From personal experience, female teachers sleeping with students perfectly exemplifies red pill theory (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Legendary_Squirrel

A little backstory. I fooled around with my high school english teacher my senior year. Now I was 18, she was 32, and this was only a few months before graduation and continued as a summer fling, so not as scandalous as most of these stories. And unless you've been living under a rock, you shouldn't be the least bit skeptical or surprised. Just look up some of these stats on student teacher relationships and they are staggering. Hundreds every year. And those are just the ones that get reported. The vast majority don't. We're talking thousands of cases easily every year, and that's being conservative.

Most of these teachers are fairly attractive, especially for their age. Many are married. Why the hell are female teachers hooking up with guys half their age with nothing to offer? They have no money. No career. Can't offer commitment. Can't offer security. Can't offer any emotional support. Have nothing in common. They have nothing that society tells us women should want - in others words, beta traits.

That's because, as red pill tells us, none of that actually matters to women. And these guys are red pilled as fuck, they just don't know it. To understand this, you have to look at it from the female teacher's perspective. Although she is attractive, she is in an environment that will bring out all of her insecurities. Ever wonder why jacked bodybuilders always think they're too small even though their bigger than 99 percent of the population? It's because they surround themselves with that other 1 percent.

So that teacher has to be surrounded everyday by hundreds of girls that are half her age - younger, prettier, and more desired. Now the male student, while just a normal guy, is very alpha in his environment. He might be very athletic, might be very popular and outgoing with lots of friends, or in my case just a cute guy that attracted many girls. He's dating and talking to so many girls without any sense of responsibility or commitment.

So the guy offers her something she isn't getting, and that's validation. That's excitement. She knows the guy is basically a kid, and wants nothing more than sex. She knows he's in his sexual prime and his hormones are raging, and that there will never be anything more. She knows she can never be with him. She knows he doesn't truly love her, or even know what love is yet. And that's why she wants it so bad.

This happened 9 years ago for me. I actually ended up catching a lot of feelings for her, but things eventually died out. I graduated college, got a job, became more mature, and started being their for her emotionally. I was a more "successful" person in every way, but looking back, that is why things died out. Because she didn't want those things, she wanted to be fucked in a car on a Friday night in the football parking lot.

Maybe this is just me reflecting on a completely anecdotal experience, but I think we really need to look more closely at this student teacher epidemic and what the driving motivations are

[–]complyordie222 189 points190 points  (12 children)

Its not even because the female classmates are younger/prettier that the teacher feels a need to compete, its solely because these class mates are receiving validation that she is not. The teacher feels compelled to act out of her sense of solipsism - she needs to prove that she is more deserving.

[–]Troll_Name 121 points122 points  (7 children)

If a male teacher sleeps with a female student, he's a monster.

If a female teacher sleeps with a male student, he's a hero.

Women have no agency.

[–]GreasedLightning 21 points22 points  (1 child)

If a female teacher sleeps with a male student, he's a hero.

And she's at a low point in her life, struggling with her relationship, did nothing wrong (They get dindus), etc. etc. Women look out for women, men look out for women.

Edit: To put this in red pillspeak: Snowflake rationalization hamsters and white knights gonna rationalize the carousel riders away.

[–]anticommon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just can't wait for the time when if an underage guy has sex with a woman who is not only older but also his superior he ends up getting labeled a sex offender for being part of coitus that involved a minor.

[–]fenghsui 4 points5 points  (2 children)

You might not think it matters all that much, but they do. They're always conscious of it, when they get to 30. Hyperaware of being around younger and prettier girls. My longtime oneitis, now ex, is now 30, and the change is startling in the way she thinks. The Wall is real.

[–]UHT_RED 1 points1 points [recovered]

The wall IS 30. I've seen the change in every girl I know the minute they hit 30. They start seeking the validation, when it used to just come to them by the wheel barrow. It's glorious to observe. It's like half of any value they have goes out the window because they will it out the window themselves. A total panic show.

[–]cherryCanSuckMyDick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so the wall isnt necessarily exactly at 30, but round number bias makes it seem that way

[–]GreasedLightning 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Had a highschool teacher I regularly spoke with at lunch way back. Solid 8/10. Never forgot how amusing it was watching her cut across the basketball court while the guys were playing a game. Everyone stopped to stare. Girls would pre-emptively cover for their jealousy if you mentioned her. "Oh, she's nice." Heh.

