A Quick Word- Hey. It’s been awhile. FYI I’m still on RP lurking. I’m not dead. I’ve been busy. Mad busy. But as busy as I’ve become, I still have gallons of RP I want to dump on your heads. So. As compensation I’ll be making smaller “snippet” posts until things settle down for me.
So you’ve noticed you’re consistently grabbing the attention of the hottest girl at the bar. But how exactly do you go about plating her?
Don't you worry. OmLaLa’s back to give you a hand. So let’s get started.
Remove the rose-tinted glasses.
Ever hear of the halo effect? It boils down to this: if you’re hot, people believe you can do no wrong. The keyword here though is believe.
I guarantee to you that any other-worldly attractive chick you meet has some serious baggage. And how do I know this? Because of the halo effect. If everyone around her constantly sees her as blameless, she’s almost certain to go down some dark paths with little to no resistance.
How can you benefit from this? Be assertive with her, zero tolerance and firm. Be her daddy.
Not literally her daddy.
She’s used to even high-tier alphas bending to her just for a chance to fuck. Show interest, give kino, but DO NOT BEND. If she says or does something you find unacceptable (which she will because she’s stepped on men for X years), tell her flat out. If she asks what you like or what you want, be direct. And if she keeps persisting with the shit tests…
Walk away while you’re in control.
Oh my god. Do this a lot. Especially with hot chicks. They can’t stand the thought of being (nonchalantly) dumped. Indifference is your greatest weapon.
I’m serious. Try it. Get a girl at least semi-invested in you in some way, wait for her to try and start an argument or debate over something stupid, don’t engage, say something neutral like “Ok” (as if you didn’t hear a word she just said) and walk off. You don’t actually have to leave the place. Go piss or something.
It’s one thing to say you have no problem leaving her, but to actually show her how quickly you can drop all interest and walk off on her (something she’s probably never experienced) makes you all the more valuable and interesting. A man who can’t be caged or caught always sparks intrigue, especially if she's used to easily catching men. Use that.
Remember: People want what they can’t have and people always want to tame the untamable.