Field ReportYou are the Deal or No Deal Banker (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by 1constructiveasshole

TL;dr I made the girl play Deal or No Deal with my texts, got laid.

As an experiment, I tried being more direct and less polite via text with a plate I picked up on Tinder. She's pretty, a good 7/10. She texted me a week after our first date-

"Hey hows it going"

"Busy. You around Friday" (Deal?)

"Maybe." (No deal).

I didn't text her back after that. She doesn't get a response to "maybe". If I don't get a guarantee that I'm going to fuck her, I move on to my next option.

Lo and behold, Thursday she texts me.


"Hey. I have plans for tomorrow, let's do Saturday instead." (Deal? A lesser offer, not the one she wanted, since she waited the first time)

"Idk I might have plans I'll let you know." (No Deal)

At this point I knew this girl was a flake and made dates with two others on Tinder- abundance mentality. I completely forgot about her.

She texts me again Saturday morning "Hey I'm good for tonight." (Let's call the banker)

No sweetheart, you don't dictate when I get laid. I dictate when you get the honor of my dick. I replied

"Busy tonight. Maybe next weekend." (Terrible lowball banker offer)

And went on my other date. That date was going okay, the new girl was kind of awkward, when I got a text from plate #1. It contained a nude photo. (Call the banker again, desperate you're going to lose the prize)

"LOL I'm out right now. You trying to tell me something?" (Mediocre offer, but lets her feel like she's making the offer instead of me)

"Come over." (DEAL!)

I politely excused myself from awkward Tinder date, drove to the girl's house, and fucked her. She cashed out while she still had the opportunity, though by waiting too long she lost the benefit of the drink I might have bought her or social status of being seen all dressed up.

Lessons Learned: Treat girls via text like every time they say no, they lose an opportunity. Reward good early behavior, punish bad behavior. The sooner they panic, Deal or No Deal style, the sooner they cash out.

[–]pcadrian 225 points225 points [recovered]

I like this. Great tool to get out of that attached mindset. Just put the phone down if she's wishy-washy. She's the one missing out on the fun, not you. We need to stop rewarding these flaky bitches and stop pursuing them. I have done that kind of nonsense waaay too much in the past. Let them pursue us.

[–]1REDPILLRECKONING 44 points45 points  (2 children)

Amen, never ever ever put up with a flake. At the first sign of flakiness I treat the girl like shes fucking radioactive from then on.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bro that's not gonna keep you away. Keep away from her like she's been shitting her pants all day. Now THAT will make you want to stay away.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 14 points15 points  (2 children)

I never pursue anymore. Around here they crave the attention above all else, I'm not giving it to them free. 25-30 years ago I pursued because there weren't many girls in my area, but it wasn't asking her all the time, I simply left things open to her and waited for her to come to me. I don't get a straight yes, or lets go, bitch is done forever.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

the saying, I believe it;s

anything other than an enthusiastic yes is a no

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the most part, one I'm fucking them I don't care about maybe, because eventually she will come by and fuck. Of the start, anything other than yes it's ghost.

[–]Endorsed Contributorbogeyd6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TBF, she has pent her whole life being told her vagina is the prize.

[–]moose_war 94 points95 points  (3 children)

Women who are interested in you always just default to unsolicited nude pictures when you ignore them. It's kind of hilarious since guys get shit for unsolicited dick pics.

[–]antariusz 20 points21 points  (2 children)

male solipsism.

"we" would love getting unsolicited nude pictures, but it takes a socially clueless man to think that women would respond in kind.

[–]moose_war 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know man, nude pictures do nothing for me. I have gotten unsolicited nude pics from women I barely know and just kind of shrugged at them.

[–]evileddy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the dick's owner...

Brad Pitt sends a random fan a dick pic? = SEXY AS FUCK

Some random guy that the woman doesn't know his value sends a dick pic? = OMG CREEPER

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (6 children)

OK here's my interpretation of what happened.

Said deal making plate is a cock carousel riding sloot.

Fielding offers from many dudes on Tinder/Social media on a constant basis.

Saw your attempt was intrigued.

Saw other dude's attempt was more intrigued.

