Red Pill TheoryVideo dripping with RP truths sitting on the front page. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by littleboyredpill

Basically the side bar in a nicely packaged video for betas.

  1. Don't be a beta orbiter and her emotional tampon.
  2. Stop your bullshit oneitis, ask her out and if she says no, next her ass.
  3. Talk up everyone. I can't count how many times it's been said here.
  4. Go monk mode and work on yourself, make yourself more interesting.

Funny how they eat that shit up when it's packaged in a happy can and shame this group for giving men the exact same information.

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[–][deleted] 174 points175 points  (14 children)

Funny how they eat that shit up when it's packaged in a happy can and shame this group for giving men the exact same information.

This was a hard truth for me to learn. I was idealistic from the start and thought if I could communicate the truth with good intentions, it wouldn't matter how I said it. People would respect me for always trying to be honest and communicate my ideas as clearly and interestingly as possible.

There are great people out there, who will actually read your book despite how ugly the cover art is, but those people are rare. I was lucky enough to have some friends in this category. But how something is said is more important than what is said for the vast majority of people.

My republican, christian grandmother can listen to No Surprises completely oblivious to the darkness of the actual lyrics because it sounds whimsical and happy but as soon as My Sweet Lord comes on, those minor chords depress her, despite how beautiful the lyrics are and in accord with her deepest personal beliefs.

Marketing makes the difference.

[–]antihostile 149 points150 points  (9 children)

“If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you.” - Oscar Wilde

[–]Mintaka7 84 points85 points  (8 children)

Well, that explains why Bill Burr is so famous.

[–][deleted] 24 points24 points

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[–]Mintaka7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Doublethink is a powerful thing.

[–]coffee_and_lumber 5 points5 points [recovered]

With good comedy, there is no such thing as "just comedy". The best comedy is all about truth.

[–]CQC3 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I'm glad I discovered Carlin and Hicks when I did.

[–]zapatosdemadera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bill Burr, like most great comedians, is neither RP or anti-TRP.. he simply DGAF.

It's like the perfect state of being: do what you want to do but be responsible for your actions, say what you believe and don't insincerely apologize simply because other people have a problem. If you have balls - use them!

[–]redkick 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I was idealistic from the start and thought if I could communicate the truth with good intentions, it wouldn't matter how I said it. People would respect me for always trying to be honest and communicate my ideas as clearly and interestingly as possible.

The worst part of it is that you were right. People will respect you on an intellectual level. However, the intellectual level doesn't matter at all, because emotionally they will hate you. So, you get the wrong feedback and feel good about yourself all while your SMV is going down the drain.

On of TRP's core ideas that never gets talked about directly is that these two levels are completely separate, and your only concern is the emotional level. That's why a girl might say that she hates you (that's the intellectual one), but still wants to fuck you. That happens when these two don't agree, the emotional level nearly always wins.

[–]scrantonic1ty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My republican, christian grandmother can listen to No Surprises completely oblivious to the darkness of the actual lyrics because it sounds whimsical and happy but as soon as My Sweet Lord comes on, those minor chords depress her, despite how beautiful the lyrics are and in accord with her deepest personal beliefs.

This is basically The Smiths. Johnny Marr and Morrissey were a match made in heaven.

[–]1rife_omeqa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny how they eat that shit up when it's packaged in a happy can and shame this group for giving men the exact same information.

“If someone doesn't value evidence, what evidence are you going to provide to prove that they should value it? If someone doesn’t value logic, what logical argument could you provide to show the importance of logic?” - Sam Harris

People don't usually value logic, honesty or intent. They value cheap, instantly gratifying emotions and the bliss of ignorance. Of course they are going to eat up content that is specifically made to play on just that.

But how something is said is more important than what is said for the vast majority of people.

Yep. For all things. The how almost always matters more than the what or why because the how caters directly to the cheap emotions without perturbing the ignorant bliss. Whereas the what begs the question why and the why of a thing is usually where the shit hits the fan.

[–]HeadingRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been the story since the dawn of time - women and lyrics. You can have a song about a serial killer who eats kittens alive while setting piles of bibles on fire and if it's sung sweet by a guy she's attracted to its "So romantic".

