As everyone, including the Mods, keeps point out this Subreddit is growing considerably and as anyone who’s ever submitted a post which gets there knows - the views on the top-half of the message-board sometimes reach over 20k – that’s a lot of people viewing stuff.
I personally wouldn’t say I have noticed a drastic difference in terms of quality submissions or a particular down-swing in the quality of particular comments, but I have noticed a lot of circular logic and blatant unawareness concerning certain ‘The Red Pill’ core tenets – and, perhaps because of that, a fuck-ton of anger, hatred and disillusionment is becoming ubiquitous - often directed towards women, sometimes directed towards people trying to give advice about women.
For one particularly important example, AWALT – now if you’re so red-pilled and accept this, why do you still get so angry at women for cheating? You get that this SR more or less promotes polygamy to its adherents if they want to get the most out of life? Bear in mind the adage, ‘everyone we meet is our mirror’ and be careful not to be the prophet of your own self-fulfilling nightmare.
On that note I put a comment on a thread the other day pointing out that men cheat too but with the strident tone some “holier-than-thou” posters adopt you’d never believe this was possible, it’s almost enough to make a serial polygamist start to get indignant at the nature of women I'm sure.
The wise man accepts what is, it’s only a fool that stands in a stream trying to force the water to flow the other way and whining that “I don’t think it should do this and thus it’s wrong for doing so!”
A broader issue I’ve noticed is people coming here that are carrying around conclusions about women/society/dating that they formed for whatever silly reason, finding a part of TRP that just-about-kind-of agrees with it and bastardising the whole notion to fit their conclusion. “This guy is a jerk who bangs women, must be an Alpha.” / “I don’t know any history so I’ll blame women/feminism for X, Y & Z” – regarding that last one, you best hope you’re part of the Landed Gentry fella or else your conclusions about how things “were way better when” are faaaaaaaaaaaaaaar off the reality.
When I first found The Red Pill it was nearly all Monk-Mode, Advice Pieces & Field Reports – now its angry dudes shouting into the void and trying to validate their ill-informed opinions – so I guess I’m contradicting my second paragraph, but I always like to open on a positive ;-)
If you’ve found The Red Pill and stuck around, you’re probably interested in finding ways to improve your life, find like-minded individuals to share ideas with or to get better with women (as this sub is ultimately about male sexual strategy) and so you’re going to have to learn a few things:
Holding onto anger or resentment is like holding onto a hot coal.
- Holding onto anger about how you wish society was different is redundant, either propose a constructive alternative, run for office or shut up.
- Carrying around bitterness towards other people will close them off to you, and believe me, it shows up in your comments too. You cannot hide it, no matter how suave or clever you think you are.
- Obsessing over or clinging onto negative feelings only hurts you, rage against the machine or the way of the world as much as you like but, as with the burning coal, it’s unnecessary to hold it and doing more and more damage the longer you do so.
- Learn to cultivate Joy rather than brew Anger and reap the benefits.
- Being a dominant man is not the same as being an angry, miserable one.
- The "Introduction" in the Side-bar is something that you should read to introduce you to this SR, that's why it is so named.
As I hope is redundantly obvious I’m not referring to what some of you call the ‘Anger Phase’ – I’m referring to something more akin to the Cognitive Dissonance of the So Called “Red Piled” that want to claim all the trappings of ‘Wokeness’ but recognise none of the lessons.
EDIT: Please bear in mind guys I'm specifically talking about people who refuse to learn the lesson of The Red Pill above and not those that are finding it "triggering" or whatever. It's those that claim they're fully dosed on The RED but are still exhibiting symptoms of The BLUE, if you catch my drift.
EDIT 2: I did not foresee the Alpha/Beta and Video Game debate developing in the comments as a result of this post, damn dudes, y'all crazy.