Red Pill ExampleMan dates TEN attractive women, gets caught, shrugs it off, and plates 10 new women (self.TheRedPill)

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John has a history of cultivating a harem of exclusively attractive Asian women. He has been caught before but each time he shrugs it off and plays more women.


This is from a podcast titled the fever. You read the transcript here and listen to the original on soundcloud. The first half of the podcast is some sluts recounting the horrors of dating this player John, and the second half is them bitching and moaning about yellow fever. I will only be summarizing the first half, which is relevant to this discussion.

The story goes like this. Suzanne meets “this really cute guy on OkCupid.” This man’s name was John, and he acted like “one of the best boyfriends [Suzanne] ever had.” (In other words, he was doing a good job playing her). In Stephanie’s own words, “John was Scandinavian, muscular, attractive. He seemed unreal. Like a dream boyfriend.” Gentlemen are you still with me? These women that bitch about yellow fever have it hot for the muscular white guy jerk.

John plays Suzanne like a musical instrument. One day, Suzanne accesses John’s computer, and learns that it contains multiple pictures of attractive women, some of whom he is kissing, and he has multiple chats/IMs ongoing simultaneously with other women.

Suzanne immediately calls John back to his apartment. Fearing the worst, that he may be a serial killer (a logical assumption), she makes him strip naked before entering. As she moans and argues with him about how life is unfair, the doorbell rings, and another one of John’s plates shows up. Suzanne somehow musters up the intelligence to find out that John was sleeping with at least four other women.

At this point, the story transitions to Phoebe’s experience dating John prior. Phoebe is another slut that got played by John. And what Phoebe tells us is magnificent:

Phoebe loved John, but after watching him betray her over and over again, she broke up with him. In their time together though, she’d actually seen John accumulate two cycles of women. In each cycle, he dated up to ten women at once, three to four serious girlfriends, and several casual relationships on the side. Each time, one woman would find out, warn the whole group, and the harem would implode. It’s kind of like when a spider meticulously creates its web. After a storm blows it away, the spider, unfazed, simply begins again. The email Suzanne sent Phoebe was actually the third “Hey everyone, our boyfriend John’s a cheater” email that Phoebe had gotten.

Phoebe also informs us, that this has been going on for three generations, and that all the women John dates are Asian, and these sluts all feel very gross about that.

In summary, Suzanne and Stephanie talk about how triggering and emotionally devastating it was to learn that their alpha BF/plate handler John was dating other women. Their horror increased tenfold when they learned that John liked Asian women, and solely dated them. Read the first half of the podcast; it is rather entertaining. The second half of the podcast is juicy too, but not as important for what we need to discuss.

Lessons Learned

1. Give no fucks

In the second half of the podcast, we get this:

STEPHANIE: He never returned any of my calls or emails. But he has a website with his name and the only thing on the website is a quote that says: “It’s better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for who you’re not.”

As you probably suspect, the girls find this attitude frustrating. The thing is, John doesn’t care. He wants to date multiple attractive Asian women simultaneously. Guess what—that’s exactly what he does. His reaction to the girls: ¯_(ツ)_/¯

2. Women will always go after the bad boy

John was muscular and attractive. He was charming. He was either a natural PUA or learned it. Either way, he successfully seduced women. Women who decided to date John did so because they were attracted to him. No one put a gun to their heads. All of these women are attractive mind you, and none of them dated nice guys. Let that be a lesson. Be nice all you want, but you’re not going to get tingles from them. Attraction comes first. Comfort later.

3. Don’t feel sorry for women; exploit them to your advantage.

Women like players, players are charming, and women get played. It’s how the world works. Don’t feel sorry for them. It’s not your fault that they lack the capacity to distinguish a genuinely good partner that will care for them from one that they are uncontrollably attracted to that doesn’t care about them. Sexual strategy is amoral. If you don't want to play women, that's fine, but don't kid yourself into believing that other men out there won't.

John recognized this. He understood that being charming and playing women works to his advantage. And so he lived his life free of regret and did just that: he played women.

4. Don’t apologize for your preferences

John dated solely Asian women. The women in the podcast thought he was “a fetishist.” It doesn’t matter what they think of him though. What matters is what he thinks of himself. Maybe he really was a fetishist, but even if he was it doesn’t matter. He knew what he liked—Asian women—and he sought that, giving no fucks about what other people think.

Be like John.

[–][deleted] 56 points57 points  (8 children)

I really don't understand why this guy is shamed for having preferences.

"I only date ripped jerks but don't you dare date only asians"

I really don't get it. It's stupid.

[–]WordsNotToLiveBy 17 points18 points  (1 child)

"Scandinavian, muscular, attractive" = Okay.

"Cute Asian, Yellow Fever" = Gross, except if it's just me.

[–]JohnnyGameGuy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yellow fever. Its not bad to be associated with a disease where sex is a side effect rather than the cause.

[–]1independentmale 28 points29 points  (4 children)

It's especially silly considering most hot Asian women in the U.S. seem to date white guys exclusively. But the men are the ones with the "fetish." Right.

[–]5t3fan0 4 points5 points  (1 child)

why should one even be ashamed for having fetishes and called names? all kindz of sexual repression nowadays

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While they talk about sexually tolerant.

[–]199639 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just flat out racism, courtesy of the prevailing sjw culture.

[–][deleted] 135 points136 points  (63 children)

His only mistake is making the girls he is dating think that he is exclusive with only them. Why bother? What does he have to gain? Why not just plate them and let them know he isn't interested in being exclusive. This would allow him to cycle through plates, instead of having a harem of 10 "girlfriends" blow up in his face and make him start over from scratch. As far as I can tell, this is the only real complaint these women have against him.

When the host asks, "why can't people have a preference for a type of girl?...some people prefer jewish girls". Her reply is "google image search 'jewish girl' and then google image search 'asian girl' and look at the results. What the fuck does that even mean? I guess her hamster was trying to say that asian girls are unique and special and only they are allowed to be fetishized or something.

[–]ARedSchoolofThought 37 points37 points [recovered]

His only mistake is making the girls he is dating think that he is exclusive with only them. Why bother? What does he have to gain? Why not just plate them and let them know he isn't interested in being exclusive. This would allow him to cycle through plates, instead of having a harem of 10 "girlfriends" blow up in his face and make him start over from scratch.

I think John actually likes to let it blow up and watch these girls crumble. Hence, letting her on his CPU, and the second girl talking about the cycles she saw. John, or should I say Chad, literally gives no fucks and can start over in a heartbeat and probably get his plate count up to 10 by the end of a weekend - minus the time it takes him to block all their numbers, facebooks, ect.

