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Blue Pill ExampleIf you find yourself writing more than a paragraph or two about an individual woman, you have a terminal case of oneitis. (self.TheRedPill)

submitted by Endorsed Contributormallardcove

This post is directed at AskTRP, but since the posts there needed to be asking for advice, I am putting it here. Too many times on AskTRP(and even here on the main sub) I see users asking for advice about a woman, and then I open the post and its a fucking War & Peace length novel detailing every fucking thing about the OP's relationship with said woman.

Hey AskTRP, I need help with this girl. I totally don't have oneitis, but just hear me out and give me advice.

Proceed to see a giant wall of text that would give me carpal tunnel syndrome to scroll all the way too the bottom of.

No oneitis, you say?

At that point I don't even have to read all of that shit to know what the deal is. I don't even have to read the first sentence. When I see a wall of text that fucking long about one single girl you know the issue is a crippling case of oneitis.

It's simple. When you have oneitis, you are not in control. It's like a parasite controlling the host. You are controlled by her. No man in control of himself would write a fucking novel length post on a TRP sub about needing advice on what to do with this one girl.

Under oneitis, everything you do, every decision you make, revolves around her and puts her as the top consideration. I remember my last oneitis before I found TRP nearly 4 years ago. Probably the best example of how she was in control was how I knew if I wanted to start my career in my field, I would have to move to another state. However I refused to do so for several months solely because of her. I didn't want to leave the area because I didn't want to move away from her. The sad part is that she had friend zoned me months earlier and I was still orbitting her hoping that one day she would finally see the light. I was letting one girl control my career path and major life decisions. When I finally snapped out of the oneitis I did what was necessary, took a position in another state and finally got on with my career.

Ask yourself: How much is a woman in your life controlling and influencing you? Be honest with yourself. The moment you feel like a woman is giving too much influence in your head, is the moment you need to walk away. As a man you will never be successful unless you are in total control of yourself and no one else controls you.


[–]Pogodick8in69 96 points97 points  (2 children)

Thank you. Was developing oneitis with a plate. She was really into me but seems to be loosing interest. I realize why. Oneitis is terrible and causes you to become a weirdo incapable of loving any woman. You become a little boy and act in a weird fashion that has similarities to how a little boy begs for mommy. It’s disgusting.

[–]gorilla_bro 42 points43 points  (1 child)

It is critical that you steer clear of oneitis when you are on a mission. Women can supplement your mission, but they should not interfere with your laser focused mentality. Otherwise, you are not giving your absolute best, which is what you should strive for if you REALLY want something. Most boys don’t understand this, too bad for them.

[–]broek_325 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is so important and something I’ve had to keep myself in check with.

If you find yourself considering skipping a gym session, or not eating the right food, slipping out of discipline + a wide variety of other things for a girl, you’re in trouble. Get it in check, or cut her out, because your mission is compromised and that is the start of a slippery slope.

[–]buddhadarko 38 points39 points  (1 child)

If you have to ask yourself how much influence a girl has on your life, then she probably has more influence than she should already.

  • She should not affect your job/career in any way.

  • She should not affect your purchases/money flow/anything having to do with finance.

  • She should not affect your living situation. Where you choose to live and how, is your business and your business only.

  • She should not affect your friends/social life. She can tag along, but I'll be damned if she's going to dictate or have influence over how my time is spent, and with whom.

  • She should not be rolling through your mind during all hours of the day. Granted, if she's gorgeous and you're thinking about banging her, that's another story.

As soon as you start picturing you two living together, shopping, or you're always reaching out to her asking her what she's doing - you're fucked. Step away. Hard next her. Doesn't matter how tight her body is or how good she rides you - go talk to other girls or go lift/draw/make music/cook - do something else but my lord, please do not allow any female to become the center of your world.

[–]banjew -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have a LTR and she checks all those marks. I mean she have deep oneitis for me, it's uncomfortable. Thinking about nexting her.

[–]1SirKolbath 41 points42 points  (18 children)

I am thinking of writing a similar post to this, but regarding the number of questions we see that start with, "There's this girl at work..."

[–]Endorsed Contributormallardcove[S] 47 points48 points  (5 children)

So many AskTRP posters think they can be exceptions to the rule.

