Rant/VentingSingle mothers are delinquent subhuman scum who you should avoid at all costs. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan

Single mothers are complete and utter mother fucking subhuman scum 99.9% of the time. If she's not a widow, she's scum. The statistics for kids raised by single mothers shows all manner of dysfunction (poverty, mental illness, crime) for kids raised by single mothers, but not widows. So as far as I'm concerned widows are cool it's not their fault the dad died, they're not making bad decisions but shit happens.

But single mothers - they play the victim angle like a motherfucker and all the SJWs/politically correct bluepillers make the wild fucking assumption that it's not the woman's fault, revoking all agency or blame from the dumb silly bitch who chose to raise a kid alone. But the sheep don't see it like that, they start making all these wild accusations that the father was probably abusive or violent and that's why she raised the kid alone.

It's presumed the mother is a victim of circumstance even though 99% of the time she created the circumstances she's in not only for herself, but for her kid(s.) And it's presumed the father is an asshole, but most the time he was a horny guy begged not to use a condom and told she was on the pill when she wasn't. So she gets pregnant and keeps the kid. Sometimes these guys don't even know they have a kid until they get a child support notice out of thin air. Then the poor guy gets fucking berated for being a deadbeat when all he did was fuck a woman under the presumption it was recreational sex and that no baby would be born.

If bitches are deceiving guys into fatherhood, and then crying victim when it backfires because he refuses to defer to her deceit, tough shit for her. The only victim here as far as I'm concerned is the child. She tricked the guy she fucked, tried to force him to become a parent, and when he wouldn't, tried to ruin his reputation and extract wealth. That is some fucked up shit. But hardly anybody sees it from that perspective, do they? Naturally, bitches be crazy and society is all jumped up on the sycophancy of feminism and the woman are wonderful effect, so she's blameless and he's just a cunt. People are so single-minded and intent on blaming the father it's unbelievable. If your father is never there for you growing up, there's a good fucking chance that's your mothers fault.

But no, everyone acts like she's this marvellous creature for forcing her kid(s) to struggle for THEIR ENTIRE LIVES. And that the guy is probably some dark triad woman/kid abusing asshole.

It's total fucking bullshit. Very few men are violent or abusive, that's complete lying utter horseshit used to smear the male name and justify the child abuse that is raising kids without a father.

No, the truth is, mummy was somebody's plate/one night stand and thought it would be a wise idea to not use protection AND THEN keep the kid. Her body, her choice, right? Does this oft gloated feminist principle not fucking extend to the responsibility of giving and raising life too?

It makes me sick how everybody rallies to the aid of single mothers and exclaims how hard they have it and how everyone should feel sorry for them. Fuck that. Fuck them. They had a choice didn't they? I mean a whore has a fucking choice to take a pill, or get an implant or terminate. Or a million other things. The kid had no fucking choice to be born and go through all the dysfunction that awaits it. The kid is a total innocent and the mother, a cunt.

I reserve all my sympathy for the boys and (to some extent, the girls) who grow up fatherless and fucking despise the child-abusing fucks that single mothers are. They are total fucking scum contributing to the complete and utter degeneracy of our society morally, spiritually, socially and economically. Total fucking scum. Again, it is total bullshit that the huge amount of kids who have no father all had asshole fathers who abused the mother/kid when most men in society are complete fucking betas. That's just not plausible. This is simple female blame-shifting mixed with misandry.

I have 0% empathy for these broads. How the fuck can I when I see how they destroy their children? Only the children are blameless. Their sons are welcome on TRP and their daughters, RPW. If you are the son of a single mother, don't worry. We got you. And single mothers who for whatever reason read TRP, you're like HIV - a fucking pathogen.

EDIT: just to be clear, that 99.9% figure is exaggerated, it's not exact. It was my way of saying "the majority" - do not be so literal. Factor in some context, it's a rant after all.

Check out this less systematically scathing and offensive video by Stefan Molyneux on the topic, it has shiny graphs and shit and basically backs up all my vitriol:


People always ask me what books to get. Kind of bored with repeating myself so made a page for it. Got low SMV? Nice guy? Don't know how to get started lifting? Want to be more cunning? Want to know how to get on with other men better? These books have your ass covered:


Relevant article I wrote on the topic of single mothers when my writing was shittier:


[–][deleted] 87 points88 points  (25 children)

You want to hear a sad story? Well how about a guy who married a beautiful girl. Travelled around the world with her. Built three successful companies and then had two perfect little kids. Then after a twenty year relationship she decides to flirt online with Chad Thundercock and abandons her two little kids and husband to pursue her online affair. Moves in with Chad then tells her family that she left due to "physical and emotional abuse". Claims she is unable to see her kids due to her ex-husbands "abusive nature". Every word of it a lie, she is simply an evil slut who wants to avoid responsibility for her disgusting actions. Her kids ask to spend more time with her but she chooses instead to spend every spare minute with Chad. Then tells her kids she would spend more time with them but "daddy abuses mummy". She is right about daddy abusing her, but only after the event. Daddy calls her out for her evil and correctly labels her a vile degenerate whore.

How do I know this sad story is true? Coz I am the daddy who has taken care of his two little kids every night while she fucks Chad. Single mothers can most certainly be described as evil conniving degenerate whores. Does the law do anything about it? No. Do people assume that it must have been my fault? Yes. This world is fucked my friends and it is only getting worse. I am surprised that more men do not flee with their kids to Saudi Arabia and seek asylum from the western countries evil laws which support and encourage women to act like sluts and then still get the kids, the house and spousal support.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 24 points25 points  (17 children)

20 years? Holy shit my man. Skipping out on your family after 20 years to go fuck fresh dick is brutal. Most of these women just get knocked up after a fling or short-term relationship. Skipping out after 20 years is just simply brutal, I'm sure the divorce/separation fucked up the kids, but on the bright side they at least had both their parents together for some time. Silver linings and all that.

[–][deleted] 31 points32 points  (12 children)

Its a complicated story. My kids are still young, 8 and 5, divorce was two years ago. The kids live with me and she visits every second day. We do what we can to make sure they see both of us often but I see them 75% of the time. I am a lawyer so she was never going to fuck me over in court, told her if she wanted to fuck around then fuck off, but also told her the kids would be staying with me.

It sucks for my kids, I have had to sacrifice lots of income to take care of them full time and now I have to pay that piece of shit out to retain ownership of my house, apartment and three businesses. It has set me back many years. Also now I am swallowing the pill so it is impossible for me to fall in "love" again and get another person to help with my kids.

The only good side is I am fucking a lot of hot women. To be honest it does not really compare to a stable family, which I had. No point moaning about it. My options are limited, either find another single parent or settle down with a less attractive girl because they have souls.

I have met one exception to the rule that all single mums are worthless. She is a mum at my daughters school, her husband left her for a younger woman. It does prove that she picked an idiot to have kids with but, the divorce was his fault not hers and now she is stuck in the same shitty situation I am. As a single dad life is really tough, if I did want an LTR (they are almost a necessary evil when you are raising kids) apart from single mums there are only younger women who then want me to get them pregnant. As if I want to make that mistake again - AWALT

[–]WallstreetBateman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As much as i feel for you and your situation, i still think you have some work to do. AWALT. AWALT. AWALT. That mum at your daughter's school is no different. Put her in similar situation as your ex wife and she probably does the same thing. Just because she hasn't done it yet doesn't mean she won't at one point. And who's to say she hasn't already? Is it just her word or what? Your ex wife probably gave the EXACT SAME STORY to her Chad that this bitch is giving to you. Stay safe brother.

[–]DexterousRichard 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She could easily be lying to you about her divorce.

[–]ShitlerParty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Skipping out on your family after 20 years to go fuck fresh dick is brutal.

And disturbingly common. Marriage, not once.

[–][deleted] 98 points99 points  (20 children)

but most the time he was a horny guy begged not to use a condom and told she was on the pill when she wasn't.

This hits a little too close to home for me in a past life. Wrap it the fuck up, guys.

[–][deleted] 59 points60 points  (3 children)

This is two stupid people fucking. Red flags all over the place if you go to bone and she doesn't make some kinda token protest about putting on a condom.

If you raw dog her expect everyone guy before her to have raw dogged her. And even if she was true and faithful, her partners may have been spinning plates.

[–]philovivero 21 points22 points  (6 children)

vasectomy. 1000%.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Had it done at 25. Best decision. No regrets.

[–]caviarpropulsion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid because it's reversible sometimes only.

[–]byrdcall 30 points31 points  (7 children)

She has to miss serveral pills in a row to make the probability of becoming pregnant rise to a realistic level. It also takes some time untill the female is able receive actually. All woman who claim they only missed a pill are liars. All of them. They are pathological liars.

[–][deleted] 98 points99 points  (42 children)

In my 20s I stayed away from single mums like the plague they were.. Shortly after turning 30 however I started realizing that in the Midwest there really isn't much left within a decade of my age so I figured "why not?", I'll give a single mum a chance.

So, I started dating a chick with a young'un, and she was pretty hot so that probably worked in her favor.. Told her I wasn't gonna play daddy, babysit, or marry her (and I stuck to that).. However, my dumbass did let her move in..

Well, life went to shit pretty quick.. Somehow my crotch rocket ended up collecting dust while my life ended up with me listeing to her yell at her kid on the daily. So I told her to move out, simple enough right?? NOPE, she told me to my face I would have to have her evicted, and we all know how fast living with someone being evicted can go south quick..

