setting standards of conduct for both yourself and others. at a certain point a woman's actions render her beneath you, at a certain point your own actions are beneath you. one important thing is to accept the concept of when you hurt others you are hurting yourself. i don't know how far your experiences go, but my own, combined with seeing my father interact with my mother for their entire marriage, when you aren't operating with balanced brain functions the relationship will continue to go into extremes until someone snaps, or both. it starts with emotional abuse, then it becomes physical abuse, next thing you know you're little more than a wild dog who snaps at the slightest stimuli. a few years ago i had a relationship with a woman who i would have had to become a combination of her father and my own in order to maintain the relationship, this would have entailed physical, emotional and sexual abuse. i'm not so far gone as to not understand why i didn't want that in my life. i gave her a choice, either get your shit together or i'm gone. she chose the feminist path of hedonism and sloth because it's too hard to emotionally deal with the cycle of abuse that's been in her family for who knows how long, including having to accept the fact that her father who is supposed to love her and protect her is a psychopathic abuser who manipulated her and molested her since before she was a teen, and i'll admit it myself that's really fucking hard to deal with understanding how much damage that causes in a person. the path of least resistence is to just let the pattern recreate itself. the societal sickness replicates itself on its own, and it takes a concentrated force of will, a commitment to ending the patterns and becoming a healthy and fully functioning human being. the problem with the women is that female nature is yielding, it molds itself to the male energy, kinda like how a vagina opens up and takes the cock. when a woman is a slave of the society, of the government, she's going to become what the male collective wants her to be, which is pretending to be perfect for the beta cucks, and a worthless doormat with no standards or self respect for the sociopaths. to attain the balance you have to hold yourself first and foremost accountable, you have to be unyielding in a way that's in line with truth. the mistake trp made was telling the morons on here to hold frame no matter what, which means they'll double and triple down even when they know they're wrong because they were taught to fear the idea of being wrong and the punishment that follows, it's a beta trap and they're dupes for not realizing it. you are the man, you are the rock, the solid form. the woman will shape herself to match you, if she is so far gone that she can't or won't, then you have to have the respect for both yourself and her(respect for self IS respect for others) and cut her off and telling her the truth, that who she is is not good enough to sustain any sort of healthy relationship with. imagine if enough dudes actually did this instead of enjoying the decline like the cucks they are. man leads woman follows, that's how it's always been and always will be, even the government is run by men in power. imagine if women followed man's example of balancing both sides of his brain(left: male, logical, linear. right: female, emotional, creative) and had some stable male energy in them in the form of healthy frame, meaning not wasting her entire 20s on some sociopath who reminds her of daddy because she has a modicum of respect for self, which in turn allows her to have respect for a man she is dating instead of the bs like in op's post. he's clearly left brain imbalanced, feels no emotions, clearly has trouble reading social cues, and the only thing on his mind is ego gratification(because of low self esteem caused by brain damage from child abuse). he chooses to be a follower and follow trps basic steps on how to get a slut to fuck you, and somehow considers it a great accomplishment to fuck a woman with a 100+ n count and severe mental issues. his interactions with said woman were hostile because he interprets everything she does as a test to his manhood, when in reality she's just a really insecure girl who's trying to fit in just like everyone else is, behaving like how she was raised to behave. her continued hostility is a direct result of his apprehensiveness and thinking he has to be like that retard in the movie clip. any sane man or woman would have nothing to do with someone like that outside of business deals if it's that good of an opportunity and they need the money. if she's so far gone that she projects hostility onto him despite him behaving in a civil manner, well that's a sign that you don't wanna put your dick in her unless you wanna catch what she has. surprise surprise look at what a chip he has on his shoulder that he can't even take an ounce of criticism and takes it as a personal attack, to the point where he'll ignore the truth and only listen to what other trp beta slaves tell him, parroting the same shit he does.

guess a eli5 would be respect yourself and respect others and consider them to be one and the same. the system we operate in right now has people trying to one up each other at every turn, it's a scarcity mentality we feel like we have to steal something from others because there's not enough to go around. this is something that our world HAS to become aware of and work towards fixing for a sustainable future. there is no enjoying the decline without serious consequences for it, and op's post is a classic example of it he's not even aware that he's sick and that he was dealing with a sick woman, that she is the best he will ever do because the kind of man he is specifically designed by his owners for a woman like her, who was in turn programmed for someone like him. human consciousness will continue to spiral downward until we make the choice to educate ourselves and to take action in reality to make some changes and encourage others to do the same. it's kinda like one of trp's mantras, you have to work hard, and you need to find people in your life that do the same. there's no quick fix, the individual has to be committed to the pursuit of knowledge and truth.