Edit: In red pillspeak: 8/10 post-prime's with steadily declining SMV wish they could ride the carousel in-front of them daily, even if it possibly costs them felony charges. It makes them feel like the 10/10 they were a decade prior.

[–]LateralThinker13 90 points91 points  (0 children)

That... actually explains a lot. Thank you.

[–]rick-br 32 points33 points  (9 children)

Interesting point of view, man!

But that doesnt explain several cases were teachers have sex with 12 year old boys... or does it?

That sort of thing doesnt happen very often here in Brazil.

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor 41 points42 points  (3 children)

Arousal is a middle brain function. So is the excitement from doing something they know they shouldn't be doing. Don't expect a rational explanation for any of this.

That said, I'm glad the younger folks are taking one for the team and keeping the post-wall hags busy. I'll be busy fucking their peers. They can go dumpster diving.

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (1 child)

sigh....we're all dumpster diving when it comes down to it

[–]rigbed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re living in a dumpster

[–]rick-br 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Don't expect a rational explanation for any of this."

So true!

[–]StuttererXXX 26 points27 points  (1 child)

"That sort of thing doesnt happen very often here in Brazil."

Because you don't hear about it.

[–]GraphThis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lack of evidence is not evidence. It may be happening and not reported but we are flirting with conspiracy theories when we commit to this kind of statement IMO.

[–]D41211 12 points13 points  (2 children)

I think that such concepts are more apparent in countries like the US as the women there have long lost the honour, respect and decorum of previous generations

[–]rick-br 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Brazilian girls are also sluts... but I've never been into US, so I can't compare.

[–]rmandan 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you bro, all girls are sluts

[–]MarvelousWhale 26 points27 points  (1 child)

I was in 6th grade, in my state it's the first grade of middle school, and my favorite class was science growing up, I always enjoyed experimenting and watching those documentaries.

I go to my new science class for the first time in 6th grade and we had a couple "special" students in my class which meant they had an assistant teacher for them, every time she would be called over to help one of them out she would bend over sticking her ass out and, I am not fuckin with you, she would glide her hand across her ass as she bent over with her ass pointed right at me. She had a black string thong that was pulled so far up her ass I swear she was wearing overalls the first time I saw it.

I had a completely new reason to love science class that year.

[–]WorldNewPilla 39 points40 points  (2 children)

I feel like in the only one that his high school teachers were a bunch of old ugly as fuck bitches.

[–]Friendly_Friends 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right there with you! Not a single teacher I would have poked if they had put themselves on a platter for me.

[–]Tommynat0r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had some fucking hot teachers but I went to an all boys school so the pressure to compete just wasn't there. I never heard of anyone sleeping with a teacher at my school and I'm pretty certain the all boy aspect was the cause of it.

[–]whiteslimshady 43 points44 points  (11 children)

I was a more "successful" person in every way, but looking back, that is why things died out. Because she didn't want those things,

The more I practice game and read the material here, it seems to me that women don't want a successful guy that the red pill encourages us to become. Women just want a fuck toy. A guy who is fun, sexual, and available when she wants it.

[–]red_matrix 46 points47 points  (1 child)

In a classroom setting - the jock/Quarterback guy is the 'alpha' and the teacher is competing (subconsciously?) with the other hot 17 y.o. girls. Environment somehow creates a new kind of social dynamic.

[–][deleted] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

15-18 yo females have the highest SMV. She wants to know she can compete

[–]PowerVitamin[🍰] 10 points11 points  (2 children)

Depends who you are competing with. We are here to tell you to train so that you can compete in an adult world environment. In any situation where a male (degenerate) is surrounded by other females, he will be getting layed. Competing in this environment is easy. Any man who can compete in a real world environment surrounded by men will have an easy time in an environment surrounded by young girls.

I think it's real telling that teachers feel dread. Enormous dread. Especially reaching 30. Remember, women are not traditional hunters. If they have to hunt, they are very desperate. And... what is the closest piece of meat? With whom, they actually already have a relationship with? And maybe a stubborn one? Giving her feels? Giving other young girls attention? ....Yah, this isn't uncommon. This is regular evolution. Women are thirsty a few days a month (but don't adequately prepare their dateing pipeline), and men are thirsty all the time. So, all you have to do as a man, is continuously hit on women in till you find a thirsty one. Then you're playing by your game.

[–]whiteslimshady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah this is true we're improving to knock through the crazy shit life throws at us not just women.

