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Field ReportI can choose to display a Red pill OR a Blue pill self...and the results are predictable like clockwork. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by aga080

It took me 2 years to get over my LTR, my crippling oneitis, and my absolute pitiful, overweight, unemployed, lazy blue pill self.

At some point in the past couple of years, I stumbled upon this wonderful community of like-minded men--that see the world for what it really is. At first, reading the sidebar links, the recommended reading, and top voted posts etc made me feel literally sick to my stomach... i was in shock, i ate the pill whole and everyone knows there is no going back.

I simply could not believe that someone, like myself, that I take pride on being handsome, extremely astute, empathetic, over-analyzing and detail oriented had not picked up on the simple tactics that women use, and the systematic destruction of the nuclear family, the reversal of gender roles, and ultimately the demise of this country as a whole.

I read, and I read, and I read some more. Then when I thought I had read enough, I read more.

At the same time, I joined a gym, started by walking every day, moved on to high intensity cardio and weight training, got a personal trainer, and I went from a chubby (read overweight) 215lbs to a muscular 180lbs that can run 5k in under 20 minutes again and throw up solid reps on the bench and squat rack.

Now too my point-- being blue pill is actually not that easy. You have to care about women, you have to try to fix their problems, help them make their decisions because for the life of a hamster they simply can not.

Red Pill on the other end, is all about numero uno. There is one person on this planet that matters the most, and doing everything I can to contribute to my self-betterment is worth every second of sweat and blood. I get time to myself. I fix MY OWN problems. I dedicate time every day to my businesses, my body and ultimately my physical and mental health.

I recently began a relationship with a decent HB7, really good in the sack, and at this point I am so self-aware of how I come off, I was able to steer the relationship with just words... or lack there-of. I wanted to keep her a plate, but she wanted more and more and more.

I red-pilled this chick so hard that she was actively trying to get pregnant.

I had to move on, I was wasting too much time, but the red pill me was overwhelming for her, she couldnt get enough of me. Sex every day, breakfast lunch and dinner cooked by her. Cleaning my place every day after she would get there from work. Cleaning my CAR. getting my dry cleaning, going shopping on her dime... the works.

I didnt know how to shake her, she wasnt doing anything wrong, and our group of friends wanted to see this relationship happen.

Well, I knew of ONE way to get this girl off my case.

Lets see how she likes a soft ass blue pill bitch.

I started OVER-- began sharing emotional crap with her, that sometimes i simply made up.

I would whine, and start little fights, and constantly ask her whats wrong. I started doing shit FOR HER instead, like getting her random corny gifts and always offering her to bring her coffee at work and just generally acting like her servant.

This went on for about a week, until the sex COMPLETELY fell off. I don't know if it that was because of the wacko social experiment i was conducting on her, or if literally those traits i displayed are literally THAT fast of a turn off for women.

I'm already spinning another plate, so this couldnt have happened soon enough.

I just wanted everyone to know out there, that SOMETIMES blue pill tactics can be great bail techniques on a chick that you don't want to dump/destroy for social reasons but cant, for the life of you, figure out how to shake the bitch!

Happy New Year you bunch of studs! thank you for everything you have taught me over the years.


[–][deleted] 285 points286 points  (37 children)

Downright genius. Not like the BP "Do something shitty so she breaks up with you". This is the red pill "Be really good to her so she breaks up with you". Beauty

[–]squirestrat 83 points84 points  (2 children)

Down right genius? This is INSANE! You sir, are a fucking hero. I can't believe anyone would do this but I'm going to. Holy shit, points for ingenuity. This has been, for you, a fucking excellent way to cement the foundations of TRP. Congratulations.

[–]Ou-tis 23 points24 points  (1 child)

My father told me once , if you want that a girl dump you, ask her permission to do things, tell her I love you every time, do everything she wants...he was right ( and fucked really a tons of women)

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My Dad said something similar when I was a teen: if you don't do what women want they'll hate you. If you do what they want they'll hate you more

[–]spiltnuc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How to break up with a girl:

Step 1: Become Beta

It is actually pathetic us men were conditioned to become betas prior to swallowing the red pill. I look back and laugh at how many girls walked away when I acted like a beta because that is what society and Hollywood glamorized

[–]rubenbrasil 50 points51 points  (31 children)

Uh, why the fuck would you want to give her the satisfaction of

  1. dumping you

  2. labeling you a beta

...

