Blue Pill ExampleThis bitch. Cheats on college boyfriend and justifies it (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by simple_mech

Summary: don't trust anyone. No matter how long you've been together.

There's an askreddit going on now asking why you cheat on your SO. One guy posts that his wife doesn't fulfill his sexual desire and he feels like shit, another has a wife in a coma and admits he fucked up by messing around with her sister, then this:

My current boyfriend was my first everything - kiss, sex, cuddles, etc. We've been together since i was very young, and i think we're going to be together forever. I went through this phase where I would go to clubs and make out/grind with other guys, I know he would have considered this cheating, but I was just afraid of missing out on all that experimentation that other girls get just because I met a good one early in life. He's older then me and had been with over 20 girls when he met me, so he didn't miss out. IDK it sounds petty... but you watch HBO and feel like you should get all this sexual adventure before you settle down.

I know he would've considered this cheating

Oh only "he" would? So you don't? Of course it's followed by a "but"

but I was just afraid of missing out on all that experimentation that other girls get just because I met a good one early in life

Just because? Just fucking because? Isn't that why you girls go out? To try and find "the one"?

The nerve of some people is just disgusting.

[–]SoleSoulSeoul 432 points433 points  (74 children)

Well if she saw it on HBO or Sex in the City, it must be moral and correct.

Like, duh

[–]Endorsed ContributorRS73 173 points174 points  (53 children)

It becomes more and more clear to me as I get older that humans really need societal guidance. "Dur, HBO sez...." Fucking hell. Most people are "monkey see, monkey do." Without someone to explain things to them, they're lost. They'll be formed and guided by whoever is willing to do it.

I don't want to live in some uber-religious theocracy but the West has had a totally cowardly, lazy live-and-let-live mentality for several decades and feminism and other toxic ideas have filled the void.

[–]Endorsed ContributorTheeRyanGrey 147 points148 points  (21 children)

Now I'm an outspoken anti theist but what did people think religion was for? It's exsctly this. There's a reason all the major religions put a focus on female responsibility and shaming.

When women are given absolute autonomy, their hypergamous natures run a detrimental course to society.

People are so short sighted and in such a rush to destroy traditions and blame religion for everything. This is your result. People are followers. now they just follow Chris Brown on twitter

[–]BruhBrehBro 42 points43 points  (9 children)

I met a girl who was a "good christian" and "never had sex just oral yada yada". This isn't one of those TRP pussy slaying stories but me and her ended up staying overnight @ the same college party. I was in one room with a girl from the club and she was in another... with 4 guys

For the next semester while she was still making small appearances throughout my life because of mutual friends she was very nervous and careful to keep the topic away from parties or sex. It was funny, she knew I knew and her bullshit front she puts up 24/6 could be shattered.

[–]Kiwikeeper 39 points40 points  (4 children)

I like that it is 24/6. 'Cause you know, Sunday is the Lord's day.

[–]BruhBrehBro 15 points16 points  (2 children)

I was wondering if people would think it was a typo lol

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[–]BruhBrehBro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was indeed on a saturday night, which was sunday after 12 so yea I suppose so.

[–]BruhBrehBro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was wondering if people would think it was a typo lol

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[–]MrChillBroBaggins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hamster sees the distance of wheel it has to cover, so it just keeps on running.

[–]Chaohinon 6 points7 points  (1 child)

This is why I don't understand the average TRPers obsession with "good Christian girls." Dear god, just take how much women typically lie and multiply it by 100. The more a Christian woman barks about chastity, sobriety, etc. the filthier she is. At least sluts that aren't bound by morality tend to be a little more open and honest about it.

[–]A419a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it means little. The only good indicator is youth. There is a reason child marriage happens in places where virginity is valued.

[–]d6x1 10 points11 points  (1 child)

their hypergamous natures run a detrimental course to society.

Also, there's a Darwinism against societies where 80% of the men cannot get a wifewoman. They won't fight for a nation that they have no stake in. It's not worth fighting so that the top 1, 5, 10 percent can enjoy all the women and fruits.

[–]Endorsed ContributorTheeRyanGrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See the middle east, most of africa, and any nation where a majority of men are left out of the mating game

[–]-Johnny- 23 points24 points  (3 children)

ive been preaching this for years!!!

[–]xxtheavengerxx 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I don't think Chris Brown is much of a feminist figure

[–]Endorsed ContributorTheeRyanGrey 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Go to teal breezy and see how many independent women follow him.

Oh I forgot, women and feminism have nothing to do with each other

[–]1oldredder 15 points16 points  (3 children)

Feminism only got a hold because men were weak and let it.

In my personal life I refuse and so feminism doesn't get me. No feminists are allowed in my life at all. Ever.

A woman's allowed to stand up for herself to be a woman, to have rights, to be respected. That's OK. The instant she expects me to suffer for her gain we're done.

[–]1aguy01 7 points8 points  (2 children)

Feminism only got a hold because men were weak and let it.

Feminism was engineered by men. Russia played a major role in radicalizing the youth of competitive nations, mostly during the Cold War where they sought to "defeat their enemies without firing a single shot." Notice how Russia has not been invaded by Feminism.

[–]pahispua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hah, you're so close to discovering the truth. I'll get you started, it was the boksheviks who came up with it.

