Red Pill TheoryComfort with Risk is a Defining Aspect of Testosterone. Its why our Car Insurance is Higher. Be Comfortable Risking Creepy and You Will Slay. (self.TheRedPill)

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Disclaimer: Key word being COMFORTABLE taking risk, not oblivious to all risk and derping your little shitty life straight off a cliff.

Let's begin. Men have always had an evolutionary need to take risk. In the hunter gatherer society, we are the hunters. Were the ones out defending the perimeter, hunting big angry game with fangs and horns to gore us to death if we fuck up. Women stay back at camp gathering berries and weaving baskets. Their risk is a reed might give them a paper cut. This is why women incessantly bitch about their tiny problems because they really don't have any.

Same goes in the sexual marketplace. Man must approach. Man must risk losing face. He must risk rejection. He must risk being the laughing stock of the peanut gallery. He must risk approaching the wrong chick and having to fight Caveman Chad. Woman must risk.....?.... Anyone? Bueller?

Lol so risk and men go together like two things that really fucking go together well. Risk is your friend. Risk is the main way you put yourself in the top 20%. Risk is the only way you can show confidence and confidence is key.

So stop blabbing and tell me some relevant examples already! Ok, risk is being yourself. ALRIGHT NOW FOLLOW ME FOR A SECOND HERE: I know you've heard be yourself so many times that at this point it is only rage enducing but we're going to go deeper.

The main issue is people have no clue who the fuck they are. And even beyond that they don't care to find out. They don't WANT to be themselves. They want to find someone else to tell them how to live. How to be. To tell them what they are.

Look there are many facets to who you are, and every person is a bit different. But the first one we want to focus on with fucking bitches is the sexual you. Your sexuality. Your sexual side. Your kinks. All that shit. Your masculine testosterone horny fucking energy. This is the number one thing that betas are afraid to show, so they suppress it, and then they walk up to the girl basically as a eunic on an energetic level and then think he can get her with his polite manners. Dude. Besides money, tattoos and my dick, the only thing that reliably turns women on is feeling unbridled, confident, male horniness. As the great "50 years" once said,


You have to risk being creepy. You have to risk being shut down. You have to risk the girl being disgusted and thinking you're a dirty old man. This is the only thing stopping every beta from approaching and thereby is the MAIN difference between betas and alphas. Talk about square jaws and bank accounts all you want but if you are a rich GQ model but you're a little bitch coward who is ashamed of his sexuality, your success in the sexual market place will be limited.

On the other hand you can be a fat, disgusting slob and yet if you get this right you can kill it with women. Dude I know who's fucked the most women was a 350+lb 5'5" lardass who was addicted to pills and had 0 in his bank account, but what he did have was he ALWAYS risked being himself, showing the world WHAT HE WANTS and had no psychological hangups about being sexual with girls. I mean by all accounts he "should" right? This is the dude society does not want to reproduce and yet he is in sexual abundance. Why?

Because he is comfortable as a newborn babe with risk. Specifically risking being himself and risking being his sexual self with women... All the time.

You should be sexual from the get go. Dont open by talking about sex but talking LIKE sex. Move like sex. Fucking be like sex. You are sex dude. You are sex machine right? Otherwise what are you offering her? Your money so she can cuck you? Your good looks as arm candy? Fuck that.

All I got for hoe's is hard dick and bubble gum.

Get comfy with risk. It screams alpha.



[–]Arrys 106 points107 points  (3 children)

The main issue is people have no clue who the fuck they are. And even beyond that they don't care to find out. They don't WANT to be themselves. They want to find someone else to tell them how to live. How to be. To tell them what they are.

I find this to be very true, and it's worth stressing again (although the rest of your post was good too).

It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking you know who you are, but it takes a high degree of introspection to step back and really analyze both what you think and what you do. Then to take the next step and compare what you do with what you want in life to see if they align.

People like to be comfortable as they are. It's easier to settle for who you are now so you don't have to suffer and work your ass off to change for the better ("I'm a heavy set guy, that's just who I am.. "I'm not the kind of guy who approaches girls in bars"). Bullshit. That's nothing but excuses and shifting the blame to something other than yourself, which is what children do.