[–][deleted] 104 points105 points  (14 children)

Because Reddit has been complaining about the friendzone for ages, and people are just starting to wise up to it as the site gets more popular. Reddit's core user base is made up of the textbook definition of a beta orbiter. This website houses some of the most supplicating and beta opinions on women of anywhere on the web, and guys are just starting to see the light.

Seriously, see a mention of the friendzone in a post, and all you have to do to get upvoted a bajillion times is say, "women aren't machines that put out sex when you feed them enough nice tokens." It's the new thing, and it's perfect because it still pedestalizes women by claiming that he's objectifying her (he actually is), and by never mentioning that she totally knows he's into her, but keeps him on a leash anyway.

This is right up Reddit's alley. It's got RP truth in a BP digestible form.

[–]GregariousWolf 61 points61 points [recovered]

"women aren't machines that put out sex when you feed them enough nice tokens."

"Men aren't machines where you put in sex and a relationship come out."

Saw that on TRP a few months back. Looking for the original post.

[–]Endorsed Contributoralways-be-closing 23 points24 points  (0 children)


Being a plate who thinks sexual availability turns into commitment is the female version of being a beta-orbiter male who thinks emotional availability will result in sex.

Men aren't commitment vending machines where you put in sex tokens and a relationship drops into a little tray.

It's an old as dirt analogy - - men can't pay women in commitment and try to get sex, and women can't pay men in sex and get commitment.

If anything, giving it up for free means they don't want to pay for it at all.

There's more to it than that, and it's not like these impulses most soft men and misguided women have are arbitrary and coincidental, but if a beta-orbiter/slut are ever looking for why they don't get the sex/commitment they want, this is pretty much it.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children)


What is this?

[–]GuidoBandito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is right up Reddit's alley. It's got RP truth in a BP digestible form.

Candy coated TRP for the masses. Disturbing when it happens, but instead of shoving it in their faces and gloating about it, these sweetened bitter pills need to be allowed to just appear and hope that at least one person gets that little bit of info and internalizes it.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been here for a few years, and have noticed that trend. Face it, Reddit is full of losers. Average person on the site can't get laid, blames people for their own mistakes (see any political posts, or anything about the Rich), are woefully inexperienced (average age is around college), and want handouts (socialism!)

Most of those things have remained the same or gotten worse. However, when it comes to women there's been a huge shift growing. Things like feminism are clowned on when the movement used to be respected. Rape stats are starting to be questioned. Old tactics are starting to be thrown out. I can see a post from a feminist now and know that many comments will be calling her out on her lies. It's great.

Still dont associate as a redditor at all.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (5 children)

On another note, I often see Red Pill truthes being spouted on 4chan, on /pol/ (politics) and /fit/ (fitness). It's also sometimes discussed on /r9k/, but god damn that place is a festering heap of depressed betas.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There is a big difference between digesting RP truths and actually living your life that way. It's actually way easier for Omegas to swallow the pill because they've never had any success with women in their life. Women completely scorn them, so an anger phase post is only going to reel them in, whereas a beta looks at an anger phase post and thinks, "My unicorn is not like that. She's a sweet, innocent person with positive and negative qualities just like anyone else. These guys are just assholes who can't get laid."

[–]tigerjaws 1 point2 points  (2 children)

the thing about /r9k/ is that the people there KNOW what's wrong with their lifestyle yet don't want to do anything to fix it. They like staying in their secluded lifestyle living in their mom's closet playing video games and eating fucking burger king everyday. It's like a great big circle jerk where everyone's like 'yeah, fuck the outside world, we're the best'

[–]Pwnemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it? I have a friend who turned into one of those r9k types in the last couple years. It's been depressing as shit to watch but also insightful. He can't go outside without a panic attack and it's destroyed his life. These are people so deeply fucked that they have to try and convince themselves that their lives aren't that bad, or else they'll commit suicide. They know they're lying to themselves but it's their self-preservation.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know. It sucks, but hey, it's up to them to sort themselves out. The smart ones leave /r9k/.

