You ARE MORE than enough. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by LETTERSandSYMBOLS

Its easy to fall into pit of self criticism when working intensely on yourself and focusing on your flaws.

Remember: you are more than enough.

This has been my recent realization. To be honest, I already achieved most of shit I wanted, I work a high status job and earn prolly more than 80% of my country population, I can afford to spend monthly for „toys“ what other people have to live of in entirety. And then some.

I worked hard and more importantly – SMART, into my early 20s and Im still fuckign obsessed because pursuit of pussy is not big enough of motivator when you realize how cheap pussy is, it stops being this prize for which you live for.

I say this because some of you have still much work to do, but some like me are already operating at peak capacity and for you I say – remember to relay guys, you are already good enough. Even if you are a fucking trash collector u should believe this because simply put – women are 90 % delusional trash. Things you see at clubs, in life, just in general. My God...

Women are cheap and their opinion of themselves, their dignity is laughable to say the least.

You dont live or do anything to deserve women. You dont dedicate your life to them. You dont do shit for them, for the inspiration that is female – lmao. Thats all shit. You do it 4 yourself. Even your unicorn woman is still miles beneath you 4 the pure simple fact that her life is infinitely easier compared to yours. read that again.

Wanna hear some women problems?

I hate that its always assholes that approach me my nail broke I had a cut and went to slice lemon and it stung (fresh one heard it today)

That is the pinnacle of women suffering today, that, or maybe if she dated a sicko and he abused her for some time until it got to her head its not that good to keep him around. Wow big deal, you made your bed and slept in it.

So please, remember, you are more than enough. Just keep that tattooed on your eyelids. Im passionate about this because I see my past self when writing and I know some of you are at that stage. Even the most perfect woman you can imagine will be miles beneath you because they are all in essence spoiled brats. Keep that in mind. You cannot argue against this. And tbh you want her as spoiled brat. You dont want her to be traumatized by life or some shit, you want her as your little cunt that you play with and have fun with. WIN _ WIN, but only if you have proper perspective on it. This is one of the healthiest ways to ensure proper mindset with them. Its not derogatory, its not fueled with too much emotional shit. Its pure simple fact – you are more than enough. And believe me when I say – some of you – the only thing stopping you is belief that you ARENT good enough. You already look better than most, have more and are generally better persons, but your refusal to believe you are good enough is sabotaging you and they can SMELL it.

You think squatting more or gaining 20 pounds will suddenly make you worthy? You think making 50 g's extra will make you more attractive? You think that shit matters? Your self image is your destiny. Women dont judge status that you have, but status that you show. Or imitate or whatever. I've known colleagues that dress like shit and guess what - they get shit. Its all an act. You need to act man. None of it is real. Women arent gatekeepers of sex if they were there wouldnt be a way around it.

But even more than any of status shit - Its your self image. Think you da boss and youll be da boss. Simple and stupid as it seems. But it all starts with yourself. And who the fuck is another person to say something against it? FUCK.THEM.

But most importantly chicks arent gatekeepers of YOUR worth as human being. You think I go ask delusional psychopath with history of bad decision makeing – to judge me and my life, my character?

Are you fucking insane?

You gotta believe you deserve the fucking world just for gracing this Earth with your shadow. You gotta be like this because that brick layer semi retarded kid is slaying because he thinks this, and he by all means shouldnt, but has something enough to think it, and it pay him off. So give yourself some slack in this. Experiment with it and you'll see. Its the all famed "Im the Prize" attitude. If you cannot believe you're the prize, at least know you are good enough.

Its a peacook world man. Its a divine comedy breh. Facts are something people laugh at these days. Its all what you seem to be, not what you are. You seem to be in control when in realty you relinquish all control and know you were dead since birth. its Freedom man, and its FUCKING EXCITING!!!

Its unfortunate we crave the pussy thats attached to those insanities, but we shouldnt forget these simple facts of life. Yeah I love women. I love them like Kafka loved gypsies. I love them because my dick loves them and then I tell myself a story to rationalize it when I tie her in my bed with my jumping rope and get ready to pound the devil out of her cunt. That its all good and well. Its aesthetics of ugliness. Keep that shit in the pit and let it out when you need to squirt some. Dont build pyramids and shit for them. Its sickening. Let it keep your mind straight when dealing with them.