[–]Magnum256[🍰] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree with you on every point. From a long-term perspective, society is basically fucked, but in the short-term you can take advantage of it. The fact that very few people are able to truly think for themselves, or know their own limits, how much money they should spend, where they should and shouldn't go, what they should and shouldn't say, etc. means that that there's a lot of money to be made off most people if you know how to take advantage of it. Give people an opportunity to 'overstep' in some way, and they usually will, especially in ways that benefit from social reinforcement ("she did this so I guess it's okay for me too!", "that's really expensive... but if he paid for it I guess I can too!")

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (21 children)

Absolutely. The loss of the church is one thing that has led to this.

[–]my_honesty_throwaway 17 points18 points  (17 children)

i think thats simplistic. the church threw things way too far in one direction. now the church is gone we swing reactively the other way. it doesnt mean the church was a helpful institution overall

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (16 children)

Of course it's simplistic. That was one aspect of a society in which we still had morals, families, and communities.

[–]1oldredder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and witch-burnings of heretics.

No thanks. I'd be one of those heretics. The church is mostly evil. Vile evil. The core of the bluest of the blue pill in a society-wide Matrix of deception, torture and cruelty.

[–]EvrythingISayIsRight -1 points0 points  (1 child)

The church is more concerned with molesting little boys.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

My rebellious streak ended when I realized society oppresses us all for a reason. It's our job to make sure everyone is oppressed only when necessary.

[–]1oldredder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's my job to find who's oppressing me and cut them.

[–]RPSigmaStigma 34 points35 points  (4 children)

Just saw this on another comment, but it's perfect here:

How TV ruined your love life

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedPillDad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That was brilliant.

The "Breaking News" bit on Oliver Hammond captured the desperate and delusional beta, who hopes a woman will rescue him from the abyss of loneliness.

This part hilariously revealed a hidden truth about married life.

[–]braking_point 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know females that would rubbish everything Charlie said. Their ability to hamster and deny truth is astounding.

[–]8n0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched this before stumbling upon TRP; watching it now certainly makes more sense to me now, whilst subtly confirming things discussed in TRP.

[–]erplaint 19 points20 points  (8 children)

One of the reasons I avoid fiction as much as possible. You'd think that it doesn't mess with your brain, that you can tell the difference but small bits and pieces still seep into your mind whether you like it or not. Watching fictional characters in fictional situations distracts from reality and, on occasion, can lead to a skewed perception.

[–]pink_and_yellow 13 points14 points  (3 children)

It depends on the attitude you have towards any given piece of fiction. Critical thinking is important. Take sex and the city for example. At first glance it glorifies women who have sex with random people all the time. At second glance it's about four extremely unhappy women who want love and can't find it. It confirms all the red pill truths. It's a how to guide on what not to do as a woman.

[–]rpkarma 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right. I watched it for the first time the other week; they are all incredibly unhappy and know their own behaviour is the cause of it. It's literally the opposite of what most women seem to get out of it :/

[–]DracoPhage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so right. However, I'd like to point out that not all fiction is bad.

I enjoy most Hemingway, for example.

[–]1oldredder 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I like sci-fi fiction instead: rather than misleading us to how things are it often predicts how things will be, or probably be, based on how things are now.

[–]1aguy01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why no first world women are fit for marriage. Even with great parents the media still holds a tremendous influence over people. When a girl has countless men approaching and offering sex and she is consuming media that encourages her sluttiness, 1 + 1 = 2.

[–]1favours_of_the_moon 79 points80 points  (14 children)

I was just afraid of missing out on all that experimentation that other girls get just because I met a good one early in life.... but you watch HBO and feel like you should get all this sexual adventure before you settle down.

It's all bullshit too. The illusion they present on FB and in the media. And they're all jealous, wishing they could have more.

[–][deleted] 80 points81 points  (5 children)

I was just afraid

Hahaha, this is a perfect example of a current post on the front page talking about how women use the word "just" to signal meekness and hypoagency.

[–]EvrythingISayIsRight 19 points20 points  (1 child)

They always try to phrase it in a way that makes them sound like the victim, so you are automatically a shitlord if you don't side with them.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's Minimizing their responsibility that way. Wordplay.

[–]NecroticFury 13 points14 points  (2 children)

Exactly, what they have is never good enough if their friends have more. Or if they could get more, you are the one at fault for not giving them what they deserve. Female entitlement 101 and 102.

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[–]Sn3ipen 6 points7 points  (3 children)

This! HBO are only producing whatever their demographics want's because that is what nets them the most income. It is the same with the fashion industry.

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[–]TreePlusTree 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Good, fuck the idiots. Gotta prune em out somehow. Now if only I could get the gov to stop taking half my money to subsidize their failures...

[–]NastiN8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta make your money in ways where gubbament can't easily get its hands on the majority of it then. Cash based business is the best way. Ex: landlord, pawn shop, laundromat. Can never conceal it all. But a large portion yes.

[–]GovernorKevin 161 points161 points [recovered]

Only a matter of time until she fucks one of those dudes from the club while beta boyfriend is jerking off at home. When your girl starts frequenting clubs without you it's time to find a new girl.

[–]evileddy 172 points173 points  (21 children)

"Hey honey.. I'm off to the club for a ladies night!!"

"Enjoy!" puts on coat

".. where are you going?"

"You know that cute girl from work I told you about that's always talking to me.. well she invited me out for coffee"

"What the fuck!!?"

