Red Pill TheoryQuick tips to Staying Lit: Non-Sidebar Review (self.TheRedPill)

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Lean back not forward.

Do not seek validation from others. You are good enough. You are good enough for you. That's all.

You are a man, and she is a woman, that's enough no matter what. Everything else is a shit test. Everything is a shit test. Women test you constantly. -> IGNORE, agree and amplify, "You're soo right about me, I'm actually really like that!" /sarcasm.

Get some sun. Shower. Deodorize. Hair product. Floss. Style.

Never feel obligated to explain yourself to anyone.

Try flipping the pressure: "Are you Okay?" -> "I'm great, How are you?"

2/3rds rule. If a woman talks 3 times, texts 3 times, talk or text 2 times. Every time. Her 3 to your 2.

Let people talk about themselves, be a good listener, be genuinely interested and genuinely kind yet firm. Be stoic. Maintain frame.

Stick to your principles. It does not matter what you are confident about as long as you are in fact confident. Confidence is the #1 thing women are drawn to. Experience builds confidence. Approach.

Lift. Cardio. Diet healthy. Happy body, happy mind.

Live for now, anxiety is living in the future with worry, depression is living in the past with regret. Throw that shit in the trash. Live for today. Plan ahead. Let it go. Don't stress.

Have a good day. At the end of each day make sure you are closer to your goals and who you wanna be. In time you will become who you wanna be.

Avoid alcoholism and drug addiction like the plague, everything in moderation. You do not need a lot of something to enjoy it, too much of anything is a bad thing.

Bad things happen to good people. Such is life. Stay alert, stay confident. Seek spiritual peace.

Make more money than your women, or lie and say you do. Someone asks where you work ? Strip club. You do not owe anyone anything, or any info. Make sure your white lies are seen as having fun. Girls just wanna have fun. Have fun with them.

Do not get married. Unless it is on your terms (very rare). Do not get married too young. Even then, what do you stand to gain from marriage ? Tread carefully here. Long term relationships are the red pill on expert mode.

Hold off on having kids. Make sure you're ready. Kids are a financial responsibility. Are you stable financially enough for this ?

Divorce rape happens every day. Men lose their entire kingdom over one fight or falling out. Courts may fuck you and side with the women. Are you willing to risk this ?

Look everyone in the eyes. If someone looks you in the eyes longer than you look them in the eyes, they are stronger. No need to intimidate. Simply smirk, nod, smile, laugh. Remember you are confident.

If a women looks abruptly at the ground, bends over, or gestures to you by staring, smiling, waving, or doing a double take, this is her invitation for Approach. Their deepest desire is for you to see it.

Kino. Increase physical contact inch by inch. Hand on the thigh. Did she pull away ? Hold her hand. Its all 4 play fam. Do not kiss unless you're ready to fuck. No need to rush, do not let yourself get friend zoned and you will not be friend zoned.

Don't be a creep. Go for girls who are legal and willing. Society will shit all over you, stay vigilant.

Your mission comes before everything else in life. Your mission is more important than women, than friends. Pick a long term goal, a mission. This is your meaning in life. It is ok to take your time on this.

Stick to a budget, people "good with money" all stick to a budget. This is adult life.

Stand up straight. Shoulders broad. Walk slowww.

Talk slow. Make your words count.

Be narcissistic, be red pill, be psychopathic, be manipulative. Do what you must do to get what you want.

Women desire a man who "sees what he wants, then goes and gets it" this is evolutionary. Bring home the kill. Bring home the bacon. Or you are disposable. Such is life.

The first rule of fight club, is you do not talk about fight club. It will only bring shame and trouble.

Live it, do not say it, talk is cheap. Actions over words. Reals before feels.

Get a good nights sleep. Meditate. Enjoy life.


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PS - Remember to be open minded. People know a lot of stuff that you do not know. Listen & Learn.

*PROTIP - Misogyny is not the goal here. Healthy relationships, self-improvement, getting laid, and happiness. Above all else. FREEDOM. SUCCESS. Keep trying. You will fail. Keep trying. These are the goals. Good luck.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 231 points232 points  (48 children)

ALSO: Men will shit test you too. Your friends will shit test you. Same rules apply here.

You have to have enough confidence for the both of you, no matter who you're with.

Same rules apply to family. They will test you. Get in good with your mom. Get close to her. This is key.

[–]Psychocist 71 points72 points  (22 children)

Err.. how close should I get to my mum? :/

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 123 points124 points  (20 children)

Haha. If you can. Confide in friends and family. I have fought with my mother my whole life. I see the same problems I have with mom arise with my girlfriends all the time. Girls say "see how he treats his mom, if he treats her right he's a good guy." No weird shit. Just be nice to your old lady. She loves u.

[–]Psychocist 157 points158 points  (17 children)

Yep. Fact is, if you're lucky, she is the only source of unconditional love and acceptance you will ever find in this life. Irreplaceable but easy to take for granted if she's been a constant.

