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Red Pill ExampleGirl asks if guys would look past her 60+ partners by age 23 and accept her for a long term relationship, or is she should lie about her body count. (self.TheRedPill)

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Asking for a friend. Just kidding it's me. I have always had a complicated relationship with sex (who hasn't tbh), started masturbating early, started sexual activity early, etc. I engage because I love it and I'm almost always horny, but I also have used it as a form of coping. My last therapist told me to go to "Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous" meetings but I thought it was crap.

Now I have a lot of experience, a lot of sexual history (no diseases or pregnancies tho, woo hoo safe sex), but also a lot of fear. Guys can tell a lot of the time that I'm experienced and I know it freaks some out. I've been single for a long time and I'm deathly afraid that I am just plain unloveable as a slut. So what do you think?

Also, follow up question: If I do enter a relationship, should I try to bury my sexual history? In some ways I feel like it's a significant part of me, but it's also mostly in the past (I'm not as crazy as I used to be- way more emotionally intelligent now).

TLDR; Does a slut have a shot at love? Should she be honest about her past? Edit: Well this has been painful, but enlightening. I'm going to sleep now but idk I guess keep responding. Mixed bag of responses because everyone is different! In the end though, if there are some "yes"s, I'm good. :) Thanks for all responses, positive and negative, all honest AF.

The responses she got where a mix of blue pill "I don't mind" from manginas and a few redpill responses.

The guys in the thread who didn't mind her body count are either

  • 20+ year old virgin guys desperate to have their first girlfriend
  • neckbeard who lives in his moms basement and willing to overcompensate for his low smv
  • beta male with a cuck fetish
  • insecure dudes that have no self respect like this guy

But like all women she wants commitment from an alpha, but that aint gonna happen when he can either pump and dump her since she gives it away so easily or find an equally attractive women with more self respect and a more reasonable body count to have an ltr with.

Edit: For those here saying theirs nothing wrong with her body count, and you'd still fuck her. Your not getting it. Its totally fine to hookup with this chick or even make her a plate, but you'd have to be a huge beta chump to commit to her ands thats what she was asking for in her post.


[–]internet_terrorist 302 points303 points  (104 children)

I've been single for a long time

I think "a long time" for females is significantly different from what men consider, "a long time".

[–]16 MGaiusScaevolus 305 points306 points  (90 children)

So is "single".

Every 'single' girl I know has at least one guy they sleep with semi -regularly and 'hang out' with, it's just one or both parties have decided the partner isn't quite up to par to go public/official with.

[–]BrunoOh 270 points271 points  (83 children)

Whenever a girl is "single" she has one or more of the following:

A fuckbuddy (or two),

some beta who thinks he has a shot and going on dates with her who she's kind of stringing along,

guys (at, say, work) who she knows are interested in her,

beta orbiters who do her homework,

hundreds or thousands of followers on various social media platforms.

Women are never SingleTM in the way men experience it - that no one is interested in you.

[–]Red_Pill_Raskol 91 points92 points  (41 children)

An old female friend of mine told me that she has had a guy to fall back on between relationships for 9 years years for sex. I'm going through a dry spell and she said very nonchalantly "why don't you get a fuck buddy?" Jesus christ women have no fucking clue. 9 fucking years of guaranteed sex! She thought that was absolutely normal.

I'm a 8.5/10 and she's a 6.5/10

[–]madmaxturbator 102 points102 points [recovered]

I'm a 8.5/10 and she's a 6.5/10

if you're an 8.5 going through a dry spell and you can't get a fuck buddy ... son you got no fucking game AT ALL, or you're waaaaay overestimating how attractive you are.

not trying to be an asshole, but this is just bizarre to me.

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (17 children)

If he doesn't game or if he's on monk mode then honestly it could happen.

I have a friend who is probably an 8.5ish that sort of pulls on accident (he's a more alpha then beta all-natural). He hasn't had a girl in roughly a year due to school. Just doesn't have the time.

[–]ZioFascist 63 points64 points  (13 children)

thats what alot of RP'er dont even realize..even dudes who you'd think get girls ...don't.

[–]PeanutFlavor 16 points17 points  (10 children)

It has a lot to do with expectation. When you're an attractive person (especially coupled with being intelligent), people have a hard time believing that shit. They immediately throw up a wall at you thinking you just get handed shit left and right when the reality is that since everyone thinks you MUST have so much privilege, they default to treat you at an unfair level. They purposefully make things difficult for you. That's why you keep hearing how attractive people are always single or you see an attractive person flipping out and they look crazy. It's because people are constantly fucking with you when you're good-looking. It seriously disrupts "normal" people to know sexy AND intelligent people exist, so they throw rocks.

[–]fingerthemoon 6 points7 points  (5 children)

Attractive guys tend to have higher standards and those ladies are few and far between. Average looking guys fuck WAY more girls, just lower smv girls. My average friend is smashing all kinds of tinderella that I couldn't get it up for.

Think about it. There's much more average looking people to choose from and they're all hooking up with each other all the time.

[–]PeanutFlavor 9 points10 points  (4 children)

Thats kind of my point actually, the 6s of the world really are the ones doing all the fuckin'. Prior to my first experiences with the PUA/RP community, I would really get miserable over why I felt overlooked and it went back to something a girl who friendzoned me said in high school (I thought it was bullshit, but turns out it was true). She said, "you're intimidating". There were other things she said but it'd feel like I was talking shit so I'll leave it out. It took dating an older woman to elaborate. She laid it right the fuck out and I realized that I was pining over a bunch of runts all these years. There was access to some quality shit but my confidence level just wasn't matching up. Eventually I came to appreciate that I may not ever have the numbers my buddies might have, but I could make up for it with sheer stunners. Nice girls too. Like down for whatever, sweetheart types. Good attitudes.

My friends didn't see me for 2 years (I went monk mode)...I show up with this tall, grey-eyed, big tittied, tiny waisted girl from St. Petersburg, Russia and they asked me if I was selling drugs. Girl had a legit sense of humor and had orgasms that would knock your dick out of her. Shit was FIRE all Summer and Fall that she was here.

Girls like that take a while, but I'd rather go hungry for a year and be suddenly eating a $4,000 sushi plate fresh from Hokkaido than eating McDonald's on the hour every hour. That's my analogy and I'm stickin' to it! :)

[–]ZioFascist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

id say this applies to women more so than men.

but yea..i agree.

[–]Freddy_Fedora 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Getting girls requires time and effort for 99% of us. Even if you're a 10/10 you still need to go and talk to them

[–]Red_Pill_Raskol 4 points5 points  (1 child)

You're not wrong and my game leaves a lot to be desired. That being said, I am 6'2", 190 lbs. I work out 4-5 times a week, jog about 20 miles a week. Naturally chiselled jaw, clear skin blah blah. I know I'm good looking but my economics and confidence are not where they need to be since my last LTR fucked me up psychologically. I tried dating a beautiful local village girl (25), and she went psycho jealous retard after the first time we had awful awful sex. Then her sister (15) kept trying to invite herself over to my apt. which I would have none of.