Actually took almost two years to finally get that cunt out the door.. I'll go full blown MGTOW before I let another single mum have a key to my fucking house..

[–]isayimnothere 36 points37 points  (8 children)

Funny story, I knew a guy who had this problem, of a roommate he needed evicting but wouldn't leave, he full on turned off all utilities to the house/contracts and basically said you want the utilities back you have to put it back on in your name and pay all of it. She couldn't afford it alone so she moved out willingly after that. He made it to my give no fucks hero list after that.

[–]blacwidonsfw 17 points18 points  (6 children)

Then he gets sued for unfit living conditions and has to pay it all until it's settled in court

[–]RapistHere 21 points21 points [recovered]

That sounds like a nightmare. I'm glad for your sake they didn't try to hook you for child support. There was a case last year where a man had to pay because the girl lived with him for a year and the state named him the defacto father

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well I've never been the careless type. Part of the requirements for her moving in was legal proof that the child already had a father on record..

Not crazy

[–]BlueFreedom420 59 points60 points  (6 children)

I was raised by a single mother who trapped my biological father by having me. He runs away, and she snags another man by having a baby with him. I even remember growing up and hearing them fight and my stepfather would scream "you had {my step sister} to keep me here!"

I secretly hated her so much for creating this fucked up world im in. Putting me with a step father who wanted nothing more than to get rid of me. Making me live with brothers and sister who are not the same blood as me. I fucking hate single mothers.

I grew up hating men. The only thing that saved me from being a blue pill beta baby daddy is the advice and experience i got while in the army.

[–]LetsGoAllTheWhey 19 points20 points  (3 children)

The Marine Corps saved my ass, too. My dad was around but was Uber-blue pill and usually stayed in the background with my mom calling the shots.

[–][deleted] 84 points85 points  (30 children)

I was raised by a single mother. It had a severe and lasting negative impact it had on my brother and myself. One of the traits of single mothers is being a victim, of everything. Throughout our childhoods, our mother blamed everything on everyone else and poured her disappointments and problems onto my brother and myself. She had a reviling disdain of my fathers family, whom she held partially responsible for her divorce (despite that she initiated it). She blamed her children (at ages 8 and 6) for her stress levels at work. She blamed her father for leaving her mother at an early age.

Thank goodness my brother and I were allowed at least a generous 5 day a month access to my father (probably more than some fathers get). Even though I was a thoroughly indoctrinated beta, at least my father was able to give me the positive skill set of thinking critically at a young age.

It's clear that the children being in the custody of the mother is not for the benefit of the children; but for the emotionally feelings of the mother.

tl:dr; Raised by a single mother, it was a hellish experience which led to extreme beta personalities of her two children, its too bad that society not only openly allows single motherhood, but exalts it as a noble endeavor

[–]1aguy01 38 points39 points  (9 children)

It's clear that the children being in the custody of the mother is not for the benefit of the children; but for the emotionally feelings of the mother.

Really, it's for the benefit of the state, because Child Support is taxed and it is most beneficial for the state to have the wealthier men paying the CS. The world is indeed run by sociopaths.

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (2 children)

This rings true. I recently came out of a 1.5 year relationship with a single mother (which has coincidentally led me to the red pill). The behaviours you listed are spot on. The victim mentality is prevelant daily and she never would take responsibility or acknowledge her own mistakes. It was always someone else's fault.

I worry for her child (daughter). Already destined for a life of shit amidst a low socio economic upbringing, developmentally delayed, neglected, emotionally unstable and a perfect candidate to fall into the bullying category.

[–]LetsGoAllTheWhey 16 points17 points  (1 child)

It's no only single mom's with that attitude. Just about every woman I've ever known is like that. No matter how poor of a decision they make the fallout is always somebody else's fault. My mom, sister, ex-wife and women at work are all the same.

[–]Zachar1a 9 points10 points  (0 children)

One of the traits of single mothers is being a victim, of everything.

The call a person like this a "covert narcissist".

[–]unseen1unknown 184 points185 points  (27 children)

Heh upvoted for the title alone...lets not forget the single mums who kicked dad out halfway through the kids lives because she was unhaaaaaapy.

I think south park did it best when Stans mum kicked Randy out. Im paraphrasing here but when stan says 'well fine bring dad back and ill be happy' his mum says 'oh no stan ive still got to consider my happiness first'

[–]satanicpriest13 38 points39 points  (2 children)

To be fair Stan's dad takes it really well. Driving around town in a new car with a young bird. He's one of my favourite characters.

[–]1jb_trp 29 points30 points  (2 children)

I’ve met women like this. They’re usually right at the wall or post wall (around 28 years old), have two kids, and just left their husband about 4 months ago because “they needed to be happy.” Sometimes they’ll talk about how horrible their ex-husbands were. Sometimes they’ll talk about how even though their ex-husbands are attractive, good with the kids, and nice to them, they just didn’t love them anymore and wanted to be happy. They are all as “basic bitch” as they come.

I like to imagine these women as companies about to go into bankruptcy. Their looks are deteriorating, they’re getting fatter, and if you committed to them you’d have to take on their kids as well. My dad married a woman just like this. She had three kids from a previous marriage, was in her mid-20s, and still looked decent. After they married I remember she “got depressed” and spent all day in bed watching TV and sleeping while my dad worked to pay child support for his 4 kids (from two previous marriages) and the 3 kids she brought with her lazy ass. She quickly put on weight and is possibly one of the most self-centered people I’ve ever met. Her own son (my step-brother) didn’t even talk to her for several years because of this.

Single moms: Not even once.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 50 points51 points  (19 children)

Im paraphrasing here but when stan says 'well fine bring dad back and ill be happy' his mum says 'oh no stan ive still got to consider my happiness first'

I need to see this episode. If anybody can find out the title/ep number, that'd be awesome.

[–]brother_red 182 points183 points  (14 children)

"Now Stanley, you have to understand how divorce works. When I say, ‘you're the most important thing to me,’ what I mean is, you're the most important thing after me and my happiness and my new romances.” - Sharon Marsh

South Park S2 EP12

[–]redestofthereds 31 points32 points  (4 children)

Wtf I never seen that episode.

That Cesar Milan one, where he applies dog obedience principles to set Cartmen straight and it works-it's one of my favorite episodes.

[–][deleted] 39 points40 points  (5 children)

Damn, that's kind of dark even by South Park humor.

[–]2rp_valiant 54 points55 points  (0 children)

  • kind of true just like most South Park humor.

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (3 children)

They did an episode where Cartman kills a kids parents, cooks them into chille, and tricks him into eating it.

[–]1KyfhoMyoba 11 points12 points  (0 children)


[–]proof_TRP_works 12 points13 points  (2 children)


At Stan's house Stan is stopped from watching Terrance and Phillip on television in favor of the equally vulgar Fat Abbott Show. Meanwhile in the kitchen, Sharon's dropped her wedding ring down the sink and demands that Randy gets it out. After a small argument Randy accidentally calls her a cunt, and Sharon goes mad.

At school Bebe hints her like for Kyle by passing notes. Stan is caught with it by Mr. Garrison and is forced to read it out loud to the class. Not realizing the note was from Bebe, the class is shocked to hear Stan's "attraction" to Kyle. Stan is then sent to Mr. Mackey who calls in his parents. This causes Randy and Sharon to inadvertently argue with each other and they finally end up separating.

After discovering Stan and Kyle's clubhouse, Cartman and Kenny decide to make their own one - "The Ewok Village 2000".

At Stan's, Sharon introduces Stan to her new partner Roy, Stan is shocked at the unusual pace of events but goes back to building the clubhouse. Unfortunately Stan is delayed by having to spend quality time with Randy and having to get firewood for Roy.

[–][deleted] 207 points208 points  (26 children)

I've seen a single mother falsely accuse a man of sexually abusing her child as a form of retaliation, just because he left her.

Imagine a false rape accusation, now multiply it by one thousand.

Source: I'm a criminal lawyer.

[–]mrmeyhemn 121 points122 points  (7 children)

and whats sickest about these false claims is that even when the woman/child recants the statement and admits to perjury/filing a false report there are 0 fucking repercussions for such acts.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 44 points45 points  (0 children)

...and that's exactly why they do it.

When an accusation can damage the other party and there are no consequences when it is proven false, it becomes a legal tactic rather than a means of reporting a true crime.

[–]rpscrote 18 points19 points  (4 children)

I want to see a pro bono guy offer to take defamation cases against these psycho cunts that pull false accusations of sexual misconduct by the father against children. It's massively fucked up

[–]1KyfhoMyoba 17 points18 points  (1 child)

My neighbor's father was dating a woman with a daughter that had a young toddler, barely verbal. daughter didn't like her mom spending all her free time with neighbor's dad and not baby-sitting her rug rat so that she could go out clubbing on the CC, and accused the guy of molesting the kid. Guy did four years, had to go on dialysis from the horrible prison food/health care, and is now dead from complications from his dialysis.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Happened to a guy I knew in my town, and the allegations happened to come out of thin air as soon as he requested time with his kids. Pretty convenient, I'd say...

[–]16 MGaiusScaevolus 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This actually seems like a fairly common tactic in recent years. Of the divorces I've been directly aware of over the past 7 years, I'd say 70% of the time the woman accuses the man of something like this.