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (6 children)

Agreed. I bet it was unintentional when the "first generation" harem fell apart, but that he found that he liked it and kept doing it the same way. I'm getting some pretty strong whiffs of dark triad from him.

[–][deleted] 47 points48 points  (3 children)

Maybe he's going for a record but keeps collapsing at 10.

[–]throwawayOP3841 8 points9 points  (2 children)

Does John have a job? I mean hats off to him, but I max at three girls.

[–]I_AMA_Naughty_Boy 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Really? I have a wife, a job, and two kids and i can manage 4 to 5. I gotta be REAL selective though. Can't have them getting all upset and causing a divorce rape situation.

Before there's a bandwagon. I know marriage=bad. But when my first kid turned 5 and I was still with his mom I wanted him to have that sense of security and not feel different from the other kids.

[–]5t3fan0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think John actually likes to let it blow up and watch these girls crumble

think so too; feel like, maybe, its kinda cruel and wrong..... NAAH FUCK IT! ATTABOY, JOHN!

[–]1kingofpoplives 64 points65 points  (33 children)

His only mistake is making the girls he is dating think that he is exclusive with only them. Why bother? What does he have to gain?

Just to play devil's advocate, you can get women more into you when they think it's exclusive and they'll do more stuff for you and work harder to please you because they're more excited about "the relationship".

You can get that with open relationships, it's just less likely because the impermanence of it is right out front with the open status. Most girls will hold a bit back in that case, since this breaks the "prince charming" illusion.

That said, I agree it's better to keep it clearly open for reasons of personal integrity, and also to minimize drama and the possibility of a woman doing something insane to ruin your life.

[–]JackGoldsteinWrites 34 points35 points  (19 children)

It's a strategy, that's a strategy. Being up front is much harder initially, and much easier after. Being secretive is VERY easy up front because it fits into norms, but much more work after (plates don't ask you to eat dinner with their parents).

It's down to what you prefer, and what it takes for you to be able to look in the mirror - which is deeply personal, and anyway, not really what TRP is about ;)

[–]bonerfleximus 28 points29 points  (9 children)

Unless they're all very whitewashed, Asian culture is a bit more reserved and you wouldn't be able to spin 10 hot Asian plates at once if you told them about each other.

I prefer the halfway approach of not committing but also not telling them about other plates. When you're with them make them feel like they're the only girl in the world, with the dread game coming in the form of them only seeing you once every week or so and you being mostly unavailable due to being "busy".

That way you're not a liar and they're free to let their hamster convince themselves they're special. You might not keep them around as long, but it avoids a chain reaction of losing all your plates at once like John did.

[–]JackGoldsteinWrites 16 points17 points  (7 children)

Sure, you can be "not lying through omission", and that's also just a strategy. With the downside being you will either end up lying or being honest eventually anyway. It's a delay tactic.

In my view it's just easiest to straight up tell girls "this is just for fun." They may not like it, they may leave, but that's fine. That's the "paying up front to avoid drama later" thing. But if you like asian girls from traditional families, that is probably not going to work at all.

[–]the_red_scimitar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nah, if you can't be absolutely upfront about the fact you fuck and date others, you're playing the "female" game - it's what they do (lie about their other relationships). Don't do that. You want frame? When they ask "how many people do you see", be truthful and absolutely unapologetic. I was asked this by a potential plate just a couple weeks ago, and I told her (3). That was a first date, and it ended rather intimately.

[–]bonerfleximus 5 points6 points  (5 children)

The thing is, they want to experience you on some level. The only thing stopping them is their hamster. You can give them that experience without upsetting their values, and they'll avoid asking questions. It's not deceitful in any way, it's a service to them in fact. By "being up front" you're denying both parties of a great experience

[–]JackGoldsteinWrites 2 points3 points  (4 children)

Great rationalization.

And when they've experienced you, what comes next? The talk. Back to square 1.

[–]RealRational 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What matters is the positive experience. The more positive experiences you have in life the better life you lead.

There does seem to be a prevailing, unspoken, idea in America that "anything temporary is bad", which is complete bullshit since EVERYTHING is temporary.

It does not matter if you create 1 or 1 million experiences with this other person, if you have the opportunity to create even ONE you should seize that opportunity. If circumstances allow you to create 2 and 3 etc... positive experiences with them then great! If not? Doesn't matter, still improved the quality of both lives.

[–]bonerfleximus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bunch of bs. If you make the experience worthwhile and you're not being misleading but still avoiding commitment, they fucking know what's up. They have the option to rationalize it or soft next themselves. If they do move on its usually low drama. Like I said, you're doing them a favor by offering them an experience their irrational mind would normally deny them, while giving them an option of escape without feeling like they're at fault. If you give all your info up front, she'll have to turn you down even if it's what she really wants.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whats the talk? If they ask you to be exclusive, say no. If they ask you how many other girls you are fucking, don't tell them. Let them assume whatever they need to assume to make themselves happy. The talk is something men who allow their woman to frame the discussion have.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Let their hamster decide what it needs to decide. Less information the better. One day they might be thinking 'oh my god he is sleeping with so many other women! I want him!' the next day they will be thinking 'He is all mine! I want him!'

It is because they are fucking crazy and irrational. What they need to think in order to want you changes from day to day. So leave it a mystery and let them fill in the blanks.

[–]the_red_scimitar 13 points14 points  (3 children)

Being up front is much harder initially, and much easier after.

This. I always ensure even before a first date, that a potential plate knows that I date (and fuck) others, and that this is my lifestyle, not a strategy to find "the one". It does weed out some, but I've been surprised at the outwardly "vanilla" girls who will go for this.

I don't need all that work of maintaining lies, and honestly, I find it un-manly to have to lie to women. They probably have to lie to me, but why on earth should I need to lie to them? It seems cowardly in the extreme. I suppose on the far end of that spectrum would be a truly DGAF attitude, as OP's Chad Thundercock seems to have, but I'd hope a real DGAF attitude means you also don't have to lie - because lying is definitely giving a fuck.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMarsupian 17 points18 points  (4 children)

On the flip side when you are not exclusive they sometimes try to step up their game to get exclusivity. Ive seen the most ridiculous pleasing and partnering behavior when I was openly fucking other girls. Buying me shit, always making food, anal sex, spontaneous blowjobs etc. Only problem is when they find out its not working and they get all emotional but usually there is some orbiter in the picture for emotional support.