God bless. Im out.

[–]Modredpillschool[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Feel good platitudes. Check the rules.

[–]Frenetic_Zetetic 169 points170 points  (2 children)

One of the biggest lessons in TRP isn't just how to maximize success with women, but to come to the realization that your success with women really doesn't matter beyond supplementing your main mission(s).

Excellent post.

[–]alienfromjupiter007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your comment reminds me of a quote from Steve Jobs which said something on the lines of following your heart rather than living upto other people's expectations. 'Everything else is secondary'

[–]Tai1998 18 points19 points  (16 children)

Personally, I have always had a lot of interaction with girls but I always had the thought of "She's out of my league" and when she was clearly under my league i would still exitate. The conclusion i reached, i was afraid because i didn't have confidence. Since then i have been on a journey of self improvement. By working out, practicing mind fullness you reach a state of self love that improves not only your game but also your daily life. I still fear more intimate interaction but I have clearly improved, let's see what the future reserves.

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (11 children)

This post is for you man. I always had confidence and charm. Since I was a boy.

But due to some shit my feeling of self worth got badly raped. And even though I approached girls etc, I had trouble keeping it going, because approaching was more of a self dare, and even if things went well I kinda retracted after initial ballsy moves. I didnt felt I deserved them. Even if they craved me. I pushed plenty of them away. Its weird to remember.

Then with time and some lessons and observations I realized what I wrote in the post.

Self Image will win over "facts" 99 times out of ten. Nothing is more important than how you see yourself and what you think you deserve in Life. Start getting used to the best. It starts with a question, a doubt, then it turns into a belief and then into reality.

Even with best body on the planet if you dont allow yourself good things, they will run off you like water from ducks tail. You gotta train yourself to be comfortable with the best. Women sense your feeling of self worth more than anything, thats why there are plenty of good looking guys single, while a nigga with attitude will fuck their crushes.

Its weird for a woman to observe a man with low feeling of self worth, and its weirder the more successful he is. Because the contrast yells - CREEPY.

Good luck mang.

[–]Tai1998 4 points5 points  (5 children)

Definitely agree and your situation is preety similar to mine where I can approach via self-dare but then i retract or just dont know how to interact more with the woman towards my goal. Thank you for taking the time to answer.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (4 children)

Just keep approaching, and keep teasing them, once you establish sexual mood via teasing and her getting more and more relaxed and opened - just escalate, kiss touch grab whatever. Its not science. Its opposite. Its pure instinct. Youll get the hang of it quick. And remember - You are more than good enough, she should be lucky you invested some time for her.

[–]Tai1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the insight man, will do what you say! Cheers!

[–]sully1998 -1 points0 points  (2 children)

Wow. If your mothers (the people who gave birth to and raised you) read this shit they would all wish they had abortions. They went through all that to raise a son who thinks they're a sub-species of whores. Ya'll drinking seawater or something cause this shit is salty af.

[–]Tai1998 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sully, i feel sorry you feel that way, i take trp lifestyle seriously as it tackles and has solved most of my social life's problems, in my opinion we are not inferior or superior to anyone, we are just people who are aware of their mistakes and try to fix them via other people's testimonys. As to sub-species of whores i don't understand what you mean by that, but i must assure you, i am not what you describe, maybe you should work on mind fullness, maybe improve youself a bit, you will see your life will be better. We just recognize the patterns in people's behaviors and act accordingly.

[–]ShotgunTRP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment makes no sense at all.

[–]czech_man 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy fuck! This is me in a nutshell man.

I recently realized how many hot girls wanted to fuck me in high school and I didn't let them brcause of my self esteem.

Some of it has to do with the insane criteria, but after you realize that it's just a shit-test, you're golden.

Keep up the good work, this post is gold.

[–]alienfromjupiter007 1 point2 points  (3 children)

What you have written is so true. I have been suffering from self doubt and it's such a charisma killer. Any ideas on how I can improve?