To my knowledge, it's been found true 0%.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (2 children)

this totally this I've seen it first hand in my own family and even though proven innocent he's still seen as a chomo

[–]TRP VanguardtrpSenator 22 points23 points  (1 child)

I read something about when Scientology did this to a former high level defector. They basically got one of their own to accuse the guy of raping her child, which quickly got thrown out because it was complete bullshit.

However, that didn't stop Scientologists from going into his neighborhood sticking up fliers on people's door warning the community that an "Accused child molester lived at address XYZ"

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"Local Scientology Office Shot Up, 15 Execs Dead, Severe Colon Trauma Per Autopsy"

[–]AngrySmartass 103 points103 points [recovered]

OP is on fire. Thank's for the post. This topic has bugged me tremendously.

A friend of mine, young, successful, handsome – bitch he’s dating for one single week secretly decides to lock him down. Luckily friend catches her suspicious behavior. “Let me see the condom.” Has a fucking hole in it! She poked it in. Tells her to get the fuck out. He's 25, killing it in life, imagine some insane cunt turning your world upside down, just because society makes it so easy for her. Outrageous.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 80 points81 points  (23 children)

That's some fucked up shit. There needs to be laws against spermjacking.

[–]StrokeGameHusky 10 points11 points  (3 children)

Not only that, but why can't a man have any say in a child?

If he doesn't want the kid in the first place, and he used a form of contraception (especially If she said she was on the pill and wasn't etc) why does he have to pay for that child?

How is this fair? It's a woman's body, her choice. Ok, keep the fucking baby if you want, but it's my money, my choice. I didn't want a child, I'm not paying for it.

[–]Senior ContributorDemonspawn 49 points50 points  (12 children)

How would you get those laws passed with a 55% female electorate?

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 55 points56 points  (6 children)

Easy, you let women attend voting booths, giving them the illusion that their feeelz are being listened to. Then place all their ballots in a garbage bag and throw it in the dumpster. Or the government could remove the 19th amendment, but that's not happening. Women are too much of a useful idiot to be tossed aside.

[–][deleted] 39 points40 points  (5 children)

You are a sexist asshole! Women's votes SHOULD count.

I'd think every ten women votes = 1 male vote.

If the women went to grad school for women's studies then make it 20 to 1

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The 1/10th and 1/20th voting acts? Sorta like the 3/5th's Act for Blacks? That only works if you have disproportionate amount of women in your region and you can vote on their behalf. That would be slut paradise. But sluts especially shouldn't vote. Sluts are for fucking.

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt 9 points10 points  (2 children)

I already offered up a simple solution:

If you don't have skin in the game, you don't get a say in how it is played. In other words, if you're on the dole in some way such as welfare, then you are ineligible from voting that year. Seeing as women are the principle recipients of taxpayer funded handouts...

[–]haxurmind 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you don't have skin in the game, you don't get a say in how it is played.

I'll keep that in mind next time I vote, for a party that would generate enough work for me to become gainfully employed.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 8 points9 points  (4 children)

So.... imprisoning a single mother (who totally deserves it)... but then doing what with her children?

Actually you could have a deferred sentence. 20 Years after her kid reaches 16. But then she'd just keep having more kids. And not serve the sentence until she's menopausal + 16. It would actually cause a pop. spike.

Society takes a lot of responsibility for its children, and women take full advantage of this (as is their way).

The way this shit stops is Vaselgel and male education about the nature of women. Individual men acting in their own interests and taking control away from women who have proved they can't be trusted.

[–]Endorsed ContributorThe_Titleist 136 points137 points  (83 children)

In complete agreement /u/IllimitableMan. There are so many single mothers that hang around army bases and soldiers. All they want out of life is a paycheck, a man who is gone a year at a time and access to benefits. They would sell their kids out for taco bell if they had to. The worst kind of whore there is.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The OL dependapotamus .

Who would want a good paycheck who leaves half the year?

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 81 points82 points  (75 children)

Government has to stop these scummy women from breeding. Breeding rights should not be extended to people unfit to provide care for young life. Normally I'm against any kind of tyrannical measure like that, but there is NOTHING good about allowing these women to reproduce.

EDIT: I can see how an army guy would be a great target for a bit of spermjacking baby-trapping. Skanky hoes, take notes.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 35 points36 points  (3 children)

The government wants single mother families as their children are far easier to indoctrinate. Without daddy around who is going to challenge the school's propaganda? The destruction of the nuclear family has been an objective for a very long time.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Stefan Molyneux talks about a book called "Absent fathers and socialism" from the early 1900's in the video I link at the bottom.

And as you allude to, why wouldn't they? No fathers grows dependence on the state, allowing the state to expand in size, and the children are denied a source of critical thinking (the father.)

[–][deleted] 33 points34 points  (3 children)

That's why the only part about obamacare I supported was the free birth control..

Is it fair that women get free pills I end up paying for? Probably not.. Does it benefit men overall? Absolutely

[–]KeithStone30rack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But that would have to assume women are using birth control correctly and following the instructions. The charts in a NY Times article compares typical us vs. perfect use of several birth control options. The results are quite interesting...


[–]FarmerWolfie 17 points18 points  (9 children)

I fear the tyranny of breeding rights also, so it occurred to me you have to find an positive incentive to not breed/exit the gene pool. Offer a one-time or lifetime benefit to be sterilized. Free lifetime education?? First in line to be an adoptive parent? How about 100K lump sum? Anything to stop creating non-cost effective state dependents.

This needs to happen sooner than later. A big chunk of our social problems are related to overpopulation and not enough roles available to mature into.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 5 points6 points  (5 children)

A positive incentive to not have kids? So now we hand out women free money in exchange for them not taking free money? Err....

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

In Singapore junkies get sterilised/castrated and receive money for it.

[–][deleted] 29 points30 points  (9 children)

Breeding rights should not be extended to people unfit to provide care for young life.

This is too tyrannical for me. How do you plan to punish people who have children anyway despite not having breeding rights? Take their children away at gunpoint and put them in an orphanage?

Maybe you merely want to fine people without breeding rights who have children anyway. Well, what do you do when someone can't pay that fine? Throw them in prison and send their kids to an orphanage?

Also, evaluating whether people get breeding rights or not is a massive expansion of government and an huge invasion of privacy. Also, it'll be really tempting for the government to give corner cases no breeding rights, because then they'll be able to collect "more taxes" (as fines on people who have no breeding rights) if/when the person has children anyway.

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[–]ColdEiric 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Government has to stop these scummy women from breeding.

They won't. The leftists politicians know that bankrolling new single mothers and pathetic beta males means bankrolling new leftists voters. It's the guys on the right who need to do more shit, and to become more persuasive and charismatic, so the middle starts voting right. Instead of left.

Politicians just want to get reelected so they keep their cushy, high-paying jobs. Imagine if you'd keep and lose your job every four years, based on the opinions of stupid cattle-voters. You'd pander to their nonsense, wouldn't you? Your kids has to afford to go to that expensive school, right? You don't want them to go with the lowly plebs, do you?

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 21 points22 points  (3 children)

Government has to stop these scummy women from breeding.

The problem is that all of these scummy women have votes. Most political candidates won't risk losing the female vote by passing laws or supporting injunctions that encroach upon women's short-sighted and juvenile desire to do whatever they like and whine until someone else fixes the mess they make. Any politician who opposes women's smash-and-grab mentality gets denounced as a sexist and flogged in the town square.

It takes a self-funded, self-promoting, unapologetic sociopath like Trump to say enough hard truths to unite men in retaliation. I think Trump realizes this, which is why he is conducting his campaign so unabashedly. Say what you like about his political and social views, but he does have a proven ability to get the frustrated men of our generation excited about the possibility of getting some unvarnished truth back into political discourse.

It's a tragic fact of democracy that it only takes one moron's vote to cancel out a well-informed and/or intelligent person's vote - and there's way more of the former than there are of the latter.

[–]2awalt_cupcake 14 points15 points  (1 child)

What we need is free male birth control

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (3 children)

Army guys should be warned of this happening when they join the service.

[–]Nantafiria 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They often are, too. Any officer will know this happens constantly.

[–]Elodrian 2 points3 points  (1 child)

During basic training, before our first weekend off indoctrination period (allowed to go off base) we had two briefings. One from the MPs telling us which bars we should steer clear of and what venerial diseases look like, and one from the Chaplain warning us about women looking for a job and the financial realities of falling victim to that con.

[–]mrmeyhemn 5 points6 points  (3 children)

rmy guy would be a great target for a bit of spermjacking baby-trapping. Skanky hoes, take notes.

my last ltr was a single mom whos 1st kids dad was career navy. poor guy pays 50% of his salary to a washed up skank that don't clean/cook/care for the kid, just spends the majority of the money on weed and her own wants rather than the kids needs. funny thing, after i moved out she moved back in with her parents. guess weed money was more important than paying her own rent.

[–][deleted] 45 points46 points  (17 children)

This is why I hate socialism in all its forms. The second you create a social safety net of any form it's only going to give incentive to the parasites. I know jobless Chads and fucked up single mothers that are out reproducing intelligent hardworking people. And society pays for all these worthless fucks to propagate their genes.

[–]1R_E_D_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't find the thread, but someone else in RP made the point that women approach landing a man like a man approaches landing a job.

[–][deleted] 69 points70 points  (15 children)

Women know better than anyone that single mothers are disasters.

