Field Report[FR] First night f-close on my gym crush (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222

TLDR; hb9 goes from unreceptive on one approach to receptive the next and is seduced over a workout/dinner despite hard ASD and LMR.

I've found that girls from the gym make excellent plates. The super fit ones make for great fucks that don't party as hard on weekends and normally have their shit together more than your ordinary heathenous bar wenchs. And let's be honest here.. dat ass tho.

It's been said here before that the gym should be for "working out only" or you "shouldn't shit where you eat" there either. My dudes.. You're surrounded by hot girls wearing the sexiest gym attire they can to get attention from alpha male jacked motherfuckers like us (you are lifting heavy aren't you?) so we will approach them and eventually fuck their brains out. Whether that is at the gym or not makes no fucking difference to them. Is spending 5 minutes chatting up a hottie and grabbing her number twice a week going to be the death of your routine? Fuck no. Don't be ridiculous. Seize opportunities EVERYWHERE. I still get my work in and my physique speaks for itself. Don't let a voice in your head that says "well TRP said not to approach at the gym so..." be your excuse not to practice cold approaching hotties/generating potential plates.

Through this attitude, nearly every person at my gym worth their salt knows me (massive social proof). In under a year I've hooked up with 5 girls from my gym alone. I flirt with everyone; milfs, married trainers, and smokeshows. I'm not socially ostracized at all for this either. They love it if your a fun guy that genuinely doesn't give a fuck about the outcome.


So this asian 19 y.o. HB9 is 5'5 with an absolutely insane waist to ass ratio. She models every weekend and when she walks in with her mesh yoga pants, and sports top that shows off her abs, all eyes are on her and she knows it. If you workout at any halfway decent gym you know of the type of girl I'm referring to. Resting bitch face, doesn't look you in the eye type. Just puts in her headphones and gets to work.

Me, 26, I watched her pull up her yoga pants tight and that was it, I was already in motion to go talk to her. This is key, your not debating whether not to go up and talk to her because by that time you're already walking up to talk to her. Between me seeing that and approaching was probably 2 seconds. My lifting buddy who knows me well just laughed and said "saw that coming already".

She was so unreceptive; saw me coming near her and turned away from me and pretended to check her phone. "Hi, I'm Metalgear" She didn't hear me (though I suspect she did) so I just tap her arm and she spins around takes one bud out and says, "Oh are you using this? I'll move" I said "No, I'm Metalgear" and put out my hand. She shook it half-assuredly and mumbled "nice to meet you..." Continuing, I said "don't I know you from somewhere?" She just scoffed and shook her head and said "No" as she put her bud back in and completely ignored me. She glanced at me in the mirror, I smirked and went back to finishing my workout.

Now the old me's faggot hamster would of gone in overdrive with "what a bitch she is" or "she's so cold. I don't want to know her anyway". Instead I remembered I had just recently reread /u/MikeHaines HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD and simply chalked it up to her testing my frame to see if it would buckle under pressure. The key lesson here is I wholeheartedly believed that she wanted to fuck me, but that she needed to verify my masculinity first.

Sure enough, the next time I approached her she was all smiles. WAY more receptive and I had time to tease her and get to know her a bit. Turns out she is trying to get a NASM cert for personal training. I had already got mine and have been a trainer already. I used this as my in to workout with her and "teach her some things". (demonstrating Mastery)

I grabbed her number and didn't text her until almost midnight (As a rule of thumb, I never immediately text after closing a number. It demonstrates lack of abundance imo). All I said was, "hey! thursday 6:00, see u there" (texting for logistics only). She waited 90 minutes for, "Sounds good!" This girl is glued to her phone often throughout her workout so I know she's playing the game. Good to keep in mind.

I ended up seeing her wednesday where I teased her for looking tired as hell and wearing no make-up. I've found that teasing is an absolute must for gorgeous girls. They are so used to being put on a pedestal that it's a jolt to their psyche when they meet a guy who doesn't kiss their ass just cause their hot. I didn't linger, I just confirmed our workout for the next day. ignore her beauty

During the workout, I made it a point to initiate kino as much as possible without coming off as needy. I verified the size of her hand by putting mine up to it to see if she should use a standard barbell or woman's. I made her twirl around to check out her physique and poked her abs to check for hardness. She giggled and loved it. I held her back down on bent over rows so she couldn't cheat the reps. I squeezed her lats when telling her where to pull from on pulldowns. All of my kino was done without fear. Touching is fucking powerful and she wasn't surprised or unreceptive at all because of her initial impression of me as a confident guy.

Towards the end of the workout, I asked her if she likes to hottub after workouts and invited her to join. She didn't have her suit with her so I pushed for her to join me for dinner instead. I had already planned on inviting her to my pad and making a solid tasty post-workout meal. I'm super proud of my home, it's hooked the fuck up and most girls are amazed that it's not an average "man-cave" when they walk in. (demonstrating maturity and value)

We talk and I teased her about her liking country music and not knowing classic movies like pulp fiction. She asks if I've seen a series on netflix yet.. I reply no and she said, "we HAVE to watch it!" I smirk and think to myself, "there's the plausible deniability she needs to not feel like a slut and still fuck me".

The LMR with this girl was REAL. I had to 2 steps forward 1 step back at least 10 times; each time getting further. Finally, her LMR was crushed when I brought up the topic of sex. I just started asking all kinds of questions about it, knowing it would get her aroused. "Whats the craziest place you've had sex? What position is your favorite, whats your fantasy, have you ever been tied up? I like to choke and pull hair, you like it rough right? etc." Anything and everything I could think of. This translated into me spooning her and giving her booty rubs. They get more and more aroused with each time they turn you down but you continue pushing anyway. They WANT you to conquer their LMR. Believe me. If a girl ever gets in your face about it or gets too serious, it's time to kick her out. The best move I can teach to you to conquer LMR is to grab their hand and put it on your dick. Obviously do this after she has made out with you already and is turned on. This has helped me f-close more times than I can count.

And as you can probably guess... I blew my load faster than I ever have before. The important thing here is that I owned it. I knew that in 20 minutes she would be getting fucked within an inch of her life and that as long as I don't give a fuck, neither does she.



  1. Lift heavy

  2. Socialize. Approach everywhere, when you see someone you want, go for it instantly, Do not fucking wait

  3. Don't get defensive when a girl doesn't act super receptive the first approach. Remain unfazed and remember that she needs to test your frame. Embrace those tests happily. Enjoy the challenge.

  4. Kino, Kino, Kino. Comfortable touch is more powerful than you can imagine. Actions speak louder than words.

  5. Ignore her beauty.

  6. Have a pleasure palace you're proud to bring girls back to

  7. LMR is best conquered by 2 steps forward 1 step back.

  8. Only REAL alphas blow their load in 11 seconds

[–]Mr_Jackabin 131 points132 points  (46 children)

Got pics of your aesthetics? I always want proof when guys claim, no offense.

[–]HappySmaug 36 points37 points  (1 child)

Checkout his post from a month ago. "What he learned from 3yrs of TRP."