"Woah.. why you so upset.. it's just coffee.. enjoy grinding up on some sweaty Chad's!"

[–]vacationlife- 41 points42 points  (17 children)

...and then there are those who don't get married/LTR/any serious relationship

no explaining yourself to any one, no petty BS, no worrying "omg is she cheating?"... hang out/bang a chick until she stops being fun and move on

i wonder how many guys would still pick relationships if they knew they had this life as an option

"but but you will live an empty life, having kids is great and an old guy without kids is sad"

uhhh... ok? adoption? surrogate mothers? the cost of that + an au pair to help raise it + daycare is still less than you will pay in divorce court later on. and now you have 100% control of your kids life, can raise him/her how you want, and don't have worry about losing custody when your wife hops back on the CC.

if you really look at it, there's really no reason to have any type of serious relationship with a woman

[–]martypete 17 points17 points [recovered]

ding ding ding, we have a winner. Wish these "But marriage can still work with the right unicorn and frame!" red pillers would just go away.

[–]1aguy01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Marriage is NEVER an option. No matter your frame, no matter her upbringing, you are bluepill if you volunteer to let the state control your money.

[–]vacationlife- 13 points14 points  (0 children)

if guys weren't raise with this scarcity mentality, and other beta shit like thinking they can find a 'life partner' who will help them and make them better, less people would get married for sure

we already know here that when you show weakness to your wife/gf, they think less of you. So you're not getting some great "emotional support" for free, you'll pay for it later

plus when your wife becomes lazy or a shitty parent, you can't really get rid of her. An au pair you can fire and replace if you want to.

with the technology today, there's really no reason for a guy that's not a betabitch to get married.

[–]reisli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it really that way? I think there are tons of married guys who were married before they understood this stuff.

[–]RichardPalma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very unlikely for the state to approve adoption for a single male. Surrogate mother might be a route, but even in those cases you have to convince a surrogate and a fertility clinic that you are worthy of it. It's not like buying cheese.

[–]MordorsFinest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup this is what i'll do. A kid raised without an aging woman's anxiety and excess stress? All stats show dads make better parents than moms. Ideally you have both but my guess is in a few years we'll see the children of lesbians become as bad as those of single moms and those that thrive come from gay dads or a single dad

[–]thefisherman1961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a great childhood, both of my parents are still married and love each other. As a kid, despite being raised in this environment where marriage and monogamy set the bar, I instinctively knew that I wanted to "date" multiple women at the same time, despite not knowing anything about sexual activity beyond kissing.

I realize now that marriage is nothing more than the feminine imperative to secure resources.

[–]ChadThundercockII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that most men do not lawyer up properly when facing custody and divorce. Get some sharp female lawyer to back you up.

[–]2Overkillengine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yup. If her primary focus is not you....then it is elsewhere. Act accordingly.

[–]Radaghast38 70 points71 points  (0 children)

That whole thread is a horrifying collection of train wrecks. Guys whose lives are defined by spousal hatred and abuse. But they go through with it because children.

Fuuuuck that. Don't get married. Wrap your tool.

[–]Zakamaru 120 points121 points  (27 children)

I forgot who said it, but women will always want the opposite of whatever they currently have.

In a stable LTR? She wants to go out to the bars/clubs and ride the CC. CC rider who spends her weekends at bars? She wants to cuddle at home and watch Netflix.

But as soon as they get what they want, they flip once again.

[–][deleted] 111 points112 points  (1 child)

All trying to avoid the unpleasant truth that satisfaction comes from within, and that no amount of other people and external validation will ever leave you feeling content.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (21 children)

I'm not sure if they're flipping back and forth or just unable to realize that they want both at the same time.

[–][deleted] 52 points53 points  (20 children)

Had a plate try to wrest commitment from me recently. "I want to be with you, but a different version of you." (You give me tingles, but I want you to be my obedient lapdog because I don't recognize that as soon as you do that my vag will dry up in a heartbeat because I enjoy having a man who puts me in my place). I told her her words say she wants a relationship but her actions say she wants the freedom of being a single college party girl and to enjoy trying to have her cake and eat it too. "Bye, Felicia" and radio silence and she didn't make it 48 hours before my dick was in her mouth, telling me how much she hated me literally ten minutes before I was balls deep. They absolutely want both. What they don't realize (or maybe they do) is they can't realistically get it from the same place. So, AF/BB.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (19 children)

Exactly! Definitely watch their actions instead of their words.

My ex, now plate, said she didn't want to fuck me if I was having sex with other girls and was going to "take a step back" and cease communicating for a bit. Responded with something like,"No problem, I'm more used to you ignoring me at this point anyway." (Maybe a little beta, but I've got somewhat of an abundance mentality) Not 10 hours later we're in the sack and she's wanting round two before round one is even over. She's even agreed to be video taped and receive a facial, things she refused to do when we were dating.

Today she apologized for "dropping a drama bomb" and "noticed she was being irrational".

Now the hard part is figuring out when she's had sex with other dudes, so I can figure out when to hard next her/demote her again. I told her if she does, then we are done for good. She says she hasn't but I know about her and her ways...

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (11 children)

Now the hard part is figuring out when she's had sex with other dudes, so I can figure out when to hard next her/demote her again.