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Think about your ideal woman, then when you see her in your mind, say to yourself - I am MORE than enough, right now, right here. When you see hot girls whenever you go, look at them and say to yourself in your mind - I am MORE than enough, right now, right here.

Keep doing that exercise. By default you will feel like a boss with any woman soon, and you will stop obsessing over shit what do what say etc. You will be able to relax and have fun with them like a genuine human being not trying to "cheat" them into being with you, and from your belief a new experiences will form that will confirm your belief. See, with self worth, self esteem, you never feel like seducing woman or some shit, because for many that implies you are cheating her into being with you. But when you develop genuine feeling of being MORE than enough, you feel its natural to date and fuck 10's, why? Well because You are MORE than enough. You just enjoy having fun with people, you are open, you are stable because you know deep down you are more than enough. Can you imagine being like that? Then you are halfway there.

And not only that, everything in your world is more than enough - your car, job, clothes, everything is spot on. Sure you might still work on improving stuff, and by all means you should. But that concerns you, not women - as some kind of judges that have this secret power in their hands to deem you worthy or not. They dont have that power. No one holds power over you. Only your own HABITUAL thoughts and belief determine your experience with women. To have new experiences you have to practice new kind of thoughts.

You dont have to be perfect to fuck and date women you deem perfect. Because they arent! You think beautiful girls walk around saying to themselves Wow Im such a beauty. Naw man, they have insecurities even more so than you. Thats why negging works (albeit old and fucked up technique when forced and not natural). By negging you might lower or destabilize her feeling of worth to match your lows. But thats not ideal. Why not RISE up yourself so that you can both be proud of being with you?

You are at the start of a new feedback loop in this moment - whatchya gonna do about it? After this moment there is no more excuses for practicing shitty mental habits. Good luck and remember to have fun with it all. Thats the point of this Cosmic Soup.

[–]hb8only 1 points1 points [recovered]

you are really a great person giving advices like this..

I sentence you to have hb10 in bed as soon as possible :)

[–]alienfromjupiter007 1 point2 points  (3 children)

How did workout and mindfullness help you in developing self-love?

[–]Tai1998 0 points1 point  (2 children)

  • Workout - it is known working out improves your mental state and your mood via hormones, but the feeling that you went out there and did something to improve yourself is one of the greatest feelings. When you suprass yourself, when you can handle 2.5 more Kg on each bicep, that is when you know you accomplished something, you improved. Ofc there is also the physical part where your social life becomes better as your toned body attracts attenttion, not only with women, but men normally recognize you as a strongest person.

  • mindfullness - Started this without even knowing when i was like 10 i guess, basically i started by on certain events, finding myself just contemplating and analyzing things, but it was only at 18 that i actually started escalating on my work of mind. At 18 i started realizing that we are just people, but every people is unique, this actual thought is the corner stone of my thought, i may not be perfect, but i am myself, i live with myself everyday, there is no one identical to me, there is only one me, why should i deprive myself of any of other people's things? Am i less? No. By just stopping in the day, looking around, inhaling, analyzing your surroundings you are giving your brain an ability to refresh, to focus on the now and that is exactly the thing about mind fullness, focusing on the present and making the most of it!

[–]alienfromjupiter007 0 points1 point  (1 child)

The feeling of accomplishment in the gym does give me satisfaction and an ego boost. But isn't that different from self love?

[–]Tai1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are improving yourself and reaching new milestones, in my opinion that is strengthening self love, you are also improving your image. Ego equals frame and that equals steadiness, confidence and Witt, from the way i see it, these are key fragments of self love.

[–]WolfofAnarchy 71 points72 points  (13 children)

Fuck, thanks.

We're a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.

[–]ResistAuthority 21 points22 points  (3 children)

Are you wonder in that or is Tyler wondering that?

[–]unquenchable53 16 points17 points  (1 child)

It is the Narrator wondering that.

[–]maxrp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am Jack's complete sense of wondering that.

