If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%

MarauderFH · 2017-02-08T09:31:08+00:00

Lifetime numbers average around ten. So even this value is high. It's shocking for us but go to the dmv and look around at average people.

RICCIedm · 2017-02-08T11:47:11+00:00

Rating a 6 is sometimes tricky.

Let me give you an example : I live in Brazil. I dwell in a nice area and rarely deal with poor people. In Tinder, I just uglies to the left.

But now I've started driving for Uber. NOW I see how many fucking bad looking people there are in the world.

Lesson : the 6/10 in your social group is not really a 6/10. It is probably higher.

linsanityy · 2017-02-08T19:08:31+00:00

You're citing a skewed distribution. Most people slow down after they get a LTR. If you want an accurate comparison you should look @ average n count per year single/available. Don't validate through comparison to the mainstream. Improve.

Scandinavianredpill · 2017-02-08T13:11:44+00:00

I agree. I rarely see anyone make out when I am going out, I hear guys talk about it but I just rarely see them pull a girl.. however some times both parties like to be discreet so you can't know for sure. with regards to quality I seem to get a ton of 6es but almost no 7-8-9. (maybe 1 a year). Can't imagine how much social proof, looks, charm and money you would need to have to pull 7-10 consistently. Also pulling that many girls you need to get yourself another hobby in my opinion. it takes some effort every time, even though she might be one initiating.

But what you pull seem to go up exponentially, when I was a bit chubby but still the same person I got 0 action. Now I get more action than I can handle (I know it seems like brag, but my point is just your appearance seems to be almost as huge for girls as for guys when it comes to 1 night stands).

atticusfinch1973 · 2017-02-08T10:56:04+00:00

Everyone remember that for all of us here who have had dozens of partners, there are 3 guys who have sex with 3-5 women, marry one and have crappy sex lives for 30 years. They might bang a couple of hookers in the meantime.

Thinking about my male friends and clients I can tell you that out of probably 50 guys I've had more sex than 90% of them just this year alone. I have more sex during some weeks than I did in the last three years of my marriage.

Most of them are married and I hear about their horrible sex lives constantly with their wives. Some of them cheat but again, it's with one partner for a period of time, not multiples.

I have one client who is still a virgin at 35 and seems to be totally uninterested in women.

empatheticapathetic · 2017-02-08T16:54:23+00:00

When I was in my early twenties, I was feeling pretty bummed out about my number mainly because of the hollywood effect. It was literally my main concern back then. Not my career, not my personal growth. Now I'm 27 and my n count is over 30 and I can't start to describe how stupid I was for being anxious about it. So to all young guys here, it's not important whether you are the most popular kid in the block and you banged every girl around. Just be redpill aware, educate yourselves and if you aren't a freak, you'll definitely have your day.

TheRedStoic · 2017-02-08T13:03:45+00:00

Eh. Maybe.

Most of the men I know who live rather red add/drop a plate a month. That's not at all unreasonable. Some just do ons every week to fortnight.

Maybe top 20%? If you're Social and not fat you can easily bag a new one a month just by asking constantly.

Fox_Red · 2017-02-08T18:46:03+00:00

Banged 3 girls last weekend. Met my quota already, time to watch twitch TV and play league of legends for the rest of the year. Oh yeah fuck this gym membership and fuck all your guys! /s

Gigantor13224 · 2017-02-08T18:54:28+00:00

Ok all this tally shit is stupid. Last I checked having good sex that gets you off is more important than shitty sex with several women. I don't know about you but when I fuck a lady my first thought is not filling out my tally sheet I want to have a good time.

I would rather have awesome sex with 2 women 10 times each than shitty sex with 20 different women. Otherwise what's the point?

ChadThundercockII · 2017-02-08T11:09:54+00:00

I can get laid 4 times a month. that's 48 different women a year. How do I do it? Prostitution. I don't really like it but it keeps me sane.

zephyrprime · 2017-02-08T16:30:54+00:00

Millelials are getting laid less than prior generations actually. Go read the government general social survey if you don't believe me. The reason the recent headline about "sex before dating" came into being is because formal dating is dead for beginning relationships.

