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Red Pill TheoryVolunteering in a primarycare doctors office for 2 years opened my eyes... (self.TheRedPill)

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[–][deleted] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Second the strong dad thing. My father in law (who I do like and respect) has a very weak presence in his home. A month after the wedding, she turned into a baggy bitch just like her mom.

[–]HAMMURABl 92 points93 points  (39 children)

They honestly don't understand sexual dynamics even if you slap them in the face with it.

Free markets tend to bring some kind of "justice", in whatever sense. For all the freedom women have in the sexual market, the wall is the ultimate justice.

generation tinder hitting the wall collectively will be - beautiful.

[–][deleted] 53 points54 points  (11 children)

It doesn't make me happier to watch others fail.

[–]makeshift98 14 points15 points  (8 children)

What if there is a valuable lesson in that failure?

[–]TheRedStoic 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The lesson may be there, but it only counts if people learn from it.

Still doesn't make me happy. Rather have the lesson beforehand, when change can happen and make a real difference. Then again, it doesn't make me unhappy either. More of a, welp... Yup.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (6 children)

I learn. I don't take pleasure from it. Be thankful for the animal that had to sacrifice for you to eat from the table of wisdom.

[–]LifeWithTRP 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, everyone here who is a man and is reading this sub, had a very lucky role of the dice.

Don't take it for granted

[–]Specter242 23 points24 points  (2 children)

I also think there may be a significant rise in mental health issues particularly depression as these people age. Making choices by what makes you happy is not always health. Always chasing a high is not always healthy. The fallout from that will really be terrible.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (16 children)

You think they fail, you think the wall is bad for them? As long as the arnt a ham planet they have their dream wedding, a perfect Bata provider and a BF on the side, and will get fucked in the bathroom of the club on their girls night at least once a year. Until they divorce their cuckold hubby.

They have their cake and eat it to. Socity panders to them, their entire life in the usa, even fat girls get it. Life isn't fair, do.t expect some great justice to happen.

Fix you life, financially, emotionly, and physically then go out get laid, pay for it, find it on tinder, whatever

Have a passion, enjoy your off time from work.

Have a job that is marketable and make money for you future

Have a kid with a serogate if you want a kid, or adobt a kid if you want a son, I never want a daughter.

[–]sharp7 12 points13 points  (12 children)

The justice will be at the societal level. They say in 20 years usa will have more mexicans and latinos than any other race because they are the only ones reporducing. Their men are still manly and their women know what they are doing.

Meanwhile most "modern" cultures will die out. The women will have their cake, eat it too, and society will crumble. Most of these chicks are still depressed as fuck too so thats the real justice. I dont blame them, I tried online dating apps and ended up not following through on any of the chicks. Just feels like a huge waste of time to me. I think most high quality guys, or "marriage material" are similar. I just feel bad for these chicks. They are just as fucked as brain washed betas. Betas think they can get the hot girl by pandering and it fails miserably. Chicks think they can get the hot guy by partying and being popular and all that crap cause socirty tells them they are free but its just plumetting their value. Absolutely plummetting. Society is making men less attractive to women and women less appealing to men, its fucked.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (10 children)

The phrase enjoy the decline comes to mind.

And yes I agree, it's like if you find out of a girl fucked more then 10 guys, it's gross

You know it's true but you don't actually want to know lol

[–]1empatheticapathetic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have two sisters, both 40+. One got her BB after riding the CC and had her kids. She hates life, hates her BB and is ruining her kids life. The other found her Chad at 30 and has held onto him for 15 years, doing whatever it takes. She is the happiest person in my family.

She struggled for many years on whether to have kids and most of our advice was "have kids or have your bf, you won't by to have both". She went for her Chad.

[–]Seoul_Brother 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Eye for an eye wouldn't you say u/HAMMURABI?

[–]Casanova-Quinn 3 points4 points  (1 child)

the wall is the ultimate justice.

This was more true in the past, but it's becoming less true thanks to the current crop of desperate betas. An early/mid 30's woman still has lots of options on the dating market. It's becoming more common to see mid/late 20's men dating these women.

[–]BreathOfDick 27 points28 points  (3 children)

Prostitutes are at least making money. It's truly incredible how much this "sexual revolution" has destroyed women.

[–]commander_zoidberg 12 points13 points  (2 children)

Tend to suffer less cognitive dissonance as well. Most of the mentally sound women i've met were prostitutes.

[–]beachbloke 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Hookers are BS free because they are unplugged out of necessity

[–]ladopairts 117 points118 points  (9 children)

When you work in a medical clinic, especially in a low income area, you get to see the real general population - the 80%. These men have poor hygiene, take poor care of their health, let themselves go. They don't earn a good income, they don't know how to talk to women and they don't dress or clean up well. But some of them have had successful relationships and marriages - slept with hot chicks. But only when they were younger.

Many of these men who attend the clinic are older. 40s, 50s, 60s. They have dealt with the harsh realities of life... realities that are unknown to 20 or 30 year olds. A lot of them don't give a fuck anymore about women aside from what's between their legs. They've been there done that, know it's not worth the trouble. If they have kids, they live for those kids. They work hard and are frugal with the little income they get just so they can give any extra to their kid.

The 20%... you don't see them at the clinic. They are healthy and without chronic medical problems. They aged well and still are able to pull women into their 40s 50s or 60s with ease. Then there's the 80 year old couple who comes in and they're cute as a button to each other... the lucky few have relatively successful and happy relationships that last.

The human condition is an interesting one.

The formula is Health, wealth and THEN women.

You lose health you lose wealth and women. You lose wealth you lose women. You lose women well, no big deal.

Health is paramount. Eat right. Exercise. Maintain posture. Cultivate a healthy social circle. Oh and don't smoke. You are damaging every cell in your body with that BS. Vape if you have to.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRunawayGrain 37 points38 points  (6 children)

The formula is Health, wealth and THEN women.

Once, one of my Russian exchange students decried the fact that Eastern European girls don't wear much makeup, but girls in the U.S. put so many chemicals on their face that when they get it all off, their skin usually looks like shit.

It brought to mind the comparison I usually use of likening the male experience of finding a woman to car shopping. There are different types of 'cars':

The luxury car: Looks good, conveys a mans status, but expensive to maintain and not a good investment unless you are really well off.

There's a motorcycle: Cheap, looks good, fun to ride, hurts like hell when you fall off.

There's the family sedan: Not as flashy or fun as the motorcycle, but more economical, and slightly more dependable while being able to handle a family.

The used car: Basic transportation with no frills and little excitement. It may have massive mechanical issues masked by a reasonably good looking exterior. Each new owner decreases its value a little more. Usually gets sold off when the owner can afford something better. Also, the radio is permanently stuck to on, which bombards you with inanity.

The problem we have in the west is that 99% of the girls are used cars who slap on some superficial fixes and attempt to sell for the price of a luxury car. Meanwhile we've stopped making family sedans, and encourage guys to get hung up on their motorcycles.