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 145 points146 points  (42 children)

[–]acetylcysteine 65 points66 points  (0 children)

respect that you actually posted a picture of your progress.

[–]Cesare_MA 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Solid physique dude, mirin

[–]Fulp_Piction 8 points9 points  (1 child)

What weight/height are you at?

[–]st4rkeks 4 points5 points  (18 children)

How long you been lifting for and when did you start? Nice body, hope I'll get there someday

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 29 points30 points  (17 children)

1 year of calisthenics and 2 years of lifting. You will if you want to, no need to hope.

[–]stumje 6 points7 points  (12 children)

yo dawg is that metatrons cube on your right shoulder?

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 6 points7 points  (11 children)

Mandelbrot sets and Fibonacci sequence. I'm not sure what a metatron cube is lol

[–]dufresne90 3 points4 points  (9 children)

Mandelbrot and Fibonacci? Do you like Tool?

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 10 points11 points  (8 children)

Hell ya one of my favorites. My walls are covered with framed Tool art.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (7 children)

Just when I thought I couldn’t like you anymore you mention Tool. Nice field report. As you bang more and more HB8s and above you get more used to them and blowing quickly is no longer a problem. I remember when I first started out on pick up and I blew my load in about 6 seconds into a HB6, and I was wearing a condom. Many years later I am barebacking two hot French girls in a hotel room and they both complement me on my stamina. All good things with time.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 4 points5 points  (6 children)

Haha thank you man. Tool is the shit. As an avid drummer its hard not to have them as one of my favorite bands.

I'm stoked for the future when it becomes normalized for me to pull HB8's and above.

barebacking two hot French girls

I'd like to hear this FR lol!

All good things with time.

This is what keeps me motivated. I've seen how investment/return works in all things in life. I'm willing to work today for results tomorrow.

[–]SovereignSoul76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mandel-baum! Mandel-baum! Mandel-baum!

[–]kokoke 0 points1 point  (2 children)

As a Calisthenics guy, I'm curious why you changed to lifting? Size?

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 10 points11 points  (1 child)

I was still invisible with calisthenics. ioi's skyrocketed when I put on mass. I can lift heavy shit which I use more often than I thought. The respect that comes with it is also a plus. More testosterone in my body is a huge one I can't forget either.

[–]kokoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah fair enough. BWF has been working out pretty great for me, so I was a little bit curious.

[–]SonOfSparda304 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I feel like I'd be closer to that if I didn't run as much. Training for a 10k race now but I also don't lift super heavy weights (pretty average tbh).

How much cardio do you do?

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Weekends with my plates and that's it lol

[–]Lyxeka 0 points1 point  (9 children)

Dude with a body like that you have no excuse not to be banging girls 8.5+ like its going out of style

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 19 points20 points  (8 children)

Thanks, but remember.. Game and frame beats being attractive. Being attractive is only a foot in the door.

[–]MrPokinatcha 2 points3 points  (7 children)

As a non-fit and not very good-looking alpha, can confirm. Confidence and huge charisma get me 8+'s all the itme. (I'm a 4~5 in general).

[–]Lyxeka 0 points1 point  (5 children)

What helped you gain that confidence and charisma? I've gotten to the point where I can ask out any girl I want like its no big deal but my struggle now is actually getting them in bed with me. I try kino with them throughout the entire time, they mostly just let it happen but don't warm up to it or reciprocate

[–]MrPokinatcha 2 points3 points  (4 children)

the charisma is natural. I've always been one of those guys that everyone likes. As for the confidence, just fake it till you make it. It sounds like your problem is that you're waiting too long, not being forward enough.

[–]Lyxeka 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Please give me some examples of how forward I should be. Also keep in mind if it matters that none of my dates have alcohol involved. Ive had drunk girls that were "out of my league" hit on me but i dont do the whole drunk girl thing

[–]MrPokinatcha 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Be CLEAR since the beginning of the convo about your intentions. One of the first three things you should tell her must make clear that you are interested in her. Also, mever be afraid to make a move a bit early. 99% of the girls know if they'll fuck you in the first 15 minutes. If she says no, then you'll still have time to move on to the next one.

[–]Lyxeka 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Again, I don't know how else to ask you this but PLEASE GIVE ACTUAL EXAMPLES OF HOW TO BE FORWARD THE WAY YOU MEAN

[–]foggydew42 29 points30 points  (2 children)

I wholeheartedly believed that she wanted to fuck me, but that she needed to verify my masculinity first.

This is where most guys fuck up. The bitch-face/ shitty attitude is all a wall to test your frame. This helps girls weed out guys who don't have strong frame. Great field report and great example of holding frame.

[–]FuckMichaelMcCoy 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Its not that black and white. Some bitches really do it because you are a piece of dogshit beta to them.

[–]JinSantosAndria 88 points89 points  (3 children)

Remember, after reading this picture book post, that if you do not have the confidence or visible value, do NOT try this. It only takes one girl in the gym to report a single sexual harassment after your second try if the first approach didnt work out. That will happen if you do come across as creep, not socially apt and do not have enough connections inside the gym to have a common "everyone knows him" label attached to your social standing.

If you depend on your gym as you might depend on your job: Follow the same damn rule. Do not shit where you eat. It's not worth it.

If you are fun, already on top of TRP, have nothing to loose and are financial sound go for it. But don't come crying if it your success rate is not 100% and a single report ended your gym membership.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 47 points48 points  (2 children)

I've been rejected a dozen times too, but they can pick up on if you don't care about the outcome and it's not creepy to them.

[–]TunedtoPerfection 21 points22 points  (1 child)

Exactly! Guys are so afraid of talking to women or even making it known that they are sexual beings. If you take your rejections well and just continue on like it is no big deal, then it's no big deal. If you get all super invested and then let down that becomes creepy.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Too true. The success rate is directly inverted to the level of investment on the approach. The less you care about the outcome, the better it goes for BOTH parties.

[–]evergonitenitenigga 25 points26 points  (2 children)

bahahaaha at 8 love it sometimes it happens

Edit: some folks are taking that seriously. OP is joking. no one who actually cums in 11 seconds would joke about it. even if they do they still owned it

Edit 2: jesus fucking christ OP shared a story with VALUE and most of the comments on this thread are nitpicking bitches. relax and laugh broskis

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thought that people would pick up on that haha. Oh well.

[–]Drumcode-Equals-Life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People too busy lost in the weeds, missing the entire forest

[–]askmrcia 84 points85 points  (33 children)

Ok I'm currently talking to a girl at my gym, and honestly I wish I hadn't.

I just recently joined this gym because I just moved to a new city. The second day I was filling out some papers with one of the female personal trainers. We made small talk, learned she just graduated from college and a former D1 track athlete for her school.

The next time I was in the gym I ran into her, made small talk and off the top of my head I asked her if she seen the new Jigsaw movie. She said no, but she really wants to see it and had no one to watch it with because its scary.

I said we can go see it together. Got her number and we did text a little bit over the phone.