[–]alienfromjupiter007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would add that you need to be careful not just from women, but also from BP men specially the ones who have been in relationships with their frames invaded by their SOs. They can really really distort your thinking.

[–]1GreenPiller 1 point2 points  (5 children)

I've grown to really hate fight club...

[–]WolfofAnarchy 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Myself, quite the opposite.

[–]1GreenPiller 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I loved it as a teen but now it's just too...immature in a sense. https://youtu.be/pfipIzr4JXE

[–]WolfofAnarchy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that is some of the weakest critique I've seen. 'it's just so white, man'

[–]JorixKienu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved it as a teen but now it's just too...immature in a sense.

That's exactly one point that is whort to remember : by ourselves we have huge difficulties to really mature and develop as adul MALES. ( not the watered down, social acceped men of our times)

And another woman is NOT the answer, IMHO.

[–]TRebirthP 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I needed to read. Thanks for this contribution.

[–]Misplacedstock 10 points11 points  (2 children)

Idk about other men, but what holds me back from believing that are my own values. For example, I think fat people are fucking disgusting and undisciplined. So when I don't have visible abs(like right now due to a bulk), my self esteem goes straight down. That said, when I have a full on six pack I feel like a god.

[–][deleted] 23 points24 points  (1 child)

I know what you mean, you have your Ideal self you strive for. But in my experience, when you achieve that level you want, you soon see another level beyond that and it this becomes new baseline from which you again start feeling "incomplete" or not worthy UNTIL you do xy.

Its by product of leading a life of constant improvement, but it can be coupled with too much self criticism.

The guys I know that pull a lot, or I see mentioned here (and believe it because I see similar stuff irl) are guys who are unapologetically self centered, and while they might hate themselves, they hate everybody else even more. Its not healthy but it gives illusion of self worth.

Druggies, addicts, alcoholics, dealers, uneducated etc, what they have in common is the inability to delay gratification which while it stops them from living full life, enables them to be good with women since they escalate, tolerate little bullshit and just plain dont care.

Bottom, line is - YOU WILL NEVER BE DONE with self improvement. So your prize of feeling like God or whatever, will last for time before you delay it for achieving something else.

I say fuck that, since most of shit we like to perfect in ourselves, thats not directly connected with inserting dick into pussy doesnt really matter. So feel worthy even with a beer belly, feel worthy even with stained t shirt. Feel worthy just for being you. When you start thinking like this you will develop strong magnetic personality and outcome independence. Keep working on yourself, but dont delay the prize because you've prolly noticed it never lasts. Evolve your life with time, but feel boss all the time. Just taking the Journey of self evolution should be enough.

[–]LazyMagus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You have some wise stuff to say, man. Although I find your writing unpolished, you have strong points.

[–]KCBrowsin 1 points1 points [recovered]

While what you said does have it's truths; "don't dedicate your life to pursuit of women" etc... saying that women's biggest problems are dating and breaking a nail nowadays is wrong. There are some badass women out there in the world doing what they need to do raise their children. This may not be the case in the degenerate western society but you go east and you will see more virtuous women who are happy to do their roles.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 9 points10 points  (5 children)

a fine line of respect

You earn respect. It isn't given.

Who here hates women? Can you point that guy out to me?

[–]KCBrowsin -1 points0 points  (4 children)

There's a certain baseline of respect you should give to every human being till they do something to take it away. And for your second part; the OP.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 11 points12 points  (3 children)

No. There is no baseline of respect. We are civil to each other because we are civilized. That's the baseline.

the OP.

How does he hate women?

[–]KCBrowsin -1 points0 points  (2 children)

Being civil is a basis of respect. You are arguing semantics.

As for OP, I am not going to hold your hand, this isn't English 100. I have had many people agree with my point. If they can see it so can you.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Being civil is a basis of respect. You are arguing semantics.

No, being civil is the basis of not wanting other citizens string you up as being a problem. You don't respect the people; you adhere to the system.

I have had many people agree with my point.

