Red Pill ExampleToday was the day that Reddit almost swallowed the pill. On the front page today: Guy finds out soon-to-be fiancee is cheating and sets up an elaborate proposal to dump her. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by NiceTryDisaster

Tl;DR from the top comment itself: Guy discovers his soon-to-be financee is cheating. Discovers texts and photos. Sets up elaborate proposal including candles, glitter, and rose petals. Has her read a rhyming poem that ends with him asking who the other guy is. She looks up shocked, he bails without a word, and gets into his car and drives off holding a pink dildo.

Second top comment with 2209 upvotes:

Gotta love living in a culture where a man would deem it necessary to document that he didn't trash her house or beat her before he confronts her for being a cheating whore. Why do you suppose he felt the need to do that?

With a reply of 1154 upvotes.

Because a crying woman is better than actual evidence in western society. Go ahead, just google what happens when a woman gets violent and the cops show up. Edit: I wonder how much downvotes I can lose by mentioning theredpill(Linked here) is about acknowledging this sort of shit for self-preservation.

1k+ upvotes despite the mention of the red pill sub-reddit?! What has the world even come to now! :(

Backstory: Decent guy. Goodlooking, fit, well groomed, smart, not a total beta finds out that his soon to be wife is actually a whore through her facebook account and stuff. She's been pretending to be in love and all the jazz but she's been fucking a guy called Thomas Roo behind his back.

She sends Thomas the same nude pics that she sends to her fiance . Fucks him. But hides it from the guy in the video. This guy even had requested her to just tell him to walk away if she wants to be with someone else. But no, she wants to keep the beta husband as well as the boy toy on the side. Guy feels devastated cuz of the sham she tried to pull off and plans to dump her shamefully and record that he has not done any physical harm to her or her house to protect himself from the police.

A sixteen minute video but well worth the watch and something everyone will be able to relate to on here. This setup is a few weeks after he realizes she's a whore. You will she the feeling of pure freedom and liberty when you see him escape out in the end and play the music in his car as he drives away.

Video in question: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-KGfp2aTnHs (Needs login)

Summary: Don't get married. Enjoy the watch! Cheers

[–]beginner_ 53 points54 points  (1 child)

She isn't even pretty. He can easily get a better looking whore.

Clichee confirmed: tattoos = slut alarm.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

To be fair, he is in UK. Let's be honest, that's a 9.5 in the mother country.

[–]EnlightenedViking 83 points84 points  (2 children)

[–]Quiznasty 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Oh my...that is perfect. It even includes the dildo!

[–]Luckyluke23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was like. Wtf is he doing with a pink dildo? Makes me laugh just thinking about it.

Rides into the suset with a pink dildo classic!

[–]MyLittleAtomBomb 535 points536 points  (72 children)

The excitement she showed during his proposal, despite knowing she's a cheating whore, should really say everything.

I'm also getting some "men are the real romantics" vibes from this.

The grandiose display of roses and candles and poems and shit is straight out of the blue pill handbook. That's what men want to believe women are attracted to. Be the Thomas Thunderoo.

[–]CrimsonTideCosby 177 points178 points  (0 children)

despite knowing she's a cheating whore,

I'm willing to bet it never even crossed her mind until the big reveal.

[–]1egoisenemy 151 points152 points  (4 children)

Men are romantics pretending to be pragmatics. Women are pragmatics pretending to be romantics.

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt 50 points51 points  (2 children)

Men are romantics pretending to be pragmatics. Women are pragmatics pretending to be romantics.

♂ Whoa. That's right up there with Warren Farrel's quote about "Men's greatest weakness is their facade of strength, and women's greatest strength is their facade of weakness."

[–]IfEveryoneCared25 2 points3 points  (1 child)

This needs up vote. That's really contributing quote you presented us with. Thank you.


[–]ben0wn4g3 202 points203 points  (13 children)

From this day forth I propose we change Chad Thurdercock to Thomas Thunderoo

[–]freeza15 270 points270 points [recovered]

Thomas Thunderoo is just Chad's British cousin.

[–]Skiffbug 23 points24 points  (2 children)

Rather Australian than British. A lot of Thunderoos hopping around the outback!

[–]plaaya 21 points22 points  (1 child)

I see you've played knifey spooney before

[–][deleted] 478 points479 points  (26 children)

She didn't cheat. It didn't really count. She doesn't love him, it was just sex, and they aren't married yet anyways. Also, it's not like she doesn't have feelings for him

I'm surprised you can't see what an asshole he is for putting her through that trama

[–]GrandWizardofGrammar 78 points79 points  (2 children)

trama = drama + trauma?

I'll allow it.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's like a tragesty, like when a moron driver crashes into a beautiful car you lovingly restored, or when that own to earth hot chick lets herself go over the summer and becomes a fat gelatinous troll with pink hair.

It's a tragedy, but because it's due to the incompetence or neglect of another, it's a travesty. When combined it's a tragesty.

[–]joh2141 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ahahaha I don't know how anyone who reads this thought this was serious... Although in women's minds it often is serious.

[–]trp-grasshopper 26 points27 points  (12 children)

Really don't get the downvotes

[–][deleted] 157 points158 points  (9 children)

stupid people take it literally

[–]huzzy 16 points17 points  (6 children)

And be safe and put the /s

[–]trp-grasshopper 6 points7 points  (3 children)

Be safe and wear a condom and vette properly.. fuck people looking to get offended..

[–]MightyYetGentle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also a lot of fuckin faggots are seeing TRP now

[–]SkaTSee 11 points12 points  (1 child)

its the people following the trp link in the comments of the video post

[–]trp-grasshopper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Still don't get it.. someone needs to edit that video and put those cartoonish puffs of smoke coming out of her ears when the hamster explodes..

[–]random60 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My bad, I guess I wasn't in the right mind set when I commented. Sorry man.

[–]HeadingRed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm also getting some "men are the real romantics" vibes from this.

That's because most of the time it's the truth. One of my biggest TRP awakings was coming to the realization that men are the true romantics in most cases. She wants to marry him because he will make her look good - it's got nothing to do with what she will or can do for him.

And in most cases a guy getting married knows he has to provide for her and their children.

In most cases a husband is a fashion accessory they can show off to the rest of the world "see what I have"

[–]goemon45 9 points10 points  (4 children)

Feeling more and more like giving up women

[–]TheSchnozzberry 24 points25 points  (1 child)

I'd rather have conniving pussy than honorable dick.