If you know her well, she'll tell you. Usually IME it's manifest as either extra bullshit thrown my way for no reason, or extra positive attention for no reason. Projection is another big one. Watch her lies as well. If she looks up and left she's accessing her brains fabrication centers. Up and right is memory.

I told her if she does, then we are done for good. She says she hasn't but I know about her and her ways...

Honestly? You could drive yourself crazy trying track the fidelities of 3-5 different sluts. Why bother? If you aren't exclusive, don't force the expectation. It will keep the stress down, the drama and tension nonexistent and she'll be more likely to seek you out for her first-choice fucks anyway. If you put her under thumb she'll act out just to be a petulant bitch.

[–]TreePlusTree 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I don't think the left/right truth/lie thing has any real accuracy to it. I look left every time. Maybe that's rare?

Then again, I'm told I'm a good liar. Maybe I just don't have tells like that.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think the left/right truth/lie thing has any real accuracy to it.

I have it from a neurologist, but the funny thing about medicine is shit has a way of changing or being validated/disproved again pretty often. It's worked well for me, you can take it or certainly leave it.

I look left every time. Maybe that's rare?

I'm willing to bet money you actually don't, since it's an unconscious action, but if you've trained the habit I suppose it's possible.

Then again, I'm told I'm a good liar. Maybe I just don't have tells like that.

Again, anything is possible with training.

[–]1oldredder 0 points1 point  (6 children)

acting out is another reason to cut her off and fuck another girl.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Agreed, but you cut the problem off at the source by preventing her from even doing so. Do you man, I'm just tipping my playbook which thus far has been incredibly low stress and entertaining. Ho's gonna ho no matter what. Why stress over it?

[–]ActuallyARaptor 4 points5 points  (3 children)

if she's a plate why do you care about her having sex with other dudes so much?

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (2 children)

Why do women get mad jelly when you give your attention to other girls?

Partly because it's programmed into me to not want my plates to fuck other dudes via evolutionary psychology, but this is on a subconscious level.

Consciously, I'm not quite sure actually. I want to reduce my risk of STDs while still being able to have sex whenever I want, I know that. I realize I can't control who she has sex with, but I can decide when she will no longer be having sex with me. Perhaps part of it Is a control thing, I really have no idea, all I know is if she takes a cock that isn't mine, then she won't be taking my cock anymore.

Regardless, if she can't follow the rules, another gal might, and she's starting to see that. I can tell from all the questions she asks about my other plates and the way she's trying to "one up" them.

[–]ActuallyARaptor 0 points1 point  (1 child)

just making sure you were in the right frame of mind and not trying to get her to get back with you

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for looking out for me and making sure I'm in proper frame. Frame checks are great, and I'd like to encourage them. I definitely don't want to get back with her, well maybe I do on a deeper level, but I know it's a bad idea and could resuscitate my inner beta and set back my progress. My progress is more important to me than having a girlfriend or LTR. I'm happy enough to have the occasional sexcapade, after she pays for dinner, without all the worry.

Thanks again to you, and to other redpillers. You all have helped open my eyes to see the world for how it truly is. Keep on keeping on.

[–]1oldredder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When she picks up new sex tricks she didn't learn from you that's one warning.

When she is constantly texting and it's not to her girls, that's another sign, but you may not know unless she's brazen or you're wasting your time spying.

If she's off spending time hanging out with guy-friends you should 90% assume it's to fuck them.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's one of the only things I have trouble swallowing. The realization that my past girlfriends have all had plenty of action and still are. No special little snowflakes.

It shines a totally different light on your relationships. They spend so little time on self improving and have so much opportunity to ride the CC.

A woman only knows three modes, yes/maybe/no. And the first two amount to the same thing. So based on how much she says 'yes' and 'maybe' defines her inner slut.

It's literally that easy for them.

[–]_ELB 24 points25 points  (0 children)

you watch HBO and feel like you should get all this sexual adventure before you settle down.

Epic media propaganda in action.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 22 points23 points  (1 child)

Unless she's the mother of your child, it's so much easier as to not even care. Set your boundaries early, and if she ventures off, don't create any chaos, just demote her to a plate or next her.

[–]vacationlife- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

or just yknow... don't get in a serious relationship and you won't have to care at all, won't have to waste time trying to teach her how to act, etc

[–]prodigy2throw 21 points22 points  (1 child)

Imagine that 40-50% marriages end in divorce. Then think of the percentage where men/ women are cheating on their SO. Then the percentage of dead bedrooms and marriages staying alive because of the kids. Then the percentage of marriages not ending because the financial burden it will cause.

There's maybe 10-15% good, healthy marriages out there. Fuck that I'd rather put 50% of my net worth on a hand at blackjack.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (2 children)

This illustrates the effect that pop culture and media has on the impressionable minds of young women

[–]saibot83 4 points5 points  (1 child)

People always give me shit when I say Sex And The City and Girls are damaging to women. There's SO much bombardment in the media promoting rampant promiscuity it's ridiculous. It's sickening.

[–]2wiseclockcounter 9 points10 points  (1 child)

I mean what can we expect though? Women need to feel desired. They need to be able to walk into a club and get attention for their sexuality. Otherwise, their self-worth crashes into the ground in a catastrophic explosion. You can't just put a bag of weed on the table in front of a teenage pot head, leave the room, and expect him not to smoke it. Women need to feel this high, and the drug is ready and waiting there and... well everyone else is doing it.

