I haven't witnessed charm in its true form many times. But I do specifically remember one person who exuded lethal doses of charm.
The guy in question is 5'6" or some such, tiny person, probably doesn't weigh more than 55kgs. I shit you not. He has a nice face and a big, bright smile. I remember meeting him for the first time. His smile stretched from ear to ear each time I ran into him. He was utterly fearless and unmoved by his social surroundings. So much that I honestly don't even see him as the short toddler he's built like when I envision him in my head.
He danced, he talked to everybody, he laughed, he joked, he hit on all girls, all the while this stupid grin was stretching even wider. And this wasn't even at a party, mind you. No alcohol involved. From an outside perspective, everyone he interacted with seemed like an old friend of his.
Remember his height and weight? Well this dude slays. I've seen him with girls much taller than himself - and they're all hot, mind you. I can't quite put my finger on it, but this feels like an "either you have it, or you don't" type of charm.
He's built like a stick-figure and is about as tall as a toddler, yet he doesn't give a fuck. He truly doesn't give a fuck. He goes from hot girlfriend to hot girlfriend, and I actually hooked up with one of his exes many years ago who seemed to be madly in love with him at the time. You know the kind of love that ruins a girl for years? Yeah, that kind.
Now, I'm not trying to sell some fictious tale to make manlets feel better about themselves. That isn't the moral of this (true) story. The moral of the story is that some people ooze so much charm that it doesn't matter if they live in a cardboard box or a mansion. It's subtle but incredibly powerful and virtually impossible to imitate because it stems from a truly deep sense of confidence and self-awareness. When you see it, you will understand exactly what I mean.
Everyone is charming every now and then. The times that I've exuded high levels of charm have always produced a very favourable outcome with the women who happened to be around me. Be charming. It's extremely powerful.