[–][deleted] 60 points61 points  (10 children)

Men are pretty shameless pathological liars when they want to get some pussy. We will fake the entire relationship, say any bold faced lie to even a long time friend just to tap that shit once. #notallmen of course, but to me it's more of a general weakness in people that forces lying and cheating. Men lie about feelings to get some pussy or to maintain a relationship; women want to maintain the beta relationship and get the good dick on the side, like this chick was doing. Both are pure weakness. No guy who's worth a shit will need to lie about having feelings or even his income.

[–]pms777 35 points36 points  (3 children)

Dude, you got it all wrong. Faking feelings is the least effective method of getting pussy. You can fake confidence, arrogance, superiority, you name it and it will always be more effective than faking cuddly emotions. If "i love you" got people laid there wouldnt be so many thirsty betas out there.

[–]circlhat 19 points20 points  (1 child)

soon-to-be financee is cheating. Discovers texts and photos. Sets up elaborate proposal including candles, glitter, and rose petals. Has her read a rhyming poem that ends with him asking who the other guy is. She looks up shocked, he bails without a word, and gets into his car and drives off holding a pink dildo.

Its not that black and white, I seen alpha lie to get pussy, and beta tell the entire truth and the girl still chooses the alpha. Sure it is weakness, but I think a better would be "Using"

[–]blimp11 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Women fantasize about the blue pill idea of rose pedals, and candles and shit like that. I think some even like it in real life, but only so they can go brag to their friends about how they were romanced or some shit. Women bragging to other women about romance would be like a man bragging to another man about how powerful he is in his life. Romancing a women is like bending your knee to their authority over you. Once you have romanced them they have conquered you, and then they get bored.

[–]screamingATtrees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Romance for me is I keep wet naps on the bedroom dresser for women to clean up with after sex...I think the box has a heart on it or some shit.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what immediately came to mind for me. She didn't even seem phased by the candles, the note, and everything involved in this romantic gesture. Fuck, if there was that level of lack-of-enthusiasm for something as small as going out to a nice restaurant for an anniversary or something it would probably make me think twice about the relationship.

[–]SmirkAddict 88 points89 points  (3 children)

I felt for the guy until I saw the chick.

A full tattoo sleeve and tattoos on her feet... He handled it like a boss but everything about that chick says impulsive behavior.

[–]TRPShill 20 points21 points  (1 child)

the second I saw the tats I no longer had as much sympathy for him. The flags were there.

[–]SmirkAddict 32 points33 points  (0 children)


Generally, I find tattoos to be masculine. That's why women like them on men because they show a sense of defiance... Well until they became so mainstream.. Tattoos represent a state of mind or a view that you may not always hold as you go through life. For many women, tattoos show their "hardships" and allow them to celebrate their poor decisions by rewriting them as significant milestones. They don't have enough confidence in who they are as people to have someone find them unique on personality alone. So they need things permanently placed on them so that they are always getting some type of attention. The more noticeable the tats the more you should be cautious. And let's be honest, some people are kind of excited in some morbid way when they are close to a tragedy. Because then they have a reason to broadcast their tragedy and express to others that they are tough or hardened. They now have their reason to get that cool meaningful tattoo.

If this dude thought this woman was marriage material I can only imagine his track record with women. He probably met her at a club or rave, had sex with her the first night and felt they had something special.

[–]berryfarmer 127 points128 points  (9 children)

notice the disgusting tats on chicks arm. They like to mark themselves as damaged goods, pay attention.

[–]JimRim 42 points43 points  (8 children)

I think it's safe to assume that each tattoo a female has is at least equal to one premarital dick.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (1 child)

Can confirm: Ex got a tat after we broke up

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'd say 6-7 premarital dicks per tat, and at least 1 postmarital dick per tat as well.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's the female version of a fighter ace painting kill markers on his plane.

[–]Pantek51 104 points105 points  (27 children)

Today on drugs there was a post about some guy getting cheated on by his gf. There was a comment about the redpill and it got upvoted! I didn't believe my eyes. I mean drugs isn't the most SJW/blue pill community but still

My previous post got deleted because I refereed to drugs as / r / drugs... wtf?

[–][deleted] 93 points94 points  (12 children)

My previous post got deleted because I refereed to drugs as / r / drugs... wtf?

You can't link to other subs here. It's to prevent this sub from being banned for "brigading". That's been a rule here for well over a year now. That's why all links to other reddit posts are archive links.

[–]Pantek51 41 points42 points  (2 children)

Oh okay I get that, I read trp but never post

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Make another account you are posting on your main one which could be linked back to you.

[–]EmoryToss17 37 points38 points  (6 children)

Interesting that this rule is in place, and yet linking to other posts is the ONLY function of ShitRedditSays.

[–][deleted] 52 points52 points

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[–]internet_terrorist 35 points36 points  (2 children)

Their purpose is to maintain control of "the narrative". By downvoting non-conforming opinions they promote reddit's political agenda. They're a lot like the violent elements of Islamic societies: the non-violent elements are able to legitimately deny involvement while still benefiting from their actions.

[–]WillWorkForLTC 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They're like the Borg-Virus of the internet.

[–]redestofthereds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Guys! This post right here is so thought provoking and its forcing me to re-examine my view on things which I don't like. Can you please help me hamster this away!"-SRS

[–]Endorsed ContributorMentORPHEUS 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Correct, it has happened to me and the autobot explains what got your post deleted but not why.

I use archive.is, but isn't there a method that looks something like


I've seen that but not figured it out

[–]PotentFapstronaut 11 points12 points  (7 children)

That was me, and the comment I explicitly mentioned TRP in was downvoted to oblivion, as it was x-posted to TBP. It now sits on -20 and burried at the bottom, despite my best attempts to provide insight (which I knew from the beginning would be futile).

[–]Pantek51 6 points7 points  (5 children)

You weren't the one I was talking about but thank you for destroying your Internet points for the cause! Those people at tbp are delusional as fuck lol and they feel that they should judge us... fucking laughable

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mos likely that they're open to new things and ideas, and being heavy drug users or interested in drugs, they're used to having society hate them at large.

[–]Darkwoodz 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Not surprised people who are open minded enough to experiment with drugs aren't opposed to viewing the world from a different perspective than mainstream blue pill. Most people have it hammered into them from a young age that drugs all drugs are bad and will have detrimental effects. Same as blue pill mentality.