[–]1kingofpoplives 10 points11 points  (2 children)

Ive seen the most ridiculous pleasing and partnering behavior when I was openly fucking other girls.

This is true. It seems like the state of no commitment yet, but where she believes there is a solid possibility of commitment if things break right, is what triggers the ideal female behavior.

[–]1aguy01 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea the most power a man has in the relationship is before he gives his commitment. Just like a woman has the most power before she fucks a guy, and loses a lot of it once she gives up the pussy.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If someone could just invent a pill that kept them perpetually in that state, civilization would be saved. :)

[–]the_red_scimitar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrote about exactly that elsewhere in this thread. Your experience matches mine, and I'm still openly non-exclusive. I'd forgotten about the gifts, but yeah, that too. Definitely household chores, sex of all kinds (rough and kinky? no problem).

I haven't really gotten the "not working" since I went solo poly (i.e. I have no primary partner, and don't make a hierarchy of my relationships, which drives some of them nuts). Because they know the score with me before even the first date, I don't get this, but when I did have primary partners (meaning while still openly fucking others), THEY would, after some months, get bent out of shape. Sometimes rather spectacularly. This always gets a summary nexting - immediate, total, and permanent. I don't fuck around with disrespect from them, because they are totally informed and consenting. If they change their minds later, that's fine - go enjoy that newly changed mind elsewhere.

[–]the_red_scimitar 8 points9 points  (3 children)

Just to play devil's advocate, you can get women more into you when they think it's exclusive and they'll do more stuff for you and work harder to please you because they're more excited about "the relationship".

May I weigh in? I'm an ethically non-monogamous guy, what they call "solo poly" now. I feel most people in this sub don't understand this as a lifestyle, and I'm afraid what you wrote as devil's advocate just isn't true. Not even close.

I do make sure everybody I date knows that I both date and fuck others, and that this is a lifestyle, not a "dating strategy until I meet The One".

The fact is, they compete mercilessly with one another. Example from just earlier this week: One plate I'd been seeing a lot of was seeming to get a little too entitled. So I made sure she knew I was going out with another plate (and by this, I mean, "can't see you, going out with X" - I use the name of my plate, since they even have briefly met one another). X is, by chance in this thread, Asian and pretty hot. She is super cool about it (any plate who isn't gets nexted hard). "Date" happens (X comes over to my house, we bang several times).

Next morning, first plate messages to ask if she can come over. X has left, so sure. Plate comes over, basically attacks me (sexually) - in a very good way. A rather rough (i.e. fun for both of us) session ensues. She hangs around the rest of the day, makes me food, squeezes fresh orange juice, cleans some stuff up, and works on my garden.

I'm not sure what "more into you" and what "more stuff they'll do for you" anybody could expect. Then again, X told me she wants a 3some and wondered if Other Plate would be interested. Imagine that competition.

[–]1kingofpoplives 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I'm not sure what "more into you" and what "more stuff they'll do for you" anybody could expect. Then again, X told me she wants a 3some and wondered if Other Plate would be interested. Imagine that competition.

What is the split between women who act this way (buy into your frame and compete) vs women who leave when you tell them you are "ethically non-monogamous" because they are dead set on an exclusive relationship?

[–]the_red_scimitar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, you think I surprise them with that -- I don't. It's very much disclosed before there is any date, so the preselection is 100%. All women who date me have had it made clear they will not be exclusive. Those dead-set on monogamy? I never date them. I've actually had some women who initiated interest practically beg and whine something like, "really? are you sure?" One straight up said, "one date with me and you won't want the others". Seriously. I wish I knew whether predisposition to non-monogamy was genetic, but I actually do think it is, and in fact, is the more common scenario. I think monogamy is a social by-product of the whole feminine agenda - the one they've been running on men since before Cleopatra.

Those who lie about being non-monogamous? It does happen. It's the same mentality some people go into a relationship with - to "fix" the other person. So, sometimes (rarely) one is sort of a stealth monogamy ninja (she thinks). When I figure out their mindset really isn't NM, I end it and don't look back, because the sheer drama such a person brings to the entire "network" of NM partners is damaging all around.

[–]RemyPrice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also solo poly, and can confirm that honest communication about other plates can (and does) work in your favor.

[–]HeadingRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"also to minimize drama and the possibility of a woman doing something insane to ruin your life."

Correction - hopefully minimize in some way a woman doing something insane to ruin your life.

[–]ModAerobus[S] 10 points11 points  (5 children)

Don't bother trying to understand the hamster. Any subgroup of women have a problem with men dating exclusively women from that said subgroup. It doesn't matter.

I agree it would have been more alpha of him to just let them know he wasn't exclusive, precisely for the reason you describe. Nevertheless, the important thing is he has no regrets.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (2 children)

I'm wondering if he was in fact honest with him and never was exclusive at all.

When women start hamstering they make shit up. They may have "believed" they were exclusive just the same as some women think they are in a relationship once they bang a guy. ie. sex = bf/gf

It certainly is more efficient to plate them all as non-exclusive. I find it hard to believe they all required commitment before sex.

The thing is that when women are telling their side of the story and the guy doesn't tell his; the only thing we know for sure is that we know half the truth.

[–]ModAerobus[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

At most half of the truth. You are correct; for all we know he may have been honest with them and they hamstered enough to believe they were exclusive.

[–]_fappycamper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he enjoys the thrill of keeping it up until they find out.

[–]Midnight_in_Seattle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why bother?

This is why.

[–]ThorLives 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Her reply is "google image search 'jewish girl' and then google image search 'asian girl' and look at the results. What the fuck does that even mean? I guess her hamster was trying to say that asian girls are unique and special and only they are allowed to be fetishized or something.

I think the argument being made was that Asian girls are highly sexualized - so any man who has yellow fever is really fetishizing their sexuality, while Jewish girls are not overly sexualized (therefore, you must like them for their personality or something else besides raw sex appeal, which is generally seen as "crass"). It's basically the "objectification" argument - which I think is a stupid and overly-vague term, since what they really mean is "overly sexualized".

[–]1aguy01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't understand how these girls keep finding out the contact information of all these other girls.

[–]RealRational 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I just did that and "Jewish Girls" had much more variety but really no sexy pictures and very few females even above a 5. Isla Fischer and Alison Brie being the 2 exceptions.

"Asian Girls" had pretty much no variety, they all look almost the same, but they were also pretty much all hot.