"Hey AskTRP, I know one of the iron rules here is don't shit where you eat, but this case is totally different with this girl I work with, you see"

Even if the situation was totally different, the fact that you are considering a girl you work with and risking the blowback that comes with it shows you have zero abundance mentality. A man with options won't be tempted by girls he works with. Considering a girl you work with is a direct symptom of scarcity mentality.

See similar AskTRP posts concerning cohabitating, LTRing girls with red flags, and more.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Many men have a scarcity mindset because they have a real scarcity of women. They're not working on being social enough to meet women. I know I have this issue because I only meet women at work and one other social scenario. I need to spend the time to build more of a life that women want to join and on being more social so I meet more women.

[–]1SirKolbath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't forget maximizing your appearance. Lift, get a decent wardrobe, pay for a good haircut, etc.

[–]tropicalfire 7 points8 points  (1 child)

Basically anything that comes before a 'but' doesn't mean shit. This is true in general. It's trying to psychologically justify yourself even if you know something's wrong.

[–]LexaBinsr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jon Snow: What did father used to say? Everything before the word "but" is horse shit.

[–]RedPilledGodEmperor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even men with a scarcity mentality are many times smart enough to know that trying to hook up with coworkers is a bad idea.

[–]unhealthy1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unless you are in the so called anger phase which i never left by the way....

Every day i am just somewhat less pissed off while moving on.

[–]Cheupez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unless you are doctor writing a case summary

[–]therealseeker -4 points-3 points  (8 children)

Ahaha I fucked 7 girls at my work and probably made out with triple that number there and I still work there; I don't give one fuck and the general manager of the place is fucking tight with me we all don't give a fuck.

Shit where I eat? If anything I get the most respect from girls and guys; girls will talk shit behind my back and I'll hear it from white knights and beta bucks and all of a sudden face to face it's like I'm constantly under the mistletoe.

I get everything for free; food drinks and cigarettes because in my head I deserve it.

Don't ever go into their frame ever. Ask questions about them like you're prodding them with a stick and seeing if they'll seep out something you'll like.

Set your frame to 'do what you want and say what's on your mind ' and hold the fucking thing until it holds you and can't let go.

Fucking life is good.

[–]1SirKolbath 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Some people are so arrogant that they mistake stupid for brilliant.

[–]therealseeker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for your input it's a fine line between the two where the medium is the mind

[–]mummersfarce_is_done 5 points6 points  (2 children)

The reason why most guys can't pull this off is because being an office drone forces you into the position of beta. Hence the impossibility of being a true alpha while in the middle class. At best you can be a renaissance man/fuckboy.

Well done to you since you pulled it off.

[–]ThrowFader 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you depend on your job, in some respects, you are automatically beta. Someone always has power over you, so you cannot be alpha in such a work environment.

That is the main reason shitting where you work is bad. It can be disastrous for your revenue and reputation, which is vital because you need those things to survive.

Honestly, if you work hard and think smart and are innovative, craft your own path, and make your own money, being alpha is a bit easier. The alpha mindset is built from being in control of ALL your shit, and thats hard to do in a office environment.

Be an entrepreneur guys!!

[–]Skyhawk_And_Skyhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's gonna depend, working at Wendy's for beer money in high school? Go for it. If it's your Career? Tread careful

[–]beam_me_up2017 1 points1 points [recovered]

Agreed! You just have to be clever about it. I use the company IM to draw out number closes, and then I can just run game on them via text and hookup.

I don't know about anyone else, but I spend most of my waking hours at work. My coworkers are my "village." Why wouldn't I try and get with the women I see regularly?

[–]1SirKolbath 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't know. Maybe because the definition of the word harassment depends on whether or not she's attracted to you, and possibly because women use gender-based accusations as power plays for their entire lives?

I can't stop you from being stupid, but when you are sued, lose your job, or are disciplined and turned into the office pariah, swing by and read these links. You are literally putting your career in the hands of a woman who gets to decide for herself what the word "unwelcome" means.

Good luck.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 9 points10 points  (15 children)

TRP and askTRP sidebars should both be mandatory. And read through the comments.

