Red Pill TheorySkeptical About TRP Theory? Try it on Your Ex-GF. (Step-by-Step Guide to be her Chad) (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Senior Contributordr_warlock

Read Part 1: What I Learned from Being Chad a Few Times and Approaching Women (Field Report)

How did I get to learn those lessons from part 1 with different girls? All because of one experiment I did on my ex when first taking the red pill. This proved to me once and for all the true nature of women.


The long anticipated Chad guide has arrived as requested, but let's clarify a few things first. This is not a cold approach guide. This is not a "How to be Chad Anywhere" guide. This IS a guide on how to be your ex-gf's Chad coming from the perspective that she contacts you. Much TRP theory must be changed to accommodate for the fact that she's your ex-gf, not just some strange. This is a GUIDE. By that I mean don't be restricted by what I say here if the situation doesn't warrant it. Adapt as necessary.


  • Why you should choose your ex-gf for your first TRP experiment

  • Why you Came to TRP

  • Why you never Noticed TRP in action before

  • Why it's time to change.

  • Exploring the new feelings you'll have, and how you deal with them.

  • How she will contact you, why she contacted you, and how you should respond

  • How to pass/ignore her shit tests and not fall for beta bait

  • Get the 'date'

  • Get date numero dos

  • How to deal with ASD and LMR

  • How to fuck her correctly with video examples [NSFW]

  • How to act post-coitus

  • How to make her a plate and what to expect from

Why is Your Ex-Girlfriend an Easy Lay?

If you have undergone any improvement at least a month after separation, an ex-gf can be one of the easiest lays you'll ever acquire because...

  • 1) You already have an intimate history, not as much seduction is required.

  • 2) She's going to hamster it as "we already had a relationship, it doesn't contribute towards my count".

Why Should I Use TRP on My Ex-GF?

If you question the predictive power of TRP theory, if you believe that it is just a bunch neck beard loser advice and NAWALT, I want you test this out. I dare you to disprove the claims made here. Bluepillers and nay sayers always demand studies to back up our claims. I say the best study is direct experience. There's nothing better than witnessing a phenomenon with your own eyes, following a step by step pattern of what you've been told to look for. I want you to see that even your once beloved is very similar despite how she claims she's not like other women. You'll laugh at how predictable women are.

Why You Came To TRP, and Why You Stayed

1) You came here because, in general, men are not happy. I cannot emphasize this enough and have explained it a bit, here. It's 5x guilded, 1728 point post for a reason. It is the foundation and motivation for all of PUA and TRP. That shit should be on the sidebar. If the strategy society has been prescribing men truly worked, if the advice given to men awarded them happy and optimal sex lives and sexual relationships, TRP would not exist.

About once every month or two, there’s a post somewhere on Reddit, by a woman, saying something like, “My boyfriend suddenly started doing Red Pill stuff and now I want out,” followed by 4-6 paragraphs explaining how her boyfriend is now a controlling, abusive asshole who works out and wants sex (because these traits are, of course, very, very unique to The Red Pill, and any guy who exhibits them obviously went online, found us, and we ruined him). These threads get seized upon by our detractors, who eagerly point out: “See? See!? The Red Pill doesn’t ‘work’ ! It just ends relationships and turns guys into assholes!”

Independent of what is and is not actually “Red Pill behavior,” situations like these are based a bad assumption. Simply put, in examples like this, the lamenting woman has presupposed that prior to her man’s “changes”, their relationship was actually good, and he was actually happy. Then he ruined everything by reading some bullshit online that told him how his relationship ought to be, then trying to implement it.

This begs the question: If the relationship was fine before the boyfriend went all Red Pill on his woman, why is he trying to change things? Why did he go on the internet and seek out the manosphere? If he’s happy with his relationship the way it is, why is he trying to find ways to improve his sex life and become more assertive? (All of this, of course, assumes that a) the stories presented on Reddit are true; and b) the man actually sought out The Red Pill and didn’t just stop kissing his girlfriend’s ass for any number of other reasons.)