[–]spunk_wizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

/r9k/ is the perfect place for black knighting

[–][deleted] 61 points62 points  (43 children)

What I don't get is how people actually have enough time on there hands to be in the friendzone. It must be so emotionally unrewarding, and I don't know why they keep at it.

Then again, I rarely talk to any girls at all so maybe my view is skewed.

[–]billythebeta 67 points68 points  (9 children)

It's because they're brainwashed/conditioned to embrace these fantasies in the hopes that one day she will stop fucking Chad and turn to them instead.

They know it's painful and unrewarding but most betas are conditioned like dogs through the media, school systems, and social conventions to just keep pursuing this sysiphian task.

[–]trpftw 9 points10 points  (3 children)

They usually already have some form of psychological problem or insufficiency or self-loathing. They've got nothing to lose usually.

I also imagine a passive state of being. Where the guy usually has no life other than video games and for some strange reason gets invited to hang out by the girl and the girl gives him some social interaction he never had before. This guy just hangs out and acts as the girl's personal slave and emotional tampon and gets very little out of the friendship but he then starts hoping something more "might" happen. It's this kind of no-life passiveness in social life that might explain the beta orbiter. He's got nothing better to do. He's been told all his life to make friends and be nice to everyone.

He lives in a passive state. He's never had to go out and meet new people. He's never had to make new friends. All his friends in his life, have been served to him on a silver platter by the fact that someone else introduced themselves to him.

[–]R3v4mp3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just described PERFECTLY why there are so many broken people. They learn something and then dwell on that too much and don't experience life. Then when reality hits them, they don't know anything about anything so they search within the only familiar place: the lie they live by.

Great comment man! This should be a post of its own.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

What you have just said describes an earlier period of my own life perfectly, very insightful.

[–]trpftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's I think kinda default for most men. Being passive in social life.

[–]BradPill 1 point2 points  (2 children)

It would be interesting to learn how many friend-zoned guys eventually get to marry the girl. They go different paths, she rides the CC and on hitting the wall the Friendzoned finally gets a chance (as they, of course, stayed in touch!) from the Friendzonee. To me he looks like second (third?) choice, but they make it sound like as if after all these years, they realized there was so much more between them...

[–]billythebeta 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I imagine most of the scenarios that fit this mold end in divorce for the beta

[–]BradPill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most likely, yes. In the meantime, she finds her Chad (new or old) while staying with BB for the kids. Cliche, cliche, cliche...

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Oh absolutely. I was there at one point. You convince yourself that they will turn them down and see you for the great person you are. It's a very black/white mindset and you become so focused on that notion that you don't even realize why she is going for him or the ways you can improve yourself.

Your life you are raised to think of "chad" as the popular asshole who she will eventually wise up and leave for you. You are taught (and I even believed) that waiting for her to mature in her late 20s when you have a good job will be 'winning in the end'. Things like "marriage material" and eventually getting the girl are considered triumphs.

This is reinforced in television, movies, music.... Fantasy.

[–]tb87670 17 points18 points  (21 children)

When in my late teens I was friendzoned. Waste of a year and got nothing, had the balls the walk moment I knew she kissed another guy. I was at least smart enough to know I was in a bad spot and didn't wait for her to get around to fucking him. Never allowed it to happen again while I was blue, several years later found TRP recently.

Sadly I imagine many young men are not smart enough like I was to leave. It's indoctrination across our society, movies, news, everything. The most you can do is maybe send someone towards TRP but only if they are receptive to minor tidbits of red pill advice. It's not even worth the risk to even mention TRP in public with the currently liberal/leftist/feminist atmosphere.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not a waste of a year. That's fucking learning. It gave you the insight needed to be the man you are today. Failures are only a waste if you learn nothing from them

[–]CornyHoosier 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's brainwashing from a young level. Look at all the unnecessary college students in our country who are now slaves to student loans. The vast majority of them didn't need to go to college, but every authority figure in their life said it's what they need to do.

The virgins & neck beards have been told their entire life that if they play nice, be chivalrous and give a girl time enough to see how great they are that they'll eventually get to marry her. It's pretty packaging for a bullshit situation. Because yea, after she has fucked a ton of dudes & is old and washed up, she'll need a new crutch to supplement her lifestyle.

