TRP is a toolkit that is designed to make men more successful as men. TBP is a group of well accepted ideas that are based on feelings not facts. As you embrace TRP, you will shatter many preconceived notions. Here are some that you can work on:
Fallacy 1) You are good enough for anyone - There is a big totem pole of SMV and you fit into it somewhere. You aren't at the top. You can improve your SMV, but you will never be hot enough for every woman.
Fallacy 2) You aren't enough - No matter your SMV, you have some value that women want. It might be very few women, but there is a woman out there who will get hot over you in the right situation. Likewise, there are very attractive women who like you in particular for some reason.
Fallacy 3) Women don't care about looks - Women care about looks a lot. However women will say "He's a great smart, loving guy" when they actually mean "He has big pecs and huge meaty legs". Any hot guy who hasn't always been hot will tell you how many compliments they get now on things that have nothing to do with their looks, but the only thing that changed is their looks.
Fallacy 4) Women will fuck me if I treat them well - Its impossible to earn good sex with favors. The best sex is when a girl thinks you're hot. Its really better just to use your hand than to spend tons of effort on a girl for dry vag starfish sex.
Fallacy 5) Vaginas have value - If you're not trying to make a baby, vaginas have very little value. Masturbating really isn't that bad compared to sex. Women don't have anything you really need, so don't get worked up about them.
Fallacy 6) The more I work the more reward I will receive - Results don't equal input in anything. Stop trying so hard and use your brain to figure out where to put effort. Don't be lazy now, but don't do retarded shit like work out 7 days a week for 2 weeks and then never touch a bar bell again. Likewise, next a girl if she comes up with excuses for your date suggestions.
Fallacy 7) I am worth more than what I'm getting - Incel faggot? Angry because you're "better than that"? Well, here's news for you faggot. People were lying to you about your attractiveness. You're getting exactly what your value is. Increase your value and lower your standards.
Fallacy 8) Huge muscles are unattractive/cliche - Let me put it this way: Wrong. Wrong wrong wrong. The number of women who will be DTF goes up and up with muscles. Roided competition muscles are extremely difficult to get, you will never get them, and they are not the same as the stronk muscles you can get with 3 workouts a week.
Fallacy 9) I need to chat with a woman to make her like me - The women I fuck I send maybe 4 texts to over a few days, talk to for like 30 min, and then fuck. Every time. Women who are in your league will be DTF right away. Maybe 1 or 2 shit tests, some light LMR, and then bang. You shouldn't be talking to girls who waste your time. There are girls out there who won't. Maybe you need to start looking down market?
Fallacy 10) Women don't like sex - lol. Maybe not with you. However, once a month during ovulation, EVERY woman craves from the bottom of her soul to be filled with a hot muscly man's cum. If they meet a man who is in their hot threshold, their logic centers turn completely off, and that man can literally take her to the nearest private place and bone the shit out of her without even talking to her first if he has the balls to. Every woman is like this. During the rest of the month, women are able to use their brains, but all* women still love and crave sex, but only with a man they admire. *all straight/not fucked up women
Now here are some conclusions taking into consideration reality:
Conclusion 1) Get hotter - Getting into more women's hot threshold makes life so much easier. Lift and do whatever it takes.
Conclusion 2) Talk to the right girls - Talk to all the girls you can of all types until you find the level which responds easily. Many incels have too high standards for what they can get. Better to be a shitty alpha than an incel. Go downmarket if you must.
Conclusion 3) Move fast - The girls that will go on a date with you already know it when they have looked at you. Fortune favors the bold. Move faster than she is used to with everything you do. Talk to her the way you want. Touch her the way you want. If she likes you she will let you. If she doesn't like you, you can tell its time to move on.
Beachbloke's Lazy Lay method - Since some of you will inevitably ask, I've worked out a way to order tacos online that is doing well for me. Here's my technique:
Intro message: Hey, plz don't wear that <item of clothing in her pics> on our date. I have the same one I'm going to wear and it would be weird. thx
Her: Lol, we haven't even talked about a date
Me: Guess we have to fix that, grab a coffee with me tomorrow at 7?