Early in my transformation,. I told my wife if she didnt see things my way about a major child rearing decison then she was free to be a single mom. And we would still do it my way.

The look on her face...priceless.

You would think she saw a ghost.

[–]DrakeDealer 15 points16 points  (9 children)

Out of curiosity, if you did make her a single mother, couldn't she then turn on you for child support just to fuck you over?

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (1 child)

Yes but now that I see reality I d rather live on a bench in the bus station then be a willing slave to a woman with the maturity of a 13 yr old.

[–]proof_TRP_works 7 points8 points  (3 children)

Yeah seriously, out of curiosity I looked up how much I would have to pay in child support in Massachusetts, $1500-2k a month with an income of 80k and that's assuming the mother is making 40k a year. I can't wait for vasalgel. Even though that will help with unwanted pregnancy, what happens when you plan for a child with a woman you're not married to (I will never get married) and then she decides to jump ship? Such a huge amount of risk. Really considering going child free.

[–]DrakeDealer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm already not bothering with children for personal reasons and convenience, but also because I don't trust the opposite gender to not fuck with me or use funds appropriately.

[–]1-800-777-GOLD 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't understand. When women leave they have all the power in the USA.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Solid bitch management. And holding that line will do your kids/future kids a world of good.

[–][deleted] 46 points47 points  (20 children)

Got 0% sympathy for the women you describe too.

Also got 0% sympathy for the men that abuse their families and give the SJWs plenty of ammunition to demonize an entire gender.

[–][deleted] 44 points45 points  (18 children)

Mothers are more likely than fathers to abuse children or their spouses.

[–]RedPill808 25 points26 points  (6 children)

True, and they do it with emotional & administrative violence.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (9 children)

TRP has opened my eyes to the fact that there are a laundry list of laws for punishing male abuse but that female abuse is often predicated on subtlety and isn't something that is found in the criminal code.

[–][deleted] 29 points30 points  (8 children)

That's a good start, now open your eyes to the fact that they do it not-so-subtly as well.

In 2013, parents, acting alone or with another parent, were responsible for 78.9 percent of child abuse or neglect fatalities. More than one-quarter (27.7 percent) were perpetrated by the mother acting alone, 12.4 percent were perpetrated by the father acting alone, and 24.6 percent were perpetrated by the mother and father acting together.

21.45% of couples reported violence. Male-to-female violence was reported in 13.66% of couples, while 18.20% for female-to-male violence. Thus, women are 1.33 times as likely to be violent. (Severe violence only raises this ratio to more than 2x as likely.)

Almost 24% of all relationships had some violence, and half (49.7%) of those were reciprocally violent. In nonreciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases.

This bibliography examines 286 scholarly investigations: 221 empirical studies and 65 reviews and/or analyses, which demonstrate that women are as physically aggressive, or more aggressive, than men in their relationships with their spouses or male partners. The aggregate sample size in the reviewed studies exceeds 371,600.

Girls are 1.38x more physically aggressive in teen violent relationships.

"Women are more likely than men to initiate violence in their relationships and are more likely to be aggressive more frequently”. He addresses the myth that women are only violent in self-defense. “29% of female college students admitted to physically attacking their boyfriends when no threat was perceived.”

And then realize that it's still something that isn't punished by law.

Male victims more likely (54% of cases) to be arrested for DV than their abuser


Mothers are fucked up. Women are fucked up.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mothers are fucked up. Women are fucked up.

They are damned fucking good at PR though

[–]SKapper 39 points39 points [recovered]

I've said this before - want to solve the single mother epidemic? Make child support voluntary.

Once they know the "pay cheques" aren't guaranteed they'll close those legs/start using their brains.

Making child support voluntary might teach them some manners when a relationship goes shit shaped.

A decent man has no issue paying child support, he just doesn't like getting fucked over while he does. Nor does he like seeing his hard earned cash spent on her shoes when its supposed to be spent on his kids.

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (14 children)

Or maybe.....ensure the money reaches the child. If a woman knows that money has to go towards her kid she won't be all excited to demand cash from the man.

[–]blkbullmentor 14 points14 points [recovered]

This is why i advocate accountability via the gov't. The woman has to prove that every cent goes to the child or she's subject to lose it by petition/court motion from the man.

[–]Philhelm 46 points47 points  (15 children)

Single Mother Observations:

Neighbor's Mother: When I was around 13 years old, I knew a kid who was a year older. He had cerebral palsy (not his fault), was overweight, and would get grounded for not wiping his ass after taking a shit. Of course, ham planet mommy was riding the CC, and one of her boyfriends slit his wrists in their apartment. The boyfriend survived despite the fact that the kid never called an ambulance.

Wife's Friend: She got knocked up by some dipshit who is in prison for an armed robbery against a cab driver. Before being locked away, he allegedly stole his son's game console for some quick cash. The kid is hyperactive, attention-starved, and pisses his pants at the age of 10(ish).

Friend's Girlfriend: When we first met her, she claimed that her daughter was born of rape. Of course, fairly recently I heard her tell a friend that the father was some young, ripped Chad, and that when she called him to notify him that he was a father, it turned out that he was getting married to some woman, so she let it go and does not receive child support. Rape my ass. Mommy, of course, is fat and is literally bi-polar, and my friend will never marry her despite the fact that they recently had an accident.

Former Plate: Got knocked up by some Mexican who ended up in prison (I think). She invited me to her son's birthday party and I nexted her. We weren't that involved, so it seemed ridiculous that she wanted me to meet her son. Obviously, she wanted me to be more involved, but...next.

Wife's Friend 2: Married a guy who was miserable during his own wedding. They had a baby and she went out of state with family while the husband remained until he found a new job in the new state. Mother sent a text stating that she was unhappy, and was answered with divorce papers. Have fun being a fat, single mother, bitch.

Half-Sister: Lesbian. Her son's super hero origins story is that some blond-haired, Australian Chad came over, jacked off into a cup, and his seed was inserted by the girlfriend with a baster. Even test-tube babies are more glamorous. Of course, my half-nephew is being turned into a beta bitch and is being taught by mommy that it's okay for men to cry, that guns are bad, and all of that sissy shit. He's one step away from being gender neutral.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (1 child)

No idea if you're aware of this or not, but

The kid is hyperactive, attention-starved, and pisses his pants at the age of 10(ish).

consistent bed wedding at this age is a huge red flag for physical or sexual abuse. I'd probably give my wife an ultimatum about being around this friend - especially if you have children.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 44 points45 points  (9 children)

Holy fucking shit you need to keep your wife away from all these delinquent friends of hers. If my girl knew all these kinds of women, I'd be concerned how they'd influence her. We all know how easily influenced women are when they're with the sisterhood.

[–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (1 child)

You are the average of your 5 closest friends

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. I rated my ex off her most mature friend. Not her loud month, overweight disrespectful friend. And after the responsible one got married and PCSed out it was just her, and a bunch of loudmouth sluts.

Lesson learned. Going into the 'RP lessons to teach my son' file

[–]Philhelm 12 points13 points  (3 children)

I forgot the best one...

My (Same) Friend's Ex-Girlfriend: He had two children with her, and it turns out that his teenage girl was giving a 30-something-year-old guy BJ's, and the younger girl was caught sitting on the same man's lap while naked. The older daughter apparently has an online dating account and frequently messages older men.

[–]Philhelm 6 points7 points  (2 children)

I'm not too worried about it, since if she wants to cheat she will make it happen one way or another. But she never goes out with her friends alone anyway. Friend 1 is with Beta Bucks and they have three kids (one shared - I suppose she isn't a single mother now, but her son doesn't have a real father); the only time my wife sees her is when we take the kids over for some party or whatever. Friend 2 was just a bitch and she moved out of state anyway.

Truth be told, my wife doesn't have any friends with whom she regularly hangs out. She either goes out as a family or not at all, although it isn't due to any enforcement on my part.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 11 points12 points  (1 child)

No "girls nights out!" well that's a plus. Family women have no business on the carousel.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. I find it completely disgusting that people accept single mothers and attempt to portray them as some sort of "supermom" instead of doing what society at large used to - openly frowning upon these factories of degeneracy.

[–]GMUwhat1234 35 points36 points  (5 children)

ya know i saw a post pop up on my facebook feed where it showed how much child support fucks a man over. You know what the majority of the comments were?

le cuck #1: "yea deadbeat dads deserve that!"

Extreme gentlesir #2: "and it's still not enough to support the keeiiid and the mothers!"

le cuck #2: "down with the patriarchy!"

All of the blame goes to the males, but NONE to the damn bitches who can't keep their fuckin legs closed or take a single pill. Society is so blue pilled I puke every day

[–]SadKuntVegeta 54 points54 points [recovered]

I agree with you. I was raised by a single mother from age 4 to 14. (not so much due to the scenario you described, more along the lines of divorce rape... mom even got a restraining order to prevent me from seeing dad when I was young).

I still feel maladjusted to society today (age 19). I lost most of my empathy for others and only feel anger towards my mother, and disgust with many parts of this world. Doesn't help my cause that I developed a stammer around age 13 that was on and off. Now I can't even really speak with people due to it, and its even worse when you have a relatively expansive vocabulary (like being a lion trapped in a cage). All in all, being raised by my mom surely caused me to develop some issues, with the long term effects being unknown at this time. Who knows, 10 years from now I could be anything from a CEO to a serial killer. Meanwhile, everyone during the divorce sided with my mom, and when everything went south, my father and I were left to pick up the pieces.

