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Woman walks out on blind date when she realizes guy won't be her beta provider (self.TheRedPill)

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[–]WorkingClassRPh 450 points451 points  (68 children)

There was a time when my bluepill self thought "shit like this can't be real" then I started dating with a six figure salary. Hoo boy.

After ghosting the first two women who acted like this, I just ended a date with the third. Walked away, paid my half of the bill, and left. Blocked her number and never spoke to her again.

That's the only way we as men will ever come even CLOSE to correcting this behaviour.

[–]SilverGryphon 155 points156 points  (2 children)

That's the only way we as men will ever come even CLOSE to correcting this behaviour.

True, so fucking true. We need more men to act like this and show women true equality. Women who want to be considered equal to men should shoulder some responsibility like men do.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 195 points196 points  (1 child)

Spoiler alert: women do not want equal responsibility or equal treatment. Real equality makes life difficult and they understand that, which is why they talk like they want equality but act like they want privilege.

Never forget what this sub says about words and actions.

A wise man humours women's need to feel self-important when in mixed company, and then belittles them in private for sex and profit.

[–]Galactic-Unicorn 38 points39 points  (0 children)

A wise man humours women's need to feel self-important when in mixed company, and then belittles them in private for sex and profit.

Truer words have never been spoken.

[–]LateralThinkerer 130 points131 points  (10 children)

That's the only way we as men will ever come even CLOSE to correcting this behaviour.

It's a losing battle: All media (driven by advertisements) targets irresponsible spenders so that they will spend impulsively and irresponsibly, preferably using someone else's money. It's done by creating a villain. You.

If you're an intelligent, financially responsible male, you're (paradoxically) represented as an insensitive, stupid man-child, and this is how women are taught to treat you, so that you can purchase their forgiveness with consumer goods, mortgages and a life of indolence, impulsiveness and irresponsibility.

This has been normalized into our society because it's endlessly profitable, and is hell to deal with.

Edit: Once you realize what's in front of you, it's endless fun to not play the game, as /u/WorkingClassRPh has come to realize, but it's not your responsibility to correct it - don't waste your time.

You can't fight a lifetime of indoctrination.

[–]thestingray1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is quite possibly the truest thing I've read in a long time

[–]quansau1 9 points10 points  (4 children)

One crazy thing is watching TV and seeing the non stop bs pushing you to get married.

[–]Cozc 18 points19 points  (2 children)

Mostly what I see as far as marriage is concerned is non-stop anti marriage/family shit.

Most shows when you see a married couple they're fighting, bitching about not being able to do anything cause of kids, dont have any money, jealous of the single characters freedom, etc.

The last thing the powers that be want is for there to be strong marriages and families. A strong family is the only parachute that can save us from the fall off the cliff that is big government sponsored nanny states and narcissism.

[–]sigma272 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Don't forget the best media trope: "blundering idiot husband and sassy, intelligent wife who has to put up with him".

[–]jav253 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's nothing new either. All communist states tried to dismantle the family unit. Their end goal is they want the children to be raised by the state.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has been said before, but that was well written.

[–]rossiFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit that was concise. Razor sharp.

[–]biggerbetterjobs 44 points45 points  (6 children)

I went out with a girl the other night from tinder who makes FAR more money than me and she still had the nerve to tell the bartender her $1 diet coke would be on my tab. I told him "No I'm not paying for that, I didn't tell you to put the diet coke on my tab".

I think he wound up giving the girl the drink for free since it didn't register in my bank statement, but after I finished my beer I just got up and left without even saying anything in the middle of her sentence lol.

Sure I did it slightly from an egotistical perspective, but mostly because she was a rotten vile person I just wanted to get away from (mostly from the conversation, not the diet coke incident.. Telling me about her cocaine induced orgies and all these guys she hooked up with after knowing me for literally 5 minutes).

[–]DickRulez 18 points19 points  (2 children)

Cocaine confession within 5 minutes... coke whore!

[–]Hjalmbere 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Wow. That was an easy bullet dodge.

[–]D0initbig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like that scene in the matrix where time slows down and neo does all that crazy shifting around the bullets, but instead of that he just walks out of the room.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRunawayGrain 30 points31 points  (1 child)

then I started dating with a six figure salary

My favorite part of that was how some of the girls I went on a couple of dates with back in college suddenly realized I was the perfect guy for them.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My brother is a Chad in this bracket now. Finding himself some THOTS on the far end of 'wasted my 20s'

I just hope he has the sense not to keep them long term.

[–]BoyWhoreWithASword 26 points27 points  (2 children)

Don't do it to "correct behavior".

There's an army of simps and desperate men out there who will play these games.

Do it because you value yourself, your time, and for your own integrity. Don't do it to "teach a lesson" because these women aren't learning a goddamn thing.

[–]fellowchild 1 points1 points [recovered]

There's an army of simps and desperate men out there who will play these games.

Honestly, with the way TRP has grown, I think we're going to see real change soon.

People are openly discussing issues that would've been swept under the rug 5 years ago. They aren't afraid to march for issues they care about.

You have to believe in our ability to bring real change. Its happening, just give it time and do your part.

