TLDR: Before consuming any material here on The Red Pill you need to understand that the principles here are NOT ABOUT HELPING YOU WITH ONE GIRL but instead helping you improve yourself so you can cast a wide net with many women.
It seems like every post on AskTRP these days consists of this:
Hey AskTRP, wow I stumbled onto TRP 12 hours ago and have read up on the stuff and wow its mindblowing, I feel like a changed man already. ANYWAY, there is this girl who I have been trying to get with, before I came here I was beta with her, but now after learning about TRP if I just do this, that, and this and that I will be able to win her over right?
It makes me cringe every time.
You are completely missing the point of TRP.
If you are using TRP to help you with ONE GIRL, instead of help YOURSELF, you are doing it wrong.
Approaching TRP with the wrong mindset will give you a warped understanding of it all because you are looking at everything with a lens of tunnel vision and confirmation bias. Everything you read about, every video you watch, every blog you go to, you will consume the information with the mindset of "How can I use this to help me with that one girl". WRONG APPROACH.
Too many of you come here with that mindset. You are pedestalizing one piece of pussy and are trying to find some kind of cheat code, shortcut, quick fix to help you with ONE GIRL. That is your focus, and your mission. So what if you do end up having success with that ONE GIRL? Then what? Will you revert to your old ways? Stop coming here? Stop reading? Stop learning? TRP is not about helping you with ONE girl. It's about improving yourself so you can cast your net wide with MANY girls. If you can not understand that fact you will not be able to truly comprehend what you learn here. You will have a warped, perverted understanding of it all.
I will use a video game analogy. TRP isn't a powerup to help you in an already existing game. TRP is starting a new game, a new save file. Once you swallow the red pill you pretty much hit the reset button in all areas of your life. That includes any kind of relationship you have with women.
New to TRP? Forget about any women you have tried to game in the past. You have already poisoned that well with your beta behavior, and those women will never respect you. Use the material you learn here to cultivate relationships with NEW women, to where you can use what you learned here on TRP from the get go. Relationships with women are like a cup of clean water. Once you contaminate the cup of water with shit(beta behavior), there is no way to make it pure again, no matter how many filters you run it through, you have to pour the whole thing out and fill it up with new clean water.
Conclusion: New here? Good. Consume all the material you read here with the mindset of "How can I use this to improve myself and have success with many women?" not "How can I use this to help my failing LTR or failing attempt to get with this one girl?"