The Red Pill is here because men aren’t happy. They don’t want to be sweet and sensitive and do things for women all day long and be the “perfect boyfriend,” while having subpar sex once every six weeks, paying out the ass for expensive dates and gifts, sacrificing personal time, and getting bitched at and threatened with a break-up if any of this perfect behavior ever dips slightly. They don’t want to give backrubs and footrubs, stay at home one weekend a month while their women have a night out with the girls, get disrespected and talked about behind their backs, get cheated on (but just harmless, meaningless mistakes that don’t really count!), and get berated when they push back against any of this. They don’t want to let women move in, rent-free, and get pressured to buy a ring for a four-digit number of dollars and tie their finances to someone who makes less than half as much money, just because they’ve been “dating awhile” and “it’s time” and they’re “supposed to.”

2) Morpheus tells you why you're here...

"Let me tell you why you're here. You're here because you know something. What you know you can't explain--but you feel it. You've felt it your entire life. There's something wrong with the world. You don't know what it is, but it's there. Like a splinter in your mind. Driving you mad. It is this feeling that has brought you to me........ Do you know what I'm talking about?[...] Unfortunately, no one can be told what the Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself."

3) Let dr_warlock tell you why you're here... People don't venture to these part of the woods by coincidence. A small portion of the audience comes from notoriety, but most.... I bet you used to do what society, especially women, have told you. Be a gentleman. Be considerate. Be her savior of all that shall do her distress. You thought you were done looking and could settle down. The game was over. As a matter of fact, it wasn't a game, it all 'just happened'. It was meant to be. You treated her like a princess. Then out of 'nowhere', your precious unicorn took a fat shit in your heart and tore it out of your ass where you head was. Or you were 'alpha' before, then got comfortable, doing the above. You continued this cycle ,thinking, "NAWALT, I just picked a bad one". But the pattern continued, leaving you bewildered as to what went wrong. After all, you did what society has told you all along. What's going on?!? Sound about right?

You came here because you wanted answers, you stayed because you found it works.

Why You've Never Noticed TRP in Action

"The Reason Betas Pedestalize Women"...

Put yourself in the typical beta male’s shoes. He spends a goodly chunk of his horniest years — teens to mid 20s — when holes in watermelons look like acceptable vagina substitutes, pining for ethereal hot chicks who don’t pay him a lick of attention as they swoop by him on a cloud of incandescent purity. He sees them only from afar, where his imagination is free to feverishly fill in the gaps with only the most pleasant assumptions about his dreamgirls. When the rare communication does occur, she is as nice and kind as a saint to him. He is too smitten to recognize the hint of pity and condescension laced in her polite chat.

Later, usually college, he fumbles his way through awkward social interactions with plainer janes, the great majority of which end up with him being used for emotional sponging and ball-twisting, torturous friendships. All these girls are exceedingly, superficially kind to him because, after all, why look a gift herb in the mouth? A girl loves beta male attention, as long as it’s platonic, on her terms, extractive, and focused on feeding her ego. Naturally, these girl-friends never talk about their sex lives with the beta, never reveal what really goes on behind closed doors, and never invite the beta to join them on any adventures that really matter to him. Contrary to media popularization, betas rarely hear “This one time, at band camp…” from girls in their social circles. What they often hear instead are requests for help with term papers.

Time For a Change

Whatever strategy you've been using, forget it. Doesn't matter. Your way sucks. Your way got you here. I've been where you were and have succeeded in doing exactly what I'm about to tell you. If you're new here, read the sidebar and the top TRP posts ever, but if you have done that, move on. Warning: This is more than likely going to feel uncomfortable. You're acting against decades of conditioning. It's going to feel not 'genuine', 'manipulative' (it is), and 'wrong'. It's not the 'real you'. It's going to require much conscious effort. Your mind is going to wonder to the thought of, "This can't be right, it shouldn't be this complicated. This is too much of a game." It was always a game, you just never realized you were playing, and were losing. Now you have to act against your previous knowledge to obtain what you want, to see how intergender dynamics really are. As /u/Rollo-Tomassi said in his interview, make the Red Pill who you are, not an act. You have to fake it 'til you make it. Become one with the mask. Internalize the red pill.

Now let's get started shall we?

