I've read many posts about guys being used as an ATM without even realizing it. I just figured out I'm being used as a cock to ride on. I'm not mad, but I must admit I'm a bit confused.
So I've had this plate. She let's me do whatever I want, and she comes over whenever I ask. She's a great conversation, we have the same taste in music and we like the same movies. We just have fun together in general. She's only ever once asked me to pay for something (place was cash only, she venmoed me layer)It's great. I'm thinking she's potential LTR material.
Last night was one of those times. We bang and she goes to the bathroom after. As I'm laying in bed her phone goes off and look over. She had gotten a text from some dude saying "I love you baby have a great night". She gets back and bed and gives me a kiss, and I ask her if she had a boyfriend. My friends, I've never seen a hamster spin so fast, she gives a tornado a run for it's money. She told me all about how she loves him so much it's just that he lives long distance and she needs to feel physical with someone. I chuckle And say, to each their own, if you two are comfortable with an open relationship, more power to you guys. (Im never judgmental, it gets me nowhere and im a degenerate, not a hypocrite.) She says "oh no, he doesnt know. If he figired out he would leave me, and (here's the kicker) he's paying for my tuition." Big shock, a girl cheating on her provider. It's not her fault of course, it's not like she chose a school 5 states away, and God forbid she have to wait a month to get laid.
The only thing that still confuses me is why would she pretend to want to commit to me, that's something guys usually do. Whatever, I'm getting laid.
TL;DR Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks, and it's not always obvious what side you're on.