Take a Break From the Pill

Swallowed_the_pill · 2016-08-05T14:33:27+00:00

The quality posts are getting further and further apart from each other. There's too many "women are stupid, evil, abusive etc..." posts. This is exactly how the feminists we despice argue. "The world around me is the problem, not me."

Adapt and work hard. If you want to point your finger, point it at yourself. Improve your strengths, wash out your weaknesses or wear them like armor. Channel your hate towards lifting the weights in the gym.

Improve your social skills and watch the world dance around your little finger. Improve your physique and be proud of looking yourself in the mirror. Stop dreaming and start doing.

hawkeaglejesus · 2016-08-05T15:58:14+00:00

good post!

i remember a vanguard once saying about trp that it is a hospital for broken men.

you cure, regain strenght, then step back out into the real world.

don't stay in hospital for the rest of your life.

redpillschool · 2016-08-05T14:25:41+00:00

Hey, this is bad for business. Stop trying to send away my subscribers!

But in all seriousness, you really need to get in the field and take a break for perspective. Then come back and reread the sidebar and see how your new perspective sheds light on what you know.

Obviously doing too much of anything will burn you out eventually.

Stay in touch with the community itself though, it's a good network of guys, even if the raw theory itself becomes a little repetitive. There are some really cool guys on the IRC and on trp.red.

jeezydasnowman · 2016-08-05T14:49:39+00:00

Exactly. Maybe 20% of the guys on here lift. Then of that maybe 20% approach. There's a reason in life why there's a top 1% ... only 1% ACT. The rest talk or, in the case of trp, type.

Wu-TangB4jesus · 2016-08-05T14:20:51+00:00

I try not to read trp anymore, there's a point where you've read enough and need to go out and apply it

jackandjill22 · 2016-08-05T17:33:17+00:00

Your post resonates with me and my whole experiences reading material on manosphere/PUA forums along with the redpill.

When I first stumbled onto the manosphere after a "how to get girls to like you" google search from about 5 years ago, I felt like I stumbled into a treasure trove of wisdom and knowledge on sexual dynamics that I had never known or been aware of. Like Moses receiving the 10 commandments or something. You learn this body of knowledge and everything just clicks and works when you apply it.

I was all ready a pretty sociable guy and "cool" within my social circle. But I just never had a girlfriend. I could never keep a girl interested in me. Then I started working C+F routines, pea cocking, and doing general PUA shit when I'd go out and saw positive results. I even had one week where I banged 3 different girls 3 days in a row.

But the girls never stuck around. They would lose interest after like 2-3 weeks and it would drive me into an emotional wreck. I would cut them off or get all emotional and get into an argument or tell them they're "not like the other girls and I just feel this deep connection" type shit.

Then I became bitter. Thinking all women are sluts. They're all shitty, psycho etc.. I entered an LTR with a female friend of mine for about a year. Then we broke up mainly due to the both of us being way to neurotic to handle each other. 4 months later she had a new boyfriend who was better looking, made more money, and I was bitter/jaded to hell. Also, in this time I fell out of my social circle. People stopped calling me. I became bitter, angry, alone, jaded. Nobody likes me. Nobody wants to be around me.

Then I realized, with the help of the red pill that the problem is me.

When I say that, I don't mean that my ex girlfriend or none of the girls I dated were perfect little angels. They had their faults too. No one is perfect. However, my own faults and folly were the reason I was attracting these people into my life.

I was insecure and never felt good enough, so I would get concerned about my girlfriend leaving me for other guys.. I was skinny fat and my skin wasn't great.. Not a pizza face but occasional zits. I had a shitty job and no plans/goals for the future other than fucking off drinking beer and smoking pot. I felt insecure about never having been in an LTR with a girl and being a virgin until I was 22. My parents were both addicts / absentee, I felt no connection or direction from them and they put me down a lot and only showed admiration for achievements which they could use to boost their own ego which was really the foundation for my low self-esteem..