Head over to TBP. They'll love you over there. They like spewing retarded platitudes and then jerks each other off too.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 21 points22 points  (8 children)

much of the red pill seems to be women-hate however there needs to be a fine line of respect for others

Didn't read the sidebar did you. Come in here thinking we hate girls, spout of your drivel like you're some enlightened morally righteous authority. You are using nawalt, women are wonderful, and trying to say that because a few girls aren't typical that they all deserve respect and adoration.

In the man's world respect is not given, it is earned and it doesn't go to anyone who hasn't earned it. You don't get it by existing, you don't get it by having tits or a vagina, you get it by what you do and who you are when it matters.

It's not hating girls to say exactly what they are rather than to do what you did, and say some are amazing then give them far more credit than they deserve as a whole. It's not hating girls to be aware of the bullshit foisted upon us, exactly the bullshit you said no less. You want the guys in here to be and think like you, and that thinking is mangina thing, its effeminate and gynocentric. That's the kind of bullshit that gets you ousted from here.

Your confusing politeness with respect. Not surprising since most people never do anything to earn respect, but they sure as fuck want to demand it. Stfu go read the sidebar, and realize you don't know fuck about shit.

[–]usedsparingly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you please recommend this post be deleted and this guy banned? The fact that there's so many posts like this that never get deleted is one thing but this post is ridiculous.

[–]KCBrowsin 1 points1 points [recovered]

You need to calm down you silly child.

[–]usedsparingly 3 points4 points  (3 children)

And you need to respect the tag you dumb prick. He's senior endorsed for a reason. And what are you? Oh wait. Nothing.

[–]KCBrowsin 0 points1 point  (2 children)

It would surprise you that I dont give a shit if he is the most endorsed member of this subreddit. I give my 2 cents and move on.

[–]MEpicLevelCheater[M] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

You will give a shit, because now you are banned.

[–]usedsparingly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you dude. It's in the damn sidebar. Respect the tag.

[–]KRISTAPORZINGA 1 points1 points [recovered]

Yup reading the sidebar makes you know and understand the world and women. All you gotta do is go read that fucking sidebar and you're all-knowing.

[–]ModeratorPaperStreetVilla[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Children use sarcasm. Take a break, try not to lash out in modmail.

thank you

[–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (5 children)

lets say Bill is psychopath I hate psychopaths I hate Bill.

Should this be considered Bill hate? I have nothing against Bill's but somehow they always turn out fucked up in specific way. If there is a Bill outhere who is different show him to me pls.

Where are the fathers of those badass women's children? And why did those badass women chose to be with fathers who abandoned their children? Yeah some rare women work 3 jobs and juggle 3 dicks to feed their fatherless mix child. Do I feel sorry? No.

Yeah some women break their backs in careers no one forced them to do, just to be enough of man for her dad who wanted a son. Do I feel sorry? Nope.

WE ALL must deal with decision we make. Punto.

Of course, there are virtuous women I GUESS, but trp is not about dealing with 0.000001 of worlds population, but with most women. And that's "when the guns come out. "

And believe me, to make a virtuous woman, you gotta break A LOT of eggs, in other words, she would be severely mentally wounded from what is required to abolish her instincts.

[–]SoulRedemption 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I get what you are saying. While dynamics of women is generally relative world wide what that dude was referring to is something also true and generic. He's saying that women's biggest problems do not always come down to things like "broken fingernails". It may help you to think like that to treat them like children. If the women you come across are pretty much what you described...well......that kinda sucks. Oh well. If you are okay with it, then all gud.

[–]KCBrowsin 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Bill is a single person. Women is an entire gender ~ half of the human population. And you have already identified bill as a psychopath so your distaste for bill is justified.

Just because the father isnt in the picture doesn't automatically mean the women is at fault. There are many reasons such as disease, father having to work, etc... That forces women around the world to single handedly raise their kids. My mother for example because my father works a lot.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you listen to Chariots of Fire and cry a little bit for all the strong wymyn out there of which your mother of course is the glorious vanguard, while writing this?

[–]Endorsed Contributorsqerl 13 points14 points  (0 children)

much of the red pill seems to be women-hate

but I feel that the subreddit always ends up going towards the we hate women angle.