I simply don't meet enough single women in the short 12-24 hour period that I go to the city on the weekends, and when I do they are just fucked up in the head. My business is located in a rural asshole of southern Europe. I'm an American expat btw.

[–]TaylorWolf 18 points19 points  (14 children)

Shits real dude. Im a solid 9. 6'2" 185 lbs shredded I could probably be an actor if I worked at it. I train MMA and have worked on successful TV shows females love like The Vampire Diaries and it did not make a difference.

Had absolutely no game my entire life. As a teen I always ended up in the friend zone because I was so timid. Then in my 20s shit just dried up. I never go out, Im either home or at the gym.

I get IoIs from 90% of women though. They position themselves near me and desperately seek my approval/attention. I have never known how to flirt or indicate my own interest tho. Never learned to engage physically. Girls always take this as me "rejecting" them because Im not stumbling over myself to give them attention like 90% of other guys. Or maybe they just eventually sniff out the beta pussy inside me.

Thank god for this subreddit though. I can see myself becoming a more desirable person every day. Soon this women will just be absolutely unable to resist and their heads will explode like the fem-bots in austin powers

[–]martypete 10 points10 points [recovered]

Hello from the other side of the coin. Ironed game out during my late high school and college frat years(when I was also a 9). Many years later I would rate my appearance at maybe a 6.5. I've definitely let myself go. However I know exactly what I need to do to get back to where I was, and am working towards it, like yourself. Eat right, get back on keto and hit the weights. You want a tip? Watch these shows which feature alphas in every right:

Californication (David Duchovny)

Two and a Half Men (Charlie Sheen)

How I met your mother (Neil Patrick Harris)

The League (Mark Duplass' character Pete, and Jon Lajoies character Taco)

You'll get there bro, the best tip I can give you is you should never talk to a woman any different than you would talk to one of your boys. You need to convey that women are no higher up to you than any of your own friends. joke with her and don't be afraid to play around. today i was walking in front of one of my female coworkers (who im not necessarily interested in, but i like to keep sharp) and turned around and looked right at her and said "yo, stop looking at my butt..." i guess its all in the way you say it but she busted out laughing. i followed with, "Im not a piece of meat!" You just gotta keep it light. Amused Mastery is a good way to put it.

[–]mydogfartzwithz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is important. A single woman may not be sleeping with someone, but if that's the case then she's getting her fulfillment of validation from some other outlet.

[–]NAmember81 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Plus she would have had to sleep with a new guy every month to rack up the numbers she did. And the funny thing is she probably turned down a shitload of dudes WHILE in the process of racking up those numbers. Haha

[–]CuilRunnings 36 points37 points  (34 children)

You RP guys have a lot of good insights... but it seems as if you generalize all women as the hot going out type? There are plenty of women who aren't all over social media and the club scene, and plenty more who are just average in looks, and about even 50% of which aren't attractive enough to get any male attention whatsoever.

[–]russo392 56 points57 points  (1 child)

Ugly women still gets way more validation than an above average guy. There's a lot of guys out there that will orbit anything with a pair of legs and a pussy.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 38 points39 points  (2 children)

about even 50% of which aren't attractive enough to get any male attention whatsoever

Bullshit. I'd say that maybe 0.0001%, if not even less, of women wouldn't be able to pull a guy. She will have to be a special kind of ugly.

Even the fattest of all landwhales, maybe even missing both legs and one arm, will just have to make a profile on any dating website and they will be showered in messages by desperate virgin neckbeard betas who will tell her just anything to get their dick wet.

If you do not believe me, try for yourself and set up a profile.

The problem is that they don't get the attention from the guys they want to and they feel entitled to get.

[–]Super-Saiyajin 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The problem is that they don't get the attention from the guys they want to and they feel entitled to get.

There was a post here not too long ago about a 6ish chick who was upset that she "only" got 30 responses in an hour on a dating site and that none of them were by the top 99% of guys! It blew my fucking mind!

[–]PeanutFlavor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Amen, and boy have I seen it. There was this girl I bought a 3rd Gen Camaro from several years ago and on the phone she was bragging about her DDs..I thought that was pretty weird, but I went onwards. Go to meet her to see/buy the car and she's a full-on fucking SNORLAX. Complete with HORRIFYING mullet (looked like a kindergarten-aged individual decided to go Edward Scissorhands on her..the top was SUPER patchy and uneven, almost balding and the back was all stringy and uuugh). She looked like she was just ejected from a mental institution. For real.

Long story short, turns out her "profession" is sending boob pics to unsuspecting/desperate neckbeards and she insists them to Greyhound her fat ass across the US to live with them in hopes of being saved from her podunk life. Of course, they get buyer's remorse and send her fat ass back after a few weeks. Rinse and repeat. Any girl is capable of getting dick and she was stark proof of how easy it is. This chick was fucking homely as all fuck and these dumb motherfucker would bite the bait.

[–]alveoli1 72 points73 points  (10 children)

I think you greatly underestimate the amount of attention and validation really attractive women receive.

[–]mugatucrazypills 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think you greatly underestimate the amount of attention and validation women receive from thirsty betas.

[–]CuilRunnings 2 points3 points  (7 children)

I don't... I understand 100% what really attractive women receive and what this does to their personalities... but not everyone woman is a "really attractive" attention whore.

[–]ShounenEgo 48 points49 points  (0 children)

What you don't understand is that you really don't need to be attractive as a girl. The girls that have the "girl next door" looks (which is average) can go slutty by simply embracing their sexuality.

For the average guy who embraces his sexuality there's always pornhub.

[–]01101111011010110110 68 points68 points [recovered]

make a fake profile with a photo of a fat bitch. you will find more than enough average guys to fuck. sex is easy to get for every woman.

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (4 children)

Yup, anyone can do this social experiment.

Go to a dating site and make a few fake profiles. The truth hits you hard in the face.

[–]mugatucrazypills 20 points21 points  (1 child)

Did this ... made the mistake of using a semi good looking profile pic of a girl with big boobs. account was unusable in hours from hundreds of replies. The saddest thing was sending a fake encouragement or hi to one of these desperados, which would be answered with multipage declarations of love, resumes, complex life stories.

[–]fingerthemoon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I knew that was probably you but had to try just in case.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (3 children)

and plenty more who are just average in looks, and about even 50% of which aren't attractive enough to get any male attention whatsoever

Please read the following: http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/

[–]occupythekitchen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ive talked to a lot of shy girls and they will get hit on at work constantly. If you ever get close to an introverted chick youll see she is more concerned about others than common people and she wilçl have a few dudes that talk to her. Every woman does, she is a prey being hunted by someone they all are in the end of the day.

[–]jmottram08 32 points33 points  (8 children)

50% of women are not "aren't attractive enough to get any male attention whatsoever."

[–]TRPhd 29 points30 points  (1 child)

I agree. It has been my experience that average to below-average women occasionally get more attention than very attractive women because a larger percentage of men perceive them as obtainable.

[–]mugatucrazypills 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a 10 breaks the universe in online dating, but a 9 scares them off ? curious how this breaks out.

