AWALT - My Sister (self.TheRedPill)

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[–]bottyliscious 324 points325 points  (63 children)

Without being too crass, she probably saw this other dude and thought to herself "I would hit that" and then what follows is just her rationalization: things aren't going well for me, this relationship has not been going anywhere, I need to work on me and get a change of scenery etc.

But it all boils down to wanting to bone the skater boy. For some reason dick lust sparks identity crisis. For me, if I see a hot chick I can admit honestly to myself, I would face fuck her ass and not need to "find myself". But I think for them the entire thought of admitting this needs to be placated with bullshit to make it acceptable.

My wife did the same thing to me. All of a sudden our relationship has been terrible for years (weird we were fucking passionately, raising our 1 year old, travelling, taking thousands of smiling pictures), she has lost her, she needs time to "find herself" etc. All of this has a name: Jesse.

She is dickhard for a guy at work. They can scream about self identity and soul searching all they want, but if the end result is dick, its about dick. The End. The rest is just a way of absolving guilt.

[–]YouNeededCorrection 64 points65 points  (1 child)

Oh I knew it. She's never been the type to up and leave town. But she's always been to type to up and find a new guy. Which is why I called her on it and nailed it.

[–]Endorsed Contributormallardcove 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The skateboarder may be a deadbeat loser, but in the mind of your sister, he isn't. Because she will hamster up in her mind the image of her taming this skateboarder, setting him on the right path, getting him in line to where he can be a provider for the two of them.

What she won't imagine is that taming him and turning into this provider type will cause her to lose attraction.

[–]dangercat415 1 points1 points [recovered]

For some reason dick lust sparks identity crisis

It's because she wants to join his frame.

Her BF's frame is week so she wants skater boy. This is why frame is important.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 19 points20 points  (1 child)

Yet I doubt Skater boys frame is that good. Women have this thing where they start out on easy diffuclty when it comes to shit testing. And eventually it goes all the way up to grandmaster.

This guy is just "aweeesomeee" right now and she's eating it, fueling his confidence and ego. She might shit test him but her intoxication is so obvious to that guy that he passes them. Their easy shit tests. She doesn't want to fuck up.

Now fast forward a year or so and she's more comfortable with Skater boy, she knows him better. Now the big guns come out and she starts to really test this guys mettle. Unreasonably even. While he's failing because suddenly she's acting uninterested while shit testing him. He starts to have moments of self doubt. Which were not present when she was both interested and shit testing him.

Eventually he becomes like the boy she left for him. And another guy who is "aweeeesome!" enters the stage. But all of them probably have equal frames. Having impregnable frame gets you hotter girls than a 5/10 "punk Ho" (no offense OP).

This is why women are so hard to grasp for men. Things change, what once worked doesn't work anymore. You are playing an ever evolving game with women. And it gets harder by the minute.

[–]anusbleach11111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

face fuck her ass

Lol I was confused by this, but now I get you.

[–]PillTheRed 34 points35 points  (47 children)

Sorry to break it to you duder. Your wife is fucking him. If she isn't getting it from you, she is getting it elsewhere.

Why aren't you divorcing her now? Seems like you are just waiting around for a branch swing divorce rape.

[–]bottyliscious 35 points36 points  (44 children)

Sorry to break it to you duder. Your wife is fucking him. If she isn't getting it from you, she is getting it elsewhere. Why aren't you divorcing her now? Seems like you are just waiting around for a branch swing divorce rape.

She actually was raped a few months ago, at which time she confided in a guy at work who's dad had recently killed his mom then committed suicide i.e. intimacy through misery.

I learned all this a week ago. And there's a lot more to it that TRP could give two shits about which is why I am not including it here.

And just to be clear, she did not fuck him. We went through that at length. And as I said, she was getting it from me...the emotional aspect is where we started falling short. Or just the general premise of a female seeing another ascending man and latching on. We all know how this thing works, only minor details differ. What is the difference to me in having my wife commit an emotional affair versus a physical affair? Nothing really. At the end of the day she is wet for another man, the end.

This guy, Jesse, has been divorced, he has seen his parents kill each other. He is in his "now I know better" phase of life where he has worked on himself and learned a lot from his suffering. That appealed to her.