Next Sections

  • Predictable Response
  • Your Response
  • Good Response Examples
  • She Will Respond in One of Three Ways
  • The Next Day
  • Validation Seeking
  • Initiating the Hangout/Date
  • The Coffee Date
  • What to Expect from the Conversation
  • Between Date Uno and Date Dos
  • Preparation for Date II
  • During the movie
  • After the Movie
  • Bringing Her Into the House for Sexy Time
  • Sexy Time Done Right (For you Virgin Neckbeards) (NSFW: Includes Porn)
  • What Happens When She Doesn't Let You Get It In?
  • How to Act Post-Coitus and Feeelz To Expect
  • Between Fornication I and Fornication II
  • Contacting her for another sesh
  • Fornication II
  • Warning Against LTR-like Activities
  • This Arrangement Probably Won’t Last
  • How to Properly Deal With Her Feeelz

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[–][deleted] 101 points102 points  (10 children)

This is all great post and all but a large percentage of these Ex's don't deserve the new and improved you

Getting to the point where I could care less if I ever see her again was the best feeling, better than busting in her butthole

[–]1PrinceofSpades 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Can confirm regarding first time anal sex with one ex also being the last time we ever fucked.

I could write you a paragraph about how good that felt. No amount of words could properly describe the feeling of transending returning to a state of not giving a single fuck about her meaningless existence.

[–]1menergize 3 points4 points  (3 children)

You sound like you're still in the anger phase. Ex, or not ex, if you're RP enough to really not give a fuck about her, then she really is just another pussy. And that being said, plating her is just fine. It's dark triad, black knight shit. It's fun. Some guys want revenge, let them get it. It's all a game, play it.

You're right though colombia40, they don't deserve you. That's why you're going to plate her. Pump her, dump her, and when you're done, it'll destroy any idea of validation she was getting from you as you drift into the sunset. She's not getting you, you're getting her. She's in your frame.

But to add to this post... I did this to my ex the first time we saw each other after we broke up: After the first short 20 minute date described above, when you go to avoid any type of hug or kiss from her, if she comes in for a hug, step back quickly and stick your hand out, smile, and offer her a handshake. It will fuck with her head.

dr_warlock, this post was gold. Entertaining, had me busting up laughing, well written, but also good advice. It's a good starting point for people to destroy their old pedestal and one-itis. And to get a bit of practice.

[–]Myrpl 4 points5 points  (2 children)

You sound like you're still in the anger phase. Ex, or not ex, if you're RP enough to really not give a fuck about her, then she really is just another pussy. And that being said, plating her is just fine. It's dark triad, black knight shit. It's fun. Some guys want revenge, let them get it. It's all a game, play it.

Seems like you missed the posts where oneitis is basically chasing behind any specific girl for any reason, revenge included.

dr_warlock, this post was gold. Entertaining, had me busting up laughing, well written, but also good advice. It's a good starting point for people to destroy their old pedestal and one-itis. And to get a bit of practice.

Yeah, it was fun. But it's not improvement. No one with a self-esteem would actually want to hook up with his ex, it screams "scarcity mentality!!!" from miles. You can hamster it as revenge, idc. But that's all it is - hamstering. What, you missed her blowjobs? Warlock's point is to test theory then move on. Nothing more.

[–]1menergize 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Oh boy... and since you'll take this as a personal attack instead of constructive criticism of your views - I'll preface this. I wasn't attacking you.

Seems like you missed the posts where oneitis is basically chasing behind any specific girl for any reason, revenge included.

I don't think at any point in this post he told you to chase just her and only her. Nor did I? But if she does contact you, this is pretty good advice for a novice, and to be honest, a lot of the regulars on here too that don't get it yet. IF -- IF you decide to test it on her and can control your feels.

I used the word, I know what it means.

You're not chasing her, in this post, she's chasing you, which is what all women should be doing.

Warlock's point is to test theory then move on. Nothing more.

I don't think I suggested anything else. But I enjoyed how you projected your own thoughts about the topic onto my post.

No one with a self-esteem would actually want to hook up with his ex, it screams "scarcity mentality!!!" from miles.

Lol, once again, you're labeling her. She's just another bitch. You're holding grudges. If you really didn't give a fuck, you could fuck her with no repercussions. The fact that I do have other plates probably is why I can view it this way. To me, one of my ex's that is my plate and currently has a boyfriend, she's about 7th of 8 on the pecking order. Right in front of another ex.

Yeah that's right, I have two exs that are plates. Idgaf. Doesn't bother me. They were bad girlfriends, they're good fuck buddies. Nothing wrong with that.

Quoting myself:

That's why you're going to plate her. Pump her, dump her...

I've fucked many of my ex's, and they have boyfriends now, so I don't have to deal with their bitching, moaning, and complaints. Well, they moan still, but not in the same way as before.

Honestly, sounds like you couldn't separate the idea from banging a girl that used to be your ex, from chasing a girl that used to be your ex. The things you are saying sounds like you come from a game and seduction background. That's just my read though, could be wrong.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're both right on a few things.