[–]Pantek51 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Personally I agree but I saw a lot of redpillers not being really keen about drugs

[–][deleted] 342 points343 points  (60 children)

See, the thing is, with this particularly brand of skank, she probably HATES the fact that he went through all this dopey romantic shit. I know the guy's intent was to show her all the "emotional investment" she was going to be missing out on. On some girls that "slipped up" that might work. But, you can see from the look on her face when she first sits down, she is thinking "I actually have to read through all this shit and put up with this nonsense just to get the ring?; ughh, whatevs" All she cares about is the money and status. She seems precisely like the kind of demented ho bag that is going to retaliate and try and ruin this guy's life now, all the while enjoying tom rue.

She will be more pissed about cleaning the glitter and having to find a new BB than anything else. She certainly won't be SHAMED over this.

If the guy really needed to "get back at her" for his own emotional/personal closure/development, he would have been better off doing something in front of her friends/family--i.e. doing something that would affect her social status.

[–]MyLittleAtomBomb 372 points373 points  (29 children)

Pretty sure she's about to become Internet famous which will blast a hole in both her social standing but also that of any alphas she's more secretive with than Thomas.

Her life is about to be fucked and she deserves every second of it.

[–]LuvBeer 178 points179 points  (3 children)

This will make the Daily Mail. England is still surprisingly traditional--she'll probably have to move. Edit: aaand it made the Daily Mail.

[–]Rathadin 99 points100 points  (1 child)

Good. Cheating people should have to move.

[–]Trpidation 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My name is TRPidation and I support this message.

[–]cynicalprick01 26 points27 points  (23 children)

yea, but he couldnt have counted on that happening when making that whole 15 minute video.

to me, this just seems like blue pill revenge porn that shows exactly how ignorant the blue pill mind is regarding the nature of women.

PS: not all porn is "fake". What I mean is this is entertainment especially catering to blue pillers who have ever had a bad relationship with a typical basic bitch.

[–]MyLittleAtomBomb 141 points142 points  (21 children)

It's not revenge porn. Porn is fake. This is real.

What you're witnessing is a man still stuck in the bluepill social conditioning finding his testicles and, instead of pleading with her and negotiating for her affection at his own expense, sticking it to the bitch exactly where women are most vulnerable: societal approval.

I feel like several members of this sub have this tendency to forget where we all came from. Within the BP mind, this is a massive first step.

[–]cynicalprick01 26 points27 points  (17 children)

I dont disagree that this is a big first step for him, but he seemed to completely misunderstand women to the point where you wonder if it was his first step into TRP or his first step into another bad relationship.

I say this because he tries to hurt her with things he thinks women care about. ie the romance, glitter, romantic music, poems

He is still a romantic at heart and I bet he will be a BB for another girl within the year.

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[–]cynicalprick01 16 points17 points  (4 children)

there are gradients.

western women are the worst when it comes to whorishness while those from collectivist cultures tend to not be as much.

others wouldn't cheat on their boyfriends if their lives depended on it (one girl I know even has a bf across the Atlantic. Somehow he trusts her. But I've pried very hard, have seen her in action socially, and she's dedicated to him.).

I sincerely doubt your perceptions match reality. women are social animals, they know how to act socially. look at the video on the front page about the guy who broke up with his cheating gf. without knowing she cheated, you would never have guessed she did based on how she acted around him. in my opinion, your friend's relationship is a ticking timebomb waiting to go off.

women simply differ on how much their suppress that side of themselves and in how honest they are with society about their whorishness (you would be surprised how wild many "proper" girls can be)

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[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Nobody who knew my second ex could have imagined she would cheat, lie, and fabricate things to get me in trouble. Two years later they all realize what she fucked up and that she was incredibly stupid about who she picked to branch swing to. His pic should be used as the definition of desperate omega loser.

They'd also never guess that she loves to be tied up, flogged, whipped, pissed on, tag teamed by guys, has had orgasms given by girls, is comfortable being naked among 20+ people, and absolutely loves anal with a vibe in her snatch. She doesn't look at all like a freaky kinkster, but she sure as fuck is.

They won't show the world who they really are, but they'll show you in private if you appear high status enough.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (7 children)

Seems like it was purposely taken to the extreme bp type shit to build it up more, and make it seem genuine or whatever. I can't really describe it but the somewhat elaborate setup seems like the best way to do such a thing, and lol glitter never goes away.

Much better than just filming him saying caught you or Iknow who tommy thunderoo is or whatever.

[–]cynicalprick01 21 points22 points  (6 children)

but he could have just broken all contact like a real redpiller

doing all this shit just showed that he ultimately cared. based on her reaction to the whole thing, I think he cared more about it than her even as he was driving away.

this wasnt some Machiavellian mind game bs, it was a dude that was hurting enough to seek revenge in such a ridiculous manner. seriously, if he were this mastermind, he would have gotten her to put on the nose.

[–]ShockMonsta 21 points22 points  (1 child)

He did care, he said in the video he loved her, but that he's not a fucking chump and standing for it. "Broken all contact like a "real redpiller"?! I'd argue responding however the fuck he wants would make him more of a "red piller".

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 11 points12 points  (2 children)

I broke contact with my ex when she cheated, ended or 9 year relationship by text. Know what she did? She and her idiot boyfriend set me up for felony vandalism, because he worked for the sheriff as an Emt. It was an effort to extort money from me and to drive me out of state while making them look like the victim so everyone would forget she was a cheating whore.

No, doing it this way is better, video documentation that you did nothing wrong.

I learned never to trust girls, especially when you break up with them. I thought she wouldn't do that, but she surprised me. Now I go full beta, beg for pussy, be super nice, and the bitches leave without a problem after no more than two weeks. Once she is no longer attracted, then I go radio silent and vanish from her life. Sometimes I kill the attraction and then demand sex after asking for it, or make it so she owes me. Mostly though, just being nice is enough.

[–]cynicalprick01 2 points3 points  (1 child)

then, he could have recorded the apartment and then himself exiting and dropping the key through the mail box and driving away.

he didnt need to go through his elaborate scheme and he definitely didnt need to sing into a dildo.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the fun is in the little things. I would find it hilarious to do all of that, and I often do this for my own amusement even if there's no point to it, no tangible benefit, and it has some expense to it. I build drag cars for fun, if that isn't a pointless and expensive endeavor exercised only for fun, then nothing is. Doing all of that crap he did was for his own amusement, then he shared it with all of us.