[–]john_dove 69 points70 points  (15 children)

As much as I love and respect my mother, I don't like to put her on pedestal. I've realized she's emotional, manipulative and difficult to reason with. I like to STFU and stay away as being in the same room is cause for friction and headache.

[–]Psychocist 115 points116 points  (7 children)

Well, she is a woman, after all. My mum was deeply troubled. I felt the same. Then I found her dead in her flat one morning last year.

Keep telling yourself not to put her on a pedestal, then see how you feel when she's gone forever. The worst thing about it is that I neglected our relationship to go chase sluts. As I say, gotta be careful not to take those constants for granted - they're not constants.

[–]WelfareWarriorZ 40 points41 points  (2 children)

Sorry to hear that brother. My condolances.

[–]Psychocist 32 points33 points  (1 child)

Thanks. Over the worst of it, thankfully.

[–]john_dove 16 points17 points  (3 children)

I'm really sorry for your loss and really that thing scares me. My parents are old and I stay away from them and every once a while I feel guilty of not caring enough.

Although, my earlier comment was on the recent fact that my parents visited me recently for few months. I took them around multiple states. All the bells and whistles as I just wanted them to be happy, but every week it was a sob story (with real crying) as to how I don't care for them.

I'd still stand by earlier stance. I love her and would try my best to make their life comfortable and happy. At the same time, I don't the shitty behavior and certainly not the drama.

[–]Psychocist 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I think it can be really rough. My mum suffered from bad drug addiction and I tried many times over the years to help her, but she always went back. You can't change people, and if there is something you don't like you simply have to tolerate it or stay away.

Sounds like you've done what you can. You care, but you are not responsible for how they live their later years.

[–]SoulRedemption 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your loss. I know for a fact that I take my mom for granted, and always act like I don't care much about her thoughts too much. But once in awhile it hits me in the gut like a fucken belly flop from a 50 meter drop, that ones she is gone, there will be no one that will unconditionally love me. Not a single person that can replace her. There is a background story to this.

She is not perfect, she is a woman, she has negative things. Yet, when I look around, once she is gone. That's it.

It's a little sad on my part that I don't play on emotion and hold strong with her. Such is life.

[–]SoulRedemption 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know why exactly they are saying you don't care about them enough. But, I find sometimes, a simple call, or a message a day or a week is what they are looking for.

Whilst others look for more money and things, above is from parents who may really fucken love ya.

Sometimes parents also want to be the number "one". Hope you find your peace.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 21 points22 points  (2 children)

However, maintain respect for Mom. She gave you life. Enjoy.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Depends. Mine was a worthless cunt the world (end especially I) am better of without.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 20 points21 points  (3 children)

YES. Do not put mom on a pedestal. She's just an old woman. You are a man. Do not put mom on a pedestal = Do not put women on a pedestal. Master confidence and amused mastery in the face of mother and you become a man.

[–]Ehipassika 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Indeed, I found that mother test a lot my confidence by trying to seed doubt in me but after test passed all good. Also don't try to change mother but accept the way she is. Amused mastery indeed.

[–]OnlyTRP 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You forgot /s at the end I suppose?

[–]SoulRedemption 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cannot agree with this more.

[–]NMF_ 18 points19 points  (2 children)

I feel like I get shit tested more by men now than women. I think it's jealousy over my success (I've capitalized on some good fortunes over the past year to be in a really good spot right now)

[–]redvelvet_oreo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel like this depends on your environment. This happened to me last year when I was around people who didn't necessarily do as well as i did. Even though some made more money than me my life style was 10 times more amazing then their entire lively hood. They were married w/ kids and miserable. Couldn't go to a local bar with out asking for permission or just down right saying NO because of the fact.

This constantly led to jealous dudes shit testing my masculinity almost every hour of the day. At t he end I got up and left for a job paying more than everyone and working less because I put my priorities in front of any woman i was fucking around with during the time and I was committed to my goals and not worried about anyone else's lifestyle.

[–]JFMX1996 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take it as a good sign. I see it as a compliment, they test to to see what you're about.

"Is this dude the real deal?" "What's this guy like?"


If they didn't, it's a sign they don't even notice you or bother. If they're testing you, it might be to vet you and see if you're a capable friend or a soft-ass who will get triggered at any slight ball-busting, guy-ish behavior.

It shows you're making progress.

Agree-and-amplify, or put the pressure on them if you're witty enough. Just don't react emotionally. Use calculated humor.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 24 points25 points  (2 children)

...and kids. They are the biggest shit-testers.

[–]look_good 20 points21 points  (0 children)

"women are children"

huh makes sense

[–]GoinMonk 22 points23 points  (10 children)

Same rules apply to family. They will test you. Get in good with your mom.

That's a big one. I used to think for the longest time that you should be careful with your appearances to everyone except with your family, because they're the only ones who truly love you. That's blue pill fantasy bullshit. Your parents are human beings, same as everyone else. The only difference is they had to fucking raise you as a kid, if anything that gives them more reason to despise you than anyone else (joking, fellas).