Now on day we were supposed to see the movie, she canceled saying she had to work late. I thought no biggie.

I go back to the gym and I swear I had two of the female trainers looking at me funny. And one of the male trainers looking at me funny. Hard to describe the look, but it was that look that people give when there are rumors circulating.

Eventually one of the male trainers (he was the guy that signed me on) come to me and say "so heard you and trainer girl is talking, and you guys were supposed to hang out. She mentioned something about you going to the movies."

I thought to myself "What the hell? I just met her and she told people this?"

I replied, I didn't know anyone knew about this. He came back and said "well yea, she was trying to get off work early to go see you. But she had to stay. She seemed super excited though, but was bummed she couldn't see you."

I honestly was planning on hooking up with this girl if it got that far, but that's going to be harder to do now since she opened her mouth to people.

Also I'm now starting to realize that the girl might be a little crazy (after seeing her IG). So we'll see how this plays out. Glad it worked out for you OP. But I can see why people say "don't shit where you eat" when it comes to the gym.

[–]AyeAmScottishYaCunt 93 points94 points  (4 children)

I don’t really see the issue here.. girls talk about everything to other girls. And those other girls tell everyone else in the room all the gossip that’s going on.

The minute a guy messages a girl on insta/twitter you best believe it’s immediately screenshotted and sent to the groupchat. Same with cold approaches, the first thing they’ll do is tell their friends because it’s newsworthy to them for some reason..

She wants to see you and got stuck in work later than expected. If she’s trying to reschedule your date then cool, she’s interested. Meet up, have fun, escalate, fuck. Don’t over complicate it.

You genuinely have 0 issues here. Girls gossip, it’s what they do. All it does it give you more social proof to the other girls in the gym.

[–]askmrcia 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You genuinely have 0 issues here. Girls gossip, it’s what they do. All it does it give you more social proof to the other girls in the gym.

Yea good point it can play in my favor. And yea we rescheduled.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

One of my swim coaches (masters club) is very flirty. I can’t imagine what shit would be like at the pool if I plate her, get bored, and then ghost her. Maybe someone can write a post on how to ghost on a bitch you have to see regularly. That would make shitting where I sleep maybe a little less dumb.

[–]AyeAmScottishYaCunt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well that’s not really ghosting her if you still need to interact with her and see her on a regular occasion.

You could very easily plate her, explain to her it’s not working out for you and you think it’s better you remain friends. You don’t need to over complicate it.

I don’t understand why you think the only option you have when deciding to stop spinning a certain plate is to ghost her? Whilst it’s a very valid strategy in many situations doing so out of boredom is an unnecessary dick move. I tend to use it more as a punishment more than anything when a girl crosses the line with me.

TRP, spinning plates and being alpha doesn’t revolve around treating woman like shit. Especially woman you need to deal with on a regular occasion. The “don’t shit where you eat rule” is a rule because a slip up could cost you your job, then your car, then your life if you’re not careful. Whilst a swim team isn’t that caliber you would need to decide how important it is to you, could you afford to lose it if you fuck up with a girl you’ve plated?

[–]Rock2live1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to this guy, everyone. I dated 2 girls in the past month, had success with one but both of them told their friends about me the first day I encountered them. I didn't give a fuck about it but just keep in mind that girls do that.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I flirt with a married trainer at my gym all the time. I act like it's a joke. I got her number and invite her to get a smoothie all the time. She of course told the other trainers but they already knew me. Now I catch another married trainer smiling and making eyes at me all the time. Word traveling doesn't have to be a bad thing.

Hold frame. Own that she's letting people know. That means you're worth speaking about. Press on once more for that meet-up.

[–]lookdeepintomyeyes 23 points24 points  (11 children)

"Don't shit where you eat" does not apply to your gym any more than it applies to your school. It applies to your place of work--where you earn your money.

Anybody acting too badass to talk to girls at the gym is hamstering. They want to talk to that fine gym pussy, they're just too scared to, so they act all hard about the fact that they don't. It's ridiculous.

Gym pussy is the best pussy.

[–]FuckMichaelMcCoy 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Im actually opposite. I wont fuck with any girl at work AND gym. Work is self-explanatory, but i say the gym because i go 4-5 times a week and its a place of meditation for me metaphorically speaking. Last thing I want is social drama or some small unnecessary tension from rumors/ghosting/jealous orbiters to cloud my high at the gym.

I dont mind "shitting where i eat" when it comes to school though. Thats no big deal to me.

[–]lookdeepintomyeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

metaphorically speaking

I'm not sure you know what that means based on how you used it.

[–]basebool 0 points1 point  (8 children)

To each their own, but I'd be more focused on getting in and getting out. If shes giving you signs then sure once you're finished your set chat her up for a bit. But you're at the gym to train, not to find pussy.

[–]lookdeepintomyeyes 0 points1 point  (7 children)

I think you're just being a pussy.

[–]basebool 0 points1 point  (6 children)

No i actially workout how about you?

[–]lookdeepintomyeyes 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Again, I think you're just being a pussy. If a hot girl is near you and you don't do anything because you're too busy working out you're just using your workout as a buffer. Why go to the gym at all if other people are so fucking pointless and such a waste of your time? It's not that expensive to put together a home gym if you're such a fucking introverted Spartan.

Plenty of us actually workout AND actually get laid by hot girls at the gym.

Just not you.

[–]basebool 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Did u just say its not that expensive to put together a home gym? Lol.

Go enjoy your gym sloots. The real men will be there to actually work out

[–]lookdeepintomyeyes 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Did u just say its not that expensive to put together a home gym? Lol.

So you're a pussy AND you're poor?

Go enjoy your gym sloots. The real men will be there to actually work out

You prefer the fatties who don't work out huh? And the real men will finish their workout and then go home and fuck. You'll be on TRP calling fit girls sloots.

[–]basebool 0 points1 point  (2 children)

You realize even a small type of home gym would cost as much as a years membership yea?

I dont even think you do that I think your just mental masterbating to win internet arguements. Its cute.

[–]lookdeepintomyeyes 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Well you don't know how to spell masturbate, but I'm sure you're a pro at it anyway. Go read up on "buffers" on the sidebar, where your ass belongs, and then come back to this discussion as an informed male.

[–]IIHotelYorba 5 points6 points  (5 children)

Girls gossip and it only helps with your social proof: more girls become interested and more guys respect you.

Hot girls also cancel a lot to test you. Keep pushing up on them and they break.

[–]physicalbitcoin 2 points3 points  (4 children)

You mean if a girl cancels and doesn't reschedule you'll still ask her out again? I normally leave them alone after that, but sometimes I've persisted and it's been worth it. Did I get what you said right? I heard cancelling was a common test.

I remember a hot girl being flaky about meeting one Sunday. I asked her 4-5 times, we eventually went out that Sunday night and it was awesome.

[–]IIHotelYorba 1 point2 points  (3 children)

You got it. The one caviat I have is that in the long run it's FAR more efficient to meet new girls in person than to game lukewarm ones over text. So if they don't come out after a few tries it's rarely worth it for anything other than the learning experience. Fucking text these silly girls during a lull in the conversation while you're meeting new girls.