Making it anything more than this is meaningless.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (1 child)

She was raped and she confided in a guy at work? So has the rapist been charged?

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good find. This fucking guy is a walking cautionary tale

[–]nazis_are_socialists 24 points25 points  (2 children)

Your relationship with her is, for all intents and purposes, over. She was raped and you were not there to protect her from it. It doesn't matter that it was not your fault, biologically she will subconsciously feel that you failed her and she will never be attracted to you the same way she was before. If I were you I'd be talking to a lawyer and planning your exit so that you don't get divorce raped when the time comes.

[–]exemptme 20 points21 points  (1 child)

I had a gf who "got raped" as well, later found out that she was all over the guy at the party. I was at work. That was the beginning of the end, we broke up 3 weeks later.

[–]Dragon_Garoo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Had an ex 'get raped' at work. Told two different stories. One person heard it happened in a car. Told me he finger banged her then she got on her knees and sucked his cock. Ya. Rape. Right. Regret is not rape.

[–]PillTheRed 27 points28 points  (15 children)

Wow, look at that hamster go everyone!!! Yeah, she is fucking him. Sorry to break it to you. No one here is going to say differently, because it's the truth. You just don't see it, because you don't want to. Enjoy the coming divorce rape.

I have a question. Were charges filed for the rape? If not, watch me predict your future year. She is going to come to you in the not so distant future and say. The "rape," will be the excuse of why she needs to find herself, and why life no longer makes sense with you. This is a set up, and you're falling for it hook line and sinker.

Do what you want. I'm just telling you it is in your interest to start talking to a lawyer. You're about to get divorced and can't see it because your hamster is in overdrive. Don't listen to her words, I don't care what she says or how long you talked about it, watch her actions. And her actions say she is clearly, without a doubt, fucking that guy. She will start trickle truthing if you push the issu, and the story will slowly change over time. Bring it up again, remain calm, and o promise you, she will let just a little bit more out. That is your clue that she is in fact, fucking him, because she is. Again, sorry you are too hlinded by oneitis on this. From an outside perspective, it's pretty clear whats going on here.

[–]bottyliscious 44 points45 points  (12 children)

I'm a banana.

I already said I was divorced, some basic reading comprehension might assist you in writing worthless, lengthy shit posts that are at least contextually relevant.

[–]PillTheRed 19 points20 points  (11 children)

You didn't say it to me. You must be thinking of someone else.

Here is a copy pasta of your last post. You said it as if she was still your wife. Why didn't you say ex wife?

What is the difference to me in having my wife commit an emotional affair versus a physical affair?

[–]sparks_mandrill 17 points18 points  (4 children)

Shit this subreddit is ruthless af!!!

[–]newgrounds 15 points16 points  (2 children)

Not always. A lot of it is dudes one upping each other as their new redpill starts mixing with their gastral juices as their blue pill waits to be ejected.

[–]Wraithwain 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree. Most of us should just chill out and learn from someone else's problems, instead of trying so hard to get them to see the truth and be the next trp endorsed poster. It gets rather toxic.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For kids, yes.

Men have no problems holding each other to account.

Of course op is lucky, normally it means the guys think he's worth a damn, in this case, its. More to watch his ego protect itself

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Damn straight and we intend to keep it that way. No cuddles and lies here, if some dudes wife is a dirty fucking whore, we just call her a dirty fucking whore. This is a lie free zone.

[–]MultiverseWolf 8 points9 points  (1 child)

That can be said in retrospect.

[–]bottyliscious 3 points4 points  (3 children)

I still wear my wedding ring too, I still think of her as my wife. I still see her each time I see our son. Overtime I expect it becomes easier, but as of right now the connection is still very real to me and I am still not ready to move on.

I commonly interchange wife/exwife/bitch depending on what form of anguish I am in at that time. I never once said I was in a sane, coherent state. Quite the contrary, I am in an extremely bad place.

I do accept the premise of TRP as a reflection of everything I have found to be true in my experiences, but that does not mean I necessarily like it or celebrate it.

At 30 I could still do anything really, but I do not know if I really care. It's just as empowering to me to reject both pills.

[–]PillTheRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 32. That pitty party is pretty fucking sad for a grown man.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck off.

No seriously, fuck off.

