So, for the first time ever I got catfished. I go to meet this girl I was talking to, for the first time. And she is nothing like her profile or pictures.
Profile says 5'8", but she's just as tall as me (6'1"). Okay, I can overlook that a little.
Pictures show blonde, shows up with purple hair. Hey, maybe she dyed it recently.
But here's the deal breakers:
Pictures show she's like...thick but trim. Yeah that was because her pictures were from high school when she was like 17 and a volleyball girl. 6 years ago. She easily weighed just as much if not more than me.
And finally, profile said non-smoker. I know this because I filter out smokers. She shows up smoking a cigarette and just fucking REEKS of them.
And to add to all that, HUGE red flag. (Before we met) She tells me "just so you know, like 90% of my friends are guys, so I hope that's okay. Women and I just don't get along" 🚨 I don't know why I continued with her, it was at THIS point I should have just dropped her.
Don't get me wrong, her having guy friends, not a problem. If I observed it, it was discussed and she was very casual about it like "yeah, they're my group of friends. Including women...blah blah blah." But something about her having to TELL me and then also adding that she doesn't get along with women just...my god, I was so fucking irked by that.
I confronted her on all of this and said "sorry but this is not acceptable. You cannot expect to portray one person, and show up a totally different one. Not in the dating world. Do that shit in the fantasy world." She follows it up with "so, are you saying this is done?" I laughed and walked away.