[–]3LiveAFTSOV 9 points10 points  (5 children)

I was thinking we create some kind of "Side Bar Knowledge Test" where a poster cannont post here or ask trp until they get a 90+ on the test

[–]ThrowFader 2 points3 points  (4 children)

Honestly this is such a great idea.

There should be a vetting system or appeals board. If people can vouch for you, you can post. If not, questions only.

And no dumb questions either. There should be oneitis filters. If you type in phrases like "not a women are like that" or "there's this one girl" then your post gets temporarily blocked or something.

One can dream..

[–]AGallopingMonkey 1 points1 points [recovered]

First, how would people vouch for a new person if they can't post? Second, that would limit content a lot. The upvote, downvote, report system is best. No need to modify it on reddit. If you want expert writing on the topic, find some of the expert blogs.

[–]Drumcode-Equals-Life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Upvote/downvotes fail when the majority of the people voting are clueless and don't understand what it means to be Red Pill.

That's why new users are encourage to read the posts and comments from Senior and Endorsed Contributers, not necessarily the ones with the most upvotes.

[–]ThrowFader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make good points, but there are so many inexperienced posters on this sub that not only haven't been vouched for, but also spit out nonsense content.

It doesn't have to be expert, just not misleading.

[–]topothebellcurve 1 point2 points  (8 children)

The sidebar is great. But whats the best way to search it? I always have trouble locating things. Im using mobile. Perhaps it us easier/better on desktop?

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 3 points4 points  (7 children)

Read all of it. Top to bottom. One by one. That's the way.

[–]topothebellcurve 3 points4 points  (6 children)

I believe i have, but i see questions all the time that get answered by 'Sidebar!' That i dont recall seeing addressed. Either i missed or forgot it, and the search leaves something to be desired. Just wondering how people best use it as reference matl.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 2 points3 points  (5 children)

It's not just information you learn from the sidebar, it's the mentality. A mental framework. We don't have the answer for a every little situation and girl you find yourself in. Sometimes it's just playing the odds.

[–]Questionnaire7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone who read the sidebar and is having an issue understanding needs an explanation. Stating "sidebar" wont help them.

Trp's should either explain what element of the sidebar applies and in what way or ignore the post. Clearly they are having a reading comprehension issue so reading it again is unlikely to help.

[–]topothebellcurve -1 points0 points  (3 children)

While this is valuable advise in general, I'm still wanting for an answer, which is to say, is there a best way to search the sidebar as a reference matl.?

[–]ThrowFader 1 point2 points  (2 children)

search up the general topic on trusted RP blogs.

For example if you have a problem that concerns how to avoid being manipulated, you go to Illimitable Men and search up 'manipulation'.

In general just soak in the sidebar. It helps inform your decisions in crucial moments.

[–]topothebellcurve 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Cool. Ill give that a go. Thanks, man.

[–]stardustdyke 1 points1 points [recovered]

Um, no. The girl wasn't controlling you. She doesn't have mind control tentacles that slither into your ears.

Your actions were on you. Have some fucking spine.

[–]maplemaximus 1 points1 points [recovered]

When you're 16 and have oneitis for a milf...................

[–]cas_999 8 points9 points  (1 child)

It’s most likely a phase when you see this. Let them go through it. You have to experience it to fully understand. Like your body has to experience a vaccine in order to know what to fight

[–]royal_raijin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. Most of what is taught here regarding oneitis I already knew internally. Maybe from watching my older brothers relationships. But, when it was my turn after I'd say 3 years of keeping one foot outside the door. I retracted and doubted my gut feeling. I acted more soft and thus lost her.

It's crazy at my meanest I was on top and in control. Then I became tender and she even told me the roles switched. It's crazy. The more I read here the more I kick myself lol

But like you said I had to experience it. Now there's NO doubts!

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (2 children)

I have always maintained that if you are a guy in a relationship you always need to have one foot holding the door open if you want to leave. You have to be ready to walk away. If you are afraid to lose her then you are the one who is submissive and you lack power. Worrying if a girl will leave you is ONEitis and shows a complete lack of abundance, putting the pussy on the pedestal and a lack of leadership/ frame.

[–]buddhadarko 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All solid. You can't be ready to hold onto every girl that comes into your life. Doesn't matter how good the pussy is, or how ready and willing she is to do things for you; she is a woman and therefore AWALT is a natural default for her.