Rule 0, you're actively drinking bleach

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you need this place more than just about anyone in the whole world. Your post history tells a sad story. You need to get professional help and then start to break out of your blue pill delusions. You are only 30, you can do anything with your life. You have a son, your son needs a real man to look up to. You have a lot of work to do. We are here to help guys like you, that is what this sub is for.

[–]Fuck_my_Life1234 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's gonna rape him for all the money he got, and the house. I fucking hate women sometimes. She gets raped, he gets raped.

[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And just to be clear, she did not fuck him. We went through that at length. And as I said, she was getting it from me...the emotional aspect is where we started falling short

I bet 1000 USD she fucked him and faked that "rape" situation.

You're a miserable human being, who is constantly cheated.

No amount of reddit gold and up votes will help you indulge the fact that your wife is a whore and she is cheating on you.

[–]TryHardDaily -3 points-2 points  (20 children)

Doesn't matter how much you went through it, she would never tell you. She DEFINITELY fucked him. Women will fuck their boy toy then go home and fuck their husband the same day, they have no standards when their hamster is involved.

[–]bottyliscious 72 points73 points  (18 children)

She DEFINITELY fucked him.

So you want to argue that even though my wife would confide that she was violently raped to the point of being covered in bruises and then still bother to lie about her interactions with a co-worker after the divorce just to preserve the flawless TRP logic? So as not to tell her divorced husband that she willfully fucked a guy to feel better about being force fucked by this other guy? I guess you could be right, but when I saw her quivering, laying on the shower floor, where she made it clear that she would not want to have sex again or even be touched intimately for a long time, I have to assume some sincerity given that she was fucking raped.

I have the police report. She didn't fake a rape, get kinky bruises from her co-worker sex, and then dramatically pretend to be a rape victim, that's insane.

So anyway I guess that's just me, a blue pill sucking normie because I refuse to scoff and discredit a rape victim.

That's fine, I don't need to be right as much you do because I am not easily threatened by own fragile perceptions.

I would much rather keep my humanity than be whatever you are.

EDIT: Thank you kind person for the gold.

[–]Ubernaut84 1 points1 points [recovered]

A lot of these guys have given up their humanity in trying to deny women's. Manosphere guys have their own echo chamber going where everything has to be a woman's fault every time. Fuck em. Sorry to hear about your situation.

[–]systemshock869 1 points1 points [recovered]

Dude never provided any level of evidence that it was real or not, until this gilded post. He threw it in there and then went on to other details that, altogether, don't sound very convincing. It might be a little sad that it's some people's first reaction to scoff at a rape claim right off the bat, but the real tragedy is that there are people who use something like rape as a weapon - discrediting real rape victims. This is the result of that kind of vile dishonesty. After /u/bottyliscious's last post, nobody would argue or have any question that it was a bullshit claim. Problem fucking solved.

[–]learn-relearn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah well said. I wrote something similar in another post but it's apt again. TRP is a useful set of tools for self improvement and navigating social situations to your advantage. Unfortunately when you mix those set of tools & knowledge with unhinged anger from being on the worst end of infidelity/divorce, the end result is someone who at best, has views and opinions that will quickly burn all their bridges and at worst, a budding sociopath.

FFS people, don't let the women who f-cked you over turn you into something that isn't sustainable in the long term. That, or go easy on the 'roids.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So the police are proceeding with charges? It is going to court? Is the offender in custody?

[–]spinalmemes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dont listen to these fuck wads. They just get off on telling other dudes their SO's are getting fucked whether its true or not.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMentORPHEUS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proof that bottyliscious changed his story for TRP, from a post of his in another sub 9 days ago. Don't come here and lie so blatantly in an effort to make us look bad, chump!

Something really terrible happened to my wife a few months ago and she just now told me.

Aaah, so you DIDN'T find her sobbing in the shower bruised and swearing off sex the night of.

As a result of that emotional conversation, she says she felt we were estranged for years and she could not do it anymore.

Exactly as predicted by TRP. She has already branch swung, the lightswitch has flipped, and now their relationship was retroactively bad for years.

I missed all of this. I knew we had our issues, but I didn't think that they were all that different than most relationships at our age (both around 30, married 10 years).