If you're sitting on your ass every day, making excuses for why you aren't working on yourself or putting in the effort to change your circumstances, then you do know who you are - you're a loser.

It's one thing to take the step back and analyze your situation introspectively and be aware enough to tell if your actions are in alignment with your goals. Anyone can do that to some degree. But where most people fail is on the follow through.

Once you start to actually take action and follow through on what you want to do to improve your lot in life, it's amazing how your sense of identity starts to follow. When you start working out daily, eating correctly, investing in yourself, it all begins to take shape. You begin to realize that you're the kind of person who takes-charge, who doesn't allow himself to be a victim of circumstances out of his control. You learn drive, passion, dedication.

[–]CQC3 34 points35 points  (2 children)

There's that really successful Cracked article 6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You A Better Person, or something like that. It really was a damn fine article for the modern male malaise.

One of the best and simplest ideas it put forth was that your self esteem is low because you don't do anything. You don't provide any value for anyone, so why would anyone bother with you when there are others just like you but also doing shit in their lives?

Value is not just money or tangible benefits, but really anything that people want something of.

A large part of how you feel about yourself is based on what you actually do. Your mind can fuck around sometimes but it isn't stupid, you have to be extremely delusional to really pull off believing you're a gift to the Earth when you just sit around and do jack shit all day.

However, if you actually do things that mean something to you and give you room to progress, then you will respect yourself more and more because you are meeting your OWN standards and therefore not internally tearing yourself apart with criticism.

[–]d0lphinsex 5 points6 points  (1 child)

One of my favourite articles.

[–]Shakydrummer 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, my own mother would always give me the advice of 'leaning into the discomfort' when it came to tackling different objectives in life.

It kinda rubbed off in a positive way, because you're entirely right, leaning into the discomfort is what creates opportunities. Anyone who is worth knowing and respecting in life didn't wait for opportunities in life, they dealt with the risk of putting their neck on the line and created their own opportunity despite the risk. The same idea just translates to anything really - don't be afraid to to pursue something - so in the case of women, what's getting shot down and moving to the next one compared to wondering what a missed opportunity would be, and kicking yourself in the ass for it months down the road.

Fuck that, fucking go for it, with anything in life.

[–]WhySoRuff 42 points43 points  (2 children)

All I got for hoe's is hard dick and bubble gum,

and I'm all out of bubble gum.

But on a serious note.

[–]2ShitsWithTheDoorOpen 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Nietzsche quote and its relevant? Upvoted

[–]WhySoRuff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's the least I could do in appreciation of you reminding me to re up on my bubble gum stash. Critical.

[–]Endorsed ContributorThotwrecker 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is a good post. This is the same attitude one of my friends who is it top salesmen at his company does. Push hard, polarize, you cleave through the leads and quickly with ruthless efficiency - those were going to buy will be making that decision quickly, and those who wouldn't have bought no matter what you did are quick to react and get out of the way.

If she wasn't going to fuck me, I'd rather know now that after I put 26$ of drinks and 2 hours of my time into the bitch. Some people at his company don't like him, but he puts numbers on the board and he doesn't really give a shit if a few people go and have a bad experience and it sours the company's rep in their eyes. He's in it for himself, fuck the company.

This is definitely the approach to take with women - you don't represent some larger "conglomerate" of good men that you have to represent by not being rude or pushy or confrontational or weird. You must be ruthlessly efficient, because believe me there is NOTHING women want more than to waste your fucking time, they want your time more than money (if you are an alpha, if you're beta bucks than sure, the bucks is their real purpose with you.)

Now days it's a thing bitches blog and tweet about, having guys on tinder take them out to free dinners and entertainment while they had no real plan to "go out". You must cleave - distill the pool of leads down to the x% who were going to see you as a real sexual possibility.