[–]BoyWhoreWithASword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me I'm doing my part.

[–]cashmoney_x 54 points55 points  (2 children)

"That's the only way we as men will ever come even CLOSE to correcting this behaviour."

They'll just move on to the next.

[–]Buncha_Cunts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Which is why the next needs to do the same too. Then we begin to correct it.

[–]nazis_are_socialists 14 points15 points  (1 child)

Also raising your daughter(s) properly

[–]timodmo 9 points10 points  (3 children)

Hate to bust your bubble but you won't change them. They'll rationalize you as an asshole and find the next chump

[–]sweetleef 14 points15 points  (2 children)

No, you won't change their nature. They'll go as far as they're allowed to go.

Unfortunately, we've set up institutional rules that allow them to go much further than they should, discrimination laws, divorce and custody rules, campus rape courts, media hysteria, etc. - these things are extremely difficult to modify once installed, so getting back to the sane point would be a very long process.

[–]jav253 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Yep it's going to take quite a bit more than just refusing to date/marry broken Women at this point. Western Men as a whole will have to go after the source of the propaganda that brainwashes them and remove it.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 18 points19 points  (9 children)

Unified actions like this and absolutely refusing to accept shitty behavior from women should take us even further than MGTOW. I am not sure it will work with all the simps but I guess it is worth a try.

[–]BubbleGas 1 points1 points [recovered]

MGTOW has more impact than all other men's movements combined. Other movements still give women attention. MGTOW doesn't give them shit. And that fucking terrifies them.

You can't save women. If you disagree you aren't red pilled enough. Only women can save themselves at this point.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Pft, I like to keep it simple.

Enjoy the decline. You can be a cunt, not with me tho. If I wait and recruit guys who get their shit together, I'll be in for a world of disappointment. We used to cull them off occasionally with a mass war. Nowadays, it's too hard to kill weak men, so we have to get used to them

[–]Ruhkov 28 points29 points  (2 children)

I disagree with the war statement. That's far too cynical a statement to be close to reality. Indeed war, among disease and lack of resources, culled the population and killed off men but the idea that war killed off only weak men is misguided and disrespectful to the memory of those who died in combat. Death on the battlefield is indiscriminate.

[–]1CoupDeGrace22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

True, that argument circulates quite a bit given how stupid it inherently is.

If anything, wars gave the "weak" non-military capable men a carte blanche for mating back home while the able-bodied were sent off to fight, and for the most part, die.

Additionally, if the "weak" were culled by being sent off to war, then it is the same "weak" who fucked the enemy's women and left bastards all over the places they triumphed at.cough nazis at paris cough.

[–]BusterVadge 31 points32 points  (9 children)

That's the only way we as men will ever come even CLOSE to correcting this behaviour.

Their problems are not ours. I don't agree that we should be trying to correct their behavior.

The only women's behaviors we should be correcting is our LTR's and our own daughters'.

[–]TheRedditGod 19 points20 points  (1 child)

I agree, negative reinforcement by leaving will probably make them more pissed at you instead of themselves, but with an LTR or daughter who looks up to you, then you should absolutely instill the values you believe. I'm not saying force them, my dad did a great job teaching me to come to my own conclusions as a kid, without forcing me to prescribe to any ideology. Same thing with my little sister (9 years old). She competes in a type of gymnastics, practicing probably 15 hours a week for two years. She's worked harder at that then some people ever have in their lives. They don't force her to do the sport, nor would they be upset if she wanted to finish out the season, and move on.

[–]destraht 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its probably more about a next generation thing than a woman in her 30's being able to change. Children do learn from the negative examples of others, especially when they have something else to compare it to.

[–]Jigsus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You don't correct anything. You get what you want. If you want a nice LTR you make it happen. Don't put up with her shit. Call her out on it. But keep a happy dynamic in the relationship.

[–]smirk_addict 3 points4 points  (2 children)

But he's ghosting them to teach them a lesson. If you are looking for a LTR and you're out with a woman that acts like this, what other option do you have? She isn't going to be your girlfriend, and you aren't going to see her again. Why do you disagree with what he's saying?

[–]BusterVadge 6 points7 points  (1 child)

I disagree with the motivation behind it. A woman that does this is beyond "correction". I definitely agree with his action, just not his motivation. He should be doing it to enrich his own life by removing the bullshit, not to attempt to teach her a lesson.

[–]1KyfhoMyoba 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Your mistake was letting your dates know enough to figure out how much you make.

A neurologist posted here a year or two ago how when he would go out with another MD friend to pick up women, he would tell them what he did, and he could never get the SNL - they'd always try to wait and make him "relationship material". When they started telling women that they were "bartender" and "bouncer", the SNLs started like magic.

Women want you to stay in your lane, and they will treat you accordingly.

[–]MrAnderzon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We men in general are the ones that allow this to happen.

[–]DopeMeme_Deficiency 2 points3 points  (1 child)

It's been an eye opener going from six figures to living in a van. I tag more tail now, and give fewer fucks

[–]fromthecrypt8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You handle this perfectly. Kudos! What absolutely horrible human beings some women are.