Moralize much? Do you feel better now that you've clearly identified your problem with TRP? You should start a thread which identifies the cause-effect of taking the pill and women-hate. There's other subreddits for you to shed your wisdom upon.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

I think it’s not woman hate so much as anger of being lied to their entire lives and coming to the realization that women are selfish emotional creatures by default and not the angelic pinacles of virtue were made to believe. A lot of men have spent their years suffering because of this and they are rightly angry.

[–]KCBrowsin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that the modern dating world is a harsh cut throat environment. Like I said have your guard up even in LTRs.

[–]lipidsly 16 points17 points  (4 children)

much of the red pill seems to be women-hate however there needs to be a fine line of respect for others and respect for self.

Not really. Its that we want to love and respect women in the same way we would love and respect ourselves/other men.

We cannot do that because they cannot meet those standards.

We have been lied to that they can. It is this lifelong lie that we hate.

[–]KCBrowsin -5 points-4 points  (3 children)

Its that we want to love and respect women in the same way we would love and respect ourselves/other men.

In terms of operation, women differ from men. Furthermore I do not want to love men in the same way i Iove women. I'm not homosexual personally though I have nothing against your orientation. Lastly respect is not the same as love.

[–]lipidsly 4 points5 points  (2 children)

Furthermore I do not want to love men in the same way i Iove women. I'm not homosexual personally

Not like fuck them you idiot. Like how you love your brother or father or uncle.

[–]KCBrowsin 3 points4 points  (1 child)

 Like how you love your brother or father or uncle.

And that is not how I love women.

[–]Ooomar 20 points21 points  (3 children)

We hate them because we want them so bad, they are our weakness, we hate weakness.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 19 points20 points  (2 children)

If you hate them it's not because of that. It's because you're holding them to a male standard of behavior. They're different, thinking different and acting different with very different needs in a relationship.

They are not like us, and that is great because most of us don't want to fuck men.

[–]Ooomar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't hate them, really. I hate my own notions of them that distort how much satisfaction can truly be derived from them.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222 7 points8 points  (2 children)

What aspects of trp "seem to be women-hate"? I've never seen anything like that in my 3 years of being here. The guys driven to this sub love women and just want themselves and their women to be happy.

It's scary when something like this gets upvoted. You're asking me not to hate anyone for being born something. I agree, but since you know we don't hate them, maybe you meant to type "judge". And when it comes to women, I am going to judge them while knowing I'm better than them. It's a healthy mindset and the truth. Anyone who says otherwise is delusional. Don't sprinkle NAWALT shit with sugar and try to feed to us. It's bull shit. Take heed here TRPers.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You can judge anyone, you do it every day already. He wants us to respect girls out of hand. He wants us to kiss their ass like he does, to see them as wonderful. He is a mangina or a girl trying to act like a man. Still sucking that blue pill for all its worth, and moralizing to all of us.

[–]lala_xyyz 1 point2 points  (1 child)

virtuous women who are happy to do their roles

Unicorns don't exist. They are all dumb whores. Apparent exceptions are solely due to the fear of the consequences of their immediate environment. But change the environment, and they'll act on their dishonorable, hypergamous instincts. Women are as "virtuous" as society prevents them not to be.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think I go ask delusional psychopath with history of bad decision makeing – to judge me and my life, my character?

This is such a good point in an otherwise rambling, typo ridden, post.

Sometimes I forget that bitches would be crazy not to want me.

[–]1scissor_me_timbers00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"It's a divine comedy breh"

Haha I love this sub. Good post.

[–]victor_knight 9 points10 points  (7 children)

You will still be taking your DNA to your grave, though, and your DNA won't like that so it will alter your brain chemistry to fuck you up the rest of your life. You will never be happy no matter what you achieve or do. You will suffer depression and maybe even contemplate suicide at some point. For many men, it's like this. Be prepared. You think only women get baby rabies?

[–]seserta 8 points9 points  (3 children)

Try meditation man. It will allow you stop that shit from happening. Don't let that fear stop you. There's a lot to life beyond the pursuit of pussy. It's a good physical release but that is all it really is. When you go beyond it, it comes running after you. Women want to be chased and needed. Turn the table with good physique and high self worth and watch them chase you.