Now I hope you all already understand why formal dating is dead for beginning relationships but I'll tell you if you're new or something. Women like to play cat and mouse to determine who is good enough to catch them. If you ask a girl out on a formal date, that's too blatant an expression of interest in the girl and girls practice the old Groucho Marx maxim - "I wouldn't want to be part of any club that would have me as a member". So informal "netflix and chill" is one preferred method of getting anything going with a woman these days.

slurmfactory · 2017-02-08T19:32:56+00:00

Feels good smashing lots of attractive women. Im married now tho, RIP one night stands.

Bradleybeal88 · 2017-02-08T20:45:05+00:00

There's more to life than raking every slimy vagina you can get your filthy fucking hands on

kasper138 · 2017-02-08T19:40:07+00:00

Jeez I've complained about 3 a month before. Perspective is a motherfucker.

ex_addict_bro · 2017-02-08T08:48:43+00:00

Sidenote : Anything below a 6 doesnt count

Yes it does. Ugly girls need some good loving too.

H2offroad · 2017-02-08T15:28:17+00:00

Wow this makes me feel pretty good. I can usually bang 1-2 new girls a month to every 2 months

tolerantman · 2017-02-08T19:45:00+00:00

Thank you for this! I am tired of seeing men with unrealistic expectations, its not like all dudes are fucking girls like a rockstar, you can't run away from the 20/80 rule, either be at the top or just be like anyone else.

yummyluckycharms · 2017-02-08T15:42:14+00:00

Number seems to be really, really low - and I suspect that is because it takes the whole population of males and averages it out. Yes, this includes the ugglies, but it also includes men serving in the military, men that are in remote locations, and men that are in LTR/marriage situations.

I would be more interested in seeing the average number of lays a man who is single and actively looking for dates. Should be at the very least 1 a month. I hit that ratio, just average looking, and i'm doing it in Toronto, which is doing it on hard mode.

555553211 · 2017-02-09T07:14:18+00:00

This is very important but not because of the actual statistic, whatever it may be, but because you need to take the imaginary pressure off your shoulders. Read "One Key Step to Not Giving a Fuck" from the sidebar and also existentialism: realize that life has no meaning or no goal, you don't have to really do anything, just enjoy the fact that you were randomly granted a couple of decades of stay in this universe and will be wiped off the face of this earth like every human being before and after you.

Adopting this philosophy has increased my success and overall enjoyment and ease in life tremendously.

blackedoutfast · 2017-02-08T17:36:59+00:00

yeah most guys really don't fuck a lot of different girls. the distribution just has a really long tail. a few Chads are out there banging a new girl every single week, but they are not typical at all.

most dudes never have ONS or spin plates. they will go on dates and have female friends and occasionally will get into a LTR and have sex. and i'll bet that if you could get an honest answer, there would be a shocking number of adult virgins.

and it's really not that hard to get your SMV high enough to be in that top percentage of guys. go take a look at your competition. most guys are complete garbage. if you look decent, have good social skills, etc to the point where uou can add a couple of notches every year, just approach a lot more girls if you want to bang more of them.

mykonos_rm · 2017-02-08T18:46:49+00:00

Nice post reminding people of reality. I know guys who go a full year without getting laid- and if they do, chances are she's a sub 6

ozaku7 · 2017-02-08T20:20:15+00:00

I've seen this firsthand myself. Went out with a bunch of guys, one of them tried to make us believe that he once fucked a girl and her sister in one weekend, and 100+ in his lifetime. He was fit, social, all that, so I give him credit for taking care of himself. But then I saw him talk to some Ukrainian chick in the club that looked more like a modest stripper. He started talking to her and she was clearly playing with him. Then he shows our the texts and starts getting a bit excited about all of it. She lived 50 miles away and was asking him to go there, even asking me if I could drive him. I had to tell him that she was just toying around, and he was biting like a hungry fish.

Nothing happened as far as I've understood, yet he told other friends who weren't with us in the club that he made out with her right then and there. And he was overly obsessed with her for a guy that has fucked 100+ plates in 8 years. It's been 6 months and he hasn't fucked a single plate, must have been really tough on him.