[–]herewegoaga1n 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I don't get is how people actually have enough time on there hands to be in the friendzone.

It's like being addicted to drugs. You're bored with nothing to do and too much money. So you chase that feeling, that high, in some false hope that it'll feel like the first time. If only, (insert random excuse) then I'd be happy and life would be perfect. Pretty soon you're losing friends, chasing the dragon, and broke. Then a new drug hits the market and the vicious cycle starts again.

They play right into a guys innate need to protect and nurture. Evolution has fucked over mankind and the only thing that can save us is the same organ these women love to manipulate. (No, not your dick.)

[–]1Jaereth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It must be so emotionally unrewarding

I'm pretty sure that's where the term "emotional tampon" came from.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's shawshank.

Andy held on because he just kept looking at that dream of freedom, thinking "someday"

Though you can use a spoon to dig through concrete, you can't use emotions to dig through someone elses desires

[–]Stormhammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is emotionally unrewarding. Sure, you can get along well, have mutal interested - basically everything described in that video, but I forgot who said it ( he has a youtube channel, black dude, constantly changes hats in the videos )

"If you're physically unavailable, then I'm emotionally unavailable"

... or was it the other way around.

Either way, basically says " bitch, if you're friendzoning me, I'm out. "

[–]Shift_Tex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was stuck in the friendzone before I found RP, I would continue doing things for her in the hopes that I may do that one thing that impressed her. What made it worse was that she would play along sometimes which made my delusion even worse. When I finally did tell her how "I felt" she rejected me without a second thought. You know the rest of the story, denial leading to anger phase leading to RP. Thank god for RP or I probably would have found another girl to be friendzoned by.

[–]letsgetrandy 0 points1 point  (2 children)

In a world where 77% of marriages end in divorce, kids are being raised by women without a strong father figure present to teach them what's right.... so they learn dating from what mommy tells them and from what they see in movies.

[–]dkjfk295829 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I agree with not having a father figure, but your statistic is incorrect.

[–]letsgetrandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

88.2% of statistics are made up on the spot.
    — Abraham Lincoln

[–]Sneeksl 38 points38 points [recovered]

The packaging of TRP works for me, I like the tone and even the more extreme applications too. The packaging is what is being criticised more often than not, alongside the extremes some posters take it to. With that said, I may not apply even most of the theories to my sexual strategy and it has nothing to do with the packaging in my case.

The lack of tone policing allows for 'ugly' topics to be discussed and for the dead horse in other areas to be continually beaten with an occasional jab to see what happens instead.

We acknowledge that TRP doesn't sit well with society at large and we're fine with receiving and adapting what's discussed here to our own lives.

I'm glad that there are people out there slapping a different brand on sexual strategy. There have been many times where I've abandoned giving advice to friends that are seeking it due to the exposure that may result. Many men can benefit from things discussed here, most of them will reject it due to the packaging.

Other PC alternatives, while they may be lacking in some uncomfortable truths, allow the message to reach out through the mainstream. With the end of Zoo magazine and other adolescent male media that I found some gems in while growing up, I'm glad that there are accessible guides appearing for PC friendly culture.

I may not appreciate tone policing, but I'm damn sure there are a lot of confused men that will benefit from repackaged guides such as these that give them some actionable guidance over the more common "be yourself, change nothing and one day the god of your devotions will place you in the same apartment building as the one for you".

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It's what drew me to TRP as well. I've always been a fan of honesty and an open space where you can say fucked up things without judgement. We're all thinking some fucked up stuff, why are we making it a popularity contest about who can say the right things and not sound fake? I've had a lot of friends over the years who had some really fucked up views on life, but I knew what they were about, and I appreciated that I could say things to them that we didn't agree on and not have it blow up.

My old roommate used to tell me all about how he was fucking some married girl. I'm not really about that. That's where I draw my line, but I'm not the moral police, and I had some laughs over his ridiculous schemes to get her to go away with him. I've got friends from home that I can shoot the shit with about anything. They're pretty liberal guys, and they buy into a lot of feminist crap, but I can get drunk and spit some RP truth (though I still don't use the terminology) and they just pat me on the back, laugh, and call me a funny, drunk misogynist.