[–]victor_knight 8 points9 points  (2 children)

It's okay. I already have two sons. I got the DNA thing out of my system. Happily divorced. ;)

[–]seserta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah man, that's what I'm talking about. I never wanted kids. And I will never have any. I'm taking my DNA with me unless I deem a woman worthy. I write, make music and take photos professionally. And I'm quite healthy naturally. I've always felt that I need to choose my vessel carefully. Even before I came here.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Happily divorced. ;)

You are my hero for this week.

+1 Internets.

[–]gazzaa2 0 points1 point  (2 children)

So gay men who aren't having kids are all fucked up, depressed and suicidal?

[–]WolfofAnarchy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. His logic is flawed. He confused a sex drive for child making frustration.

[–]BlackCrowRising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no spoon. Good reminder and thank you.

[–]TehJimmyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self love posts are the best . Thank you OP;

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (4 children)

I had a cut and went to slice lemon and it stung

Restaurant server.

Train wreck.

Will never be anything but a pump and dump.

[–]refusewool 10 points11 points  (2 children)

I know a girl who works in a high end restaurant and she told me that all the waiters fuck each other all the time. Is this what you're referring to?

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Most occupations are like that, the servant classes are degenerate. Out at the airport here, security guys run a comp score on how many of the retail girls in duty free they fucked.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 6 points7 points  (4 children)

Ha! Insecure pep talk. Just be yourself, self improvement guise!

Had you treated it like a strategy, you'd never ever have to ponder your existential worth, you'd be too busy either succeeding, or learning from failures to care if you were "good enough"

Instead, you take a bottle of female angst, a dash of insecurity, a splash of "leading with your beta trats" and a little self pep talk disguised as advice.

Voila! Ego protection!

[–]refusewool 0 points1 point  (1 child)

The fact of the matter is that some of us do ponder if we are good enough. The root of approach anxiety. This is a short term fix to help get guys on their feet and start approaching. Meanwhile, long term groundwork is still underway in the background.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self actualization comes after everything else.

Lazy kids love to skip steps, then wonder why they are fucking miserable

[–]LiveAFTSOV 1 points1 points [recovered]

what are you talking about EC?

[–]ModeratorPaperStreetVilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)


A buffer

A social circle/sexual gratification.

After this comes self actualization/self improvement. Deal with the underlying things, and you tend to avoid these mental problems

[–]jakeyv123 1 point2 points  (11 children)

you made a good point with your article about self worth. but dude you really need to change your attitude towards woman. just because women act like women doesnt mean they dont bring value to the world besides their pussy.

its good to be delusional in some ways, but your going to live a pretty sad fucking life if your going to act like a bitch towards women because they will be whoever they are. its not a good long term strategy

[–]refusewool 33 points34 points  (7 children)

Very noble reply. Hopefully a princess well recognise your chivalry and reward you for it.

[–]jakeyv123 13 points14 points  (4 children)

Dude fuck chivalry. Know how to fuck a bitch. But respecting other human beings brings its own rewards. Dont go through this life like some emo bitch thats pissy at women, go through it as a man who takes what he wants

[–]refusewool 16 points17 points  (2 children)

Respect is earned. That applies to both men and women. Women rarely earn my respect.

[–]jakeyv123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

most men rarely earn mine either.

[–]Drumcode-Equals-Life -1 points0 points  (0 children)

On the contrary, they almost always manage to lose mine within three to five times seeing them

[–]KRISTAPORZINGA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously. It's clear that 99% of guys here have zero clue how to interact with a woman. They read this watered-down version of Red Pill and they develop this vitriolic hate towards all women.

It's sad because you can see how much they're putting women on a pedestal with their hate towards them. You're still obsessed with them and I guarantee if that's your attitude you aren't pulling any ass. I guarantee you.

The best Red Pill advice is being your own man and focusing on your self and your own interests. The best Red Pill advice is standing up for yourself and being as honest as you can at all times. Not hating woman and having this attitude like they're shit and subservient people. That attitude will not get you laid I guarantee it.