Just fucking next her your damn self.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 156 points157 points  (18 children)

Crazy bitches that will call the cops, make shit up, vandalize your property, and boil your pet rabbit are why you go blue and beg for sex. If you next the bitch outright and ghost her ass, she will want you more.

Been doing this for years, at first unknowingly, but for the last 20 or so intentionally. It's easier to scrape them off when they're not wanting you. When you have more experience, you'll see the benefit in it.

[–]theunconquored 44 points45 points  (0 children)

This is sort of like convincing an employee to quit instead of firing them. No unemployment benefits, no lawsuits, nobody out wrecking your reputation or plotting revenge.

Sometimes its easier if problems just go away. It's Machiavellianism at its best.

[–]vorverk 7 points8 points  (7 children)

yeah, and then they tell all her friends what a pussy you are and so on... I'd rather go ghost and let her hamster do all the work for me with her social circle.

I understand the risk, but I've gone beta and then she accused me of being controlling and almost accused me of rape. Going ghost as alpha has never made her go rogue on me...

[–]1RPAlternate42 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And you make sure they know you faked being clingy to get her off of you. Preferably make sure they all hear it from someone else.

[–]p3n1x 4 points5 points  (2 children)

tell all her friends what a pussy you are and so on

First, who gives a fuck? If your guy "friends" listen to a woman over you, get new friends.

The other woman won't care anyways. The more a female dogs you, the more desirable you become to the other ones. Women love fucking each other over, its one of their favorite past times.

[–]vorverk 0 points1 point  (1 child)

You're not getting my point.

[–]p3n1x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took more time to think about what you wrote. It depends on how involved in your life the chick is. If she knows where you live, anything can happen , ghost or not.

I'm not saying BP is the ultimate answer, but it is a tool (out of many) that can be used to wreck her concern for you altogether.

[–]Koryphae_ 10 points11 points  (1 child)

Typical cognitive bias on your part - it hasn't happened to me so it is not happening.

[–]vorverk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope. It fits the TRP theory perfectly. Alphas get away with everything. Beta behavior creates divorce rapes and rape charges.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That depends on the girl. I've simply ghosted them before, the crazy ones go off, the less crazy get alpha widowed. I have a bunch of widows from my past. This is for when you want her gone with zero drama, and she thrives on drama.

[–]rubenbrasil 9 points10 points  (5 children)

Gotcha. I was assuming she wasnt that fucking crazy. You must have ignored dozens of red flags before getting with a girl that would go to that extreme. (in which case its your fault - you can spot that kind of crazy from a mile away)

All bitches are crazy but they dont all go scorched earth status. Im talking bout the normal bitch you wanna break off.

[–]p3n1x 4 points5 points  (2 children)

she wasnt that fucking crazy

AWALT. They ALL have "that fucking crazy" potential.

[–]rubenbrasil 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Doesnt mean they activate it.

All guys have the potential to just push a random off a bridge, doesnt mean we do. AWALT = capable. Doesnt mean they act on it.

[–]p3n1x 6 points7 points  (0 children)

By that same logic, it doesn't mean "they won't" activate it either.

Doesnt mean they act on it.

Not all 4 yr olds will shoot themselves if they find a gun, doesn't mean I will leave one lying around because I am arrogant enough to believe I know which ones will and which ones won't do it.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignored? Nope. Saw the red flags within minutes of meeting them. Calculated risk is more like it. When a crazy bitch has a hot body and is dtf wanting me in her, I know better than to do anything long term. I'll hit it until she is too much trouble, then dust them off one way or another. The point is, going beta drives them away efficiently, and they think it's their idea. They don't come back sniffing for more. Win win.

[–]cmiovino points points [recovered]

This.

Personal examples:

1. A plate I was once spinning was nuts-o over me. I wasn't feeling it anymore and wanted to work on my career/lifting instead. Thus, I just stopped responding to texts and FB messages. Bitch went crazy. Calls/texts increased and become borderline violent. Even went as far as going to friends and starting to spread rumors, which was a bit of headache at the time.

Come to think of it, I had another one similar to this too. Both went nuts with no-contact (not to be confused with going no-contact to win an ex back).