I need to reread dataclysm

[–]unsafeword 24 points24 points [recovered]

Pre-wall girls no, post-wall women yes.

[–]jmottram08 37 points38 points  (4 children)

50% of 30+ year old women only get no male attention if their standards are impossibly high. There are tons of low value single 40 year old guys that are willing to fuck a low value 40 year old woman.

[–]unsafeword 6 points6 points [recovered]

There are tons of low value single 40 year old guys that are willing to fuck a low value 40 year old woman.

That willingness to fuck rarely translates to action for that timid, pussy worshipping set. It doesn't come down to what standards a woman projects if there's nobody to approach her in the first place.

[–]jmottram08 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think its more of women not realizing that they have hit the wall, and thinking that they can do better than they can in reality.

[–]Moldy_Gecko 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Read about the 13 yr incel on the sidebar. It doesn't take much for women to get a fuck buddy or laid.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. The last two girls I dated of course were not unicorns but their social media was seldom updated and no phones were in use while we were together. They also didn't have a history of partying. They were smart, above average attractiveness women. Not all of them are all over social media.

[–]Endorsed ContributorLastRevision 60 points61 points  (4 children)

It makes me feel significant nausea when I hear a girl I'm feeling out tell me how much she "enjoyed being single."

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (2 children)

lol, I'll remember that when she tells me the story of how she forgot to pay her cell phone bill, then pulls out her cracked screen to connect to the free wifi

[–]Nhiyla 5 points6 points  (0 children)

holy shit, thank got i surpassed the point in my life where i "forgot" to pay a bill. can't imagine how that would feel in my mid 20's.

i guess at this point i'd just stfu about my cell phone and pretend i forgot it at home or some shit when asked.

[–]evileddy 65 points66 points  (3 children)

They are never "single"... they mean:

"ugh.. there are all these guy who want to fuck me but I don't like any of them.. ugh.. sucks being single"

[–]1seenoeval 69 points70 points  (0 children)

"ugh.. there are all these guy who want to fuck me but I don't like any of them..and the ones I'm fucking won't commit to me at all.. ugh.. sucks being single"

[–][deleted] 35 points36 points  (1 child)

OMG why won't Chad take me on a date? Forever alone ;_;

[–][deleted] 101 points102 points  (2 children)

Girl definition of ''single for a long time '' : ~5 months

Male definition of ''single for a long time '' : I havent talked to a female in my whole life

[–]mugatucrazypills 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've encountered women many women(careerish 20s 30s) with severe oneitis,unrealiastic standards or general alpha fetish and refusal to accept their SMV who will say single for "a short time", when it's been years and years without any signifigant LTR. They know they are shitting themselves but have to laugh it off as "no big deal".

and yes they will episodically date down dramatically every 12-18 months because all that "status stuff doesn't matter for the great guy" but the guy is a placeholder who will be cast off as a "loser" in 6 months or so. Sort of keeps them in the game, shows they have a "heart of gold", near alphas or simply good men don't need to apply for this beta boyfriend job either it's either the neurosurgeon or the subway guy for them.

[–]barrettcuda 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Read:pook:emotionally single

[–]supersonic-turtle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

right as a man a year or two is a long time but I noticed for females months is a long time.

Either way this girl is going to lie no matter what you can see the insincerity with her phrasing "I have always had a complicated relationship with sex (who hasn't tbh)" uhh no I havent, sex is either fun and pleasurable or I'm not feeling it nothing to complicated about it.... I think she meant to say "i'm easy but I dont feel bad because everyone is right guyz?"

Anyway that was annoying to read because I am a dude and I respect myself enough to NOT CARE about my girls history like that as a matter of fact I respect a woman who owns up to it without trying to write it off with a teehee, I aint no saint so I dont expect a grown woman to be either.

[–]bat_mayn 165 points166 points  (21 children)

So tired of always reading stuff like this. It always boils down to this:

"Should I be honest"

We all know you won't be, so why bother pretending like you would do otherwise? That sociopathic validation, as long as she can turn the wheel and get pity validation, she can make excuses for her lies.

I've started meeting women like this, who've had well over a dozen sexual partners before they leave their teens. It's all the same, always seeking validation, always making excuses. A popular excuse today is, "Well the average person has X many partners at so-and-so age". Because its the unwashed, uneducated, untethered horde of stupidity that should dictate how responsible you are, right? Humans will stoop to any low provided it is popular with the 'horde'. That lovely degenerate Progressiveness™. The Modern Women™ is shockingly inept at taking responsibility for her own actions, and doesn't seem to have any concept of what honor, integrity or modesty is.

[–][deleted] 122 points123 points  (16 children)

Just made me realize.

It's not even

"Should I be honest"

But

"Make me feel justified for lying!"

Everyone knows they should be honest. But it can be vulnerable and dangerous to do it.

Because she knows guys will mind it, but hearing it from someone else she can justify it as the guys being traditional jerks and prudes, and so because any guy with standards is an asshole, she doesn't even have to consider her shitty behavior as shitty.

Even before when I was a complete bluepill virgin who bought all of the feminist mythology, deep inside I still found vapid sluts disgusting, even though I didn't know if anything was wrong with them. Yes they made my dick hard, but I still had a very distasteful and shameful deep feeling about it when i heard their massive numbers. However, I could have been easily lied to by a slut and wouldn't have noticed the signs. Now I understand why you don't can't turn a ho into a housewife.

[–]Mature_Student 26 points27 points  (13 children)

My take on this is "Can I be dishonest and get away with it?"

[–][deleted] 23 points24 points  (8 children)

it requires long term thinking to know that the answer is

yes... for a while.

One errant college friend on facebook, one random email left open, a drunken moment of honesty. No one can hide it forever, unless the guy is playing an active part in decieving himself.

Though 3 years down the road, it will come out, what do you do then?

[–]Mature_Student 25 points26 points  (4 children)

She'll think she can get away with it because she is probably about half as clever as she thinks she is. Not only that but it's absolutely inevitable that she will cheat, once she's tied down (In her eyes) with a couple of kids she will miss the days of the CC and think she can cheat and get away with it, she will give it a go and maybe get away with it, maybe not. If she does get away with it she'll do it again, and again, and again until she eventually gets caught, at which stage she will only admit to the one she got caught with. This woman is to be avoided as an LTR at all costs.

[–]killking72 18 points19 points  (3 children)

At the point she gets caught she'll blame the guy. Don't forget that amazing double standard.

[–]ItsCold_ItsCold 3 points4 points  (2 children)

She will lie about the others by omission. And yes, she will certainly blame her disgusting provider, and people will take her side.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (1 child)

"Look at my SO and the great job he has, I'm so lucky" ...

"He's always at work satisfying my material needs" ...

"I pretty much HAD to fuck my personal trainer, I was SOoOososo lonely" ...

"Hey Timmy McOrbit, James O'Betapussy dumped me because I'm a slut. Can you validate me tonight?"

Clearly this all happened in the UK, based on the names. But it could happen anywhere!

