Summary: Don't expect personal responsibility or rational judgment from women. They are emotional creatures who will swoon for the first alpha they see. Take what you need from them and move on, and don't be pressured into giving them anything more than sex.
Original thread here.
Was browsing the OKCupid sub today (if you're not aware, it's basically the Metroid Mothership of feminists and fat white knights) and came across a post that both made me laugh and illustrated some RedPill truths. I'm half wondering if the OP of this thread ran across a TRPer and allowed herself to be swept off her feet by him, because this is a picture perfect representation of how women will act when they're attracted to a strong guy.
Basically, I went on this date with this guy, knowing full well that he was still mourning his breakup with his ex. We had also talked about sex pretty heavily before meeting up, so it was pretty obvious he only wanted one thing, although he claimed to want "more than a hookup" -- but we all know how much truth lies in statements like that.
Lesson #1: Don't pussy-foot around the subject of sex. See what this guy did right? He probably flirted sexually and dropped some bait like [classy] innuendo so that the girl knows he means business. None of this "Hi, I'm Pete! What's your favorite movie?" bullshit. He goes straight for the jugular, and if he's built and attractive, the woman will respond positively to that.
Anyways, we had dinner, I let him take me back to his place and we hooked up - there was even evidence in his room that he was still in love with his ex. I won't say exactly what it was in case he goes on here by some chance, but it just made me feel really bad. I guess my thought process is "what is it about me that makes all these guys act so douchey towards me, (only wanting a one night stand as opposed to dating, ghosting after hooking up) yet they were able to love some other girl wholeheartedly? What factors did these women have that I don't?"
Well honey, maybe guys act like douches to you because it works. Maybe other women don't spread their vag for a random dude on the first date and then wake up the next morning, all sticky with dried cum and thinking "I hope he'll commit to me". Of course, poor OP has probably... swallowed... the feminist mantra of sex-positive thinking and empowerment, so she has been brainwashed into believing this will increase her value. When all it does is signal in huge neon letters that she's an easy target.
Anyways, I was blocked on OKCupid by the time I got home -- or he really did delete his account, I don't know how to tell the difference.
Lesson #2: Once you're done with her, you're done. Remember, just as a woman doesn't owe you sex after being given friendship, you don't owe a woman friendship after being given sex. If all you want from her is a one night stand, don't be afraid to let her go completely afterwards. Women will try to shame you into doing more "relationshippy" stuff after the sex, but stand strong and don't cave.
Right now, I just want to be okay with being single and "having fun" -- whether that means hooking up, dating casually, or both, but I just hate how I take something physical and turn it into something emotional. I've even lurked his ex's Instagram and tried to evaluate if she was prettier than me/vice versa. How do I stop being crazy like this/not care if I get ghosted? Clearly, I am not emotionally wired for casual flings and hookups, but I would like to change that. I keep telling myself that I don't want a relationship right now, but I'm having a really tough time believing myself.
Lesson #3: Being aloof and distant will drive her crazy in a good way. I bet this girl's pants are soaked just thinking of this tall dark mysterious handsome stranger who swept her into his arms and then disappeared into the night afterwards. Women may bitch about it all the time, but they do respond positively to men who play hard to get.
TL;DR: The best way to a woman's heart is to act aloof and always demonstrate abundance mentality. Women would rather be a side chick to an alpha male than a main chick to a beta male. If you play hard to get, she'll go crazy for you.