2. I've had other situations where I went a bit blue-pill and decided consciously to start sharing too much emotion and be a bit lovely-dovey. Not extreme, but just sprinkle it in. You could clearly see the attachment on her part pull back. I remember twice I actually was getting more attached than I should, not by choice, and sure enough, they peaced out for other guys.

Conclusion: You can most certainly use these to your advantage when you want. It's borderline manipulation, but at the same token, it's knowing the consequences of your actions.

[–]aanarchist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it's not manipulation when you're saving your ass from a psychopath

[–]ImSecretlyATurtle 20 points21 points  (1 child)

It's not about her. The satisfaction she gets from dumping him or labeling him a beta is irrelevant to him, because she is irrelevant to him. That's the point of trp. Her socialized threats are powerless against us. Which means she is powerless because that's all she has. She doesn't matter. You matter. What she thinks or does after you're gone is irrelevant unless it affects you from a legal standpoint.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Are these things you worry about? They shouldn't be

[–]rubenbrasil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look, if its not necessary, then it shouldnt go down that way.

But someone else mentioned the type to vandalize, in which case i guess you gotta take that route. but.. one shouldnt be in that situation in that first place. if an insane bitch trapped you in that predicament then you must have ignored an acre's worth of red flags just for some pussy.

[–]aanarchist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

so that you dumping her is her idea and she thinks that she's doing the best thing by leaving your ass. nothing works better to get a clean break from a toxic woman than being beta, no sperm jacking, no psychotic outbreaks, no fucking with your circle, it really is genius.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Relax son, who cares what's going on in her head. This was also a great reinforcement for OP of TRP's power and a nice story for the rest of us.

[–]lqtys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your ego is talking. Not you.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chicks lie all the time, so no-one will believe her if she tells others what you are "really" like.

[–]-uftw- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it's fucking funny.

[–]Koryphae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the red pill is not about hatred for women.

[–]LordThunderbolt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because when he goes back to his normal alpha self and she hits him up for validation or maybe she wants his alpha back, he can then pretend to be hurt and make her do tons of extra shit to "gain back his trust" lol.

[–]elitewarrior6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love that the cool red pill guy is insecure enough to think like that

[–]Toushyton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's funny because first look at this sub and people think this is all made up woman hating propaganda. But then you try it and it works.

[–]bigredchewinggum 73 points74 points  (2 children)

Tried going no contact with a girl recently cause I just wanted to drop her. I'm going to be going back to school and will not have any time for dating/hook ups. Plus the girl is low quality with more red flags than a peoples' revolution.

The chick kept blowing up my phone.. So I finally said fuck it and told her we could meet up again. What I did was act weird and emotional in a blue pill way.. Like a little boy. Telling her that I felt insecure about her guy friends and how I had all these unresolved emotional issues from past relationships.

I tried initiating sex with her and she "wasn't in the mood". Dropped her off and she didn't go for more than a hug tonight. I think it worked.

[–]OSaraiva 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Plus the girl is low quality with more red flags than a peoples' revolution.

I got a good laugh out of this one.

[–]0kool74 8 points9 points  (0 children)

with more red flags than a peoples' revolution

Soviet, Cuban, or Korean? lol. This one gave me a chuckle too

[–]RP15 130 points131 points  (13 children)

Ah yes, the classic beta smokescreen. Much as an octopus sprays ink when threatened and possums release a putrid odor to ward off predators, the human alpha male can simulate appallingly unattractive behaviors to create a clean separation with the parasitic human female.

[–]FanGon 41 points42 points  (1 child)

Have you considered narrating Planet Earth 3 after Attenborough kicks it?

[–]RP15 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A documentary analyzing humanity through s red pill/nature documentary lens would be hilarious

[–]LongSchlongAIDS 13 points14 points  (3 children)

I can't be the only one who read your post in a British accent

[–]RP15 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I am from the US but I wrote it in a British accent so that makes sense

[–]0kool74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it'd be even funnier to have Snoop Dogg narrate it. That would be dope!

[–]desno 4 points5 points  (0 children)

David Attenborough to be precise

[–]Compeliminator 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thats some funny shit right there and op ive actually thought of doing this with this current girl i would like to end things with but the thought of me acting like i used to makes me sick at my stomach

[–]0kool74 7 points8 points  (2 children)

and possums release a putrid odor to ward off predators

I thought it was skunks that did that lol

[–]RP15 2 points3 points  (1 child)

They both do but the possum shits itself as a defense mechanism

[–]0kool74 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sounds just like the brain of a woman lol

[–]0kool74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DUDE!!!!!!! They need you to narrate for National Geogrpahic!!!!!

