Summary: A study of mental health professionals in the US has shown a strong bias against men.
For 42 of 100 psychologically aggressive behaviors described, psychologists were more likely to call the behavior abusive if husband-to-wife. The remainder were neutral except one in which the gender effect was stronger for wife-to-husband.
Two separate surveys were sent to the same random sample of psychologists. First, the abusive-husband survey, then about a year later the abusive-wife survey was sent. Some of the abusive-wife surveys were returned incomplete with comments.
[A few participants] could not comprehend that females could coerce male partners into submission using only psychological tactics.
This really isn't surprising, and the real-world consequences are well known. From the women-can-do-no-wrong family therapist to the psychologist testifying as an expert witness in family court, the effects are real.
Keep this in mind, but don't forget Law 38.
If you need help with mental health, choose your doctor carefully. (Always difficult.). (Edit: Psychologists are not MDs. "Doctor" is meant in the generic sense.)
Men are the abusers by default. Don't subject yourself to a system that's stacked against you. Don't get married.