[–]qtyapa 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Wasn't there a Ben Affleck movie where his SO was a slut and he only finds out through somebody else,freaks out usual hollywood mangina follows into making him think, past doesn't matter, what matters is how he feel about her now. They kiss and live happily forever.

[–]KimJongUntzUntz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of that scene in Office Space where the main character is talking to some random at a work party about his new girlfriend (Jennifer Anniston). The guy mentions that "shes a total slut" and that "even Lumbergh fucked her." The main character is horrified and for the rest of the movie it causes problems; with "even Lumbergh fucked herrrrr" echoing eternally in his head...

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

"Should I be honest" But "Make me feel justified for lying!"

I'd buy you good if I wasn't a cheapskate

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

post circle of life. the big three you see.

"Should I be honest?"

"I wasn't honest, and the SO found out and wants to leave because I'm a liar and am not that kind of girl anymore... what do I do?"

"Men are assholes that should accept me for what I am, I found a great one, though I don't like him like chad"

"should I be honest?"

[–]nsummy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. She isn't going to make a decision based on reddit answers (I hope). Her mind is made up, and if you have to ask if you should be honest, you already know the answer and its probably the wrong one. Instead she should have asked how to best tell a guy if asked.

[–]Lord_shitmeister 160 points161 points  (8 children)

Pair bonding is dead with this one. Only The Rock would be alpha enough for her and her 60+ partner count would turn him off. Another one that got fucked by Sex and the City.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 88 points89 points  (1 child)

cough THOUSAND COCK STARE cough

[–]stonecats 17 points18 points  (2 children)

this would me my main concern too.
if she can convincingly tell herself and the guy she has achieved
a significant bond with him, then her resume should not matter,
but she's going have to prove herself more often than most do.
any girl who can snag 60 guys without consequences,
is not used to having to put much effort into bonding.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

it might not be, but that's not the point.

Why would I take the risk? Theres others out there who are a much smaller risk

[–]baystreetballing 379 points380 points  (35 children)

Dont look at me resume even though ive been fired 60+ times by age 23.

[–]ColdEiric 88 points89 points  (5 children)

Excellent metaphor. 60+ bosses decided to fire her due to her long-term destructive influence on the group.

Shit like this reinforces the notion that some girls are just for renting.

[–]recon_johnny 110 points111 points  (3 children)

Here's a gold comment: "It's not about wanting lots of sex, you can get that from a relationship. It's about wanting lots of sex from lots of different guys".

This is classic RP behavior. She rides the CC, realizes it's an issue, wants to lock down a provider sometime in the future, realizes that no man of value wants such a slut.

The man who willingly decides to wife up such a woman deserves everything he gets. The man defrauded into such a relationship gets some condolences, but he should have vetted her out before signing over half his shit.

Odds are she'll be fucking the groomsmen before the wedding day is over.

[–][deleted] 31 points32 points  (2 children)

that wouldn't even be bad, it's a clean situation and early.

It's the ones who facebook their friends and chads... think of it like it was the greatest times of their life. Imagine finding out that your entire life is a sloppy seconds for someone.

And not even sloppy seconds, those are at least seconds. Imagine if they decided 'they aren't like that anymore'

I'm so glad I married a whore who fucks like a prude

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Did you mean to switch those two terms around?

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's a reference to the blog post called. "saving the best"

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it was just temp work... Not the right kind of experience for a career woman

[–][deleted] 86 points87 points  (4 children)

Who's to say she even wanted to date any of those 60+.

It could have been her who did the "firing." She likely was just looking for any cheap ons and had little to nothing in terms of standards. That to me is an even bigger red flag.

[–][deleted] 187 points188 points  (3 children)

Never mind that I've quit 60 jobs at the age of 23 -- I promise I will be the best worker ever and stay here till retirement.

[–]quelques_heures 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Right?! It's like she's a hedonistic sex addict, but then she wants to ask someone else to be exclusive with her... Until she gets bored and loses interest.

[–]nsummy 19 points20 points  (2 children)

Terrible metaphor. A better one would be she had 60+ temp jobs. Don't get me wrong, over 60 guys by 23 is pretty extreme, but I don't fire every girl I sleep with, and every girl doesn't fire me. There are many situations where both parties don't want a long term relationship.

[–]AurelianWay 11 points12 points  (19 children)

Now now, you are using logic. Women aren't capable of such mental processes!

[–]BrunoOh 37 points38 points  (18 children)

Math and logic are patriarchal tools meant to oppress women.

[–]RedKnight1990 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Fascinating. The question she is asking is "How do I deal with this high body count" instead of "Why did I rack up this body count and what did I get out of it?"

Now calm down, scholars, I know you all have the answers. The focus here is the sophism of a woman. A lack of reflection of their actions and a focus on getting what they want out of a man. Be leery of the woman who uses "self expression" as a blank check that allows her to do whatever (and whoever) she wants with no consequences.

[–]NaughtyFred 32 points33 points  (11 children)

I was on another subreddit a few days ago reading about a 28 year old woman who had fucked 150 guys, that's a glimpse into the future of the woman OP is referring to.

Can't link to it due to Automoderator.

Edit: Been made aware of archive.is, so heres the post if you'd like to read it

[–]throwaway49274927 30 points31 points  (4 children)

I was on another subreddit a few days ago reading about a 28 year old woman who had fucked 150 guys

Holy shit.

It kills me that whenever discussions like these pop up on TwoX or other places on Reddit I get downvoted for saying that it's disgusting and I would never commit to a girl with a number like that.

It's amazing to see what bullshit they pull out of their ass. They're so PC they act like they can't say anything bad about the fact that girl is a slut. They'll say things like, "Just think how special you are that out of all those men she chose to commit to you!" Haha, lucky me! You can't make this shit up.

This is the only place that makes sense to me these days.

[–]GreatWhite_Buffalo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone was actually pretty blunt to this girl.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

doing the lords work ma'am... now heres your retirement gift... 7 cats

[–]Endorsed ContributorLastRevision 86 points87 points  (25 children)

A blue pill man will gladly buy the pair of damaged Nike's on discount, and when the excitement of a great deal fades, he's going to suffer all the typical "promiscuous girlfriend blue pill anxieties" that clutter all the blue pill relationship subreddits every day.

[–]Endorsed ContributorInvalidity 55 points56 points  (21 children)

For all the guys she could easily land, she would get bored of them almost instantaneously. I know girls that have slept with 100+ guys before the age of 25 who try to settle down with a provider, but realize they just can't.

They try ever so hard to maintain the appearance of being conservative and proper, but they can't. It's just not part of their nature. People who crave and thrive on excitement tend not to settle down ever.

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan 52 points53 points  (4 children)

Reminds me of the tale of "Big Thundercock Mountain."

She can't get excited for a lifelong ride on Dumbo once she's experienced the thrill of Big Thundercock Mountain.

Women fail to realize that we are products of our environments. It is our life experiences that form who we are as we age and progress in life. A football player doesn't strive towards perfection in his sport by practicing basketball free throws, a doctor doesn't strive towards perfection in medicine by chopping down trees, and nobody practices for a life of devotion, monogamy, and commitment by practicing years of promiscuity.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 23 points24 points  (2 children)

Indeed. And the environments which influence us also change based on our sex.