[–]Denver_Luv3 8 points9 points  (2 children)

There's a motorcycle: Cheap, looks good, fun to ride, hurts like hell when you fall off.

It does hurt like hell but if you ride conservatively and carefully you will likely only fall once. Motorcycles also attract daredevils.

Women fucking LOVE motorcycles. I have a Zero and it's amazing. In online dating the motorcycle pic gets all the comments and questions. If you don't know how to ride I strongly suggest you learn.

My favorite comment is, "Usually I don't let women ride my bike till after I've slept with them." Still makes a fun first date.

[–]GeorgeBushIV 115 points116 points  (152 children)

its nuts how many people are on anti depressants

[–]esirnus18 106 points107 points  (19 children)

This is so true!! Myself being European and living in the States for last 10+ years. This is the single most disturbing thing I've noticed. There's a fucking pill for everything seriously I have this coworker, Fat 5/10 with a decent face but her ego is fucking 11/10 she takes like 20 vitamin each day and popping advil and Tylenol like it's candy or something. "Oh my neck feels funny let me take 5 advil" When I was sick I refused to take that shit, drink some water and take a nap usually fixes 80% of my ailments. In the old days when something hurt, it was good it meant you were alive.

[–]okiedokie321 27 points28 points  (17 children)

Europeans have it so much better, plus better looking women too.

[–]Bammer1386 46 points47 points  (4 children)

Because 66% are not obese like here in the states

[–]TheStumblingWolf 19 points20 points  (3 children)

We're getting there...at least in northern europe. I recently went around eastern europe and that was not a problem there.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (2 children)

Its not that much better here honestly. Almost 50% 11,4% of women are on antidepressants

[–]esirnus18 5 points6 points  (6 children)

My LTR is Czech and natural blond too;)

[–]commander_zoidberg 11 points12 points  (2 children)

Czech women are some of the best in Europe.

[–]plenty_of_eesh 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sadly I have never Czech'd that box.

[–]Earthworm_Djinn 24 points25 points  (23 children)

Lot of hate for anti-depressants here. I'm 30 and just started taking an SSRI this year, following a lifetime of depression (ever since puberty). I would be dead if not for this assistance in discovering a baseline of normalcy that it turns out most people naturally feel.

I do think most meds are over prescribed, but I also think we need to be open minded about our personal wellness.

[–]lnTheRearWithTheGear 8 points9 points  (6 children)

I wonder if you have low testosterone. I have heard reports of a lot of guys with low t having depression. They go see an endocrinologist, get on testosterone replacement therapy and the depression vanishes.

[–]Earthworm_Djinn 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Hmm, worth looking into. Thanks.

[–]lnTheRearWithTheGear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Not going to shame you for taking SSRIs like that jackass below; you wouldn't shame a diabetic for taking insulin, you know? Just another chemical imbalance. But... from what I have heard low testosterone is often overlooked, and if it is the cause of your symptoms, trt would probably give you a higher quality of life with fewer side effects.

[–]GeorgeBushIV 3 points4 points  (5 children)

i did not mean any offense, just my opionion.

i believe that there are many ways to beat depression without medication. This can come from exercise, therapy, diet, ect. but again, this is not a cost or time affective method.

[–]Earthworm_Djinn 6 points7 points  (2 children)

I agree with you to an extent, and that those are important elements of maintaining good mental health. Some of us are legitimately fucked up and need assistance getting there, and seeking assistance is not weak. Actually killing yourself rather than seeking improvement is.

[–]mrp_1844 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Intestinal Candida will cause depression. You might want to look into that.

[–]otistoole 17 points18 points  (5 children)

They are trying to push that shit off-label on people, too, for all sorts of stupid shit.

What a lot of people don't realize about anti-depressants, a lot of them cause severe dependence. You can't just stop taking them, it requires months of unpleasant tapering. Depending on the specific medication. Only certain types cause dependence, but they are among the most prescribed types.

The doctors aren't told this, and it requires careful reading of the side effects to confirm, and most patients don't read the literature that accompanies their prescriptions.

Some of them don't even find out until that terrible day they forget their pills, and the withdrawal hits them. Poor bastards.

[–]GeorgeBushIV 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no doubt, they dont learn the proper way to deal with depression and anxiety. the drug becomes a crutch they cant kick away

[–][deleted] 36 points37 points  (41 children)

Exactly. Even in the low points of my life, I never thought to go through the process of getting anti depressants. I would just do something to make myself happy and work towards improving my life. It's crazy. No wonder why many women after a certain age are screwed up.

[–]MadeSomewhereElse 50 points51 points  (11 children)

I went to a therapist a few times in college and she would always steer towards referring me to a psychiatrist to get some pills. I would always politely decline and say I'd rather pursue more talk therapy first (since my tuition covered several sessions). I eventually quit going because I was sick of someone pushing drugs on me as a first solution. I haven't ever used antidepressants, but I'm not saying no one should. I'm not a medical professional.

[–]Cunt_Robber 37 points38 points  (4 children)

Hey allow me to congratulate you. That was the wise course of action. I felt i hit rock bottom one semester in college and i sought professional help and accepted medication. Ssri. Was on it for 3 months, and it completely numbed me. I stopped being depressed but I also stopped enjoying stuff and finding anything fun or exciting. Might as well have died. Tapered myself off and never went back. There are always alternative treatments for issues that require longterm management, with anxiety, depression, ocd and adhd being some of the psychiatric ones that can often be overcome with changes in lifestyle and habits.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doctors make commission on pills, especially atypical antipsychotics.

[–]Geckobird 7 points8 points  (1 child)

My mom actually tried to get me on anti-depressants a few months ago because I had been depressed and was having mood swings. I was rational to know that this was because I fell into beta ways, lost a girl, and went back to the anger phase. I knew the reason I felt bad was my fault and I could fix it by lifting and getting my shit together. But these days people want to say any sadness or depression is irrational and that the only solution is to take pills. Fuck that. I told her there was no way in Hell I'd do that to myself.

[–]commander_zoidberg 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Anti depressants - Warning: May cause suicide and mass murder. Yeah. Some treatment.

[–]Agent1407 11 points12 points  (1 child)

This is my number 1 rule, I will never take anti depressants and I will never have any relationship with a girl that take them. I saw my father and an ex LTR struggling to get over this addiction and it is even worse than regular drugs because most medics stimulate it and is socially acceptable. People are turning into zombies because they don't resolve their problems, they just take a pill and stays artificially kind-of-happy for years.

[–]GeorgeBushIV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im the same way. i dont want to date a zombie, i want to date someone who knows how to live a healthy life

[–]1FunAndFreedom 25 points26 points  (35 children)

SSRI's are terrifying and I'm convinced that the medical community is covering up their effects in the same way Tobacco Companies covered up smoking. My grandfather was subscribed an SSRI for depression and within a few weeks he stopped eating or even caring about life. From energetic and talkative to hospice within a month.

