Link to first post: https://archive.is/FggTi
Link to update post: https://archive.is/5ckm0
TL;DR Man finds out from some guy at a gym that his gf gives happy ending massages.
From the first post:
Of course I had a long conversation about this with Laura. I wish she had told me herself. I actually totally get why she does it, 3 massages a week allows her to pay bills and not stress over money. She goes to their houses and it's arranged through some agency. She didn't want to talk about it initially, but she finally told me. She swears she doesn't have p-in-v/a sex, she doesn't use her mouth, only her hands. She wears gloves when she does it too.
So she lied to him about what she did but he's okay with it because she uses gloves when she does it. This guy really believes that men having a wide choice of prostitutes would pick one who only gives hand jobs with gloves.
She was really upset and it killed me to see her like that. I was pretty harsh when I confronted her. She told me that's why she's so hesitant to get into relationships,
But he can't leave her because:
She treats me like a king. She's rational and not like any other girl I've ever dated. She's fucking gorgeous. She's so understanding and kind.
The update: https://archive.is/5ckm0
She told me she loves me. I 100% believe that and feel the same.We've made some really big decisions about our lives and future together. Primarily, that we WANT a future together. We've devised a plan to get where we want to be and I am stupid happy at the prospect.
In response to most of the comments I got on the last post:
IDGAF that she jacked off a bunch of dudes for money. I work in advertising, I've done way worse. I was surprised and upset because she wasn't honest. I'm over it.
To those spewing hate - lulz, I'll be over here bein' happy and shit.
This guy really thinks he won some prize.
some asshat linked my post to that redpill nonsense sub. They called me a beta (whatever the fuck that's supposed to be) and her a whore. I think a good way to live in do the opposite of what those idiots think.
Yes I'm sure those redpillers are just so jealous that you've nabbed some woman who's gives hand jobs on the side.
But you know what surprised me the most? The feedback he got. Got upvoted and he got gold for being such an 'amazing and understanding guy'. Apparently if a woman lies to her bf about having sex for money, he should just deal with it.
The top comments:
IDGAF that she jacked off a bunch of dudes for money. I work in advertising, I've done way worse.
I just wanted to say that I love this.
As long you're both honest, and are OK with what happened and can get passed it, great.
I wish you the best of luck, and hopefully a happy future with her.
Will she quit her massage job now?
(OP says his gf has quit and is now working at a 'legitimate' massage clinic. He's such an idiot).
As always, communication is key. Glad it worked out for you, OP.
I love this happy ending!
I'm willing to believe there is a direct relationship between people that call other people betas and the number of betas in that sub. I wouldn't really give a fuck what a nerd virgin congregating on a sub of closed minded nerd virgins say, neither should you. Props to you for being able to accept your GF, while those guys beat off to Internet porn for life.
She probably gives a mean handjob with all the practise, so at least you've got that going for you.