[–]physicalbitcoin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah hahah I agree it's more efficient face-to-face. I started using dating apps to 'save time'. When I factored in all the wasted conversations with other girls, I realized I was doing on average 2 hours texting per meeting. That's a lot.

Apps have made a lot of guys too shy to approach during the day, so there's even more opportunities.

[–]_MysticFox 1 points1 points [recovered]

Wait the fuck? Girls flake as a shit test? I thought it was disinterest?

[–]IIHotelYorba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the problem isn't it, it can seem like either one. You can usually spot a test because they will be interested in making plans again quickly. A disinterested girl will try to avoid making plans, or even talking.

[–]Drumcode-Equals-Life 2 points3 points  (4 children)

You just got the validation she was excited to hang out with you, but real life got in the way, and you're upset?

You need to recheck your priorities, you could probably be balls deep within a week if you actually grew a pair.

[–]RPStone 0 points1 point  (2 children)

They're all making fun of you because you set a MOVIES date. Are you in high school?

[–]spassa 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Hahaha, so after talking with her about a movie she wants to see and has nobody that goes with her you say: "well, that's rough, wanne go and drink a coffee with me?"

The rules are meant as a guideline. Don't suggest a movie date, because it doesn't promote getting to know someone. But if you already talk about it with her and she gives you an opener like this, take it, don't be stupid.

You should go for a drink and some kino pre / post movie anyway.

[–]Lets69Chipmunks 9 points10 points  (2 children)

Reminds me of my field report!

Greetings fellow alphas. I've been practicing TRP for like, almost two whole weeks now, so I'm what you all might consider an expert in the art of “sexual strategy”. I took the time to write this field report between my deluge of sexual escapades to give all you budding new alphas something to aspire to.

READ EVERY LAST DETAIL CAREFULLY. And learn. This is all 100% accurate. Everything in this story literally happened.

It's Saturday night, 9 PM. Dressed in my cargo shorts, best fedora, and black button down shirt with a swirly dragon on the back, I casually made my way into the local night club with my alpha swag turned up to 11.

As I'm scanning the environment for a potential sex-thing, I head over to the bar and order a drink, not forgetting to tip my fedora to the bartender with a slight smirk. I sip on my drink for a bit and continue to scan the room for bitches that fit my lofty criteria, knowing that a true alpha such as myself never settles for anything less than swim suit models from the cover of Sports Illustrated. After a few more minutes of hunting for prey, my eyes shot across the bar and made eye contact with some HB10 who was literally Heidi Klum. “She's alright,” I think to myself. Not wanting to lose my frame, I stared that whore straight in the eyes while thinking about how hypergamous and slutty all women are. It was like I was pummeling her feeble female brain with my alpha psywaves, and the look in her eyes told me that her panties were already turning into an ocean of pure, unadulterated sexual arousal; my alpha frequencies were taking over every station, and her brain was tuning in like a goddamn ham radio. She smiled at me, but I knew that bitches immediately lose interest as soon as you express any kind of humanity whatsoever, so I just stared back at her with my mighty alpha gaze.

“I have this hypergamous slut the palm of my hand,” I think to myself, “I guess she'll do.”

I strolled over to the bitch and her group of friends. I could sense that she actually had some degree of confidence, so she clearly needed to be negged into next week. As I confidently made my way up to her group, I looked her straight in the eyes and nonchalantly told her that she might actually be attractive if she lost like 50 pounds. The whole bar immediately went silent in disbelief at the size of my cajones.

After the initial shock wore off, every girl in the surrounding area immediately noticed my uber-alpha status, and I could see the little hamsters running in their head as they all figured out the best way to climb aboard my alpha cock and spermjack me. I ignored there silent pleas to be plowed though, and maintained focus on the bitch I came over for. After a few seconds, she jumped out of her seat and instantly started making out with me in the middle of the bar. She offers to let me bang her right here on the table in front of everybody, but since I'm already on the sex offender list, I tell her to find some place a bit more private.

She dragged me to the bathrooms at the back. We enter the woman's bathroom and go to the stall at the far end, and she proceeded to tell me about the secret room in the back of all female bathrooms that women use to secretly ride the cock-carousel so that their beta providers never find out. It's a sacred place, installed in literally every female bathroom since it was decreed in the first era of the feminazi regime, and collectively referred to as “Narnia”. Though this place is known to all women, only the few TRUE alpha males know of its existence. I laughed and called her a dumb whore, because of course I already know about Narnia (from like, Roosh's blog or something), and my continued negging only made this bitch more moist and wanting. She pulls down a tiny lever behind the little tampon-disposal thingy on the side of the stall, and the wall behind the toilet opens to reveal a winding staircase.

As we made our way to the bottom, she tells me that she's a virgin and a devout Christian who told her beta boyfriend that she was saving herself for marriage, but had instantly changed her mind after her primal instincts were wooed by my alpha frame. She also literally just turned 18 like five minutes ago, and so did eight of her similarly virgin-Christian friends who were waiting at the bottom of the stairs to join in. Normally I'd be offended that a bitch would just decide to invite eight of her friends to our sexual romp without consulting me first, because bitches aren't allowed to make decisions. I happened to be in a forgiving mood today, however, so I figured I'd let it slide this time.

We get down to the bottom, and we're instantly greeted by her flock of whores who had been eagerly waiting at the foot of the stairs to cheat on their beta boyfriends. I inspect each of them closely to ensure that they're all up to my supreme standards and that none of them would lower my SMV. Most of them were hot enough to fuck I guess, until I got to the last one; a short haired, horse-owning feminist with a degree in women's studies and a t-shirt that said “DOWN WITH THE PATRIARCHY” in big bold letters. I told this bitch that the patriarchy is a feminazi conspiracy, and that I would never bang such a depressing combination of red flags. She gets pissed off and tries to argue that beauty is subjective or some shit, but I refuse to let my frame waver. She realized I was not going to give in to her neo-liberal propaganda, so she channeled her inner Feminist aura and began to transform into a mythical Feminist beast of rage.

I'm not about to let this feminist bitch cock-block me with her mythical transformations and gender equality nonsense, so I channeled my own alpha powers bequeathed upon me by TRP and unleashed my monster alpha dong. Large enough bludgeon a small child, I took hold of it with both hands like some kind of expert in dong-fu, wielding it with the skill and proficiency of a Jedi master. I lunge at the raging feminist beast, thrusting towards her in some kind of Dragonball Z-style montage, and plunge my glorious alpha meat hammer directly into her heart. She was instantly drained of her feminist powers and, as the beast let out an earth-shattering cry of defeat, withered away into a pile of dust.

All the hot virgin bitches marveled at my spectacular feat in utter disbelief, lost for words at the fact that such a dominating alpha could ever possibly exist. They instantly ripped their clothes off while denouncing Feminism permanently and accepting their subservient role in society, while making me a sandwich and literally throwing themselves at me pussy first. I let out a mighty alpha roar on par with Mufasa while I stomped the ground in a primitive caveman-like fashion (biotruths bro, bitches love cavemen) as they screamed battle cries of last minute resistance in unison, all of which were quelled as I popped like sixteen boners in preparation for the one-man-train I was about run full speed on this gaggle of swooning whores.