[–]2Archterus 24 points25 points  (30 children)

As an MD who practices in the psychiatric area I would agree. Take a look at anything written by Peter Gotzsche, one of the founding members of the Cochrane collaborative. Then the scales will fall from your eyes. From a different tangent, if one was to become depressed because of the existential awareness of the lies that one has been sold, would not numbing them back into subservience not be the correct strategy? Be careful, psychiatry knows a lot less than it appears.

[–]BallerMD 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Wow. For an MD who practices psych you sure do spend a lot of time on TRP (based on post history). LOL.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Secondly, I can't think of anything more blue pilled than taking a pill which removes your minds ability to experience the harshness of reality. It is through that struggle that we grow into better versions of ourselves.

[–]MustNotFfff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gotta chime in. I'm on and off depressed, but I'm not seeing treatment for it because I'm afraid of serious psychiatric medications like SSRIs. The one time I was on it, it made me rather manic. There is nothing that treats depression better than: 1) exercise. 2) rewarding socializing. 3) sex. Granted, if you're sufficiently depressed, it can be very hard to even have these 3 things going, but pursuing them is worth the struggle.

[–]proveititproves 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Right? And I find it rather comical that ever since internalizing the red pill, I personally have had less urges to "escape".

[–]beginner_ 4 points5 points  (7 children)

To give a different perspective against the meme here that ADs are bad and ridiculous:

I was on anti-depressant for about 2 years. It wasn't an SSRI but reversible MAO (so no diet restrictions) and it was for social anxiety but also had depression. The effect is hard to describe (less critical about yourself) but it's there and it for sure helped a lot. It's night and day how I was before and now. (Note: I'm over 30 and you can even at that huge make pretty huge leaps/changes). I also resisted taking them first when therapist recommended them. But looking back they helped more than therapy itself did while costing 1/100th of therapy.

If you really are in a big hole and have serious mental problems like depression or social anxiety, don't let yourself get scared off by TRP making fun of anti-depressants. However it's not a magic cure. You still need to go to the gym and take action. In case of social anxiety they make that first step a little bit easier which is crucial.

[–]GeorgeBushIV 1 point2 points  (3 children)

you're a success story, its very common patients become dependant and cannot go without the drugs.

now they're spending extra time trying different doses and drugs. wasting time.

the magic cure is to find a professional. again its not cheap but thats not the debate. drugs are not the long term answer.

[–]Kharn0 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Because its so easy.

I was going through a bad time, was depressed, mentioned it to my doc and his very first sentence was "do you want pills for it?" That slapped sense into me because I know some people that have clinical depression, they've been that way for most of their lives, its a wiring thing.

But being 'depressed' because you're in a rough patch is entirely different and medication is an expensive band-aid, not a cure.

[–]GeorgeBushIV 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i work in special ed, the kids i work with have emotional and behavioral issues. it breaks my heart these kids are treated with medication instead of proper attention. its def cheaper and easier but its sad.

[–]CallMeHaseo 276 points277 points  (132 children)

It honestly scares me how women are once the masks are removed. As a "beta" or "cuck" (basically guys who aren't chad) you're expected to workout consistently, build a physique, get the good well paying high status job, get the car, get the house/apartment just to gain access to some biatch who's already been ran through by 9,10,11+ different dudes for free. The worst part is you'll never know her true body count because they almost always lie. I predict the divorce rate for the millennial generation will be ridiculously high.. the collapse is inevitable.. I really don't know if I can respect women anymore at all after reading this.

[–][deleted] 239 points240 points  (58 children)

If you think girls you meet have only slept with 11 dudes....Lol you are in for a rude awakening.

[–]J-Mosc 85 points86 points  (6 children)

No kidding, you are seriously low-balling my man. It is waaaay worse than that. Shit I wish the girls I met only banged 11 dudes. And no you'll never know the real number. Never.

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (5 children)

They probably don't know the real amount anyway

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (2 children)

Some don't. "I was drunk." "He's an asshole and didn't count." "Does sucking dick count?" "It was just the tip" "I'm a virgin, that's why I only do anal."

The hamster will rationalize anything for them so they don't have to think about it.

My Ex had 12 before me. I was just #13. We stopped talking when she hit #16. The funny part is that her memory is garbage, and she will literally not remember me.

[–]askmrcia 7 points8 points  (1 child)

This entirely. They may have slept with 11 dudes but they have way more hand jobs and blow jobs which doesn't count. Women are ridiculously slutty now. I honestly don't even know why guys keep marrying these whores. Just saw a chick on my Facebook get married two years after college and pretty much ran through the entire football team. Not lying, everyone knew she got around dudes on the football and she got married two years after she graduated. Which means some idiot just said "I knew you for a little over a year now, let's get married."

I don't know who I should be mad at more. These sluts or these retards that keep getting married and let these sluts get away with that behavior.

And back on my original point, I met quite a few girls who only gave me head because they only save sex for guys who their serious about. Like wtf, I just creamed in your mouth as if that's any less slutty then you opening your legs up.

[–]angryguy4444 69 points70 points  (28 children)

In my college, there were parties organised every week (on thursday). Because we had mostly female students, the organization was special. I was part of the team whose job was to organize the parties and let me tell you, one of the main concern was "how to get enough boys at the party so that every girl can get laid this night".

At the end of every party, most girls would leave with another boy.

It is my estimation that most women in my college ended up having sex with between 100 and 200 guys before they finished college. And I'm just taking into account the official party that was held every thursday. There were a lot more parties throughout the week. Most girls would go out 5 nights a week. I had 2 female friends and that's what they would do. The would fuck at least one guy, then head home and engage in some lesbian shit.

Then, they finished college, got a husband and BAM, they change every fucking thing on their facebook profile. They went back YEARS ago to change some comments and publications that were made to their account. When I meet some of those girls with their husband, I have a hard time not cringing. I have seen some of those girls participating in sex contest during some parties, other doing incredibly freaky shit, and now they play innocent and pure and the poor husband believes it.

But hey, he was never a part of the party world so he can't imagine what's going on in there.

[–]Locogooner 39 points40 points  (12 children)

It is my estimation that most women in my college ended up having sex with between 100 and 200 guys before they finished college.

Jesus christ where did you go to school....

[–]angryguy4444 35 points36 points  (7 children)

Engineering school, France.

[–]Locogooner 35 points36 points  (2 children)

French girls are some of the most promiscuous in Europe in my experience.

All my craziest AF stories are with French girls.

[–]angryguy4444 32 points33 points  (1 child)

Promiscuous, yet polite and nice. I love them.

[–]RedPillHanSolo 12 points13 points  (2 children)

While I was reading your post, I was thinking "these sorority hoes are out of control. Poor American bros". Then I read where you are from. Holy crap.

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    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Religion keeps some of them in check here in the Midwest

    [–]Timmytanks40 25 points26 points  (3 children)

    I had a chick in college call me asking if id transmitted her some STD. Turns out after wed fucked on thrusday she had gotten dick every night until sunda y. Luckily for me it was the guy on Sunday. I felt bad that she had to make all those calls but actions have consequences.

