Critics are like eunuchs: they know how, but they can't do it.
- Paul Bocuse
The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
- The Sidebar
As some of you might now, I am foremostly doing my shifts right at the front, playing the mailbox aunt for noobs, answering their questions, which mostly revolve around their unicorns, being too lazy to fucking follow one simple advice (Go lift, asshat!), or dealing with the toughest draw of them all - being Indian and wanting to bang blonde bitches from the USA.
One of the biggest problems I face there is another one though:
Guys who downplay, shame or directly deny the importance of having uncommited sexual relationships with women (e.g. "Spinning Plates") in the process of unplugging.
The recent influx of motherfuckers who act as unicorn hunters, "MGTOW" or MRA support group feel-good pussies (I do not know which is the worse fate to be honest) in the mainsub just underlines the need of somebody outright telling you:
You will never be fully unplugged, if you have not held a soft harem for an extended period of time and experienced true female nature first hand.
Nothing else will give you the same insights.
Not having raged on the toilet over reading about some cunt getting the pussy pass in a courtroom. Not laying in the gras with your girlfriend, argueing about what forms the clouds resemble. Not sitting in your basement, typing flaming hateposts about 3rd wave feminists for your fellow fatties with your cheetoh crusted fingers. And most certainly not coming here, trying to shame Alpha Chads for chadding all they can.
This sub's first and most important purpose has always been to get guys in a physical and mental state to be ready to fully blossom in their masculinity and go out and do what they are meant to do: impregnate as many human females as they possibly can. Well, not literally most certainly.
Everything else is just by-products.
MGTOW, relationships or becoming the saviour of all men are endgoals and not "the way".
Especially the self-proclaimed MGTOW get me on the fence on a regular basis. Just FYI:
You cannot be MGTOW if you do not posses the capabilities and knowledge of a pussy-slayer. Sitting at you computer at 350 lbs, and deciding that you are going your own way from now on, between chugging a gallon of Mountain Dew and shouting at your mom while jacking of to midget trannies pissing at each other, is just the same as dying of thirst in the desert and proclaiming that you'll never drink water again from now on.
When the first MGTOW arose, they rose from the crowd of Chads, not angry Incels, who just came to the conclusion, that pussy is not worth the hassle and following your mission should be your priority. However they knew one thing very well: Being in shape, taking care of your body and your mind, still was the most important thing of them all.
The mere nature of a man going his own way is an instant pussy humidifier. He is taking care of himself, he is confident, he is following his own rules and he's got goals in life and is assertive in reaching them. Probably the exact opposite of what many of the "2nd wave MGTOW" are.
You narcissistic serial monogamists are following closely though. "Muh. I do not date sluts. Muh." How the fuck will you even know what type of bitch you are dealing with after meeting her two times and then throwing your commitment at her?
Founding a dynasty is one of the possible endgames of the unplugged man. However wandering through life with the goal of finding your unicorn will never satisfyingly lead you there.
In order to be able to carefully select a future mate, having dealt with many prospects who do not qualify is essential. Having wife's grope your crotch, whispering in your ears that it's such a pity that their husband does not have such muscles or having somebody's "innocent" girlfriend drive 40 miles at night just to suck your dick, swallow your load and drive back home, to lay at his side in his bed, are pretty eye-opening experiences and just reading about them is not the same as having them do it for you.
Let aside that you will not know what type of woman you are dealing with, until you have fucked her for the very least amount of six to twelve months without offering her exclusivity. Women are wearing different masks for different people and you will not be able to meet the women behind all of those in two weeks of vanilla sexing her and throwing your most precious good - your commitment - at her at the very first moment that represents itself to you.
Thridly we have the type of feel-good activists who come here, desperately trying to force their own moral standards on everybody, while they never truly put them to a test themselves.
Not being anywhere near the state of being able to pull quality pussy or having ever been in the situation where they were Chad, and had a good looking married woman drop on her knees in front of them, desperately trying to get their cock out, yet they absolutely know what "is not true alpha behaviour". What the fuck would you know about that, you bad Paul Elam carbon copy?
All of the above archetypes of commenters share one, maybe the most annoying trait: They cannot withstand their urge to tell people, especially myself and fellow Endorsed Contributors, that we cannot possibly know the right way. Oftentimes followed by some variation of "How could you have become an EC."
I got news for you: Yes. We do indeed know better than you and there is a fucking reason why we got that flair and you have not, and it is not because we meet and suck each others dicks on a regular basis, as you so non-chalantly like to assume.
Lastly, there is the guys I do not despise of, but who need to be told:
Less thinking and more doing motherfuckers.
You will not be able to get good at sexual relationships by avoiding to coming close to having one.
If you have read the sidebar material and maybe one book about game, like i.e. "Models" by Mark Manson, you know enough in order to succeed with women.
You don't need to study the equivalent to the material needed to get a bachelor in evolutionary psychology "to understand the nature of women".
Get in shape, fire up tinder and find out for yourself what kind of shallow, boring, iloyal, impulsive, cheap, cheating, self-entitled, superficial, annoying assholes most of the bitches out there are.
tl;dr: Shut up, bang bitches, be awesome, stop annoying me with your horseshit.