Blue pill oneitis. Almost all of us have been there at some point, little brother.

Since last week we have started therapy and are taking some time to sort everything out. I feel like I hurt her in ways I cannot even imagine doing and she could never fully express this to me.

In the eyes of a blue pill, Feminine centric therapist, whatever problems presented are at least 50% the man's fault; with 90% of therapists you lose as a man by stepping into the office.

I am trying to work on me while supporting her, and I am doing my own individual therapy, but what she said about me is really troubling. I feel like I am this emotionless psychopath/sociopath now and I do not know what to feel or think.

I feel wrong asking her to continue our marriage if she truly feels this way. But worse than that, I feel like I need to be institutionalized or something.

Ceding his leadership and being gaslighted, now with a therapist partially validating her crazy, little wonder he's in the weeds mentally.

How does one cope with this? Is she right? Am I this monster and all this time I was just running blind?

That's how I felt a lot of the time, in the decades before finding and swallowing The Red Pill. I like TRP not like a cult, but because of its solid explanatory power about past and present experience, and its predictive value toward the future.

[–]shredzro -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're probably the most RP dude on this board of delusional ass dudes

[–]TryHardDaily -1 points0 points  (1 child)

You saw her quivering laying on the shower floor but only found out about the rape a week ago, after it had happened months ago? You are not alone in knowing someone who has been raped, and it is an awful thing to do to someone, however, you seem to be twisting your story to your benefit, that or just leaving a whole lot of ambiguity in your writing.

[–]Fuck_my_Life1234 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He's just rewriting history, that's all, to match what he expects. The rape never happened. Maybe you should give him a break, maybe the wife's making him think it's rape so he won't divorce her sorry ass for cheating.

[–]Gugulen1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't let these other guys get to you, man. I really hope you're able to work things out. Take care.

[–]Fuck_my_Life1234 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No, she wasn't "fucking raped". She's an actress, and playing you up. She can run back to work "get raped" and then come back home for your love and affection. You aren't protecting her, and that's why you're not getting any of that sweet pussy.

[–]oholandesvoador -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Man, I feel sorry for you, but you have only one option. Divorce.

[–]segagaga 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that your wife did that to you, with a young child as well!! That is a shitty person.

[–]llmercll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they try and rationalize it.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, it's their slut defense mechanism. Though I find it to be a big difference when people give examples of 4 year long relationships or decade long marriages. And some chick not even getting through one year with you. I've met and seen girls do the latter and this unsettles me. Because at this point it's not understandable anymore and it's just women being crap.

The fact that they try to hamster it away after trying to make stale bread get back to good for years is somewhat admirable.

[–]MasterGoshinki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well put brother. that happened to me as well.

except then she went after my car and money, and claimed DV and tried to get me fired from my job.

she got some money and a car. marriage is bullshit

[–]Fuck_my_Life1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just gotta get them to like your dick, then the women come running to you.

[–]1v1crown 118 points119 points  (2 children)


[–]hodltaco 38 points39 points  (16 children)

"Sweet kid, in case she finds this, I still love you,..."

Please. You just described at lease a dozen women I know.

[–]YouNeededCorrection 25 points26 points  (14 children)

Yeah. But I'm talking shit about my little sister on Reddit. She'd be bummed. I don't know her reddit habits.

[–]ideal_lemon 37 points38 points  (1 child)

I'd give her maybe a 5/10, but I'm probably just trying to be nice in case she sees this.

Well that sentence is going to work if she sees it.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Describes all of humanity to be fair. Lets face it, himans are flawed motherfuckers, to make a friend you close one eye, to keep a friend you close two.

[–]llmercll 27 points28 points  (9 children)

That's how it is. Men with higher SMV will always be a threat to you.

That's what makes the prospect of LTR or marriage so damn discouraging.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 6 points7 points  (6 children)

The thing women forget is that their SMV is static. I once had an ex who had a shitty boyfriend before me. I thought I took the cake. But I only made her more daring and bold to try get even better. She failed horribly because she didn't know (but I was highly doubtfull about her myself initially). I knew she had no chance with this guy. Ho got fucked and chucked, ended up with a guy more beta than anything she had before.