[–]doremix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually laughed IRL. Thanks :)

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 31 points32 points  (3 children)

Going temporarily Blue Pill is an effective strategy for avoiding drama and insanity from a girl you want to break up with.

Just convince her that ending the relationship is a good idea. You'll never hear from her again.

[–]czmtzc points points [recovered]

Convince her it is HER idea. If she thinks is is her idea, no need to convince her it is good.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Redundant.

Any idea a woman has is good because it's hers, generated by her emotional state. She'll never fact-check it for independent verification.

Feels before reals.

[–]elitewarrior6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true, women suck at logic :P

[–]GentlemenMindset 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I've preached this to two of my bros to get rid of their current plates that they thought were crazy. You'd think ignoring them or ghosting them would be enough but they find ways.

I told one to go "bitch-boy niceguy" and he said it was the best thing to happen to him for a solution.

[–]SnarkyFella 71 points72 points  (5 children)

That's right. Nothing dries up pussy like a kind, caring and genuinely good hearted man. What a time to be alive.

[–]RPthrowaway_007 points points [recovered]

It's always been like that

[–]TomFoo 14 points15 points  (3 children)

who the fk is downvoting this comment.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Initiates who haven't truly taken the pill yet.

They want to believe that hypergamy is a temporary state of affairs, and that once they heroically fix the world they can return to their former white knight lives.

[–]qitjch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They put the pussy on the chainwax pedestal.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is a great tactic when you realize you've LTR'd a crazy woman and want to get out with minimal drama.

Making her feel like she's the one rejecting you means that she's the one that will be going radio silent and avoiding you vs. stalking you and showing up at your workplace if she feels like she's been cut off.

[–]my_sfw_alias 33 points34 points  (1 child)

I have used this for a long time now. Whenever I am sick of a relationship, I just start being myself. Whip out a bowl and take a puff, and start talking about conspiracy theories and 9/11... Aand shes gone.

[–]Solistx 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Memo to self: Jet fuel can melt steel beams around women... FML dude

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222 14 points15 points  (0 children)

2 Years ago, a user named this "deploying beta smokescreen". Truly one of the best ways to soft next.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have used this tactic multiple times, it work like a charm l, you make it their idea that they should break up with you.

When you do this they move on and go have fun and they don't feel like they lost anything, they don't contact you ever again. And if you want to sink last nail in the coffin call her like 3 times in a row the next friday or saturday night and tell her sob stories about how much you miss her, and need her.

The pussy will as dry as death vally, you will have confirmed that it was the correct thing to break up with you. And you'll never have to deal with her again, as long as you don't hurt her social image your safe from basically and allegations of rape and any misconduct.

Never break up with her, when you make it painful, or you don't give them a out socially so they can save face, that's when stories of how abusive, and controlling, or how you took advantage of her suddenly pop up.

Women can't handle any reproccussions to their actions, expecally social ones.

If you are a blue pill guy ask yourself how many dudes that you know that are actually assholes to women?

Not many maybe 1 in 20? Then ask yourself of those 20 dudes would say their ex was a bitch and a whore? Maybe 3 in 20? Sound about right?

Now ask yourself if you talked to 20 girls, what would they say about their ex? How many of their exs are assholes, or manuliptive? Cheaters? Or made them do butt stuff they didn't want to do sexually? Most if not all the girls exs are assholes which means they either all date the 1 in 20 guys that is a dick or they are lying.

And its both they only will date assholes and they are lying lol

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 25 points26 points  (6 children)

I would whine, and start little fights, and constantly ask her whats wrong. I started doing shit FOR HER instead, like getting her random corny gifts and always offering her to bring her coffee at work and just generally acting like her servant. This went on for about a week, until the sex COMPLETELY fell off. I don't know if it that was because of the wacko social experiment i was conducting on her, or if literally those traits i displayed are literally THAT fast of a turn off for women.