It falls under the why the hell not category.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get it. Just saying what he was probably thinking when he came up with it.

As you said, the best thing is just to separate completely. Dude cared enough and was still hurt enough to set this whole thing up. Glad he did it, it's great stuff, but ultimately cutting off immediately is the best way to go about it.

[–]ShockMonsta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't think that the whole situation is a parody of that fantasy?

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[–]whydoievenreply 47 points48 points  (7 children)

I think what he did was fashionable. Straight up dope shit, who cares about how the bitch feels. This doesn't read like vengeance to me, it is more like a bad ass dump for his sake and I enjoyed it.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (6 children)

With age comes perspective. My 25-year old self would agree, as I did something very similar with an ex-fiance, although not as elaborate, at that age. I had a great need for vengeance.

Today me would just be like, fuck it, get out, bye.

[–]Rathadin 11 points12 points  (3 children)

I wish I could say I would do something like this, but I just don't give a fuck anymore either. I guess as you hit your mid-30s, you just lose tolerance for bullshit and elaborate fuckery.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

I think part of it is value of time. Other part is just being hardened to the shittiness of people and the world.

[–]DocWattz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If you are spending that much time thinking about someone unworthy, you've already lost.

[–]Kellermann 28 points29 points  (1 child)

Send her more glitter in the mail

[–][deleted] 87 points88 points  (5 children)

Women care about shame. But I see what you're saying, if he didn't record it, she wouldn't have given 2 fucks. But this is gonna go viral, and she doesn't want to be a cheating cunt on viral.

[–]2Overkillengine 74 points75 points  (4 children)

Really puts a wrench in the works for her if her tactics are made public knowledge.

It's why so many hate TRP; it shines light on the cockroaches that thrive in the darkness of ignorance at others expense.

[–]forscienceyeah 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The other thing that people are missing is that this viral video shows women what could happen if you cheat on your boyfriend/soon to be fiancée. It also shows men that your partner could be cheating and not to take it laying down.

[–]mugatucrazypills 14 points15 points  (2 children)

doubt it, some chumpster will manage to convince themselves she's a unicorn

[–]icecow 22 points23 points  (5 children)

She certainly won't be SHAMED over this. If the guy really needed to "get back at her" for his own emotional/personal closure/development, he would have been better off doing something in front of her friends/family--i.e. doing something that would affect her social status.

It is on Youtube... Even her mother will likely see this video.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (4 children)

Ok, may be generational difference then. Being an old geezer, I, perhaps underestimated the exposure the video would get.

I don't ever watch people's private channels on youtube except when linked on reddit.

So, if this is the modern equivalent of dropping pictures of your finance in bed with someone else during the engagement dinner party with family and friends, I stand corrected.

[–]TattedGuyser 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's much worse. A lot of tabloid sites grab popular stories from Reddits front page and report them. This is exactly the kind of story that's viral enough to gain a lot of clicks, so it'll be reposted by these sites a lot. Especially British ones. Her whole family will very likely see it.

[–]downvotethelogic[🍰] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

With the amount of views this video has, I'm positive all her family and friends already know about this video.

[–]Agu001 16 points17 points  (1 child)

You get it.

She really gave zero fucks about the whole thing.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"I actually have to read through all this shit and put up with this nonsense just to get the ring?; ughh, whatevs"

What do you expect from a sloot de la sloot?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That was my thought exactly as I was watching. She's not crying, she never said, "I love you," "this is so sweet," "I'm so excited," etc... The only thing she had a real reaction to was seeing the setup initially and then seeing the trip. Reading the letter she looked straight up bored, if not annoyed that she had to read such a long letter. She looks like a slutty soccer mom before the kids came along.

She will be inconvenienced by this. Her friends and family will find out she was cheating and she'll be upset that she was the one who ended up with a viral youtube video. She'll even feel sorry for herself.

[–][deleted] 65 points66 points  (7 children)

Also note the fact that he says at the beginning that he has had this happen to him before with "Becky"

The real sad part is that this guy is probably going to have it happen again if he thinks candles, music, rose petals, and love poems is what makes women swoon.

[–]tompanz 37 points38 points  (0 children)

It'll make her swoon... if other women are jealous of it.

[–]pancake_friday 10 points11 points  (1 child)

"Never cheat on me; just tell me to walk away, like Becky did, and I won't cause you any hassle. And I haven't done with Becky. I haven't spoke to her for two year - bless her - still love her to bits."

This guy's love life is way too complicated.

[–]MakingItWorthit 162 points163 points  (23 children)

People are starting to wake up.

Edit: Video in question can be viewed without login by adding "nsfw" in front of youtube and after the "." like so

[–]dindu_collective 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for putting this information in.

[–]1Sir_Distic 41 points42 points  (2 children)

He is amazing. Documenting and pointing out there's no damage anywhere, leaving his key, blowing out the candles. His ass is covered.

[–]Batou_Red 38 points39 points  (5 children)

The thing that stood out to me was the other comments in the thread. Most were about glitter or other bullshit, and not even commenting on what a total whore this girl was. Reddit being unplugged? I'll hold my breath.

[–]174pounder 23 points24 points  (2 children)

Just looking her up and down gave me the skank vibe.

Shitty arm tats. Not pretty and knows it.

[–]Nieben 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Yeah, really. Not sure why I don't see more of this in the top comments. Her character is quite apparent based on her appearance.

[–]Incubus130 72 points73 points  (21 children)

That was great. Laughed my ass off. Sure maybe he Invested a bit much into doing it but personally I think he handled it well. None of that beta frame breaking screaming and crying.

[–]cynicalprick01 45 points46 points  (18 children)

did you hear his voice quivering while reading the poem?

doing this shit was tearing him up inside.

edit: how can you guys agree that he didnt let his pain show after I gave an example of him showing his pain and especially after the entire video which could only be orchestrated by someone hurt enough to do it. anyone who gets revenge is showing their pain.

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan 140 points141 points  (7 children)

The guy is still human. A quivering voice doesn't mean he didn't handle his shit. It means he handled the breakup in a stoic and civil manner. Being RP doesn't mean u don't get hurt; it means that u do ur best to never let them (women) see you hurt, never let women see you vulnerable.