And I'm not excusing the behavior of course, just acknowledging that one should expect it.

[–]1oldredder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. I look for women not raised that way and avoid the rest. If a girl's hot but an attention-whore I'll dance with her and feel her up but I won't take her home. I know from experience (I'm almost 40) those women are fucking dangerous like LSD-laced dynamite.

[–]Interversity 60 points60 points [recovered]

This post contributes nothing to TRP. What do we gain by having one example of some stupid bitch rationalizing her decision? We know that's what happens.

This is just stirring up the anti-women brigade and encouraging anger.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (5 children)

Completely agree. These posts tend to create a few hateful comments that contribute to TRP having such a bad name among everyone else.

We all know this shit, we all seen it happen dozens of times, post something useful, something I don't know and new ideas.

[–]vacationlife- 11 points12 points  (4 children)

any thread can create a 'few hateful comments'. plus who gives a shit what the rest of this shitty site thinks about this sub? who even cares about this sub? why do you guys think this like a new social movement or something?

also just because you know it doesn't mean some other reader doesn't. A lot of guys think they have a perfect girl and don't believe that girls dont want to "miss out".

if youre calling a spade a spade, it's not really hateful, despite what modern feels will tell you

[–]midnightbean 5 points6 points  (17 children)

Reconfirming what you don't want to believe in an attempt to believe it.

Experience is a better teacher though, and when you really believe it you'll feel nothing. So much anger venting and I thought there was a good thread not to long ago about how that displaces energy that could instead be used to make progress.

[–]newls 10 points11 points  (3 children)

Hate can be extremely powerful but only if you focus it and keep your head on straight.

From Ben-Hur (1959):

You have the spirit to fight back, but the good sense to control it. Your eyes are full of hate, Forty-One. That's good. Hate keeps a man alive. It gives him strength.

[–]midnightbean 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Hate the system is great fuel, hating women is ignorant. You shouldn't hate snakes because they bite when threatened or a cat because it doesn't want to be petted. Use your upsets to rid yourself of misleading knowledge and better understand what you want out of women and life.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (12 children)

A problem with TRP is that you pretty much only hear the extremely bad stuff. Stuff that super-sluts do. It's definitely an extreme end of the spectrum. I'm not saying NAWALT, just a lot of girls that don't have serious emotional issues aren't that bad. It leaves me wondering where the average lays. I have no way of knowing.

[–]midnightbean 2 points3 points  (5 children)

Definitely. The things to do is great advice, the things to watch out for easily becomes skewed. If one isn't careful you might find yourself trusting no girl and being disgusted by beta men. I've been like that for a while and working to get it back to a reasonable place.

[–]1oldredder 1 point2 points  (4 children)

A reasonable place is to be disgusted by men & women who are brainwashed tards, blue pill, not beta. Beta can be strong & useful. Women: can't be trusted almost ever. I know it's tempting to want to, I've found a few I think may be close to trustworthy, but I trust none. I never will. I'm good with this. I think that's the product of solid, informed life experience.

[–]midnightbean 0 points1 point  (3 children)

I don't think they can be trusted without fearing you, but even then.

Point is you shouldn't hate a child as much as you may want to. You may not like how they act but you can still care for their well being. This is the same with women. If you just hate fuck women you are some kind of sadist or really have some issues that still need to be worked out for your own personal happiness. And I'm about helping out myself. Distraction is fun for a while until the wheel stops moving.

I dont' know if you have some issue with me but noticed it's you, same person, who's replying to the majority of my post. I do enjoy good discussion when it's good.

[–]1oldredder 1 point2 points  (2 children)

A woman is not a child. She's an adult and bad women were bad children.

I dont' know if you have some issue with me but

No, I didn't even notice your name. I won't remember it 30 seconds from now

I don't think they can be trusted without fearing you, but even then.

No: she has to fear doing wrong because it's in her core, raised in her as a child. Past age 6 no one, no man she's with, can instill respect and/or fear into her that would legitimately make her behave well on a permanent basis.

[–]Upvote_To_The_Left 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Agreed, I noticed there's a fine line in this sub between constructive thought, and full on women hate.

I really don't like the women hate.

[–]1oldredder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I'll hate specific harm from a specific woman but I won't make a generic post about it. It's a personal issue and since I'm a man I have the strength to handle it. Years ago when I lacked the strength I turned to drugs. It works way better than advice.

[–]redestofthereds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find it helpful. I'm going to a party tonight and need to strengthen my TRP lens.

[–]Witness_My_Greatness 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Lemme let you on to a well-known secret here those girls you see on brazzers, at the coffee shop, in the bookstore, on reality kings, at the mall...THEY'RE ALL THE SAME.

[–]deathsnuggle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same shit happened to me, in a way I'm glad it did. That's what led me to find trp, better myself and get the Fuck over it. Now I could really give a Fuck less.

[–]Rufio0331 19 points20 points  (22 children)

Sometimes when I find out girls do this and I'm the one they're experimenting with, I'd like to tell their dudes whats up. It's not white knight, more so bro code because if I had a girl doing the same shit, I'd want to know as well.