The red pill actually helped me realize all of this.. Despite the constant revenge/outrage porn spotlighting all of the shitty women out there.

TRP helped me realize it's time to sack up and step up to the plate. That I had to play the hand I was dealt instead of wallowing deeper and deeper into this pit of negativity and psychological self-flagellance.

I started lifting. I started running. I started cycling. Exercise is truly the miracle drug. It's meditative (mind healing), makes you stronger, increases your cardiovascular health, fixes your posture, prevents debilitating/life threatening disease in some cases.

Exercise served as a foundation for boosting my self-worth with small achievements and victories every day. Running that mile 5 seconds faster than yesterday, biking a 10 mile loop and doing 100 pushups before it's even fucking 9 AM and time to go to work. Being able to do 4 sets of 12 reps each on a weight that I could not even lift 6 months ago.

EXERCISE DOES WONDERS FOR ONE'S BRAIN AND SELF ESTEEM.

I got myself educated, graduated CC and am now in a prestigious top tier university finishing my bachelor's degree doing extremely well with a high GPA. It's a goal of mine to graduate university with distinction.

Today, I am a much different man than I was my whole life. It feels as though I spent 20 something years of my life in this mental prison and have finally been released. I mean, I'm not getting laid like crazy or anything at the moment, but I'm more focused on my career goals and general self-improvement at the moment. I also now have the confidence to say I probably COULD go out and have a ONS if I wanted or get that cute girl's number at a party. I don't have to give my commitment to some thot because I know there's an LTR quality girl somewhere who would be proud to be seen with me. The Red Pill helped me evolve toward becoming a top 20% guy.

In the past, I felt like a desert wanderer thirsty for water. Desperate, supplicating, will do anything for it! However in my wandering I have stayed alive, put in the work, dedication, and persistence to keep from metaphorically dying and falling into the pit of despair, depression.. And now, I have found the rushing clean stream of water! The key to life, and with it attracts many animals I can hunt to feed myself. I will soon be able to feed others, thus attracting their admiration, loyalty and my ability to preserve this legacy.

It all begins with one having the fight to stay alive in their wandering and searching until they find the truth (the stream of clean water) and they shall be set free.

PragmaticRedTruth · 2016-08-05T13:13:41+00:00

You did a good job of explaining someone who is at a stand still.

What's happening here?

You are going through a period of denial.

You are looking to become a part of a lifestyle with other men you can talk about it with.

You are afraid to take responsibility and action.

You are chocking on the very pill you've come to enjoy and know as the realz, and regurgitating the tangible aspect. You are, in essence, a fucking hamster.

It's like spinning your tires in the mud, the engine is gassed up, the car is on, but you're not going anywhere because you fear taking responsibility, and you're searching for the truth you're still slightly in denial about.

The only way to stop this, is to learn balance. Don't make TRP your life... make becoming alpha your life.

Taking a break is good. Learning balance and discipline is better... using anger as fuel for action, is better.

Do this by removing the bad habit of constantly sitting on the internet and replacing it with the 1000 suggestions you've read on TRP. Stop in, write about it once a week, and get right back to it.

Thizzlebot · 2016-08-05T17:01:41+00:00

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What is this?

E_Sex · 2016-08-05T17:16:21+00:00

From what I've seen TRP is definitely a good thought experiment for any man, but if you're allowing internet philosophy to dictate how you live your love you're doing it wrong. For every absolutely terrible woman out there who takes advantage of men and get place in society there's an equally angelic woman.