Treat your mom like you would treat any other female. Of course the end goal is not to fuck her, but to be in good terms. Don't open up to her, maintain frame, she has to see you as a man, not her little baby, otherwise she'll have control over you and will get you off the track.

[–]Alexinfinite01 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's true. And the worst part is that in all probability she will be meaning well when she does it. Although I actually have to thank my mother for directing me to the redpill and Rollo tomassi

[–]IkWhatUDidLastSummer 5 points6 points  (4 children)

This is so stupid and wrong. Women love their kids more than they love anything, they become deeply attached emotionally to their kids like they dont do with a partner. Comparing a mom to a girlfriend is absolutely ridiculous, you are basically denying red pill theory by making the comparison. You know why women want high-SMV men? Because they have the best genetics. Why do they care about good genetics? For breeding purposes. What are they breeding? Kids ffs. Its the ENTIRE purpose. You have to look no further than to look at all the female animals that will KILL to defend their breed.

[–]LOST_TALE[🍰] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

shit I've been shit testing people for a while! thx trp

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Lol. It's human nature. You're welcome. Have a good day.

[–]ZelixNocturna 81 points82 points  (1 child)

I don't normally comment on Reddit much but I'm going to read this shit every morning like it's the Bible

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yes. Thanks that's what this post is for. It's all the stuff I have picked up from other Red Piller's in my time lurking here.

[–]kidwithambition 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You cannot bake a cake without the instructions,

Thanks for the reminder, THIS is what TRP is all about.

[–]mountainbiker178 29 points30 points  (1 child)

Fuck her like it's the last time

[–]phlcons76 100 points101 points  (1 child)

Gold. Your title pulled me in. Love your short and concise points that all ring home.


[–]for_cris 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This. It's not some wall of text that subtly hides anger. It's precise, non-profuse, productive facts.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Great points.

[Do not marry] Unless it is on your terms (very rare)

Marriage is NEVER on your terms. Prenups get thrown out when it suits the woman. It might look to be on your terms now. It won't be in the future. Simply avoid it. You'll be happy you did in 5, 10 or 15 years time.

[–]theloveofpower 1 points1 points [recovered]

In fight club they are meant to break all rules. They're meant to talk about fight club.


[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 25 points26 points  (6 children)

Exactly. Now you are getting it. Tread carefully. Who you introduce the red pill too will change the outcome here. Men do not take to this information easily. And women wonder how the fuck we know it. "you're not supposed to know that"

[–]Hiimusog 17 points18 points  (3 children)

So true. Had a plate over 2 nights ago and everything went perfectly. She was like "you must have read the book, how do you do everything so smoothly".

A man armed with TRP is truly a powerful force.

[–]feoen 1 points1 points [recovered]

This is a noob question, but what does by the book really look like? I've read so much TRP I don't know how to simply hold a conversation with a woman I am gaming anymore. I'm always looking out for shit tests, kino opportunities, and one upping my own agree and amplifies.

What else would make it by the book?

[–]Hiimusog 14 points15 points  (0 children)

When it is so natural that you are not actively looking for shit tests, kino etc. You act and react without having to analyse the moment.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

nice relief from the endless walls of texts here...

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 85 points86 points  (59 children)

You have not read closely enough.

Do not get married, PERIOD.

Marriage is not "Red Pill on Expert Mode". It's "I made a critical error prior to finding the Red Pill that I cannot now undo without suffering financial risk and loss. I now need the Red Pill simply to maintain what I have."

Marriage is an unnecessary risk. It provides no tangible benefit. It's a game of Russian Roulette: if you win, you get to keep living, which you could have done by not playing in the first place.

The rest of your guide is all right.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 21 points22 points  (19 children)

Yes I know. It is something I am personally conflicted on. Why get married ? Idk. To each their own.

[–]jairothevaca 39 points40 points  (16 children)

If you want to have a kid, it's way better to have a wife. A good wife, of course.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 12 points13 points  (15 children)

Yes. Red Pill women exist. There is even a sub for it. Avoid red flags. Avoid feminists if you must. Find women with similar mindsets to you. You are captain. She is co-captain. And thats ok. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Good women are happy with this. It's all about respect. Respect her, respect yourself first.

[–]TangoZulu 15 points16 points  (12 children)

Saying "she is co-captian" is a sign that perhaps you haven't fully ingested Red Pill. You are hedging your words to satisfy the feminist dogma of complete equality in all things. The fault in this thinking is of course that with two equal co-captians, there is no firm leadership and no decisions can be made in the event of a disagreement. There's a reason ships only have one captain.

ETA: Don't mean this as criticism of you. Just pointing out ways our BP programming still stays with us long after discovering RP.

[–]Lasagnaisforlovers 14 points15 points  (2 children)

I think the appointment you guys are looking for is first mate aka 2nd in command.

[–]TangoZulu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I used First Mate in a follow-up reply. Thanks.