We're all thinking fucked up stuff. If you're not letting any of it out how can I trust you?

[–]Jaereth 21 points21 points [recovered]

The packaging is what is being criticised more often than not, alongside the extremes some posters take it to.


TRP is criticized because it's an exclusively male empowerment space.

TRP could be toned down until it's just as tame as that youtube video. The groups that drag us through the mud now would be just as hateful to us.

Ever see the posts where we are a bunch or rapists and woman beaters? It doesn't matter what this community says we will always be hated because of who we are. A place of empowerment exclusively for men and discussion of how to "handle" women.

Feminist leaning "empowered" women can't stand that. They are trying to infiltrate every realm that is exclusively masculine. I think it's realized that would never happen in a community like this, so they just opt to try and destroy it with libel instead.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The branding has a great drive... the way men talk to each other in a language that girls cannot understand.

It's the online version of the old gentlemens clubs. It's something thats ours, that isn't driven by 'benevolent women'. Since the dads wern't there to teach most of us (or whatever reason) we do it ourselves.

[–]DIDNT_READ_YOUR_SHIT 9 points9 points [recovered]

Everything was good up until he said "talk to your cute coworker"...

[–]Donald_Fuck 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I take it more as feeling entitled to talking to a cute coworker, rather than make excuses for why you shouldn't. Don't shit where you eat could have been added but I believe it was included in the video for "talk to everyone".

[–]widec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say it depends on your job. If it's a job you don't care about, you can flirt with your coworkers all you want. I consider it one of the few benefits to working a shitty part time minimum wage gig. Just don't let any women conflict with your career.

[–]spunk_wizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you work part time at a shop as a uni student, I don't see this being anything but a productive activity.

Unless you're a full blown beta, then you could come off as 'creepy' and complained about. Have some charisma and a little bit of flirting at the work place is a very healthy thing - considering the outcome independence

[–]Exogyra_Ponderosa 15 points16 points  (5 children)

Holy shit, This IS me. Oneitis was the only reason I discovered the red-pill. Being in this scenario really is confusing as an unaware Beta, so many of these sad fucks never get the opportunity to understand Women's motivations. I'm glad I got a chance to.

[–]topazsparrow 12 points13 points  (2 children)

so many of these sad fucks never get the opportunity to understand Women's motivations

I think that's why this video is so well received actually. It doesn't attempt to explain the motivations of women. It just gives men a solution. This naturally appeals to men as we see Problem > Solution. The women "contributing" to the thread don't have to try and rationalize the behavior or nature of women and can instead focus on other things that don't derail and shame the male contributors.

Though it's not without it's share of "Eww guys who talk to me to try and date me are creepy". Which is also pleasantly met with "...unless they're attractive" and the hamsters begin to spin.

[–]systemshock869 3 points3 points [recovered]

A broken clock is right twice a day.. SNL did a skit where the premise was basically x, y and z are sexual harassment, unless you're attractive. Bet those same hamsters didn't even give the SNL skit a second thought. Make em laugh and you can say 2000% 'worse' things to someone without them picking up on it.

[–]NSmaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)


For those wanting to see the video.

[–]BlackJ1 7 points8 points  (1 child)

The hardest part about swallowing and learning the Red Pill is the fact that some guys will grow old and die and never hear the truth.

topazsparrow, explained it well. Solutions are a lot more appealing to men as oppose to understanding WHY we implement the solution, hence the problem.

My only question right now is will guys even take this advice or still be plugged in.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably still be plugged in unfortunately. Most know that its bad to be in the friendzone however they don't have the tools, confidence or self awareness to get out of it.

[–]BlueFreedom420 6 points7 points  (2 children)

"I wish they also mentioned that having a female friend is not the end of the goddamn world. If she doesn't like you back, sure. Move on. Just don't lead her on like you're friends if all you want to do is fuck her."