Yeah that's right, I have two exs that are plates. Idgaf. Doesn't bother me. They were bad girlfriends, they're good fuck buddies. Nothing wrong with that.

So many variables for what makes a bad GF. We'll all have some that can easily be turned into plates...even the ones with BF's now. In the case of Ex's that you've had extreme oneitis for or she cheated on you emotionally and physically....I say fuck em. Don't answer when they see how much you've improved.

As for the ones that were basic non LTR material...plate away if the sex is great

Good points by both of you

[–]frys180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm surprised the "couldn't care less" bot didn't get you yet.

[–]Turn_Coat 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Well yes, but that's not the point of the post. The point of the post is that it's a play-by-play of how to prove this shit works.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

agree, crazy how predictable they are when you apply what OP said

[–]Turn_Coat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really, I mean, if women wanted men in bed, it'd be way easier than that. The fact of the matter is that human behavior can be predicted and manipulated to a fair degree of accuracy, and there's a bunch of butthurt feminists just now realizing that they're just as much a piece of clockwork as a man is, and trying to shut down the conversation completely.

[–]bp-74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm almost there. Just need to get all of the fantasies out of my head for good.

[–]Redasshole 50 points51 points  (3 children)

Hahahaha, my EX-GIRLFRIEND?

The one who were so dry I couldn't even put my dick into her vagina without using 250mL of lube? The one who cheated on me with 3 men and two women in a timespan of 4 months? The one I cried to? The one I begged to stop hurting me? The one who stole my sperm and tried to get accidentaly pregnant?

I could go on and on but I was so totally beta that even if I had become brad pritt in the meantime she wouldn't fuck me. And I certainly would not want to fuck her either.

EDIT after reading the whole post: good shit. Should be featured in the TRP handbook volume 2.

[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang 10 points11 points  (1 child)

She wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole, if she had integrity and discipline. But it's a woman. You'd be amazed how quickly she backpedals and jumps into your bed when the hamster realizes you just passed every single shit test and never broke a sweat doing it.

Of course you might not even want her in the first place. Might be worth it still just for the "blackops" experience OP curated here for us. Think about that, you get her to bed, then never fuck her and feign like you got a bad case of male LMR.

[–]Redasshole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am thankful for the pain she inflected upon me I let her inflict upon me. If she had been less whorish, more kind, I would still be with her, I would never had discovered TRP and understood that monogamy does not suit me.

I would love to fuck her one more time, to have her be one of my plates, to hear her beg for my cock. I would love to, but at the same time, there is such an emotional baggage linked to her that I know it would cost me more than it would give me.

Nothing to do with the fact that she is one of the campus slut and that she does not "deserve" me or whatever. I love sluts. But I would gain very little and be harmed a lot by fucking her/flirting with her.

[–]PlanB_pedofile 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Bottom line other commentors are glossing over is this is advice to turn an ex into a fuck buddy plate, not to having a relationship with.

Use your game, your rp frame, and you will become her chad for a few pump and dumps.

Now this can go one a week or go on a few months. Key is not to get re emotionally attached and be perfectly okay when she's dating other people. Maybe even sleeping with them. You are to be her Chad. You're out to get your dick wet.

[–]Azaghul 7 points8 points  (0 children)

" 'dr_warlock, could you close the curtains, I don't want people watching us'. I don't know how I got passed it, it must have been wizardry. I have no advice on how to approach this."

Here's what works for me:

  1. Use the amrchair technique to lift her off the bed.
  2. Slowly walk to the window and don't stop kissing her.
  3. Fully close the curtains.
  4. Throw her back on the bed.

They usually giggle when I do this.

Good luck, comrades.

[–]Senior Contributorcocaine_face 16 points17 points  (2 children)

This is all gold. I have to say, I have seen this played out from my exes several times. Hell, pre-PUA (when I wasn't abundant), I made a script like this for myself to try to get an ex back.

It's almost funny how predictable it all is. Also, I'm glad to see other people use the, "fill every surface" trick. I've done this for years and it works great.

My only issue with this is - is it a good idea to encourage guys to go back and fuck their ex? I fear that without true abundance all it will be encouraging is men getting back with their ex-girlfriends and eventually relapsing.

[–]BridgetheDivide 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think being able to overcome the possibility of relapse is an important part of the process. If you can't fuck an ex without falling for her all over again then you still have work to do.