[–][deleted] 32 points33 points  (2 children)

You're overthinking it. He's simply saying that you're the leader, but you're still partners. You're just arguing semantics about the word "captain"

[–]TangoZulu 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I disagree. Words are powerful; you only need to look as far as the way feminism attempts to control our social discourse to prove that.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Of course. But on a ship you have the final say as captain. If you can trust her to take the wheel when you sleep be careful.

[–]TangoZulu 7 points8 points  (1 child)

That's the point. Someone HAS to have final say. The captain can certainly trust his First Mate to take the wheel while he sleeps, but if there is no distinction in rank then every decision becomes a discussion and/or compromise, and that's not effective leadership. Especially if the boat is about to hit an iceberg.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes first mate is a better terminology here. Be the leader. Thanks

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes the Blue Pill conditioning is a bitch to shake. Thanks

[–]vwzwv 5 points6 points  (1 child)

"To each their own."

"It will be fine."

"There are exceptions"

Almost every life catastrophe starts with an utter like one of these.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha true I realized after I posted. This is why I post. The teacher can learn too. Thanks

[–]Roaring40sUK 9 points10 points  (0 children)

if you win, you get to keep living

I wouldnt even go this far.. I have been in a 10 year LTR with kids and it didnt feel like living to me..

[–]otivito 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm married and happy. This is the only point I do not agree with. I dated a lot and had my fun while finding what I was looking for. When I found her, I kept her. No regrets.

[–]Rafsimon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ahahaha this is definitely one of the things that are up to each individual person. yall are so scared over random ass girls

no tangible benefit

you mean like having a family? yeah bro, there's no benefit at all. kids don't need a mother and a father living in the same household.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Added a tip on this. Thanks

[–]redpillrobby 5 points6 points  (34 children)

Gonna have to disagree. Fear of divorce rape is not a good reason not to get married. You can worship the dollar to that degree if you want, but I would get married again in a heartbeat. Has been absolutely worth it and if she leaves me and takes half my stuff so be it. I'm a capable man and can basically pull money out of my ass. The value that woman adds to my life is easily worth half my money.

The problem, as I see it, is that fear itself. It's part of what drives men down into beta-hood. They acquiesce to their wives because they suppose they have the power. People only have the power you let them have. And some contract that says she can take half my stuff if she leaves me doesn't give her any power at all if she detects that I won't give a fuck if she exercises that right. If she knows I'll just go fuck her sister and her friends (and worse, her enemies) and post it all over instagram (and she knows I would) she would never dare.

Not giving a fuck is your key in this life with women. Not avoiding marriage.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 34 points35 points  (24 children)

Fear has nothing to do with it. You are succumbing to a classic feminist shaming tactic, and then trying to perpetuate it by accusing others of cowardice.

You do not appear smarter or more dominant by saying that you like being a host to parasites. You look like a tool.

There are few enough rational arguments for marriage, and sufficient arguments against it, to clinch the matter. It is a bad business and life decision.

[–]redpillrobby -1 points0 points  (23 children)

You are succumbing to a classic feminist shaming tactic

You mean I'm making use of one. Fair enough. But it works. It got you all riled up an emotional, didn't it? ;)

and then trying to perpetuate it by accusing others of cowardice.

I think you mean "and then tried to bolster your bad decision to get married by accusing others who don't do it of cowardice."

And yes, that is my argument. As you beautifully illustrate with this...

It is a bad business and life decision.

You could say the same about skiing. You're basically guaranteed to fall if you try skiing, you know. One could say skiing poses unnecessary risks for the silly little reward of sliding down a hill with the wind in your face. Ok, fine. Maybe you don't like skiing. But it's weird to come on here and try to shame others out of doing something that they like because it's a bad business decision (because it costs money) and that it's a bad life decision (because of the physical risks), when the truth is...you're just scared of hitting a tree, OR...you simply don't enjoy skiing.

But if skiing appeals to you, there are things you can do to maximize your fun, and minimize your risk. The same is true of marriage.

[–]kelvin_condensate 17 points18 points  (5 children)

I've never lost half my income by skiiing, and I've been doing it since I was five.

I hate terrible analogies (really any analogy in general).

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 12 points13 points  (11 children)

Still waiting for you to provide some examples of the advantages of marriage over a simple relationship.

Go ahead, we'll wait.

[–]vwzwv 5 points6 points  (3 children)

You mean I'm making use of one. Fair eno..

I think you mean "and then tried to bolster your ba..

Do you often go around and tell people what they are really saying?

[–]XanJamZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the analogy. Do what you want just don't be a bitch.

[–]TRPfilth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Canada at least, if you've cohabited for like 2 years you are considered common law married. Do the same kind of laws apply here?

[–]Mescuzzi 18 points19 points  (8 children)

When I hold eye contact longer than necessary, one of my favorite things to do is hit em with a slight (but cocky) smirk and an eye wink.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 17 points18 points  (5 children)

Exactly. Got my first serious girlfriend with a wink. She said "I can't believe you pulled that off." You can pull anything off if you're confident. If you have nothing to hide you are confident. Work on yourself y'all.