Nowdays before I meet with a girl on Tinder I'll pretty much know if she'll fuck or not. Why, because I say enough ridiculous offensive shit that if she wasn't going to fuck me, she wouldn't have stayed in the conversation. She wouldn't have agreed to meet at my place or "grab drinks at 10pm"

This attitude tends to come from abundance. Like true abundance, not "abundance mentality" that you try to convince yourself to behave like you have when you look in the mirror. Once you fucked enough you stop caring about getting all of them to like you or think of you approvingly, you're goal is fuck her, to own her body, and to do that, you have to push the boundaries of what people are comfortable with.

Comfortable practical "you" wouldn't finance a BMW over 60 months and be stuck with the payments on a depreciating asset and put down your perfectly fine Accord for a scumbag offer from the dealership. But agigated, slightly frothy "you"? You just might if you get worked up enough and your greed and perhaps fear juices are flowing.

Similar concept to women. Comfortable practical women aren't trying to get dominated and fucked hard. But women who get emotional and worked up either positively or negatively, and have some kind of physical, emotional reaction to you? Many, not all, but many of them will fuck you for making her feel some way about you.

[–][deleted] 41 points42 points  (10 children)

Good post. I always act like a creepy old man and I do not give a shit. It gets me laid a lot. I walk this world in a mental position where not only am I unafraid of my sexuality, I fully embrace it. When I see a sexy little bitch she can see the predator in my eyes. With a single glance she already knows I am thinking of getting her naked, penetrating her and giving her orgasms. Women love you to feel that way about them, it is primal and honest.

[–]2ShitsWithTheDoorOpen 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yup. And the more you do it the more it grows. Its like the fucking claw. You can just feel the giving of fucks shedding off you, replaced by pure sexuality

[–]TaylorWolf 6 points7 points  (3 children)

Shout out to "creepy old men" like George Clooney and Sean Connery

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (1 child)

Let's not forget Jack Nicholson, Hugh Hefner and Bill Clinton

[–]daringdeviljackass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sean Connery is the man. Even at this age he's still alpha as fuck in interviews

[–]mcmwhite 2 points3 points  (4 children)

Can you give an example of this creepy old man behaviour, that has worked?

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (1 child)

I will give you two examples. I approached a girl at a bar, she had a hot body. I caught her eye and then just looked her up and down in the most obvious way. I sat down and talked to her, got her number and left. A few days later I fucked her brains out. She told me "the way you looked at me was so dirty, you were all I could think about". Another time I met a girl online and we arranged to meet for a coffee. It was 11 in the morning. I gave her a similar look and stared at her tits. My hand was on her leg within 5 minutes of meeting her. I knew she was horny so I just leant in and kissed her. I asked her where her place was. She pointed to an apartment block within a 2 minute walk. I said "let's go". I went into her bathroom and washed my dick, then I stuck it in her mouth and pussy. That was 20 minutes after we first met.

[–]mnemos_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, goddamn. Somehow, no trouble believing it.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll play.

I was heading up a long set of stairs and in front of my face was this spectacular ass on a gal heading up in front of me. At one point she looks back and there is no missing I'm looking right at it. I see her looking and I give her a "one second" gesture with my hand. At this point we aren't walking up the stairs any more. A couple seconds pass and I break gaze on her rearward cock portal and walk up next to her and begin the ascent. She instinctively starts up too as I say to her, "well, I got all I'm going to get out of it by just looking at it." I got more out of it later.

The key to successful creeping is to be playful. Oh, and attractive.

[–]p3n1x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't hide your dick. Don't apologize for enjoying the view. Say something playful.

Girl: My face is "up here"!!

Dude: Congratulations, you know where your face is.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Risk is the only way you can show confidence.

Fuck, this is so true. Anyone can walk around all day with their head held high, perceiving themselves as badass, but it is only when thatan is tested, that he and everyone else will find out if he is actually a badass.

[–]Jolly-rancher359 18 points19 points  (1 child)

One thing that really helped my mentality in approaches and pick up is the fact that some of these girls want a good smash session. Girls can get really fucking horny especially if they aren't getting laid.

[–]FreyWill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the most recent girl I'm seeing is really hot and was surprised how horny she was. I'm sure she likes me but damn she just wanted to fuck.

