You are exciting and fun to be around. You have great stories, you converse well, and people find you interesting. She is boring and vapid. She is unable to talk about anything other than herself and the Kardashians. She never needed to be interesting because she was still worshipped by guys who wanted to get in her pants. But you still place her on a pedestal.
You spend your free time doing productive activities and hobbies. You lead a busy, exciting life where you are constantly learning new skills and meeting new people. Her only hobbies are wine and Netflix. Her life is so boring that she obsesses over the lives of celebrities and reality television stars. But you still place her on a pedestal.
You work hard to advance in your career. You do this because you know you must provide for yourself. She is unable to provide for herself and must find a man to provide on her behalf. While you never had anything handed to you in life, she was given everything on a silver platter. Through this you developed a work ethic that she lacks. But you still place her on a pedestal.
You are emotionally stable and confident. She cannot control her emotions. She frequently cries over the most menial things. She had an emotional breakdown when her favorite guy got voted off The Bachelorette. She throws temper tantrums like a child when she doesn’t get her way. Once a month, she bleeds for 5 days and cannot function. But you still place her on a pedestal.
You work your body to exhaustion in the gym almost every day. It is very difficult to build muscle and sculpt a muscular, attractive body. By doing so, you developed an unbreakable discipline. All she has to do to be attractive is be skinny, which means eat salads and run on the treadmill (and a lot of them can’t even manage this). Yet you still have her on a pedestal.
You need to internalize that there is nothing special about these women. So what if she’s attractive? She still shits and farts and cries like everyone else. Stop looking at women as being above you. You are above them. An attractive woman is nothing compared to a powerful man. Once you understand this, you will stop feeling lucky to be around her and you will realize that she is lucky to be around you. You are the prize. She is just competing for it. Get her off the pedestal.