Men are shaped by the hardships they face because they do battle with nature for a living.

Women are shaped by the relationships they have because they socialize for a living.

In the absence of challenges, men bcome weak. In the absence of good social training, women become sluts. Without proper rearing, both sexes fail to live up to their potential SMV.

[–]Senior ContributorNightwingTRP 9 points10 points  (1 child)

In the absence of challenges, men bcome weak.

In the absence of the correct approach to challenges, men become weak. It's the two generations of female upbringing suggesting to take the easy way over the right way or merely submit and all that similar shit which has done this.

[–]nishal1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I come here for the wisdom and knowledge. I stay here for the hilarious analogies.

[–]jimmyharbrah 15 points16 points  (4 children)

Sucking in as much male attention as possible, and then hurting those guys becomes part of the excitement. Otherwise, they would just simply go around fucking without giving the appearances of "wanting to settle down." Cue BP wonderment about their hurt feelings.

[–]Endorsed ContributorInvalidity 20 points21 points  (3 children)

I believe there is a little more depth to it than that. These women truly do want to be taken care of, but they can never let go of their primal nature: to fuck the best man (or men) out there.

Women have a dual mating strategy, to find a provider and to find the top male. Unfortunately, their need to find a top male is often given more priority than being provided for.

[–]Endorsed Contributoralways-be-closing 20 points21 points  (2 children)

Wouldn't be an issue, but birth control bifurcated their mating strategy.

Instead of a thesis and anti-thesis resolving into the synthesis of finding a good man while he's young and encouraging his potential as his committed partner, the drive of finding top quality genes (hawwwwt) and top quality material support (stable provider) have been split into two seperate part of women's lives.

Instead of an optimization of a singular pursuit, there is an attempt to go in two different directions.

[–]JimRim 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This answer here is very close to the truth.

[–]Hydris 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Paternity tests really fucked them over. Until courts started saying the shit didn't matter in some cases (providing for the kid because you thought it was yours, best interests of the child, etc.) hell in France a man isn't even legally allowed to get one without the mothers permission. Then of course they also have the sperm jacking, which your on the hook for a child because she didn't swallow the load.

[–]Stythe 9 points10 points  (10 children)

My ex went to rehab for this. Well, it was for a drug problem technically, but drugs are a symptom of poor structure and decision making. She really wanted a family life, but her past decisions have affected not just her status as an partner-investment, but her integrity as a person with self-respect. Slutting it up in every way, drugs, using people, mental/emotionally destructive issues, jumping from guy to guy and cutting people who know her past... basically every red flag TRP could point out, she embodied. I'm glad I went through it and learned what I needed too, but sadly even she learns it, there's no talking it back, and she knows it. It will eat at her forever.

The thing that kills me the most? If she had been a proper girlfriend, I would have been willing to overlook it all at the time, but the lies and the need for validation and control issues threw that away. I suppose realistically she couldn't respect me since I was willing to overlook these things, and she certainly didn't respect herself.

[–]ZioFascist 2 points3 points  (7 children)

I feel like this is most women these days and why alot of men are going MGTOW. It's just not worth it. Bust your ass at a job to try and build a future for your family and you have to worry about dealing with a grown adult child.

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I have a saying that I tell my insurance clients when they are trying to cheap out with small doctors networks and high deductibles, in order to save on premium:

"The bitterness of poor quality remains long after the sweetness of low cost is forgotten." - Benjamin Franklin

Same concept applies with women. The more of your core principles and values you are willing to compromise or sacrifice just for the sake of vaginal access, the more miserable your life will be. Which brings me to another quote,

"People say life is short; no it isn't. Life is LONG. Especially if you make the wrong decisions." - Chris Rock

[–]FoxMcWeezer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I know, The Blue Pill subreddit is a satire of this subreddit. Proving that deep down everyone knows how unproductive and delusional that mindset is.

[–]Henemil 50 points50 points [recovered]

Yeah the stats break down like : 3% rejected me 13% I rejected them 3% I moved away 81% were one night stands/casual

You know she is a sloot when she has to divide them into percentages, hahahaha.

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (1 child)

That's something like 48 one night stands. Why would anyone in their right mind think she would commit after that?

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

as if any of those numbers aren't coming out of her ass... 46% of people know that

[–]EvrythingISayIsRight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Heh, since we're playing the numbers game we should also factor in that women lie about their number.

[–][deleted] 64 points64 points

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[–]RageLife 22 points23 points  (1 child)

Hey guys, I'm 24 and I've never really held a job consistently. Probably had about 60 part time jobs that didn't work out for whatever reason. But hey, I'm ready to commit and be a manager/CEO! Don't judge me on my past, it has nothing to do with my future behavior or performance.

[–]thefisherman1961 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should hire me because of who I am now, not because of who I was. It's in the past, just let it go!

[–]alveoli1 12 points13 points  (1 child)

You also have to consider the fact that females tend to underestimate their numbers, even when posting anonymously.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl's partner count: times it by 1.5 or 2

Guy's partner count: divide it by 1.5 or 2

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (23 children)

Could be worse.. At least she hasn't popped out kids.

There's a good debate.

60+ partners vs single mom??

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan 22 points23 points  (3 children)

Both are indicators of bad decision making and a wanton lack of responsibility. If her sex life is this much of a train wreck, then other parts of her life are likely train wrecks as well.

Girl in OP is over 60 partners over a 6 year period of time. That's damn near a new partner every month on average, and no, despite what the coddling, delusional denizens of reddit say, no, it is not "normal".

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Well, I guess that depends on how you define "normal". There was an anonymous poll not too long ago on Lulu on women's N-count, and there were a lot of women in their early twenties who reported over 200 partners. These women must just bang dudes left and right everywhere they go. So if by "normal" you mean "average", these days that may actually be normal.

Is it desirable though? Girl in OP answers that question herself by posting in the first place.

[–]BrunoOh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If we're looking at their track record for making mistakesTM the single mother is to be avoided more.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (11 children)

I think this is one of the very few situations where the single mom is a better option.

[–]throwaway1643 18 points19 points  (2 children)

For what? Marriage? Now let's not be too silly. The correct is answer is neither for a LTR, but the 60+ slut for casual sex.

A single mom always has complications and additional baggage because of the kids, it's never worth it.

[–]csehszlovakze 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For what? Marriage?

There's no such thing as good material for marriage!

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan 24 points25 points  (7 children)

Maybe it's just me, but not for anything, if my only two choices for an LTR are:

  • single mom
  • 60+ partner count over 6 years

I'm taking option C:

  • jerk off into a sock for the rest of my life.