    [–]GrabHerByThePEPE 24 points25 points  (11 children)

    After being redpilled 1-2 years ago, I scour this sub looking for the kind of shit that makes my heart sink and says to me "wow I really gotta stop/start doing x". I have thick skin, almost nothing gets to me. But This is that post. This is the kind of post that I'll read every morning or every time before I go out.

    If there's more to tell, please make a separate post and pm me, it would be a big service to the sub. Thanks mate.

    [–]angryguy4444 40 points41 points  (6 children)

    Well, there isn't more to it than what you would normally expect : sex is nothing to girl, they have sex to make their ex jealous, because they are bored, to pass the time, to have free diner, because they feel insecure..most of them have bisexual experiences just because they can. Even the pure innocent girls do that.

    At one point I was in a relationship with this girl who loved anal. She would ask for it every day, around 3 times a day (which was great but exhausting to me). At one point, she had issues with her ass. She told me she almost shat herself during a climbing class. I said "well, maybe we should slow down a little with the anal thing". She responded something that I'll never forget and which, in my opinion, illustrates perfectly how stupid girls can be. It was something in french that I can't really translate but the closest translation is "you only live once so you should enjoy it". OK you enjoy having your ass tore down.

    During my last year I was at the train station and overheard a girl who has just arrived into the college. She was on the phone with her parents. Petite white girl, looked really pure, dressed modestly..

    She said on the phone "During the first month there are activities planned to help new student fit in but it's all things like runing in underwear in the street, contest of who is going to have sex with the most men in one night - and we have to provide pictures to proove our number!" She was sounding really ofended and shocked. Well, she participated in all activities which, of course were never mandatory. But since her parents lived in another town, you know..they never knew. But I remember one of the activities which was really fun : we would get people in groups and give a dildo to each of them and they had to find the most creative thing to do with it to win. Or we would feed something to someone who then had to pass it to the person next to him/her (mouth to mouth).

    Of course, you know about drug use.

    There is just one exception, a girl who was always by herself or with her 2 friends. Rarely came to parties, rarely talked to anybody but her 2 friends, great grades. There was a party which theme was "master & slave" and we had to find costumes. I asked her if she knew where to find some leather accessories and she acted really shocked. Well, i found another girl and I went to the party with her on a leash. She enjoyed a lot being humiliated in front of others but that was the theme of the party. Also we had a song made by the students and during certain parts of the songs everybody would remove their top and start dancing and make particular moves designed by former students. It was a kind of a tratidion. We had another dance, well it was a song, during which people would strip in front of the others (but it was in small groups this time, not in front of everyone), and I remember once, a girl didn't want to see if boyfriend strip in front of other girls (the guy was a chad and his gf knew the girls who were there wanted to fuck him), but people held her down on a bed to let the guy strip.

    We also had another "tradition". The desks of the administration were on the same building as the classrooms. We would get into their offices and fuck on the desk of a guy who was a fucking nightmare. He would make our student life a living hell everytime he could and everyone dispised him. I think he never knew about that.

    It was easy and weird. Sometime you would go to a party and see that half of the girls who were there fucked you.

    I had female friends who would buy some male stripper services. Every month. With the money their parents gave them.

    Forget about the pill LOL, they can't remember it everytime.

    Even landwhales would get some action. I'm talking 2-3 guys a week, and then they filtered them and only slept with one. They would kiss the 2-3 guys, maybe give them a blowjob in the toilets, then leave to go home and then choose the one they liked. I've seen desperation from men that I couldn't imagine possible.

    Oh and there is the alcohol thing too, they would drink (and do drugs) so much that everynight we had at least 1 person getting send to the hospital, which created much problems with the administration so we had to forbid them from coming to the parties again, which created a lot of tensions but that's something else.

    The most pathetic female I've seen during those years was a gorgeous - I mean gorgeous - female who lived right above a bar. She had free alcohol all the time. She would come home from school, go to the bar and drink until midnight, go to a club, come back at around 6 am and then go to school or skip classes. I know that because I used to do it with her for some time, and then I would slept at her house (but we didn't fuck). I saw her skin and her hair get ugly, her teeth not white anymore, I saw her age a lot because of all the alcohol she drank.

    Don't even get me started on the exchange students (coming from other countries).

    And there was the sport competition between schools that happened too. It would last a few days and that was straight up a huge orgy - but only for the right people. Actually, we would select who could participate (you know, we only had 2 buses so not everyone could come), so the losers wouldn't get on the bus.

    I could go on and on. Those were fun years, even though I personnally got broken by one of the girls I met, which led me to TRP.

    Basically I would say sex is nothing to women, they get hit on all the time and they can't imagine what dry spells are like for men. i had a female friend telling me she hadn't been in a relationship in such a long time - 4 months!

    Then they put on a mask, learn a few things to seem intelligent and cultivated, and begin a new life with a husband and a family.

    But when she says "night out with the girls", what happens it the same that happened in college.

    [–]Specter242 28 points29 points  (0 children)

    Dude my university experience is completely different than yours LOL

    [–]elcarlosmiguel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    shit im from portugal and college is nothing like this,

    [–]GrabHerByThePEPE 3 points4 points  (1 child)

    This makes it sound like you went to a fetish sex college. Nobody expects this of the raunchiest sororities here

    [–]zephyrprime 6 points7 points  (3 children)

    Dude, don't listen to that troll. Those numbers are absolutely ridiculous. They are an order of magnitude beyond reality. No survey even made supports such high numbers and those surveys include surveys with guys in them. I've been part of the party world for a decade and yes there is sex there but nowhere near these numbers. Girls don't care about sex what they care about is playing games. You need to get your bullshit meter checked.

    [–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt 10 points11 points  (1 child)

    A dozen or so is a conservative number these days by the time they hit 22. Realistically it'll be double or triple that, and possibly more if she's good looking and not socially awkward. That's by the time they are 22 and leaving college. By 30 it will likely be approaching 50 dudes or more.

    [–]a_can_of_tea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

    Yeah dude, I know 18-19 year old girls with way higher than that when they're being honest.

    Not even slutty girls. Just regular girls.

    My ex who was 18 admitted to 11.

    [–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang 137 points138 points  (14 children)

    You were lied to.

    Respecting women in the modern way is fundamentally unmanly. On top of that it's a fool's errand because women will never appreciate it, it puzzles them and makes them morbidly anxious, because it's not a woman's place to be "respected" in this sense. She is to be respected as a wife, as a mother, as a daughter. Not as a woman.

    Women are to be loved, protected, and guided. Just like children. Only a completely blind imbecile respects women and 3 yr olds.

    A very big switcheroo was deliberately perpetrated against men, when they were convinced using mass media that their women should be "free", and that men guiding their women is "oppressive", and that women are no-ones responsibility but their own, as equal individuals. This is the most destructive lie the enemy could think up, and it's working quite well so far.

