Summary: Dude has been banging his female friend for months. After trying several times to get him to "emotionally commit" and realizing he won't do it, she (and her mother) throw a tantrum. R/relationship gleefully joins in to bash on OP and call him a shitlord.
Feminism hates men and wants to control them for the benefit of women. In case anyone here still doesn't believe that, let me clear it up for you right now. Enter yesterday's shitfest on r/relationships, otherwise known as one of the many propaganda arms of the feminist agenda. Here we see an OP asking about his FWB situation. Basically he has been fucking this girl real good for the last several months, and his posts under the main thread indicate that she has repeatedly tried to demonstrate her "love" for him but he doesn't really see her as more than a friend with benefits. Fair enough, right?
Not according to the White Knight Commission of reddit, which swiftly came down on OP for not pedestalizing the girl.
The truth is that "casual" sex that is treated as so casual that no communication on feelings ever happens does not exist. Whether you like it or not, you are in a relationship. And as such, your first responsibility it to her, not her mother, and so she needs to know that the conversation happened, and you need to really, REALLY make sure that she isn't harboring feelings still... which, simply because she is human, not because she is a girl, she very well may be.
If you are fucking a chick, you are automatically in a relationship responsible for her feelings because she doesn't have the agency to decide things for herself. That's seriously how these people think. This is the highest voted comment in the thread.
But now that you know the truth, you would not be actively hurting her by continuing to sleep with her. I'm not saying you should have been able to read her mind but it seems insensitive for you not to realize that it could be a possibility considering she wanted an exclusive relationship with you.
Adhering to her wishes (since SHE'S the one who comes over every night and spreads her legs) is now hurtful and misogynistic.
Uhhh, no. Don't hide behind semantics. You KNOW that she has feelings for you. And you CONTINUED to use her as a bed-warmer. KNOWING how she felt. Of course she wanted you back. Because she caught a bad case of feelings. IF you are a good man, you will end it. Because you don't want to lead her on. Which is EXACTLY what you are doing.
Ah, and the classic man-shaming. If he wants to be a "good man", he'll put on his shiny white helmet and ride into battle to save the fair maiden. (By the way, aren't these commenters the same people who claim that anyone can be a man, that gender roles are stupid, etc?)
Like the other gal said, 20 year old me would have thought you would develop feelings as well. Actually, 20 year old me did think a guy would develop feelings for me. So I told him I wanted to stop sleeping together because I had feeling s for him. He asked me to come visit him out of state because he had no friends and he really needed a friend. We played house for a weekend, and we wound up sleeping together and I thought "this is it. He's going to change his mind." Guess what? He didn't. Just like you wont. She's probably thinking the exact same things as I was. You might not realize it, but you're leading her on in her mind. You should have stopped sleeping with her when she said she had feelings for you. If you really didn't know that wasn't a good idea, I guess that's an excuse. But now you know that it's a bad idea from all these other people telling you what's up. If you keep doing it, you value sex over her feelings. And that makes you a butthole.
"I degraded myself to an alpha, and this girl is doing the same, and I can relate to her feeling bad, and that makes you at fault!" Women's logic 101.
TL;DR: This is the effect of feminism on society. It removes agency from women and makes men responsible for their feel-feels. This shit is why we need The Red Pill.