Then, I woke up. My premature ejaculation had apparently jolted me out of my slumber. I found myself sitting in a pool of my own alpha splooge, which soon became the protein stain that remains on my sheets as a triumphant symbol of my successful night of wooing bitches in my dreams.

All in all, I'd say it was just another average night of red pilling. TRP wins again, fellas!

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I laughed throughout the entire thing. That was gold.

[–]tindertoast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, this is amazing. Honestly awesome fucking read lol

[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A couple things to add about gym pick up. A tight neg is king. If you go up to a chick and land a good one, the battles all but won. These chicks are incredibly insecure but constantly getting validated. Negging them will overload their brain and eventually they will come and talk to you.

Another reason the neg is so powerful here is because it makes you stand out by a wide margin. I'm sure we've all seen those guys telling their life story to a hot chick while she is sitting on a machine politely listening. Women more often than not will put up with you because they don't want a reputation of being a bitch but they don't want to sit and talk to you for 45 minutes at the gym.

All interactions should be no more than 2 minutes when at the gym. That is because you are simply using your rest between sets to chat. It sends the message your work out is the priority (which it should be) and that she is just helping pass time during needed rest. I would say the golden ratio applies here. Engage her 2 times for every 3 times she engages you. Though personally I prefer quick kills, something like, neg her in passing, she comes and talks to you, short chat, next good opportunity go and get her number, then the standard.

If she doesn't come talk to you after the neg there's a chance she's now afraid to talk to you(or you fudged it), evaluate her body language (does she keep looking at you) and then decide if you want to engage or not. Remember that making yourself scarce and unique is any easy road to their pants.

[–]Rollo_Mayhem3 5 points6 points  (5 children)

I've decided not to fuck any girls at the gym but I will talk to girls if the situation is there. Now what I also decided to do is join a second gym a few miles away and maybe there see what happens. I'm less worried about harassment claims and more about what happens after I pump and dump and have to see the those girls again. One day I passed by three girls I banged on saterday afternoon while I was with the new girl. Talk about awkward. Maybe that is actually positive but I rather not have to deal with this...

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children)

I kinda see what you mean, but curious what you mean by "deal with this?" Deal with what exactly? Being desired by multiple girls and reveling in it?

Preselection is always a good thing imo. I pass by the girls I've fucked from my gym all the time, still cool with 2 of them too.

[–]Rollo_Mayhem3 1 point2 points  (2 children)

maybe its a matter of perspective, but I've been labeled a "player" before and felt on the defensive. In other words, I've been accused of leading girls on as if I wanted a relationship. Only to bed them and then move on. But in the context of walking down the street with my new date and then running into a previous plate or ONS and she looks at me like a POS can ruin my chances with the new girl...but I guess I should just dngaf and be like "do I know you?"

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

But in the context of walking down the street with my new date and then running into a previous plate or ONS and she looks at me like a POS can ruin my chances with the new girl...but I guess I should just dngaf and be like "do I know you?"

Nah embrace it and smile and say, "Hi". If they ask who that was just mention you saw each other briefly and don't give any more details if they ask just change the subject.

Watch how good she decides to fuck you later.

[–]TheRealJesusChristus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I was on a date with a girl, it didnt go very good, she seemed bored and i didnt really know what to do or say, so i was silent and she was too. Then outside the coffee shop a female class mate came by and waved me, I waved back. My date asked who she was, i only said „oh thats <the girls name>“ and then changed subject. She now did put effort in the whole interaction. Still i was bored so nothing went on.

This was years ago when I didnt know nothing about trp or anything related. Now i propably wpuld have acted in other ways, bc she was pretty hot. But whatever. At least I wasnt some sad omega like some of my friends were.

[–]Drumcode-Equals-Life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's only awkward if you make it awkward

[–]wereworm5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A compilation of posts like this is what I am looking for

[–]meaningintragedy 6 points7 points  (9 children)

Need more info about your pad. What does it look like?

[–]oddisay 10 points11 points  (0 children)

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 11 points12 points  (6 children)

It's a nice 1 bedroom apartment. Dark hardwood floors with high quality stainless steel appliances. Matching Dark furniture and dope leather comfy couch. Big entertainment center with big flatscreen, Pictures/mirrors with frames on the walls (no posters).

I keep it clean in case of situations like that night. I use Nag Champa incense for smell.

I also have things in my room that show my hobbies. Drum sticks by my practice pad, snowboard next to boots, hiking backpack, etc.

[–]themidwes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

P.F. Candle reed diffuser, lasts longer and doesn't produce smoke. Ladies love them.

[–]THE_Aft_io9_Giz 5 points6 points  (2 children)

there was an old post on here about this guy and how he prepped his pad - it was some white guy in Japan. anyways he had a lot of interesting tips about what he kept around and available. I find this to be a very important aspect because they are going judge you the moment they walk in the place.

So here were some tips from that one and some from me:

  • keep some of those small water bottles around for her - some women need it after giving killer head and/or sex; keep like a small package of them in the closet where they are close
  • keep a set of small clean hand/face towels available - many women will thank you for having something available (some will later question why you have it available)
  • keep your bed neat and organized and made before she walks in - EDIT: if other rooms are a mess, just shut the doors to them.
  • Don't have a bunch of extra crap on the floor or stashed in the room - throw that shit in the closet and shut the closet door (unless it tells a story about you, like OP mentions above)
  • Have a mirror in your room, at least on your closet door, so when she's getting ready, she'll do it right there in front of you (and will appreciate that you have something there to use)
  • vacuum your disgusting room and bathroom - if you have sex, they're gonna want to use the bathroom afterwards;
  • EDIT: keep some wet wipes and kleenex's available in the bathroom, along with a clean wash cloth there.
  • EDIT: keep hand soap and hand sanitizer in your bathroom
  • EDIT: keep a few cheap extra toothbrushes, floss, mouthwash, mints, and small travel size toothpaste available in case they need it - i just keep mints staged in the kitchen, bathrooms, and bedrooms. Getting that far to kiss someone with stank breath is the worst fucking thing of all time
  • candles are a huge plus - goto walmart - they are cheap; ask a few women what candles they like best - some hate vanilla, some love fruity crap; some like seasonal like leaves, or pumpkin, or apple pie - keep a grill lighter in your drawer
  • dust your furniture off - they notice weird shit if you turn on the lights
  • clean your bathroom; if you know you have a date the next night or plan to go out and possibly bring someone home, clean it the night before - pull your shower curtain closed. Use bleach and get that moldy shit off your bathtub/showers walls and floor
  • have a music player ready in your room; some women like music playing some don't - they will judge you on your music you're playing, so let them choose EDIT: you don't need a huge stereo - get some cheap computer speakers that you can plug your player into - it doesn't need to be blasting anyways
  • have a small fan plugged in on your night stand or the floor; sometimes it gets really hot - depending on what you're doing
  • have some lube on standby - some women are dry as hell no matter what you you do; some are tight as hell, and some are both; EDIT: have a spare unopened in case she ask to have it herself - she'll be weirded the fuck out if you hand her a bottle that is half empty and wonder why it's that way
  • have condoms on standby - some women won't otherwise