[–]1htbf 2 points3 points  (4 children)

My eye contact game has been so weak lately. I don't know if it's just me but I feel like people are staring at me so intensely that it feels confrontational. It last for more than 10 seconds before they fucking break away.

[–]Rollo_Mayhem3 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Time it and be sure (one, one thousand). Likely you are inflating the time. It could very well be that they are not intimidated by you or random people. Keep trying. I normally break contact when they leave my frontal field of vision. Since most people are not staring at them, it could be unusually for them and see you as a threat and so seeing what your are doing etc..

[–]1htbf 9 points10 points  (1 child)

I've been more confident than ever these days. I say outlandish things just for the heck of it. Just today, I was signing up at a new gym, I joked at how many signatures were needed. She said it was almost like signing up for a car. I noticed her signature too on the papers she just handed me and said "more like marriage papers".

I would never have dared stuff like that. Last week, boss was briefing me for an important presentation and told me "if they offer you a job, say no". I came back with "unless they offer me more money than you do".

[–]GOATmar 39 points40 points  (6 children)

When giving girl your Fuck:

pull hair


tell her u want to rape her asshole

shove finger in her asshole, make her taste it

tell her you want to impregnate her with quintuplets

makeout all sloppy, and tell her to picture eating another woman's pussy with you as you do

constantly tell her you own her body and soul

grope the fuck out of her tits and ass whenever possible, especially in public

make her deep throat your dick by force, until tears come out

spit in her mouth, and have her spit in yours too

when cumming, let loose, dont hold back, roar if you feel like

command her to cum, and how often to do so

when choking, do so by the side of her neck lines. until she feels like she's about to pass out. then release vice grip, fuck like a jackhammer, and then choke again until near-pass out. repeat

fuck in front of mirrors, and look as violent as possible when doing so

sniff her entire body as you jerk your dick

prone bone > doggystyle, make her feel your entire weight behind every single thrust

bite her lips hard

suck her tits like youre trying to prevent breast cancer

rub clit as you drill her pussy

[–]XanJamZ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The real LPT is always in the comments

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 13 points14 points  (2 children)

Yes another good tip here. Fuck her better than anyone else has. Don't be afraid to take what you want. Seek submissive women. Help them submit.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child)

However you're a funny guy. Maybe you are over doing this style ?

[–]p3n1x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all, do this, she will beg for it.

[–]SuwinTzi 7 points8 points  (2 children)

That bit on fitness; diet matters more than working out for recomp. You cant out train a bad diet.

Read up on how your body utilizes fuel for aerobic and anaerobic activity, and adjust your diet accordingly for your goal.

[–]curiousgeorgey 6 points7 points  (4 children)

If women looks abruptly at the ground

Can you explain this one? I've been seeing this a lot in the recent years, I just figured that they find me intimidating.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 18 points19 points  (3 children)

Yes. If they find you intimidating thats good. All tension can be sexual tension. If they look off to the side or make bitch face its a no go. If they look at the ground or look at you once or twice or smile its on. Women give these invitations all the time. "Introduce yourself" she is thinking. Take the lead.

[–]xx-Rain_Maker-xx 1 point2 points  (1 child)

What did you mean by "bending over"?

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So i was chatting with a girl, first her dog runs up. Dragging her behind him on the leash. This girl was easily a 7 or 8. A bit young for my taste. But sexy. "Don't let the dog walk you." I say. She laughs, I laugh, She breaks eye contact, and turns around. BENDS OVER to pet the dog, showing me her ass and titties ON PURPOSE. And though it may have been subconscious, most things are. Women do this ALL THE TIME. Look for the signs of submission. It is your cue to start Kino, get a #, etc. Thanks

[–]redpillrobby 19 points20 points  (26 children)

Confidence is the #1 thing women are drawn to.

The only thing you wrote that I'm not sure I agree with. I would say that SOCIAL STATUS (SMV) is the #1 thing they look for. Confidence (in the form of body language/eye contact/verbal skills/etc), reputation, good looks, friends, talents, money, career, education, fame, etc. all contribute to your perceived SMV, but I'm not sure one of those can be labeled as #1. SMV is what women have a nose for, and all those things are simply parts of it.

It's true that confidence can make women assume you have high SMV, but they can quickly find out you're a loser despite that, that nobody likes you, and then poof--you're still gone.

[–]kelvin_condensate 8 points9 points  (2 children)

In one off situations, confidence and good looks are pretty much all you need. Even if you don't have friends while going out, if you can mold into every group you enter and dominate the conversation, you are guaranteed to pick up at least one girl.

[–]redpillrobby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you can mold into every group you enter and dominate the conversation, you are guaranteed to pick up at least one girl.

See, but there was your key.

[–]blurtard 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Social status gets you nowhere without confidence to back it up

[–]redpillrobby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Again, I don't totally disagree. But it's kind of a chicken and the egg thing most of the time.