I don't know what affect this has on her inane comment but I'm sure whatever her hamster is the point is that "she's a special snowflake" and thus entitled and those other bitches aren't.... Despite the fact that the asian girls all pretty much look the same.

[–]Elodrian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The comparative image search is interesting. She may have a point there.

[–]Primemale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her reply is "google image search 'jewish girl' and then google image search 'asian girl' and look at the results. What the fuck does that even mean?

I googled it...I'd go asian for sure, the jewess' just had massive noses

[–]jumpingdonkey 35 points36 points  (4 children)

we need to drag johns ass over here for a ama, should be entertaining at the least !

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 175 points176 points  (82 children)

So asian women were shaming John for dating other asian woman? How can yellow fever be used as a shaming tactic when the woman in question is within your own race?

[–]TheRealMewt 357 points358 points  (8 children)

Because the hamster wheel rarely comes with brakes installed.

[–]NidStyles 36 points37 points  (2 children)

I don't think it has a method for steering either, as it tends to roll off in random directions occasionally as well.

[–]yumyumgivemesome 41 points42 points  (1 child)

That's a hamster ball. The hamster wheel is the deeply engrained repetitive pattern of thinking that women use in spite of countervailing evidence or logic. The hamster ball is when a woman realizes she's been caught in that loop of failure and, therefore, shoots off in every different direction in a futile attempt to justify her irrationality.

[–]the10thrider 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh there are brakes, but they function like a KERS system where the kinetic energy from the brakes is conserved and used to boost the wheel into hyperdrive when the need arises.

[–]RealRational 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then when they are installed it's normally done by a guy who gives them tingles and doesn't really GAF about the brakes so they don't last long nor work very well.

[–]kanji_sasahara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is easily among my favorite responses regarding the hamster. On par with a particular example of the hamster, that if it were harnessed for energy, could power a metropolis.

[–]StManTiS 45 points46 points  (4 children)

Well you see the underlying problem is yellow fever exposes the truth. Women want to believe that a man dates them because they are smart, funny, charming, whatever. Yellow fever throws it in their face that the only reason they got this guy is physical appearance. They don't want to believe that.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (2 children)

Eh, it could also be that he is attracted to their culture in terms of Asian women generally being more feminine and submissive - not just physical appearance.

[–]ThisIsMyFloor 2 points3 points  (1 child)

A bit off topic; I was with a Brazilian (with Japanese heritage) just a few days ago and she was a lot more open with what she liked and what she talked about. I am from Sweden so everyone here is very reserved and I enjoy the openness more.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sure as fuck ain't her Japanese part doing the talking.

[–][deleted] 103 points104 points  (32 children)

This happened to me the other day with my current (asian) LTR. I've dated a mixed group of ethnicities but the asian women always make sure to upload pictures for status/social validation etc while the others don't. She called me out on this asking if I was a fetishist and my response was along the lines of -- what ethnicity was your last boyfriend? White. Oh, ok. How about the one before that? White... Ok. And your first boyfriend? White. And all the ones in between? ..... White. Ok, so what's the problem?

[–]ModAerobus[S] 117 points118 points  (9 children)

My theory is that they are too stupid to see their own hypocrisy.

[–][deleted] 59 points60 points  (1 child)

Emotion clouds their logic (which is already atrophied for lack of use).

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 31 points32 points  (5 children)

These asian women need to open their eyes to the truth.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No, they just need to open their mouths to John's cock.

The truth will then be obvious to anyone who's paying attention.

[–]deepfriedcocaine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think they look better closed.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'd have to agree. And my god, what about those white night, BP, pseudo orbiter hosts. I almost threw up in my mouth listening to their constant pandering. "Oh my god, that guy is like evil." Fucking wastes of space.

[–]the_red_scimitar 42 points43 points  (10 children)

Classic Asian (in the US) - date only white guys (or sometimes only black guys) while riding the CC, grab a same-race guy when they hit the wall for those BB.

It's so easy to see on online dating sites - younger Asians often say they "DON'T DATE ASIANS!" Older ones? "ONLY DATE ASIANS!".

And remember, we're not talking every single person, just propensity, and clear majority. So if you have that exception (as I do), good on you.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

You have an exception? Nice.

[–]the_red_scimitar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An on-again, off-again plate, yes.

[–]BlackHeart89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my area, I only see asian chicks with asian guys. That doesn't mean they aren't fucking any other race behind the scenes though.

[–]malariasucks 24 points25 points  (3 children)

and to be fair, there's 4.47 billion asians in the world aka half the world.

[–]WillWorkForLTC 1 point2 points  (2 children)

How many if you don't count India?

[–]foldpak111 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will never apologize for who I am (women sure don't). I just want to have fun and make money while simultaneously creating space for like minded individuals to come along.

[–]moralprolapse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What was here response? "That's different!" Or something to that effect?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tell me guys, how would you feel if you were an Asian looking son born to an Asian woman that only dated white men?


[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me guys, how would you feel if you were an Asian looking son born to an Asian woman that only dated white men?

[–]incelmanlate20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/hapas foots the bill for this behavior.

[–]Temuzjin 27 points28 points  (1 child)

John clearly dated her because she's wonderful and dated the other women because they're asian.

[–]tuxedoburrito 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"It's on the inside that is what counts.

Really. That's why I only date alphas because the way they act on the outside or the way they look just doesn't matter to me."

Yeah yeah

[–]JackGoldsteinWrites 15 points16 points  (1 child)

It's just a blow to their ego, nothing more. "I thought you dated me because you liked me, not because of a fetish!". Let alone that you may actually need your fetish to be satisfied in order to like someone...

[–]1independentmale 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Their use of the word "fetish" is just over the top ridiculous anyway. Having a preference for certain body types or ethnicities isn't a fetish. That's just normal human behavior.

[–]1independentmale 14 points15 points  (1 child)

This "yellow fever" is a bunch of horse shit, anyway. What's wrong with being attracted to Asians? How is that in any way racist? "I find your women hot and I want to fuck them" = shameful and racist? lol. I like skinny blondes with big tits, I must have "barbie fever."

Everyone has their preferences. Nothing wrong with it.

[–]SnoopKittyCat 24 points25 points  (13 children)

I'm white and was dating an Asian girl who was only dating white guys, she was telling me how she thought white men dating Asian girls exclusively were pervs. :)

[–]the_red_scimitar 20 points21 points  (2 children)

This is practically the standard among pre-wall Asian girls. They go same-race when they hit the wall, most often.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

don't worry, asian guys are catching on to this... and they are ditching the post-wall asian women.

have fun

[–]through_a_ways 4 points5 points  (1 child)

White guy who dates white women = alpha

White guy who exclusively dates asians = creep who isn't good enough to get white girls, so maybe I shouldn't date this dude

[–]merkmerk73 3 points4 points  (7 children)

This is a recent thing and you can blame all the dorks who keep flocking to japan/korea/thailand/vietnam/etc. looking for asian girls because they're losers here.