No way in hell I'm wifing up either option.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (1 child)

I'd rather die single and alone than live in a miserable relationship. I've been single for almost 3 years now but have a had a few plates since then, girls who I have no desire to be in relationship with but will come over the second I give the word. Non currently though. My friends and family say I am to picky, maybe I am but I can't seem to find a partner I'm interested in when most of the women out there are comparable to this trash. Sure sometimes I get lonely when I am home alone and most of my friends are to busy to do something. But then I get off my ass and go do something and forget all about it. Going to the gym to lift heavy stuff usually helps.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Or fatties, you left out fatties. That takes out half the datable population right off the may before you ever start to get into the single mom vs whore debate

[–]ModAerobus 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Sex bots are coming soon. Option D for me.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Almost 10 guys a year, oh my. Six sweet novembers if you think about it :D

[–]Redasshole 1 point2 points  (1 child)

17 is pretty late actually.

[–]Assassin1476 40 points41 points  (2 children)

This chick could be as sexy as Megan Fox and amazing as Wonder Woman and that still wouldn't stop my stomach for hurting after hearing 60+/23.

[–]blue_27 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Megan Fox as Wonder Woman? ... Hell yeah. Sold.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (4 children)

I don't know how many times this needs to happen for women to get a clue.

You can go out and screw as many people as you want but actions have consequences. When you're done being a whore that nice guy probably wont want to work for and settle down with a girl who gave it up freely and often before.

Just like you have a choice, so does he! You can chose to sleep around with 100 guys, and he can chose not to date you.

[–]PM_Me_For_Drugs 12 points13 points  (2 children)

You can chose to sleep around with 100 guys, and he can chose not to date you.

She can also choose to talk 20 feet away and try another beta, who will probably fold onto one knee, and they live resentfully ever after.

[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger 41 points42 points  (3 children)

The best viable sexual strategy for a slut is lying.

Because as we all know, there's nothing wrong with having sex. The slut's done nothing wrong, right? I mean, she made lots of decisions, but it was her right to make them, she didn't hurt anybody, everybody consented, and since it was her right to make them and she didn't break any laws, it is absolutely wrong for society or men or anybody to have any kind of opinion or judgment about this or for her to suffer any sort of consequence, right?

But men are stupid and insecure misogynists who are going to slut-shame even when it's so clearly wrong, and no woman should have to go through that, and no man should be allowed to do that. So really, the only morally correct course of action would be for her to lie to future men that she dates. Because her past wasn't wrong, her past doesn't matter, and it's wrong for people to judge her about it, so really, lying helps make the world a more right place instead of a more wrong place. It would practically be a sin not to lie!

And it's not even really a lie since she's not the same person any more anyway. That's all in the past, and the more mature, more serious her isn't like that any more. So she's not really lying about who she is right now anyway. This is win-win-win.

[–]Kid_Crimson 10 points11 points  (1 child)

This! So much this! lol

...and in other news: War is Peace, Freedom is Slavery, Ignorance is Strength!

[–]KartagoPill 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow so that's how you 'womantalk'.

[–]Knerd5 15 points16 points  (0 children)

From "have used it as a form of coping" to "seeking therapy is crap" in two sentences. Hamster on overdrive

[–]Tarnsman4Life 13 points14 points  (1 child)

What others have pointed out, it is not in and of itself the 60 partner count, though that is pretty high. The real red flag are the personal issues that would lead a 23 year old woman to have taken that many cocks in such a short period of time. The OP basically describes herself as a sex addict, which is basically what the CC is, sex fueled self-serving narcissism. Even more alarming is that out of those 60 guys not one of them has found the level of mutual attraction and compatibility to settle down into a relationship with her. I would bet 95% if not all are pump and dumps. This tells me the only thing this woman has to bring to any relationship Is her body, which is ever decreasing in value with each new cock she takes.

The woman is unstable and one “stressful day” away from cheating. The good news is Betas are increasing into cuckholding so this woman will without a doubt find a beta when she hits the wall, maybe even one that lets her continue her sexual compulsions.

[–]ShitfacedBatman 13 points13 points [recovered]

You can't break the mold. Partner count of 60 by age 23? Pretty obvious being a slut is what she was genetically designed for. God gave her "slut-pussy." Either that or her parents robbed her by being really shitty parents.

[–]MadChestHairYuKnight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's the latter then I feel sorry for her.

I wouldn't even want to befriend such a woman.

[–]darkrood 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Nope, she did it because she liked it.

Nothing complex.

[–]Tenebris_Rubrum 12 points13 points  (1 child)

The top comment:

In my experience, girls with high numbers have something about their personality that makes them hard to date. They're insecure or have a temper, etc. So I don't feel the number is the problem, the problem is that your high number tells me at least 60 guys did not want to date you.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (1 child)

An N count of 60 by the early 20s probably seems like a staggering number for many of us (that was my first gut level reaction), because we relate to this as men. Just think of the level of effort and accomplishment it would take for a guy to rack up numbers like that during the same time frame.

An average guy would have to approach and game fuck tons of women in 5 – 7 years to accumulate an N count of 60 by his early 20s. Unless you’re a rock star who has a steady stream of groupies chasing after him, this would require almost exclusive focus on chasing pussy and a really high close rate.

Let’s apply this to a woman. An N count of 60 does seem exceptionally high, but let’s look at an example of a woman with an N count of 30 in her early 20s. I think most of us would agree that 30 dicks by her early 20s would be a huge red flag for a potential LTR.

Assuming 8 years of sexual activity, to reach thirty dicks a woman would have to average fewer than four new partners per year, about one new dick every 2 – 3 months. Assuming she’s approached by at least a couple of new men per day, she’d have to end up fucking about ½ of 1% of these guys to get to 30 notches in 8 years. In today’s hypergamous, sex-positive, swipe-right to fuck hookup culture, this probably more of the rule rather than the exception.

[–]luciansolaris 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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[Praise KEK!](63910)

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (3 children)

Now I have a lot of experience, a lot of sexual history (no diseases or pregnancies tho, woo hoo safe sex)

I always like when girls throw the safe sex thing it. It's so incredibly easy to convince a girl to go without a condom that there's no way someone with a 60+ count has used one more than 20 times.

[–]PM_Me_For_Drugs 7 points8 points  (2 children)

I've had multiple girls beg me not to wear a condom. They were very insistent. (Had one girl tell me she "couldn't get pregnant"... she's got a kid now. Not mine.)

Thought that was pretty hot when I was younger, but then I realized that they probably do this to every guy they fuck and then I needed like a thousand showers.

[–]What_The_Shoe 10 points11 points  (9 children)

60+? How? HOW? How the fuck do you hop from cock to cock that quickly?

[–]2popthatpill 30 points31 points  (2 children)

Eh. One a month will get you up to 60 in five years. It simply isn't that hard for women to accumulate massive counts.

[–]i2amahandmodel 16 points17 points  (3 children)

(lots of good insight ITT) 60+ is not that difficult for a woman. I dated a girl who's best friend admitted that they had a contest in college on who could bang the most guys. It was sooooo cliche it was unbelievable. (To find out it was just a matter of getting her friend alone and lying about her friend already telling you crazy sex stories.)

I found out it was multiple FWB during the week and taking a new guy home from a party or two every weekend. Thats 52+ or 104+ if you want to win a contest per year.

Then I found out after college she would hang out with male sluts at the club every weekend and when she didn't get lucky she would just go home with her friend. And when they tell you "it was just a crazy time of my life" or a " crazy phase". The key word is crazy. As in mental illness. Only the mentally ill are not accountable for their actions.