[–]remember13 49 points50 points  (34 children)

I am sorry for your childhood. But what you need to know is that everything from now on depends on yourself. I understand how annoying is to have a speech impediment (I used to have a lisp) and social issues (anxiety). I overcame both of them.

How? I took my life in both of my hands and started throat-fucking the slut. I went for some therapy (if you don't have the money there are plenty of resources online to help you with) and started boxing (I sleep like a baby and can literally talk to anyone, for example last year I became very good friends with a mobster).

What you need to take out of the above is that: your life is your life. Your mom fucked you up, not gonna deny it my brother. Yet what you have to do now is to start picking up the pieces and remake yourself into your own image.

Because you will probably not be a serial killer nor a CEO with this attitude. You will be a mediocre self-loathing piece of shit. I see potential in you bro, potential that you do not have to waste.

[–][deleted] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The great thing about TRP is that it teaches us that while some of our problems aren't our fault (blue pill conditioning can be blamed for our issues with women and relationships, for example), it is still our responsibility to fix our problems. They don't get fixed by assigning blame, they get fixed by getting out there and doing the damn thing, like you said.

[–]SadKuntVegeta 10 points10 points [recovered]

Right, I don't intend to allow this to dictate my life. I plan to blast and cruise soon (low t during puberty, mother really screwed the pooch here and didn't care that I had breasts as a male) and look into ways to alleviate the stammer. While what happened has affected me, I don't want it to define my life and cause me to waste my potential.

So thanks for the motivating words, finding this place has been very helpful for me. I just finally want to take control of my own life and make decisions without people having power over me. All my life, ever choice that I made was fantastic, yet it was ruined by that useless cunt. Now that I can dictate my own life, if I can just get past the issues related to my childhood (low t, stammer, in need of jaw surgery, probably some psychological issues that may or may not help me in certain aspects) then nothing will stand in my way. Given this, one day I will have attained a level of power and wealth that I deem satisfactory and be in great physical shape. I will stand over my mother on her death bed, and tell her that her life was a failure, a minor blimp and that she spent her life trying to ruin others and leech, while I spent mine pursuing my goals and achieving them by any means necessary. I will kiss her on the forehead and smile as she fades into nothing, not even a memory.

[–]remember13 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Good to here that brah. What you should for your low t is take cold showers. It really helps, especially if you have it low. This summer I haven't been lifting properly and eating shit, but I took only gold showers and I still the body of a fighter.

Also another tip: focus on yourself. From what your writing I can deduce that you are still using your mother as a benchmark. I will show my mother- what you have to say to yourself is I will show my self, I will be great, I am good enough already, but I want to be great

When you become great, everybody will notice. Even your mom.

[–]Walktimus 5 points6 points  (3 children)

This is really odd. My dad was out of the picture from 3 to 13, he was in jail. I have had a stutter since I learned to speak. I feel like we're long lost bros or something. I'm 24 and in the past 5 years I have come out of my shell more than I would have imagined. Got a customer facing job and have been killing it ever since. People don't really judge you for a stammer anyway. Once you get over the anxiety the speech gets more fluent (as I'm sure you know).. so basically, just go practice bro. We're all gonna make it fam

[–]SadKuntVegeta 5 points5 points [recovered]

Nice to know you got over the stammer, congrats. Im currently trying to practice more and more. Since I don't stammer nearly as much when I am alone, it must be linked to anxiety somehow. Congrats on the job too, Im sure you'll kill it.

[–]Senior Contributorcocaine_face 45 points46 points  (12 children)

I was raised without ever knowing my father, a perpetual toy held by a mentally ill single mother (Is there any other kind?), who continually got evicted from homes, remarried a massive drug addict, and always lived in constant filth.

Almost the day I turned 18, I left and have spent the past ten years remaking myself into a man.

Having lived in that sort of life, I can't see any positives for letting single mothers have children. It's damaging and they're frequently narcissistic alpha widows.

The moment you take a father away from a child, especially a male child, you've fucked that child up to some extent or another

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 28 points29 points  (7 children)

Even if they're not narcissistic, you're getting raised as a beta.

Narcissistic mothers are bad.

Single mothers are bad.

Narcissistic single mothers are a fucking shit storm.

[–]UntraceableRP 2 points3 points  (6 children)

Why is it that single mothers raise their children to be betas? Wouldn't it better suit their biological imperative to groom them into alphas?

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 14 points15 points  (3 children)

Women don't know what it takes to be a man, so they project their blue pill desires of how a man should treat them onto the young boy. Telling him this is the successful way to attract women. As a result of her solipsism, her son ends up with an ineffective sexual strategy, getting fucked up by women because he knows very little about handling them and then stumbling on TRP.

I don't think it's as much the fact that mothers want beta sons, they just don't know how to raise alpha sons. How does a woman teach a man how to be a man? She isn't a man. She has zero experience of dealing with women from the shoes of a man.

[–]boredgod 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Once in awhile you see or hear of a woman who has RPish truths to teach her son, but this compromises the nurturing role that the son also needs from his mother at a young age. The healthy arc of childhood psychological/emotional development is one of receiving support, as a sort of neurological existential development, and then transitioning into independence. The nurturing creates the systems of self-care - that is, everything from proper sleep habits to eating, exercise, discipline, and especially positive self-regard - which then become appropriated psychologically by the child as he transitions into independence, at which time he self-generates and self-regulates all the psychological and physical forms of care he experienced previously from an external source. In the best case, the single mother properly nurtures - and we all know this is sadly far from common. However, the child's transition to independence is largely modeled and guided by the father. It isn't likely or even natural that the mother should take the father's role. Mothers who care nothing for the role of the child's father in his life, and who previously didn't exercise any sexual discernment by allowing herself to be or trying to become impregnated, are child abusers.

[–]StillThriving 9 points10 points  (2 children)

im 19 and i lost my dad when i was 16. but even then when he was well and alive, my alpha dad was way too busy working to teach me shit. yeah it's hard to be a man without a father figure, which brings me here in trp.

[–]McLarenX 51 points52 points  (21 children)

I'm RP like fuck and while this does exist it's not a 100% accurate statistic. There are delinquent fathers who abandon their family. Which is precisely WHY women are BB/AF. They need a man that'll stay around. A lot of natural alpha men have a kid then decide fatherhood isn't for them or end up in prison. This triggers women going on a cash grab against the alpha and finding a BB.

Yes, there are TONS of women that get pregnant just because they "want" a baby but don't necessarily want a nuclear family and will use deception to get it. They also expect heavy, mandatory support beyond the means of themselves and their kin. But there are also men who are delinquent fuck ups.

The real problem is, the courts and everyone in America can't and refuses to entertain the thought that there may be a difference between the two. Which is why every man is accused of being a scum sucking piece of shit despite any evidence to the contrary. The courts can't seem to wrap their head around the fact that there are men in this world who have moral character, and that there are women who are shitty people.

Let's not make this totally against women and discredit ourselves when in reality it's the court and welfare systems we've created that is both the cause and continuation of this problem.

[–]iamrsj 22 points23 points  (11 children)

Thanks for balancing this out. Not every single mother is scum. In some cases like you said, guys don't have their shit together, are abusive to their partner or decide fatherhood is not for them and they bounce. Good and bad exist in both men and women

[–]momomotorboat 9 points10 points  (1 child)

I'm with you guys. I've seen the scum, but I also know many single mothers who are solid people and great parents. I have two cousins who happen to be sisters. One is just as OP describes, the other is a stand up mom. I can't agree with OP that it's 99.9%.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (3 children)

This is a rant. The guy is venting.

[–]MonkeyDFreecs 20 points21 points  (4 children)

"The statistics for kids raised by single mothers shows all manner of dysfunction (poverty, mental illness, crime) for kids raised by single mothers, but not widows."

This definitely explains a huge chunk of the destruction of the Black Community. Over 70% of Black women in America are single mothers. It is really easy for me to spot which Black guys had a Father in their life and those that didn't. The ones that didn't act as irrational as a woman.

[–]1AmlanceJockey 7 points8 points  (2 children)

You are absolutely right. I know so many black men that adopted the emotional attitude of their single mothers. This can be a death sentence for these men. When a woman gets upset over nothing and throws a tantrum people are concerned with her well being. For the female its an effective strategy. When a man throws a tantrum, he might get shot or arrested.

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

theres no such thing as a single mother theyre all married to the government

[–]Raz0rLight 7 points8 points  (1 child)

I was for much of my childhood raised by a single mother. While I love her very much, I have alot of issues that I can attribute toward her. For years she tried to convince me what a piece of shit my father was, and that he was trying to turn me against him, but when he stepped back in, and took responsibility I had to side with him, she was unstable. I cant blame him, while i feel I needed him more in those earlier years, he needed his sanity more, and staying in that reationship would have been a terrible idea.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (2 children)

My neighbor is an example.

She's a 25ish blonde girl, extremely attractive even after bearing her daughter. I've seen daddy come pick up the daughter only twice in the 8 months I've lived above her. I also hear that mom's mom (grandmother) is a scathing bitch. Well, the apple fell close to the tree I guess.

Sometimes I'll hear the daughter crying, and I can also hear her screaming at the girl "WHY ARE YOU CRYING? JUST STOP CRYING!".

Not long ago, for a period of a few months there was a different guy at her condo. EVERY. SINGLE. NIGHT.