Decided to keep your burner lit while she fished other dude.

Other dude flakes by Thursday. You are now her best option.

You seem agreeable, but not desperate. Maintaining frame. She's wants to meet on Thursday and potentially get the D (that's why she texted you on Thursday). Then instead of making the hook up happen that day, you blow her off until Saturday. She's not happy about that so she gives you a non-committal answer trying to do the same push-pull game you are doing.

You're getting severely uninterested in this situation. The original chase game response of "maybe" from the very beginning turned you off to the girl. Already you know games are being played one way or another and that doesn't excite you. That's why you didn't sink the bismark on Thursday. That's why in your mind, at this point, this girl is headed for NEXT-ville.

I'm thinking she stayed in on Friday night, otherwise wouldn't be calling you Sat AM. By then she figured out there really aren't any better options available, has thought about it for a few days now and is going to go for it. She texts and commits to meeting up.

You nope out and blow her off. This is a bombshell to her. "NEXT" weekend honey, which in dating years is an eternity - might as well be never. If she wants you the only way she's getting you is with a hail mary play. Nude pic and "come fuck me stud" is pretty much a guarantee to get your attention and your company.

You ended up knocking the bottom out of it - and I'm guessing she was an enthusiastic little minx which is always very nice.

I only have one critique with your game...

When a chick texts you unsolicited in the push-pull flirtation phase, that's her taking the initiative & her saying "yeah I like you" - the green light is given.

A bitch don't text a man unless she wants the D. As soon as you see the coy little "sup" on your phone light up you know its on. The fish has taken the hook and all you have to do is reel that shit it in. Now I'm not saying go right immediately to "Hey lets meet rn" - that's a bad play - too eager. What you do is you playfully and cryptically let her know that you know and then quickly move the convo to having her express why is she texted you in the first place - which is to get some of your time ("So you texted me right?"). You do so in whatever style of speech that works for you. As soon as that comes out then the banker negotiates whatever equates to ASAP.

Maybe it's just me, but why fuck around for 3 days with a fish on the line? As soon as you recognize the hook is set - pull that shit. Efficiency man.

[–]antariusz 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Push-Pull can be fun, but it's still failing a shit-test. I prefer to ignore the shit test and get to the point, no bullshit negotiation.

"When are you free to meet, what is your schedule like"

Being that direct doesn't always work, but for the girls that are DTF, it works well, and cuts out some of the flaking.

If I've matched her on Tinder and she actually says "hi" then there is at least "some" interest.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (4 children)

Oh yeah whenever there is push pull there's always risk of just being a fickle female's entertainment, but as you said if there is a response then there is interest.

The point I'm trying to make is you have to be able to read the context of the situation you are in. That's half the battle in these situations.

If a girl texts you after a solid day+ of no-contact - that means she's down to meet and if she's down to meet then she's likely also DTF.

You will get way more ass when you can identify what a green light looks like. They won't always send you a nood and a "come fuck me" invitation. That's like some cave-woman shit - "Me want fuck - you come give dick". Not that getting those kinds of texts aren't hella fun, but sometimes busting out the shy one who has the hidden max 10 libido is super cool too. Maybe a little more work involved, but a nice prize upon completion.

The hamster still wants to get fucked good and hard and totally wants to get her rocks off, but doesn't want to seem slutty and the subtle clues they leave like a trail of bread crumbs sometimes is the shit test itself - and shit tests often mean opportunity. If you are both smart and bold enough to decipher and react when the hamster is getting moist and wants you to make it happen - you will get more pussy bottom line.

You know how these women can be... They throw up what they think are obvious come fuck me signals and it just goes right over dude's head. He doesn't know she basically just said "if you want it come and get it. Then they get all neurotic complex about it and the window closes real quick. Shit test failed. It happens all the fucking time to almost every dude women think are fuckable.

Sometimes dudes know when the green light is given and then basically communicate Yeah, I know you just green lighted me, but I haven't decided if and when I'm gonna hit it. So maybe. Ever see a pretty little hate machine get that challenge accepted motherfucker wicked smirk and look in her eye? That shit is great. It's fun being the one that's chased.