Now many years later I'm way above both of them. If she'd ever run into me then things wouldn't even work out on a sexual level. Women think a whole lot but know nothing.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (5 children)

Its not even static, it declines with time.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 10 points11 points  (4 children)

Even worse. can you believe that these Plain Janes actually believe they have a shot? Social media has deluded their minds.

It's as if they are oblivious about the existence off 8+ hot bitches. They think they can make up for it like men can. With personality. Bitchy personality, fucking hell dude.

[–]enkae7317 1 point2 points  (1 child)

It comes from a sense of entitlement. And to be fair, the hordes of thirsty AF chodes begging for her attention at any moment only works to strengthen the disillusion.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, but still. You'd think they'd get the hint after years of lonelyness, dumping and exclusive beta boyfriends.

[–]Galactic-Unicorn 1 point2 points  (1 child)

It's so much worse than that.

Average women feel entitled to above average men. 5's think they deserve and realistically have a chance with an 8. So much that they will turn down a 6, who is measurably higher SMV to her.

Shit's fucked up. It underscores the need to lift and be a top 20% man.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even then they just expect you to roll over and say "yes please" the moment they like you.

[–]dangercat415 1 points1 points [recovered]

We have a family friend that is right now in a similar situation.

She's maybe a 6/10. Not very bright. For example, a couple weeks ago she almost ran a red light and instead of just running it she SLAMMED on her breaks in the middle of the intersection, came to a complete stop, and just stayed there until the light was green.

She doesn't have an education. Isn't pursuing one. Lives at home with her parent still. She literally lives in a closet. It's a slightly bigger walk in closet but that's it.. she lives in a fucking closet.

She's religious. Won't sleep with anyone until she's married.

Her BF has a fucking job. Works hard. Has his own fucking apartment. For SOME reason he puts up with this bullshit.

He's an atheist. She wants to dump him because he's an atheist.

Meanwhile if she pulled her head out of her ass she would realize he's WAY out of her league.

I'm going to call him up and give him a dose of Red Pill and tell him he should dump her.

[–]SoulRedemption 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If this dude is head over heals, he may think your intentions are different. You trying to do something which you think is gud for him. And it may well be. But tread carefully.

[–]1Sir_Distic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't. You can't save any of them. He won't believe you and will drive a wedge between them.

[–]plaaya 2 points3 points  (1 child)

LMAO. Good story bro. Sad but good. Oh and I'm sure they're fucking. That's why he puts up with her crap lol

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Story of modern women. Very picky and judgmental towards men but oblivious to their own worth and options. Why do you think they are all so unhappy? It's a joke.

[–]Snazzy_Serval 11 points12 points  (5 children)

Not being totally on topic, but I feel that I really missed out on a lot of knowledge and experience by not having a sister.

It seems that guys with sisters can get a background view and understanding of how women really are. Also when you have a sister one just gets used to having girls around.

[–]slashaceman 5 points6 points  (3 children)

get a female roommate (but choose wisely, make sure she's stable, has a job, etc.) and you'll see all the shit talked about here first hand.

[–]Snazzy_Serval 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny enough I had a female roommate back in the day. Though we were actively having sex, long story. I didn't really learn much about this type of stuff from her mainly because she wasn't really dating anybody.

I'm not sure about having roommates again, but I can see how having a female roommate would be a good way to a view of how they really are.

[–]LightBearCares 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Can confirm. Living with a female roommate (I'm not fucking her for good reason). She has a boyfriend, but brings a guy over here and there. You see it unfold like the Hollywood red carpet.

[–]slashaceman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember in my much younger days living with a woman. her yenta friend came over and they kept commenting on the attractiveness of the guys in whatever show they were watching. After a few more vapid exaltations about someone's abs I finally said "what the hell?! aren't you guys supposed to be the fairer less shallow sex?" and they both just kinda emptily stared at me. That day I learned that they're basically just as awful as we are. was disappointed.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you were a natural DT then having a single mother is even better man. I swear to god I wasn't surprised by anything TRP told me after dealing with her for two decades. Meanwhile I have friends with stable families with women who are kept in line. They struggle even though being red pilled, not seeing the whole picture.

Still wouldn't wish it on anyone. It felt like I was living the Spartan Agoge for my entire youth. It might have molded me but it certainly wasn't pretty and not nessecary had society been normal.