Once I was cleaning the condo at 7:00pm, I wasn't being too terribly loud. This bitch bangs on her fucking ceiling (my floor) instead of walking her capable fucking legs up the stairs to speak to me. This of course pissed me off since we are neighbors and it is best that we are civil with each other since we must live RIGHT FUCKING NEXT TO ONE ANOTHER. I put on a jacket and walk down to her door and knock. I try to be polite, and first introduce myself before alluding to asking a question I already know the answer to: what was the sound I heard on my floor? She of course has no self-control and snaps back "My daughter is sleeping blah blah blah". I politely explain that it is only 7pm and she does not own a home (the implication being that you must deal with neighbor noise sometimes goddammit). I told her that if we are too loud that she can "walk up the steps, knock on the door and speak to me...not bang on a ceiling like some sort of pilgrim". This part was gold: Cuz I ain't no bitch, she didn't disrupt frame when she snapped at me very rudely. I deepened my voice and slowed my voice when I responded, and I did so articulately. Her entire body language and tonality instantly flipped from HOSTILE BITCH to responsive. She thanked me as I walked away, even though I hadn't done anything to be thanked. Frame boys, frame.

More recently though, there was a guy who was there daily. I presume he was there to watch the daughter while mommy went to work (or off to fuck other dudes). I'm not really sure. All I know is I could hear shooter video games from 5:00am all the way into the evening, sometimes up to 12:00pm! So after days of my fucking condo shaking from the subwoofer, I go knock on their door, trying to keep my temper under control, and explain that I don't want to have any sort of neighbor conflicts and I'd like to keep a level of mutual respect, and ask if they could at least turn the subwoofer down to keep the bass from shaking everything in my condo. I could see my neighbor on the couch (why didn't she answer her own fucking door?). The guy responds politely and I didn't hear the sub for a while....as in about two weeks. Two weeks later, same shit. I go down again. She's home. I offer to show her how to turn the sub down. She says she didn't know how to do it and that she doesn't even use it. BULLSHIT BITCH because you know how to fucking unplug something you're not using. It should be an easy decision when considering that neighbors will obviously be disturbed. Anyway, I turn it down for her. Two weeks later: same shit.

I ran into the grandmother once (scathing bitch earlier mentioned) and she asked how things were going as neighbors. I told her we had some previous issues with noise and that I could hear video games being played at all hours of the day. I was making light of it, not being confrontational. She stared at me, bewildered, and said "but she doesn't play video games". I reiterated that it was in fact coming from her daughter's condo two more times. She just looked puzzled....LMFAO! This old-time CC-riding grandmother who bear this shitty lineage of daughters can't do the simple math here and figure out that it wasn't her daughter playing the games, but rather Chad Thundercock is ramming her asshole and playing Call of Duty.

I really feel bad for the daughter. She'll learn nothing but nastiness from her CC-riding lineage of single mothers.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These type of woman are everything wrong with society from the bottom-up. Disgusting.

[–]IGoYouStayTwoAutumns 16 points17 points  (2 children)

TRP: the father I never had. Thank God for the Internet.

[–]Jaereth 21 points21 points [recovered]

I've said it before and i've said it again, the worst scorn i've ever gotten from a woman is when I told her "Sorry I don't date girls with kids" while I was in college. Two other hens were right there at the time and my God I thought they were going to kill me.

My opinion is they are just like any other degenerate member of society. They haven't put enough thought into their own life and what they desire to get out of it to actually realize those desires. Stuff just happens to them. They know how to play victim though.

Go have 4 kids with 4 guys. I could care less. Just don't call me a pig when I won't date you, because that's certainly the pot calling the kettle black.

[–]1AmlanceJockey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fucked up part about this brand of degeneracy is that when a man causes society 500 dollars via vandalism, he is punished and a record of his crime is made public so that people can be warned of his previous crimes, he cannot get many government and sensitive jobs etc. When a woman cost society hundreds of thousands of dollars she is praised, given cash with no strings and her life is not affected at all. Hell, her life is better.

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan 26 points27 points  (10 children)

Let's also not forget that "single mothers are heroic women who are Doing It AllTM".

[–]slcjosh 39 points40 points  (1 child)

Bending over putting DVDs in the DVD PLAYYAAHHHHHH

[–]1Snivellious 11 points12 points  (7 children)

They're Leaning InTM further than anyone else!

[–]bacdafucoff 13 points14 points  (1 child)

It's nice coming to a place like this that holds women accountable for their actions.

My wife's friend has a kid with a delinquent, jobless drug addict. Her reward/punishment is a full five bedroom house with yard, full tax credits and complete subsidized daycare so she can go "work" at her minimum wage job. She is constantly moving in guys secretly so she doesn't lose out on her benefits while pumping them for everything she can get. She refuses the relationships with guys that could actually benefit her because they're not the exciting type that she likes.

The good part for me is after discovering this place I'm not angry with her anymore. She's only doing what she was made to do. I am pissed at the politicians that made me pay for this shit though.

[–]1cover20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You could quietly report her to the authorities for having those guys living there or whatever violations she's committing. Trying to avoid waste of money on such as her is entirely consistent with trp.

[–]teeelo 30 points31 points  (5 children)

The girl I'm fucking these days is a single mother. This post absolutely is the kind of warning and slap in the face all men need especially me.

I'm the first guy to shove fingers, butt plugs and soon my dick into her asshole, she is submissive to my BDSM kinks, and supplies free weed and rolls joints. She's actually a lot of fun and has had a crush on me for a while, I eventually gave in because... sex. The last weekend I was there I fucked her doggy style without a condom and blew buckets into her. I never acted like birth control was an issue nor did she bring it up. Suspicious eh?

What she doesn't know is that I had a vasectomy 5 years ago, and won't be getting a kid out of me. Poor thing. To think she'll be letting me do all manor of nasty things to her and not be getting a kid and child support from me. Poor poor dear.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (1 child)

I will not get to experience this but I can only imagine the pure pleasure of being vasectomized and playing along with sluts like this.

Well done.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I wonder of it's a case of vision. Men now don't have the great war, rebuilding after the flood, or the big vision and purpose in life. The idea of saving a damsel is low hanging fruit... Something you can do to make a difference.

Kind of like jerking to porn as replacement for sex... Saveaho as a replacement for purpose and vision.

Can't remember where I saw it, was a study about how low income people have more kids, because their life is shit, and it's the easiest way to build a legacy.

[–]jrl999 6 points7 points  (1 child)

So there's this lady on my wife's Facebook. Used to be married and never had to work. She was going out with her friends and partying all week leaving him with the kids as soon as he got home from the office. She left the poor guy and took both kids. A few months later he files for custody and is granted based upon her living situation and lifestyle. She is CONSTANTLY posting shit about how the world is unfair and her ex husband is the scum of the earth.

[–]ShitlerParty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being a single mother just screams, "piss-poor judgment." The whole, "maybe the dad was a deadbeat," argument doesn't fly, because even if that's true, the woman had to choose to be with the douchebag in the first place. Sure, the father might be scum that walked out on her, but she had to make the decision to be with him and stay long enough (or fuck recklessly enough) to get knocked up.

[–]abdada 53 points54 points  (14 children)

Looks like XXlegbeards are brigading this post.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 69 points70 points  (11 children)

Let 'em, I'll get the mods to sticky it as a huge fuck you. This viewpoint will be expressed and discussed.

[–]abdada 29 points30 points  (6 children)

I have the same attitude. Just knowing she's a permanent Alpha widow is more than enough to next her when that information is shared.

I don't understand men who depreciate their reputation by adding problems and drama to their lives.

[–]zombig 12 points13 points  (3 children)

I don't understand men who depreciate their reputation by adding problems and drama to their lives.

I'd bet that for the most guys here the hardest thing to get rid of on their journey is scarcity mindset.

[–]abdada 7 points8 points  (2 children)

I don't get it, tho. 2 decades of TRP writing for me and I still don't see the mystery of women. Fat Nerdy Neckbeard can approach women everyday and get numbers.

If I could slap every father in the face at once, I would. My dad taught me to talk to girls when I was THREE. Christ, dads.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same reason that guys romanticize sacraficing themselves for their country...

Guys love being the tool for someone else workbench

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 6 points7 points  (1 child)

I third this notion. /u/redpillschool, Your Eminence. One VG and two EC's request this to be stickied.

[–]Modredpillschool 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Stickied. Tonight we dine on legbeard tears.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha, I second the suggestion to sticky this. It's a thing of beauty.

[–]Bottled_Void 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Started out a little whiny but at least it was a nice intro to a Stefan Molyneux video.

It's rare to find someone on here advocating so strongly for marriage and traditional family values, or was that unintentional? But after all, we can't all be child-free.

There has been a huge shift in society in the last 30 years. I'd say one of the biggest drives has been the money. I live in the UK and while single-mothers aren't as vilified as they have been in the past, a lot of them are still seen as scroungers. They turn 18, get knocked up and the father isn't involved, so they get a free house and money until their kid is 18. They get even more if they pop out a few more kids. But that's the way the government has decided to play it.

If you're married and looking to start a family, well tough luck, no house for you, we've got more important people to house. And in a way they're right. If you leave a single mother homeless, the child ends up dead or in care, so it's cheaper for the government to hand them a house because dead children don't win votes at elections.