[–]Qwak_Stylez 45 points46 points  (11 children)

I was cheated on by my ex. It's the reason we broke up, I am doing a long monk mode and am in the process of bettering myself in every way. If I ever come across a girl who I get with and I find out she has a SO. I'm making it a duty of mine to tell the guy. Some might say "it's not my place." Or others will say "if she's not fucking me, she'll just cheat with someone else.". Well I say, FUCK THAT! Guys who let these hoes go about their cheating ways is the reason all these hoes cheat in the first place. No one's holding them accountable, and that's a fucking problem. Black knighting has become one of my favorite past times.

[–]throwawayOP3841 25 points26 points  (5 children)

As said before, it's a dangerous game because they can cry rape. Also in my limited experience hooking up with 'committed' girls... they've always confessed to their SO and been forgiven.

[–]The_BeardedGentleman 14 points15 points  (0 children)

hung out at a party a few weeks ago and was chatting with this seamingly miserable couple. Ask my bud about them afterwards. Turns out she's cheated on him 3 times now and he's taken her back each time. She wasn't even special or interesting in any way. She had maybe 4-5 words in a 15 minute conversation. Basically just a dumb bimbo. Some dudes are hopeless.

[–]Qwak_Stylez 6 points7 points  (3 children)

Always a possibility,but I also think this 'girl who cried rape' epidemic isn't nearly as bad as everyone here makes it out to be. I think if you've got the proof, and you can do it anonymously. I don't see the harm in it.

Edit: And those guys who take their SO back are blue pills. They don't have the abundance mentality that all of us here are trying to embody. That's why they take back their special snowflake!!!

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

but I also think this 'girl who cried rape' epidemic isn't nearly as bad as everyone here makes it out to be

All men are rapists, all women are rape accusers.


[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just think to myself, hey what were the biggest rape cases in recent memory:

Duke of course, UVA, Mattress girl, Hofstra...and they were all false. 100% of them were false. Bill Cosby? Ok you have one out of 5 that are true? I don't like them odds.

[–]throwawayOP3841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know... my rule in life is to not get hurt/fucked over by not giving anyone the opportunity to screw me over me to begin with. This violates that. Sure, I know I could get out of a pinch if I had to with plenty of evidence and legal assistance but it's still damaging and not worth my trouble. To each their own... I think I sleep easier than most though.

[–]Mightyskunk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bros before hoes. I hope my wife cheats with you.

[–]roteroktober 3 points4 points  (1 child)

and then he doesnt get mad at her, doesnt leave her, isnt grateful and instead makes you responsible. because he can beat you and its socially accaptable to do that. he can take his anger out on you, but not on her.

and even if he doesnt, in the end she can manipulate him into staying and forgiving him and you get all this drama. if you dont want to fuck taken women, best thing you can do is to just walk away.

[–]Rufio0331 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if the said SO is very blue pill himself, he won't do shit. Maybe he'll leave her but I doubt it.

[–]Francois_Rapiste 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (4 children)

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[–]scrantonic1ty 10 points11 points  (3 children)

Dangerous game. They can turn it around on you by crying rape.

[–]youngbulker 7 points8 points  (2 children)

lol not if you have texts and recordings of consent etc. always make sure to get that post sex text with her saying she had a fun time.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (1 child)

That doesn't work, yes legally you might escape but it can be social suicide check that mattress girl case, he even had the post coital text about how she enjoyed the anal.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She had her parents hook her up with a PR agency.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty simple and efficient golden rule morality there. Do as you wish others would do to you.

[–]loin_fruit 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I've thought about doing this, but I can't help but think that the boyfriends/husbands, will just rationalize and hamster away the cheating. They'll find a way to blame me, and not her. He'll try and kick your ass and kill you before he even yells at her.

White knights are good at hamstering away and coming up with excuses for their princess. They'll find a way to lie to themselves enough to believe that you made their girlfriend/wife do it, or that she had no option and it's because of you, not her.

[–]merodiaj 23 points24 points  (17 children)

Sexual strategy is amoral. For girls too.

So many guys here still in the anger phase, move on...

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

The issue is not her strategy. The issue is that she blatently lied by cheating. If you do not see the moral problem with that, you're an idiot.

You can argue that morality is irrelevant if you want. But saying that that's amoral is stupid.

[–]merodiaj 2 points3 points  (1 child)

It's common knowledge on TRP that if you are in a LDR you should assume your girl is cheating.

And considering how hard it is to lock down a quality man, I actually don't blame a girl who branch swings: it's their nature.

I still laugh at them when they fail, but I don't get angry when they execute their biological programming.

I'm married and I trust my wife that she never cheated and never will, but AWALT and a girl is never truly yours; it's just your turn.

[–]1oldredder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's common knowledge you should assume the woman is cheating no matter what - unless she spends all her time occupied where you are sure she's not meeting up privately with guys, guy-friends, at all. Period.

It's just common-sense.

[–]americnleprchaun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw that post too. My immediate thought was "Wow, it's like watching a Carousel and a train wreck all in one"

[–]midnightbean 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Isn't there that study that shows women want to stand out in a crowd and men apart from the crowd?

Most women hate to feel like they're missing out on what other women do. Especially if they're not strong in themselves as most aren't.

Man, how many anger phasers do we have goin on here now at TRP. It is what it is, this is how a lot of women behave. Know what you're getting into as it's the nature of the beast. It's like being pissed off about a bull in a china shop.. that's what SJW's do. Men and their manspreadin ways.

[–]1oldredder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too many.

theredpill is infused now with a very high % of bluepill / rage-child fuckers.