It's amazing how a simple n-count of your peers can make you feel good or bad. If you value yourself according to your n-count compared to others, you should reconsider your priorities. I've seen the biggest nerds saying that they have had like 4 plates, yet they get all nervous around a girl that talks to them. Take the n-count of your peers at face-value. No man will tell everyone they are a virgin because you would be noted as a masculine failure, but it doesn't make you any better if you let your self-image get influenced by the n-count of your peers.

asktrpthrow123 · 2017-02-08T14:23:40+00:00

Sounds like the 80/20 rule

FrgElder · 2017-02-08T23:48:42+00:00

When you take everyone into account, the average is a pathetic indicator. Even if you only average males from the 18-35 age group.

Average is disgusting, don't shoot for average, or even top 10%. Try to be the absolute best person you can be given your genetic limitations.

[deleted] · 2017-02-08T19:45:00+00:00

I could bang alot of uggos, probably to the tune of 10 a year, I wouldn't consider myself at the top of anything.

epubliusrex · 2017-02-08T20:37:55+00:00

That's all it takes? Geez. I feel so privileged to be me. When I lost my virginity at 15, I was part of just 4% of the population. I had sex with three different girls that year. The next year there were two new ones and a repeat of one from year one.

It isn't that hard, for me anyway. Never has been. I mostly just smile at them and make un-PC snarky comments. Women, being snarky, appreciate snarky-ness.

JukeLuke · 2017-02-08T21:01:10+00:00

Shit if this is true, than it makes me really happy about my count right now. I have fucked a total of 3 girls in my life but all of them have been in the past 3 months (and id say that 2 out of the 3 have been pretty hot. both in top sororities in my school). Thanks a lot man.

SlyAM · 2017-02-08T22:18:05+00:00

This post makes me feel much better about myself. I am still indeed a virgin and have only had one serious girlfriend throughout my whole high school career, but the fact that girls approach me, talk to me, and enjoy being in my presences gives me the hope that sometime soon I will shoot my little back men into one of these adolescent bitches and from their on out start getting it more than I ever thought I could.

Still, I have lots of improvements to make and a long way to go, but I'm getting there and I know sometime soon I'll finally get my dick wet. Lifting, finding TRP, and learning how to deal with women and how to game them in this modern era we live in has helped me a whole lot so I can't see anything but success coming my way as long as I keep trying and improving!

Good post OP, stay red!

abbafishhead · 2017-02-08T08:11:02+00:00

What about those of us who bang 1-3 new girls per week?

BullshittingNonsense · 2017-02-08T08:35:29+00:00

The average is something like 7

Auphor_Phaksache · 2017-02-08T07:51:22+00:00

I pulled the "top 10%" figure from my ass

I was going to say, bullshit I'm in the top 10%. I know some guys that can get 1-2 different girls a day.

bslizzle · 2017-02-08T16:00:40+00:00

It's also arguable that a lot of people's numbers come within a few years. So even though a lot of guys may get more than one lay a year (I really don't know), it's not maintained over a long period of time (8 years max).

Entropy-7 · 2017-02-08T17:09:07+00:00

Science supports this. The data is a bit old but things have not changed THAT much.

Two partners in any given year makes you top 20%

One per year from 16 on makes you top 30% into your 30s. The data ends at age 44 where the top 30% have 15+ lovers in their past.

DJGammaRabbit · 2017-02-08T17:21:32+00:00

As a fat, unemployed funny guy I'm apparently in the top 5%. Thanks for stroking my ego.

infiniteslinky · 2017-02-08T17:31:28+00:00

Today I learned I am in the top 1%

MindfulStoic · 2017-02-08T18:10:48+00:00

So next time you feel down because you think everybody's getting ass but you, think again. It's an illusion from all the sexualized media and advertisements that spam you on a regular basis. It's a narrative made by guys who exaggerate or lie about their conquests. The reality of the SMP doesnt make for a good story.

This is not what I have experienced in my personal journey throughout the SMP. Maybe it depends on where you live. I live in a trendy area of South Florida. It's a large meat market down here. If you are attractive and have a shred of game you shouldn't have a problem. The bar/club scene is ripe with sluts looking to be taken home. And people absolutely kill it on Tinder.

Bitches are out there fucking...you're naive if you believe otherwise.

untitled_redditor · 2017-02-08T20:14:03+00:00

Wow... So if I'm scoring with 2-4 new girls a year I'm doing really well. Never would have imagined...