Smash the pedestal and keep the door open, always ready to throw her out or walk out yourself.

[–]ThrowFader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the moment I detect a girl losing interest I'm like "It was fun while it lasted." Then I slowly withdraw and start doing my own shit.

Weeks later they are hitting me up obviously trying to fuck.

It's weird that simple being able to walk away makes people want to follow you around.

It's the ones that don't care that are cared about the most.

Babies being a prime example.

Babies literally don't give a shit, and yet everyone fawns over them.

Lesson learned for sure.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have spilled a hell of a lot of digital ink over an individual woman. That said, I was a low self esteem chump my whole life. At 39, near the end of riding out the Great Recession in college, a 19 y/o girl, after months of friendship, threw herself at me. She changed everything about me for the better, and we broke up on nearly perfect terms. So yeah, processing all of that has been useful.

[–]BlakTheory 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a man you will never be successful unless you are in total control of yourself and no one else controls you.

This applies to everyone in your life including your friends, family, and relatives.

[–]TRP_mask 15 points16 points  (21 children)

I recently made a post about a girl's texting behaviour because I wanted to know what it meant, what was going on in her head, and I specifically said 'it's not oneitis'. Yet pretty much all of the answers mentioned it. I didn't post it because I want that girl so bad, I posted it to learn and understand women better. It wasn't a long post or something, seriously. It's often taken too far and it's annoying.

[–]dkt2 1 points1 points [recovered]

You're still missing the point. Her texts mean nothing. Female SMS analysis isn't a science. You should be reading into her actions.

[–]Questionnaire7 14 points15 points  (16 children)

Yea because texting isnt an action. Makes sense.

[–]MisterRoid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Texting doesn't take any effort. It's basically a female hobby.

[–]ThrowFader 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When he says "actions" he is referring to the nuance that is revealed by a close analysis by all her actions, not just one in isolation.

Texting is indeed an action, but are you cross comparing what she texts with whether or not her pupils dilate when she see Chad, vs her not giving a fuck about you? Can you read her body language?

Her actions tell the story more than texts, 10/10 times.

[–]plokman 9 points10 points  (13 children)

Coming to your house and blowing you is an action. Texting and talking are worth nothing.

[–]Questionnaire7 10 points11 points  (12 children)

They are not nearly as much of an action. But stating there is nothing to be extrapolated from texting isnt a 100% true statment.

[–]plokman 9 points10 points  (10 children)

The point is if she's not willing to commit to doing something with you pretty quick you're almost always wasting your time. It would be more valuable to find another girl. If she keeps saying she likes you or will go out with you, whatever, but doesn't do it, and quick, you're wasting your time.

[–]TheAmphibiaRapist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This needs more caveats. I know a lovely 400-pound planet that would not be considered a waste of time according to this description

[–]Questionnaire7 -1 points0 points  (8 children)

I agree with that. Im not too good as escalating once out with a girl though.

On our sub topic though its not worth this guys time to post on reddit about a texting situation, however there is still something to be learned from it & its not proof of onitis. I was being argumentative with you.

[–]ThrowFader 1 point2 points  (6 children)

Escalating is simple. If she does something like grab your hands, grab her shoulders.

If she's comfortable with you getting more close to her like that, then you keep taking it up a notch. Obviously make sure she's comfortable.

If she isn't with it, make her want you. The only time I kino escalate is when a girl touches me first. I know that I can escalate because she gives the signs. If she doesn't give the signs, you need to fix whatever is making her wary. Make her want you.

Make a lot of thoughts run through her mind. Don't let her peg you as a boring guy, because that kills attraction. Be interesting, and steer the interaction.

If I am discussing borderline sexual topics, and a girl abruptly brings up sex I know I can make the conversation as sexual as I want. Always steer the interaction. You want to drop the ideas in her mind.

If you are skilled you can go from a boring date to talking about real shit that you both enjoy. The moment she brings up something of her own accord and starts participating in the interaction you know she's interested. So be interesting. Be spontaneous.

Look up push pull. This helps escalate.

[–]Questionnaire7 1 point2 points  (5 children)

Push pull is a mechanism. Learning to be able to guide the interaction is nessacary first. Thats where I'm struggling

[–]ThrowFader 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Watch what pro's do and copy them.