Read in silence for months THEN post. Never before. A few exceptions exist from long-term life experience but they are very few (and I am one, being almost 40 now and mostly women chase me, not the other way around)

[–]ayanamidex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I called this cunt out as soon as I saw that shit. Hell fuckin no.

[–]Throwawaycoont 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She sounds like a fucking child. "I did it because they were doing it too"

[–]acidbass303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"but you watch HBO and feel like you should get all this sexual adventure before you settle down. "

Mind control & brain programming 101

Get rid of your tv, never watch it.

[–]BeachBum09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The justification never ceases to amaze me. I met a girl at a bar a while back. We hit it off. My group of friends were flirting and dancing with her group of friends. We were getting touchy on the dance floor and she was shoving her tongue down my throat. Around 1:30am I bring up the idea to head back to my friends place and she jumps on the idea. We get into the cab and she is all over me. Then she gets a string of texts blowing up her phone. I think it's her friends wondering where we are because we kinda just left. Nope. She hangs up and I ask "Are your friends wondering where you are?" and she responds "No, it's my fiance. I need to go home." I am all wtf and the cab drops her off at a gas station.

I thought that was the end of that. Just a very weird encounter. But she messages me the next day (we exchanged numbers that night before the cab). The message is just a picture message of her in her panties and that's it. She says she wants to hook up, and the next night drives to my place and we hook up. After I am curious so I start asking what the deal is. The level of hamster and mental acrobatics that she went to in order to justify her infidelity was endless. I swear I needed a whiteboard, multiple colored markers, and an intricate flow chart to connect the dots. It ranged from "he is older than me, I never got the chance to be 21 at a bar." or "he is older and is more settled down, he had his fun, so it's my turn. He would understand." all while expressing how important it is he or her friends never find out. She swore up and down that this wasn't any form of revenge or out of anger. Yet every time he went out fishing with his friends for the weekend or went camping for a night she was messaging me to fuck her brains out. Kinda hard to say that it isn't out of anger when you only cheat on your fiance when you are upset he left for the weekend.

It's incredibly weird to see a woman post "#mcm my baby" pictures on facebook and instagram when your dick still smells like her or her cum stains are still on your sheets. This woman and situation really opened my eyes to how women can be. This wasn't a cheating situation where you know the relationship is on the rocks and one person mentally checked out. She was actively fucking me, "don't worry about the condom, just don't cum in me." and then going right back to her happy little life and future family like nothing was wrong. Just continuing planning the wedding, pictures on social media with them doing cake tastings, food tastings, venue tours, etc.

[–]RPSigmaStigma 5 points6 points  (1 child)

All these guys jerking off to "the good ole days" with virgin brides and training up a young woman... what now? AWALT.

[–]Mightyskunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted one with experience. My AWALT moment came with me realizing she was done having fun when she met me. Ten years in, her retraining is harsh, and she knows I'm always on the cusp of leaving.

[–]Tall_Irish_Guy 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Flip the gender. If I'd been with the same girl since forever, I'd have urges to try it with other women. In fact I've felt like this years ago in a LTR through university. I think you're taking this one example and blowing it way out of proportion.

[–]1oldredder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of us men aren't like that. i'm not. The girl has to stop with sex before I want to look somewhere else. If she's still doing it and this takes up all the time I've got for sex plus it's good sex, I won't keep looking. Just adds more non-sex time to look for sex I'm already getting

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that your point is AWALT but that was probably the most innocent upvoted response on the thread. Everyone else was dudes that did a whole lot more mental gymnastics and terrible things.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope your not expecting a young girl to just sit at home for you cuz thats just naive.

[–]GrnTiger08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because? Just fucking because? Isn't that why you girls go out? To try and find "the one"?

This sounds so much unlike TRP.

[–]sundaybrunch11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not sure what the butt hurt is with all the comments here. That's her choice and she made it. It's her sexual strategy. Get over it. Or better yet, use it to your advantage. Be the guy she becomes a plate of.

The problem with a lot of comments here is it's coming from a place of the committed loving bf. In short, it's not coming from an alpha. If we follow trp right, we'd dump her and it would be the most liberating experience we'd have.

[–]Mechanik_J 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be angry at girls like this. Find them, fuck them, keep them as a fuck buddy if you want. And remember, there is no "the one".

[–]ThePedanticCynic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The notion that women have a conscience, a sense of shame, or an ounce of remorse for the things they've done is outright laughable. I once dated a girl who cheated on every single boyfriend she had (including me), and when asked about it she laughed and said, "oops" when she got caught.

Women are narcissists in search of an ATM with a penis, and that most of them come with a penis is just something they put up with. They don't care about you, they care about what you can do for them.

[–]Jinpati 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Yeah I get it, women cheat and are assholes, but men are just the same. So many red pillers are just like the male version of feminists- they see their gender as being the 'victim' of the other. In reality, the human species as a whole are a bunch of selfish assholes. Don't forget that.

[–]Bellum00 1 points1 points [recovered]

They should really do a remake of sex and the city following real world rules.

Carrie is nexted by Mr. Big because she is too old and not wife material. She succumbs under crushing debt, loses her appartment, falls ill and sells all her shoes so she can cover medical expenses.

Samantha has HIV. She's forced to give up her career, finds God and spends her days yelling at strangers that "God loves them and that they should repent". The crowds look at her strangely, partly because she is bat shit crazy, partly because she is yellow due to syphillis.