[–]YoubigdumbSOB 14 points15 points  (53 children)

You sure swallowed someone else's ideology!

Lie and say you make more money than your woman? Yeah, you deserve whatever you get.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 4 points5 points  (51 children)

Lol. Yes I noticed that point was a bit off and out of place. White lies are fun, at first when meeting a women it's ok to bluff. In time, when building a meaningful relationship, these white lies fade, and honesty is key. Thanks

[–]YoubigdumbSOB 8 points9 points  (50 children)

You have missed some big picture wisdom too. TRP is a sexual strategy. Regardless of whether it is effective as a sexual strategy: as a LIFE strategy, especially for an older adult, it is woefully ineffective.

People need connection, and mutual trust and respect, when we are older. Life as an aging bachelor is VERY different than as a young guy, and if you proceed to live this young man's strategy for your whole life despite your changing human needs, you are in for a bad surprise.

That's why your "live for today" strategy as an alternative to worry about the future, is misguided. What you should have said is "be present today but consider and plan for the future without anxiety."

Same for never getting married. What you should have said is to never get married too young and never get married on someone else's terms.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 2 points3 points  (37 children)

I will adjust the post thanks

[–]Roaring40sUK 0 points1 point  (11 children)

What you should have said is "be present today but consider and plan for the future without anxiety."

This I agree with, thats how I live my life and I am in my 40's.

What you should have said is to never get married too young and never get married on someone else's terms.

This I strongly disagree with. Marriage is never on your terms, as a man, because society wont let it be that way. Its too far gone.

[–]YoubigdumbSOB 0 points1 point  (10 children)

Society won't let it? Please expand

[–]Roaring40sUK 1 point2 points  (9 children)

Seriously? You need me to expand on this? OK..

  • Gynocentrism, always puts womens needs first
  • Hypergamy - the woman is very rarely happy for long, and detonating a marriage makes her a hero
  • Women are taught not to submit to a man and most want to lead the relationship (until they actually do)
  • Punitive divorce and custody laws (in favour of women)
  • Punitive Domestic Violence laws - the man is always the guilty party
  • Dismissal of Prenups in many countries

Hows that for a quick off the cuff?

[–]YoubigdumbSOB 0 points1 point  (8 children)

I never said I need you to explain anything. I asked you to expand on your statement. Look at you trying to twist my words and intentions! Tsk, tsk

That list is not inherent in marriage. Those are things that are present in some cases some of the time

And it's a pointless and flawed list because I said "on your terms." If you live a place where prenup can be dismissed then you wouldn't be getting married on your own terms there. Duh. Pretty simple.

[–]Roaring40sUK 0 points1 point  (3 children)

No the list is not inherent in marraige, as you say, but its the system and society that we (the west) live in that makes marriage such a bad choice, for men.

Using a qualifier like "on your terms" is like using NAWALT, in that its basically a redundant argument, becuase the conditions would be so rare.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adjusted the tip with some elaboration. Thanks

[–]TRPfilth 5 points6 points  (6 children)

"Dont kiss unless you are ready to fuck" what is this about? Should you not make out with a girl at the bar or a party unless you're going to fuck her within a short time frame, or even that night?

[–]Disciple_of_Libertas 25 points26 points  (9 children)

Don't have kids

Jesus Christ man. Why can't people have kids if they want to?

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 15 points16 points  (6 children)

I want kids. One day. I am young and financially unstable as of now. Solid advice in the sense that we over due the desire for children. Make sure you're ready.

[–]Disciple_of_Libertas 9 points10 points  (5 children)

That is not how it's worded. You say it authoritatively: "Do not have kids." Overdue the desire? Is the desire to have my genes pass on overdoing it?

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 9 points10 points  (3 children)

I understand. My post is not meant to be fact or an ultimatum. Just helpful tips to staying sharp and free.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill add a question mark for you. Thanks

[–]Psychocist 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Concise! I like it. Covers a lot of points and you'd live a happy life if you unquestionably followed it. Of course, it's also important to understand why some of this advice is passed around. Most of your points cover that, but a few don't (marriage/kids, posture, body language, etc).

I know it's not the point of this post, but would be cool to extend it a little in that case. Great post nonetheless!

[–]briskestbrisket 2 points3 points  (4 children)

Can I just say that I found this subreddit maybe three days ago and everything just makes so much more sense now. I feel like I just started reading the Bible. Fuck yeah the red pill

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha welcome bud. Glad I could help you catch up.

[–]Dookiestain_LaFlair 43 points44 points  (12 children)

The whole "don't get married and have kids" is a jew plot to lower the white birth rate.

[–]d0lphinsex 26 points27 points  (1 child)

The most red pill truths are in the comments.

[–]1htbf 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I hope you are both sarcastic.

[–]kelvin_condensate 17 points18 points  (3 children)

Red pill advice is good for the individual, but by not having kids, we seriously are fucking over our European birth rates.