[–]blkbullmentor 19 points19 points [recovered]

Why the fuck would I want that bitch to call me or swoon over my ass?!?!?!

She's a EX for a reason....

[–]Lord_NShYH 7 points8 points  (2 children)

For the same reason that militaries conduct training drills. Practice being Chad. Since you've already fucked your Ex, you should be comfortable escalating. This field exercise is to illustrate AWALT and that TRP works on every woman.

BONUS ROUND: Chad your way into the filthy sex she said no to (no with you at the time!) before dumping her post-pump.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 2 points3 points  (1 child)

There's nothing left to do with the last one. Already did everything to her and with her. I was her first for everything, so the chances that her post wall ass will get railed like I did it are slim to none. The rest of them are over 40, who fucking cares what those bitches are doing. I'll fuck their daughters though.

[–]erthian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you can see how the changes in your behavior really do change how women act, and really awalt. You couldn't get that perspective unless you purposely fuck up a new relationship just to try this again later, which would be exactly the same scenario.

[–]3rt41 4 points5 points  (1 child)

This is good stuff, but nothing tops to simply ignore her and move on to other girls.

[–]LetsGoAllTheWhey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, the psychology of it is interesting and it sounds like it could be fun. But it's a lot of work and probably not worth the effort.

[–]TurtlesReadPapers 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Is the no proper punctuation/capitalization actually necessary? I've never been the type to do that so won't it be odd or is that more of feeding the hamster?

[–]TheOboeMan 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I've been preparing for this. Now that we're starting school again, I just know she's gonna be trying to contact me.

It might be a month or two before she starts feeling bad with the dude she's with now, but I can feel it coming like a change in the atmoshpere.

In the meantime, I'm focusing on me. I'm planning on using this to gauge just how much I've changed since the last time I've spoken to her. How far I get = how much I've improved.

[–]GrandmasterHurricane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Best way to fuck your ex?

Fuck her mind and soul for life by keeping her out of your life. The void that it will create in her will never be filled, no matter the amount of dicks.

[–]BrunoOh 3 points4 points  (1 child)

The gum is acidic and will kill the sperm.

Sounds like broscience. Is this actually true?

[–]foldpak111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I've heard people say protein is bad for you. Then I heard that vitamin c supps are bad for you.

[–]Temptationn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her: "I'm sorry for hurting you..."

"you didnt" stole from hitch

[–]RojoRogue 2 points3 points  (1 child)

use stealth to insert your cock in the vag.

Where/How does the condom come in this scenario? I assume it's best to stash one under the pillow or something. Getting up to open the dresser would kill the speed.

[–]A_Becker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to the rest of the guide, he doesn't seem to imply that you should use on at all. Perhaps this is only my perception but it seemed that his method of BC was 'coitus interruptus', the 'pull-out' method.

I was wondering the same about how that fits in with the timing of the situation.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a good idea to follow this guide with crazy exes...

[–]squidracer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Over the years I think I have fucked almost every one of my ex's.. I found it to be a bad idea because it distracted me from focusing on going out and getting new pussy

[–]EmpyMagazine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex totally did the I want to return things bit. I thought she was being even more of bitch by shoving things back at me. I told her to keep the stuff, and changed my number lol. Here's my guide: Forget the stupid bitch and man up.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great read. I wouldn't waste a week of scheming and planing for an ex. I probably wouldn't want to fuck her even if she just offered. It's just too much work.

Maybe you guys have better exes.

[–]CuntyMcFagNuts69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seen this play out even in my blue pill days. Ex cheated, found another dude, hit me up, eventually met up with her, pumped and dumped her. Blocked her in my phone. I moved since our relationship so she couldn't stalk.

I probably did some beta shit during the whole ordeal but this shines a light into why I got her in the back seat of my truck.

[–]drallcom3 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Why? Why the hell would I do this?

You can get a new pussy exactly the same way. No need to revive old drama. She's the ex for a reason.

I didn't know that you're that desperate.

[–]NYCPowerCouple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going back to your ex-girlfriend is like taking a shower after an intense sweaty session at the gym, and then wearing the same clothes you had on.

You could be racking up nubile young pussies and build a harem with them in it, and you choose to waste your time gaming and fucking a skank who either determined you weren't worthy enough for her, or best case YOU thought wasn't worthy? No good can come from it.