Throwing away a multi year LTR because your woman is a whore hurts; it hurts all of us, no matter how much you wanna fling your dick around, puff out your chest and pretend it doesn't. The difference is that a BP man seeks solace and sympathy from his mother and other women who say "it's ok the right woman is out there". The RP man seeks advice from his brothers on how not to get ass-raped again.

EDIT to /u/cynicalprick01's edit: Did his voice quiver? Sure it did, though I don't think it was that bad. But did he do what most men do when they find out their woman is a cheating whore? Did he go into a whipped up frenzy of:

  • "WHHHHAAAA OMG WHY?!?!?!?!"
  • "Why did you do this?!?!?!?!"
  • "How could you sleep with another guy when we are getting married?!?!?!!?"
  • "We can work this out, just promise never to cheat again ok!!!!!"

He didn't throw a temper tantrum, he didn't emasculate himself by "promising to be a better boyfriend" so he doesn't "chase his woman into the arms of another man", which is the typical justification other women use to excuse a woman cheating. He handled it as best he knew how without a full understanding of TRP and the true nature of women that we preach here.

tl/dr, if a quivering voice was the full extent of his frame fissure, he could have done a whole lot worse.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 35 points36 points  (2 children)

Hopefully someone puts this dude onto TRP.

[–]GunsGermsAndSteel 17 points18 points  (5 children)

But he stuck it out anyway. At any time prior to her coming home, he could have called the whole thing off. I know he had to have a stomach ache, shaking fingers, the whole thing.

He chose to follow through.

You don't have to LIKE what you're doing; you just have to do it.

[–]Incubus130 21 points22 points  (3 children)

Yet he didn't let it show. Trust me I've seen guys find out the girl was a slut and then go batshit. Scream, break shit, and even hit her. It doesn't end well. Even when it does end well she somehow reverse shames him and hes the one apologizing or she ruins his reputation.

Many men would have handled it in a childish non stoic manner. Not stating that this was completely stoic or even the best way to handle it but still better than a lot of men.

[–]2IVIaskerade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe he Invested a bit much into doing it

I think he invested as much as was necessary to achieve his catharsis.

[–]JohnGalt316 47 points48 points  (1 child)

love the "it must have been love" song in the background

[–]cynicalprick01 40 points41 points  (0 children)

god, you can tell the dude is hurting deep down from all the little touches.

I feel for the guy.

[–][deleted] 131 points132 points  (21 children)

The red pill isn't news to anybody. It's such common knowledge that the world has to try HARD to act like it doesn't already know it. The only shock is that we're actually saying what we are, instead of arguing that rape should be legal.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 108 points109 points  (20 children)

I think it is news.

Everyone I know is acting like they're in blue pill la la land. Every time a guy gets screwed over, everyone (including the guy himself) just says "I haven't met the right one yet". Guys believe that money is attractive to women rather than useful. The merit of being in shape is not even acknowledged ("grown up women see beyond the superficial"). It's all about "finding my soul mate" and crap like that. The nature of female attraction, manipulation, opportunism is not addressed. The destructive-to-attraction nature of commitment isn't even on their radar.

It's possible that they're all pretending (in order to fit in) while in reality think otherwise... but the guys actions are all blue pill as fuck as well as their words. My friends are either looking for a unicorn or married or being loyal to crazy disloyal ho's.

Everyone seems to be playing this BP game, and women are creaming off the profits of course. Obviously women know the full depths of all the TRP truths, which is why they fight so hard to present their disney dreams so damned hard.

[–][deleted] 36 points37 points  (17 children)

Blue pill men know what's wrong. They're just afraid to say it and afraid to think it. They're not as nuanced in their ideas as red pillers are, but they know that they're not having as much sex as the women, not getting the free respect they were promised, and they're jealous of the women for the lives women get to live.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 34 points35 points  (2 children)

I think men know something is wrong... they're unhappy, not getting what they want. But what makes me think they don't have a clue is that they just double down with the blue pill nonsense and start treating women even better, to their own detriment.

I talked to a guy last night, bemoaning Tinder because it removed the friendship element from dating. The rest of the room agreed, and most of the men thought friendship was an excellent start to a relationship ("why wouldn't you want to date your best friend?"). After I scoffed (noone else dared speak up), the women eventually agreed that friendship should be a big part of a relationship, even though the relationship can't be based on that (none of them are going to say the friendzone isn't a thing). Blue pill faggotry examples were proffered to support their viewpoints, including "They were friends for 5 years and then they got together" (yeah yeah, I bet they did... step up Mr Beta, it's your turn now!)

Personally I always felt something was deeply deeply wrong - mostly because women acted nothing like the disney fantasies they professed to want so badly. They never kept up their end of things, and I never knew why. I always questionned this, and I was always shouted down by men and women alike. Total emperor's new clothes stuff.

Most other men don't seem to even have the guts to bemoan women in private, never mind stand up to them in public. They've no fucking hope of ever knowing what's really going on, even those that are relatively successful with women. Maybe those guys even less likely, because they don't see the long term picture until its too late.

[–]cynicalprick01 32 points33 points  (7 children)

as someone who has recently swallowed the pill, I certainly knew that something was wrong, but I didnt know what it was.

[–]ihateyouguys 16 points17 points  (4 children)

Like... a splinter in your mind?

[–]cynicalprick01 6 points7 points  (1 child)

no, more like a hangnail on my frontal lobes, or maybe the lead from that pencil I stabbed myself with accidently as an idiot child.

[–]Finucho 11 points12 points  (1 child)

I agree, it's the "splinter in your mind". You know something is wrong, you know the promises you swallowed aren't real, but you can't put it exactly into words, or act with a clear purpose. That's the magic of the red pill, everything becames clear and you are given the choice to act or not, but in a very defined way. That thing is completely missing in the blue pill mentality.

[–]cynicalprick01 6 points7 points  (0 children)


I thought it was a personality flaw that I could never identify and therefore could never correct.

I mean, it was a personality flaw, but luckily one that could be corrected over time when properly identified after swallowing TRP.

[–]2Overkillengine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Blue pill men know what's wrong. They're just afraid to say it and afraid to think it.

They face social censure (gee guess which gender tends to wield social power more ruthlessly as a whole?) every time they voice even an inkling of having perceived part of the truth.

It happens often enough they stop trying to see and just try to get through the day pretending their shins don't hurt.

[–]boredepression 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I disagree... Some BP may know what is wrong but many of us are indeed clueless. I had no idea about any of this before finding TRP.