Now tho I kind of feel like a fish in water.

[–]NordJitsu 2 points3 points  (8 children)

It's probably hopeless but have you tried telling her how fucked up what she's doing is.

[–]YouNeededCorrection 1 point2 points  (6 children)

Haha yeah, I'm working on it. Hopefully a bit of tough love will at least make a little bit of difference for the better.

[–]NordJitsu 5 points6 points  (5 children)

Good. As someone who ended an LTR when branch swinging behavior started the hardest thing more me to understand was why none of our mutual friends, even male friends and siblings of hers, told her she was being a cunt. I was really close to her dad and brother. Me and the brother were friends before I even met her. And yet everyone was silent when she needed to "find herself."

[–]YouNeededCorrection 4 points5 points  (4 children)

When she gave me the little winky face, I said something like "Aaah, branch swinging. Oh well, AWALT!" Then she googled it and said she wants to die in a fire.

[–]NordJitsu 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Good. Maybe if you break her hampster wheel and expose her bullshit she'll have some self realization and stop.

[–]YouNeededCorrection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually, she said "she wants to go her own way." And I said "actually, its MGTOW, which is usually a response to AWALT." Theeeeeeen she said she wants to die in a fire.

[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I said something like "Aaah, branch swinging. Oh well, AWALT!"

Are you totally out of your fucking mind?

[–]YouNeededCorrection 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sorry I ruined your chances with my sister by letting her in on the world's best kept secret.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Telling a woman anything doesn't work. Make her feel. Show her the female equivalent of her behavior.

[–]KCBrowsin 3 points4 points  (1 child)

lol nothing funnier than a girl that throws it all away (and later realizes how good she fuckin had it). But I have no mercy and simply boredom (because you took your SO for granted) isn't a justifiable reason.

[–]pmmedenver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A shitty person did something shitty. I don't think you should read any more into it than that. We're all capable of moral, rational behavior its just that at some point it stopped being cool. Now its cool to chase highs and act like children (even at 24).

[–]wanderer779 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Quarter life crisis is such dog shit. Mid life crisis is real, it's when it really starts hitting home how you're just a fool lost in an infinite universe you'll never understand, your best days behind you, drifting towards death. In contrast quarter life crisis is usually just a plea for attention. It's so annoying it almost makes you wish a midlife crisis on them.

[–]0signal0 2 points3 points  (17 children)

with our mom

Where's your dad in all of this?

How old are you?

[–]YouNeededCorrection 5 points6 points  (16 children)

I'm 30, dad's been out of the picture for a while.

[–]0signal0 2 points3 points  (14 children)

Was he part of the picture during her childhood?

[–]YouNeededCorrection 7 points8 points  (13 children)

He was around until she was like 13, but he was also a crack head.

[–]0signal0 19 points20 points  (12 children)

Colour me surprised.
No father figure ---> messed up sister.

[–]YouNeededCorrection 6 points7 points  (11 children)

  • African-American you surprised. It's 2017. But yeah, agreed. No surprises here.

[–]0signal0 7 points8 points  (10 children)

There was a time where black Americans were doing better. Your men would wear "normal" clothes, and your family units were strong.

I think someone changed things for worse. Now all of you want to be rappers or spend as much time twerking.

[–]OGlancellannister 7 points8 points  (3 children)

Thomas Sowell's books are great on this, and many other issues. Is it any wonder when you tell an entire racial group that they're victims to an oppressive society (not to say they weren't much further back), and there is no way out, that they don't seek to find a way out? There was indeed a time when it seemed like things were looking up for the black community, in terms of crime, employment, marriage. Hopefully we can get to that moment again.

[–]0signal0 4 points5 points  (2 children)

So basically liberals screwed blacks over. Makes perfect sense to me. Liberals are some of the most racist people I've encountered in my life.

[–]OGlancellannister 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd say more so democrats rather than blanket all liberals. Portions of left leaning policy for sure though.

[–]anikas88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the average 80 iq for black males didnt play a part in it it all

[–]YouNeededCorrection 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Don't get me started on rap music, but that's a whole other discussion.

[–]0signal0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really. There is a strong connection between what kind of culture a certain population is fed and the behaviour patterns they exhibit.