[–]Shaman6624 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Why do they even know you have a six figure salary?

[–]menial_optimist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm ever in your situation, Id feel like helping these women out. Such as Id pity them for acting so childish that although I would know guaranteed Id never see them again, I'd go out giving a big speech essentially teaching them how to improve their game for the next sucker they hooked in to a free supper. I would owe them nothing its true, but a lot of these bitches probably never had anyone say "no" before and they might live their entire lives with a warped mindset and no manners. Again yes I don't owe anybody anything, but it would feel powerful to be so high SMV, knowing Id never see them again and giving them tips/education as a teacher to a child.

[–]SPER 83 points84 points  (6 children)

He should've asked the waiter if she'd like to join him after her shift.

Her expression when the girl was on the phone at the dinner table was great haha..

[–]nazis_are_socialists 36 points37 points  (5 children)

I cringed pretty hard at that. Modern women are incapable of putting their personal validation devices away.

[–]Regs2 18 points19 points  (4 children)

I've straight up told women who keep checking their phone that they remind me of my friends HS daughter because she can't put her phone away either. On one date I just left and stuck her with the bill.

[–]NoContext68 6 points7 points  (1 child)

The waitress was an actress

[–]snarkcommenter 1 points1 points [recovered]

Closed captions made me laugh. "Every gal wants to get her own way" got displayed as "Every cow wants to get her own way".

[–]LuvBeer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

More for OP than you, but she's not even saying gal. That's just how they pronounce girl in certain parts of England, and probably where the US term gal came from. Interesting from a linguistic POV.

[–]summersss 92 points93 points  (14 children)

Guy dodged a bullet. Dude is handsome i guess, won't take him long to find someone better. But its situations like this where paying for the date is such crap. Cause basically there is a high risk of paying a bunch of cash to get walked out on. Just like divorce, "oh took the kids, house, and most of my youth; here is another 10,000$"

[–]PotRoaster 68 points69 points  (12 children)

That why I started using coupons on first dates. I got sick of shelling of $70 for happy hour sushi and a couple of drinks. Most girls don't mind as long as you own it and inject some humor into it. Usually when it comes time to pay, I will whip my coupon out and get a response like "Oh, you were being serious" and I usually respond along the lines of "You bet your ass I was. If you play your cards right, I might use my good coupons next time".

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen 35 points36 points  (2 children)

Stop doing diner dates as first dates. Cup of coffee to see if it's even worth the hassle. Second date in private, escalate, fuck.

Dinner dates are reserved as rewards for exceptionally good behavior of long term plates and up.

[–]Ewoedo 1 points1 points [recovered]

Yep, there's a tonne of dating options other than dinner, and most are much more interesting than a standard dinner as well

[–]clearwatermo 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It was about to expire, so I had to use on someone.

[–]ResistAuthority 15 points16 points  (3 children)

Preach it dude, its equality now why would i pay for someone elses shit. I took a girl to mcdonalds and didnt pay for her. Didnt get laid either but oh well.

[–]SilverGryphon 16 points17 points  (2 children)

It's clear that she wasn't into you. If she really wanted your D, she would have paid for your food and begged you to ram her hard as a thankyou. If you took this girl to a high class restaurant, you still would have not gotten any as she felt zero tingles for you. The kicker is that she would have banged chad later on, after he raided her fridge.

[–]ResistAuthority 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No joke. One of my more natural friends had a plate just buy him groceries out of the blue

[–]PokeyTifu99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't blame you. It's a gamble, might as well make it a cheap gamble incase she wasn't worth the money.

[–]Lets_Do_ButtStuff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Oh I'm sorry. Are you paying then?"

[–]summersss 0 points1 point  (1 child)

lol yeah. if you find some other way to pay, like coupons they try and give you shit, its like they want your wallet to suffer.

[–]thedude213 27 points28 points  (4 children)

She's playing way out of her league, you can't be that high maintenance and bring nothing to the table. She brought so little to the table she couldn't keep herself there. Trying to emulate 'the only way is Essex' trash doesn't pay the literal or figurative bills IRL.

[–]askmrcia 14 points15 points  (1 child)

She's playing way out of her league,

Most do. And she is probably acting that way because she know she can open tinder and have some guy that's an 8+ messaging her despite her being a 4.

She'll learn in a few more years though. I look forward to mt investments in car food paying off.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She's been on the cock carousel for a long time to come to the table with that cunty attitude and demand full price for used goods.

[–]Triadis3 1 points1 points [recovered]

Dinner was a cheap expense to have her show her hand so early.

She did him a huge solid.

"I see you're an entitled cunt. Bye."

[–]chilibreez 18 points19 points  (7 children)

This is exactly why you have face to face dates like dinner early on. You're forced to talk, interact, and observe.

Going to movies, live theater, or light activity (carnival, mini golf, etc.) puts too many distractions into the date. You aren't really getting to know someone.

Sitting down, looking right at each other for a couple of hours, while being able to see how they treat you, wait staff, themselves, and your checkbook is priceless.

[–]yes_we_can_t 16 points17 points  (0 children)

... and as you give her the red rose after the candlelit dinner she will tumble and fall deeply in love with you ...