Now these are some of mine in addition to above (some context - my house is late 70's/early 80s and looks like it - been slowly painting rooms and shit; have younger kids; kid shit can be everywhere, but cleaned up):

  • if your house or pad isn't anything special, make sure you organize as much as possible, vacuum, clear the fucking counters of all the shit hanging around (this is called decluttering), do your dishes (nothing in the sink); they notice this shit and it will come across as creepy and lazy if your kitchen is a mess
  • if you don't have shit hanging on the walls, they'll notice - tell them you're working on getting some pics up, but haven't had a chance to print them and have been looking for the right frames; EDIT: if you're not sure what kind of pics you like, tell them historical pics, such as old buildings, planes, and ships, or maybe some landscape ones...solid anwers
  • tell them that your house is a mess (even if it isn't), and you weren't expecting company tonight (even if you were) - they are always surprised at how "clean and organized" my place is compared to other guys; especially, the shitty old fucking kitchen
  • buy a few vases and buy flowers and place on your kitchen table ($5-7 for clear vase, $10 for flowers - cut the stems so they fit).
  • stage some magazines and/or books on your kitchen counter or table. My table is total shit because the kids have fucked it all up, so I purchased a few tablecloths that I only use when I know someone is coming over. Place the flowers on that, staged a few magazines - I always get some of the local ones that highlight events, weddings, etc. I found a old photos book from the 1940s from and of my city that was being sold at a local shoe store - they love flipping through that thing

Once they are at my place, they almost immediately goto the kitchen and unload their purse/drink etc. I let them know where the bathrooms are located, ask if they want a drink and then foreplay starts almost immediately IN THE KITCHEN. EDIT: (not that it didn't start when we met, but this is a different level of foreplay - very hands on and can lead to sex/bj right there on the spot on your clean as fuck table or countertop).

  • oh yeah, ask them to take off their shoes, even if you don't normally do this - it's the first piece of clothing that you can get them to take off, will relax them, and makes a talking point if you need something to talk about - like damn, those don't look comfortable - make her tell you about them

I'm sure there's more that all of you can add, and some of you will pick this apart. If a woman decides to come back to your place, then it's up to you to close the deal. A lot of things can prevent that, including the environment you place her in. Don't make it creepy or weird. You need her to relax and feel comfortable. Tell her you just kicked out the other chick and she's climbing the back fence right now to leave and the other one is out front waiting for her to leave if this goes bad.

[–]Sir-Pumpalot 2 points3 points  (1 child)

good list, even tho I think that most of this shit should be normal? Like clean/dust free shelves etc, are there really guys that living like dirty pigs? Why would a woman, those who smell well and have nice nails, come back to someone who looks like he doesnt care for aesthetic? (shitty beard, bad shoes, dirty rooms etc.) For instance I have a pretty easy but chill and stylish living room.

[–]THE_Aft_io9_Giz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are all types out there...men and women who don't know what the fuck they are doing, what they want, or how to act. The stories women have told me about other guy's pads, where they walked in and noped the fuck right back out the door. As far as pads go, just like OP alluded to, your pad can and should be one of your goals to improve - it's a status symbol to them, but it's ok for it to be a work in progress. Even if it's a solid place, tell her what you are planning to do to it to make it better and why, not what you want or hope to do. This is what you're doing, and they're just along for the ride.

[–]Adach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good shit man. I got jealous thinking you had a ballin house at 26.

I agree, nothing worse than posters.

[–]SovereignSoul76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a landmark day when I bought my first modular leather couch. You can move the sections around and basically turn it into a big bed in the living room. Can't imagine trying to cuddle/escalate on a skinny-ass couch with a girl ever again...

[–]PANDAwaggon63 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My guess is that it's cleaned and smelling well. And probably a representative of himself and his hobbies!

[–]_MysticFox 1 points1 points [recovered]

Was the second approach same day or sometime after? How'd you go about it knowing that you were shut down earlier?

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 5 points6 points  (4 children)

The 2nd approach was exactly one week after the first (the next time I saw her)

I walked up and said, "I think I saw you in costume last weekend! You were the devil with horns and the tail, right?"

She wasn't even in costume and wasn't in the same city as me over the weekend. But it was a good opener.

[–]_MysticFox 1 points1 points [recovered]

I'm just shit at conversation so I want to know every detail. Thanks man

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Only one way to get better!

[–]_MysticFox 1 points1 points [recovered]

How'd you progress from the Halloween joke if you don't mind saying?

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She told me she went to a bar in a different city, I teased her for not doing anything in costume. I asked her about her age and assumed she was using a fake which was confirmed. Topic somehow switched to work and that's when I found out she wanted to be a PT and I pushed for working out together.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (5 children)

I think your confidence and balls to approach is key here. Maybe you have a good face too I don't know. She probably wouldn't have been so easy if you were ugly and jacked.

People in trp like to preach if you get huge women will be much easier but I've known so many dudes who were jacked and objectively handsome that had trouble with women. Meanwhile I'd see lean men with good hair, face, super charismatic swim in pussy.

I guess it all depends on how much balance you want. Some guys can spend hours in the gym, get jacked, and still be on top of their game while others might want to spend less time in the gym just to get a lean, ripped physique and spend more time developing intellectual and social skills. Whatever works for you.

P.s. I have a feeling that picture of the girls sitting on that dude is the start of some ridiculous porn scene. I suppose I've watched too much of that garbage in the past to make that connection

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 11 points12 points  (3 children)

Being attractive is only a foot in the door. The ultimate factor is frame and internalizing that you're better than her and that she's earning you. Not the other way around.

For the record, I'm jacked and ugly. I have a baby face and can't grow a beard. At 26, I look like I'm 19. It's also asymmetrical. I simply max out the things I can and don't focus on the things I cannot.

We all have choices. Though this girl did mention that she likes my aesthetics more than the ripped, lean look. Take that with a grain of salt, it's only what she said.

[–]pisspoordecisions 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Having a baby face and the inability to grow a beard isn’t even remotely a detriment to looks dude. Chicks love the pretty boy look and most of those guys have a jawline that looks better without a beard.

Not trying to be super negative, I just wouldn’t use either of those points for reasons why you’re unattractive. I have both as well and they’ve never been problems for me.

[–]mubee94 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Yeah check Zack Efron's teen look in 17 again. chicks dig that.

[–]pisspoordecisions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chicks get moist for that Zac Efron look

[–]Andgelyo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s all about being alpha but having a non-threatening appearance. That’s the reasons why you see dudes who are well dressed, lean, and have great hair do well with opening with women. They make the women feel comfortable enough to talk and get to know them. Put yourself in women’s shoes, would you rather be approached by Ryan Gosling in a suit or Brock Lesnar wearing a tank top? Too jacked is a bad thing my dude.