[–]SnoopKittyCat 5 points6 points  (6 children)

Fat losers flocking to thailand and thinking they have found the love of their life is not something new though...

[–]merkmerk73 5 points6 points  (5 children)

I think it's more because of the triple triad (loves anime, loves video games, likes asian girls) dorks that have been going to east asia to teach english thinking they're going to clean house because they're white.

I saw these idiots when I went to taiwan and I know for a fact they're all over korea and japan

[–]SnoopKittyCat 2 points3 points  (4 children)

I would be curious how successful they are... because seriously, even as an engineer, if you live in Korea or Japan you are still at the bottom of the barrel from what I heard, it's not Vietnam or Thailand.

[–]merkmerk73 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Japan and Korea are a little different, but what I saw in Taiwan was basically the hottest girls did not date white guys.

The girls that were with white guys were the ones who didn't fit into whatever the normal culture is there.

ie. the taiwanese equivalent of hot cheerleader or model was not dating some white guy expat - they dated another high status taiwanese guy.

[–]darkrood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well...As a guy from Taiwan and visited the nightclub scene. It's sad to see the old white guys getting dropped the moment young muscled chad Thundercocka arrived. It's a meat market everywhere. AWALT

Who would resist an upgrade even for white-fevered Asians? :)

[–]RedditArgument 1 point2 points  (1 child)

As someone who has slight experience in Korea ane a significant amount of experience in Japan, the loser types are just as unsuccessful. In both countries there are popular foreigner areas that the girls interested in foreigners typically go to on weekends.

It's hilarious watching them (the loser I'll go to Asia to get laid types) awkwardly stand there sipping on a drink while myself and the one other alpha minded foreigner get the only attractive women. Local guys go to these areas too and they despite being asian (gasp) have more success than these hopeless fucks.

They probably get lucky and get laid with some drunk 5 once and then return to their home country and say "ahh dude I was just constantly having sex!"

That said, if you're attractive and white you get what I'd call the movie star effect in Asia. Let me just jerk myself off a bit here by saying due to this effect, getting women in Asia has been incredibly easy. It's much easier IMO to become top 1% here since most japanese guys don't lift, are shorter than you, and are almost always beta in mentality. Korea is a bit different as Korean guys are IMO much better put together in all aspects.

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (2 children)

Probably for residual effects, just like when women try to coach men into being beta so that other women can reap the benefits. If yellow fever is taboo then guys with yellow fever will be pressured to commit to an Asian in order to prove how different they are from those other guys.

[–]wile_E_coyote_genius 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is it, and they want something to be OUTRAGED about.

[–]gokurakumaru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a pressure tactic at all. Asian women will happily date non-Asian men, they just don't want to know they're dating a guy with yellow fever. It's frowned upon because women want to feel like a guy has picked them because they're different, not because they're interchangeable with their peers. It kills their self esteem.

[–]MagneticJohnson 9 points10 points  (0 children)

well, some people say the white guys who go for asians do it because they can't get white girls. in many cases there is some truth to that. so these girls get pissed because they thought he could get whoever he wanted.

asians girls can be just as hot, but they usually don't play at the level of white chicks ime. some dudes find asian girls less intimidating.

[–]SlappaDaBayssMon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I read an article somewhere that claimed "yellow fever" was actually reversed - young Asian girls tend to be more attracted to older white males and not the other was around.

[–]Endorsed ContributorTheeRyanGrey 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Not to mention that all of these Asian women fell for the same type of handsome Northern European white male.

As always, women know not the bounds of irony.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (3 children)

Think about it like you would a diversity issue. When supply and is high, the demand is low. If he only dates Asian women, they have to fight amongst each other for attention. If there is a mix, then she knows he will favor her as he has yellow fever. If it is all Asian women then there is nothing that makes them special. Makes more sense if you look at it like a business model. Gotta keep the demand high.

[–]cdtCPTret 24 points25 points  (2 children)

I think this is on the money. Stated in anther way, given a 50/50 M/F population split, the Asian population is about 5%. Given 1000 available dating-age women, he would only even go for 50 of them. Over time John becomes pretty adept at "womanizing" this "niche". To the horror of the womanized, they find that they are only one part of his life (1/10th of a relationship and, to many, only 1/10th of the value). To amplify this horror, they find that they were never his "one In a million" girl or "one in (female dating age group ~20%) = 32 million". Instead they are "one in [32m*.05]=1.6 million." In a 1000-woman population of all ages population, he would only go for 5 of them whereas they dated him on the assumption that he would have gone for 20%= 200. So they don't hate him because he likes only fucking their race, but they call it "Yellow fever" to degrade him by making it look like he was the one degrading them because their value to him is tied probably for the most part to their uncontrollable race. Factor in to the discovery of being only 1/10 of the watered down value due to other concurrent relationships. Then multiply that 10 by 3 when you find out about the other cycles. [Asians are really good at math so they did this math all subconsciously and now they're pissed]. The result is that your value to John is 1/600th of what you thought it was.

[–]rossiFan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's how asian women are. They aren't called "The cruel race" for nothing.

[–]lugubriusTRP 28 points29 points  (17 children)

Why would you let a plate on your computer. At most i'd let her use the guest account.

[–]8n0n 15 points16 points  (14 children)

At most i'd let her use the guest account.

You've already lost the security battle when you give up physical access to your box; plenty of lovely tools monkeys (herself or as a call to Orbiter Bob) can use via LiveCD or USB boot to crack open the rest of it. Plenty of other means to open it too, if not able to slave the hard drive in another box, but I'll spare you all a lengthy post.

If you really want to keep it secure; provide access on a separate box would do the trick while the daily is kept out of reach of prying eyes and fingers (hers and those in orbit). There are plenty of ex business machines cheap and capable enough for Farm Ville, and the frugal should have no issues with that cost vs potential losses from a compromised bank account and a jilted ex.

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[–]8n0n 8 points9 points  (0 children)

LiveCD? USB boot? You're giving women way too much credit here.

Not at all, re-read from my post.

(herself or as a call to Orbiter Bob)

btw; my name is not Bob and I don't like to orbit.