Miranda works late hours, further alienating from the child that she spoils to push away the guilt. She realizes too late how much easier life would have been with Steve. Even though he was Beta, he was always there for her. If only she hadn't been such a harpy.

Charlotte sees what happened to her gentile friends and realizes she is blessed with God, her rich husband and her beautiful children. She's also looking forward to grandchildren.

[–]Pathfinder24 9 points10 points  (2 children)

TRP always supports cheating, unless women do it.

[–]1oldredder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. I refuse.

It's morally wrong and a man unable to handle this is not a real man.

Instead I choose to never date. Every woman is a hookup, there is zero commitment so it's never cheating because I promised nothing. If anything I promise up front I will fuck all hot women who want it.

[–]selfishhuman 2 points2 points [recovered]

There's no point in getting pissed off at this. If I was the girl, I'd do the same. The difference is that I wouldn't have further justification other than me wanting to fuck. No sugar coating it.

[–]watersign 2 points3 points  (0 children)

getting mad at women for being women is blue pill!!

[–]Jamie54 0 points1 point  (1 child)

wait, so what's the difference between

One guy posts that his wife doesn't fulfill his sexual desire and he feels like shit

and the girl's story?

[–]havelbrandybuck 3 points4 points  (1 child)

This is not gender exclusive and I get that same feeling of missing out after recently getting into a relationship with my first girlfriend. I would never be able to cheat due to my personal morals, but both genders would have the desire to sleep around when younger, people are naturally promiscuous. Some just have better reasons or higher capacity for self justification.

[–]1aguy01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never be able to cheat due to my personal morals

Doesn't seem to bother her one bit.

[–]Primemale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but you watch HBO and feel like you should get all this sexual adventure before you settle down.

To be fair on her girls are very impressionable (in fact a lot of men are too) and I believe this is (or at least was initially) a by product of the breakdown of the nuclear family/religion and collectivism, to the media promoted, hedonistic individualism of today.

Blame society if you want, particularly as women tend to reflect men's values (men make societies values) and most of us (me included) are happy going around banging hot chicks and not getting married and having a traditional nuclear family. If you want a woman not to cheat on you, either move country to somewhere it is highly shunned or outlawed and or/they don't have a degenerative MTV style media promoting sex on a constant basis, or make her fear you to such a degree that she would fear her life if she was to cheat on you.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

see all the bullshit in the media. if the media was saying be faithful take care of your husband she wouldnt even be thinkin of cheating

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Sadly, this supports the old crotchety people that would push to ban explicit content. Retards like this girl are monkey see, monkey do.

[–]ThrowingMyslfOutther 2 points3 points  (2 children)

I am for the free-est and openest media we can have.

But honestly you have to admit, there are too many money see money do, out there, and it is affecting them negatively. Then they pop out kids and don't parent them well... it can't end well.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

There's no saving humanity. Enjoy the quartet as the ship sinks

[–]1oldredder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's still large pockets of humanity not permitting this activity.

[–]1CowardlyPetrov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won't tell you to shut up. It is a good reminder.

[–]Koanin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right about that prime age a take turn on the ol' cock carousal. AWALT

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[–]1oldredder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even come near hearing it first here.

I only look at here because it echoes what I've seen already so I know 2% to 20% of the posts here are legit. I've been told by endless women they love cheating plus quite a few women tried to cheat on boyfriends or husbands with me.

[–]I_is_the_best 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but I was just afraid of missing out on all that experimentation that other girls get just because I met a good one early in life

Hey that's understandable. I mean she's a human being and she wants to experience life. AWALT

It's only bad if YOU adhere to the BS of relationships and shit. If she was his plate she would A) have her AF needs satisfied B) would be too busy doing the most degrading shit he wants her to do to even think she's missing out.

[–]Glennus626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't fault her for anything she stated -- we know AWALT, and red pill men should always have an eye on whether their relationship is healthy, make sure they're not missing out on anything and above all enjoyable to the fullest. She was doing the same.

[–]progwhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would have provided some other excuse had that one not been on her mind at the time of posting. Bitches be crazy

[–]Auphor_Phaksache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to point out the number of men to women ratio who actually responded to that thread was like 30:1. Maybe it's reddit demographics but I'm leaning more towards women want to pretend like it never happened that way it doesn't lay on their conscience.

[–]Cedulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but you watch HBO and feel like you should get all this sexual adventure before you settle down

In the first place, a smart man with intelligent values and deep understanding of life wouldn't want this kind of woman. It betrays a deep level of weak-mindedness. Whether you choose to marry or not, you wouldn't want to take the kind of woman with such shallow values to bear your child. AWALT, but not in the sense that all women are influenced by HBO, but that they are driven by their influences more than men are.

[–]Tom_The_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's just getting her sex drive and immorality out of her system, shitlord! Stop oppressing her!

[–]Nicholas_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At times like this I'm thankful I'm a buddhist.

[–]Chaohinon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I gleaned from being a stupid beta and watching girly movies with the gals is that there isn't a single piece of female - centric fiction that doesn't glorify infidelity. Promiscuity is one thing, but why the fuck does it have to be taken to that level of betrayal and destruction? Sluts wouldn't have to bear the weight of being "slut shamed" if they would just stop going out of their way to destroy lives.

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