Read Part 1: What I Learned from Being Chad a Few Times and Approaching Women (Field Report)
How did I get to learn those lessons from part 1 with different girls? All because of one experiment I did on my ex when first taking the red pill. This proved to me once and for all the true nature of women.
The long anticipated Chad guide has arrived as requested, but let's clarify a few things first. This is not a cold approach guide. This is not a "How to be Chad Anywhere" guide. This IS a guide on how to be your ex-gf's Chad coming from the perspective that she contacts you. Much TRP theory must be changed to accommodate for the fact that she's your ex-gf, not just some strange. This is a GUIDE. By that I mean don't be restricted by what I say here if the situation doesn't warrant it. Adapt as necessary.
Why you should choose your ex-gf for your first TRP experiment
Why you Came to TRP
Why you never Noticed TRP in action before
Why it's time to change.
Exploring the new feelings you'll have, and how you deal with them.
How she will contact you, why she contacted you, and how you should respond
How to pass/ignore her shit tests and not fall for beta bait
Get the 'date'
Get date numero dos
How to deal with ASD and LMR
How to fuck her correctly with video examples [NSFW]
How to act post-coitus
How to make her a plate and what to expect from
Why is Your Ex-Girlfriend an Easy Lay?
If you have undergone any improvement at least a month after separation, an ex-gf can be one of the easiest lays you'll ever acquire because...
1) You already have an intimate history, not as much seduction is required.
2) She's going to hamster it as "we already had a relationship, it doesn't contribute towards my count".
Why Should I Use TRP on My Ex-GF?
If you question the predictive power of TRP theory, if you believe that it is just a bunch neck beard loser advice and NAWALT, I want you test this out. I dare you to disprove the claims made here. Bluepillers and nay sayers always demand studies to back up our claims. I say the best study is direct experience. There's nothing better than witnessing a phenomenon with your own eyes, following a step by step pattern of what you've been told to look for. I want you to see that even your once beloved is very similar despite how she claims she's not like other women. You'll laugh at how predictable women are.
Why You Came To TRP, and Why You Stayed
1) You came here because, in general, men are not happy. I cannot emphasize this enough and have explained it a bit, here. It's 5x guilded, 1728 point post for a reason. It is the foundation and motivation for all of PUA and TRP. That shit should be on the sidebar. If the strategy society has been prescribing men truly worked, if the advice given to men awarded them happy and optimal sex lives and sexual relationships, TRP would not exist.
About once every month or two, there’s a post somewhere on Reddit, by a woman, saying something like, “My boyfriend suddenly started doing Red Pill stuff and now I want out,” followed by 4-6 paragraphs explaining how her boyfriend is now a controlling, abusive asshole who works out and wants sex (because these traits are, of course, very, very unique to The Red Pill, and any guy who exhibits them obviously went online, found us, and we ruined him). These threads get seized upon by our detractors, who eagerly point out: “See? See!? The Red Pill doesn’t ‘work’ ! It just ends relationships and turns guys into assholes!”
Independent of what is and is not actually “Red Pill behavior,” situations like these are based a bad assumption. Simply put, in examples like this, the lamenting woman has presupposed that prior to her man’s “changes”, their relationship was actually good, and he was actually happy. Then he ruined everything by reading some bullshit online that told him how his relationship ought to be, then trying to implement it.
This begs the question: If the relationship was fine before the boyfriend went all Red Pill on his woman, why is he trying to change things? Why did he go on the internet and seek out the manosphere? If he’s happy with his relationship the way it is, why is he trying to find ways to improve his sex life and become more assertive? (All of this, of course, assumes that a) the stories presented on Reddit are true; and b) the man actually sought out The Red Pill and didn’t just stop kissing his girlfriend’s ass for any number of other reasons.)
The Red Pill is here because men aren’t happy. They don’t want to be sweet and sensitive and do things for women all day long and be the “perfect boyfriend,” while having subpar sex once every six weeks, paying out the ass for expensive dates and gifts, sacrificing personal time, and getting bitched at and threatened with a break-up if any of this perfect behavior ever dips slightly. They don’t want to give backrubs and footrubs, stay at home one weekend a month while their women have a night out with the girls, get disrespected and talked about behind their backs, get cheated on (but just harmless, meaningless mistakes that don’t really count!), and get berated when they push back against any of this. They don’t want to let women move in, rent-free, and get pressured to buy a ring for a four-digit number of dollars and tie their finances to someone who makes less than half as much money, just because they’ve been “dating awhile” and “it’s time” and they’re “supposed to.”