[–]the_red_scimitar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you really want to keep it secure; provide access on a separate box would do the trick

Yup. I keep an old laptop with a guest account for ... well, guests (typically plates). They can see what each other has been doing, which I don't care about, since they already know I see others.

[–]manslutalt 6 points7 points  (2 children)

Ever heard of full-disk encryption? It works.

[–]EvilPenName 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Each time, one woman would find out, warn the whole group, and the harem would implode. It’s kind of like when a spider meticulously creates its web. After a storm blows it away, the spider, unfazed, simply begins again. The email Suzanne sent Phoebe was actually the third “Hey everyone, our boyfriend John’s a cheater” email that Phoebe had gotten.

Bet you each time a few of the girls came back. Women love to think they are beating other women.

[–]LoL-Guru 34 points34 points [recovered]

I love how there is zero respect and learning about invasion of privacy by these women. Literally this entire situation of hers would've been avoided if she just respected the privacy of a man she claimed to care about.

"And to think, I would've remained blissfully ignorant and happy with a man I'm attracted to if I had not snooped through his private computer files."

Also how there was no realization that the clerk at the couch store was laughing at her as opposed to at them. It wasn't the goofy behavior the clerk was laughing at, it was that they had seen this baller doing the exact same shit with different women over and over and none of them knew.

I imagine this hilarious conversation between him and the clerk:

"I bet you $100 I can get 4 different women in here and spoon each and every one of them on your couches."

Additionally there is zero catharsis with respect to their own overreaching on SMV. They had said that he wasn't dating attractive women; just any old woman would do if she was Asian. Hilariously this is all of them subtly jibing each other

"Why would he date some bland looking bitch like you?"

They resort to putting him down by putting each other down, fucking comedic gold.

[–]Endorsed Contributorbalalasaurus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And to think, I would've remained blissfully ignorant and happy with a man I'm attracted to if I had not snooped through his private computer files.

Notice the double speak here. Even in admitting her own transgression, she shifts the blame onto him - "I fucked up, but it's still his fault".

Lesson to be learned: a woman will not accept responsibility for her actions. It runs counter to her narrative of being a victim. For that reason never expect her to admit that she's wrong. Instead demonstrate that you are right.

[–]Hunter2isit 15 points16 points  (14 children)

HOW THE FUCK DID HE HANDLE 10?! Jesus I was over loaded at 4/ week... couldn't do it. Props to this man, I do not have the energy for that workload. I didn't read the transcript

[–]Wolfwoodd 8 points9 points  (7 children)

That was my thought. 10 seems a tad unrealistic. 4 tops for me, but i'm a bit of an introvert and I need a few nights off during the week. Still, it sounds exhausting. You'd need to be constantly finding new girls to keep that up.. as your flake-out rate would be pretty high if your availability was that low. I'm assuming he's seeing these girls once every 2 weeks and keeping texting to a minimum.

[–]RichardPalma 0 points1 point  (6 children)

I've peaked up to 10, but yeah, it was impossible to find enough time. First of all, most, like 6 of them I would only see once every 2-3 weeks, and kept shit going through text. 4 is really more manageable, even then I'll have 2 I only see occasionally.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

This is what I was going to say. When I was at 5, one of them was something long term from >10 years ago and we'd see each other every few months when I felt like it. Another one was non-stop texting me but I only replied once every few weeks for a bang. The other 3 I was spinning carefully.

10 is pretty amazing though.

Could you even remember their names and faces?! Or would you just invite one over and be like 'oh its the brunette with glasses... cool'

[–]RichardPalma 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I definitely remembered all the names and faces. 10 isn't ready that many, I mean I have more friends than that in my main circle of people I hang out with. I would call all of them "baby" as a pet name so doesn't matter who I was taking to, I'd say "baby" and be right. I did cross the names once in text, but I kind of recovered saying it was early and I was just waking up (which was true) and confused (also kind of true, she called me by a pet name the other one only used, she just picked it it if the blue, so I saw the text and thought I was taking to the other).

I will say, while some girls were just whatever, many of them were really important to me and I still think about them a lot. I text some if them now and then, and if I wanted to get with them I could and have, but I don't keep them in my count if who I'm dating. You need to be talking more than one a month to be dating, imo

[–]newjerseykita 1 points1 points [recovered]

Since you've peaked at 10 you seem qualified to answer my question. Why does it have to be hard work, why can't you be open to the girl do all the play and finesse that is required then tell them that you're what's the word poly-someinthing. I date multiple women at one time if you're cool with it, perfect, if not, I like you but i'm not gonna stop... Why not find women who are okay with it so it's not required to put in all that work.

[–]RichardPalma 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I do that (they ask know I'm poly and at least dating others) but really I still feel 10 is to much. It's not really "hard work" but that I personally feel like I don't get to spend time with them the way I want to.

[–]newjerseykita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way i could see it working is if it was dan bilzerian style. But how many people actually can live that lifestyle.

[–]CSMastermind 3 points4 points  (1 child)

4 is also a max for me (actually 3 seems to be about what I can normally handle without getting annoyed) but I'm probably in some stage of talking to 10 or 11 girls at a time. Any time I think of something flirtatious I'll just copy and paste and text it to all of them. You can usually maintain entire conversations just saying the same thing to all of them.

[–]MagneticJohnson 2 points3 points  (1 child)

you don't have to see every girl every week

[–]Hunter2isit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just mean in the keeping the dish warm convos. I can handle the sex part, that is easy but keeping them warm was way too much work. But having multiple regulars and not ONS's was new to me so maybe I just needed more practice.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I've found that 10 or more is a full-time job; either you're not working and spinning plates full-time or you're working double shifts every day.

There was a period in my life where I did nothing but eat, sleep, hit the gym, and chase girls. Even then, I found 10 to be very difficult to maintain. I was completely "fucked out".

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 23 points24 points  (2 children)

Honestly if I was in that situation I would say that I was confused I thought all of you were the same person. You all kind if look the same to me. But now that I realize you are actually different asian women I feel bad about the situation. To prevent this problem in the future I think you guys should wear name tags.

Why not throw napalm into the fire?

[–]LionLaw 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My favorite part of this story.

His reaction to the girls: ¯(ツ)

I loled, and I learned.

[–]Rasenko 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"It’s kind of like when a spider meticulously creates its web. After a storm blows it away, the spider, unfazed, simply begins again."

I absolutely LOVE this quote. It's Perfect!

[–]RPactive 17 points18 points  (2 children)

Wasn't there a study done by okcupid that showed that yellow fever was more of a women's preference than a mans? That Asian women seek out white men more than white men seek out Asian women.