It is that fast when you go blue after being red. The fastest change I saw was making her eggs one morning as I was making some for myself. Ten minutes was all that was required, and she went from sucking my cock earlier that morning to the inevitable slide to next. The day prior she was begging me to fuck her ass. Two eggs and toast to that look of disdain. No big thing, she was one of four I was fucking at the time.

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (1 child)

Tell her she has been spending too much time away from you and you think it's hurting your connection. Plan out 5 dates for the future and share them with her after you've made a nice meal. If you make it past one.....Just kidding never happens.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She might stick around of you have lots of money.. Damn that makes me laugh thinking about it.

[–]thejames1983 points points [recovered]

I don't think it was the eggs, mate. You shouldn't be afraid to cook for/with a chick. I think it's a great mutual activity. It's an easy way to show off some skills. If it's a first date, it's an easy way to escalate. It would be pretty autistic to cook breakfast for only yourself when hyou ave another person over, bro or ho.

[–]Ibex3D 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Yeah, who the hell has some over and makes breakfast for themselves and not the guest? That's not beta, that's just common manners.

[–]johnsonsson 14 points15 points  (0 children)

exactly. he seriously thinks she left him because he made some eggs for her.

that, gentlemen, is the redpill circlejerk hamster in it's purest form, right here.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can think what you want, I watched it and I'm not exactly new to this. I cooked for my second wife all the time, and it didn't matter. This chick was different, definitely on the crazy side, and she is used to manipulating betas to do shit for her. Worked out for me, decided that tiny little ass wasn't worth the bullshit she brought along, and hell she had a boyfriend. Wasn't looking to keep her, not even considered.

[–]laylowwww 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I resorted to these tactics a few years back...one thing to be mindful of is that girls talk to other girls. You don't want it to get around that you're a soft little bitch.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Betagame!

You couldn't get that girl back if you tried!

[–]theredpillager 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Hilariously smart tactic. Hopefully she doesn't talk too much, lest word spread of what a beta bitch you are. Or who knows, maybe one of her friends is looking for a beta bitch, and then you can pull the reversal again and plate her next!

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She won't see it that way, you become an asshole. That's about all she gets of it. Girls aren't that self aware, they have no clue what they're actually attracted to, let alone being able to express it. If you don't act the way she tells her friends, they'll see you completely different anyway. Quite a few girls I fucked were friends of girls I was already fucking, and I could drop one like this and get another friend of hers on the hook. There's no logic nor reason involved with girls.

[–]aga080[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the upper hand of knowing everyone that matters already, and I concealed my temporary "beta smoke screen" as someone most eloquently put it on here, as just random small acts of what NOT TO DO as described so perfectly on TRP lmfao

[–]YeaIFistedJonica points points [recovered]

I just keep women out of my social life and then I can just bail without saying anything. Psychologically destroys them and makes it so I can just swoop in for a booty call anytime I want

[–]rubenbrasil 22 points23 points  (0 children)

What do you mean out of your social life?

Like you dont introduce them to your circle of friends/family/room mates/etc?

If so, Im a social circle guy and lone wolf my plates. Never mix the two of them, UNLESS I choose to if shes a presentable HB8+ with a good personality.

[–]imbeciI 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm laughing out loud, this history is quite funny.

It's my opinion you didn't want to create an alpha widow, so you prepared her to be ready for her next man.

[–]PissedPajamas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You know you've got abundance mentality when one girls perception of you doesn't drive you away from accomplishing your mission. Absolute madman

On a side note, i imagine you're well spoken irl from your post, this doesn't come naturally to me so do you have any tips or sources that helped you become a better speaker?

[–]Vinicam 4 points5 points  (3 children)

I've had a similar experience where I blue pilled because of getting too comfortable in a relationship and the girl dumped me in 2 weeks of acting like that.

Let me explain: I was casually dating this girl that the relationship started really off for me to consider a LTR with her: I was her affair when she was in a LTR with some dude. It was okay for me as it was just for the sex/good times.

The time passes, she broke up with the guy, we started seeing each other more and more, feelings grow and I start treating her like a blue pill boyfriend would. Opening the car door, doing couple stuff, sometimes paying for her shit(never do this), texting all the time and presenting her to my friends... In the Valentine's Day I did a drawing(I'm an artist) of her favorite singer and gave to her, even without having a serious relationship yet. The day after that present she gave me radio silence for a week and then texted me she was not looking for what I was, we where not at the same vibe, blablabla, all that bullshit people talk when breaking up. lol

I switched from the guy she banged with the adrenaline of being an affair to the blue pill boyfriend she didn't wanted and was cheating with me.