If you broke up with her and are now gaming her, you feed her ego and lower your overall worth. If she broke up with you and you're now trying to seduce her, it's an uphill battle and she'll always remember your lows in life, and how your value got so low she had to break up with you.

Not to mention she had already been fucking someone else already probably without long-term commitment from them. Shortsighted, impulsive, slutty.

Women like this don't deserve your dick, period. If you're fucking a girl like this, or even giving her more time than she deserves, you're likely a chode cuck.

Eliminate these hoes from your life and prosper.

Exceptions: If your new plate/GF is down to have a threesome, by all means seduce an ex for some fun. But only to use as a fucktoy for you and your new piece. She isn't worth any more.

[–]foldpak111 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I didn't know we had surgeons.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RP neural surgeon. I specialize in blue pill brain biopsies

[–]Dacastrodc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Up voted. This is really good shit.

[–]whenfoom 5 points6 points  (1 child)

I just helped a friend get his ex to bamg him again. I'd like to talk to you sometime.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would make for an interesting story. Would love to hear it.

[–]Gunplayin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol I read the whole thing. Good shit, too funny dude. Half of our sub won't finish before upvoting sad as it is.

[–]thewrightstuff88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People break up for different reasons, if she cheated and did shit behind your back, this won't work. If things fizzled out over stuff like distance, work, etc, you could apply this. Relationships end for different reasons, only you can be sure of why it ended and whether the circumstances behind it ending deem this approach.

[–]Weird_Questions92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great post, I like that although this is listed as the "get with your ex" guide, a lot of this stuff can be applied to other girls. I'm specifically thinking of girls who I went on a date or two with, made out etc, then it just fizzled out for whatever reason and we haven't spoken/seen each other in a long time. Either way, I know I'm gonna have to come back and read this a few more times

And unrelated, but I enjoy all the links layered into your post, please keep doing that.

[–]CognitiveVortex 2 points2 points [recovered]

I'm guessing there's no real red pill way to do this if you're ex isn't trying to contact you. I'm definitely tagging this just in case though.

[–]Dsdcimyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good post. It's just I think many people (myself included) shouldn't plate their pre-RP oneitis 'cause it might be difficult to stay RP all along. Better to apply this guide to post-RP LTRs.

[–]SeekingTheWay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) She will compliment you (say, "thanks", but don't reciprocate the gesture)

What has proven a good play to me is to say 'thanks', then do a little awkward pause and then act like you should compliment her back but not because it is true, but because it is a social norm. something like "thanks (awkward pause) oh! right, you too..."

it's even better because you sign that you genuinely didn't noticed she looks good (regardless of if she does) and actualy neg her with that compliment.

[–]Chinny4daWinny 3 points4 points  (1 child)

You would have already eaten, or brought something that you can stuff in your purse.

One minor error I found, but your post is pure gold. I wish I had it 3 days ago when my ex contacted me, but I let some feelz out. Kinda wish I could redeem myself, but there are more important things to attend to.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fixed it, thanks.

Just gotta take the hit and move on.

[–]1oldredder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So wrong. Ex's have the most baggage, the most problems and if you ditched her then you're fucking your own life up going back to her. If she ditched you then you automatically are -3 points SMV to try at her again.

[–]lnTheRearWithTheGear 0 points1 point  (6 children)

Insinuate, not state

This is where I "fucked up". I insuated at first, but after a few dates decided to come clean. My ex hadn't been with anybody else (I snooped, sue me); although she did make a couple attempts, she got rejected. On the other hand, I had been with more than a few women since we split up.

It may be important to note that we were each others first. So now her partner count was significantly lower than mine (1). At first she was angry - I told her everything with the expectation that she would break up with me. A couple days later and she is doing things she swore she would never do before, she is horny for me, etc. Basically, what I have always wanted from her.

Assuming I continue to hold frame, give her tingles, play dread game, etc I think I can get her to continue this behavior indefinitely.

So what made my blunder work in my favor? Is it jealousy? Hardcore dread game? Is she just desperate because I'm the only guy who wants her? Personally, I think it's the latter with some jealousy and dread mixed in. Still, I'd be interested to hear TRPs thoughts on the matter.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock[S] 3 points4 points  (5 children)

Insinuate not state

I wanted to add it, but couldn't because of the character count limit.