2) Morpheus tells you why you're here...
"Let me tell you why you're here. You're here because you know something. What you know you can't explain--but you feel it. You've felt it your entire life. There's something wrong with the world. You don't know what it is, but it's there. Like a splinter in your mind. Driving you mad. It is this feeling that has brought you to me........ Do you know what I'm talking about?[...] Unfortunately, no one can be told what the Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself."
3) Let dr_warlock tell you why you're here... People don't venture to these part of the woods by coincidence. A small portion of the audience comes from notoriety, but most.... I bet you used to do what society, especially women, have told you. Be a gentleman. Be considerate. Be her savior of all that shall do her distress. You thought you were done looking and could settle down. The game was over. As a matter of fact, it wasn't a game, it all 'just happened'. It was meant to be. You treated her like a princess. Then out of 'nowhere', your precious unicorn took a fat shit in your heart and tore it out of your ass where you head was. Or you were 'alpha' before, then got comfortable, doing the above. You continued this cycle ,thinking, "NAWALT, I just picked a bad one". But the pattern continued, leaving you bewildered as to what went wrong. After all, you did what society has told you all along. What's going on?!? Sound about right?
You came here because you wanted answers, you stayed because you found it works.
Why You've Never Noticed TRP in Action
"The Reason Betas Pedestalize Women"...
Put yourself in the typical beta male’s shoes. He spends a goodly chunk of his horniest years — teens to mid 20s — when holes in watermelons look like acceptable vagina substitutes, pining for ethereal hot chicks who don’t pay him a lick of attention as they swoop by him on a cloud of incandescent purity. He sees them only from afar, where his imagination is free to feverishly fill in the gaps with only the most pleasant assumptions about his dreamgirls. When the rare communication does occur, she is as nice and kind as a saint to him. He is too smitten to recognize the hint of pity and condescension laced in her polite chat.
Later, usually college, he fumbles his way through awkward social interactions with plainer janes, the great majority of which end up with him being used for emotional sponging and ball-twisting, torturous friendships. All these girls are exceedingly, superficially kind to him because, after all, why look a gift herb in the mouth? A girl loves beta male attention, as long as it’s platonic, on her terms, extractive, and focused on feeding her ego. Naturally, these girl-friends never talk about their sex lives with the beta, never reveal what really goes on behind closed doors, and never invite the beta to join them on any adventures that really matter to him. Contrary to media popularization, betas rarely hear “This one time, at band camp…” from girls in their social circles. What they often hear instead are requests for help with term papers.
Time For a Change
Whatever strategy you've been using, forget it. Doesn't matter. Your way sucks. Your way got you here. I've been where you were and have succeeded in doing exactly what I'm about to tell you. If you're new here, read the sidebar and the top TRP posts ever, but if you have done that, move on.
Warning: This is more than likely going to feel uncomfortable. You're acting against decades of conditioning. It's going to feel not 'genuine', 'manipulative' (it is), and 'wrong'. It's not the 'real you'. It's going to require much conscious effort. Your mind is going to wonder to the thought of, "This can't be right, it shouldn't be this complicated. This is too much of a game." It was always a game, you just never realized you were playing, and were losing. Now you have to act against your previous knowledge to obtain what you want, to see how intergender dynamics really are. As /u/Rollo-Tomassi said in his interview, make the Red Pill who you are, not an act. You have to fake it 'til you make it. Become one with the mask. Internalize the red pill.
Now let's get started shall we?
- Predictable Response
- Your Response
- Good Response Examples
- She Will Respond in One of Three Ways
- The Next Day
- Validation Seeking
- Initiating the Hangout/Date
- The Coffee Date
- What to Expect from the Conversation
- Between Date Uno and Date Dos
- Preparation for Date II
- During the movie
- After the Movie
- Bringing Her Into the House for Sexy Time
- Sexy Time Done Right (For you Virgin Neckbeards) (NSFW: Includes Porn)
- What Happens When She Doesn't Let You Get It In?
- How to Act Post-Coitus and Feeelz To Expect
- Between Fornication I and Fornication II
- Contacting her for another sesh
- Fornication II
- Warning Against LTR-like Activities
- This Arrangement Probably Won’t Last
- How to Properly Deal With Her Feeelz
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