[deleted] · 2017-02-08T20:56:03+00:00

Lol honestly this thread made me laugh. Where do you live that it isn't easy to pick up chicks and it compels you to write a shit post without any data to back up your claims. Shit and I was just saying that I was upset I didn't get laid in the last two weeks 😂😂😂

rockinhard130 · 2017-02-08T21:47:10+00:00

Sidenote: Statistics don't give a fuck how hot people are, so your entire post is ok, except for that comment.

trp_angry_dwarf · 2017-02-08T22:02:58+00:00

Would LOVE to see the histogram or bell curve shape for that and then have someone explain it to me.

Median numbers being basically double? I don't believe it. Not a statistician, but I thought that it'd be impossible. When two people fuck, doesn't that increase the n count on both sides?

Median is just the fancy word for average right?

goldaxis · 2017-02-08T22:04:06+00:00

I never understood the desire to simply get laid with as many women as possible, or that an exceptionally high number is a bragging right. Asking for trouble.

Squez360 · 2017-02-08T22:20:10+00:00

I've been saying that women are shallow. Even the ugly and/or fat chicks get laid more often than the average guy. It's crazy how we can't believe most women are shallow as fuck even though most people acknowledge that there are far more virgin males than virgin females.

Aphoc · 2017-02-08T22:44:37+00:00

I could have banged 1 girl every week from when I was 19, but I was a loser. I had no self discipline, no self control, no job, no future.

Sure, not everyone of them was a 7+, but that didn't mean that I was in abundance yet still felt hollow.

"Is this all there is to life? Are girls really like this? Why aren't I feelings whole?"

Always remember to frame in such a way, that women are a bi-product. Getting girls doesn't make you a 10% man, being a 10% man gets girls.

Mantido · 2017-02-08T23:09:51+00:00

Some people commenting getting a girl per month in this thread.I would just like to ask.Are these girls from your social circle or bars/clubs or did you find them from some internet app or site? To me the first seems kinda difficult but i dont know for sure,so i am curious

Barbie_and_KenM · 2017-02-09T03:29:22+00:00

I would agree with this up until the percentage. I'm 28 and my number is at ~40 or so but I wouldn't consider myself in the top 10%.

Now just to put it into perspective I'm an attorney making 6 figures in a major metro area. I can bench 300lbs (just giving you one metric of my physical fitness level), and I've been cast on two TV dating shows so I'd say I'm pretty objectively good looking. Long story short, I have all my shit together and yet I still only pull a few girls a year and they are all 6-8's. I can honestly say I've never had a legitimate 10 in my life and yet most people would consider me at alpha level.

Now lets take a look at a friend of mine: He sold his company to a major tech player for 40 million when he was 32. He's good looking and generally just a cool guy. This guy BEATS away 10's all fucking day and pretty much can have any chick he wants.

1% of guys are banging 90% of the hottest girls on earth.

GOATmar · 2017-02-09T00:01:35+00:00

Banging 1 or 2 girls a week used to be impressive when women were actually difficult to fuck. Nowadays, thanks to hookup culture being promoted consciously and otherwise through everything we consume, it's not impressive anymore.

That's actually average now.

You're TRULY in the top 10% when you can easily and consistently pull off 3sums with new chicks every week.

no_face · 2017-02-09T00:02:49+00:00

At 50+ partners, I would say you are in the top 1%

iopq · 2017-02-09T00:04:40+00:00

I guess I need one this year?

2jz240sx · 2017-02-09T00:41:44+00:00

I've been single now for 7 months and have had 10 new partners . None of them so far have been anything worth having a relationship with either too fat or too old... it's funny to look back and see how many said "no hookups " in thier profiles .

rigbed · 2017-02-09T01:45:08+00:00

I see a lot of millennial women alone. Unless they tinder up the wazoo I think most millennial women are LTRed and maybe cheat on the LTR, otherwise their n-count is of course higher than their respective SMV guy but not ridiculosu

SudoAptGetMeASammich · 2017-02-09T02:49:56+00:00

where's your source for any of this?

awalt_cupcake · 2017-02-09T03:06:17+00:00

TIL I am the top 10% before TRP.