This comment got 222 fucking points. "leading her on" ?? WTF. Women know you want to fuck them. They don't have male friends, they have a tool in which they can extract services without fucking ( IE exchanging anything in return). The man is the one who is being used in any female/male "friendship"

I swear that some people will be blue pill until they are in the fucking coffin.

[–]MeltzerDriver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You forgot this part of that post..

In fact, she can probably hook you up with one of HER cute friends. Or give you some feedback on how you can talk to the opposite sex.

I seriously haven't laughed that hard in awhile. What a gem.

[–]sqrt7744 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find it really hard to believe what an idiot I was back in the day. I also had a girl in my mind all the time, and even the awesome girls I did date back then were always second to this stupid idea I had of that one girl who hardly reciprocated my feelings at all. I wasted so many valuable years of my youth being non-commital, thinking that eventually it would work out with That One Girl, which of course it never did. I feel some anger when I think about it, mostly directed and my own youthful stupidity.

[–]ironblacksmith 4 points5 points  (8 children)

The advice at the end is not bad advice per se. It's just tinted so blue, I feel like no matter what you say, it's just a bunch of feel good nonsense. I enjoyed Simple Pickup when they just made funny videos.

[–]Letters567 14 points14 points [recovered]

Got to go where the cash flow is.

[–]wimmyjales 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Exactly. The minute I got a job in media writing scripts, I'd sell out all you motherfuckers and write the the most beta shit ever if it meant I'd get the big bucks. It ain't my mission to save fuckboys.

[–]TRPMaidenSlayer 1 point2 points  (3 children)

I'm happily in an LTR, and I gotta say that video motivated the fuck out of me. I'm not even sure what it motivated me to do, but I'm extremely happy it's out there with that many views.

I think it was perfectly executed. This is how you market.

[–]ironblacksmith 6 points7 points  (2 children)

I agree with everything you said, but I think that's exactly the problem. The video is motivating and it's very well executed. But motivation comes and goes, we know this here. That's why I say it's feel good nonsense. Someone who genuinely needs it may hear the advice, be extremely motivated, maybe do something about it, but as long as they're in the blue pill they're not seeing the fundamental underlying reason for their behavior. I think that's the only way to truly address the problem and behavior. But it may just be me.

[–]TRPMaidenSlayer 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Right. The video is a way of bringing a horse to water. Can't force it to drink.

At least the viewer will check out some of their other videos and possibly sign up. It's a good sales/marketing tactic and I bet it's converted decently well considering the video going viral.

The only next hope is that they're selling a decent lifestyle, not a lame 12-step program. I really don't know anything about the Pickup Marketing scene, never cared for all that. Took what I needed and peaced out of it.

[–]TRP Vanguardnicethingyoucanthave 8 points9 points  (2 children)

they eat that shit up when it's packaged in a happy can

One thing I've learned from the debate sub is that many people define The Red Pill as, "the set of things that I disagree with." In other words, if you tell them (a) (b) and (c) and they happen to agree with (a) and (b) then they'll say, "well yes, everyone already knows (a) and (b). TRP is (c) and (c) is wrong!"

I have a guilded post from right here in TRP from a year ago that says a lot of what's in that video. Check it out Seriously - it's so close to the video that I want to accuse them of plagiarism. I said that a Blue pill guy harbors unrealistic fantasies, and fails to make his desires known. Red pill guy acts quickly, and if he's rejected, he moves on to another girl, and he chats up lots of women, not just one.

That was good advice a year ago. It's good advice in that video.

[–]Chrience 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That was good advice a year ago. It's good advice in that video.

Yes, and its now shown to thousands of redditors. The sad thing is that the vast majority of these people are already so deeply invested in the myths that men and women are exactly equal and think alike (and that women deserve preferential treatment in spite of this 'equality' at the same time) that it's likely this video will be filtered out of their minds in a couple of weeks. They'll think 'hah, well MY girlfriend isn't like that' and then the advice is forgotten .

I'd personally like to see the RP message that women are ruthlessly hypergamous and that men should therefore start raising their value, packaged in the same BP friendly way, like a bp friendly intro to Monk Mode. I believe THIS is what would make some sort of a change if BP men at least gave it a thought.

