I realized that I keep a lot of female friends around that I would hook up with given the right circumstances. These friends remain on facebook or occasionally I see them at events or functions, and they're remnants of the old life. The plugged in life, where I thought, I'll just act cool until the time is right.
But every time I see their face on facebook, I get that frustrated urge. Every time.
So this week, during the holidays, I decided to trim down the fat.
I told each one individually point blank that I'm taking them out.
And it's funny, because most of them declined.
And I expected that. They only know the beta me. It just occurred to me that keeping them around wasn't doing me any favors. So pushing this issue solved the question:
If they say yes, then finally! If they say no, they weren't interested and waiting around isn't going to make them more interested.
Win/win, there's literally no reason not to do this.
Single men of theredpill, I challenge you, shed your unnecessary weight, break the ties that are holding you to your blue pill days.
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