[–]BlackVale 5 points6 points  (1 child)

I've been noticing a lot of white knighting popping up here or am I seeing things?

[–]refusewool 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Most likely new members who have read a few posts and think they understand TRP but can't be bothered to actually digest the sidebar.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 7 points8 points  (1 child)

For every Carolyn Porco, or Madame Curry who does great things, there are millions of sluts out there who do nothing more than leech off men. Clean the shit out of your headgear.

[–]jakeyv123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i totally agree with you. we arnt on the same level as women. we dont even exist in the same fucking ball park. i just dont demonise women like a fucking child because women are who they are. 95% of men are either limp dicked or ass's that waste their lives attatched to stupid shit.

Both men and women can be incredibly pathetic in their own ways. I dont demonise people for them choosing to be who they are. It screams Blue Pill that people are so butt hurt over women choosing to be women, when in reality THIS is the game we are now set to manipulate and master as Red Pill men.

Now go play the fucking game.

[–]Drumcode-Equals-Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Needed to read this, thanks.

[–]mountainbiker178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women don't judge status that you have, but status that you show.

You should hold this statement. Awesome post. Exactly what I needed to read this morning.

[–]anabolic92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no.

Do we agree that a byproduct of TRP/your mission at the end of the day is making easier to get women attracted?

While I agree mostly with your message, when a men has been heavily implied in his mission and no results come.

Going consistently to the gym, having a good work in another country, dieiting, taking care of one self... Has brought 0 improvement to me in my life regarding specific fields I've seen constantly repeated on TRP would make things better.

[–]Toker95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did u mean by, your coworkers dress like shit and get shit

[–]bojothemojo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

am I the only one who read this entire post as a Rick Sanchez monologue?

[–]Maw3r 0 points1 point  (4 children)

heyy!!! I saved this post to read it later!!! where is it guys?!?

[–]hb8only 1 points1 points [recovered]

I think mods has deleted it because it was anti TRP

[–]Maw3r 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Well if it is for this reason, it is ok that i didnt read it i think thank you for answering♥

[–]hb8only 1 points1 points [recovered]

well.. it has some good point thought..

tldr: you always need to feel like you are ready for a girl.. even if you work out every day, wanna lose a few kg/lbs, wanna bigger biceps.. it is all great BUT you need to feel complete and ready because even if you are not there where you wanna be, you can be approached by a girl and be really surprised like - is there something wrong with her that she wants me??

it is bad way of thinking..

you are on you way to be better every day BUT even today, you are good for every girl you wanna date/fuck...

[–]Maw3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow dude this last sentence got me: "you are on you way to be better every day BUT even today, you are good for every girl you wanna date/fuck..." if it is the conclusion, you did a extremely nice resume of the post, i remember that it was quite long.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

There is a lot of truth here. I drink in a bar thats a shithole because its a 3 minute drive from my house. Most of the people who drink there are absolute losers, all bragging about this or that thing, and they get pretty girls. Women love that male display, they love to be fought over, and quite honestly, they love to be pounded through the mattress during sex. Just ignore this ridiculous peacock show and focus on yourself. My house is paid off, my car is paid off, and I would rather burn it to the ground with me in it than hand it over to some mentally unbalanced dried up slash. When women my age hit on me, its so laughable it makes you cringe. They will play some shitty country or pop song on the jukebox and start dancing seductively, and then wallow their pig bodies over to you and then start gyrating in some post menopausal hula thing. Its bizarre. Like, Ive been around American trash women my whole life, do you really think your self satisfying weird ass dance is gonna fool me again? I wouldn't fuck most of the twenty year olds in there because of the high risk of disease, much less some grandma who for some reason think their sexuality would hook a man. Try talking to me Dependapotamaus.

[–]Dragon_Garoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No bitterness here. hahaha. Love the Dependapotomous. And I've seen that hula gyration. They start doing it in their late 20's, was watching a 30'something in the crusty punk bar I go to, doing exactly that to keep the boys all looking at her. Was fun to watch. :-)