[–]Rob_Dead 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes of course they do. They want everything on their terms; with none of the responsibilities that should come with it.

[–]Neutral_User_Name 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's at least a 2-stage process. You are describing the first one, the cc phase. Which is followed by the "post-wall / settling down" period, where she will actively be looking for a betabux. But apparently it does not stop some of them to cc!

[–]freshtrax 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As long as it's a break from their hum drum life. In my experience they want variety and excitement. They love the sneaking, the filthy chats, the flirting, and being a completely different person in a different world. Its a vacation from real life. That is why so many married women cheat. Its the thrill and excitement of someone who is totally into them. The part they often forget is that the men are motivated only by sex and are often hurt when they wake up and realize this.

[–]dingman58 0 points1 point  (1 child)

You improve yourself for yourself, not for women.

[–]whiteslimshady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just looking to get laid more by quality women man.

[–]TooHoly999 9 points10 points  (2 children)

Just curious as to how the relationship was started. Surely the teacher gave you subtle hints and you acted upon them, correct?

[–]IlIIllIllII 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I'm also curious about this

[–]Aktiv8r 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this was copy pasta'd from or to /pol/. Either way, good on you anon.

[–]__ROOSTER__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

there are also some stats I remember from a long time ago that male HS teachers have a hard time getting married. The theory being passed around at the time was their standards are way out of whack because they are around prime girls constantly.

[–]conradsymes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This began with flirting? Who invited whom?

[–]1UPZ_ 3 points4 points  (1 child)

It's that but also, because the teacher is around you almost every day causing an attraction, especially if you matured quick and showed a mature physical build.

Its why a lot of people cheat with co-workers rather than randoms... although these days hook-up apps are probably safer because people can tell co-workers who hook-up and rumours fly quickly after that.

If someone finds you attractive and vice versa, hang around long enough and things will happen.

And also, as mentioned the teacher also wanted to one-up the younger women around her rubbing their youth to her face... she needed that validation right there and then.

Women spends a lot of money on clothing, beauty products etc. Not just to lure a man... but to out-shine other women.

[–]NYCMusicalMarathon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because she didn't want those things, she wanted to be fucked in a car on a Friday night in the football parking lot.

A man has to do what a man has to do.

OK teach, off with the panties.

[–]buddhadarko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"she wanted to be fucked in a car on a Friday night in the football parking lot."

It's funny, but if you were to ask women if this is what they really want, they'd all say no and that behavior like this is for "tramps" and "sluts" but it's exactly what they fantasize about and talk about to their girlfriends.

[–]imabadasstrustme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So that teacher has to be surrounded everyday by hundreds of girls that are half her age - younger, prettier, and more desired.

Damn that's so insane, I never thought of it like that. Really good analysis, sounds on point.

[–]iamtheswoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I'm so envious, that would have been fun.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teachers are red pilled as fuck about this subject.

My friend slept with the music teacher for quite a while. Everyone knew, kids would make jokes about it in other classes TO teachers. It was brushed under the carpet. The older teachers probably had it happen even more and that's why they weren't pressing for rape charges.

[–]whoareyou31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Same shit happened to me except much more recently. Started an "affair" less than a year ago with someone a decade older than me. Lasted for 2 months then she kinda just stopped wanting to see me. Instead of just smashing and leaving, I started spending more time with her. Now we dont even talk. Lesson learned though.

[–]czatara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is the double standard, stupid!

[–]throw_thisshit_away 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait you said you had a fling after you graduated high school and you were still together when you graduated college?

[–]TheReformist94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DING DING.WE HAVE A WINNER.SOMEONE WHO GETS IT. Men are not the gateholders of commitment. Those are BB traits.

[–]logicalthinker1 1 point2 points  (5 children)

Disagree. It's a rare case. Women are human too and some are weird. They like sex and were probably just horny. Just that simple.

[–]paulkersey1999 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i don't think it's that simple. they can get sex anyplace, yet they choose to risk their jobs and even jail time because they need to have sex with a student or students. i do not know what the actual explanation is, but it can't be "they are just horny".

[–]1yeahmaybe2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many of these women are also near or postwall.

[–]BillSander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I concur, doctor do you concur?

[–]Curia-DD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, I'm a teacher and this kinda makes sense sorta

[–]dagymislife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder how teacher-student relationships even begin. Like, who tf initiates? And whoever does so firstly, isn't that a major risk?

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really. They can physically look very similar.