I'm a little bitter because I work hard and I'm married but I'm stuck in a house that's too small for us because house prices are insane. But there are teenage mothers with nicer houses than me because they decided to get knocked up without considering the consequences. Sure you can say they didn't 'decide' it, but remember that phrase, 'personal responsibility'?

Generally, single mothers aren't usually the sort of women I would hang around anyway. And since I don't see them frequently, I wouldn't say they're ever on my mind. Maybe that's the source of my apathy for hating them.

All I'd say to any young guys that are hooking up on a regular basis that you're only one missing condom and a few lies away from being a father. And chances are, once the kid is around all she'll really want you for will be your paycheck. But I think most people here are smart enough to know that already.

I just wish the government would make a few changes so that there are more good reasons to get married (I mean money). Frankly about the only advantage I can see for men is that they are legally entitled to a say in their child's upbringing. My son was in hospital a while back and the doctors were saying that I wouldn't have been able to sign consent for them to perform an operation unless I was married to 'the mother' and my name appeared on my son's birth certificate. Groups like Fathers for Justice haven't sprung up because men are treated so damned well by the legal system.

All I could think watching that video was, "Poor kids these days, growing up watching Modern Family marathons with poor role models". When I was a kid it was the A Team followed by a kick about in the park. At least that's still an option today, even if not many people are taking it.

[–]AmericanHistoryAFBB 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This hits close to home, as I too was raised by a single mother who still doesn't have a job. (Technically my Grandparents raised me).

It sucks not having a proper father figure, luckily TRP helps soothe the pain.

[–]the99percent1 6 points7 points  (3 children)

The government can fix this epidemic in one fell swoop..

Make it illegal to give birth to a child outside of wedlock. Watch as women now have to make a real conscious decision of who they sleep with.

Sleep with an idiot, low life scumbag but an alpha nonetheless, you are screwd for life.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Problems like these are solved with less government, not more. Remove child support, alimony and handouts to single mothers and preferable treatment of women for government jobs and women will not be as eager to get knocked up by guys who aren't interested in families. That's how it was for thousands of years.

Trying to use force to stop people from reproducing will fail.

[–]La_Liga_Forensics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk why this is still pinned. I owe everything to my single mom. She brought me to the U.S. with her and pursued her masters while working and being a single mom. Never once got child support or benefits for anything. Sure, I didn't get the nice red pill upbringing, but you gotta play the hand that you're dealt.

[–]Inita_Life 7 points7 points [recovered]

As a man raised by a single mother, I would like to respectfully disagree.

While we did suffer through poverty (the father ran off and didn't pay child support.), she did raise me to be a respectable young-adult who is headed to university in a week's time.

He knew she was pregnant. He had plenty of money. He simply refused to help. That does not make my mother a horrible person.

[–]LukeMcFuckStick 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My aunt fits this perfectly. Marries a man who made it 100% clear that he did not want kids. She's 39 and the husband is doing very well financially. She decides she wants kids because her life is unfulfilled. She has to take hormones because she's so fucking old and has had three abortions. (note: if your body can't have kids its probably a good idea not to have kids) Somehow convinces the sad fuck to have kids. Gets pregnant with twins. Husbands business starts to go under. He gets scammed and loses all their money. She cheats on him and leaves him. Chooses to live in poverty and work on her "company" making like $20,000 a year when she is qualified to get a well paying job. My father sends her money monthly. My mom and aunt get into an argument. Aunt calls my father weak. My father then proceeds to tell her to fuck off and stops sending her money. Bottom line she is a fucking charity case and I think she is borderline autistic. Recently she went on a trip and left her kids with her fucking boyfriend as apposed to their father...

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[–]clonegreen 3 points4 points  (1 child)

My intelligent Sister who has often simplified womens psychology to me also had 2 kids from a man who clearly was going to walk out.

She told me the reason she kept the kids is because of her desire to nurture something and create a family.

She's not looking for child support but the reality of her still wanting to keep children that are obviously not going to be loved by a complete family is selfish and she acknowledges this fact.

Some women feel the need to secure a nest at all costs.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's not looking for child support but the reality of her still wanting to keep children that are obviously not going to be loved by a complete family is selfish and she acknowledges this fact.

This is more than can be said for most women (the self awareness and subsequent admission) not that it is an exempting factor in so much as it is a vitiating one.

The children will suffer for her selfishness. Just read some of the comments from the men in this thread.

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A girl at work is a single mother. She and the father of her little boy had a blow out argument that ended the relationship. I asked her once how involved her ex was in her son's life. While he is in fact involved there still is no substitute for being a full-time father to your kids. Seeing them once on the weekends or maybe once during the week just ain't gonna cut it.

The kid is 5 and I wonder what she is teaching him about life and how she must be instilling him with a lifetime of Beta beliefs.

She's 32 and I see some poor clueless beta falling into her trap, then the inevitable dead bedroom and eventually a divorce. But at least she'll get some cash and prizes out of the deal...and of course some of Chad's cock behind the clueless sap's back while he's married to her.

Single mother's are a Rent never a Buy. You'll never be very high on her list of priorities. Hit it and quit it. String her along for as much sex as possible. She's playing a game and so should you be.

[–]Venicedreaming 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Which is why we should support open access of abortions and contraception a to women. Let's not encourage anymore single motherhood. Also, guy pills

[–]BlackHeart89 24 points25 points  (10 children)

Again, it is total bullshit that the huge amount of kids who have no father all had asshole fathers who abused the mother/kid when most men in society are complete fucking betas.

I totally agree with this statement. I also totally agree that children, in general, shouldn't be raised by single mothers. They're just too soft. Women are for nurturing. Men are for discipline. In this world, discipline is much much more valuable.

Outside of that this post seems like its some sort of personal vendetta against single mothers. I don't see them being anymore irresponsible than the fathers. She begged him not to use a condom. So what? His dumb ass should have worn one anyway. Thats what he gets for sleeping with a gold digger and going raw. 99.9% of the time, both parties are to blame. But I'm sure I'll get down voted for not treating men like angels. Then again, my personal belief is that both sexes are full of shit. So whatever.

I agree with most of your posts, but damn. This one just seemed more like an angry rant to me rather than a knowledgeable post.

[–]cariboo_j 7 points8 points  (8 children)

Condoms suck man. Sex with a condom is seriously mediocre. If I had a choice between spinning 5 HB9 plates while using condoms or one HB6 LTR who was on the pill, I'd choose the LTR.

I broke up with a girl once because she didn't want to go on the pill.

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[–]OKJaded 12 points13 points  (3 children)

All these mother fucking fish are swimming! Just remember, each absent father is creating another potential stripper.

The current child support system is easily gamed so resources that should be directed to the child are redirected to the mother. This is usually justified because the mother is seen as the source of care for the child meaning a good attorney could easily say its going towards the support of the child.

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[–]LyricBaritone 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My buddy's mom must be in that 0.1% then, because she's a single mom and raised him very well. His biological dad was a deadbeat, so she raise him herself, all while maintaining a healthy dating life.

I agree with a lot of the self empowerment on this forum, but a lot of the "hypergamous, immoral women" material on here is often bullshit. Making sweeping generalizations about an entire gender's character seems like something that should be supported by actual facts, an not just the opinions of armchair psychologists.

[–]Blackierobinsin 15 points16 points  (1 child)

A single mother is the biggest red flag there is

[–]Brewjo 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Some of the have great tits, so it's not all doom and gloom.

[–]fredoinformatics412 4 points4 points [recovered]

This isnt farfetched at all, my sister did the same exact thing word for word of the post above. Ultimately the male is the one who suffers in the end. Guys use a condom at all times, even when your hooking up. Just because she says shes on the pill doesn't mean she is. For really there are some really messed up women out there who will do this without any regard for the future, or a males life.

I can also tell you this right now, my former brother in law life got much worse. It was like watching a diseaster unfolding and being there front row and center. It takes one mistake with the wrong person to have your life dreams and goals go to shambles because of an unstable human being.

I cant make this more clear because the amount of suffering I witnessed was unbarrable at times, and no human needs to go through that at all.

Some ppl arent going to like reading about this, but fact of the matter is, is that this the truth. I am literally traumatized by what I experienced.

[–]upperworlder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was raised by a single mom for most of my life. Then when my step-dad came into the picture he was a prick and was only in it to be with my mom, he HATES my brother and I.

The only reason I am not like the kids you mentioned in your post is because of the internet.

[–]shestoopoortosueme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Longtime Lurker, first post here.

This hits home for me :(. This single mother (B) and I have a complicated history (TL;DR she's had a super unlucky and shitty upbringing, now has a terrible mentality and can't seem to get her shit together for her almost 1 year old baby) and I have been trying to help her break free from the cycle of poverty, but she is such a victim.

I hate saying that, because she IS a victim. I hadn't talked to her all summer (we live a state apart) and sent her one of those "You came into my thoughts, hope everything's going good for you" messages, and her immediate response was, "please help me." Turns out she once again wasn't critically thinking, only focusing short term, got into an abusive household and has been physically and sexual abused all summer. This whole ordeal has left a gut-wrenching feeling in me, and I can't put into words what it has been like to go through all of this.

I did everything I could for her- called abusive home shelters and safe houses, gave her links, contacts, anyone I could- but she won't help herself and it breaks my heart in two but I can't give her anymore of my time. She has ignored me and CHOSE to keep me in the dark and worrying myself sick about her. And this isn't the first time!