Nah, you want to plate her early on, not LTR her. Only if she turns out to be a really great plate should you consider upgrading her to a girlfriend.

Until then, skip boring dates, dinner dates in particular.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet 35 points36 points  (3 children)

If you're aiming for the dinner date, then every date will go this way.

Go for the one night stand.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (2 children)

Yep.

At least never agree to dinner dates.

Do shit you like to do and bring her along, right? I have an annual pass to the very nice local botanical gardens, and they let you bring a bottle of wine in.

The most I spent on dinner was $150, beautiful view over the Pacific Ocean, subpar food. Give me a picnic area and a grill, and I'll turn out much better food...never mind in my kitchen.

"I'm way too good of a cook to waste money at restaurants"

[–]Unlucky_Leader 2 points3 points  (1 child)

ohh i am going to steal that last line

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as it's true, have at it.

[–]askmrcia 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying. Dinner dates or drinking can be hit or miss.

You're forced to talk, interact, and observe.

This can be good, ONLY if the woman can hold a fuckin conversation. And sadly a lot of them can't. Another thing about dinner dates is that's what they are "DATES."

And lets be real, these women say they want dates and shit, but they really don't. Dates makes it come across as if you're aiming for a LTR. Yea women will say they want that shit, but they don't (least the ones in their early years).

Why? Because after they get done with the date with you, they have several others lined up. So they want to keep their options open. What I'm getting at is dinner dates puts some form of "pressure" on the woman to get ready to commit. Because at the end of the day talking a chick out to dinner is an actual DATE by definition. And everyone knows this.

Going go karting, mini golf, walk in the park, those are not considered "dates." Those are considered "hanging out" and whatever happens happens.

Also unlike dinner dates, when you do these other activities, you are not having conversations on getting to know that person better. You're not asking too many questions about their families, their future, or any of that shit because you're focused on said activity.

Dinner dates are a thing of the past and the only time I would do a dinner date is if the girl is committed to you like a LTR or close to being one. I do notice a shit ton of men in their 30s and 40s doing dinner dates. And yea those may work in those years because they are most likely doing it with post wall or near wall women. So those types of women know its a date and they may be open to it. And we know why these types of women want an actual date.

Last point because I'm coming full circle.

Your point is correct. Dinner dates are good for LTRs because like you said you're forced to talk and get to know one another.

But I already told you the cons of that.

On the otherhand, when you do activities, such as mini golf or whatever, you're not really getting to know the person. So after like three weeks or so with said woman (if it lasts that long) you'll start seeing what she is really about. And that mask that she wore while you guys were at the carnival will slowly come off and it will hit you like a hurricane.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first meetup is drinks, 1 hour max. never extend it. never move it to another place. if you're actually lifting and reasonably attractive, you have enough girls coming in that you can meet 1-2 new girls every night, followed by a plate.

ONS is bad because you have to put in so much effort for a single fuck. most girls feel like shit after an ONS and fucking disappear. so if you don't bother to close on the first, where you're just checking whether she's a crazy person, she's disarmed, and not putting up her anti-slut defenses. then relentlessly escalate on the second date.

using this strategy, any guy who is an 8 or above can build a whole harem of plates.

[–]Hillarysdilddo_2016 70 points71 points  (23 children)

You might as well post an episode of cheaters because this "reality tv" shit is completely staged.

But yes there are entitled bitches out there.

Just split the bill 50/50 (every self-respecting feminist pays her own way amirite??) or do a cheap date drinks, coffee, a walk in the park.

[–]chauncy_popperstein 35 points36 points  (15 children)

Exactly.

This is "reality tv". This is the STAGED and SCRIPTED fake drama crap that melts your brain into mush. This is "story time" for women. Why are people watching this?

[–]askmrcia 23 points24 points  (14 children)

Even if its scripted, this kinds of stuff happen all the time.

It happened to me literally last week.

Chick and I met up to go see the movie "IT." First off she was ten mins late, but whatever. She then asked if I had already bought the tickets. I said "no."

She proceeded to buy the tickets, but kind of had an attitude. I told her to not worry about buying mine, I'll buy my own.

In the theater, during the previews, she asked and I quote "did you really think that I was going to buy your tickets? Also why didn't you buy my ticket?"

I looked at her with my eyes wide open and said "ummm I didn't buy the tickets because I didn't know you were going to show since you were late. Also You have a job and you can buy your own tickets, so why do I need to buy the tickers especially when seeing this movie was your suggestion?"

I said all of that in a very calm matter, mind you we were in a theater.

She got pissy and said "guys are supposed to pay on the first date."

After she said that I told her I was leaving because I no longer wanted to see this movie. I got up and left. The movie didn't even start yet. Sad, because I actually wanted to see the movie lol.

She texted me ten mins as I was driving on the road saying "thanks for being an ass."

Like really? I'm the asshole? Women are messed up in the head, but yea my point in all of this is, women do act like what is shown in that clip and what is shown on reality TV.

Why? Because women watch reality TV and are influenced by how those on those shows act. I can watch reality TV and know its entertainment. Can't say the same about women.