Time to slack off and relax.

sydneybeachbum · 2017-02-09T03:55:17+00:00

mate I've been juggling 5-6 plates that rotate every 6 months for about 20 years... my numbers are solid. I was doing this before I even knew what TRP was.. wonder what that makes me?

destraht · 2017-02-09T04:19:23+00:00

That is sad because I really feel like a loser during my off years when I only bang 1-2 chicks.

RedsideoftheMoon · 2017-02-09T06:44:24+00:00

I think most men spend a very small portion of their lives "single and mingling." Especially BP conditioned men, most get into relationships and end up marrying one of their first LTR's. No guy who is hitting up a ton of prospects is losing every single one

[deleted] · 2017-02-09T19:58:57+00:00

Good points. Everything looks like everyone is getting laid. You would be surprised that even guys who look very close to te lady next to them are not banging her.

Not to mention internet, where you get the impression everyone are the best in everything and everyone are getting laid left and right.

That having said, I am 29 (looking 21-22), lean and muscular, really pretty hair, healthy, so far I had about 20 women but I am pretty sure I forgot some. Can't remember all the bitches. I wouldn't count myself in 10℅ in anything..but I am satisfied and happy

bonsaiisuperstar · 2017-02-10T13:02:27+00:00

Just get in a good rock band. I was bagging sometimes 2 girls a day in my band days. You don't have to be muscular or have money. It is all attitude. These days I'm in my 40's, single and happy. I hardly ever even talk to women. They are too stupid to really deal with.

epubliusrex · 2017-02-11T22:22:19+00:00

It's all in your mind. It always is. As I said here to someone else, I've known an ugly, bonafide narcissist male who always got good looking women. The mother of his two children easily a 9. In his word, he is an alpha male--entirely made up as he has never had any significant achievements. Yet he does well in the sexual world.

Large numbers of very good looking people are shy. I am shy at times. Women love that. Also, it's. Major myth that hot women are forever being hit on. I mean the real 9-10s. That's because most men fear rejection and so hit on their lesser friends. Being natural and confident and a bit shy is one way to win them. So too is being totally nonchalant and not caring if they duck you or not. See, they always look down on needy males. The male that can take it or leave is what gets them. He stands out. Especially when you tell them you have a 3-6 date rule on sex. I can't tell how many women by the third date ask if it's a hard and fast rule. What it tells them explicitly is that you are not hard up and you have plenty of choice. It's playing hard to get and reversing the role. They eat it up. I assure you of this. They don't know what to make of it because they've never encountered it.

I have never had to make a pass at a woman. And I have never fucked a fatty or anything less than an 8-9. I married two heiresses that were both homecoming queens. Blonde haired, blue eyes beauties. It's all about self and how you see yourself and how you will naturally project that image.

boomboxtomcat · 2017-02-13T03:44:05+00:00

This post seems to lean towards making us feel good at getting laid a measly once or twice per year. Those low numbers are not high value in the least. As you said, you made these numbers up. I smell male hamster.

AnythingForSuccess · Sat Mar 4 20:21:05 2017 UTC

Sidenote : Anything below a 6 doesnt count.

Since when?

It doesn't make sense. If you are a 6 yourself you say it doesn't count? Moronic.

Thegreatesttot · 2017-04-27T16:21:49+00:00

Anything below a 6 doesn't count

Lmao I loved that side not dude XD Fucking a 5 is like the equivalent of beating a toddler at chess !

[deleted] · 2017-02-08T15:17:06+00:00

OP i respect your stats, and I agree that they are correct. Just recently the German government did a statistical analysis on left wing violence that showed that 9 out 10 millenial left wingers are single, not getting any action (probably why they are so angry and violent). However, the 80/20 rule and being in the top percentile raises this issue of how far can you go into the top? I would say most guys here want to be in the top 20 of the top 20.

I just banged this gorgeous college girl yesterday, she did anal without lube and wanted to get roughed up. Yeah she is an outlier, but exactly this kind of behaviour is what I, as a man, want from women since we here all know that they aren't suited for companionship or relations. Now, as a college guy, I couldn't get that chick, it took me a hardcore wrecking by a Oneitis and a subsequent year of monk mode and TRP to get here.

Now I started out as a relatively high SMV guy so once I got the beta under control I got some action, but I get like 10 different girls per year which lets be honest, is not great. There is definetly a promised land on the other side, where you get unlimited pussy and just general benefits from being Alpha. A buddy of mine is a pilot decent looks decent shape, he can walk into a restaurant and fuck the hottest waitress within 30 minutes and you would never notice how he does it.