Honestly that's a skill, and it doesn't come easy.

I guess acting confident helps.

Good luck.

[–]ThrowFader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Texting is almost always a way for girls to have fun extract validation.

There is absolutely nothing to be extrapolating from texting in most cases.

If the text doesn't consist of nudes or arrangements to fuck, then usually its just a girl passing the time. High SMV men don't waste time analyzing texts, they don't even text in the first places.

Why do you think girls only care when guys they like don't text them ? Girls don't care if a loser texts them. And if that loser thinks texting a girl helps his chances then he will stay a loser.

Texting is inferior to real DHV or solid frame in real life, 9/10.

Only thing texts are good for are for logistics.

[–]unhealthy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% correct. what women say means nothing. Only actions. The only thing i have seen that motivates the modern women to get in line is:

(By getting in line i mean be a decent loyal wife or woman or human being to raise kids, not acting like a child lol, actually contribute and not branch swing, deny orbiters, as hard as this is for them) is:

  1. Social pressure (her self image to friends and family, she cannot be outed for what she does at any cost, victim card must be used as a general rule)

  2. Dread-the man walking away with little notice. (Her having no solid branch lined up is bad business)

[–]neversayneverdork 6 points7 points  (0 children)

While i agree that extensive effort generally leads to cases of over attachement, avoiding forseeable obstacles (like a FWB aking for exclusivity) can require some thought.

Most would advocate a hard next, which is the easy solution. But managing and defusing these sort of situations are similar to other social situations, and contributes to honing our persuasive skills.

I am speaking as an initiate of the red pill, and FWBs seem like the perfect subjects to practice such social skills

[–]Nomfwic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The word "totally" already told me what I needed to know.

How fast is that guys hamster spinning? Its over 9000 rpm!!!

[–]MrCompleteRealism 2 points3 points  (1 child)

What if there is no abundance? How can you not have oneitis?

[–]leviathan51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then create one instead of focusing in her.

[–]1ozaku7 2 points3 points  (1 child)

If you are already in the position that you need to ask a community for help about some specific girl, there is more going on than just oneitis.

It actually shows your incapability of acting independently towards said woman. This can be due to the lack of confidence or social skills, or both. In which case even if the community helped him get the girl, he won't keep her for long and it will end in a disaster soon.

A real man knows how to handle a woman, he doesn't need a community to tell him what to do, and such a man definitely does not suffer from oneitis. Because why would he chase one option and make it so hard for himself when he can choose from multiple other options?

[–]banjew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because why would he chase one option and make it so hard for himself when he can choose from multiple other options

I fuck many girls but they are not the same for me. There are always one that's better than the other. I have a "tits" girl. An "ass" girl and also a "Can bring to a party" girl.

[–]Rivale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with this post and you only know when it happens to you.
Just stay away and forget the girl, while I have abundance mentality now, for that particular girl, through the years of knowing her it's very natural to relapse given I was already accustomed to communicating with her that way.
I tried to reach out to her a year after I've adopted the abundance mentality and after connecting with a large number of women I still reverted.
It's a lot less effort to fix this on new women than with a girl you already know.

[–]therealseeker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh like I forgot to mention I'm studying engineering at the moment and this job is just to pass the time and get money. It's cocktail bartending by the way. Sorry I should've written these important details too my bad. I'm also 21.

[–]metallicdrama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you know her full name you're already on the way towards oneitus. Only have nicknames as meaningful identifiers to keep them as plates and only plates in your head.

[–]banjew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I have oneitis myself and not that stupid to fool myself into thinking I don't. Working on that though.

[–]leviathan51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I ask to properly read this type of woman's behavior forever on? Is asking about specific advice fine, if I dump her just prior to asking?

[–]LeonardWoods 1 points1 points [recovered]

Dude if i tried i could have dozens of girls i could write 2 paragraphs on, does that mean i have dozens of oneitis? Saying yes would mean contradicting the very concept of "oneitis", since it's only applicable to situation with only one girl

[–]Endorsed Contributormallardcove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the core of outcome independence. If you truly had an IDGAF attitude about women you probably wouldn't be taking the time to be asking for advice about her. That doesn't mean all requests for advice are oneitis, but abundance mentality leads to outcome independence, meaning you don't really give a shit enough to the point where you are asking for advice.