[–]2awalt_cupcake 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Thats 52+ or 104+ if you want to win a contest per year.

Dude I just want to be able to pull in women for my own sexual satisfaction. Even 20+ would probably be just good enough for me. Those numbers are not ok for women to have.

[–]i2amahandmodel 2 points3 points  (1 child)

She is classic narcissist/Lucifers daughter. Sexually active at 12. The loner in high school who dated older rich guys. Went on a fuck trip to Europe, while she had a bf. Compares stories with her dyke bff who also fucks guys on the side. Went to a liberal party college. Hung out with spoiled cokehead students. Threatened suicide many times in her life. Mental illness. Told me she only had been with 15 guys. Then changed it to 24. Then she doesn't remember the total. Only has guy friends because "women are drama" and fucks all of them, without the others knowing. Dates guys who work 60+ hrs because they give her a place to live and fucks others on the side. She fucked and took creep photos of a pretty boy to show all of her friends.

She has had and enjoyed lesbian experiences. She had bi bf's who she could dominate and peg. She has a fetish for Africans, Arab or Black. Not Afro-americans, just from Africa. Has a short boy haircut. Sleeps with her bosses. Fucks guys with wives and girlfriends and says its not her responsability. Blows up whole relationships if she is just suspicious her rich bf is flirting with others.

She had open relationships where she had a specific guy in mind and when her bf slept with a woman for the first time she dumped him. She stayed with a swinger couple who would host major parties at their house where only multi millionaires are invited from around the world. (Now this one she lied about having sex there. But then she finally admitted she had sex with the husband. Never got confirmation on the swinger party sex) She has never gone more than a month without sex in her adult life.

This took 9 months to find out. She was tall, beautiful, rich and had a PhD. Her family paid her bills. She'll be making 6 figures in 2 years. I think every TRPer should date her as a crash course in TRP theory. She was the ultimate manipulator.

I am dark triad, so she couldn't fool me. The trouble was we were both running game but she had to be the winner. I just wanted us to both admit it and make it honest. I won, but she turned it around with a scorched earth policy. She got away with her reputation intact because she did damage control with her social circle.

Proof that there is no karma in the world outside of the internet. She found herself a beta chump from India who is a well paid doctor. Who also happens to live an hour away from her. Real nice guy. Maybe someday. She already had gray hair at 30, doesn't want kids and her mother is really ugly. She is 60 but looks like she's 80.

[–]Redasshole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You go out 5 nights a week and suck 2 to 4 cocks a night. Then you fuck one (or two) o those cocks each night.

Real life example of multiple girls I know from real life.

EDIT: I didn't include the lesbian play

[–]DaphneDK 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Besides it's just extremely unattractive. Such a high number is bound to make a person jaded and cynical. There's nothing, sexual wise, she hasn't tried before - or more likely tried fifty times before with ten other dudes. Nothing is new and exiting.

[–]TankVet 13 points14 points  (2 children)

The top comment was solid. It's not that a man would have a problem with you having 60 partners, it's that they would be worried about what kind of life and behavior led her to 60 partners.

[–]nsummy 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Yah the top comment really tells it how it is. Its highly unlikely that her life and personality are firing on all cylinders and that her only problem is a number.

[–]trplurker 22 points22 points [recovered]

On a completely side note, there is a path a "prior slut" can take to "win" so to speak. Not likely to happen, but one does exist. She's gotta take a hard look at herself and realize that her life choices have had a very bad effect on her value, while she's still very young and has plenty to offer, she's going to have to make it up in other area's.

Firstly, she's gotta be extremely selective, and I don't mean "make him wait X weeks / months" type selective, shes gonna have to purposely choose a guy she knows isn't super sexy / hot. She is going to have to "date down" because her worth is no longer what it was pre-slut (so it's really more like date-realistic). Then she's going to have to be honest about her past, upfront. And then do all that crazy shit with the new guy, bringing him extra girls and basically giving him unconditional access to her sex.

That's the bare minimum, which most girls will outright refuse to do and thus they will lose in the long term.

[–]watch_ping 37 points38 points  (3 children)

She is going to have to "date down"

Yeah it's highly unlikely that will happen.

[–]648262 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And if she did, the alpha-widow aspect would corrupt anything good in such a relationship.

[–]Endorsed Contributorbalalasaurus 6 points7 points  (3 children)

Or she can actually become a professional slut and make some money off of it.

[–]BrunoOh 10 points11 points  (7 children)

And then she'll find she married a guy she isn't attracted to.

You can't negotiate your own desire either.

[–]Ich-bin-ein-Berliner 4 points4 points [recovered]

he is going to have to "date down" because her worth is no longer what it was pre-slut (so it's really more like date-realistic). Then she's going to have to be honest about her past, upfront.

Maybe or she could just uproot her entire life. If she removed all her social media accounts, distanced her entire network, and moved to a new city -- she could pretend to be a "good" girl.

[–]mrTang5544 5 points6 points  (1 child)

watched the the entire clip of that insecure guy. Cannot believe these people exists! Dude was literally arguing FOR having his girl fuck other dudes. Wow.

[–]mrheh 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Black Philip is in almost every single female post in that thread. I keep seeing comments like this "Of course I do like new people, but not as much as sex with someone I care about" Women's argument that they enjoy sex with strange as much as men is shown to be bullshit yet again. Men enjoy new and fresh much more than fucking someone they care about/ "making love"

[–]TheBronzeYi 3 points3 points [recovered]

I'm calling fake or fucking psycho or both.

I've read 80% of her comments. She is basically Reddit's dream girl with one major flaw... And she is trying too hard to please every single person in that thread. Finally, her story has several inconsistencies but I guess they could be explained away. I kinda wanna see if she changes parts of it later on or deletes something just because I have nothing better to do.

Could I date someone with 60 previous partners: No.

[–]MadChestHairYuKnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good portion of women are psychopaths. Probably that.

[–]MadChestHairYuKnight 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I'm willing to bet many 23 year old prostitutes haven't even had 60 partners.

[–]darkrood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uhm...sorry to break it to you.

5 guys minimum a day if you are popular

working 3-4 days a week.

stay for 3 months in business.

You do the math.

p.s. Cleaner? definitely, Met many pros care way more about their bodies and hygiene than some normal broads.

[–]1mr_nate_ 5 points6 points  (10 children)

I read "60+ partners by age 23" and fell out of my chair.

Someone put this girl in the Guinness Book of World Records.

[–]bullseyed723 4 points5 points  (7 children)

60 in 6 years is 10 a year or 1 a month.

I wouldn't do it, but it doesn't seem that high in that context.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (1 child)

Caveat: we're not comparing these women to themselves, but every other woman.

Comment: I kind of always do that math in my head when reading these. It's not outrageous at all to have that high of a partner count. Guy mentioned above the woman who had fucked 150 guys by 28.

28-18=10 years. Go out 3x/week: 3 x 52 x 10 = 1,560 opportunities to hook up. 150/1560 = 9.6% of the time she hooks up with a guy. Less than 1-in-10.