My point being that women and men both can be despicable people, but that doesn't mean you ought to be a pessimistic recluse who only sees women as game. They are, in fact, people. You can whine and complain all you want, but once you accept the nature of women and men as imperfect and realize that that's okay, you'll find you're QoL improve a lot. Love people for who/what they are but love yourself more. This place can really be a breeding ground for hate and that hate will deep into your mindset which ultimately can cause depression and self-hate as well as hate for the world. If that is you, you might think your eyes are "opened," but really they couldn't be more closed.

empatheticapathetic · 2016-08-06T03:59:23+00:00

Many of us have overdosed on TRP and suffered the ill effects, I went crazy reading and reinforcing all my anger towards women. I was pretty mean to some girls who really did nothing that bad. Overdosing can make you blind to women who will enrich your life. I have a viscious cold at the moment and the waitress at my local cafe made me hot water with lemon and honey because she heard my cough, she just put it in front of me because she is a sweet girl. Not coz Im alpha, not coz she is AWALT, because she is a sweetie. Too much TRP can make you blind to some of the great women out there. Just because many women act like total cunts does not mean they all will. Good post OP

anangryterrorist · 2016-08-05T15:01:29+00:00

Correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't MGTOW start as that "extreme corner"? I thought celibacy was a corner stone of the original concept.

2016-08-05T14:16:13+00:00

Don't become obsessed with any online forum. This is just a resource for you to live a real life. This is not a substitute for whatever else you were using to avoid your life before.

IMHO, its probably healthiest to 1) buy the books on the sidebar and start reading 2) go to the gym regularly 3) stay off any addicting internet. The best posts and theories from here are already on the sidebar, you're not going to miss anything earth shattering.

fruxzak · 2016-08-05T17:16:42+00:00

How to use TRP: Read sidebar. Never come back here again.

99% of posts are complete garbage, filled with hate.

Merica911 · 2016-08-05T18:32:45+00:00

Wasn't a post like this removed last month?

offthebeatmeoff · 2016-08-05T17:06:50+00:00

Great post man. I know how you feel. I feel like one of the lucky guys on this forum who had mostly positive experience with women, before I ever started reading this stuff. Of course I've had horrible expreriences too that I rather not go too deep into, but I blame myself for most of them. I read this stuff so I could gain an edge and make myself even better at everything, and it helped. I read NMMNG which was a cool read, and helped me tweak my behavior slightly and I'm about to finish 48 laws of power which gave the hindsight to see why I drove one of my relationships to the ground. It's cool useful stuff. A lot of girls are pretty cool and nice. Like us or at least like me they're self conscious and crave acceptance and friendship from people they like or think are cool/interesting. When I need a place to stay for the night when I'm visiting a city I know 5 or 6 chicks that would give me a bed, and I only slept with 2 of them, the others are just friends. Reading this stuff too much will make you paranoid that girls are manipulative geniuses. Some of them are, but you can spot them pretty easy with experience. Go out, have a good time, be normal and don't try to make everything so black and white because it's not.

DJGammaRabbit · 2016-08-05T16:14:17+00:00

Not even a break - once you've absorbed what you needed - just leave. What's nice is after a year of reading this stuff you stop caring about it anyways and you just keep being you, probably slowly but surely improving just because you're more aware. We have all of this information and its basis in reality is so eye opening that we don't feel like we want to live with it, then realizing this is the way it has always been and will be and the shock subsides to become more or less a fun challenge as if you're hitting on a girl for the fuck of it, holding no expectation. That's when you can relax, you're comfortable being yourself. We see all the time TRP saying "don't give a fuck", but completely misses the paradox of not giving a fuck about not giving a fuck, which kinda means you give a fuck. At one point it becomes too much on-paper and it isn't fun at all. Mentally it is hard work. Why waste all your time on something that could be put to better use, like having fun with real life. There's only ever been one major, upsetting factor for me that I wish were not true: women are incapable of unconditional love. If there's one TRP thing I believe where AWALT it is that. If you change, they change. If you don't change, they don't change. That's "frame". They're like a mirrors reflection and they instinctually look to us to be leaders who make decisions. They're like fucking do-do birds sometimes.

Seoul_Brother · 2016-08-05T17:02:59+00:00

One could say, you're taking a chill pill when you stop reading.

2016-08-05T18:44:47+00:00

There was a post just like this last month. Were you taking a break from theredpill then?