[–]chauncy_popperstein 23 points24 points  (8 children)

You went to a movie on the first date?

Common man, you can do better than that. Next time a chick gives you grief over paying just give a sly smile and say something to tease like:

"You're a big girl, I knew you got it" Make it a fun tease. She was shit testing you.

[–]Sativa_Dreams 11 points12 points  (6 children)

Eh, still though, shit test or no, she sounds as unpleasant or even more unpleasant than the girl in the video. "Guys are supposed to pay the first date." Shit test or not you can fuck right off

[–]askmrcia 4 points5 points  (1 child)

"Guys are supposed to pay the first date." Shit test or not you can fuck right off

Exactly my thoughts. That's just being a cunt. And the way it was said, it came across as if she was trying to get me to pay her to see a free movie.

[–]askmrcia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You went to a movie on the first date?

Her idea, not mine. I agree, I tend to avoid movies at all cost on the first date.

Nah, she wasn't shit testing, she was being a bitch. She was entitled. Honestly, I lost no sleep over it.

[–]whuttupfoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve gotta be doing something wrong if this happened to you. Girls will only try to pull something like this if they smell beta on you.

[–]itsmehobnob 1 point2 points  (1 child)

You overreacted. She doesn't know better. Everything she is taught tells her you were supposed to pay. That doesn't make her a bad person, spoiled and naive maybe. But that's modern women.

The best ways I've found to deal with who pays are tit-for-tat (you buy the tickets, she buys the popcorn) or some form of competition (paper rock scissors). You give her agency and remove the devil's voice in her head saying "the man should pay."

All that being said: Don't go to the movies on a first date!

[–]askmrcia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best ways I've found to deal with who pays are tit-for-tat (you buy the tickets, she buys the popcorn) or some form of competition (paper rock scissors).

This is not my first rodeo. I've done that before where I buy the tickets and she buys the popcorn and drinks.

I know when a woman is trying to get something free out of me or is simply wasting my time. And this was clearly one of them.

She was late as hell despite her being only three mins away from the theater where I had to drive 20mins to get there.

As soon as she got out her car and walked up she already had bad body language. Bad enough to the point I could not even get in close enough to greet her and give her a hug.

I know how to read women and people in general. There was bad vibe from her from the start. And her poor nasty attitude didn't help.

It was no shit test and if it was, she was def not hot enough to act the way she was acting.

All that being said: Don't go to the movies on a first date!

As I stated in an earlier comment, I know. But I was giving suggestions at first and she wanted to see the movie. So I was opened to it and figured we could talk a little bit before the movie started and went on from there.

[–]SilverGryphon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aye, coffee dates are the way to go, wort case scenario you'd only be losing a very minimal amount of money.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

No doubt Cheaters had "creative editing" but wasn't the dude seriously knifed?

[–]SuperCrazy07 0 points1 point  (1 child)

A quick google search shows it was faked.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confirmed, and unsurprising.

[–]huruma 13 points14 points  (1 child)

It's some stupid TV show? Not sure I can consider this reliable

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 29 points30 points  (2 children)

What the fuck is that nose?

Anyway, ham beast incoming. If they are planing your meal as well as their own, they have some serious caloric intake plans.

[–]VenusHypergamy[S] 15 points16 points  (1 child)

True, she's going land whale once she settles down. Girls who purposely eat less on dates due to insecurity of being seen as fat are the ones you should shoot for.

[–]Buncha_Cunts 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I say you should shoot for girls with a realistic grasp on healthy body weight who strive to obtain it because they want to be in good health. Skinny chicks with insecurities over being fat are fucking annoying. Needy little attention whores. The fit chicks that work out and are happy with their body because of it are where its at.

[–]jesuslovesmemes 109 points110 points  (19 children)

British women are so fucking ugly and trashy

[–]1empatheticapathetic 43 points44 points  (1 child)

Straight up common slag this woman is.

[–]PokeyTifu99 15 points16 points  (1 child)

The way she says chips made me cringe.

[–]ThaChippa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't joke about that. That's not funny.

[–]rorrr 14 points15 points  (1 child)

The waitress seemed way more nice and human.

[–]sourdieselfuel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He should have hollered at her was my thinking.

[–]thedude213 27 points28 points  (4 children)

I wouldn't paint with that broad of brush, but she's totally a chav that watched some makeup contouring tutorials on YouTube, but her heavy cockney accent is pretty much the equivalent of a really trashy southern accent in the US, it really advertises how trashy she is.

[–]DevilishRogue 18 points19 points  (3 children)

Her accent is Estuary, not Cockney, but it 100% does advertise how trashy she is.

[–]LuvBeer 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Agree, not cockney, sounds more like Hampshire to me, not sure if that's Estuary

[–]nazis_are_socialists 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Tattoos are a huge red flag. Immediately tells me everything I need to know about a woman: she's not LTR material.

[–]LuvBeer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But on the flipside non-white British ie UK-born black, indian/pakistani ("asian") and other non-white British are super classy compared to their US counterparts and they love the US accent, which is looked down upon by many white English women.