    Men gave up, threw up their hands in confusion and retreated. Their women are now in constant peril from every side, and the men do nothing about it, because equality, because you must respect "her choice", and not be controlling etc. etc. The men forgot that these are THEIR WOMEN. These are their women, the ones that the men shed blood for since the world began. The present haggle of cute blue hair pixies are under the makeup the very same herd of creatures, maintained like a candle's flame from primordial times until the present by men. They are the creatures who nurture in the next generations, the ones who represent the happy promise of genetic immortality to a man, and they have been stolen, using a cheap magician's trick - flashing TV screen.

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      [–]Casanova-Quinn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

      Good point. Not to mention that men often can not do anything thanks to the current laws. If you make a woman angry, she can easily go to the police and claim you abused or raped her. At the very least, you now have to spend a night or two in custody.

      [–]McLuhanSaidItFirst 9 points10 points  (0 children)

      Respecting women in the modern way is fundamentally unmanly.

      Holy shit. You just... put into words a thought that had been percolating in my mind but I couldn't form the sentence because it's so... out there.

      women will never appreciate it, it puzzles them and makes them morbidly anxious

      This. I went through this before I got divorced.

      "Why do my eyes hurt?"

      "Because you've never used them".

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        [–]therealpkg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

        Like the oldest teenager in the room.

        [–]BasedBrexitBroker 19 points20 points  (9 children)

        Millenials won't even get married to begin with. And those who do will probably divorce in higher numbers than in the past also.

        [–]bowie747 36 points37 points  (2 children)

        I'm 26 and i don't know anybody who is thinking that marriage is a good idea. Many of my mates are ultra liberal starving art students, mind you. These aren't rp guys either. It's so easy to see that there's nothing in it for us.

        Most guys I know struggle with dating, while every chick they know is getting fucked six ways from Sunday. And it rightly frustrates them. Marriage is not a reward for a patient man.

        [–]BasedBrexitBroker 14 points15 points  (0 children)

        Marriage is not a reward for a patient man.

        More like a punishment for any man

        [–]1scissor_me_timbers00 20 points21 points  (5 children)

        I can't wait to see the trends of Gen Z as they begin entering their 20s in the next few years. They're fucked even worse than us millennials.

        [–][deleted] 59 points60 points  (4 children)

        And I plan on being there to fuck them.

        [–]sickofallofyou 16 points17 points  (1 child)

        Were gonna have like 3 generations of bitches at our disposal. It will truely be a golden age.

        [–]Tie5o11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

        The flip side of this coin is that there will be an increasing hypergamous pressure put on Gen Z woman, as there will be more millennial men in their late 20s, 30s, and even 40s who are single and looking for women in their prime. Millenial women who are passing their prime will lose out, as will Gen Z men in their early 20's who will be facing an unprecedented amount of competition with older more seasoned men. The negative side of this, is that Gen Z women may become the most entitled in the history of woman.

        To counter this, you might see a fair number of cougar type relationships form with millennial women and Gen Z guys.

        Will be interesting to see how it plays out.

        [–]2comment 28 points29 points  (2 children)

        Your lament is that of generations. I remember my first encounter in the movie "Name of the Rose" (good movie with Sean Connery), where an old priest caught a young apprentice looking at a virgin mary statue and remarked:

        She's beautiful, is she not? When the female, by nature so perverse, becomes sublime by holiness, then she can be the noblest vehicle of grace.

        I think it said something to 13 year old me about the pedastooling done by all men throughout the ages of their idealized woman, especially the farce and paradox of the virgin Mary story.

        Authors of the past, like Schopenhauer's On Women have already written a ton of wisdom, and many of the famous ancient Romans writers were also keen on all this.

        You can find a ton of this by googling authors and misogyny. The angrier the tears they elicit, the deeper they hit the mark. My most recent and favorite mysogynistic author was Hitchens.

        [–]TRPjoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

        All true. Good to hear from someone in this community who's seen that movie. Should be required viewing in trp.

        [–]spoiltcheese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

        TIl that there were redpillers in the 1800s

        [–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (17 children)

        It shouldnt, and your rage/fear is a sign that you really dont get it and are still party to the biggest blue pill covett contract delusion of them all.

        The belief that if you are good/virtuous/honorable that you live in a world where THEY would and should be the same. It is unmasked by your dire predictions of societal upheaveal and marital crisis once it all just comes out. Once the world sees what you desperately hope it is blind to.

        Cut the don quixote bullshit, you sound like a god damn religious fundamentalist.

        The truth is you are one node in a massively distributed network with exactly 1 purpose at the end of the day. MAKE MORE DNA AND MAKE IT BETTER. There is no morality to this and you are trying to play fucking checkers with the world by applying it when your subconscious and everyone elses is playing chess to keep this machine going in a system that doesnt give a shit about white knighting and the only penalty that gets respected is death without moving and improving DNA.

        There will be no reckoning. No mass punishment nor "a ha!" Moment where people figure it out en masse and reject anything. To even suggest their SHOULD be is some Mr Magoo pollyanna bullshit.

        Play the game you were literally born to play and stop lamenting a covert contract with life that isnt going to be honored.

        [–]1empatheticapathetic 1 point2 points  (5 children)

        Men actually have to live up to standards to be able to thrive in society, unlike women. A man with a poor reputation will have trouble succeeding in other areas of his life despite the fact he might have excellent game.

        It's hard to truly kill the bluepill because society runs under the guise of a bluepill system. So women can act out, fuck 100 guys and have no consequences. A man can fuck one woman and go to jail for it if his game wasn't tight enough. We have to balance this system in order to thrive.

        [–]TheReformist94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

        I don't.that's why I advocate cheating/having your cake and eating it and generally just being a selfish unpredictable cunt. You play or get played. Amorality works both ways

        [–]bur_ner_ 1 point2 points  (19 children)

        I wouldn't focus too much on physique if you don't have it naturally.

        I know guys that are overweight, ugly, broke and act gay but they fuck beautiful young girls regularly. If however, you do want a relationship with a woman, I'd recommend you just make sure she doesn't have any obvious hoe signs (tattoos, piercings, many male friends), rather than even trying to guess her body count.

        TL;DR... 11 guys is way to small a body count estimate for western women ~25 IMHO.

        [–]CallMeHaseo 13 points14 points  (1 child)

        safe to say marrying an american woman is a waste

        [–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 8 points9 points  (14 children)

        25? Holy fuck you guys are unaware. 40 dicks a month is easy for them. I'm not bullshitting you, they can fuck two a day of they want without effort. The average girls can do this, the hot ones can do even better. The slut controls are off, they'll get it any time they want, unless they're fat and ugly...in which case 25 is still low.

        [–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (1 child)

        I believe it. Fun story about a chick from my buddies church who tallied 3 in one day. She goes to college, fucks her bf in the morning but they get into a fight. Being pissed off she heads over to the dorm of another guy she met in class. He wasn't there but his roommate was so she fucked his roommate. The guy from her class shows up later in the day and then they fuck too. So within a 12 hour stretch she had 3 dicks in her with practically zero effort.