The point is, you should not slave for pussy in terms of numbers and make fucking as many girls as possible a goal, but the ability to smash at will with the hottest woman of your choice is definetly something to strive for; to be that guy that can slip her a number, make her cheat, etc.

Gawernator · 2017-02-08T09:53:11+00:00

Are you sure? I feel like I'm in the top 25%, top 10% just sounds too good.

Dorkan · 2017-02-08T10:35:52+00:00

I bet that average amount changes a lot depending on the region you look at. Isn't it way higher in Europe than in North America? We being way less traditional and we don't follow the highschool girlfriend -> marry at your twienties -> kids schema as much.

Forcetobereckonedwit · 2017-02-08T16:46:32+00:00

And then there are the .01%-ers...heh heh. If I posted my count I would just get a bunch of downvotes and people calling me a liar. Whatever. Carry on gents. If you make seduction and having an interesting character and life your two main goals, you can easily get into double digits every year for decades. There's only 24 hrs in a day however, so if that's what you are about your financial goals and career goals will likely fall by the wayside.

If I were to give advice to a younger man I would say concentrate on self/fitness/career/travel/financial goals first and you'll end up with plenty of women over the years and end up well set up in the second half of life.

YMMV

[deleted] · 2017-02-09T06:39:10+00:00

Oh go fuck yourself because I'm sure no one else wants to fuck you/.

You can't say that below a 6 doesn't count - you can't say what other people are and are not doing - you can't say who is who isn't fucking.

Total shit post.

WiggyL · 2017-02-08T17:54:22+00:00

As a female reading these, I am genuinely baffled. Is your number count really what drives you? Is it all about one-uping other men by saying how many women you've slept with? Do hookers and prostitutes not make you feel dirty or like you aren't good enough to have sex with a women without having to pay for it? I'm am asking out of sincere confusion...either I have been extremely lucky in surrounding myself with men who hold a higher value in finding one woman who fulfills their needs or these men are frighteningly good at hiding their dog tendencies. I guess what I am trying to understand is: for you guys that have been commenting on this post, what is the point (if there is one) where number count isn't your driving force? Is it absurd to think you could find one woman and stop seeking others?

rp_southsider · 2017-02-08T09:23:38+00:00

Bullshit. I had screwed over 50 women by the time I was 24. Now that I'm in my 40s I've lost count.

[deleted] · 2017-02-08T15:10:14+00:00

I average probably 2 girls a week. I thought that was about normal.

blackberryx · 2017-02-08T15:14:50+00:00

Im in the mid 60s at 26 but my friend who's also 26 is somewhere in the near 2-3 hundred range. Seriously don't understand how but he's got a new girl every week or two and still lives and fucks his girlfriend on a daily basis. It's crazy cause she knows he's a cheater and has tons of side chicks but doesn't leave him.

watermelonpickle · 2017-02-08T17:17:43+00:00

Interesting. I wonder how these numbers would look if done by region, I imagine numbers in a large metro area like NYC, Chicago, etc. are much different than in rural places like Wyoming (where I live) where there just really aren't that many people.

[deleted] · 2017-02-08T17:41:12+00:00

who talks like this? "bangs" - no man ever would use the term "bangs" unless you're a kid or you're from Bensonhurst and it's 1980 all over again.. lol

zerointegrity · 2017-02-08T18:34:21+00:00

I wish I could but my girlfriend has me on lock and there is no way out

[deleted] · 2017-02-09T05:11:08+00:00

ah yes, made up stats make everything better. lol who really gives a shit. be happy you get laid and if your not then do whatever you gotta do. personally i dont give a shit since im not a teenybopper whos dick is about to fly off

sadbasturd99 · 2017-02-08T14:25:31+00:00

I spent a lot of time with guys who can get 365 women a year, or 365 women a month if they felt like it. So I know first hand how much ass a hot man can get.

Watching this made me very bitter, angry and jealous of course. How much emotional pain can one endure ? I reached my limit a long long time ago.

[deleted] · 2017-02-08T12:19:32+00:00

I've had sex with 3 new girls in the past month... where do I rank?