The message about detaching from a oneitis is useless if you're still ignorant enough to be over attached to the girl you eventually 'get' using this advice, but if you were encouraged to just raise your SMV instead and ignore girls for a while, and girls then flock to you, you'd naturally discover that wonderful thing women hate you having as a man, Abundance Mentality because no man with abundance can be owned by any woman.

[–]afkb39sdfb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a guilded post from right here in TRP from a year ago that says a lot of what's in that video. Check it out[1] Seriously - it's so close to the video that I want to accuse them of plagiarism.

TRP has been talking about this stuff longer than a year. Your not the first person to have this idea. Bring down your ego a few notchs.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whats the surprise? Take out the branding, and the inner speak, and you have an extremely palatable set of ideas

[–]BramRhodesDouglas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha it's funny because it shows what a bunch of grim shmucks we are at TRP. This is the normal bleak TRP advice repackaged in YouTube friendly Buzzfeed wrapper and people are eating this shit up.

[–]throwzaway3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm pretty excited that this is becoming a more popular thing. What's ironic is that there are actually a lot of feminists that are aligned with this very same idea...they don't like the "nice guy" shit either.

I wish I would have had this video when I was about 16 years old. Jesus I could have saved myself a shit load of time. I'm absolutely convinced that it's media that does it to young men....media and single mothers.

[–]ReasonFreak 2 points3 points  (1 child)

My Take, the mainstream is capable of accepting implicit TRP, provided you don't go too in depth and avoid any explicit TRP terminology.

If you want to help men who are still plugged in then the best way to go about it is to stick to the aspects of the philosophy that speak directly to men and avoid getting into the harsh truths about female nature behind that advice. Construct your language around a narrative of self improvement and independence, don't even mention girls. If the hypothetical blue piller in your life is able to successfully internalize a few TRP concepts he may just unplug himself.

[–]omanisherin 1 point2 points  (1 child)

All the simple pickup videos are well done.

[–]Kwantuum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't even watch it when it came up in my feed because the title was announcing a horribly cringe worthy vid. In the end it's pretty good advice and well made.

[–]TRP_Solstice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw it last night, at first I thought that I was browsing this sub, but then I realized that I was on the front page. The video contains many of the truths that we share, maybe it's the red pill in a syrup form, makes it a little easier to swallow.

[–]Gawernator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad that RP truths have essentially transformed my life RE: interactions with women, and society as a whole in some ways.

Can't ever imagine living in the dark again.

[–]prodigy2throw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don't hate the message they hate the messenger.

[–]Stonish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oO I was not bothered to watch it just because I thought its another bullshit video and I see it here. Oh irony. I agree, that's some rp truth out there.

[–]letsgetrandy 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Funny how they eat that shit up when it's packaged in a happy can and shame this group for giving men the exact same information.

This group gets shamed because it tolerates posts from people who haven't completed the transformation. Outsiders looking in can't tell the difference between Red Pill philosophy and the bitter misogyny of those just starting down the path.

[–]chiefbriand 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I am part of their closed forum, which has about 2'000 members. I've been posting a fuckton of quotes from the redpill handbook and have been telling people to go check out this subreddit. Without a redpill foundation you will never be as successful with woman as you want to be — even with the right pickup techniques.

[–]BlueFreedom420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is Morpheus giving neo a choice between a blue pill and a red pill covered in rich milk chocolate.

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lmao SP still alive and well

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

The difference between this video and TRP is that this video does not put women in a negative light.

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What is this?

[–]Dylan_Tnga 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Cool video, but really this is pretty simple stuff to figure out on your own... kind of sad that BP males need this shit spoon fed to them.

[–]letsgetrandy 4 points5 points  (3 children)

If it was so simple to figure out, why are there so many blue pillers out there?

Cognitive dissonance is a tricky thing when it's in your own head, but it can look like insanity when you see it in someone else.

[–]Dylan_Tnga 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I guess. But the way I see it, is that the oneitis thing they described in the video is something that is exclusive to teenagers, not men. I think it's perfectly normal to feel like this "Shes the one, blah blah friendzone life unfair blah blah blah" when you're between the ages of like... 13 - 20 or so years old.