[–][deleted] 31 points32 points  (25 children)

All good but, point 8 is absolutely not "real alpha" and you're hamstering the situation like a girl. Ignore her beauty, sure, but your body acted all the opposite.

The ability to not let that naked feminine beauty destroy your frame and make you cum in seconds is the Final Boss of every encounter. So hard (eheh) to beat but not impossible.

[–]padrehopeccato 69 points70 points  (0 children)

All good but, point 8 is absolutely not "real alpha" and you're hamstering the situation like a girl.

I think he's being ironic there - not taking himself too seriously

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 19 points20 points  (4 children)

Yeah lol I was completely kidding. Just having some fun. It was only the first time, she stayed the night over the weekend and I was as normal.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My sense of irony went blackout for a while, good for you!

[–]april_cutter 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Clearly a joke, but ... well the last few fucks I had, I've tried to stop myself from cumming/ last longer just because one chick recently didn't get off and was pissed I came too fast (we're talking 10 minutes, not 10 seconds here).

Anyway --- fuck girls getting in your head. I think most actually like it better if you just use them as a fuck-doll so to speak.

So I know it was a joke but if you went on a date with a loaded gun in your pants and blow a load in her in 11 seconds, so be it. Who gives a shit what she thinks. There's always potentially round 2 as well.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Spot on. They love it when they are used as a sex toy for your own pleasure, not being overly concerned with theirs.

[–]Shukakun 41 points42 points  (1 child)

As a good friend of mine once said, premature ejaculators have superior genetics. They score highest in the impregnated females per minute rankings and can move on to the next one quicker than other men.

Jokes aside, caring 100% about your own pleasure and 0% about hers is probably nearly as bad as the other way around. That being said, good sex is not about you making sure she is enjoying it. It's about her enjoying you enjoying her.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you should find a middle ground. What I'm saying is that we can be in control, "mantain frame", in bed too and the mindset to keep us grounded is the same of a date/social situation ecc..

[–]calamalakos 5 points6 points  (13 children)

What are your best tips on lasting longer?

I fuck like a champ but am too reliant on alcohol/drugs to do so, I'd like to have complete control while sober.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (3 children)

I find it useful to remember all the redpill concepts. Instantly it goes from "Oh she's soooo hot naked" to "Well, she is probably another slut with a secret boyfriend, moan all you want". You become more distant and it will help in not letting that pussy overpower your dick.

[–]IndianChad 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Meh, another slut with a secret bf makes me me even hornier lol, means less investment and effort. Idk I've been with all kinds of women. From tall girls with tight pussies to petite ones with cavernous pussies, to girls so wet that it feels like you're in a ocean. Just like men, women come in different department sizes. The best PnV sex has been with girls with tight vaginas, regardless of beauty. I'm average in size, maybe that's why hahaha. Sometimes it's disappointing to meet a tall hot skinny brunette, and you finally get it in, and her pussy is like a black hole, I literally last forever, which sucks because I just wanna cum and be over with it.

[–]Deadlybeef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is classic abundance mentality, even for your penis. If you've slept with hundreds of women, don't you think the "excitement" you get vanishes over time?

[–]adam_varg 1 points1 points [recovered]

Kegels, kegels and kegels. Then playing and training around with kegels during masturbation and sex to put them in practice.

You will have easier time to get your dick up and keep it that way.

You will have ability to stop orgasm before it builds up with 100% success rate and if you really work on it you will be able to stop in that second just before you ejaculate and enjoy most of orgasm while not nutting and having refractory period that follows.

You will be able to twitch with your dick when you are inside girl's vag or ass, it makes them crazy.

It wont just give you ability to last longer, but will set you from rest of the guys, because they cant do it.

Then there are many drugs, some fairly innocuous that help with that.

[–]calamalakos 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I've heard though with kegels that if you have a tight pelvic floor, this will just make it worse.

I'll give it a try though. I've cut out porn which has been good.

[–]pisspoordecisions 1 point2 points  (1 child)

You don’t have to just plow straight through her. Do things like stop and change positions when you’re getting close. Or I like to pull out and tease her clit by rubbing my dick against it every so often - this drives them wild cause it still feels great but it gives you a chance to settle down. It’s all about making it naturally flow.

[–]calamalakos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. This I'm well aware of, but I'm meaning those times when she's close you need need to just lay into her for sometimes longer than is possible.

Being in complete control is perfect because there will be sometimes when they're begging me to come and I just can't, this can be as bad as coming too quick.

[–]Taco_Truck_Aficionad 1 points1 points [recovered]

I think about dead puppies.

[–]paranoidinfidel 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Fine but once you get hard, then what?

[–]Jailhouseredpilled93 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Ever see an alpha Chimp (our closest relatives in the wild) fuck? Idgaf attitude as he pumps and dumps in 3 seconds flat! If you're thinking baseball as you fuck her then youre too worried about what she thinks.

[–]RPStone 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Just ended my 30 day nofap spree

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My condolences. I'm sending a case of swifter wets for your monitor and damaged peripherals.

[–]moroots 1 point2 points  (1 child)

good shit man

I'm new to gym game having been in a relationship for a long time that recently ended. haven't had any success so far but I want to continue trying

one question. if you've been a member of the same gym for a long time and see the same hot girls there day in day out but never/ rarely approach, is it worth worrying about being incongruent when you finally decide to nut up and approach? how would you handle the question if it comes up about why did you finally approach?


[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a fair point, but having the balls to approach will still set you apart from 90% of guys out there. It demonstrates massive confidence. If they question it, just say "never noticed you before and wanted to meet you". It's a push/pull in one. She wasn't memorable enough in the past, but you wanted to meet her now that you've acknowledged her existence.

[–]strikethrough123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The gym is my sanctuary. Seeing ghosted plates talking shit and eyeing you the fuck out would be distracting.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Great FR, packed with solid tips on game. This is truly what the red pill is about. I am asking the mods to give you another point. You are a fine example of what following the sidebar can lead to.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again for the kind words.

[–]2soccerbum312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed the read, well thought out FR with good formatting. Looking forward to more posts

[–]thepontiff_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That 3rd Point Slapped Me In The Face Repeatedly.

Don't flunk the class before you start asking questions imo.

It was brilliant the way you described how the 2nd interaction smoothly rolled into play after you let her stew & simmer on your first approach.

After that it nothing mattered your game played the chess pieces to your advantage.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Made this mistake bro, fucked two girls from an awesome gym near my house and it pretty much ruined that gym for me. One I realised I didn't really like and ghosted her and then it was wierd everytime I saw her after that. The other was an older milf type and a personal trainer who I'd been in an altercation with talked to her behind my back and told her that I was sleeping with other girls etc.

Keep the gym for training imo

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best move I can teach to you to conquer LMR is to grab their hand and put it on your dick.

I'm assuming that you're hard when you do this, right? Or does it not matter?