[–]Snazzy_Serval 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lucy Pinder, Rachel Williams, Stacey Poole and many other women who were in Zoo or Nuts.

Like women of all ethnicities, British women can be attractive or not so attractive.

[–]InternetHateDevice 0 points1 point  (3 children)

British people in general just seem to be goofy looking. Maybe I'm just a spoiled American though.

[–]Reformed65 6 points7 points  (0 children)

uwot m8? u fookin' wot? i swear on me nan yh i'll fookin bash your head in i will INNIT BRUV U WANT BEEF? COME WASH WOT I DO 2 U AFTE' SKOOL YH?!

[–]Bottled_Void 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Are we talking celebs or your regular every day people? Either way, I imagine there are a good number of British celebs you didn't realise were British. And regular people? Well, the world is full of oddities.

[–]InternetHateDevice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just regular people I guess. Apparently I'm not alone in that observation.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/travel/news/the-most-googled-questions-about-britain-in-europe/

[–]selfsufficientnigga 1 points1 points [recovered]

Poor man.

When the bitch started ordering him around, I would have just told the waitress to please come back a little later.

[–]Sativa_Dreams 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And when she got back the girl would have mysteriously disappeared.

[–]1Goomich 7 points8 points  (2 children)

First impression: terrible voice and tattoo. When waitress told him that she's left, I thought he should be quite happy.

[–]downvotesanimals 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I get the sense that he was.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 8 points9 points  (1 child)

She has the most obnoxious cunty voice I've ever heard. Could be the specific british chick accent, but holy shit.

[–]Neutral_User_Name 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like your writing style! Despite English clearly not being your first language, your thoughts and ideas come across perfectly clear. You must be entertaining to read (or hang out with) in your mother tongue!

[–]adultman5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a basic hoe that knows what she wants. Either a rich BB or AF chad.

To be fair this guy can't handle a hoe like this girl, it's obvious she's dominating him.

She immediately has put him in the possible BB provider category because he's nothing like Chad and can't get a hoe like this just for fucking. Trust me, this girl acts differently when she puts you in the Chad category, usually 10 seconds into seeing you.

Props to the guy for not giving in.

[–]lovecraftbro 11 points12 points  (4 children)

Wow she's disgusting. What accent is this btw? I don't like it.

[–]DevilishRogue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The accent is called Estuary English. It is commonly found in Essex and Kent but also permeates parts of London and even the nicer surrounding counties.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 6 points7 points  (2 children)

Always have two in the kiddie.

Pook

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 22 points23 points  (12 children)

Luckily he had strong frame and was able to shut her down before falling in her trap

No he didn't. This is not what strong frame looks like.

He stood up to her, and fair play for that.

But he smiled. He negotiated. He asked questions. He speculated. He laughed nervously. He tried to get her to agree with his point, rather than "nope, this is how it is".

Fair play to him for standing up to her, but he could have done it better. She's terrible, but she's also reacting to him. Had she detected strength, she might have behaved better.

[–]1empatheticapathetic 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Everything she did was a shit test. He may have applied simple boundaries but he didn't show her he can give it back to her as good as she can give it. He was too polite aka boring. If he didn't fall into her alpha spectrum, and refused to fall into the BB spectrum, he is of no use to her, so she'll create her own fun and leave in the middle of the date.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To be fair (assuming this wasn't staged), there were cameras all over him and her, not to mention a full camera crew. He was trying his best to be polite.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 10 points11 points  (8 children)

Yeah, you can see he struggled. And despite knowing she was a titanic cunt and clearly better off with her gone, he looked oddly disappointed at the end. Fuck that. I would have asked the waitress for a bourbon and her number.

Er.... or do they shoot people for ordering bourbon in limeyland?

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 6 points7 points  (6 children)

he looked oddly disappointed at the end

This looked like it was for the cameras. ie the film crew say "just sit there and look sad". Framing him as the jilted victim, making him look sad... even though it was clearly her being a cunt.

Women watching though.... will think "hmmm she could have played that better". They'll decry her actions, but they all do exactly the same thing when they marry. They're just playing the long con rather than the quick buck.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 7 points8 points  (5 children)

they all do exactly the same thing when they marry.

I haven't been on a 'first date' in 25 years but I was sure I recognized this behavior.

You tagged it! She is acting like a wife.

Take note fellows. THIS is what almost all of them act like within a couple weeks of saying the vows.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 17 points18 points  (4 children)

THIS is what almost all of them act like within a couple weeks of saying the vows

You have to realise what marriage looks like for women.

"So.... I can lose my job... stay at home... get fat... and you have to support me.... and then if we get a divorce... you have to support me ..... and for my part, I have to do .... absolutely nothing right? except not get caught cheating? I DO!!!"

[–]1empatheticapathetic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Perfect marriage summary really

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 1 point2 points  (1 child)

In most States it makes no difference if she gets caught cheating. The Husband/ex still has to pay even when she is living with her rich Chad in your house that you continue to pay for because the rule is still the same. The man has to pay.

If the situation is reversed, as in my case, where the woman makes most of the money do you know what the rule is? The man has to pay.