Yeah these games are fun to play, but only if you have an abundance mindset and DGAF. If you are a oneitis stricken motherfucker trying to lock down a selfish little fickle brat you're crushing on - then it's a roller coaster ride of emotions. That shit is no fun at all.

[–]boredepression 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Awesome post. I always read game but never thought about internalizing it as an actual game and just enjoying the game and watching their reactions. Self amusement. Seems so basic now that I read this.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

If the shit ain't remedial basic by the time you turn 40 - you got problems.

As you get on a little in age you figure out that there is no grand mystery. You just have to drop the fantasy vision you have about women being wonderful creatures. Usually somewhere between 25 and 35 in just about every man's life (who has half a brain and his shit together) it really sinks in that women aren't noble, mystical and ethereal. That's just your dick telling you no no it's all good think happy thoughts.

You figure out that most of them are manipulative little selfish brats. You can't assume they operate on good faith, have your back or any of the glorious shit you tell yourself to make you like them so much. Just like you they're just squirrels trying to get nuts - except their nuts are generally more materialistic in nature.

Snoop & Dre knew WTF was up back in the day:

You never know she could be earnin' her man, And learnin' her man, and at the same time burnin' her man

The best advice any young man could be given would be to construct your life in a way that you are beholden to nobody. Always maintain that independence. Then you will always be free to make the best possible choices free from manipulative conscription. Then game takes on a different context and you can always take it or leave it.

Edited to give Snoop his mandatory due

[–]Nogoodsense 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Good post, but that was Snoop's line

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Snoop started the line, but they both finished it. It's been a while since I cranked that song up. Great fucking song.

Listen to Snoop and Dre drop the truth

[–]chicanomang 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I vibed with this. Thanks for sharing

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

treat em like THEY lost the opportunity and they wonder why you didnt care about her rejection. They sense a man with options, likely he is high value in her mind and now she is likely to be more receptive the next time

[–]eternal_temptation 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Plate is a plate is a plate.

You never reward Bad behavior in animals or women.

Talking to her/listening to her is a minor reward for saying "no" to the deal... Doesn't work that way...

Good Job with her and creating good metaphor.

[–]RedPharaohRising 9 points10 points  (2 children)

Can't wait till this is ingrained in my psyche and becomes my default mode of communication.

[–]1constructiveasshole[S] 25 points26 points  (1 child)

We have what's called unreliable sensory awareness. I might do a whole post on just that. The way to cure it is to get back in touch with reality. The way to do THAT is to retrain yourself, text by text. Read a couple redpill posts before every single text message. It's time consuming, but it will help retrain your brain.

When talking to girls, we talk half with our dicks. Those of us who were raised to be nice to women might have asked my plate when she's free. They would have gotten an "idk i'll let u know" and then never heard from her again. Retrain your brain.

[–]testonator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would appreciate a post about this, I've been thinking about it the last couple of weeks but can't say that I've gotten anywhere with it.

I've been letting a large part of my default mode into more TRP territory but this is one of the parts that I keep failing at.

[–]drallcom3 11 points11 points [recovered]

Life is better in general if you treat a maybe as a no.

[–]Kalidane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because it functionally is. They commit to a time and place, or they do not.

What a girl means when she says maybe is very different to what most guys hear. I think it roughly translates to "No, but I'm aware that you are available".

As OP demonstrated, the only thing to do with a maybe is immediately line up something else. You mustn't be sitting around for days hoping she'll hit you up.

[–]danO1O1O1 4 points5 points  (8 children)

How attractive are you that you get dates on Tinder? I can't get a reply back in Denver Colorado, one of the fastest growing cities in US with legal weed at every corner and every body partying with 70 degrees weather in November. I'm 5/10 successful career, confident, lift 900lbs+ total maxes (230squat+320deadlift+225bench+135press)

Good strategy though. Don't play their game. A man's game is logical, calculated, not negotiated.

Tinder just ain't my game. I never believe any average looking guy that gets multiple dates a week! Not even a month.