[–]AlanAmpersand1 1 points1 points [recovered]

Can anyone explain this ridiculous anxiety epidemic among women these days?

[–]YouNeededCorrection 11 points12 points  (7 children)

My best guess is that the easier the life, the more prone to anxiety you are. I've had a pretty easy life, not gonna lie, and the smoother shit goes, the more anxious I get. But when I have actual real problems, there's this calm, and my life as a whole becomes much more bearable. Like, if you don't have anything important to actually worry about, you worry about stupid shit. At least that's how it feels for me.

[–]slashaceman 1 point2 points  (6 children)

exactly. absence of real problems allows fake problems to pop up. if that woman was starving or about to be homeless, her anxiety might magically go away.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly, I think they are also just not meant to work and can't realistically expect to climb the dating ladder. Ironically it's men who can elevate SMV, not women. Anxiety is build up because they get mixed signals from the world about their own self. This makes them insecure.

I was very anxious when I didn't understand what was happening around me. Taking red pills and building up experience has given me a sort of serenity. Feeling very calm and assured of things, despite how fucked up they are.

Most people just never learn what the fuck is happening and they take it personal therefor.

[–]YouNeededCorrection 0 points1 point  (4 children)

That's how I am at least. You bet your ass that when I'm late on rent, those existential issues don bother me none.

[–]slashaceman 3 points4 points  (3 children)

nobody in syria right now is suffering from "anxiety". anxiety is what white suburban bored house wives use as an excuse to drug themselves up (when they've run out of wine).

[–]AlanAmpersand1 1 points1 points [recovered]

Meh id guess some might be anxious of a bomb dropping on their head.

[–]slashaceman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's not anxiety, that's fear!

[–]pmmedenver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its the over-abundance of stimulation. We consume more information in 1 day than our ancestors saw in an entire lifetime. Then you add poor nutrition, the media calling you fat+lazy, drugs and viola. Limit your screen time, pick up meditation, ditch the drugs and you will finally feel happy and relaxed.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They think their all a 10 but deep inside they know they aren't that pretty because when push comes to shove, men seem to stop wanting to deal with them when they nutted. They don't understand why.

[–]SoulRedemption 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Funny, how on internet people expect shit to be black and white. Real life ain't like that.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Been saying that for years but people just cba with a real discussion

[–]SoulRedemption 0 points1 point  (2 children)

True. I suppose it's partially due to the fact they want to believe that their perception is real. I mean, it's about talking with a stranger where credibility is next to zero. So the thought pattern is "he dunno shit, he prolly dun even have RP mentality, beta"

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Well generalizations are usefull and it's somewhat on the money. It saves time and headache I guess. But learning nuance is a huge life lesson.

Both parties could learn from the other.

[–]SoulRedemption 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. I suppose it's how "society" as a whole works.

[–]banjew 3 points4 points  (7 children)

If he's a on and off boyfriend then she doesn't need to be the most faithful girlfriend.

[–]YouNeededCorrection 7 points8 points  (6 children)

They'll be together for a year and everything is fine then she dumps him and has a new boyfriend IMMEDIATELY every time, Facebook official and pics and all that, then he takes her back. Probably happened 3 or 4 times now.

[–]1empatheticapathetic 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He's proven he will be her reliable cuck. And he likely isn't providing her with enough feelz. Boring motherfucker.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (3 children)

He should just drop her, I mean how desperate does the dude have to be

[–]YouNeededCorrection 2 points3 points  (2 children)

It's especially weird because he's actually out of her league. So weird.

[–]1empatheticapathetic 2 points3 points  (1 child)

In what way. In a BB way?

This is just proof that your frame is a reflection on how people will treat you (to an extent).

[–]YouNeededCorrection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Frame is key. He's a handsome guy, he makes good money, works in a trade. I've met him, probably the least unsavoury of her boyfriends.

[–]1PantsonFire1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially because she is crap she needs to feel good and boring old guy just doesn't do the trick. Then again fuck, I'd rather jump in the Ganges with my nipples cut than have an LTR drag on for 4 years.

[–]Five_Decades 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please turn her boyfriend onto red pill.

I can see that poor guy being used and walked over by shit women who use him for money, validation and as a backup option.