Courtesy of TBP... http://imgur.com/a/fRj6w (Online Chat Snapshot)

A girl recently was communicating with a chad prospect when he said, "Next Wednesday make yourself available please. Your plans mean nothing to me". This guy stated he doesn't care, but he was suppose to insinuate it.

[–]TRPShill 7 points8 points  (2 children)

what the actual fuck.

A) boy is this fellow a try hard

B) talk about losing frame

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock[S] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Woah, I totally missed that last part. Disgusting.

Those are the examples anti-TRPers love to cite as a good representation of the community.

[–]lnTheRearWithTheGear 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Okay, I feel like there is a communication issue here... I understand the meaning of the words. What I'm asking is: why did "stating" work so well for me?

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it worked, doesnt matter.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have banged most of my ex's, similar tactics, but most were before texting was around. My last ex is too stubborn to try to come back, she is also acutely aware that every one of my ex's tried to come back, so she will make herself miserable before she makes an attempt. After what she did, framing me with her boyfriend and getting me thrown in jail in an attempt to drive me out of state and extort money from me, I doubt she will risk it. She probably thinks I am mad at her, and her hamster will tell her I'd hurt her, which is hilarious. I only hurt people who are legitimate threats, she is ineffective and mostly harmless, her boyfriend even more so. Still it keeps her away and makes my life easier, and there is no fucking way I am going to contact her. At most she's a piece of ass, post wall at 33, and I can fuck hotter girls easy.

I know this trp thing works, I've been using it since 1986, long before I knew about the internet. It's how I've gotten laid so much in the last 30 years. Don't need to fuck my ex to prove it to myself. She is fun to fuck though, but so are college girls.

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too bad the only ex Im actually still angry enough I want to revenge-pump-and-dump didnt respond to anything I sent her post break up (before TRP) and doubt she will now. Too bad for her.

[–]xray777 1 points1 points [recovered]

Not to be "that guy", and this is a good guide, but if you are starting from the point of "The ex has texted you." its kinda hard NOT to win.

If a girl contacts you out of the blue, sex is already on the table. It might not be guaranteed at all, but she's got the tingles for you. She's interested. Moreover, she's taking initiative. You've already half won.

A better Chad guide would be a cold approach or starting with an ex who ISN'T texting you. Starting with a girl already showing keen interest isn't really that informative.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you are starting from the point of "The ex has texted you." its kinda hard NOT to win.

You'd be surprised how many fuck this up.

A better Chad guide would be a cold approach or starting with an ex who ISN'T texting you

To be clear, I advise against initiating contact with your ex.

If you want cold approach advise, go look up RSD tyler or julian, they know what's up. There are a few of their videos in the Red Pill Video Compilation Nuke.

[–]BlackHeart89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was easy for me. I was never on bad terms with any of my exes. We had gone so long without seeing each other than when we did finally see one another again, she wanted the D. I had improved so much since last we met. I really didn't even have to try. Just escalate. Its pretty much guaranteed.

[–]BecomeInspired 0 points1 point  (1 child)

My ex contacted me yesterday, and i followed the instructions, she started off if i know any exsercise to incerese mass only to later ask me how i was doing, the only thing is i was with this girl some 2 years ago for 6 months so will it still work?

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's a female and she was your girlfriend. I dont see why not.

[–]unseen1unknown 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Good stuff man, a dude who runs a blog called Good Looking Loser made a few posts on how to make your dick look bigger through jelqing or something.

Im on my phone so i cant link it but the guy goes into alot of detail on different ways of doing it so you can avoid going under the knife.

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Not look bigger, get bigger.

[–]Kaelteth 0 points1 point  (1 child)

It is a great step-by-step, and will absolutely work. Well written.

That said - this is also a PILE of fucking effort to stick your dick in an ex. Personally, I don't have an ex anywhere in my history that is worth putting this much work/thought/energy into doing her.

I'd rather find a new vagina to explore than get an ex in bed.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a lot of work because you're using your frontal lobe to process this information. The subconscious does this in mere fractions of a second. This post took pages upon pages of theory and compacted it, making it very dense. Once this internalizes, it's not nearly as much effort. If you can find a new girl instead, by all means, choose her.

[–]1PrinceofSpades -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My take home lesson of choice:

'When having sex she knows she isn't supposed to be having, you're really just racing the hamster processing what's going on.'

I like how people think the commitment of marriage suddenly prevents her from cheating thanks to a reminder ring that she can remove from her finger any time she pleases. How archaic.