[–]1constructiveasshole[S] 12 points13 points  (7 children)

I'd give my face a 5/10 and my body an 8/10. It's your pictures. Go drop $100 on professional dating photos. Don't look into the camera, gaze into the distance like you're rich and got asked to do a photoshoot. If you have a body worth showing off, take a couple shirtless. Increase in Tinder matches by at least 30% and you can use those pics for like 10 years.

[–]danO1O1O1 5 points6 points  (6 children)

Yeah you're right. Time to diet for some six packs. Get my DSLR out and shoot some drama for these cleavage hoes and selfie queens

[–]1constructiveasshole[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

DSLR is a good option just don't take mirror selfies. Put a timer/tripod together and play with the angles or better have a buddy take them for you. In my photo retouching post I added some advice for photos, go look at that if you're curious.

[–]1Sir_Distic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also take some pics of you with other, attractive, women having fun. Social proof. Women eat that up.

[–]exotictantra 1 point2 points  (1 child)

[–]danO1O1O1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoaaaa. Blew my mind. I knew they were doing something with their heads, but it felt weird so it didn't feel right.

feels weird, looks good

[–]verify_account -3 points-2 points  (1 child)

Nobody likes an ottermode manlet but if you're big enough it's time for that cut!

In terms of girls:

Actuall big with with low bodyfat > Small low body fat ottermode manlet > Actuall big guy with higher body fat

[–]danO1O1O1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd agree, she wants to show you off, not show what can lift, to her friends.

[–]MisterMisogyny 71 points72 points  (21 children)

I dont know dude. She still kept you as an option.

You got to cut through the BS by getting a nude from her, but the thrust of your post is weakened by the fact that she was playing you as much as you were playing her.

every time they say no, they lose an opportunity.

She didnt lose any opportunity. She didnt commit to Friday. She didnt commit to Saturday. When her other options fell through, she tried to cash in her option on you, and you came running. All that it took to manipulate you was a nude pic.

Yes, you got what you wanted in the end, and you didn't waste your time because you kept your options open. But so did she... so... win/win.

[–]1constructiveasshole[S] 203 points204 points  (7 children)

She did lose an opportunity- to go out. To be seen all dressed up. To be bought a free drink. To look social and available for other men. I initially asked her OUT. Instead, I went straight to her house, where she answered the door in her lingerie. She missed out on the stuff girls usually get in exchange for pussy. The only thing she managed to salvage from the game was the validation that somebody wanted her.

That's what plates are for- free booty calls. I got laid and didn't have to do shit. She got downgraded.

[–][deleted] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Dont listen to him. You invested minimal resources (time, money) for sex. This is what TRP is about: Successful implementation of a mans sexual strategy.

Well done

[–]1rife_omeqa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The FR without this insight is lacking because your mindset and understanding of the situation in this reply adds an important dimension to the FR.

OP to this comment isn't wrong though. It's easy to miss important aspects of the game by looking at a simple sequence of events and nothing else.

This is exactly the kind of discourse new users need to see and veterans sometimes need reminding of. Nice job.

[–]TRPMaidenSlayer 5 points6 points  (2 children)

I got laid and didn't have to do shit.

This is where the strategy worked. Clearly OP isn't going to pair-bond with these flakes (or we should hope not). But talk about some serious ROI. Compare it to what BP's get (the exact opposite).

This is a great strategy for dealing with low-end flakes, not for quality, interesting women. Just properly compartmentalize em

[–]John_E_Vegas 1 point2 points  (1 child)

This is a great strategy for dealing with low-end flakes, not for quality, interesting women.

I'm certain that it would work with quality women too. The entire premise is based on demonstrating that the "interesting woman" isn't as interesting as she thinks she is.

That's like catnip to any woman.

[–]TRPMaidenSlayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, but I don't expect such a fantastic ROI on an all-around top-shelf woman unless your game/lifestyle is really up there as well.

But yeah, I almost want to downvote myself for making it sound pedestal-ish

[–]pcadrian 46 points46 points [recovered]

she was playing you as much as you were playing her

Girls are ALWAYS playing you. Rarely will you come across one who doesn't. And to be honest, they are better at playing the game than many of us here. Think about it - they get bombarded every day by thirsty dudes. The only way to win that kind of game is not to play, which is what OP is basically suggesting. Complete disengagement, let her walk into your frame instead.