I'm certain after sis fucks skaterboy she will start realizing she lost her boyfriends financial support and try to get him back.

[–]WestyWorld 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Marketable skills pretty much mean nill in terms of SMV for a woman. It’s all based on looks and personality. Who cares how much she makes.

[–]SoulRedemption 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Ah yes. But do you know why I'm getting down voted?

[–]nomyconcept 1 points1 points [recovered]

Understanding AWALT is fairly easy in regards to billions of women. The hard part about understanding AWALT is realizing that it also applies to your sister, mother, grandma and daughter.

[–]YouNeededCorrection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly the reason for this post.

[–]llmercll 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Isn't it similar with men though? Aren't we all just playing a game trying to get the best we can? Why would you stick with a 5/10 if you had access to an 8/10?

Men leave and cheat on women all the time, no?

Is the difference the relationship dynamic, with men typically providing?

[–]chessercat2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the difference the relationship dynamic, with men typically providing?

That's a big part of it. A woman that cheats, gets pregnant, and has the kid can pass it off as the cuck's kid. This is not unique to humans. But add the power of the state, and you get what Rollo Tomassi calls "open hypergamy" because she can divorce you, take half of your money, you are on the hook for the kid, whether it's yours or not, and get back on the market.

[–]NordJitsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By normal terms of ethics/morality, yes, providing makes a difference. Men feel like it SHOULD make a difference. We expect gratitude. If you let a male friend live with you during tough times you'd expect gratitude. Unfortunately we all know that doesn't mean shit to a woman chasing chad.

[–]2bb4llRG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id let her do it and then roast her with 100% pure true making her realize how bad her actions are

[–]e_z_p_z_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

this is funny, I've always suspected for the die hard AWALT guys you must either not have a sister or if you do she was the school slut. that or your parents got divorced and your mom brought home multiple guys through your childhood.

if it wasn't for my little sister I probably wouldn't have a ton of faith left that AWALT is just a meme but I know it for a fact it is: she had the same bf for 3 years through HS. he was a nice, harmless kid, and the town was super small if she was cheating on him or somethin I would've heared. she went to one of the best business schools, studied her ass off, got a 4.0, graduated, and is making 6 figures while working 12 hour days in investment banking. at 22.

she is x10 smarter, more goal oriented, driven, successful, accomplished etc than 99% of the armchair psychologists here. I do believe there is some good advice here, but actually believing all, or even most, of any race, religion, gender, whatever think and act the same speaks volumes about your own intelligence

[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro -5 points-4 points  (8 children)

Saw the red badge, thought "a field report" and came here to read that you fucked your sister.

Instead there's a sob story about one miserable failure being boned by another.

I am disappointed.

Also, I have seen some of your comments here. Dude, did you told your sister literally that she's "branch swinging"? Are you out of your fucking mind?

[–]YouNeededCorrection 2 points3 points  (7 children)

I wouldn't use that term on a girl I wanna fuck, but she's my little sister, I want her to see the truth. I want her to know what she's doing.

[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro -4 points-3 points  (4 children)

Your post title "All women are like that - my sister"

Now "I want my sister to see the truth".

Dude, decide. Either "all women are like that" INCLUDING your sister or? She's your little sister snowflake? No. And you don't talk about TRP to women or anyone NEVER EVER because it backfires. And you don't "red-knight" anyone.

[–]YouNeededCorrection 3 points4 points  (3 children)

My apologies, my King. Next time I'll be sure to alert Lieutenant Red Pill, the Keeper of the Secret, before I try to save my little sister from moving to a different city to try out a new seat on the cock carousel. You worry about keeping clean, I'll worry about my family. But thanks.

[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro -4 points-3 points  (2 children)

My apologies sometimes I forgot that you people are all stupid and unsalvageable

[–]YouNeededCorrection 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I'm doing just fine, man. My ducks are in a row, I just don't want my sister to make a stupid mistake in the name of dick.

[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The problem is you're unable to grasp that this is her sole purpose.

[–]briskestbrisket -5 points-4 points  (1 child)

The first rule of Fight Club is: you do not talk about Fight Club. The second rule of Fight Club is: you DO NOT talk about Fight Club!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

except the first and second rules of fight club were made to get people to talk about fight club

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