Rommel0502 · 2016-08-06T19:09:13+00:00

FWIW, I dont get the "its so painful to swallow the pill" notion that gets bantered about here sometimes. When I stumbled on this site, I felt like I found the Rosetta Stone of SMV. Ive always had a very evolutionary mindset of sexual relationships, but this place pulled everything together coherently in one spot. Was enlightening, not painful.

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-08-05T15:27:43+00:00

If you are angry then that's still novice level.

There should be no emotion other than Amused Mastery.

If a "Jerry Springer Show" makes you angry you aren't there yet.

First we "Kill the Beta"
Then we develop a strong Frame
Finally we laugh at life.

Now, I'll have to add that in the big picture it's no laughing matter as the Globalist Tyranny is a reality that drives this whole corrupt world we are passing through, but you have to realize that this dark side of humanity has always existed and always will exist. There are limits to the dark forces because as they near absolute power they get arrogant and tend to screw up and that makes them collapse. So there is sort of a big picture versus small picture angle on all this.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Major_Arcana

The Major Arcana or trumps are a suit of twenty-two cards in the 78-card Tarot deck. They serve as a permanent trump and suits in games played with the Tarot deck, and are distinguished from the four standard suits collectively known as the Minor Arcana.[1] The terms "Major" and "Minor Arcana" are used in the occult and divinatory applications of the deck, and originate with Jean-Baptiste Pitois, writing under the name Paul Christian.[2]

The fact that we question the Tarot as to whether it be a method or a doctrine shows the limitation of our 'three dimensional mind', which is unable to rise above the world of form and contra-positions or to free itself from thesis and antithesis! Yes, the Tarot contains and expresses any doctrine to be found in our consciousness, and in this sense it has definiteness. It represents Nature in all the richness of its infinite possibilities, and there is in it as in Nature, not one but all potential meanings. And these meanings are fluent and ever-changing, so the Tarot cannot be specifically this or that, for it ever moves and yet is ever the same.[7]

rob_holloway · 2016-08-05T13:39:20+00:00

Great Post. Everything you said here resonated with me personally. Sometimes I feel like I spend too much time reading and not enough time actually applying and enjoying my life. Knowing all of this about woman can sometimes be intimidating but I definitely am going to make a point to improve over all. Great job again!

askmrcia · 2016-08-05T16:52:20+00:00

Am I the only guy here that think you guys are blowing this shit out of proportion? Most of those women bashing posts gets downvoted and deleted within a hour.

Most of those ego stroke field reports get called out.

This is an Internet forum. I mean what the hell do you guys expect? You actually think some Internet forum is going to be perfect? All of y'all complaints can be said about any fuckin sub reddit, YouTube post, Facebook post, ect... On the Internet.

PaperStreetVilla · 2016-08-05T18:10:05+00:00

I first started reading TRP a few years ago. It wasn't like this so much then. There were really interesting, insightful posts on the front page at any given time.

Lately, I've mostly stopped reading TRP and mostly stopped contributing (I used to write posts semi-regularly) because it seems to me the posts have gotten SO bad, the analysis SO infrequent, and so much whining, that it's stopped being interesting. I don't want thing that I couldn't stand is that it became common for new guys to start writing these grandstanding advice posts. Like people who hadn't even read the sidebar yet filling the subreddit with their advice for the rest of us. I don't want to hear about women's bad behavior without any meaningful analysis attached. This isn't the "random anecdotes about bitches" sub.

This toxicity you're describing is a result of the declined standards that came along with our increased popularity. The TRP I first subscribed to a few years ago was not like this.

circlhat · 2016-08-05T19:05:19+00:00

When we have a new influx of members we tend to get shit post like these, its a misrepresentation and a blue pill ideology to virtue signal to women. It seems you are trying to find balance were these is none.

Another problem that I faced, and I don't know if anyone else does/did, was misogyny. We constantly proclaim the fact that we aren't misogynists. We accept women for who they are, and work with it to the best of our benefit. Or some of us go to the extreme corner inside of MGTOW, and cut them off completely.