At the rate Germany is going, it could be Muslim majority within 50 years thanks to how many economic migrants they have imported.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (2 children)

Actually ethnic German men, of prime reproductive age, will be a minority as early 2020 if current trends continue https://youtu.be/dF9V8POmuxg

[–]kelvin_condensate 2 points3 points  (1 child)

No surprise there, but every other ethnic group is literally working against them (reproductively).

I was specifically referring one current minority becoming a majority which is a different point (but still related).

Still, I appreciate your source as it is another piece of knowledge I enjoyed learning.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah definitely. Globalists worked to usurp the German people, this is all by design. After Europe falls they will come for America, this is no joke. You already see it now with them making it easy for illegals to come across the border and all these fake protests against deporting them and punishing sanctuary cities and of course building a wall. Like who in their right mind is actually against enforcing the border/punishing criminals except for globalists and misguided liberals? There is also a big push by the left for the US to take in more refugees from the Middle East, the end goal of course being that of Germany. Unlike Germany, however, Americans still have the right to bear arms and say whatever we want (to an extent), so I have more faith in the future of our nation than any other really.

[–]JackGetsIt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your Post script note is very very good advice. If you dig hard enough everyone has something interesting about them and there's an art to good conversation that takes years of practice.

[–]Redsmoke18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like this post, Im pretty sure it goes way deeper, but it is a real good overview, and pretty much sums up the basics, great post.

[–]RosstheMoss81 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Don't forget tact. Mimicking a beta while being an alpha will give the beta mimicking an alpha quite a shock at some point.

[–]enkae7317 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great post. Lots of material condensed into an easily readable format with TONS of solid advice.

IDK why you're getting a lot of shit on this sub for the children + marriage portion. In the end, we're against it but everyone is so vehemently disgusted by it if you even utter the damn word they'll bring a wrath upon you no one has ever seen.

[–]Project_Thor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good thing Op is here to post common sense.

I was starting to get worried about the autistic simp populace.

[–]everyone_wins 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I would like to add that the Sedona method is an incredible tool for letting go of approval seeking tendencies and subconscious programs that sabotage your success. Try it, you won't regret it.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool. I will check it out. Thanks

[–]briskestbrisket 1 point2 points  (13 children)

Noticed you touched on posture in your post, OP. Have had several women I'd been in public with ask me to not walk into a building "like I own the place" when I'm with them. Are they trying to say I look like a douche, or does my posture and stride actually put off too much masculinity, and they fear other women will be attracted to it? What's the deal. I'm my mind if you're walking without holding your chin and chest up high, you may as well crawl on your hands and knees.

[–]Patriarchysaurus 2 points3 points  (2 children)

It's one of two possibilities: you're either strutting in like a peacock and you look ridiculous, or the women smell the beta in you and are shit testing until they strike oil.

[–]briskestbrisket 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I highly doubt I look like a peacock. Ridiculous? No. But for certain I get looks from everyone when I walk in a place and girls notice it. I stand out when I walk into a restaurant. For example, I'm only 21 but I'm 6'0 tall, 200lbs with disproportionally broad shoulders and a narrow waist; gym rat for life. I look good lol. They're shit testing.

[–]Patriarchysaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, but if you feel so certain about that then why bother asking what these women really meant on TRP?

Edit: 21, 6 feet tall, & jacked at 200lbs./possibly still on a bicycle --shit tests no doubt.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

If you walked into my house like you owned it I'd be inclined to believe you. Confidence generates followers. As your follower, your women will test your confidence. Stay strong.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remember, women love douche bags and assholes. Because they are confident. You are correct. She just wants to make sure you got the confidence to back that up.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be a creep. Go for girls who are legal and willing. Society will shit all over you, stay vigilant.

Back in my BP days I was envy at guys I've met who were openly bragging how they were able to score with high school girls. Age of consent is less than 18 where I live, but still, now I see that it's creepy as fuck for guys in mid and late 20s to go after girls who can't even drive a car by themselves legally.

[–]Mister-guy 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Great post. Accurate, efficient, and easy to follow. I'll be reading this several times a week.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Have a good day.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long term relationships are the red pill on expert mode.

Thank you. This shit was so much easier when I was single. Married red pill is hard mode.

[–]-AsadBajwa94 1 points1 points [recovered]

How to stay lit: Make shit ton of money in your 40s and 50s, save enough for a comfy retirement, sip on some bacardi and light up some cigars in Cuba.... and if you ain't getting there ain't no way you staying lit big homie.

[–]Xoramung 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isnt the 2nd rule of fight club, is you do not talk about fight club.

Good post dude. Saved.

[–]NDIndyfan 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Hg should add a reference to this in the patch notes

[–]30fretibanezguy 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I never get much opportunity to tan my chest legs and booty given I live in the UK. Highly considering doing a few sessions in a tanning salon. You guys endorse it?

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone mentioned that your skin will age poorly, and too much can cause skin cancer. Moderation man. Don't let anyone tell you anything you do for yourself is weak. You are strong man. You be the judge. Cheers.

