I want to contribute this because my last submission was more of a demand.
Law 38: Think as you like but behave like others.
If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness.
It seems as if I've seen wealthy, decent looking, and a great deal of guys who don't seem to have anything wrong with them struggle to get with decent looking girls themselves. While it is obvious if an overweight neckbeard or a socially awkward guy with no game struggles, it is not as obvious when a guy who might appear to be perfectly normal struggles with women himself. After thinking more and more about it, I've come to realize why a lot of guys, especially those on subs like these, struggle with women.
You're struggling because you're socially disconnected.
While we preach a great deal about "going your own way" and "fuck society's norms", the reality is that most of you who are struggling come off as out of touch. There are a select few guys who can play the rebel image off well but most of you who are struggling are the kinds of guys who will walk up to Chads and Staceys and talking about MMORPGs.
To put it bluntly, most good looking younger women would be embarrassed of being seen around you. There is nothing about you or your lifestyle they find interesting or enviable enough! You're just not fun, nothing about you or your lifestyle gives women that rush to want to get with you.
The way your social life and the lifestyle you portray plays a big role in how a lot of hot girls perceive you because it is a display of your status. High status guys have a high status social life where they are friends with quality people who know where the next big party is going to be and show case the kind of life women want to be a part of. A lot of these guys have those flashy social media accounts with a lot of followers, likes, and pics of them doing cool shit.
Is it fake? Who knows but it is all about the way these guys present themselves to the world, they are masters of image while a lot of you who are struggling are not. Women want a part in that, they want to be in that next pic with the guy smiling with his friends and other hot girls, they have created a life women want to be a part of. What this guy managed to get right is he created a lifestyle that hot girls envy and they want to conquer him for it, even if they hate him, they can't stop thinking about him.
For most younger attractive women, I am going to say that a lifestyle which showcases a lot of partying, a big social circle, and always doing cool stuff like traveling is a hit. If it can be showcased on a social media with a lot of followers and likes, it is an even bigger hit. Not saying you necessarily have to do this but it is an option that cannot fail, other alternatives out there exist as well.
You don't have to go that far with it but you have to show that you "get it" and are in touch with the times, however that may be.
While this sub is a gold mine of information, being on it too long leads to guys having a lot of struggles.
The reason being because so much of this sub is bitter, things like building a social life are frowned upon, social media is often attacked, and anti-social behaviors such as talking to people about your nerdy hobbies are encouraged. There is often a bitter and "us against them" mentality which makes it difficult for someone spending too much time on here to relate to most people. Being an anti-social guy who has no friends is somehow spun around by some on here as being "alpha" because you don't conform.
Most of you struggling failed to apply law 38, you're out of touch and too "strange" in the eyes of society for anyone to want to associate with you.
Being on this sub too much doesn't help because a lot of things such as building a social circle and putting yourself in social situations are frowned upon, they're seen as try hard or "blue pill" activities. A lot of you fall into this nasty cycle, shut yourself off from society, become unrelatable, and it shows when you struggle. To some degree, women want men that are somewhat in touch with society and can be introduced to their friends without embarrassing them.
You are struggling because you just can't connect with most others like you and this drives women away because it means you lack social awareness.