Mgtow is not extreme, I'm not Mgtow because I'm unhappy without women, but to say that men shouldn't opt out the system shows you know nothing about Mgtow.

Most Mgtows are divorced in lost everything and their only crime was loving a women. Sure they weren't excited or attractive but it wasn't because of looks but because of a beta attitude.

I swear every 2 weeks we get a post saying don't hate women, you know what I been told that my entire life.

oo many people here are stuck being angry, writing shit posts, and basically giving everyone the idea that we are all fat neckbeards in our mom's basements who can't get women, and so turn to complaining about alphas and whatnot.

Show me? I don't see any, Alpha is the most important concept you will ever learn.

tl;dr More male bashing

ChickenBalotelli · 2016-08-05T15:53:34+00:00

Yeah, "All woman are like That" kinda ticks me off. This is a blatant logical fallacy....I mean, if you look up logical fallacies, it literally is one of them.....the idea that from a small sample, (it's impossible to meet every single one of them) you can draw a perfect conclusion about the entire population, that "every single woman is like that."

I love this community, but I'd like some harder logic applied, instead of letting these things be regurgitated thousands of times. Maybe a list of logical fallacies would be helpful in the sidebar, as this is a dvlp-ment community.

Stythe · 2016-08-05T16:56:03+00:00

This is true of anything you don't take a break from. Everything in moderation.

I agree with you on the women posts. While the idea of AWALT may prove true, it's not like all women are pieces of shit. More importantly, how you are treated is representative of where you are in life.

If you take everything here literally it's not good. You never know the situation of the person writing the post, you never know the situation of the women they talk about or the circumstances they describe. It's all second hand. You interpret and take what you need and apply it, but tale it with a grain of salt.

just_a_thought4U · 2016-08-05T18:07:13+00:00

Swallowing the red pill sure doesnt mean having your head in a phone or computer for the bulk of your time.

Hakametal · 2016-08-05T18:12:47+00:00

When was the last time someone posted something about how wonderful and beautiful women can be? Sad thing is, I'd be surprised to see that. Swallowing the red pill will take you so far. You need to digest it. That means being happy; happy about hypergamy, happy about shit-tests, happy about having an untouchable Frame, happy about having a bad experience because it's made you who you are today, happy about being YOU.

Give love back to the world and don't expect anything in return. That is the ultimate goal for all of us.

MyTrapsCauterize · 2016-08-05T18:31:00+00:00

OP, did TRP replace some other addiction for you? Like porn, video games, recreational drugs, or other time wasting activities? I think your experience may be personal and more indicative of you as a person than TRP as a whole. Do you think Steven Hawking constantly reads through his copy of Relativity? Especially devout religious people constantly read the Bible or Koran, but people of the sciences don't see any need to keep a copy of Philosophiæ Naturalis Principia Mathematica to thumb through every night before bed. In essence, I think you're treating TRP like a religion, instead of treating it like any other knowledge you'd pick up in your life. You aren't alone in this, many people have posted things like you before.

empatheticapathetic · 2016-08-05T20:12:38+00:00

I agree with this post but there's a part of me which wants to say "yes! I can relax about all this shit. It doesn't ALWAYS apply". But it's better to be ON guard than off. Balance is key.

For me personally, despite the fact I've been reading a year, if I stop reading for a while, I turn quite beta. It's good to be able to chat to other 'aspiring' alphas and stay in that dialogue. I am very socially isolated at the moment so it helps to have simply a 'community' to talk to while I work on my exit plan.

alisonstone · 2016-08-05T20:55:57+00:00

You have to understand the dynamics of how a forum like Reddit works and how it biases the discussions going on in it. The upvote/downvote system tends to bias the discussion to fringe and controversial topics as most people are too lazy to vote either way unless it is a specific topic that they associate closely with or on subjects that are highly controversial. That is why when discussing something like finances, there are always tons of posts about bitcoin when it is really a fringe part of finance that is irrelevant to 90%+ of people.