[–]SovereignSoul76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome FR, man. The effort you clearly put into it is not wasted.

At 26 years old, with that knowledge and frame, you've got such a leg up on guys your age, it's insane. Great outlook; great FR; keep smashing.

[–]rubenescaray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good read for me in this moment because I approached my gym crush a few weeks back but was little receptive and has the same qualities as you mention in this post.

Thank you for your input Metalgear, it has given me a lot of insight in this particular situation of "gym crushes"

[–]Psycho-semantic 1 point2 points  (1 child)

You completely fail tl understand why people sleep with you. God this sub is idiotic.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so rather than be passive-aggressive enlighten us. I'm open to hearing different opinions, no need to be rude.

[–]ThickDickWarrior89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man this is fucking real af!! Nicely done brother.

[–]mrizzle1991 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Fucking great FR man! I saved it so I can go over it later and hopefully ingrain the knowledge.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! That's where it's at, don't just read it. APPLY IT

[–]TheBasedLibertarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a boner reading this

[–]S5M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question, what if you didnt have the NASM cert? Then how wpuld you work it?

[–]King_Maui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips on creating a pleasure palace?

[–]mrhurttastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest question bout dudes that live with parent/family still and wanting to fuck/close at all?? I’m 21 fml

[–]wiffofass 1 points1 points [recovered]

What are your thoughts on opening with a compliment? It's a bad habit of mine when doing gym approaches.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comment on something else, a lot of the time I do an introduction and ask them, "who taught you how to squat? ah ok.. mind if I make a suggestion?" Then flirt after you show them something.

It already puts you in a leader position that they can follow too. Easier to pull the number.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly believed that she wanted to fuck me

This is a great mentality to have with all women you talk to. It is completely delusional but that is the point. Having that assumption will get you extremely far in the dating world.

All of my kino was done without fear.

Really glad you said this. Most guys are very timid and permission-seeking when they touch. They act like they will be reprimanded. If she shows any interest, use light kino unapologetically.

The best move I can teach to you to conquer LMR is to grab their hand and put it on your dick.

Can't tell you how many dozens of times I've done this with epic success. Literally the best and easier escalation move in the book.

Great FR.

[–]YueFei90 0 points1 point  (7 children)

"Bro", this shit sounds cringey as fuck...make up a better story next time. LMAO

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children)

Don't hate me cause you ain't me

[–]YueFei90 0 points1 point  (5 children)

"Bro", we all know what it is...your yellow fever fantasy playing out in your mind and trolling redpill right here. Well played...not really, thank god I'm not you.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children)

It's a true story. Sorry to disappoint. I know people like you... If they can't succeed like someone else, they try to bring them down instead of being happy for them. Then they end up frequenting porn subreddits while they envy other guys fucking girls they wish they could. Your insecurity shines through.

You have improving to do, no doubt. Shouldn't you be doing that instead of commenting here?

[–]YueFei90 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Fuck off bitch! lol, we all know what it is, no need to put up a fucking front...I mean "19 year old big chested tiny waist Asian girl"..who are you fucking kidding here man???

Check what I frequent, bitch. Asian men fucking the hell out of beautiful nasty white sluts. I bet that shit pisses you right the hell off, bitch. I hope so too, bitch.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Look how angry you are over nothing. Just in disbelief that someone can have better results than you. Guess what motherfucker? I worked my mother-fucking ass off for these results. It took me 3 years of following TRP to get to this point. Not once did I react like a complete douchebag insulting others that had success. I was inspired by them.

Why don't you send me a pic of your gains and tell me an FR of a beautiful nasty white slut you plated? Oh that's right.. You won't.

[–]YueFei90 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I wouldn't doxx myself like an idiot on fucking redpill, bitch.

It took you 3 years to supposedly fuck a 19 year old, how long until you fuck a woman who's reached their prime at 21-25, bitch?

Get. The. Fuck. Out. Of. Here. NOW.

No one wants to hear this bullshit about your yellow fever, faggot.

Peace out, "brah".

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

So this asian 19 y.o. HB9 is 5'5

Eh, it's not hard to get an asian girl when you're not asian.

[–]MrCompleteRealism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you're not black that is. White, latin, middle eastern, even indian guys, especially with light skin, can get asian women.

[–]LordThunderbolt 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Cue to when said plate breaks and starts spreading rumors about you in the gym. Now u walk in to lift vut you feel something suspicious, you feel as if people are laughing at u when you're not looking. Or maybe suddenly everybody who used to say hi to you now look at you with disgust. Turns oit your ex plate told them she saw you abuse your dog and call your mom a whore, or worse yet she saw a bunch of different color dick pics in a folder on yoir computer (that's actually happened to a dude at my brother's friend's gym lol).

The gym is sacred man. I go there to lift, pick the heavy weights up and get yoked. Last thing I want is somebody fucking that up for me. So it's https://youtu.be/eH8IMTbBwWc

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I've never had an issue when the plates break. Maybe I'm just good at plate management or lay good pipe, who knows.

If anything I catch broken plates eyeing me with desire.

[–]LordThunderbolt 0 points1 point  (1 child)

You're the chaddiest of chads

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just speak from my experience, that's all.

[–]muscleg33k 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I just had an asian girl waved me at the gym last week. She wasn't bad looking but she's quite fit. I was taken by surprise since I have no idea who she was so i didn't wave back at her. At first I thought she was waving at someone behind me. But I turned around and noticed nobody was there. Later, I approached to her and asked her if she did waved at me. She said yes and then complimented my physique. We exchanged our # but we havent gotten this far yet.

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have her number! Follow the guide above

[–]IvarTheFapless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

" Only REAL alphas blow their load in 11 seconds " FACT.

[–]Andgelyo 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I don’t know man, when I’m at the gym I don’t give a fuck about girls and pay them absolutely zero attention. Props to you to have the balls to close in on girls at your gym but I would never do that, considering the gym is my shrine. There’s a time and place for everything. #teamsmashbitcheseverywhereexceptgym

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To each their own! When I see a hot piece of ass I wanna smash, I can't help it. Respect for being capable to put the blinders on and get your money in. Dig it.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Its probably since you're good looking in the first place (face). Gym hardly matters.

[–]midochondria 1 points1 points [recovered]

So this asian 19 y.o. HB9 is 5'5 with an absolutely insane waist to ass ratio

Why is it always an Asian girl on these redpill threads? Try getting a white girl

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (4 children)

White girls are nothing special.

[–]Andgelyo 4 points5 points  (3 children)

Asian HB9s are extremely rare. By definition she would have to have a thick plump ass and perky tits with a decent height and face. Oriental girls such as Koreans, Chinese, and Japanese are mostly flat chested. HB9 Asians would be most likely Filipino or Vietnamese(more curvaceous Asians).

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear222[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

She's Cambodian. Thick plump ass and perky C's. She has a gorgeous face too, just below HB10.

[–]1WeedDaddy 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Why is it always an Asian girl on these redpill threads?

Because they're more specifically known as "Easyan" girls.

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