Tdlr: Just because you got your opening doesn’t mean you should rush to close. Women want to be seduced, but they need the process to be slow and gradual. ENJOY peeling them off.
Think of a woman as a very tight asshole (just as much as we are a decisive, conquering cock). You don’t ram through it just when you see an opening. You lubricate it, inch by inch, until you reach its core, until it’s gaping. Until this void you created begs to be filled by you.
I see how betas work. They gather their strength, clench their little fists, and go talk to that girl, fearing that they’ll be rejected. The girl sees the betaness, but she’s feeling lonely and she gives him a chance, she smiles, she shows the tiniest part of interest. The guy thinks he’s in, and now the only thing on his mind is to put his cock in her. He grabs her ass after 5 minutes. He proposes to go to his place after 20 minutes. Then the girl shuts him down, and he calls her a bitch, a cock-tease. Meanwhile, the girl wanted to end up being fucked by this guy, but she has all these tensed layers that he didn’t take care of
Listen, women need to feel you penetrate them, layer by layer.
First, the social barrier: you acknowledge it, you learn it, you overcome it. Understand the social dynamics of the venue, go talk to her group of friends, make a joke, show value. And have fun doing it! Enjoy yourself, enjoy befriending her friends. No rush.
Great, well done. But that’s just the first step.
Second, the intellectual barrier: you pull her out of the group. You acknowledge there is a barrier of intellectual interests, a possible incompatibility of ways of thinking. Understand it, have a discussion with her, find common topics, find topics you disagree on to show her that it’s not all fake. Show her that you know how to disagree, that you can stand your ground without breaking the connection. And have fun doing it! Enjoy yourself, enjoy getting to know another person. No rush.
Third, the emotional barrier: you acknowledge she has emotions ready to explode. Show her you can deal with them while being neither the nice guy nor the asshole (although if in doubt, always choose the asshole way). Tease her. Compliment her then tease her again. Show empathy. Make her ride the whole carrousel of emotions with you, all while remaining in control. You're the amused master. And have fun doing it! Enjoy yourself, enjoy getting her through different emotions. No rush.
Fourth, the physical barrier: you acknowledge the skin has its own agenda. It could like or dislike you. Everybody knows you should start kino as soon as possible. When you get more physical (caressing, touching her hand, her neck) don’t rush for the kiss. Go slow. Enjoy her hand, her skin, get her accustomed to yours. When you kiss, don’t rush it either, build it up. Enjoy discovering somebody else’s body. No rush.
Fifth, the logistics barrier: you acknowledge that sometimes life or things come in the way of an otherwise perfect interaction. You’ve been planning for it. You plan how to bounce her to your location without making it awkward for her or her friends. It’s not about the destination, enjoy the journey. Let’s say you’re walking to your house, don’t think about sex. Enjoy walking in the street with her. Look at the night. Rehash all the previous steps, the emotions, the talking, the skin. Enjoy travelling with her, you’ll get there eventually. No rush
Conclusions: Trust me, once you get there, she will be in total abandon for you. Because you went through all her layers, and you enjoyed doing it. She feels she is totally yours, she can’t hide behind her emotions, or her social environment, or her intellect. You OWNED all of these barriers.
EDIT: The Blue Pill was, rightfully, making fun of the use of some incorrect words in this post. I am not a native english speaker, mistakes corrected.