[–]VenusHypergamy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah sure but he didn't completely roll over is what I mean. Like he still walked a fine line between being authoritarian and still keeping up a good vibe. Could have had stronger frame though, you are right.

[–]Augustine2017 9 points10 points  (1 child)

"Rat with makeup"

Best thing I've read all day. Mind if I steal this?

[–]VenusHypergamy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something something steal -Picasso

[–]-uftw- 5 points6 points  (1 child)

You're wrong criticizing her for not "standing up for her own actions".

Women are very rarely confrontational with men for obvious reasons. You don't realize that the cuck society we live in right now is very recent in terms of evolutionary behavior.

Before that, bad things were likely to happen to women who spoke up to men. They developed other strategies to show disapproval. That's why they're flaky.

Remember the story of the turtle & the scorpion? Don't blame the scorpion for being a scorpion.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe not "blame" but I am going to want to rip off that stinger before I let it get on my back next time.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 5 points6 points  (3 children)

Guys guys guys guys!!!!!

If a girl on a first date (or second or third) starts trying to take control you have ONE move....RUN. Don't look back. Just run. This girl is looking for a man to dominate and steal from. She will suck his husk dry leave him a shell of a man with no assets.

Just...RUN!

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorRian_Stone 8 points9 points  (2 children)

Well, tell her to shut up first. Some times, all it takes is a stern voice for proper bitch management.

[–]Patriarchysaurus 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I once told a coke slut who was raving incessantly about how spiritual she was to just shut the fuck up-- and sex happened pretty much right after.

Oh, and she had a boyfriend too. She even showed me his Facebook and their pictures together.

[–]Endorsed Contributorleftajar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We should be grateful to British women; they give us a sneak peek of how American women will act after another 10-20 years of unchecked Third Wave Feminism.

[–]segagaga 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Posting English girls is fine, if anything they are even more stuck-up and dishonest. She is an excellent example of the kind of bullshit you have to deal with.

[–]sweetleef 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"[to intervjuer] Past exes have been mean to me"

Never met a woman who didn't have an "abusive past relationship" story to some degree or another.

They can't distinguish between emotional state and reality, are completely self-centered, and avoid personal responsibility at all costs. So once the relationship fails they have to justify it by concocting a negative depiction of the guy - if they feel bad it's because someone else caused it so the guy must be bad, if the relationship failed it's because someone else failed so the guy is at fault, etc.

[–]2CHAD_J_THUNDERCOCK 9 points10 points  (3 children)

The waitress is the real villain here. His date is a bitch sure but thots gonna thot. But that waitress was immensely disrespectful to her customer by choosing not only to get involved but to side with Thot and start asking here what sauces her blind date wanted. They both created a frame where the polite young guy was being treated as a fucking child.

Poor lad likely had never received such nuclear shittests out of nowhere before. He was physically out of her league too so working to blast those shittests out of the water was a waste of time and energy as it would be building attraction to somebody he is repulsed by.

Only winning move is not to play and to leave. But he is on TV and there is an unwritten rule that he should go through with the date. Then the slut does it anyway and bails on him. LOL. The entire Frame was rigged to destroy him from the beginning.

[–]VenusHypergamy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I genuinely think waitress was just put between a rock and a hard place. There's tension at the table and as the 3rd party she is forced to mediate or as she puts it "compromise". She's not RP so she's not thinking about frame and power. She's just thinking "she wants to order for him, he doesn't. Let's meet in the middle, she can order his side that's a fair compromise right?". Plus, women logic is generallh more heavily taxed under stress

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The waitress is the real villain here.

But you can tell she had it with that cunt to about halfway through it, particularly when she whipped out her phone. The look on her face.

Anyway, I would have tried to pull the waitress right then and there. Far better looking, a voice that does make you want to take ice picks to your ears and that ass. Her: "Are you ok?" Me: "Do you think I was being too polite by putting up with that thing as long as I did?" ...

[–]V_M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You make good points in general but not specifically WRT this individual waitress. If you think of this waitress as a /trp/ reader and believer, then the whole narrative you gave, has to flip. Consider:

Waitress is a 8/10, maybe higher under those clothes and hair, and she knows it and even when her employer forces her into a uniform and hairstyle that desexualizes her so as not to intimidate the lower value female customers, shes smoking when viewed next to the somewhat overfed 4/10 date-girl. I'm not into boys so I have trouble estimating boys level but his hair is WTF and he commits weak non-alpha behavior so I'd have trouble giving the boy more than a 7/10, and that's being nice. The waitress may very well be riding the CC and knows in just a few seconds that date boy is below her level, but date girl is worse, she's "insulting community standards" by being so incredibly below the date boy's level. The waitress is /ourgirl/ because she sees date girl shit testing date boy, and she sees non-alpha 7/10 date boy doesn't know how to play the game as well as she does, so RIGHT out of freaking /TRP/, the waitress puts on the "hey little brother this is how you agree and amplify in response to a shit test". This also means there's no way 7/10 date boy is taking 8/10+ waitress home tonight. The waitress is red pilled and if date boy were a little more alpha and correctly responded to shit tests without his "big sister waitress" showing him how to be a man, he could totally have gone home with the waitress. The waitress is not bad looking from what I saw in the video, much hotter than date-girl. Maybe she looks terrible up close, I donno, but at first glance, not bad.