[–]laylowwww 7 points8 points  (2 children)

You went full retard. You didn't implement that strategy on purpose.

[–]mummersfarce_is_done 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes he told it it was a mistake.

[–]Vinicam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My post made it clear that it was a mistake of my part and an alert to never let your guard down like I did. Also it serves to show how girls really change in a glimpse if you show weakness or that "loving" side. lol

[–]0kool74 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep. Going Blue Pill on a chick will make them dry up quicker than the Sahara Desert covered in Sham Wows!

[–]Nirvanablue92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah a solid case of "leave her better than you found her"

[–]LordThunderbolt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's called Reverse Beta Game, it's very useful when you're safely trying to abandon ship on a nutcase.

[–]lqtys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is something I said here a long ago but everybody downvoted me (their egos downvoted me). You can fake beta behavior to your advantage. If you want to break up with someone the easy way, just show beta behavior and she will go at her own will.

[–]Loki2121 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I'm trying to keep an open mind about this sub, but a lot of these accounts read like propaganda fiction, anyone else get that vibe at times?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I would give you gold, if I had some money. This is genius.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is actually pretty natural to do, at least to me. If a girl is more interested in a relationship than I am, I choose to become the most boring weak dude.

I had a girl come over to my place for Xmas/NYE. She was so much into it, cooked for me (and good stuff that pertained well to my diet, on top of that), decent sex... But I also found out I'm not into her. So what do I do now that she's visiting me and sleeping in my bed for 3 more days? Well first, wake up before her, take a shower, no sex. Started cooking for myself too. Instead of going out and about with her being all smiles, I stopped acting cool and started talking about being unsure of where we are going. Works well, haven't had news for a while now she's gone

[–]Warfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could spin her as a plate but I guess if you've already fucked yourself then you probably don't need to.

[–]randommofo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm always wary of shit like this only because I fear you are letting the blue pill fester, even subconsciously. It's not dead completely. Maybe it can't be. As long as it was fully aware, then brava sir. Brava

[–]CalogeroBell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you knew how much the end of your stor cheered me up. Well played, sir.

[–]Buchloe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. It's the only way to get them gone for good when you're ready for it to be done. Be so unattractive that they can't stand you.

[–]Fraita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just an little anecdote

I was wondering, can this backfire as hell and make the girl want to stay even more? I think I read somewhere that some girls (redflag) wants BP-guys. So they can take care, control and know where they have their "little" boy. More insecure and vulnerable, the better!

I guess the RP can just take another road if the "beta smokescreen" dosen't work, but I was aiming for the guys that maybe don't know any other strategi to get a girl out of their lives without drama.

EDIT: Saw now that OP said "that SOMETIMES blue pill tactics can be great..."

[–]IntergalacticBigBird points points [recovered]

This subreddit is starting to be absolutely insane, and even worse the hoards of people calling OP a genius. Be an adult and tell her you aren't interested, keep your dignity. This is crazy talk, give your heads a shake.

[–]Venny_1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He presented you with a possible nexting option, a tool which you can employ IF NEED BE. You realize the woman in front of you is somewhat capable of rational thought and handling her own if you break up with her? Fine, be a gentleman and break it off smoothly. Yet if you have a bitch with BPD on your hand, or any other form of crazy, then it's best to next her in strategic forms that are soft, ruthful and compassionate so as to keep yourself safe, i.e. employ the BP smoke screen.

[–]Forcetobereckonedwit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is truly a bizarre journey, the RP. I am new (6 months) to it and still have to fight my BP traits daily. I just want to be nice, loving, supportive, and generous to da bitches. TRP has opened my eyes completely and I refrain from such activities as best I can but it ain't easy.

Thanks for the post OP. Keep it up.

[–]0kool74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if it that was because of the wacko social experiment i was conducting on her, or if literally those traits i displayed are literally THAT fast of a turn off for women.

I'll take How Do I Get Rid Of This Girl for $800 Alex lol

[–]dudeguymanthesecond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... you're surprised someone lost interest in you after you suddenly and completely changed your personality?

[–]solor84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being blue pill is really easy. You just don't care for what you want.