-01-08T18:49:15+00:00

That's how you alpha-widow a girl. Not sure how to handle this properly, but if you really don't want anything with her, but care for her as a person, just let her go. It will hurt her, but better now then later, when she gets even more attached.

BeijingTurkey · 2017-01-08T21:48:29+00:00

Interesting thoughts and I agree. It can be unattractive. I recently had an experience that put me in the shoes of a female. I was at a gay club recently with my friends because it stay open 2 hours later than regular ones (I'm straight). It was fun, dancing and drinking. A guy comes up behind me and asks if I wanna do Coke in the bathroom. I know what he's getting at but I want some Coke so I say, "yea. Sure". We get in there, do some Coke, and then he asks me twice to see my dick and I say "no" twice.....minute of awkward silence....me: "wanna do some more Coke?" Him :"yea sure". We finish the bag and part ways. If someone's just gonna offer you free shit based on a covert contract, why wouldn't you accept the free shit?

MattyAnon · 2017-01-08T15:45:38+00:00

. or am I looking at this situation wrong and being a dick?

You sure she's not trying to persuade you to dump her?

JackGetsIt · 2017-01-08T17:01:18+00:00

Great post. Take the question piece off at the end and post on redpill as a field report for some sweet karma. I've been in almost this exact same scenario multiple times and it's a true boner killer.

You do need to be on guard a bit because while what she's communicating is probably true she's still manipulating you. The whole thing is a comfort test.

She's probably been through tons of relationships just like this one and she's tired of being plated and wants an LTR. So she's trying to sabotage this one because she's probably moving onto a phase where she wants a beta bucks LTR.

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GunsGermsAndSteel · 2017-01-08T20:27:43+00:00

Yeah I've had girls like that. I think it's this thing where they're fishing for a compliment. Like you're supposed to say "are you crazy? Of course you're pretty!"

ConcealingFate · 2017-01-09T00:37:51+00:00

I don't know man, nothing turns me off more than a girl who is insecure.

Even if I'm running light dread by doing no contact outside of logistics, I've seen her text her friend saying she knows I don't like dealing with her being insecure. It's frustrating. I don't mind comfort tests but I hate seeing a girl second guess herself about me because she lacks confidence.

JonMan219 · 2017-01-08T16:46:22+00:00

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CrodudeClassic · 2017-01-08T21:13:41+00:00

Hmm.. I think it's important not to confuse beta and insecure. Insecurity is typically a turn off regardless of gender and I'd say that insecurity is a subset of beta behavior.

However, not all beta behavior is bad. A woman with a set of healthy beta traits (being submissive, adoring, slightly emotionally dependent etc) isn't terrible or unusual. That being said, the reverse would probably be quite be bad if you were a male seeking a traditional relationship.

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RedPimpin · 2017-01-09T09:27:04+00:00

you guys have it all wrong, you rate women with the masculine 'alpha, beta' scale

men are supposed to be masculine, so thats what an alpha male is.. women are supposed to be feminine, so thats what an alpha female is

men are the gatekeepers of commitment, a man who easily gives his commitment away is beta

women are the gatekeepers of sex, a woman who easily gives sex away is beta

so all the 'beta females' you're talking about here, are feminine women.. just how we like it and its supposed to be

RichieFinn · 2017-01-09T12:16:01+00:00

can i ask how you have handled this since?

as i have been seeing a girl a couple of weeks and she keeps claiming im too good for her and that im so good looking i could have any girl....

i personally know this isnt true as im not in great shape, better than average looking but not exactly model material, and i can see it as her insecure ways but unsure how to handle it..

FreshTits · 2017-01-08T18:52:54+00:00

Men and women are not the same.

Edit: To clarify, I mean that the shorthand used to describe rough categories of men do not translate directly to women, and trying to do so is asinine.