I pretty much only plate and date Asian women, I have got shit before for it in the past. This was before learning about TRP.

Be unapologetic about your sexual preferences and desires. As many have said, women will shame you in an attempt to put you in the beta box.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 15 points16 points  (1 child)

Asian women have Caucasian fever, or should I say cockasian fever. They love white cock. They are obsessed with white skin. I can't buy any sort of skin creme in this country because it all contains whitening agent and I don't want to whiten my already pale skin.

Women will do anything to shame men to get what they want. Usually the loudest screamers about yellow fever are fat hairy white feminists.

[–]slutnip 7 points8 points  (9 children)

One of my buddies is 51... hes spinning 25 plates right now (He told me 20 but he showed me his phone and within a 48 hour period he had texts from 25 women). He gets at least 4-5 1am texts every night.. weekends up to 10

Hes about to dump them all though and start over.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (7 children)

can you elaborate on how he does this???

[–]lugubriusTRP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At that stage it's like a free escort service tbh, you have so much choice. How does he cater to all their needs if he has all those plates.

[–]merkmerk73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The whole 'asian fetish/yellow fever' is a shaming tactic. I have a strong preference for asian women and I've heard it a zillion times.

I just say I like pretty women and find asian women to be the prettiest and let it roll off. It usually shuts people up.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Smart guy, and impressive. Good for him.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

The idea of dating one race exclusively being "icky" is so ridiculous. What's the solution? John should be obligated to sprinkle in a few dates with other races that he's less attracted to, just to make society more comfortable?

Good sign of someone being full of shit is complaining about something they don't like, even though it has no logical alternative.

[–]Polaris382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont get why they would care anyway. Since being in California, and I have encountered A Lot of women with a strong preference for White Men (I dont recall encountering much of that in the Midwest). I certainly dont take any offense to that.

[–]yummyluckycharms 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im impressed that he was able to spin that many at once. I sometimes get up to 4 or 5, but thats just too time consuming and expensive. 2 to 3 is ideal and it helps prevent harem collapse

[–]Venicedreaming 4 points5 points  (0 children)

PSA: don't do this in Asian countries. Vengeful harem of women will ruin you. There are lots of ways for them to do that in an Asian country. (Hired thugs, acid splash, poison, ect.) The justice system will not favor you, as you cannot navigate the corrupted system as well as the locals. Also, this behavior is highly frown upon by the locals. You will risk your safety

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (4 children)

One bitch is enough work. If you're plating ten women then you seriously need a fucking hobby

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed, although it sounds like he already has one.

[–]RedDeadlift 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Not if you don't put in the work. The most girls I've plated at once was 3 and it was stress free because I had deep abundance mentality and I felt free so I was fun to be around. I would turn one down for sex because I already had another coming over. They could sense that I genuinely DNGAF and that drove them wild to impress me and I rarely had to put up with any shit test.

IMO - plating 1 girl is more work than 3+ girls.

[–]Jokoran 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love this guy. All these women trying to force their frame on him. "Y-you can't do this! I-I'm going to tell everyone!"
And he's like "Yep," and does his own thing.

[–]erpii 14 points15 points  (17 children)

The reason he has the yellow fever is simple: Asian women are easy.

Sadly however, this only applies if you have Aryan genes.

I work as an engineer and travel all over Asia and a friend of mine does the same. He refuses to lift weights, is really skinny and barely average height. What he does have is blue eyes, blond hair, pale skin and a good enough looking face.

And that's it folks, that's all you need to succeed in Asia. He literally swore off Western women after spending a few months in Asia. In the West he tried hard and was met with tons of rejection, in the East girls approach him instead. He's also very BP and has little game I should add.

Here we simply see a version of my friend who actually puts effort into looks and game. He is not a fetishist, he simply chooses to play it the easy way.

In places like Taiwan, anyone can get a woman, no matter your looks. Girls just want to get out of there. In places like Korea and Japan they're a lot more racist and only Aryan looking guys (Koreans like the blue eyes, while Japanese like pale skin) have major success to the point where they can get 10 of those girls at the same time.

[–]the99percent1 5 points6 points  (5 children)

How the hell does one find the time to spin 10 plates and have time for themselves..

I do find this story hard to believe.

[–]MagneticJohnson 9 points10 points  (2 children)

I know a dude who's had more than ten on rotation. some of them could be once a week, some could be once a month, some could be once every two months. the number becomes vague eventually, what qualifies as a plate? some are regulars, others are old fb swinging by now and again.

to some of them you're just that steady cock who won't commit, but it's safe, it's hot and it's secret and nobody knows. so when they're lonely they swing by and get their holes needs filled.

all this is why you should never do a hard breakup. you never know who might pop in now and again. it's like you earn a pension.

[–]RedDeadlift 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I've met girls at bars before. We bang and either they don't live nearby or they move so they're 1-2 hours away. Every now and then (every 1-3 months) they'll visit to mingle with their old friend circle and then bang me at night (loving that none of their friends know). With plates like this, it's easy to get up to 10. There is no maintenance involved other than some texts now and then.

[–]the_red_scimitar 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I know a guy like John. He has no job (I think he might deal drugs), and seems to have infinite time to just go to parties, festivals, etc. Women flock to him. He has the time.

[–]moralprolapse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a dangerous game if they know he deals drugs.

[–]jeffwingersballs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One of the things I've learned from this thread is that women want to know the can have sex with someone, that validation, but are repulsed by men in which they perceive it as automatic and I think this is where the paranoia of the Asian fetish comes into play. If a man is only dating asians, then she sees him as an automatic lay and his smv plummets as she already has the validation that he is automatic.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He sure as fuck needs to improve his email security though.

[–]thepillwastaken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goddamit I loved everything about this post. Thanks for the great read.

[–]trp_s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of this guy.

[–]LinaIG 2 points3 points  (3 children)

The problem is that John looks like Hitler's wet dream. Most of us are far away from that ideal.

Hell, most men have trouble even getting laid with the average/below average women, I highly doubt more than a handful of the men on thered pill(or anywhere else in the world) can get one attractive Asian woman, let alone 4 at the same time.

This is only possible for a selected few of the man worldwide population. Women aren't attracted to bad boys. Women are attracted to good-looking men. If the nice guys looked half as good as John they'd have women, but nice guy = average looking dude who thinks he can get laid by being nice

You need to be tall or handsome, and being muscular only works if the guy has an attractive face. And most people don't have the genetic potential to have a big hulk frame. Remember: not all of us are obese, its not like lean people have the fuel to convert to muscles, or the genetic ability to cultivate body mass.