[–]BlackVale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good piece, I love how this tread challenges you to be more mindful and change your mindset about things.

[–]boom_bostic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can get behind & support this kind of logic.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get to the point and keep it brief. If you think we need to hear context, you are probably just giving us background on your beta behaviors and trying to make a case for why you should be rewarded.

[–]ShabbyDonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[–]DeamsterForrest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mission first, women second. Your own self improvement and mastery first, women second. Women should always be secondary, even if you want to have a family with one. You need to be a burning massive sun who doesn't give a shit about whether or not it has planets and moons orbiting it. Naturally they will if you hold enough weight... They'll want to come soak up your energy and reflect it back to you like the moon. It's the inherent nature of femininity. Be masculine and you'll attract the feminine. Needing orbiters is not a requirement of the sun...

Female energy is passively balancing, male is active and potentiating. Women will adapt themselves to you, you shouldn't be adapting to them. If you are then you are compromising, "balancing," the energies and you will lose ground with her. You should be pulling her in with your individual greatness and have her constantly swimming around you. Saying she's "the one" means its then "one and one" which is a feminine energy standing i.e. balanced out. You then demote yourself to her level and your "gravity" won't be enough to hold her... If its you and "many orbiting potential females" then you are exuding masculine energy, and they will be attracted to you.

[–]EIIiotRodgers -4 points-3 points  (20 children)

I have extreme oneitis for this girl. Yesterday she said there was no possibility of us dating, ever. I feel so crushed and dejected. Ever since I met her I can't get interested in other girls.

[–]ItsNotShane 11 points12 points  (14 children)

Man grow a sack. She probably can't name 3 things she's interested in outside of partying with her friends, shopping and Netflix. Ask yourself, is this really a girl I should be obsessed with? I dunno if you're trolling because of your username but damn man, you're missing out on experiences and new pussy. SMH.

[–]EIIiotRodgers 1 points1 points [recovered]

Actually she's not like that. She's a Christian, conservative, traditional girl, and her interests couldn't be further from Netflix and partying. That's why this is so hard for me.

[–]Morphs_ 0 points1 point  (11 children)

So she doesn't want to date you because of her beliefs contradicting yours?

[–]EIIiotRodgers 1 points1 points [recovered]

No, I'm the same way as her. She said we just "don't click". Which is BS cause there was definitely a connection there when we hung out. This was months ago when we hung out and I was pretty BP then so I'm blaming that, plus I am pretty ugly.

[–]Morphs_ 0 points1 point  (9 children)

Maybe you could have made more of a move to go for her. And no guy is ugly when he's in decent shape, has a decent haircut/grooming style and wears nice clothes. Time to upgrade yourself :)

[–]indivisibleremainder 0 points1 point  (6 children)

that guy's user name is Elliot Rodgers

[–]Morphs_ 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Didn't notice that. You think he's being a troll pretending to be the guy from the videos?

[–]indivisibleremainder 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Elliot Rogers killed himself, you know that right? he's become somewhat of a meme. a posterboy for incels & betas. some people pretend to troll, but there's so many that unironically relate to the guy, it's just not funny to me any way you look at it.

[–]EIIiotRodgers 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I made it to be edgy, nothing more

[–]EIIiotRodgers 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Nah, I made it for edge. Although I don't find it funny anymore now that I've grown up.

[–]Morphs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thanks for the clarification :)

[–]banjew 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I did a move on my oneitis one year ago. She was horrified and rejected me on the spot. Never dated again. At least now I know she wasn't really interested.

Strangely every time we meet, she can't keep her eyes off me. Fucking bitch playing games.

[–]Morphs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe her rejection was a test of frame. If you would have brushed it off and tried again a bit later, maybe she would have went along. Maybe some more rejections. Yeah, it's playing games.

[–]Glacierdust 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Well you're in the right place for sure. Read the sidebar and go lift and socialise. Keep your head up, you'll pull through.

[–]Dat_Chad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, sorry, he doesn't get off that easy.

OP: welcome to TRP, fuck you, you suck with women, read the sidebar and lift

[–]noaydi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

just lol

this sub is becoming redneck

going back to it's origin