Listen to this bit by Norm Macdonald on how, mathematically, Tiger Woods is one of the most faithful men around.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This should be a new field of mathematics.

[–]iLLprincipLeS 9 points9 points [recovered]

can you picture 60 cocks of different sizes entering in the same mouth, and you, the cuck of the cucks, kissing that mouth with love, in public, while holding hands? FOR FUCK SAKE, that mouth may kiss your child one day. terrible.

Shit like this reinforces the notion that some girls are just for renting.

  • /u/ColdEiric

[–]bullseyed723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Just saying I'm sure many out there have beaten her score. Back in my college-clubbing days, I knew girls getting 3 a week.

[–]nsummy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LOL yah, hardly world record material.

[–]1mr_nate_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right actually. I wonder how long this new"LTR" will last.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's not even that for me.

I have never had numbers like that, I wouldn't imagine the sacrafices I'd have to make in career, money, and improvement I would have to give up to make it

[–]hannibalbarcad 5 points6 points  (1 child)

An obvious trend that is commonly observed from past to post modern:

  • In ancient times, an attractive woman's virginity is worth gold; the ability to pair-bond and motherhood are valued.
  • In post modern times, it is all about being the biggest slut because: "You go GIRL!!!" and "We must not oppress the poor wimimz sexuality."

It is an interesting direction civilization is moving towards. I am curios of how much "Progressiveness" we will be getting in the next ~10 years. Will the fall of decadent Rome repeat itself?

[–]Cyberdellic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the interesting thing is my fav philosopher says monogamy is (im paraphrasing less eloquently/articulately) garbage

so i guess we still want high SMV girls but we dont honestly promote monogamy, i guess we want the girl to be monogamous haha

[–]EsquireKing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That would be like a guy getting engaged 60+ times and his fiance backing out. It definitely raises some questions.

[–]prism1020 1 point2 points  (1 child)

So what is a suitable "number"?

[–]BallisticTherapy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do some Arithmedick.

Take the total length of all the cocks that have run through her and push her off a platform at that height. If she were to be injured from the fall - too many cocks.

[–]MeltzerDriver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She could be a great side chick, maybe even a main chick (who eventually has to accept that I'll have side chicks) -- but lol @ ever being monogamous with or marrying her.

[–]n0oo7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"For those here saying theirs nothing wrong with her body count, and you'd still fuck her. Your not getting it. Its totally fine to hookup with this chick or even make her a plate, but you'd have to be a huge beta chump to commit to her ands thats what she was asking for in her post."

I don't think you get it. I mean you are 100% right, but are we REALLY supposed to tell that shit to her TO HER FACE? I mean shes asking for advice, what benefit would any human male (redpiller or not) have to tell her that she could never date an alpha. It feels like going to a child cancer center to play with the dying kids and when they ask you "can I be a basketballplayer when I grow up?" you straight up tell them that "no because you are going to die in two weeks." wouldn't that just convince her to lie about her sexual history from now on?

[–]nuesuh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter if you've been fired or quit. 60 jobs by the age of 23 is just... I don't even know what to say.

It tells you something about the person. She even admited that her shrink told her to "get help".

[–]Luckyluke23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For those here saying theirs nothing wrong with her body count, and you'd still fuck her. Your not getting it. Its totally fine to hookup with this chick or even make her a plate, but you'd have to be a huge beta chump to commit to her ands thats what she was asking for in her post.

this is the main reason why I'm dislike ( I love this sub really) this sub more and more lately. Once you see this once. you don't really need to be seen 10000000000 times.

women have feels men have logic.

if you don't understand and accept ALL the facts that come with it. Then redpil is gunna be a bad time for you.

[–]dissentforall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Man, what a response! That actually makes me go a little deeper as well. I've had a huge realization recently that I am pretty insensitive to men's feelings. I have a hard time....and this is going to sound evil....thinking of men as people. Objectification is probably a natural consequence of my past lifestyle. Anyway your opening up is really refreshing and eye-opening. And it makes me think, if I do have a partner, and I do choose to be at least a little honest about my past, I will have to try and make him understand and know why he is special to me. Something tells me it's not going to be easy though...Hey, seriously though thank you for that response."

Above and beyond all the negative statistics and personal experience most guys have with that kind of woman. That statement there is downright comical. Who the fuck openly admits to a type of sociopathy in such a casual manner and then gets offended by answers that condemn her. That's pro level cognitive dissonance

[–]ben0wn4g3 126 points127 points  (1 child)

I liked this:

"Think about what having that many casual sexual partners implies about you: you like having sex. Not only do you like having sex, but you like having sex with a variety of people. Otherwise, why wouldn't you have sex a lot with only a couple people? Ok, so you like having sex with a variety of people, but you want to enter into a presumably monogamous relationship in which you can only have sex with one person. What caused the sudden change? It's not uncommon to hear about a woman who realizes her sexual appeal is fading so she starts to look for a stable relationship while she still has some left. Here's an analogy: Imagine you're a world traveler. You've gone on over sixty trips in the last couple years to different places across the world; some good, some bad. Now, after all your traveling, you're low on resources and you want to settle down in some suburb in Indiana. Did you choose Indiana because it's your favorite place in the world? Possible, but unlikely. You probably chose it because you like it better than Ohio or Illinois or whatever, but there's so many more beautiful places in the world that you would probably live if you could, but often they're just not hospitable to long stays, or you are unable to obtain a visa to live there. It's hard to believe that while living in Indiana, at no point would you wish you were somewhere else you saw during your many travels, and if you had the resources, you'd go back. How do you think it would feel to be Indiana?"

[–]icecow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know that she's a bad person. And kudos to her for not getting any diseases or pregnancies with that count.

With that said a woman with a count like that doesn't appeal to me whatsoever. She lives her life how she wants to, I live mine like I want to.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (4 children)

Ever since I swallowed the redpill and started fucking sluts I cared less and less about their body count. Not sure if I'm the only one here, I actually wanted to make a thread about it.

I've had my fair share of hookups since I have been single and I came to realise that some girls have had 10 partners by age 18, some have had 3. Some girls have had 60 (like this girl). Honestly, if you have fun together and are confident in your performance and who you are, should you care?

Of course some sluts ride the cc and cheat on you, but if you have a partner count that is just as high, it's even more impressive, since everyone here knows that getting laid as a guy is way more difficult than getting laid as a girl.

60 is a bit over the top, but I see some guys write a girl off after she has had over 5 sexual partners, if you have had sex with over 5 girls yourself you know that it doesn't necessarily mean a lot.

Just looking for replies and insight here, when I was BP I always wrote girls off if they had over 3 sexual partners at age 18, now I don't give a shit as long as they're fun to be around.

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Marry one of these and in 10 years tell us about it.

[–]yaardi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because it's easy for the average woman to sleep with lots of men. It's not at all that easy for the average guy to do that.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Casual hookups with these type of hoes is fine. But you'd have to be a next level beta chump to commit to these type of girls.

There only good for pumping and dumping.

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