        [–]TheReformist94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        Why does science claim that women are less promiscuous when they are racking up heavy numbers? I believe they want variety as much as men,but in a hyperamic manner.

        [–]icutrauma11 58 points59 points  (8 children)

        I've written this elsewhere, but I have to write this again pertaining to the depression brought up here. The U.S. population makes up 4.34% of the world population. This nation consumes 80% of the pharmaceuticals produced in the world. This nation consumes 50% of the pain medication produced in the world.

        I would like to know how many women in this country consume those pharmaceuticals.

        When I see a pretty or beautiful woman come in and review her history, it reminds me how much I want nothing to do with American born women or one who has been "Americanized". Invariably they are on several anti-depressants, anti-anxiety, anti-psychotics.

        http://www.allgov.com/news/controversies/us-5-percent-of-world-population-80-percent-of-opioid-consumption-141215?news=855100

        [–]vegamenian 17 points18 points  (6 children)

        I'm Armenian and have traveled eastern Europe and let me tell you eastern European women tend to be more stable on a general level

        [–]t12totalxyzb00 5 points6 points  (4 children)

        Western European are getting slowly more like american women. 50% are on Medication.

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          [–]bigredchewinggum 38 points39 points  (2 children)

          Had a friend who worked in a doctor's office in a similar position when we were younger and the amount of women out there with STDs is no joke. Girls in our fucking high school.. Not even past the age of 18.. Like 1 in 5 according to him had an STD of some kind at some point.

          Most STDs are curable though and women are more likely to have them (vaginas are warm and moist.. an incubator for disease/bacteria if you think about it). Just go on an antibiotic and it clears up. I forget the rates, but genital herpes is actually very common. Chances are you've fucked someone with it if you're N count is 10 or above. Some people are asymptomatic and some only break out like once in a blew moon. Some get it as bad as the grossest pic you'll find on google images.

          My ex girlfriend's sister had HPV. I have a guy friend who has HPV. I dated a girl who told me she had genital herpes. My friend caught chlamydia from some chick. It's all pretty fucking common amongst people who are sexually active/promiscuous.

          Wear a rubber. Sure it's not 100% effective, but it's better than going raw in some stanky pussy.

          [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

          Most STD's are still curable. But the number is decreasing due to resistant strains. If you're unlucky and catch one of them, you and your dick are screwed up for life..

          [–]Conceited-Monkey 17 points18 points  (0 children)

          Thanks for contributing. Good insights.

          [–]traveldeedee 43 points44 points  (35 children)

          Tell you a personal story:

          I was once roommate with this 40 yr old whale. Overall she appeared nice initially(mask). And I thought only a dildo would like to fuck her.

          As I started to know her better. It turned out that she's a single mom, ran away with an Asian mobster and then spitted out his child. Now she's involved in some African immigrant community doing mother Teresa shit (help them with immigration paperwork). And honest to god, one time she brought home 2 black guys. The threesome was earth-shaking!

          It was insanely eye-opening.

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            [–]traveldeedee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

            I'm sure the guy's for that green card. But even that is disgusting.

            [–]Pastelitomaracucho 24 points25 points  (2 children)

            I left my 9/10 hot wife for a 6/10 curvy girl which was 10 times more fun. No regrets at all.

            I avoid super hot women like the plague now. The reasons are all over these threads.

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              [–]bigredchewinggum 23 points24 points  (2 children)

              I can understand it. I like thick curvy women. I've definitely fucked my fair share of fat chicks. Same with my friends. More cushion for the pushin.

              Don't wanna be seen with them in public though lol..

              [–]Endorsed ContributorMeat-on-the-table 60 points61 points  (1 child)

              Thick/curvy isn't remotely the same as fat.

              [–]cjandstuff 4 points5 points  (1 child)

              I don't get how people have have fetishes either, but whatever floats your goat, man.

              [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

              Men are pigs, we will fuck anything

              [–]tekn0_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              Some guys have a fetish for it. I have seen fat chicks lose their bf when they slim down

              [–]GBP4tendies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              It's Pavlov's dogs. It's the guys who can't do any better (on the regular at least) do they mentally condition themselves into liking it "oh this is my type :^)"

              [–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (10 children)

              Holy shit. I mean I don't think I would ever do a threesome with another dude involved, but if I did, the chick better be a hot piece of ass, to even be worth it.

              [–]whoremaker 28 points29 points  (0 children)

              Whenever you read someone's retelling of the time they had a 3some or some crazy sexcapade, I always ask how heavy the girl is. Usually the girl is pretty ugly/fat.

              [–]Hjalmbere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              A lot of landwhales and women who are post-wall or otherwise unattractive here in Sweden end up working with asylum seekers (90% male). Getting banged is a major motivator. And you can get paid by the government while doing it. Of course these women try to pass themselves off as being completely altruistic, but we all know what the real reason is......

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              [–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (4 children)

              It's not hard. Men have the issue where they think they no longer have to look at other girls.

              She caught a hunter, and somewhere, deep in her woman brain, she needs to know you can still hunt. No one wants a hunter who cannot hunt.

              All that stuff above? Doesn't matter, thats marriage 1.0 rules. She has her own job, she spends her own money (and then some) she no longer needs provision, and the choreplay is because shes not attracted, so may as well get the yard raked.

              No, she needs a daddy in her life to tell her no, good dick from a hawt guy who will find another one if she ain't acting right. It's crude, but every piece of writing in the manosphere (practical female psychology, 12 levels of dread etc) is saying the same thing, after decades of men talking about it.

              you think women have a plan to retire at 50? You think they look at life like cost benefit? No, they have a string of emotional states, of which they use the logical side of their brain to justify after the fact. It's worked for 100 000 years to get through 80 years of life, they have no reason to stop now.

              The day other women don't want to fuck you is the day she won't either.

              So what you're asking for is ridiculous. Your job is to be high quality, hers is to work her ass off to keep you faithful to her.

              All that other shit can be boiled down to a quote from archwinger

              women are as shitty as you let them be.

              And every guy in a relationship who bitches about how his woman acts, is really pissed at himself, for letting his house slip .

              [–]Penguin327 23 points24 points  (5 children)

              People say religion is dumb but I bet if the US were still a deeply Christian society the women would be a lot less promiscuous and the nuclear family would be a lot more stable.

              [–]atradervish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

              Women would be happier too

              [–]Cunt_Robber 26 points27 points  (7 children)

              I'd like to validate most of what you stated. I get the same replies from most guys when asked about their last sexual encounter - most say months. Some look like they could get it, but I guess they wait until the unicorn falls in their lap. And women, idk what they do but so many of them get UTIs. Anxiety and depression? Pervasive. Idk if theres more stigma for guys to get it diagnosed but its like every other girl has anxiety and depression. They pretend theyre independent and all in college, but every woman I work with (aged ~28 and up) is settled down with some husband or boyfriend (except 1, and shes a hot doctor whos probably still riding the CC haha, great for her). Trp's message of avoiding marriage is a pill thats gonna get pretty bitter in time as guys realize the older you get the smaller the dating pool gets, and your options do dwindle, and at some point seemingly everyone you come in contact with is paired up. All girls pair up, even the fat ugly ones dont stay single long, and they dont branch swing as much as people on here claim they do. They do it because being single is seen as being undesirable, and that is social suicide. As for cheating who really knows, but you can bet your ass everyone keeps that to themselves.