Participation on forums are also skewed. For example, on fitness forums, you often have the 400 pound guy asking for advice to lose weight and that post is filled with tons of people giving advice, tons of people cheering him on, etc. But how many 400 pound people have you seen in real life? Not that many. It's the freak shows that attract the biggest audience and participation. It's something that is fun to read, but his experiences in the gym are probably not very relevant to you as he is very different from you. You can have some omega males talking about stuff that is very real to them, but not actually applicable to the median guy. You have to be able to spot this.

Also, certain subgroups of people post more often on forums. Kids have far more time to go on forums than adults. There are a lot of unemployed mentally ill people who ramble online all day because they have nothing else to do. You can have 100 very successful guys, but only 10 of them visits forums they post sparingly because they don't have much time. However, you can have one unemployed mentally ill guy making 100 posts a day, and even though the crazies make up a tiny percentage of the population, they can end up making the majority of posts on a forum. If he is a decent writer, then suddenly he becomes some guru type figure in the community. A lot of forums have cult-like mentalities because of this and TRP is not immune to this. There are trends where some pretty asinine ideas become popular and discussed a lot for a few weeks before fading away again.

Basically, keep in mind that the Internet is not a fair representation of the people in the real world, so take everything with a grain of salt.

TheLolomancer · 2016-08-05T21:02:45+00:00

Not being stuck to a computer screen 16 hours a day is literally part of the philosophy. Anyone who spends more than an hour here at a time is kidding themselves.

2016-08-05T21:27:38+00:00

I had noticed that a lot of the guys on TRP subreddit are stuck in the anger phase, and they do not come here to progress at all. They come here to feed their toxicity.

I can't understand this mechanism. This toxic anger is eating people from inside out. It is a bad feeling. Why are guys clinging to it?

aazav · 2016-08-05T22:48:24+00:00

FYI, this shouldn't be a place where you just hang out.

Once you get it, you do it. Check back in every once and a while to see if there is anything else you need to learn, but once you graduate college, you leave it and go off and live in the real world.

piquete91 · 2016-08-05T23:18:35+00:00

I agree so fucking hard with this, and was thinking about it today. I was an incel for 3 and a half years, prior to that I was having a good amount of sex (age 15-20). I'm turning 25 soon and just got my first 2 plates going, and going well.

It's because I stopped reading the red pill for 10 days and lived. Reflecting back on those days, I see that I've implemented the strategies used here in my life during those days. Didn't even think about it once.

And the first time I had sex after my time as an incel, I somehow performed miraculously well. Not to brag, but this girl said "I don't cum easily", and I made her cum 7 times in one go. The first words that she said after were "thanks for ruining it for every other guy".

There's no way to express the gratitude I have for this site, it's teachings, the morals it endows you with if you follow through and the committed members who helped me and countless others through the transition of blue to red. But, if you don't take a break and live, you'll never experience the life this page hopes you'll have.

Great post.

play_time_is_over · 2016-08-05T23:38:41+00:00

This the most honest ppst here in ages and I completely agree. Not even sure how useful trp is these days but the ratio of angry dudes vs people actually implementimg it is way off.

Rredpillaccount · 2016-08-06T01:40:29+00:00

Funny, I came here to write this exact post. I haven't really been reading TRP lately. I mean I come here for some tips here and there, but I've made so much progress by just swallowing the pill and forgetting about it. Today I realized that the less I've read TRP and the more I've gone out and just had fun, the more I've learned about life and women. Most of us won't really learn until we see it for ourselves. I'll still be around, but I'm not here even close to every day like I used to be. Mellow out, take a breather, enjoy life. If you've swallowed the red pill you can't throw it up. You already know. The more you live the more you'll see it as truth and just learn. Don't worry about what all these other dudes think you should do. Everyone's different and the only way your gonna learn what works for you is by experimenting IN REAL LIFE.

