Asking for a friend. Just kidding it's me. I have always had a complicated relationship with sex (who hasn't tbh), started masturbating early, started sexual activity early, etc. I engage because I love it and I'm almost always horny, but I also have used it as a form of coping. My last therapist told me to go to "Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous" meetings but I thought it was crap.
Now I have a lot of experience, a lot of sexual history (no diseases or pregnancies tho, woo hoo safe sex), but also a lot of fear. Guys can tell a lot of the time that I'm experienced and I know it freaks some out.
I've been single for a long time and I'm deathly afraid that I am just plain unloveable as a slut. So what do you think?
Also, follow up question: If I do enter a relationship, should I try to bury my sexual history? In some ways I feel like it's a significant part of me, but it's also mostly in the past (I'm not as crazy as I used to be- way more emotionally intelligent now).
TLDR; Does a slut have a shot at love? Should she be honest about her past?
Edit: Well this has been painful, but enlightening. I'm going to sleep now but idk I guess keep responding. Mixed bag of responses because everyone is different! In the end though, if there are some "yes"s, I'm good. :) Thanks for all responses, positive and negative, all honest AF.
The responses she got where a mix of blue pill "I don't mind" from manginas and a few redpill responses.
The guys in the thread who didn't mind her body count are either
- 20+ year old virgin guys desperate to have their first girlfriend
- neckbeard who lives in his moms basement and willing to overcompensate for his low smv
- beta male with a cuck fetish
- insecure dudes that have no self respect like this guy
But like all women she wants commitment from an alpha, but that aint gonna happen when he can either pump and dump her since she gives it away so easily or find an equally attractive women with more self respect and a more reasonable body count to have an ltr with.
Edit: For those here saying theirs nothing wrong with her body count, and you'd still fuck her. Your not getting it. Its totally fine to hookup with this chick or even make her a plate, but you'd have to be a huge beta chump to commit to her ands thats what she was asking for in her post.