The hardcore Blue Pill beta guy that I was, I always thought being polite and sweet and caring and treating women like princesses would help me attract 10s. Surprise surprise, I always ended up in their friendzone whenever I tried too hard.
Then there are these ugly-average girls who are good friends to just talk to. I feel no attraction towards them at all. So I know I can just sit back and be myself and not think twice before saying anything.
Funny thing is, these ugly-average girls are the ones who are all over me. One of them asks me to go for a movie with her. One of them tells me that she's jealous of the other girls I talk to. Constant good mornings and good nights with the '' emojis. One of them is convinced that I am her soulmate and that we are destined to be together (I find this fucking creepy and I try to keep her at a distance but the more I run away, the more she feels attracted).
Now that I look 5 years back, I realise I got my first (and only) girlfriend in this exact same fashion. I was focussed on working out, playing football for a club and studying. Girls didn't matter. Also, I was on a NoFap streak of 2 months or so. Never really got the time to sit and wank my wonga because of the busy schedule.
During that period when I was happy with my life without girls and without porn, this girl (who would later become my girlfriend) developed a crush on me. I never even tried to make her fall for me. She was just a friend for me but I knew she was proper wife material so I gave it a shot and we dated for more than a year. (Why we broke up is a different story related to me going back to my blue pill ways)
So I urge you guys not to put beautiful women on a pedestal. The more you do that, the more you're digging your grave called the friendzone. You should KNOW that your life is wonderful regardless of a woman being in it. That's how you develop an abundance mentality and not give a fuck about whether or not you'll get laid. This is how you become attractive to all kinds of women. ALL KINDZZZZZZ.
The harder you try, you'll stink of desperation and neediness. The moment you start living your life realising that happiness comes from your hobbies and goals and not from a vagina, women will swarm around you like fleas on a turd.