[–]Luckylancer96 1 point2 points  (6 children)

be stoic, where do you work? Strip club

Is it possible to be stoic while teasing, using amusement mastery and being funny with this kind of jokes?

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Yep. In fact it's key at first. Confidence is rooted in not caring about all the stuff that doesn't really matter.

[–]Luckylancer96 1 point2 points  (3 children)

"stoic" reminds me a serious guy with less emotions. I dont get how "amusemen", "teasing" and "stoic" used together. Can you explain senpai?

[–]Raizo101 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Stoic does not mean boring. Even though the connotations for a stoic man are usually "cold, frigid and emotionless", they are incorrect.

Stoic means being outcome independent. Stoic means feeling emotions but not letting them take over you.

The shorter definition of Stoicism I can think of is simply "Oh well". Stoics focus on what they can control. If something out of their range happens... oh well.

I can recommend some books on the topic if you are interested.

[–]Luckylancer96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ll read meditations and 2 other "starter" books. Thx for info

[–]The-Peter-Principle 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Nice summary. Commenting for my future recall!

[–]NaturalSelect1on 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Great post man, this a very quick summary of the whole red pill philosophy in simple words. Great reminder for everyone!

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Have a good day.

[–]CrimsonShiv 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Quick tips like this are awesome, reminding us of the fundamentals without the waffle & psychobabble

[–]eccentricrealist 1 point2 points  (3 children)

This is pretty good as a reminder for people who've been here a while and haven't read the sidebar for years.

Otherwise, read the sidebar.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Thanks. I have not read the sidebar in a while. Does it include this stuff? Idk. However. Thanks. Have a good day.

[–]eccentricrealist 1 point2 points  (1 child)

The thing is most RP theory is derived from the posts in the sidebar. It's like doing the big 3 lifts and then accessorizing.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Side bar is the Old Testament. I'm trying to bring some New Testament to this Sub. Freedom of religion, however I am not religious. Just a metaphor. Thanks

[–]briskestbrisket 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I'm asking because I just discovered this subreddit a few days ago and I feel more woke than ever. I wonder, in what other ways are women shit testing me. I seek you guys' advice because you guys are more enlightened on this topic. I'm just starting to figure it out for myself and I can tell I'm going to enjoy applying TRP to my life daily. It doesn't hurt to ask, you know? Thanks for the words of wisdom.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

EVERYTHING IS A SHIT TEST. If you are confident, she will test you to make sure you got the mind set to back it up.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have been taking care of your shit, you have NOTHING to hide. Therefore be confident. Shit test? More like an easy excuse to show how little I care, and how sure of myself I am. Stop giving a fuck. About EVERYTHING except a few, just a very small few things. Decide what you ACTUALLY care about. Pick 5 things. Throw the rest away.

[–]briskestbrisket 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Law school? That's impressive. I'm just starting this fall at a community college and hoping to bust ass and transfer to a bigger 4 year and expand my life/opportunity/social circle through those means. Thanks for your words of advice. Good luck on the law degree. I'll be sure to hit you up if I am in a pinch lol.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Your mission. Go get em bud.

[–]MarquisdeSuede 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is like the Desiderata of the Red Pill

[–]1ToSeeAndToHear 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Excellent summary of often repeated points. Only thing I disagree with is where you say to tan - that may help short term, but the sun damage will make you look old much faster.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have re-worded my advice to specify. Was meant for guys who never go outside. Thanks

[–]TheDivinePenis 4 points5 points  (4 children)

" Do not have kids "

What a fucking retard.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 10 points11 points  (2 children)

Haha. Yes i realize. I am 24 now. I believe this to be good advice in the sense that we over due the desire for kids and marriage. So going in the opposite direction with advice at first is ok. For me I am not financially stable enough. Do not have kids....Until you're sure you're ready.

[–]TheDivinePenis 7 points8 points  (1 child)

If this is what you actually meant, then much love, the post is good.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All good. I changed the wording to clarify. Thanks

[–]Hltchens 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Staying lit? How about we not use outdated euphemisms for starters. Lit. Smfh. You sound like a trilby ass wearin video game jockey. This ain't early 2016 anymore.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn dude you're right. Im so 2016. ;)

[–]InfernalSpirit 1 point2 points  (24 children)

Still an over bearing contempt for women i see. You almost had it kid.

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Lol i love women. I understand your concern. Thanks

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 2 points3 points  (21 children)

However, of all the comments here yours cuts the deepest. I'll add a tip about it. Thanks

[–]Full-Time_Lurker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh of course. The live for today bit is a bit off I understand. Think about the future. Plan ahead. You see worrying about your future is as simple as drawing a few conclusions, changing your behavior, and then enjoying your new self. In my experience the self improvement aspect of the red pill is my sexual strategy. As far as the past, i hope you can come to terms with everything. And forgive yourself and forgive others. Life is good despite mistakes.

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