I mean, lets say the waitress was a alpha male waiter who reads /trp/, and he demonstrated for the weak date boy an example of agree and amplify in response to a shit test. He'd really be a bro then, right? However in reality the waitress is just as /trp/ but is also a fairly hot woman, but her gender and hotness isn't her fault...

At least that's the way I saw it and interpreted it. How you assume the TRP status of the waitress initially, colors how she looks thru the whole video. In summary I got the feeling she's reading this subreddit right now, which gave me an entirely different interpretation of her.

Here's an interesting strange alternative theory about the whole video: Waitress is on the prowl and wants date-boy but doesn't know if he's up to her power level, so the true meta story is SHE the waitress is shit testing date-boy to see if he's alpha enough to let him bang her, so waitress is egging on ugly date-girl and kinda showing off for date-boy. The real "romance story" isn't the ugly ducking with prince charming and the ducking flies the coop, the real "romance story" is date-boy was just a little too beta to end up banging the smoking hot waitress. Its not a romance story about an ugly chick at all, its a story about a slightly too beta boy missing out on a hottie. I mean, come on, at the end of the video the waitress is practically asking date-boy to flirt with her. Think of the last seconds of the video if the waitress were an alpha male waiter ... clearly the waitress kinda wanted the D but wasn't sure.

[–]chauncy_popperstein 5 points6 points  (3 children)

This is breaking the rules. "No examples from FICTION or lyrics"

This is "reality" tv. It is 100% staged.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Staged or not it is reality for many men on first dates.

[–]the_butt_expert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol posting reality TV shows as proof of anything. It's on TV cause people find this appalling. Not only that the main reality TV viewer is a woman. So they are literally talking to their fan base.

This show is literally doing a skit to women saying "this is so fucked up we had to hire actors to try to make it a touch believable be appalled" and you think there is actually a real woman out there that would do this hahahahaha.

Also the "analysis" of this is hilarious. If anyone acted like that in real life it would legitimately be a mental illness.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus, he's kinda good looking too...

[–]Jonlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lololol. Women will use any and all avenues, from public shaming, to mob rule in order to get what they want out of a man to provide for them. They're so clever (or completely insane) that they're now using big daddy government (along with local government and the family courts) to do the heavy lifting for them. Using white knights to enforce these laws to make men pay up. How charming. I can't wait to get married 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[–]untitled_redditor 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I'm of two minds about this. 1) She is annoying, and I think, clearly lying the whole time. Seems super insecure and disingenuous. Bottom line I don't think she was attracted to him, at all. I mean, look at the marks all over his pale weak looking face. I think she was on TV and had decided to bail the moment she saw him. Everything she did and said was a half ass act. 2) He seemed like a class act. Strong, confident, etc. Even though he isn't a good looking person I'm sure he'll be fine and go far in life.

[–]destraht 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hilarious shit is hanging out with a late middle aged man who is poor physical shape and a few women sent him their drinking bill. Fortunately he declined.

[–]oldslut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would never have taken a chick out to dinner on a first date anyway, but, with that said, if i had been there, i would have bailed before the food even arrived. a hb5 that thinks she's an 11

[–]fromthecrypt8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What an absolute disgrace of a human being she is. Your interpretation of her statements is spot on. Thank the heavens the chap had strong frame. What a fuckin cunt she was, so damaged.

[–]Ech0shift 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Video is gone can someone please link.

[–]kingofshapes 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Look guys, I know it's easy to rally against bitches like this when it's so painfully obvious there is everything wrong with this girl, but you are all a bunch of morons to even consider this reality TV bullshit as authentic. Yes, "women" like this exist and have pulled this shit 100 times over, but when this makes the front page of TRP and everyone starts circle jerking about how women are terrible, that doesn't do anything to help the problem or help you evolve as a man.

[–]TimGuoRen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This video is so scripted and they are not even trying to hide it.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holly shit what a sheep she is...

[–]LadyChelseaFaye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like she is the reason she's not dating someone. Instead of her exes not being nice to her she was probably so self absorbed that they ended it with her.

[–]Dubalicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have told the waitress that I wasn't paying for her meal or sent a collection agency to her house after something like that.

Lmao come on now, this bitch doesn't deserve another thought. Small payment to be rid of her.

[–]hodltaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AWALT this one is just a little more honest about it. He should have drawn the line in a serious manner and if she gave him any lip stood up and walked.

[–]CaptainToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gross! I would have ended this after the first minute.

[–]Eltiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol i left a comment last bight on that /videos post. I referened the red pill and got downvoted to the second ring of hell

[–]ilikemychickenfried 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was hit with the ugly stick pretty hard

[–]cherno_electro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you understand it's television ? it's basically fiction

[–]Enigma221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women are cunts. End of story.

[–]wickedogg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His shock at the waitress was hilarious, it was like she couldn't figure out that there was no way that girl would leave her a tip.

[–]Myc0n1k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And women have the audacity to be feminists in the USA/England. Shit makes me sick.

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