[–]billrad72 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hard dick and bubblegum!lmfao

[–]3LiveAFTSOV 14 points15 points  (8 children)

A scrawny video game nerd can WANT to have a chizzled physique, but that's not who he is.

This is the problem with the "Discover who the fuck you are" posts (I'm not bashing this post, I agree 100% with unapologetic sexuality.)

There is no "whoever the fuck who you are" because you have to change who you are just to become red pill.

If you change all the thoughts and behaviors of a personality, is it still the same person?

Some people ARE meatheads.

Other people ARE paintballers.

Other people ARE musicians.

This even raises another problem:

Some individuals force themselves to be something, but is it them trying to be something they are not?

I visualize a kid fucking around on Fruity Loops studio making shitty beats and claiming he is a rapper. A rapper is "who he is."

So then he is internally conflicted, cus he doesn't know if he is slaving over his music, suffering because it's who he is, or suffering because it is who he is not.

My solution? Be nothing, from that nothingness, you can be anything.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (6 children)

You lack a definition of what a man is. Strength, courage, honor and game are the defining traits. So, be strong and nimble, be willing to put yourself in the path of fire (courage = risk taking), be trust worthy to those men who rely on you with their lives and be willing to fight anyone or anything that crosses your boundaries.

These are universal for all men. Every single one of everyone's ancestors had these in abundance; if they didn't they died or were unable to reproduce and you wouldn't be here.

[–]burgledirtzen 4 points5 points  (2 children)

One rule I live by? Have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[–]un-supervised-savage 5 points6 points  (1 child)

This is a quote by Mad dog Mattis the SEC DEF. Don't down vote it. Once of the most Alpha men out there.

[–]3LiveAFTSOV 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Stopped reading at honor


[–]GoingTheHardWay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't be daft. Honor among men still makes a good man great... just don't misplace it or attribute it to things involving "soul mates" and "unconditional love" type shit.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, and for good reason. Honor is only a good value when we need to rely on each other to have our backs in the violent sense.

Today, we are so removed from the environment where honor was established as an essential value that it actually hurts the survival of each man who upholds it. Fighting side by side your squad with a spear or sword were the days when honor mattered. Those days are long gone.

[–]CQC3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's something I struggled very heavily with, that conundrum.

I came to a similar conclusion, but ironically being nothing allows you to be everything that you are and more.

Do we have temperament, habits, tendencies, patterns and traits? Sure, can we change some of those? Sure. When you view yourself as unknown and a bit foreign--like viewing yourself as an outsider, you find that many of your ideas about yourself fall by the wayside.

You don't discourage yourself nearly as much from doing something because it doesn't align with your mental image. You just do, and what sticks, sticks.

[–]Burt_93 1 points1 points [recovered]

Why Do You Write Like This

[–]tropzumuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotta get me some hard dick too

Good post tho

[–]returnofthequack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great post. The big L quote at the end seals the deal.

"energy level of a eunich"... funny because it's true

[–]GreenTeaOnMyDesk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our car insurance is higher because we drive more miles.

[–]MagnumBurrito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great post. Saved it.

Also put "You are sex dude. Walk talk and look like sex," in my daily reminder note.

[–]Raelist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm. For those of us guys with low testosterone, I wonder if we can get a discount on car insurance.

[–]red-arctic-tern 3 points4 points  (3 children)

Men should get into street fights, go bungee jumping, travel to fucked up countries and compete in some sport. Otherwise you won't be a man.

[–]DemumA 2 points3 points  (2 children)

I know women who do more badass things lol

[–]red-arctic-tern 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Isn't it sad how low a modern man has been trembled.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, the comfort with risk thing is why women will always respect you when you go straight in the pooper without asking.

[–]Dragon_Garoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much this. Was out shooting pool with a guy I know, ex of a friend, he was with a 20-something cutie. We were all hitting it off and had great chemistry. High fives, a bit of kino, etc. Threw down we should chill some time - she balked... has a boyfriend. Just said 'no worries' and took off. Maybe another time. Maybe she thought it was creepy. Maybe she didn't wanna get called out in front of her friend. Meh. More in the sea.