I didn't think something was wrong, I simply thought most of them were not interested in me.

[–]GC0W30 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Guys believe that money is attractive to women rather than useful.

See: Good Charlotte - Girls & Boys

"Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money..."

[–]Rathadin 6 points7 points  (1 child)

It would be great to see an Archive.is link to the reddit post, I'd love to see what all the beta morons and women are saying.

[–]kingoftheheap 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of the time my exgirlfriend told she wanted a boyfriend AND a husband: someone to take care of her and someone to have fun with.

What a terrible thing to say. But so predictable now.

[–]veganhitler 23 points24 points  (17 children)

Heard the best story from a customer yesterday. When his wife told him she wanted a divorce he went to his fathers place later.

His father saw his face and asked what was wrong.

Customer said nothing was wrong.

His father kept asking until his son finally told him that his wife wanted a divorce.

His father is 75 years old and from italy, tells him some old italian saying about not being able to climb a ladder with dead weight on your feet.

The son is like wtf?

'Dump the bitch' his father said.

Then proceeded with, 'son, i had to slap your mother around when you were younger. Women dont change, they were the same then as they are now. The difference today is that men are a bunch of poofters. There were times i told her to pack her bags and leave if she didn't like her life.'

I miss the good old days.

[–]goemon45 4 points5 points  (3 children)

Maybe she was just meeting up for "some kisses".

[–]2IVIaskerade 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Ok, so she touched his penis a bit too.

[–]Carbone 3 points4 points  (4 children)

She had tattoo in the first place... he lost by default

[–]hke12 2 points3 points  (3 children)

So many comments about tattoos, is having tattoos a sing I'm not familiar with?

[–]loddfavne 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tatoos is a flag, in the same way as drinking too much is a flag. There are some easy-to-spot indicators that a girl might be a slut.

[–]_the_jews_did_911 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm RedPill famous!!!

Cue 100 comments about people "waking up". No they fucking aren't. Everyone knows this stuff, the problem is not that women act like this, it's that men don't see the error in their ways that lead to it.

This sub has thousands of users and they are all in that thread gloating. Like me.

[–]Hanz_Wunderbarwang 6 points6 points [recovered]

Schadenfreude level: Euphoric!

[–]Philhelm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would have been better if he went through with the hole wedding fiasco only to shame her at the altar in front of her friends and family.

[–]itsmehobnob 51 points52 points  (45 children)

This is a lot of wasted energy for little gain. The girl in question isn't going to care that she got caught cheating but could cause a shit storm because her identity was revealed against her will.

She'll be sucking Thomas's balls by the end of the day.

If he needed to do this for his own mental wellness, so be it. But, there is a lot of shit he's opened himself up to.

[–]MyLittleAtomBomb 98 points99 points  (8 children)

The goal isn't to keep her off Tom's dick.

The goal was to publicly shame her and prevent her from saying he beat her or some shit.

I honestly don't think he cares if she goes to Tom, nor should you.

Tom was the AF, video guy was the BB. Tom isn't gonna commit to her after the beta left. She's fucked.

[–]peoplearejustpeople9 9 points10 points  (7 children)

She also looked like she was almost 40. No way is she getting another BB.

[–]mrmeyhemn 14 points15 points  (3 children)

wrong, some other thirsty ass beta will tell her how beautiful she is, what a special snowflake she is, and rush in to fill the void. don't underestimate the thirstiness of betas.

[–]Thoaway69 2 points3 points  (2 children)

All betas must die. They ruin the world with their ways.

[–]NiceTryDisaster[S] 109 points110 points  (10 children)

I know. Agree 100%.

Hence I call him "not a total beta". He's somewhere in between his transformation from blue to red now. If he was red, he wouldn't have gotten married in the first place, second he wouldn't commit, third he wouldn't waste his energy on a 'revenge dump video', wouldn't bother 'making her feel guilty' about her behaviour etc.

Edit: Oh wait, a comment on the main thread says the same thing, just slightly better.

I think the only negative I can see in this approach is the assumption that she cares. Like....at all. In my experience, someone that cheats in the way she cheats doesn't give a shit about the other person at this point. This is the type of person who has a boo, a secret man, AND bangs rando guys at the bar/club. Will she be embarrassed that her face and the video are pasted all over the internet? Sure. Are there going to be inconveniences as a result of the break? Maybe. Will she be ashamed? Fuck no. And in the end, she'll be sucking this other dude's dick by 8pm tonight without a care in the world.

Still - It's entertaining.

I was dating a girl for about six months who cheated on me. I found out and wasn't profoundly affected until I confronted her and she denied it for six hours. For six hours she lied to my face and at the end of those six hours I had devised a plan. I spent the next six months romancing her like nobody has ever been romanced. She was head over heels in love with me. And in those six months I plowed about six other women. Then one night I told her and watched her crumble. That was ten years ago. She still calls and texts me randomly. Cunt fucked with the wrong sociopath.

[–]LuvBeer 24 points25 points  (6 children)

Yes but he covers his ass. Considering UK guidelines just came out which put the burden of proof on the accused to prove a woman consented, breaking up with indisputable proof that you did no wrong is not a small thing.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Considering UK guidelines just came out which put the burden of proof on the accused to prove a woman consented,

Is this really a thing? Fucking hell, honestly.

[–]LuvBeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

[–]blackhawks93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The U.K., aka capital of the regressive left.

[–]manelsen 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Anonymous sociopath is a hero

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

There's a top post about white stains or whatever. He just fucks her and leaves, not sure if he even says why.

[–]pcadrian 47 points47 points [recovered]

She might be sucking Thomas' balls for now, but when she has to rely on cats for companionship years down the line, you bet your ass she will remember this day.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (6 children)

This is a revenge fantasy. Truth is this video will be eventually taken down and everybody will forget about it, and she'll have to find a new provider. Which she probably will find.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Plenty of bitches end up with cats because they are unlovable insufferable cunts. There's no happy ever after for her. So what if she gets another dude? How long will that last until she fucks that up as well? Bitch is damaged goods, cats it is then.

[–]pcadrian 6 points6 points [recovered]

This is a revenge fantasy

I see this term getting thrown around a lot... is it supposed to mean anything? I'm starting to think it's becoming a way for SJWs to infiltrate. It's not a fantasy, I could care less, it's just how they end up.

she'll have to find a new provider. Which she probably will find.