If you can't figure out how this shit actually works by the time you hit 25... you're in trouble. I didn't need TRP to tell me about this stuff because it's common sense....

Anyway, if it can help some BP betas see the error of their ways, all the power to the people who made this video.

[–]letsgetrandy 1 point2 points  (1 child)

If you think oneitis is a condition you can just grow out of at 20, I invite you to talk to every guy who's currently in the middle of a divorce. It takes a different shape as you get older, but it doesn't just go away on its own.

[–]Dylan_Tnga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true. I've gone through a divorce, hardest part was that 2 kids are in the picture.... it was a really rough break up. And for at least a year afterwards I was trying to get her back before I finally moved on...

Thing is though, I've crushed on / fallen for women since her that I knew I couldn't get with for whatever reason, and I had no problem moving on to the next one even if I realllllly liked the girl. Maybe going through a serious LTR / Divorce helped me with doing the "next" thing, because I was a serious oneitis case beforehand, that's for sure..

[–]1raceAround126 0 points1 point  (2 children)

While I concur with everything in that video, the reality of the friend-girl meltdown is EQUALLY as true.

When men want out of that friend-zone, they will get all manner of psychological warfare from said pedestal girl! They will question why you're suddenly going to the gym and doing all this cool shit without them, they will get with one of your friends to fuck up that social group you are a part of without her (happened to me twice before I found the red pill) and will shame you for not wanting to "just hang out" and instead want to go do something else.

Women want their beta orbiters just as much as those beta orbiters imagine that fairytale romance. It works both ways. And yes, the women are FAR MORE venomous when it comes to keeping that dynamic intact.

The only other thing I would caveat is that I am convinced the UK and USA are just different places entirely. Complete foreigners separated by a common language.

I have NEVER in all my years been able to just "strike up" a conversation with a girl or guy in many of the contexts in that video or even ones which TRP mandates as good spots. This is the UK. If you just start randomly talking to someone in a coffee shop, a train station, on the street, in a store, the fact is they're going to think that you're a nut-nut! The people in the UK are not welcoming to this sort of behavior. They will look at you weirdly, they will want to just grab their coffee and run because they're late for their "meeting" (everyone in London especially has a vast sense of over self-importance).

The places I meet girls are usually clubs, gigs and events I put on or attend. If it wasn't for that social aspect of myself, I don't think I would meet a single girl in all of the UK. Maybe my game sucks, maybe the fact I play guitar in a gigging band is my only saving grace, but even round-the-campfire talk with mates and girlfriends of mates, the prospect of some guy no matter how good looking randomly walking up to you in the middle of Starbucks and trying to hit on you is just very much not welcome.

Maybe some UK TRP'ers have a different perspective. I don't know...

[–]avatarrangg 1 points1 points [recovered]

I'd be willing to bet everything that you don't hold frame in the UK, as you do in the U.S.

[–]1raceAround126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would bet totally different there too but then I've never attempted to date an American.

There are stark differences between some eastern euro girls and British. Very big differences.

[–]ChildOfTheLostTribes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The jerk off part was hilarious.

[–]MeltzerDriver 0 points1 point  (2 children)

TRP truths have been discussed in philosophy, books, radio, the poker table, locker rooms and gentleman's clubs for centuries. They've all been talked about using different verbiage, but it's still the same. If you ever want to unplug somebody, avoid linking them to this subreddit (As it can be intimidating at times, due to the amount of guys posting who are still in the anger phase) and instead show them RP examples from comedians like Patrice O'Neal and Bill Burr, or philosophers/musicians/actors.

Quote from a thread I made awhile back. If you want to tell people the truth, do it in a comedic fashion (or very covertly). You can have plausible deniability and they're much more likely to not take offence to it as well.

[–]Eugenics2015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Betas are not human. I will not even be friends with a beta, their life fail is contagious.

[–]foldpak111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humor relieves cognitive dissonance.

[–]1mr_nate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how hypocritical bloopers are. They'll eat material like this up, and then turn around with pitchforks and torches to tear TRP down.