[–]Raikkonen716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It reminded me of this: "We're taught terror from the nursery. Terror of God, or, even worse, of scandal. We're taught to spend our entire lives cowering in self-denial. The truth, Mr Gray, is that every impulse we strangle only poisons us." Oscar Wilde, The picture of Dorian Gray.

I really think that terror of scandal is what truly destroys the life of so many men. The life of every beta is somehow based on trying to avoid as much as possible any form of scandal. Be it approaching a girl, look someone in the eyes, making a phone call.

[–]shakespeareSMG 0 points1 point  (1 child)


But I would not call it "creepy" as that is a female term for being a man and desiring sex that's become a popular phrase and shit-test they have been using of late.

[–]Dat_Chad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of late

for a few decades actually

[–]MarcoCorona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm. Recently were messing around with a woman that pushed all my buttons and thus drove my body into sexual overdrive.

Testosterone levels must have been crazy high, my dick has not once gone soft in two weeks, drooling precum all day long forcing me to change underwear at very least twice a day (including at work). Balls literally aching after six to eight hours at most, forcing me to empty them and every single time I climaxed I made a huge mess. And by huge I mean two sheets of cleenex drenched in cum, dripping wet. Absolutely unfathomable quantities of cum; swimmers included.

My sex drive was out of control, I never ever have experienced anything like it before, it was quite literally beyond my comprehension how this was even possible.

I had a really, really hard time to get any work done, getting any mental tasks done was excruciating difficult, I fucked up menial tasks at random, no matter how simple they were.

My perception was tainted, vision blurred, some noises were suppressed, others were amplified, my olfactory sense overwhelmed me, I literally could smell fertile women in passing and it fucking drove me nuts. Every whiff of ovulating women entering my nostrils disconnected my brain, I were fucking unable to talk for good ten minutes.

My beloved cat was sick and I had to take her to the vet.

The vet and her assistant, both being female, were with me and the cat in the examination room for... maybe 15 minutes. After mere five minutes my body must have flooded the whole room with pheromones.

Both the vet and her assistant were breathing heavily, cheeks glowing, playing with their hair, nipples pointing skywards, and I kid you not, flexing their thighs in plain sight repeatedly while leaning with their asses against the furniture, torso leaning ever so slightly backwards. They were so aroused that they literally fucked up the blood collection, spilling some across the examination table. If the exam would have taken any longer they would have been displaying a nice, soppy wet camel toe.

During the whole exam I appeared extremely calm on the outside, but, oh boy... on the inside... I were very much pleased with myself because I had the aura of an alpha that has the ability to turn women into submissive bitches in heat just by standing with them in a room. Not mimicking but actually being an alpha dog.

Also: I would have fucked them both right then and there if only circumstances and my mind did not prohibit me from doing so.

And here is the kicker: The testosterone levels rose just having the right psychological buttons pressed while dirty talking over 1.750 miles distance. The mind can move mountains and do so much more. Be an alpha! Sweat it! Let the women see and smell that you are the top dog!

TL;DR: It was, quite literally so, "fucking magic"!

[–]1ledzepplin1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're speech and this post in general gave me like on edge and I'm totally pumped up and excited to go meet my first girlfriend in years but what the fuck am I seeing this in an insurance thread for other than possibly the fact that I'm looking to buy insurance and was feeling sheepish about going to start that purchasing processs earlier today so decided to post pone...

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you're right about men, but might be understating the situation for women:

Their risk is a reed might give them a paper cut.

Or dying in childbirth. For hundreds of thousands of years, there has been an evolutionary arms race between the size of our skulls and the size of women's pelvis's. This is why we're born about 3 month premature.....if we go the full term of 9 months.

Also, they might get knocked up by a loser.....and give birth to losers.

Get comfy with risk. It screams alpha.

Absofuckinglutely. There is a running debate on the number of male vs female ancestors we've had....a surprising number of males never breed.

Here's a fun experiment.....chat with a SJW type, and paint this picture: You're a female in a village or pre-history camp, and a warlord rides through and kills your husband and sons. What's the best move? Fuck the warlord. A surprising number of women will admit that yes, this is the right move.