Of course she will 3nuc. Guaranteed. But like IllimitableMan said, she is going to fuck it up. That's how these women are. Toxic. They never change. And whatever provider they have, they will never be satisfied. So even though she may not care right now, her life will be ruled by unhappiness, dissatisfaction, etc.

Have a look at the RedPillWomen - these are actually good women, and some of them are having trouble finding the man they want. You think a low quality bitch like the woman in the video stands a chance?Never gonna happen.

[–]squidracer 17 points18 points  (2 children)

Oh they care.

Not because they are losing a bf, but solely because they are embarrassed about getting caught..

It's a pride thing, they think they are uncatchable

[–]2Overkillengine 8 points9 points  (1 child)

That and her newly enhanced reputation now means it will be harder to sucker a new wallet- I mean man, into committing to her ass.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (2 children)

Yeah, that's what struck me, the wasted effort, especially since the things he wants, eg: her to feel what he feels or to get some kind of justice, just will never happen. This probably seemed much cooler in this guy's head while he was thinking it up. When he's telling her about the trip and all you can clearly hear him holding back tears, I assume he's trying to mask them as tears of joy but....nahhhhh, not to mention she gives a suspicious look at his phone when he leaves her in the room to read the letter. I imagine she knew something was up from the get go, she probably read it on his face.

The best revenge you can get on a person like that is make them think you don't care in the slightest and carry on like it's no big deal.

You have to be as nonchalant as possible, if you break down or crack, you lost. You've gotta make sure you can maintain composure before you try something like this. "Hey I saw some texts that you've been cheating on me. Wow that's new, I was gonna marry you. Good thing I found out now, I mean can you imagine how stupid I would look if I had actually gone through with it? I mean wooooooow I would feel like SUCH an idiot. Whew, thank god for small miracles though huh? High five! Hey what are you thinking for dinner?"

She'd have a meltdown and probably try to kill you, it would be hilarious. You'd probably definitely need the video if you went that route though.

Edit: This example is a better strategy. A man discovers cheating, goes immediate no contact but drops some of ex's things by her mom's house. The man makes nice with her mom but doesn't say why they broke up and just runs off the porch in tears, so that mom continually guilts the cheater years and years later. This example is better because he doesn't show weakness to the cheater and she never gets closure, he then intentionally ruins the cheater's relationship with her mother. You have to be targeted and ruthless if you want revenge on a cheating woman.

Edit2: Comment from above thread worth repeating, "The power of the high road must never be relinquished. People who make poor, scummy, idiotic, vicious, and mean decisions will forever reap the rewards of their behavior when confronted with kindness and sadness for their actions."

[–]1rife_omeqa 3 points4 points  (1 child)

It's not wasted energy if it gave him closure.

It was a serious enough relationship for him to propose to her in the first place and enough for his voice to break when reading the poem.

Taking a few weeks to plan out and execute an elaborate finale probably helped him cope with the revelation that his fiance was a whore. Something like that doesn't just sink in a few minutes after reading the text messages.

I'd wager it also helped by setting a specific finish line for him. Setup the finale, go through with the execution, reveal your knowledge and the consequences to her in no uncertain terms, do it all civilly, have some fun in the process and by the end of it on this specific date it's all over and he moves on with his life.

Once it goes viral he also has the record set straight before she has a chance to go batshit crazy. Even if the police were not going to get involved, it doesn't take much to turn the social tide for a woman when she can just mention "abuse" vaguely and from that moment on, he is the bad guy.

He knew she was volatile. What better way to ensure his and her friends/family see how it really went down rather than the he-said she-said that inevitably ensues.

I thought he did well. Really well.

[–]TheBloodEagleX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter what she thinks after. It's about him and that released whatever shit that he went through. It's done and he can go live his life.

[–]malditoduende 7 points7 points [recovered]

You spoiled the end, asshole!

[–]KurrKurr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As did the guy who made the video.

[–]topapito 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nobody can help caring. The trick is always choosing women that you cannot care about. But if you have to go through this, why not wait until the wedding vows?

"I loved you since I first laid eyes on you. And today was my dream since our first kiss." Pour it on...

"I have a question I'd like to ask you before we continue... I'd like you to tell all these nice people who in the fuck is Tom..." then put on sun glasses and walk.... no dildos, no vibrators. Just some paid call girl in the audience to walk out with.

Haha, blue pill as fuck but still better I think...

Edit: spellunking chopsing to choosing

[–]my_redpill_account 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Honestly I don't see a problem with how he decided to handle things. He is a man in control of his life after all.

Maybe I misunderstood TRP teachings but making your own choices instead of following what every other man does is leader like.

He got out, got revenge the way he wanted, he won. I will say a lot of dudes are getting off on this story because they're still in the angry phase which is quite funny. Nothing wrong with that, just pointing it out.

[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion 38 points39 points  (21 children)

I saw absolutely no chemistry between them. If anyone believes that's what chemistry looks like, I would be more than happy to let them live in their world of blissful ignorance.

He has way too much time on his hands.

What I saw is her walk into the house and just cringe until it all ended. He probably spared her the trouble of dumping him. He also tarnished his own reputation by posting this video.

I can't speak for her, but from what I've seen, a girl in this situation completely doesn't give a shit.

[–]MyLittleAtomBomb 96 points97 points  (7 children)

What you saw was a man avoid the pussy trap. That alone should be celebrated.

[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion 10 points11 points  (6 children)

What are you talking about. He was in deep. Hook, line, and sinker. He was graced with a miracle by finding the texts. He didn't even notice otherwise.

That's pretty sad.

[–]MyLittleAtomBomb 48 points49 points  (3 children)

Yeah but much like a plummeting 747, he pulled up at the last second and survived.

Imagine if the ring had slid on before he found out.

[–]doctorlw 22 points23 points  (5 children)

I don't agree at all. I agree that, at the beginning, she was anxious/uncomfortable... but anyone would be in that situation. And while initially when she sees the letter she is annoyed, as ANYONE would be (not many people enjoy reading that stuff), the fact that she tears up while reading the letter is proof that there was some sort of connection there at the very least.

Judging chemistry from a video with about 1 minute of interaction, in my opinion, is sillier than just giving the benefit of the doubt.

I 100% agree that he put way too much time and effort into it, but have to admit despite that it was all masterfully executed.

[–]whydoievenreply 8 points9 points  (4 children)

I think what you are seeing is that the guy is acting in a very non stoic way, which is something to be looked down upon 'round these parts.