[–]1constructiveasshole[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They respond better that way. Some of them will vanish- if you've been lifting, you won't give a fuck because you have option. Many will not vanish and will get desperate when we don't fawn over them like betas do.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly, women are not on your team and for your strategy to succeed then her strategy must fail. Dont hate them for trying to optimize their life the only way they know how. Hate the fact that your expectations were not aligned with reality

[–]RealRational 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Both people got sex. Sex holds entirely different levels of value for each gender. If a man and woman both get sex the man got more.

OP is right, she lost everything of value, "going out". She gave her only value in exchange for no value. Consolation prize, private validation. FAR less valuable than public validation, thus, merely a consolation.

[–]1-drukpa-kunley- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. NOT win/win.

People are missing the core point here. Yes, both people got sex. But that's not what this was about. This was a battle for frame.

The girl may have been testing the guy to see what kind of a man he was. Or she may have been a flake. Ultimately OP demonstrated, by his actions, that he A) is not a thirsty beta, and B) that he only wants to engage her on HIS terms, not hers.

In the end, she entered in to HIS frame. She got his attention through sex. And by being difficult, she lost out the other things that are important to a woman. Social proof, a man's attention outside of the bedroom, resources (free drinks), etc.

[–]verify_account 1 point2 points  (1 child)

She didnt lose any opportunity. She didnt commit to Friday.

But she did. Did you not read the post? She lost a chance to go out with OP? Remember who the prize is here.

[–]exotictantra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is quite likely a beta took her out on Friday and paid for the lot..

[–]Mastros34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also wasn't that interested in him at the beginning, she never offered another day.

[–]John_E_Vegas -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't agree that it's win/win. He won, she "lost," because she gave up her most valuable prize and is going to get nothing in exchange for it except plated for a few more weeks, maybe months.

But even if you were right (you're not), I see nothing wrong with a win/win situation. Saying the guy got played because the outcome was "win/win" (your words) is just hardheaded. Where in RedPill does it say we are playing to make women "lose?"

Without a doubt, many "modern women" and "feminist" types are GOING to lose to RP strategy if they continue to cling to their own flawed sexual strategies.

While winning in the sexual marketplace is one of the primary goals of RP strategy, I've never read anywhere that a secondary or tertiary goal is to see to it that women must lose. We aren't neanderthals here, FFS.

[–]andlime 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good way of thinking. A lot of the time it seems like letting the conversation fizzle will end things, but in reality the conversation wasn't getting you anywhere anyways

[–]1RXRob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fantastic way of looking of things. I picked up plate number 3 at the weekend so she'll be perfect to experiment on.

[–]RedVillain 1 point2 points  (4 children)

I don't know it just seems like girls who are at least average looking don't have a shortage of other dicks they can hit up if I play a game like this. Almost like they beat me to the abundance mentality play. Especially with the whole changing the times and being flaky thing. It blows up in my face it's actually funny as hell.

[–]nubfilter 3 points4 points  (2 children)

This seems to me as though you may not be the top prize in their mind, you may be first, a close second or tied for "well I've got nothing better to do".

I know this is obvious, but if you are the prize on the tallest pillar a plate flaking will be very scarce.

[–]RedVillain 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Probably right. Still aiming for that top tier.

[–]John_E_Vegas -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And by punishing her / using abundance mentality, she will put you in that top tier. That's exactly what happened here. The girl was flaking, she had other options, but in the end, she decided OP was the top choice.

[–]John_E_Vegas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait wait wait. Don't you guys see it? Of course nearly ALL girls have options.

The point of this is to demonstrate, via text, that YOU are a man with options. THAT is like catnip to women. That communicates to her that you are desirable. That elevates you above her other options who are fawning over her and whom she can call up at any time to do her bidding.

By employing this strategy, you are demonstrating higher value than not only her, but higher value than all the other clowns who call her non-stop.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (10 children)

I'm confused, you said she doesn't get to dictate when you get laid but when she says come over you drop your evening. Seems like she very much dictated when you get laid. I'd actually argue she was in control of this. When all of her better options fell through you were there for the sure thing.