              The medical field? Littered with women. It is definitely not an RP environment, until youre in the OR. There, the male surgeons rule over all. It makes me smh that apparently you need a 4 yr degree and $30k+ college debt to take a blood pressure, smile, and run some strep tests. The CAs and CRNAs (the ones below the nurses) are the jokes. Women docs are actually different than other women, theyre in a class of their own, having suffered through that rite of passage to don the white coat. I actually have respect for women who pursue the MD and specialize, it's no easy feat.

              Something did rub me wrong about your post though and that was number 6). Doesn't sound very plausible to me. Hello, HIPAA? Dont tell me they were professionals in a professional environment and all that about the guy's personal info transpired out in the open with serious intent on tracking him down. They were joking around. Admit it, you exaggerrated it.

              [–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (2 children)

              I believe the OP. Years ago I was dating this girl who was working at a doctor's practice. She was seriously interested to find out my ex's details so she could pull her information on the national system to find out if she ever had an STI or something like that. Asked her if that was common (to check people's medical records) she said everyone does it especially the divorced women who are checking up on their ex husbands.

              If your medical records are in a national database it is naive to think that it won't be accessed by anyone who is curious about you and has access, including girls you are dating or have dated, or their new partners, or government (NSA/GCHQ) of course.

              If you want privacy, use a fake name and limit what you tell your doctor. You can't rely on the system. Everyone respects your privacy until they have a reason to want to find out about you.

              [–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

              Everyone respects your privacy until they have a reason to want to find out about you.

              The purpose of privacy laws is to prevent someone from looking when they're interested. Just like virtue and morality doesn't matter until you're given an opportunity to get away with breaking it without repercussions.

              [–]bur_ner_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

              About twice a year on average, I hear a news story about a medical professional (usually nurse) who was caught accessing patients' personal information illegally. Why do you doubt it? Corruption isn't only in 3rd world countries

              [–]yummyluckycharms 6 points7 points  (0 children)

              I dont think OP was kidding about doctors and release of personal information. I've dated quite a few doctors and the sheer amount of personal information they gab about to their fuck bois is staggering. They also routinely mock their patients - to the point where in one office two doctors were betting when his wife would leave a guy after the patient got fired from his job!!!

              This one doctor that I was banging, when I went to her office to pick her up for drinks, I was able to passingly identify several of her patients just from the info I was told in passing. Where they work, what problems they had, etc.

              Please note - this is in Canada, where the college of doctors insures that doctors can pretty much do anything without fear of punishment or censorship. Its heavily suppressed.

              [–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

              As a man who recently became single at 36 I disagree with you about options being dwindled.. the shear number of single divorced women is insane!! Sure they are probably damaged, but so are the young ones.

              I would almost guess that there are more single women my age then when I was younger.

              [–]TRP Legal ExpertColdIceZero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

              I'm in the US and can provide anecdotal evidence of a HIPAA violation like this. A buddy of mine is a dentist in his early 30's. His current gf works at a pharmacy where he had a script filled. She got his number from his records and texted him for coffee.

              [–]chambertlo 27 points28 points  (7 children)

              Wow, all of that sounds fucking awful.

              I am so glad I am fucking gay.

              [–]McLuhanSaidItFirst 22 points23 points  (5 children)

              Wait, what?!

              How did he get in here?

              Srsly tho... How does this apply to you? What use do you make of what you learn here? Interested in your perspective.

              [–]BreathOfDick 10 points11 points  (1 child)

              I've seen plenty of comments from gays on here. You have to keep in mind the emphasis on masculinity on TRP. Sure there a lot about pulling women, but just as much if not more about being a good man in general.

              [–]reallydontgiveashit 7 points8 points  (2 children)

              I'll jump in since no one else will. My best friend is gay and we have to go to the gay club every week where I live. It's also the biggest club in town. Anyway, he is a bottom and tells me I would be the ultimate top in this society. I go to the club with him and use my skills on lesbian women and straight women with mixed results. Anyway, I'm very aggressive and my friend tells me even the aggressive gay top men want to bottom for me. I'm constantly having drinks bought for me even though I do not drink. I grab women and take them out to the dance floor and throw them around. Men come up and dance on me. I push them away, nicely, and still dance. I don't act offended. Remain stoic and show them they can't match my level. By the end of the night, i have a pretty decent pick of who i want to bang. Anyway, I've pushed some of TRP onto my gay friend and he is so much happier in his relationships. He still wants to bottom and be dominated, but now he has a presence and stoic demeanor to get the man that he wants. Shit works for all classes and levels in society.

              [–]master0jack 39 points40 points  (18 children)

              I work in the medical field. This reeks of BS. Nobody is going to let a volunteer draw blood, no matter if they're medically trained or not, in a family practice. The rest of the story is absurd as well.

              [–]foxymoron 7 points8 points  (0 children)

              Inpatient Pediatrics 20+ years. We have volunteers all day, every day, and info is STRICTLY controlled. Hell even staff doesn't have access to the entire patient chart. It's called "need to know".

              OP is a fuckwit.

              [–]westworldweird 3 points4 points  (1 child)

              Ha ha yeah. I also like the fact that every female is having sex or in a relationship, while no men are. Who are the women fucking?

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                [–]master0jack 10 points11 points  (2 children)

                I'm an RN, I am telling you either the person who took your blood was not a volunteer OR wherever you got your blood drawn is practising illegally.

                [–]westworldweird 4 points5 points  (2 children)

                Then what happened to you wasn't legal if you live in the Western world.

                [–]DMA_IHM 2 points3 points  (6 children)

                Lol your use of the word "cuck" is so incredibly stupid... It marks you as a sniveling, frightened deluded moron.

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                [–]McLuhanSaidItFirst 2 points3 points  (2 children)

                Specifically what in this thread is suspect data due to confirmation bias, in your opinion?

                [–]westworldweird 1 point2 points  (1 child)

                Everything. Including the fact that all women are having sex and no men are. Someone has to be fucking someone of the opposite sex.

                [–]hamsterbator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                yup i have worked in primary care clinics in the past as an MD ain't nobody got time for all this bullshit. you ask need to know questions and move onto the next 20 patients...

                [–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

                For men it seemed the chief concern was being able to keep working and earning $$$ and or working out. Sexual health was rarely brought up. For women, being able to have and enjoy sex was tantamount. Even when dealing with severe health issues. Some went off medication to their own detriment because it interfered with their pleasure.