In our history, she has:

• ignored me almost every chance she gets for no reason

• offered me sex in return for helping her financially (I grew up some the day I went through those ordeals)

• thrown a shoe at my car and refused to "get in" after I drive us to a fatherly figure's house for advice (TL;DR trailer park hick tricked her into giving him her truck)

• would rave about how much she hates her baby daddy but would pull a 180 and let him in her house (trailer) and leave me feeling confused and heartbroken

This list goes on but I'm getting ready for work and I'm on mobile. God at first it WAS about sex, but I realized she's only ever been used. She has no family (a tragedy happened) so I've been trying to show her what real, unconditional love means, from one human to another, but she has been emotionally abusive and manipulative, and as much as it kills me I can't help her anymore.

She IS a victim. She does NOTHING to help her self. I am DONE letting her in my life. I will never stop caring about her from one human to another, but she needs to grow up, and try to become a decent mom, and I can't have toxic people like her in my life.

Thanks for this post. It's given me a place to express my feelings, something that I haven't been able to do anywhere else.

[–]isthiscrazyhuhuhu 30 points30 points [recovered]

I must say that this is not simply not the case for all single mothers. Judge not anyone's situation lest thee be willing to be judged yourselves. Regardless, I still would never go near a single mother unless I had a vasectomy.

Want an example of a situation where it was absolutely solely the mans fault?

My girlfriends mom was married to her husband. It was her first and only marriage, and she has never dated since. She was a good christian woman, went to church, and had an excellent good upbringing. She has two brothers, one who is an engineer and the other is a neurologist. She would absolutely never had cheated on her husband. She was married with him for years. She had two kids, a younger boy and an older girl, my gf.

The younger boy ended up getting a brain tumor and died of an aneurysm. At the exact fucking same time, the husband revealed to the wife that he was cheating on her and announced that he was leaving her.

Could you fucking imagine having to deal with that, your child dying, and then just fucking getting up and leaving your family while they were still in distress? No wonder she doesn't date anymore.

The mom didn't divorce rape him. She didn't request child support. She didn't request alimony, she got absolutely nothing other than the split down the middle.

This deeply affected my girlfriend, and she is absolutely committed to staying in a steady solely monogamous relationship. I've been with her for 6 years, she's smart as fuck and motivated. She herself even wants to sign a prenup with an infidelity clause.

Again, I myself am also very careful because I know what can happen, plus I have a pretty rich family so I'm doubly as concerned.

[–]alexistheman 23 points24 points  (1 child)

Want an example of a situation where it was absolutely solely the mans fault?

Honestly, I'm fucking disgusted by this whole thread so I'm elated to finally see another logical post on here. I'll give you another.

My father is a philandering sack of shit who inherited tens of millions of dollars and proceeded to blow it on plates after remarrying four times. We just caught him cheating on my stepmother and it turns out the stupid motherfucker has installed his Asian whore and his bastard somewhere in Greenwich. Before some asshat here thinks that's "alpha LOLZ" it's not: red pill means being a man, not blowing everything on hookers and leaving your kids to raise themselves.

I was left with my mom who, as a devout Catholic, has no intention of remarrying or even dating even though I've expressly wished she would. Her father was an army officer so she went through hell and high water to make sure that I'd have a man's upbringing both in sports and through my uncle who was a captain in the navy. My single mother was more of a "man" than my father ever was or could hope to be.

What drives me fucking crazy about this sub sometimes is how absolutely off-kilter they are about women in general. Yes, you should be wary of your garden variety whore. No, that doesn't give you license to bash all women in general.

[–]BlackHeart89 25 points26 points  (5 children)

Save it man. No one wants to hear this shit. You aren't talking enough trash about women in it.

But seriously, in my experience, its usually the guy that screws up the relationship by consistently cheating.

There were a few posts made a while back talking about women nowadays have poor choices to choose from. Its either, a) Beta Bux Billy, b.) The dumbass Bad boy, c.) Chad Thundercock

Neither of those options are typically good for women. So take a 18 year old woman who is dying to fall in love. She's going to fall head over hills for B or C, then more than likely get knocked up by B, since C is usually too smart for that shit. But B gets bitches too. So he sleeps around on her constantly. She should stay????

Now I'm venting. I use to love TRP. Now its primarily trash talk against women with a tad bit of "You Go Boy!" thrown in.

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Good, good, let the pill flow through you.

Your unfiltered shitlordery is music to my ears. An important point made with the weight it deserves. If it's not single motherhood it's middle class narcissism run rampant.

The end is near, the question is how near?!

[–]hebola4lyfe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

a little heads up:

if you read carefully the comments ITT , you can see users with multiple accounts posting under different usernames . These users have infiltrated this sub for a time now. They are the SJWs , feminists , women and blue pill manginas/ whiteknights who are trying to change this subreddit slowly .

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[–]moiez326 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im the son of a single mother, and I completely agree with you.

My mom is the worst kind of woman to live with. I love her but i cant stand her. But i always thought my my mom is full of shit. My buddy's mom is also a single mother and she is all kinds of fucked. So dumb it's crazy.

Single mothers love to play that sad violin. They don't realize that a father in the family is so important. But single mother need their "freedom". Iv scolded my mom before and told her she's a silly broad that cant live with a man. She argued that she finds shitty men. I told her it's cuz shit attracts shit. I told her to become the kind of woman that will attract a quality man. Then stick with him instead of fighting!

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My mom left my dad cause he was cheating on her and beating her in front of me so i dont like the title.

Anyway I avoid single mothers myself. Every single mom I've met had serious mental problems.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (6 children)

I'm a big follower of the TRP movement.

However, I think the .1% of women who leave the father after he physically abused their children through punching, pushing and strangling (like I received as a child) is well justified.

My father was a cunt, and deserved every ounce of shit that was put his way though the justice system.

I've lived a final 3 years of my teenage years and am now 23, I've been presented a lot of great opportunities and have taken every single one of them due to having support of my mother to do so...

In every other case though of women cheating, whoring etc and somehow winning everything? Fuck them.

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Good for them. Still would not date.

I've meet a few, damaged girl that makes this their identity. I am sympathetic, but still not getting involved

[–]ozrain 14 points15 points  (6 children)

Downvoted, and I know I'm going to be downvoted for this. Focusing on the extremes of a topic never ends well. Personally know a single mum with twins, father is a fucking scumbag, told family/ community group he's grandmother died (she didn't) to get money (traditionally people gift money to help the family). The kids are to most well mannered kids I know, though unfortunately I do see that they have to be more independent/self dependent than they should at such a young age. The mothers working to support them as best as she can but luckily has good group of people to help her (not rich). Which IMO is quite good considering we used to live in a tribe community and the kids will learn more.

On the other hand, I do see where OP is coming from, bogan single mom that is way postwall fully taking advantage of another person I know.

[–]ASAP_Bickle 2 points3 points  (1 child)


Upvoted because fucking oath haha.

[–]Steve_Wiener 9 points10 points  (1 child)

This post seems a little out of character and you are obviously pissed. What happened, u/IllimitableMen?

[–]fap_the_pain_away 8 points9 points  (1 child)

I love this fucking place.

Where else in the United States can a sane person even hint towards reality? (hardcore religious ppl aside)

[–]MonkeyDFreecs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What pisses me off the most is the kids. Their mothers constantly use them as a crutch in life to the point people pity their mother more than them when they were the ones born into a situation their mother caused.

And if the mother is poor a lot of these "Strong Independent Women Who Don't Need No Man" will turn their sons into their new "Man" as in the son will basically become the sole provider of the family when he isn't even legally an adult yet. This is sick emotional abuse, the mothers act as if the sons are obligated to take care of them just because they took care of them or in some cases barely. Son will be forced to work immediately after school or just drop out of school to work full time to provide for his mom who is still trying to be a "Stay At Home Wife" which in other words does nothing but leech off the government and her offsprings. Daughters aren't even pushed to go out and get jobs like the sons not even when they're much older than their brothers.

It ain't right that a mother is having her son take care of her when he isn't even 18 yet and she isn't a senior citizen/over the age of 70.

I remember reading about a Football player saying that when hegot drafted his poor excuse of a mother hit him with a "bill" for the time and money she spent into "raising" him when he had to escape her when he was a teen to live a more healthy life and actually make it into Football.

Single mothers love guilting their kids into taking care of them especially their sons about raising them by themselves when the kids have nothing to feel guilty about over their mother's idiotic decisions.

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[–]Kirkayak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Five letters.. RISUG.

Let's see to it that this effective and safe male contraceptive gets approved and to market ASAP.

[–]DwightWolftail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love you man , the way you talk and express yourself .... Thank you for being there for me with your posts here and with your site . I have a single mother . I love you man , no homo though .

[–]Endorsed ContributorMentORPHEUS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Select and manage them properly, and single moms can be the best, most durable, least dramatic plates in your harem. Source: Been spinning them over 20 years.

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[–]CuntyMcFagNuts69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was 2 my parents split. My dad was always sleeping around and my mom was a druggie. I was raised "christian" and prayed that my mom would get to raise me.

25 years later I am so glad god isn't real (or didn't listen) because that would have fucked me up if she won custody

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see it's stickied now. How goes the purge?

Mods must love working

[–]1BoogersAreTasty 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Just out of curiosity, I wonder what the statistics are for single fathers vs single mothers?

I've long contended that (IMHO) the father is, by far, the most important parent.

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