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Recently, I was out with a few friends, and 1 friend of a friend. We were at a curling club watching curling (how very Canadian!). I was being playful with the waitress, teasing and flirting. She was receptive and playing back. The friend of a friend (let's call him John) kept apologizing to her on my behalf. When she'd leave I'd ask him to not speak for me, but he continued. It escalated to him scolding me when I'd tease her for being too slow, or spilling, or whatever.

How do you deal with White Knights?


[–]pk_atheist 15 points15 points [recovered] | Copy Link

In general, I try not to keep white knights in my group. Most people who hang out with me know that I'm hardcore about this shit, even if they're not. So I avoid this friendly white-knight scenario. This was a case of white-knight cock-blocking.

In general, if somebody I didn't know stepped in and did that? I'd have to get confrontational. "Was I talking to you?"

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed. Definitely never bring white knighters out sarging with you if it's avoidable, if not, red pill their asses or /ignore

[–]itsmehobnob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It eventually got to that and he left, angry. I'd rather not run into him soon

[–]TAOofSTEVE 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Reminds me of this scene from Swingers with Trent and the waitress:

Trent: Baby, that was money! Tell me that wasn't money.

Mike: That was so demeaning.

Trent: She smiled, baby.

Mike: I can't believe what an asshole you are.

Trent: Did she, or did she not smile.

Mike: She was smiling at what an asshole you are.

Trent: She was smiling at how money I am, baby.

But in the end Trent got the girl (and got a girl for Mike too). Best way to teach is by showing. If you get that waitress's number, it will shut that White Knight up in a heartbeat. Can't argue with results.

[–]16 MGaiusScaevolus 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Really, their are 3 courses of action: 1.Crush him (like pk's example). This is probably the easiest short term route. 2. Turn his White Knighthood against him. Tell him he's breaking the 'bro-code'. He might buy it. 3. Strike off on your own/ with some friends, just drop the dead weight.

I've personally found that if you call one out as a cock-block right away in a male dominated group setting (ie; 3-5 guys out the club) they tend to stop very quickly.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I hate dealing with white knights, if they were in my group (never by my choice) I would simply explain to them the error of their ways. In the field they are much bigger assholes when on the opposing team so I snuff them out hard, tell them to go away... it's very hostile I know, but I just can't stand putting up with that bs. I view white knighting as a male form of hamstering, only guys with serious sexuality issues do it, because they feel as if they need an excuse in the back of their mind to defile a woman. A kind of excuse for sleeping with women that will protect their reputation. The male version of whore-phobia ~

My current girlfriend had some white knight who tried to "save her" from me when we first met, here's the story (keep in mind I was still pissed off about it when writing this):

http://www.tokyo-pickup.com/articles/cock-blocked-by-a-date-rapist.php

Lol, I got so much shit for this article on seddit when I originally posted it... took another read through and realized it isn't half bad, and the events laid out are exactly as I remember them... the girl in the story is now my girlfriend of 7 months, sometimes cock-block white knighting backfires I guess.

[–]pk_atheist 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

How did that guy not get beat to shit- if not by you, then by anybody? I know at least three guys who would start swinging right away.

Good story, btw.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

Aye, I wanted the lay, and swinging fists wouldn't get me there for sure. The cockblocking you can experience in this country is at quite a different level ~

[–]TheRationalMale.comRollo-Tomassi 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I try to avoid them. If they are around, I usually just boss them around. Betas fucks like that will very rarely challenge you in a direct confrontation if they feel that they are dealing with a genuine alpha male.

[–]pryoslice -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He may actually be trying to get the girl himself by being the good cop in the good/bad cop routine. It does work sometimes. I know it's worked for me.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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