Her: Hahah, ok where?
Me: <Wafflehouse address> see you then
Her: Ok :)
Me (15 min before): On my way see you in a few
Worth noting, I don't get her number. I talk only in the dating app until the date unless she gives me her number without my asking.
Wafflehouse is a great place for a coffee for a few reasons: 1) Your date can see you from outside. 2) Its usually empty. 3) The people working at wafflehouse are usually easy and fun to talk to. 4) Its not a place women typically get dates. 5) Old-style diners are a classic date spot from the 40s and 50s that women appreciate. 6) All the windows make her feel safe.
I try to get there 5 minutes early so I can get to know the server and cook. They are like the bartender at a bar and having some rapport with them puts me in a good mood and helps during the date. I always sit at the bar so I can kino, and I put my jacket on her chair to claim it, and also so she is entering my territory when she sits down. When she gets there I try to be in the middle of a conversation with the server or cook so she sees preselection. When she walks in I don't get up, but I tell her I'm happy to see her and point her to her chair. I try to keep the conversation to 30 min. My usual kino stack is like this: right after saying hi and shaking her hand, I'll ask her how her day went. She'll tell me and maybe ask how mine is. After that then I'll make fun of her about something on her profile. She'll usually laugh and get googly eyed, I'll laugh back and push her shoulder. After that I'll ask her a mundane question, but grab her hand and hold it and lock eyes while I ask it. She'll usually have difficulty answering, which is great. I'll try to make fun of her about something in her job or her past and as though she is cute, brush the hair off her neck. If she lets me touch her neck, a kiss is in the bag later. At that point its been 15-20 min and I ask for the check as we continue to talk. I'll pay for both coffees because it doesn't matter and I just want it to be quick at this point. Then I'll tell her I have to go do something specific (:( and now I have to go bring my dog to the vet), I'll hold her hand to walk her to her car right outside. I'll say "you know there's a weekend coming up we should do something." Then I tell her I'll text her while I brush her hair off her ear and peck her on the lips. I'll hover an inch away afterwards. She'll usually be horny af by now so I'll french kiss after hovering. While french kissing, I make a point to grab her boob and butt with my hands. That's important because it lets her know she will get dicked if she shows up next time. I'll tell her I really have to go but to text me when she gets home so I know she is safe.
If the boob and butt touch go well while kissing, she's DTF for sure. The next day I'll send her a message like "I'm free at 9PM on sat, watch a movie with me?" She'll almost always say yes at this point, I'll send her my address and "see you then". No contact until she sends me a message or shows up at my door. When she shows up I ask her how her day has been, then grab her by the hand and guide her up to my bedroom. I'll have my tablet up there with a funny movie picked out. I just turn it on and let her get comfortable, have my arm around her, and then like 30 seconds in say "hey". As we lock eyes I'll sweep her hair and kiss. At this point its down hill to sex -- super easy. I'll touch her boob and butt while kissing, then push her away by the forehead after 20 seconds. Then after a second or two, I'll pull her strongly back to kiss while getting her on top of me. Once she's on top its done. We're already in bed so there is nothing to it except linking the kino. Grind her pussy, get a boob out to suck, get her hand down my pants, finger her, get her to start sucking, take her pants off, fuck the shit out of her. Easy
After the lay:
I'll usually finish the movie with her while cuddling naked. If I like her I'll ask her if she's hungry and we'll drive somewhere to grab fast food, asian, a diner, or whatever really. I've got a front bench seat truck, so I'll get her to sit in the middle so I can have my arm around her. At this point its whatever. I'll enjoy whatever I'm getting out of this woman and put little effort in.
What I wear:
I've experimented a bunch, and my favorite date costume right now is a $10 flannel shirt I wear with 3 buttons undone, $10 light colored jeans, and $10 white sneakers that I use for mowing and home improvement. I bought it all at Walmart. I also have a couple $2000 suits and a few pairs of $500 shoes in my closet, but I've found the cheap shit works the best for me to turn women on. I think it says "I am who I am". I have a sleeve tattoo on my left arm (highly recommend). I wear a gold and leather watch and a gold/carnelian signet ring.