                I would wager that this is because women attach emotion more immediately to sex, so promiscuity is going to be more tied to depression for them, and their happiness is going to be more tied to emotionally-engaging sex. It makes a lot of sense that the rise in female promiscuity could coincide with a rise in female depression, not that it couldn't generally go for both genders. Because the biologically embedded goal is to pair-bond for the sake of raising offspring, and women seem to be worse at living without a pair-bond as they age, so hook-up culture is just a poor method for women to find monogamy, and even though they aren't aware of how poor a method it is, along with lacking positive feminine traits, specifically feminine behavior, which seem like it all contributes to a higher rate of depression in them. I'm pretty grateful that as a man, as I get older, the idea of living alone just becomes increasingly peaceful.

                [–]Red_SL4 13 points14 points  (1 child)

                Bitches are poor creatures. They have no underlying life purpose that doesn't involve a man. In fact, I'd say they can not find happiness at all if their man lacks vision and purpose. That's why they feel so empty and often times depressed even if the dicking is good.

                If I were not so glad to be a man, maybe I'd spend a little time feeling sorry for them.

                [–]McLuhanSaidItFirst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                If I were not so glad to be a man, maybe I'd spend a little time feeling sorry for them.

                So harsh. But I'm sure you come by it honestly!

                [–]2awalt_cupcake 15 points16 points  (0 children)

                "ah well he was so cute and had game"

                they give no shits except getting dick

                [–]McLuhanSaidItFirst 8 points9 points  (0 children)

                Sex feels good. The barrier to entry for men is high; for women it's low. Women who limit their sex life because it's wise to do so are the prize. Men who are focused on making a difference are the prize.

                I get it now.

                [–]syf3r 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                no wonder they have no respect for beta bill who puts them on a pedestal...

                imagine if you hear some poor sap like that... I'd feel sorry for the guy.

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                [–]Earthworm_Djinn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                I've never even heard of volunteering at a family practice. I've volunteered at a hospital in the ER and was limited to handing out blankets, water, and other little pleasantries. Pester the staff a little bit to remind them about people already in areas if it's busy.

                [–]SOwED 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                You were looking for "paramount" not "tantamount."

                [–]Avskygod0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                Ah yes, you have mest the cancer of society first-hand

                [–]matrixpush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                Yeah, very obvious. Even fat women have thirsty guys hitting them up somehow - they just don't want their friends to find out.

                [–]Hjalmbere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                Not only should the dad be strong, any woman you ltr should also have a good relationship with both her parents. I missed the parental red flag when I got married, guess if it lasted?

                [–]jocomoco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                Was this some kind of psychology thing ? I don't get it, I go to doctor coz my back hurst then he/she does not ask me who gave me blowjob last week.

                [–]McLuhanSaidItFirst 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                When asked about recent sex, it would be weeks, months, years for men. Most women are banging someone every week. ... The happiest men were the confident arrogant semi-chubby slobs (i.e. Dad bod) who drank and ate like ch*t and got the most sex.

                AMALT.

                AWALT.

                THIS is the best post I have read in like, forever.

                [–]GenghisKhanSpermShot 5 points6 points  (1 child)

                I love stuff in this sub but this type of stuff sounds like a made-up story to circle jerk this subs ideas.

                [–]askmrcia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                I think its exaggerated. Most field reports are. So what he is saying could be true to an extent, but its exaggerated.

                There was another comment here where he said he is in college in France and the girls organize huge orgies once a week. Like C'mon. Just hit CTRL F and search France and you will find the comment on this thread.

                I've partied a lot and know frat people who party as well. I also dated sorority girls. That shit only happens on those college porn videos.

                [–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (4 children)

                What I don't understand is... why did the men with dad bods get the most sex?

                How does that complement TRP theory? Realistically, shouldn't the muscular men get more sex?

                Could someone explain that particular point to me?

                [–]ElOweTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                My guess is muscular guys don't get sick as much as the Dad bods

                [–]foxymoron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                In the time you wasted writing this idiotic fairy tale, you could have actually done something useful, such as:

                Read a good book

                Check in with family who may be in need

                Clean your room

                Watch a movie

                Pick up trash along the side of the road

                Flossed your teeth

                Help a friend

                Contemplate your pathetic life and try to dig yourself out of this hole of self-pity and take responsibility for yourself, you miserable fuck.

                [–]mcavvacm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                Point 6 is by far the worst quality in your list, damn dude.

                [–]RICCIedm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                lmao is this misc or trp? strong merging

                I think most miscers are actually better with women than what they think

                (as you said, the majority of dudes are single and sexless anyway)

                [–]DamnNearRectum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                These are all great and absolutely true. It's refreshing to know that it men are learning what I have learned. I have three sisters and I've worked in female dominated environments. I've seen all of it.

                I wish you could see what I would consider the opposite. I work on a boat and 90% of the time it's exclusively men but every once in a while we will have a woman on the crew and it completely ruins the dynamic. Just like a man walking into the physicians office, adding a woman to a crew causes turbulence but in a completely different way. It's really interesting.

                [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                Some of the themes here are true but as a medical student you are either a complete liar or not from the United States. Pulling things from an EMR like an address would be such an enormous HIPPA issue.

                [–]GOTOSLEEPJAMIE 4 points5 points  (3 children)

                I feel bad for you little guys

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                  [–]GeneralCal 3 points4 points  (13 children)

                  If anything this makes me glad I don't live in NYC.

                  [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (12 children)

                  It's not that different anywhere else

                  [–]1scissor_me_timbers00 2 points3 points  (9 children)

                  I live in a mid size city, and I like it a lot. Growing up I wanted to move to a big coastal city but now either they've gotten worse or I just have realized they're not all they're cracked up to be. Probably both. I spent time in the Bay Area. Polluted, crowded, tons of traffic, shitty attitudes from people, very expensive. I like my midsize city.

                  [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

                  I live in a smaller town..

                  Awalt still pretty much applies

                  [–]1scissor_me_timbers00 4 points5 points  (1 child)

                  Oh awalt for sure. They just don't have such big city viciousness about it.

                  [–]McLuhanSaidItFirst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                  That scene in Ground Hog Day where the weatherman picks up Nancy who works in a dress shop in Punxsatawney, bangs her that night.

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                    [–]1scissor_me_timbers00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                    I can believe it. LA seems like a hell on earth. Such a vapid city.

                    [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

                    My first 5 mins in the bay area was spent with some guy yelling and waving a aluminum bat at me while we where traffic. He thought I was driving to slow a few moments prior, when I was just behind a slower moving car. I'll never forget it. For a moment I thought I was going to have to take that bat from him and stab this fucker to death to protect my family, that was my first impression of the left cost

                    [–]1scissor_me_timbers00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                    Yeah the left coast is hyped and lame imo. Portland, SF, LA all that shit

                    [–]TRPjoe 1 point2 points  (1 child)

                    If you don't mind my asking where are you from? I couldn't agree more about the Bay Area (current assessment)

                    [–]yummyluckycharms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                    I dont think its different elsewhere....

                    When a woman is post wall, she's evaluating men based on wallet size. Most men know this, and hence, the need to work ever increasing hours. Besides, most jobs nowadays require 50-60 hours as the minimum anyways

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