The thing is, if he enjoyed making that video as much as I enjoyed watching it. It say it was worthwhile. Props for driving away signing to a dildo microphone.

[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion 3 points4 points  (1 child)

This is going to be a short response.

It's not him being non-stoic, it's everything about him as a whole. The same way girls can scream red flags for me, he screams a guy that will get cheated on.

I've been on his side before, and now I'm on the other side. There's no doubt in my mind that there's a pattern in the type of men women cheat on. The women really don't give a shit. They laugh about their guy, they know they are using the guy, I laugh with them.

doctorlw had some points, but I see it differently. The short version of what I see is that she's already given up with him, you can see how she carries herself around him. Obviously he's not trying to game her, but he has 0 charm. Girls tear up all the time, she forgets about chad while reading the letter, is touched by it, tears up (no one mentions the next step which is she can fuck chad the same day, I'm not kidding, try it yourself). So what if she teared up. I look at how both of them are and I can't remember the last time my interaction with a woman felt like that.

When I look at him I see what women are trying to run away from (while still extracting what value they can get). This is why they cheat, and don't give a shit. Because they lost nothing of value.

Personally, I recommend going out there and trying it. Fuck a girl who has a bf or fiance.

[–]I3lizzard 1 point2 points  (1 child)

What the heck was with all the dildos?

[–]whydoievenreply 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think in the original thread it was said he stole them from her... I ain't one to judge.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMentORPHEUS 39 points40 points  (1 child)

I saw absolutely no chemistry between them.

I agree. The look she gave him right before he bailed was a total Thousand-Cock Stare. If he had waited for her to speak, this probably would have been a humiliation video... for HIM.

Besides, nothing screams WIFE MATERIAL like sleeve tattoos. I'm really not impressed with this guy.

ETA: 90% of the video is useless. Skip ahead to the part where she arrives till she starts reading, then skip ahead to near the end just before she picks up the red heart, till he's walking toward the car.

[–]obama_loves_nsa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The main thing he screwed up on was not letting her say 'yes' and come and hug him.

I would have led her on to say yes and get her hopes up 'wow I can get my BB and my AF and life is going to work itself out!!'

Gotta let her get her hope higher. Not to trash the guy. He still did a great setup.

[–]NiceTryDisaster[S] 24 points25 points  (1 child)

I saw absolutely no chemistry between them. If anyone believes that's what chemistry looks like, I would be more than happy to let them live in their world of blissful ignorance.

I don't see why this is being downvoted. This is pretty accurate.

The girl has the "Oh no, please no more romantic BS" look on her face the moment she walks in.

He has way too much time on his hands.


What I saw is her walk into the house and just cringe until it all ended. He probably spared her the trouble of dumping him. He also tarnished his own reputation by posting this video.


I can't speak for her, but from what I've seen, a girl in this situation completely doesn't give a shit.


Stop downvoting if you don't have a good reason to back it up with.

[–]letsgetrandy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw absolutely no chemistry between them. If anyone believes that's what chemistry looks like, I would be more than happy to let them live in their world of blissful ignorance.

He's got a key to her apartment, but not a single item there that he needs to remove before pulling this stunt? Yeah, I agree with you. Not much going on between them.

[–]CharlieLightningDick 12 points12 points [recovered]

Whilst I'm glad he took action and it made me chuckle with the poem, it seems a little bit like too much investment.

Would of been a better story if he just said "Babe I've found out I'm actually gay, so I'm out, peace" and just leave without explaining shit.

Now he gets to live happily ever after, spinning plates and living life on his own terms as an independent man.

On a side note, Thomas Roo sounds like it could be coined to point out an Australian Chad.

[–]CrimsonTideCosby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can almost guarantee the whole time she was reading the love notes and all that shit before she got to the "I know you're cheating" shit, she never once thought about how much of a scumbag she was for cheating on this guy. I bet the only time she thought of the Thomas Roo guy during this whole ordeal was when she read his name on the heart.

I personally would have been racked with guilt knowing that I was doing someone who would go all out for me like this guy did so wrong.

[–]lycanthr0py 9 points9 points [recovered]

I gotta say, I think this is weak behavior. You know what would hurt much more? Just tell her that her looks have gone down and you're tired of her. Then just leave. That would be much worse. Probably, when you told her that, she would then say something like "well I've been fucking Thomas!" And hen you say? "Really? I'm sorry for his loss". Then don shades and exit.

[–]TheAloofCat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I disagree. No woman really cares about what the BB thinks, she would just think "what a douche, I'm better without him". Social shaming is huge in comparison, when a girl loses a relationship and KNOWS she's at fault as do the rest of people, her Hamster goes batshit crazy. She will eventually rationalize it as "his loss", but the mere fact that challenges that she's not a snowflake but ho drives them insane.

[–]DMMDestroyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today could have been Red Friday...

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tattoos are a definite red flag. Out of my own experience I can tell that this girl fucked internally. The tied up knot and pink sweater probably hints at this girl not giving a fuck how she appears towards her boy.

Women love their hair and how it makes them look pretty, the worst hairstyle any woman can have is a knot. Why do they all do it? It's comfortable and prevents it from getting all twisted. It's the female equivalent of a man just wearing socks and a t shirt at home.

Remember that the tattoos can just pop up. I knew this girl who had a tiny one when I met her. Small and subtle, of course it was about her last break up. During our relationship she got another small one and a big one on her forearm.

Then after the break up she got another one about her breaking up with me and getting pumped and dumped by the next guy. Granted, I already had a big piece on my shoulder when we met so I could have influenced her. Girl was 20, she'll turn out like this down the line if she wasn't already.

[–]Syberion01 2 points3 points  (3 children)

annnnd facebook ruins another relationship

[–]2IVIaskerade 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, cheating ruins another relationship.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)


Not really. But she isn't either. He seems > 50 and she seems > 40

[–]2IVIaskerade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're probably both early-mid thirties by the looks of them.

[–]jaredschaffer27 1 point2 points  (12 children)

Link to the thread? Would be interested in reading the other comments.

[–]TheSandmanECW -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That was like a Guy Ritchie flick. I fucking love this dude.

[–]LateralThinkerer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget the post/video and read through comments by /u/onepostleft about what he has gone through with his alcoholic/violent mom and how little was ever done about it.

Can't link directly but it'll rip your heart out.

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