[–]1constructiveasshole[S] 23 points24 points  (6 children)

I dropped my evening because my date was going meh and she's hotter than the date.

And no, she only got my attention with the nude pic. I would have ignored it if it said anything else that hadn't promised I'd get laid. She gets my attention with sex. I want her for sex. Anything else is not worth my time, she's just a plate.

As soon as I was done fucking her, she tried to get me to stay the night and cuddle, but I said I had to go and went out with friends afterwards.

[–]John_E_Vegas 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I think this is the hardest part for me. Walking away from her after she just gave up her most valuable possession.

Tell me, how'd that go down? Was she an emotional train wreck? I'm guessing she was!

[–]1constructiveasshole[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't really notice or care. My priority after fucking her was meeting my buddy who texted me for a drink. She didn't freak out or cry or anything, she just whined "awww you should stay i'll make you pancakes ;) " And I was like "I love pancakes. But I gotta go. Nice to see you again. :) " And I kissed her and left. She gets a kiss as reward for her good behavior, and a reminder that if she keeps fucking me I'll keep paying attention to her and validating her.

She's left sitting naked in the bed, wondering what she can do better next time so I stay over, so I fall in love with her and we can play house and she can feel wanted.

Not gonna happen with this plate, but not playing games would be a good start.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Women control sex. Thats not news here and we aim to incentivize her to sumbit by controlling our commitment.

Thats what OP did here

[–]John_E_Vegas 1 point2 points  (1 child)

You're nitpicking his words, and missing the larger point.

His statement that "she doesn't get to dictate when..." is just a peek inside OP's mind at the moment as he's deciding how to handle her rejection and a lowball counter-offer from the plate.

There's a huge difference between: (a) "OK let's go on a date tonight" vs. (b) "here's a nude pic of me, let's fuck."

The plate made a low-ball offer, late in the game, and OP rejected her. Then, she upped the offer - all the way to the HIGHEST POSSIBLE OFFER (immediate sex) in a matter of hours.

OP was in total control, not her.

[–]Master1176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I logged in just to downvote the douchebags telling OP a bunch of negative bullshit.

OP: Well done, my friend.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome FR and an awesome perspective regarding plate management. I'll definitely be using this in the future. I've always treated "maybe" as "no" in order to guard from flakes and over-investment in women, but this mentality turns it into a fun sort of game.

[–]NiceTryDisaster 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Very concise and interest post. Thanks for sharing.

[–]AceofRains 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a homosexual male, I just strategy. It worked like a god damn charm. Pulled a guy, traded pics, he says my dick isn't big enough- which I'm average. I convince him I'm worth it by appeal to sexual senses and, however due to constraint I have to go to him for sex not the other way around. I flip the script and let him know this dick is scarce. End of conversation he's telling me how much he wants me. Fuck TRP is brilliant. Balls are now in my court and I'm gonna have that ass when I want it.

[–]SupropRenkcip -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"I dictate when you get the honor of my dick." lol

[–]frdmslm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This should be on cringe, that was terrible to read lmaoooo.

[–]PachinkoSAN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is awesome. Taking notes and using this on the next chick.

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Excellent distillation of how to play it.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Had a Tinder girl try to leave early from my place with no banging (we banged before). She said she was tired.

I told her it wasn't cool as I had other plans I canceled. She thought it was another date with another girl. She fucked me right away. Dread is real. Use it.

[–]garlicextract -1 points0 points  (1 child)

I asked a girl to come to a comedy show with me on a sunday night - she's a college student, and said she couldn't make it.

Should I just next her at this point? The thing is, we run into each other occasionally. Maybe once every other week or something, so I'll have to see her.

[–]1constructiveasshole[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She said no. Next her. If my plate hadn't texted me Thursday or Saturday morning, I would have nexted her and found another slut on Tinder. Or banged the girl I ditched on the date. Be the guy in your group of friends that picks up chicks.

Once she realizes you're so popular she'll very likely do what I did, regret her decision, and come running back.

[–]RacialRealism -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nice strategy. Requires abundance mentality to work.

[–]drummmmmergeorge -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's a mouse and cat game. The one that cares less wins.