Come on, don't be unfair. Most asian women are not attractive. Plastic surgery is rampant in China and in South Korea and in Japan lol. Google Natalie Portman or Emmy Rossum. You'd decline a one-night stand with them? ;)

[–]D3STRUCTI0N 22 points23 points  (17 children)

The male hamsters in this thread running wild. It's one thing to play women when they know it non exclusive its another to lie to them all make them think they are special some up to 2 years and continue to do it.

If a woman was "dating" 10 guys at the sametime you guys would be screaming AWALT but a man does it and its ok cheating is wrong man or woman. Making fun of the lady for snooping and exposing him like thats her fault, how many men out there are being cuckoled and don't know it because they won't snoop and are too trusting turn down the hamsters men please.

[–]1aguy01 41 points42 points  (7 children)

Your right from a moral perspective, but a man pulling this off puts him in the top 1%. Any women in the top 50% could do this with a fraction of the effort this guy put in.

[–]Limekill 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah - this.

A girl could literally have a new lover every night and it would be very easy to do. She have a vagina=attraction. All you have to do is swipe right.

For a guy to have ten girls it means he must lift, run a lot of on-line dating and tinder (come up with replies that stand out), earn $$$ to pay for rent and wear stylish clothing and pay for food/supplements. Plus he has to be able to even talk to a girl and face 100x the rejection she will ever face.

[–]5t3fan0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a man pulling this off puts him in the top 1%

right! we aint approving it, but we must respect them skillz he has in the matter

[–]the_red_scimitar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for writing this. I've expressed the same thing in several responses in this thread.

I consider it the height of "female" logic to lie about relationships. They have no frame, we do (or we don't). Each lie to maintain a fictitious frame to a woman is actually a loss of frame. It's the type of weakness I expect from a woman.

For all the lip service about what a man is, when this subject of being upfront with one's personal dating strategy comes up, you get fear and fear-driven hatred directed at you (in this sub, ffs). In fact, look at other responses to your message? They all have excuses and reasons why THEY couldn't do this. And I believe them - they have work to do on themselves so they truly DGAF.

I could care less who else plates fuck. They want to fuck me, and I know how to make them keep wanting that. I don't have to be dishonest for a second, and THAT is actually a masculine and generally male trait, when it isn't hamstered away.

[–]1sardinemanR 7 points8 points  (3 children)

The only people I feel sorry for are the poor beta Asian males that wife up these sluts after they hit the wall.

AWALT. I'm not sure if any women around the world are marriage material, but I am absolutely certain Western women aren't, no matter what race they are.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why do you feel sorry for them?

Feel sorry for the Asian looking sons born to Asian women with white fever.

[–]slurmfactory 4 points5 points  (2 children)

2 - god damn it. I have a reputation as a bad boy, but when I really like a girl, I revert to the nice guy stuff. Got me dumped or discarded more than a few times. When a "nice" babe likes me I assume I should be nice back. But being bad works soooo much better ;)

[–]Trail_of_Jeers 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Frustrating, isn't it? My last LTR ended when I reverted. She cheated on me the weekend after I told her I loved her.

[–]2mbillion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like a little hero worship

[–]plenkton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pls fix: Fever is the EPISODE name, <Reply All> is the podcast's name.

[–]moltar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've started listening to this podcast, even before reading this post, but couldn't finish it. It was just so stupid listening to those girls rationalize and complain.

[–]Countpudyoola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good lord, bemoaning the fact that a guy has a preference. I guess it undercuts their special snowflake status.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Each time, one woman would find out, warn the whole group, and the harem would implode.

I believe /u/MentORPHEUS referred to this as an "extinction-level event". I've managed to avoid it but it is a huge fear.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMentORPHEUS 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Indeed I did, glad the term stuck. Recently my plate count hit 4 again, which was quite a logistical challenge of date stacking and keeping them from running in to each other. Literally see one off, change clothes, notice main GF pulling in to parking lot, quickly change to work clothes, talk to her while watching the minutes tick by, see her off, change again just in time to greet next plate. Next weekend wasn't so fortuitous, resulting in main GF leaving over a temporary plate, but damage was contained to one.

OP manages to spin 10 plates at once, lose them all, but quickly rebuild the harem of 10 not once but TWICE!? He must have mad plate spinning OR yarn spinning skills!

[–]RichieFinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my favorite part was when the woman voiced the guy at times and made him sound like some sort of retarded idiot......i mean cmon, he just played 10 women at a time without any of them knowing for a while, hes far from a retard...

also, has anyone searched that stephanie foo girl...i just did, and its blatantly obvious why she was offput by whoever was approaching her on social media, shes unattractive.

[–]colucci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10 plates at a time.

Fuck y'all. I can barely keep 2-3 going on since I'm so busy with work and school, let alone 10.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't get into Asians. The ones I've met smelled like fish broth and greasy scalp.

[–]moose_war 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every asian girl who has found my white self attractive happily admits that "white guys are just hotter". Many of them exclusively dated white guys, and even happily settle for average white guys. Asian girls have white fever more than white guys have yellow fever.

The complaints about "yellow fever" are directed towards the fat anime nerds that put asian people on the highest of pedestals. Not white guys they want to bang. One of these girls even told me I could call her "chink" and "Gook" if i wanted (which i didn't, I find race play stuff weird as fuck, but there you go).

[–]Sir_Shitlord_focker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brilliant thanks !

"I'm John's silk laying penis ;)"

[–]incelmanlate20s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JOHN is taking advantage of his racial position in society. JOHN enjoys it, the Asian women obviously love his very very whiteness, and r/hapas pays for it all.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the topic of "Yellow Fever"

I would say there ARE men who fetishize asian women. Im not saying they find them attractive, but they have that dark foot fetish kind of desire for them.

Ive been with my girl from the asian persuasion and when she encounters one of these dudes they have the same odd openers.

"where are you from... like originally"

"Ive dated asian girls before"

"I bet you really like it here in the states yeah?"

She was born here and talks like a valley girl. But it is interesting to see them talk to her in broken english and use the same odd openers.

I have no doubt they target her because she is asian.

Long story short, yeah asian girls are hot, and "Yellow fever" is used as a shame tactic from obnoxious white women, however there are some fucking odd dudes out there who do have a fetish for yellow broads, and rather than be mature about it they are kind of fucking creepy about it.

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