Thizzlebot · 2016-08-06T16:56:59+00:00

I really agree with this post. You can tell when people just parrot what they heard because a lot of this shit needs to be calibrated for real life. I think it's best to just understand the core values and then just visit here occasionally.

oldrunnerguy · 2016-08-07T16:51:33+00:00

I understand what your saying and I know as a man that I have made some mistakes. But whereas, a great deal of news and social media have been put forth to highlight women's "gripes", it is good to know that there is place for us men to share our feelings and ideas. Too often we have seen double standards, fairness issues, as well as men taken to the cleaners, etc. etc. etc. with the "assumed" conclusion that the woman is always right.

Why shouldn't we have our own space?

Maybe we just need to connect with other guys, voice our feelings, and affirm to the fact we are not always wrong. The fact that many of us have been in relationships that we knew deep down in our heart were unfair, but we had to play the game. Like many of the men here, our wives left us, and it wasn't due to abuse, infidelity or abandonment or substance abuse. Many of us have been great fathers, stable providers and committed husbands.

When you go through a marriage for 20 years, and your bored, frigid, unpleasable wife leaves you, one who is always comparing what you earn financially to what her girlfriend's husband's make. When she can quit a job at any time because she dislikes her job and does so without having another job lined up and ends up leaving you with numerous debts to still pay off for stuff that she insisted that was needed. It tends to give a man a great deal of frustration and resentment.

About fifty years ago, a number of females spoke up about fairness. They wanted go out and work, they wanted to have careers, they wanted to be like men. But then again they didn't. It has created a financial dynamic whereas the economy has adjusted itself with the assumption that there are two providers in the family. Even if a woman wanted to be a homemaker in this day and age, the economics work against it. She better find a great wage earner if she does. A man that can pay a mortgage, provide both her and him with a good vehicle along with the insurance that goes with it. One that can provide her and him as well as the family with adequate health insurance. This does not even get into food, clothing and other necessities that women generally spend more on than the man himself. Even my folks did not have a dynamic like this.

My mom worked, but she understood her responsibilities in making the marriage work and that having a joint bank account goes along with being responsible for the bills and the debts incurred. They have been married for 59 years.

In closing, my wife complained that I wanted a woman just like my mother. At this point, that was probably the smartest thing she ever said.

MaverickWolfSigma · 2016-08-14T00:11:52+00:00

Being RP means basically to experience the world and the intersexual dynamics at play for what they really are, raw and uncensored. What you're actually trying to suggest is to sporadically escape from reality every once in a while to provide some stress relief and ameliorate an unhealty surplus of cynicism. If escaping momentarily from reality is your goal, booze seems to be the prefered route for many. Psychedelics and video games would be my pick.

auosie · 2016-10-19T16:24:19+00:00

Well if people continue and read only bad stuff and believe it and read about it all the time they will Believe it 100% it's like brainwash

Colt42O · 2016-08-05T15:20:26+00:00

Red pill has changed drastically over the past few months

banica24 · 2016-08-05T17:43:01+00:00

I've noticed 4 posts exactly like yours the past week.

You don't follow your own advice. Saying 'take a break from TRP' when you spent however long writing this and preaching things that have already been said.

auosie · 2016-08-05T18:52:56+00:00

How come there's never good posts about women why not have both?

Theophagist · 2016-08-05T16:46:38+00:00

Did you convince yourself?

Get off TRP every now and then and actually experience the world before learning it off a screen.

The more I see a gigantic post leading to this ridiculously obvious platitude the more I really do want to get off of and stay off of TRP.

2016-08-06T16:55:22+00:00

OMG OP I think I love you! I'm not even a regular here but it was such good advice for me in so many ways. And I'm female and married!

But the bit about getting off the internets, not getting too caught up in negativity, not seeing all genders/people as the same - WOW. Your post is so awesome! Such a breath of fresh air!!!

casemodsalt · 2016-08-05T18:10:56+00:00

The problem is, I learned it myself before I even heard of trp or pua.